Evening Star Newspaper, November 18, 1935, Page 32

B—12 WOMEN’ Approach of Thanksgiving Giv Orderliness In Thought And Action| Order and Orders, Two Requisites in Discipline. BY ANGELO PATRL IFE, higgledy-piggledy though it might seem on the surface, is an ordered process. It is based on eternal principles, governed by eternal forces. Its laws are immutable. It throbs in unending rhythm. A successful | life depends upon the power of the individual to live in harmony with | these forces. We call that ability the power of adaptation. } Children are strangers in this world, | totally ignorant of the simplest truths | concerning it. They must be trained | and taught to adapt themselves, and | their first lesson is also the last one: | Order, behavior, which harmonizes | with order, is right behavior. EX-| perience teaches the child this basic | truth. It is our duty to so present | that truth that he accepts it gladly | and makes it part of his life’s pat- | tern. | Little children lend themselves to this teaching readily. Their minds | respond to the appeal of order. They like order and dislike any form of | disorder. They like to be told exactly | what to do, how to do it and when to do it by some one who knows what he is talking about. That is why children thrive better to well- ordered homes than they do in dis- ordered, inharmonious homes. That is why pupils like the teacher who knows what she wants done, orders | it done in sure, firm tones, and sees | | | her orders carried through. A good disciplinarian, in other words, appeals to the children, provided she is just and truly kind. Some parents and a few teachers | make the mistake of sugaring life | for the little children. Children do | not want that sort of thing. They | want to be spoken to as responsible | people whose behavior is important. | They prefer, “Stand! Face! March!” to “Now children, we will stand. Are you ready, dear? mother’s sharp “Stop that!"” to the new dress.” | Little children need to learn to obey | unquestioningly. They need to learn | that obedience brings them security | and happiness. They need to learn | that there are immovable forces in | life that say must, and adjust their | ways accordingly. So they learn| order and the meaning of orders. All | this training can be done in the years | before school, functioned in the first | two years of school, gradually merged into the child's own acceptance of social living and self-control. But if this span of life passes with- out that training and adaptation it will be almost impossible to make up for it later. The time for accepting order and orders soon passes. The self of the child, his will and purpose, assert themselves, and because they know no must, because they know nothing about order and the necessity for obeying the eternal forces that govern life on this world, they spend years of pain and frustration. Many a case of hysteria, nervous collapse, failure in school and college could have been avoided if the child had been trained to live within the ordered scheme set for him in the beginning. Teach order at the time when it is most acceptable to a child and it will strengthen him to the end of his days. (Copyright. 1035.) My Neighbor Says: Turning the mattress under 2 person who cannot get out of bed may sound difficult. if not impossible, but it is easily done. Draw the mattress well to the side of the bed, leaving bare a strip of the wire spring. Upon this place three or four pillows in a straight line parallel with the mattress. Drawing carefuily upon the sheet on which the patient lies he may be transferred to the pillows while the mattress is turned. Care must be taken to avoid opening the oven door for five minutes after cake has been placed in the oven. When re- moving cake or drawing it to the front to see if it is baked evenly, be very careful, as the least jar may cause the cake to lose its lightness. (Copyright. 1035.) | exhausting S FEATURES. THE EVENING STAR, WASHINGTON, es. Rise to C D. C., MONDAY, Shopping in Washington || From North and South ' Come Savory Recipes November Is a Big Month for Permanent Waves—New Machineless Process Is Distinct Success. BY MARGARET WARNER. a wave in the early Spring, or even late Spring. your hair has probably reached that stringy stage when a rainy morning simply means disaster for you and the be draggled state of your hair completely ruins your whole day. The thought of Thanksgiving so near and all sorts N coiffure, so pointment with the hairdresser. VEMBER is a great month for | gests the ease with which extra curls permanent waves. If you had may be filled in where they are needed, Follow me and be | of social functions piling up makes it | hairdresser