The evening world. Newspaper, November 28, 1921, Page 19

A The Wife of Another WHO SUFFERS MOST. The Wife — The Husband ‘ The Other Man “The Big Thing About It All Is That There. Is: Such-a Thing as Mending So-Called Broken Lives and Making Them Useful and Beautiful Again.” Pourth ina sericg of articles compiled from hundreds of letters received by Miss Loeb from Evening World readers. By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1927, by the Prise Publishing Co. (The New York Hrening World.) ‘O meaner man lives than he who Who will tell this man he is a fool to Our All-American Some Good Men the Experts Are Liable to Miss Some Kind of a Ball. By Neal R. O’Hara. , Copyright, 1921, by the: Press. Publishing Co, (The New York Evening World.) « CCKDING to requests too few to, mention, we are naming our ah American team. , Each position on this honorary eleven is by civil service rules. We pick this team without fear of ful contradiction, containing, as it does, six Republicans and five votes Bryan. Front row, left to right, the team runs as follows: ‘DS, For end men we have se- —_— LN Steals the wife of another, Most take her back—to let her go; that if selected’ Hert Williams and Lew 4%!ph Gwooft is our choice. Gwoot < often it is the trusted friend of She has made a mistake once she a a man who has will do it again, Heed them not,’ Mr. Dockstader. ‘These two boys have ae ee (pink and, tan} ca taken advantage Husband! They are on the outside,~ done well this season. They have Tax! ivers’ Night School. He! of that trust and wormed his way into the home that he should have sought to save rather than to de- stroy. And who of the three — the wife, the husband or the other man —suffers most? From the many mie sives that come to me, it is the woman in the case who gets the worst of it—nearly every time. Oh. the wails of Woe that are set forth in a letter that is before me this minute by just such a one. She ‘was tempted and fell and now she is estranged from her husband, and the breach is wide indeed. Page after page of sorrow is writ- ten, and old Colonel Remorse is her chief companion these days, and where there. are children it is even worse. He was a small fellow, as they usu- ally are—these men who steal other men’s wives. He did not even have the courage to earn a livelihood for her and give her common creature looking in. They don’t know how you feel, They will urge against your own happiness, perhaps. Nothing can be lost by trying it again. Give happiness a chance. Open wide the door of posstbility for peace and joy in later years. ‘too many people cast aside their chance for happiness at Ahe first break. The love that is worth saving will bear with much. You can’t have everything in this world, but you can have contentment and it takes two to make it. We iust give and take. We must forgive and forget. It is never too late. thie, big thing about it all there is such a shing npedine so-called broken lives making them useful and beautiful again, To harbor hate in the heart brin, nothing but Dead Sea fruit. Settle your scores if you must, but take her back into your heart and your home, if there is even one small strand of love or affection. Miss Loeb’s -next article, “The Spinster,” will be published on this page Wednesday. ——_» WH AT & Do el been on the Scamps’ All-Amerin can team for years. Asan Dlayer, he is very much so. Garooe ‘has all the assets of s great baller. Even on a weak machine, be looks like a guy that wouldn't for anything. Out of a Mne | twenty men, he has been many times by expert * His experience as a taxi driver ons m chances his rep as a football stare { ‘This baby can cover ground. Cail make a block and a half look like” two miles on any taximeter.’ wore prep school was Ging Sing. Weigh; 185 pounds and stands six feet, bape inches {n woollen. sox. prints given on application at Hoga quarters, i vom For right tackle. we name Will Crafts. This boy will try to. anything, Also the leading woorer | the country. So far this season has scored movies, sex novels, es tackled everything, from one-night stands in Emporie to split weeks in Buffalo,. Have never missed a signal, ® song cue or matin Both ‘are good at receiving passes, but not so good at giving them away. Williams is fast on his feet. TACKLES. For left tackle, Ru- HIS SUIT WAS HE WORE A BLUE CHECK. SUIT. You Often Read About Her MAY WILSON PRESTON. a ia s comforts. She had to go to work her- “ garettes, burlesque shows, ' ptoture. self, and as is the usual case, the five ew spell postcards, Sunday baseball ang, honeyed words that he had whisperea QUESTIONS. | statuary. Will tackle anything nat gets his name in the papers. Especi+ ally good in ‘the dry fielé. GUARDS. For guards we pic in her ear were replaced by loud fan- guage when the sordid side showed fiteelf. Being “small potatoes” as his species are, he placed most of the blame on her, and surely the biggest burden is now borne by her. He goes acot free to whisper more sweet noth- ings in the ears of other women, per- haps other men’s wives. I wish we could deal with him and his kind as he ought to be dealt with —but that is another story. What ‘we are concerned with is the family, the broken home, the miserable mix- up. > i and many letters come from others 1. Of which cereal does ‘the world Produce the most—wheat or oats? 2 Does annealing make metal harder or softer? Where are the Goloonda diamond located? 