Evening Star Newspaper, March 11, 1930, Page 29

WOMAN’S PAGE, A WASHINGTON DAYBOOK SONNYSAYINGS BY FANNY ¥. CORY. Wm:vm thoroughbreds run, there L will be found Cary Travers Gray- son, who was Woodrow Wilson's per- sonal physician, intimate friend and de- voted attendant. At Bowle, Laurel, Havre de Grace, Belmont, Saratoga, there is_no more familiar figure than this medium-sized stalwart man. Rac~ ing fans hace come to look for him at these places. His leasant face and irginia accent are known to them all. He is a retired rear admiral of the United States Navy now. And horses have become his hobby. Though he has a l:ealetfll'm. it is not the mere " Bright Knight, of whom the flamuc)l:‘, He is from the stables of Astor of England, pedigree his is an unbroken strain. Natural is his love for horses and racing, Great is his dislike for reckless betting. He is on record as having said: - is enough excitement, in my opinion, to get a horse for the race, to see "llm get away at the bar- rier and to win or lose the purse with- out risking additional money.” And he distrusts tips on races. There is a definite reason: Once he and Senator Ollie James of Kentuckiv\ were at the track. Some one gave the admiral a hot tip on a horse named Sleepy He whispered to Senator James, who promptly put | tbom"on hlsa‘nm." BB “ m won, ying of 1 mever owned more than a “modest | STl i 21t DI, e Senator string,” his reputation in the turf world | ¢4 recelye his thanks and congratula- i great, It was his My Own that cab- | gong Instead of finding & radiant tured the Saratoga Cup and was first | genatorial face he found a gloomy one. substitute to Zev when that famous | Aciing why, he was answered: horse beat Papyrus in the international | "¢ “yoy “had only whispered louder, e 08 RO g 1t was Admitel |y Bate DUt 9100, B s o ey O O Unlike most followers of the track, S i . Admiral Grayson has few of its super- Grayson pursues his hobby | stitions. The nearest to one rm with "the same. care "ahd scientine. ac. | belief that & horse should be correctly curacy that he exercised in his profes- named. He once owned a horse named | sion. His stables in the Virginia hills | Hea, who ran second in the Preakness, near Washington are small, but the |second at Belmont and other tracks. occupants are aristocrats. | "I often thought,” says the admiral He has little interest in a horse whose | “that horse should have been named pedigree is not pure. When he makes Secundus.” Straight Talks to Women About Money You aren't lookin' berry hospit'al | him, baby. (Copyright, 1930.) LITTLE SISTER BY RUBY HOLLAND. BY MARY ELIZABETH ALLEN money on a friend's verbal promise to pay back. If the borrower fails to meet the note when it is due, one has no col- lateral to fall back on. Let’s analyze loans now. If a friend Have you ever been asked to take a friend’s rsonal note as security on a loan? Ag;louc every woman in business or social life encounters at lenstha few uests. imposes on her no ?1‘51): ;r'r?;bm XI: 1s Qificult to Tefuse | requires & business loan, it is more than some friends, yet one may not be in a | likely that a bank has been approached. position to ¥isk any considerable sum of | Failure to interest a bank, or several money. Excuses that might avail one | banks, in such a loan is proof positive in business—*“money tled up,” “no cash | that the friend’s business standing, on hand,” and so forth, may hardly do | proposition or financial condition is for a friend. | regarded utnltlvon'zly.flnwhgu x'x‘.m’v‘a‘fi’\‘..fi Let's consider the business le of | person must turn to p: it first. A'friend’s no‘r:‘wm-l. ?temeun! asking a friend who is with- out collateral is no better than her or his word. One might just as well lend “Soon as I'm big nuf to fill th celler, daddy's goln;g to gib me that ‘cause he's kinda tired after doin; for nearly 12 years.” (Copyright, out a fraction of the resources of a bank to do what the bank has to chance. It is unfair to embarrass a friend 1930.) BY DE. JESSE W. SPROWLS. Ways of Making Good. There are two general progr pu Mo it to unproductive uses is usu- lllylwl?ufll In;e‘gmbly.bwtfe a busi- ness loan mi possil Tepaid, uses will probably not are the ts of friendship to lu:’ghlotm? A friend rather trying to make good. they must go it alone. They ai. unyielding odds. erally they fail, unless some happy ce binations of circumstances favor ti accidents. But they do happen. the method of identification. >kDigestible as milk itself | can eat it freely this tempting new cheese food chilled. Velveeta lends rich goodness to baked dishes of all kinds, melts beautifully for Welsh rarebits, and toasts quickly to a golden brown. 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This research was carried out in the laboratories of Rutgers Uni- versity, Newark, New Jersey,in the College of Pharmacy, under the direction of Dr.L. K. Riggs, Ph.D., Director of Research, in associa- tion with F_H. Clickner. M. Sc., Nutritional Research Professor. Can't you see he tryin’ to be friends? Everyday Psychology which people follow in making good, or Some learn, after so long a time, that ones who really make good. Even if they don't succeed in the end, they at least have the satisfaction of knowing that they put up a hard fight against Most people most of the time go at the job of making good indirectly. Short cuts are alluring to them. Gen- attempts. Such combinations are really | This indirect method might be called ‘Is It More Important to Love or Be Loved in \ Marriage? DEAR DOROTHY DIX-—How much and what kind of love is it necessary to have to marry on? I am In love—have heen for a long time and always | will be—with a boy who can never me and whom I will probably never see again, an_excellent hushand wants to marry me. Would the kind of fiva him satisfy him and would 1 rp]rr with him than alone? Which hetter when both are not fuily | possible—to love or be loved in marria R. | | | Answer: mare biessed to give than to receive, for in some strange