careful on the stairs.” They prefer | jmperative to have a well-turned-out | 1t can be used on convalescent patients | tablespoon lard. When very hot add | 8 D vyou might as well admit | in hospitals, as the materials neces- | the powdered liver and fry until| honeyed, “Now, darling, look what | to yourself that there is no use in| sary can easily be transported to the brown. Allow to cool and then add to you are doing—spoiling mother's nice waiting any longer and make an &p- | patient's room, and it is also a most | Other ingredients, mixing very well. | the head at a time immediately sug- in straggly places at the back, or over the ears where waves show early signs of weakness. * ¥ % X YOU CAN readily see what such a process of waving means to & | large group of people who, for one | reason or another, cannot go to the| for a permanent wave. | grateful method for children and for | Then there is that dreaded thought | the highly nervous person who has a | of the torture machine being lowered over your head for minutes that seem endless as you ask the operator to be sure and not leave the heat on too long. This makes you hesitate again. But cheer up, for it is no longer necessary to go through with this process to secure a perma- nent wave. It is now being done most | successfully by the machineless method, | which is a wonderful achievement in | the permanent-waving field. To the | modern woman it is one of the most | significant advances of the age. No electricity and no machine are wel- come words to hear in connection with your new wave, and when you ‘add that this process leaves the hair soft and lustrous in addition, you have | a combination that could hardly be | improved upon. | * x K ok ;WE will speak first of the method | of procedure and then of the many advantages to be gained through its use. The three steps in the machineless method are amazingly simple. The hair is wound on a curler in the usual manner. It is then wet with a special solution containing oil and each curl wrapped in a soft vapet, or sachet. The loose, absorbent flap attached to the vapet is dipped in water and pressed firmly over the pad. Grad- | ually the clean, colorless vapor devel- ops within the vapet. The tempera- ture rises to a precisely controlled | point and diminishes automatically. So gentle is the action of the vapor that the sensitive hair structure is faithfully preserved. By the time the last pad has been applied, the first vapets have treated the hair and are removed. That is the story, and your hair is all waved and all ready for a smart new arrangement. Instead of the electric heat being turned on your head for a number of minutes, you see a little puff of steam rising from the individual vapets as soon as they are wrapped around the rods, then they begin to cool off, so that a portion of the hair is done at a time. If you have a telephone call in the midst of the process you may get up and answer it without the slightest difficulty. Isn't that an innovation in permanent waving? This idea of finishing a portion of Houstyow As ‘There's one sure way to win a little girl's heart—give her a baby doll! It’s always a favorite. How she’ll love to play with such a cunning, cuddly toy as this one. It's a safe plaything, too, for even the smallest child, as Its soft body is made of cloth and stuffed with cotton. An evening or so with your needle will find this baby doll ready to go into a Christmas stocking. In pattern 5485 ycu will find a pattern and complete Yirections for making the doll and wardrobe shown; illustrations of all stitches needed; material requirements. distinct fear of the electric current | being turned on. ‘The “shut-in” confined to the house, but yet able and desirous of having her hair waved, can now have this service performed right in her own home by a skilled operator. And right here we wish to empha- size that in a local shop which is | making a specialty of these perma- | nents we were told their employes have been thoroughly trained to do | this work, which is also supervised in every instance by the manager. The | proper solution for your individual texture of hair is selected and, as is the usual custom with permanents, a test curl is made before the whole head is done. This method will not change the color of auburn hair, so hard to take a satisfactory permanent, nor will it turn white hair yellow. It is also used on baby-fine hair, which is the most difficult to wave. | * % ok X | "THE SHOP that is so enthusiastic about these waves has both a downtown and an uptown salon, both beautifully equipped and conducted in that quiet, courteous manner that more and more people are demanding when they go in search of beauty | service. For