4 inet would be the carat mark- ing of absolutely pure gold? 5. Of whom was St. Catherjne the patron saint? 6. What two States are crossed by the Cascade rang 7. What Spanish monarch sent the famous Spanish armada against Eng- land? In the production of what ma- terial used in cloth manufacture does Australia lead the world? 9° Which city is further uh ngeles, Cal., or Raleigh, N. C.? SoU ARE BOTH: MISTAKEN HE WAG CLEAN SHAVEN HE HAD A Yer ARE NISTA KEN NOUSTACHE ; € WORE A FULL men. Always on their feet. A vig a asset to any line that pelieves iat 9) scrimmage formations—and the R. T. 18 one of thoge’ lings. » Hi one of these boys can make a big enough for forty extra e sengers to walk into,’ Mar Winsow Daesrov- EE her name most frequently S in the magazines signed at the bottom of her own’ pic- tures. It's hard to, read—thougn probably not alwaye because she's med of the job. Has a huaband, James M. Preston, likewise an Couple enjoy distinction of ‘being have just written this woman, ‘ CENTRE. At) centre Abrahaiwl Los in like positions. “Go back,” I 10, Which city is further west, Den- bly Saeed, maceucaer Ghee Dumdum stands: out. like a 'c! said to her. “It is never ee ate) ver, Col. or Hes aeihat Pol say tigitd towel! in’ a urewnhduse: 4raa A good man will underftand and for- y s : m a give’and never mention jt again. Re- 1, oats; 2, softer; 3, India; 4, twen- in few Sete phage ‘This is Abe's fourteenth year as al! | member he loved you once, and no ty-four; 5) spinsters; 6, Washington rious football star and he's still a sopha~ good man will cast the first stone’ if xpur atonement is honest and sin- cere. Own up to your mistake and take your medicine: It may be bittey at first, but you can live it down, per- haps, sooner than you realize.” The trouble with most women in such cases is that they have net the courage to admit the wrong. A false pride holds them back and they go on suffering to and Oregon; 7, Philip; 8, wool; 9, Los Angeles; 10, El Paso. The Heart of a Girl By Caroline Crawford TAL, by the Press Patthhine Co, (Tas Mew Yok Soening World.) more. For three years he wore the. colors of his Correspondence School —a red stamp on a white /bac ground. Now with prominent bear ern college, but\strictly an amateui, oy Never takes eash after game if he can possibly get ‘it fore., Abe can play any Position on The Jarr Family By Roy L.. McCardell Covyrignt, 1921, by Raff Press Publishing Co. (Tee New York Kvening World.) “Dear me, I wish you hadn't stirred By Doris Doscher / i Copyright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Co, (The New York Btening World.) THE MASSAGE FOR CROW’S FEET. Oepoeteit, HRISTMAS | ing s0an, the end. Which Man Will Peggy Choose for a Husband? F all portions of the face the 6s Mae tee Ww?” sched ‘Master UP the children about Christmas ana * ‘eam from centre te money end. "Tis much better indeed to eat hum- ha sory, of & typical New York siete | Peay “aise? elehioee, has Just part that needs the most gare rie a RS, Christmas gifts a month ahead of ov apTppRac ble pie and get back your haven of may ‘Brmctom, her own wand Hartisen Townley, 0 i Willie Jarr. Logk at MY time! Nyw 1 won't have one bit of K.° ' For ful attention and the most pe sistent massage is at the corner +f the eye, where time first lays a heavy, hand and writes her autograph in li!- tle disfiguring lines that are knowa ‘senior. Tena ag ‘this story cooaeat every ery fasta PEGGY'S ANSWER. S Peggy eat before her type- writer and made several car- lessons, how nice [ done them. “Did them, Wille, marked his mother. “Yes, Christmas will be here in a little over a month,” said Mr. Jarr peace from this on!” Mrs, Jarr de+ clared, turning toward her husband. “It just reminds me that I need things for myself, too I guess we can fix you up, remarked Mr, Jare optimis protection and safety and solace than to remain embittered and estranged and continue two broken lives, And many women have not even jew experiences, ‘bring ment’s new episode in Pessy with not a trace of love or sentiment —at least just now. Rilly was the sort of chap who would like to buy fe Lou Tellegen is chosen. No Alli’ American line-up is complete out @ good-looking gent for m plea gone so far as to leave, but have carried on secret alliances. They do not realize the pitfalls an¢ the thoray path that lies before them. I would say to such a woman, “Go back,” as well. Maybe it won't be necessary im this case to tell, if the telling would hurt too much, but do it if it is necessary and cut off