way it 1s more ne #y for our happiness that we should love than it s that we should be loved. And especialiy is this true of women. | In marriage it is al | As long as & woman loves & man ife Is one prolonged thrill to her. She | Is keyed up, alive, alert, always an her tiptoes trylig to please him. She keeps | young and vital, She makes the most of her looks and is always well dressed | and well groomed and attractive. Bhe has the charm that comes of consciously | exercising her powers of faseination. If she is married and loves her husband she strives to make her home the pleasantest spot in the world, And this is all true, whether the man veturns her affection or not, If she loves him she has an ohjective in trylng to win him, or to hold him, that puts | pep into existence for her. But if she does not care for the man his love simply | bores her to death. His devotion rouses no gratitude in her bremst. It merely 1 to| makes her tired. For there is, in reality, nothing else so wearisome as to be | loved by those whom we do net 1o Nofhing thai gets on our nerves like kisses | to which we turn our cheeks, like having to give duty aff om, like having to. | be with those who always want to be with us, and who hang upon us, and on | whose soclety we are fed to repletion., | | When a woman slumps after ma when she gots slovenly and careless { and doesn’t bother to dress up or keep har house Udy it in because she has not only lost her interest in her huaband, but in life itself, When a wife is | unhappy and discontented it s not so often because hbr hushand doesn't love | her as because she doesn't love him, | It does nol matter so much wheth he looks good to her. That is wh; & man is good to his wife as whether we ha range spectacle of so many dull, listless-looking women with e humes and Paris frocks and limousines and husbands who are devotion itself, and of other women who are taking in boarders and wearing shabby clothes, and trying to keep tab on husbands, yet who are getting more kick out of marr! than the women who have ever-| loving husbands. It is because it is ys more eternally important to a | woman to love than to be loved, the s | Also, if it is dangerous for & woman to marry a man for whom she has| merely # lukowarm affection, it 18 doubly pertlous for her to do 8o when thers | is some other man in the background of her life for whom she really cares. For marrlage is not an_extingulsher of old lové, as some women are foolish | enough to suppose it to be. It does not help a woman to forget as she thinks | 1 will. ‘On the contrary it revives all of the old romance, it deepens the old craving. ‘The one and only perfect husband in the world is the man we didn’t marry, and any actual husband runs a bad second to the paragon his wife failed to get. Her imagination clothes him with every charm and grace and covers up every | {fm-m,‘s;; ;‘hn the more she thinks about him, the more she believes herself in | love with him, salt job, g it It takes a lot of love to marry on, because it is only love that can take the sting out of the inevitable sacrifices marriage requires and gild the chain that binds two persons together. It is only love that can make men and women endure each other’s faults and even love them. And if this love can be romantic love, all the better. That is, indeed, a kiss from the fairy godmother, But while we may crave cake, if we cannot get it we can subsist on bread and butter, and many a woman does get along very comfortably on just a feeling of respect and gratitude and appreciation for the man she marries. She gives him friendship instead of love, but that can be a very comforting thing to %oth of them. 1000, DOROTHY DIX. ams (Copyris) would-be maker-good sets out to iden- tify himself with some group which ap- parently gives promise of getting some- where. He expects his allegiance to his chosen group to lend him the prestige which his own feeble efforts cannot yield. Just as individuals are always trying tions. quite as cept one. Their idea is that in honor- lnf the individual they elevate them- selves. Such actions on the part of groups are, of course, examples of the indirect method of making good. (Copyrisht, 1930.) Special the to make good, so are Groups need and seek prest readily as do individuals. A struggling congregation will do its | best sometimes to enlist the member- | ship of some noted unattached indi- | vidual who happens to move into its region of activity. Colleges which have not as yet gained the public renown they think they de- serve and need will confer honorary degrees upon every notable that will ac- om- heir The < FEATURES. BY EDNA KENT FORBES, WHO REMEMBERS? BEAUTY- CHATS BY DICK MANSFIELD. Resistered U. 8. Patent Office. ! o] i 1 £ fg fee ; g i 5 R g § g iH §§g i ek EE Fr is paris in league with lovers? When yodelers were popular enter- tainers and Fritz Emmett was the peer of them all. Household Methods \ BY BETSY CALLISTER. It might seem to future generations who studied the furniture and houses of today as compared with those of & gen- eration or 50 ago, that the race of men and women was becoming shorter. Our furniture is so much lower and, while ceilings are not universally lower, the pictures on our walls are placed very, very much lower, Beds, for instance, are very much lower, and there is a tendency to make them lower still. Chairs and lounges are likewise low, and at several rather informal studio parties lately the feast has been served from tables barely a foot from the floor, with the guests re- clining on low divans in truly Roman fashion. It is not always possible to find fur- niture as low as you might like it. Lounges are often made too high, but it is not a difficult matter to have them lowered. An interestin, divan may be made by having a top of box sp! and mattress made the desired size with a low metal frame to hold it. This is then co cred with a fitted cover or with a large robe thrown over it. 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