information concerning items | mentioned in this column call National 5000, extension 342, between 10 and 12 am. ;Ca;ds M—ay Be Placed With Gifts BY EMILY POST. Dear Mrs. Post: I went to see a neighbor’s wedding presents the other | day and was amazed to find that the | | cards with each had been left intact. Since this family has always seemed to have such good taste, I'm wonder- ing whether I've been wrong in think- ing cards should always be removed. Answer—It is in perfectly good taste and has always been customary among people of great social promi- nence to leave cards on, since the bride who receives many presents can save herself and members of her family the tiring process of repeating constantly who gave this and who gave that. But when a bride prefers not to “label” the givers it is equally proper to take all the cards off. As a matter of fact, when a wedding is very small and the presents are from intimate friends only—and espe- cially when very personal messages are written on the cards—they are usually taken off. * kX % Dear Mrs. Post: My sister is going to be married in traveling clothes in the presence of thé immediate families and a few friends. I'm going to stand with her during the ceremony and will also wear a suit. We are going to pin on a few gay flowers but won- dered whether (1) we should carry our bags and wear gloves; (2) if so, should my sister’s left glove be ripped. Answer—(1) It is much more im- portant to wear gloves with street clothes than with indoor clothes— obviously. Carrying bags would be not only suitable but give you some- thing to “do with your hands"—al- ‘ways easier than walking with noth- ing to hold. (2) It is only a very long and tight-fitting glove that has its finger ripped. A short glove should be pulled off and handed (with her wrist bag) to you during the cere- mony. After the ceremony she carries both—or possibly, if the glove is loose and buttonless, pulls it on. (Copyright, 1935, by Emily Post.) Style Trends. ‘The chapeau has width this year, which is achieved by cut or drape or trimmings, especially pompons. The turban is the most important type. The Juliet cap vogue has inspired wide-mesh hairnets, in multi-color To Glorify Festive Bird Opysters, Sausages, Chestnuts and Cornbread Contribute to t BY BETSY CASWELL. ITH the not-so-far-distant \[ v the wise housekeeper will turn her thoughts to the bird which will grace the great feast. Much can be done to lift the out of its ordi- nary flield by of some unusual and deliciously Our first recipe hails from the while it is rich and admittedly make, it is 50 sav- ory and “differ- tempt even the most conserva- General approach of Thanksgiving, matter of stuffing for the traditional “turk” completely -~ the addition blended stuffing. Carolinas, and, expensive to ent” that it will tive. Betsy Caswell PECAN STUFFING. 12 slices toast. 1 turkey's liver, 12 cup butter. 2 tablespoons lard. 1 teaspoon each black pepper, salt, celery salt, dried thyme. 1 tablespoon minced parsley. 6 hard-boiled eggs. 1, teaspoon ground mace. 2 cups chopped salted pecans. 1 can mushrooms, chopped. 1. cup sherry. Boil the liver tne day before the stuffing is to be made. Crumble the toast on a bread board, and then sift through a colander, into a big bowl. Add the butter, lard and seasonings. Pour in a little boiling water and mix well. Add the whites of the eggs, riced, and the yolks, rubbed smooth, with the mace. Then add pecans, mushrooms and sherry. Mix thor- oughly. Fry one onion, grated, in one | Stuff turkey he Flavor and Effect. flour, salt, shortening, baking pow- der and the milkk. Bake in a hot oven until done. Crumble this bread, add the onion, chopped fine, and the seasonings. Break in the two eggs and add a little water to moisten. Last, add the liver, cooked, and chop- ped fine. Mix well, and stuff turkey. From New Orleans comes this one— OYSTER STUFFING. For a 16 pound turkey take— 3 dozen oysters. 1 loaf of stale bread, wet and squeezed. 1 turkey liver. 1 turkey gizzard. Drain the oysters, wet the stale bread with hot water, and squeeze thoroughly. Chop fine the liver and gizzard, and put in a frying pan with 1 tablespoon of lard. As this begins to brown, add some chopped parsley and thyme, and then the bread, which has been mixed well and seascoed with 3 tablespoons chopped sage. Add one tablespoon butter and stir, blending well. Now add the oyster water, and then mix in the oysters. stir for 3 or 4 minutes, remove from fire, and stuff the turkey. (Note: Do not add all the oyster liquor if it appears to be making the stuffing too moist.) Now we come to our own Washing- NOVEMBER 18, 1935. WOMEN’S FEATURES. Slight Sophistication Gay Plaids Will Appeal to the Younger ton for— CHESTNUT STUFFING. 3 cups boiled chestnut meats, 1': cups bread crumbs. 1 teaspoon sugar. 1, cup cream. ' cup butter. Pepper and salt to taste. Mash chestnuts and bread crumbs together and mix well. Add the sea- soning, the cream and the butter. Blend thoroughly, and stuff the turkey with the mixture. And last but not least, from New England— SAUSAGE STUFFING. Cook an onion in 2 tablespoons butter for 3 minutes. Add ': pound sausage meat, and cook for 5 min- utes. Boil 4 dozen French chestnuts and mash half of them. Add them | to the first mixture, together with CORN BREAD STUFFING. cup flour. cups milk. cups white cornmeal. tablespoons lard. tablespoons baking powder. teaspoon salt. onion. turkey liver. 2 eggs. Pepper an celery salt to taste. Make a batter of the cornmeal, Dorothy 1 2 2 2 2 1 1 For Every Rule in Marriage There Are Many Exceptions. WELL-KNOWN foundation has undertaken the stupendous task of trying to find out what is the matter with family d during the next few months A life, an 2 teaspoons salt, a dash of pepper, a pinch of thyme, 2 teaspoons parsley, minced, and 1 cup fresh| bread crumbs. When well blended, add the whole chestuuts, and stuff turkey. If you wish advice on your indl- vidual household problems, write to Betsy Caswell in care of The Star, inclosing stamped, self-addressed en- velope for reply. Dix Says P BY BARBARA BELL. LAIDS grow gayer and bolder. All the clans of Scotland have contributed to the season's mode. And there are some plaids that are simply brain waves of present day fabric designers, and pretty good ones, they are, for they that are anything but the traditional ones. You never saw a kiltie in a tartan of pink and black, or one of | women whose marriages have gone on the rocks, possibly I have as much inside information as any one on this subject. and speaking from the record I should answer the questions thus: will make a Nation-wide poll to at- | tempt to determine the accepted opinion of what constitutes ideal marriage. A questionnaire has been prepared by prominent educators and sociol- ogists who will ask hundreds of thou- sands of men and women: What is the ;best age for marriage? Do children | make for more happy and successful marriages? Should a wife continue as a wage earner after marriage? | Would more liberal and universal di- vorce laws make for more happy and | successful marriages? What charac- | teristics should a husband and wife have to make marriage happy and successful? What relation has money to the success of marriage? Offhand, most of us think that we could answer these questions without even throwing our thinking apparatus into gear, but the trick is that for| every rule in marriage there are a| hundred exceptions and that is why | nobody has ever yet been able to de- vise a fool-proof formula for securing domestic bliss. * K ok % INASMUCH as I have spent half a lifetime wrestling with this propo- | sition, and as I must have received at | least a million letters—and I mean a real million letters—from men and Cook’s Corner BY MRS. ALEXANDER GEORGE. TWO IN FAMILY. DINNER. Hamburg Rolls. Browned Parsnips. Bread. Butter, Fried Apples. Gingerbread. Coffee. HAMBURG ROLLS. 1; pound beef 14 teaspoon pepper round 1 teaspoon 1 pound veal chopped parsley round egg yolk 13 cup crumbs tablespoons flour 12 teaspoon salt cup water 1 teaspoon tablespoon chopped onion butter Have meats chopped, add the crumbs and seasonings. Add yolk and shape into rolls 1 inch thick and 2 inches long. Sprinkle with flour and fit into small baking pan. ‘Add rest of ingredients and bake 30 min- utes in moderate oven. Turn several times to allow even,cooking. BROWNED PARSNIPS. 3 cooked parsnips 1 teaspoon salt 2 tablespoons fat 1, teaspoon 2 tablespoons celery salt water Place parsnips in small pan, with fat, add rest of ingredients bake 20 minutes. Turn to allow eve! browning. FRIED APPLES. 3 tablespoons fat 3 tablespoons 2 cups sliced sugar apples 1% teaspoon salt 1% teaspoon- 1 teaspoon lemon cinnamon Juice % teaspoon cloves Cut apples in thin slices. Remove cores but not skins. Melt fat in frying pan, add and brown apples. Add rest of ingredients, cover and bake 10 min- utes in moderate oven. i 3 1 1 spread and n To obtain this pattern send 15 cents in stamps or coin to the Woman's | yarns, to be worn with tweeds; also| Refreshen ready-cooked cereal by Editor of The Evening Star, Please print name and address, §0ld and silver for evening. r heating 5 minutes in moderate oven. . generally | First. There is no such thing as an | ideal marriage any more than there is any other perfect condition in life, and it is because people look for the im- possible that they are so often dis- | appointed in marriage. Marriage is | give and take. It is work and sacri- fice and unselfishness. It is putting another’s good and happiness before one’s own.. Those who are willing to | do this make a success of marriage. The others fail. * ok x % Second. The best age for marriage is in the 20s. the nearer 30 the bet- ter. Three-fourths of the letters I get from disgruntled husbands and wives say that they married when they were too young, before their own characters were formed and their tastes settled, or they had had any playtime in life. One grew up and the other stayed put, so by the time they were middle aged they bored each other stiff. Those who have never had ‘their fill of romance in their teens craved it so much that they stole it in their 40s. When a fat, grizzle- haired woman gets into a scandal with a gigolo, or a bald-headed, bay- windowed grandpa falls for a flapper, you will almost invariably find that she or he married when he or she was a mere girl or boy. * ok ok ok 'TH!RD. Children are a bond that draws many husbands and wives closer together, but they are a wedge that separates as many others. Thou- sands of married couples who would otherwise part, remain together be- cause of their scise of duty to their children, but this enforced companion- ship does not make for happiness. A woman’s absorption in her children and her ceasing to cater to her hus- band and make him the main interest of her life sets more men to roaming than anything else. If the real co- respondent were named in most divorce cases it would be junior. Fourth. Whether a wife should continue a wage-earner after mar- riage or not depends upon how much & couple needs the money. Often the wife’'s 1 . envelope makes marriage possible and happy. Generally speak- ing, however, the marriages are more successful when the man brings home the bacon and the wife stays at home and fries it. Fifth. The divorce laws are lax enough. They need to be overhauled and made saner, but not more liberal. * x kX SIXTH. The characteristics that & man and woman should have to make marriage a success are an af- fectionate nature, a sense of respon- sibility and duty, loyalty, hard horse se~se, justice, sportsmanship and a sense of humor. Seventh. A bridal couple might well pray with the psalmist, “Give me neither poverty nor riches.” Too much money or too little will wreck a marriage. The voice of the siren and the howl of the wolf at the door are equally potent in driving happiness away from a home. . But try out this questionnaire on your own piano. It is good, clean fun and may help you to find out why your marriage is as it is. DOROTHY DIX. $CeprTighi. 10354 deep purple, with fuchsia and yellow lines. But, you'll see them in some of the smartest frocks of the season. Plaids are always very spirited and vouthful, and especially nice for the young girl, and for this dress, which she will like because a bit of sophisti: | cation has crept into the simplicity | of the design. | ‘The neck is high and round, the | bring into the plaided design colors | | good idea, for in that case you'll have | several. | height magnified because the collar' |is folded over, and does not lie flat on the blouse as most collars do. | There is an interesting panel in front and back of the blouse, narrow at the waistline, and flaring out to meet the raglan sleeves midway between neck and waist, a good line for making the middle of ths figure ap- pear neat and small. And it must | be that way in this dress. for the belt is very wide, shaped in front to look a little like a peasant’s corselet, and | held together with a huge metal pin, |or a buckle. The panels extend into the skirt, forming pleats which are | caught at the knees by those nice tailored triangles which are used on in:n;ny beautifully finished dresses and | suits. Sleeves are same design as the collar, or if you | prefer, long sleeves, tight at the wrist, | they are included in the pattern. Of course, the belt and the button Chipso too. I'm grateful to three-quarter, | | finished with cuffs which are of the| { at the neckline will pick up the hign | houette influence. color of the plaid, or tone with thel fur, it is now used in fabrics for sport. «] saw a big improvement in my to Chipso for washing dishes. works fast. It dissolves perfectly . . . SUDS. The dishes are E streak . . . never smell D saved my hands I knew it w have a packaged soap that gets my white wash SNOWY with Clipso makes clithes wean Lbongen Girl in This Smart Frock. onsideration of “Stuffing” [ 3 Beautifiers Now Packed In Twin Set Astringent and Nour- ishing Cream Ideal Twosome. BY ELSIE PIERCE. AN OLD adage says something | about “comes in threes” . . . but the smartest beauty circles are spon« soring twin beautifiers. This applies to make-up above all things, but let us recall some of the old standbys. There’s the soap-suds cleansing fol- lowed by cream, an ideal cleansing BARBARA BELL, WASHINGTON ETAR. Inclose 25 cents in coins for Pattern No. 1706-B. Size Name Address --.-.-.. AT % (Wrap coins securely in paper and print name and address clearly.) background shade. They will be suede or soft calf, if you buy them, or vel- veteen or velvet, or bright wool if you decide to produce them with your own fair hands. And that is a very| Barbara Bell Pattern No. 1706-B| is designed in sizes 12, 14, 16, 18 and | 20. Corresponding bust measurements | 30, 32, 34. 36 and 38. Size 16 (34) | requires 4!, yards of 39-inch material for the dress with three-quarter sleeves and % yards of 39-inch con- trast. Every Barbara Bell Pattern includes an illustrated instruction guide which is easy to understand. The Barbara Bell pattern bock festuring Fall designs is ready. Send 15 cents today for your copy. | (Copyright, 1935.) l | [ Paris Flashes. Schiaparelli offers a new sensation— a dance dress with pantalettes, belt with padlock. Fur hats are keyed to many costume fashions. They may be trimmed with | flowers, bird wings or ribbon bows. ’ Watch the hood as the newest sil-| Presented first in combination. Or, should we couple the soap with the complexion brush? It's being done in the best of beauty | families. Then there's the ideal basic | beauty treatment—cleansing cream | and skin tonic. One whose name is |a by-word in the beauty field never | uses the one without the other—never | even talks about the one, without the | other. They are closer than the Siamese twins in her estimation. | My favorite twin: A little wrinkle | or astringent oil and a little nourish- ing cream, the one over the other, or a little of each mixed in the palm of the hand. Running a close second in my affec- tions is the nourishing cream and as- tringent combination, the latter patted right over the cream with a large pad of cotton. The cream off« sets any drying effect of the astrin- gent, and the astringent penetrates right through the cream and does its important youthifying and firming job. Two rouges have long been recog- | nized as better than one. As the cold weather approaches, they become ine creasingly popular. The one, as you have guessed, is the cream rouge, and the other the cake or compact variety. | The cream rouge is blended over a foundation. It should be applied over {the “key” area, where the natural | color usually is. and the edges should be blended until they are completely imperceptible, a really gradual, beau- tiful fade-away. The cream rouge goes on over the foundation and be- fore the powder. The dry rouge is used (and just a little of it. of course) to accent the color. Needless to say, they must belong to the same color family. The latest twin (and it seems to be causing as much ado as the famous quintuplets) is two powders. First you apply the one powder and over it the twin. The result—if you have | things quite right—should be an ex- quisite, semi-translucent complexion, | delicate as a cameo. This gives the skin a sheen (not a shine, mind you) like porcelain, lending an illusion of depth to the complexion. We have a feeling that the paintings of the old masters inspired this double-beauty powder idea. By the way, I have a bulletin that tells a thing or two about the appli- cation of powder and the care of its puff. Send a self-addressed, stamped | (3-cent) envelope for it. (Copyright. 1835.) Macaroni-Asparagus. Have one 17-ounce can cooked macaroni in cream sauce with cheese, 1 cup finely diced cooked meat and 1 small can asparagus tips. Arrange thin layers of macaroni, meat and asparagus in buttered casserole. Repeat the macaroni and meat lay- ers, having a third layer of macaroni on top. Arrange remaining asparagus on top, having tips radiate from cen- ter. Sprinkle with toast crumbs (2 thin slices toast, finely crumbled), dot with butter and bake in a moderate over (350 degrees F.) for 25 to 30 minutes. A skin of luxurious softness ... a com- plexion of fascina- ting charm ... No “rubbing off* or | streaking. . . This re- fined, ivory - toned beauty will com- mand admiration. I could take a chance on HARSH POWDERED SOAPY’ “PLEASE, MA'AM, THAT POWDERED SOAP GUMS TOGETHER AND DISHES. BESIDES, IT'S SO MARSH IT HURTS MY HANDS.” “NEVER MIND, 'l BUY AN ELECTRIC DISH.WASHER." SMEARS THE MY OWN WORK, give me hands when'I changed And Chipso certainly gives DANDY ASY to rinse and wipe . . . never of soap. And when I saw how ould save my clothes, gut fading the colored clothes.” CHIPSO...it saves time...protects my hands”