the incubus ef inconstancy as with a knife, for incubus it will be eventually, It is inevitable, And to the husband, I would sug- gest this: If there is a spark of love left, give her the benefit of its warmth and take her back. Glve her the chance she craves. Look back into your own Nfe and ask yourself this question: Have you not done much worse than ‘she has? And how would you feel if for some of your acts you were wnever to be forgives? The way to get away from the double standard is for every man to put himself in every woman's place and wonder how. much better he is than she. When every man does that there will be no double standard. TI! will be dealt with most fairly. Women won't get the worst of it. Perhaps you have ‘neglected her. Perhaps you have not given her the attention that was due her and others did, Ask yourself: Did you take her out when she wanted t0\be taken out? Did you give her the: common courtesy that you gave to other wo- men? Maybe you have fallen down some- where and failed to be her companion emmen. she was lonely and hyngerea it? Perchance you have put bay bon copies of a letter John Sanford had dic- tated tp her, her thoughts were of , Billy Bracton and his love letter. At noon she must meet him. What should she say? She prized Billy's friendship, she appreciated his declaration of love for ier. Thero was something big and maniy and protecting in his affection for her. But if’ she were to encourage him too much, if she were to promise thatin thesnear future she would be his wife, that would mean she must give up ‘Townley as a suitor and ali her girlish interests in any other young men who might cross her path. A light, happy snatch of a popular alr floated from Sanford's desk. Lately he had seeméd so mruch happier, so much younger. Sanford. had made her more ambitious to work, more ambitious to do well in the business world, Had she consciously or un- consciously made him any happier? Had she made any difference in his life in the office? In her girlish imagination Peggy often pictured the life of this.bach- elor with his widowed mother, She could see them in their home -life together, the son s0 solicitous of every. wish for his mother, the mother proud. of her son and his business achievements. Peggy had never painted pidtures, imaginary ones, about Townley or any. other man, Did this mean that she cared more about Sanford than any other her an engagement ring and expect her to give every smile, every thought to him. ‘Phere was nothing as binding as the love of a young boy, for a young girl. Billy's face was bright, optimistic, half expectant when Peggy saw him in the cotridor of the bank. She wished that she could give him the Pledge of love she knew he expected. But, after al!, had any boy the right to expect a gitl to promise her hand to him go long in advance? Had he the right to ask a girl to give up all her suitors, aM her interests in other men when he himself was not eligible to marry at once? Peggy didn’t think he had. Supposing by the time he really was ready to wed her he met some one else, some other girl. he liked better? Just 9 Billy promised, they did not discuss the subject nearest their hearts in a crowded pastry shop. It ‘wns not until they were taking thet stroll in the lower, downtown busi- ness section that Billy took Peggy's arm and looked into her keen blue eyes for the answer he hoped to read there. Peggy met his gaze openly and honestly. She felt that she could speak just what she felt now and that Billy would understand what shp was about to say and eee things tn her light. After all, she thanked the pres- ent generation of girls for their fvankness and their’ability’to register their true thoughts. “Billy Bracton, I care for you, 1 want you to know that my love for you is‘far more.than.sisterly,” aid Peggy. “I believe that“in many ‘re~ spects we might havé-a mighty fine ite together and. I believe that we are. very much suited toeach other. T can't pledge e her, Bt rT and ever, "foam ‘onewtiy soy Magee caret tom ag, 8 wears - as crow’s feet. It is only by dafly pe-- sistent application of a massage treat. mentor by a surgical operation that these wrinkles canbe removed. 1 ‘want to warn you against the strain put on the eyes by improper lighting or exposure to the sun’s rays or the neglect of being fitted with proper lasses, as all of these cause the skin around the eye to wrinkle. You will notice by the position of the hands in the iMlustration that the are ready for direct working on these wrinkles, Not only the pressurg of the massage but the increased circu. lation is what makes this movement So beneficial. To facilitate the mov»- ment of the fingers over the surfave of the fac: as well as to feed the tis- sues that lie directly beneath the suc- face I would recommend that you make ‘up for yourself a good massage ‘ cream by using the following direc tions: Beef marrew Oil of sweet almonds. ..45 Spermaceti .. White wax : Fissence of lemon Ac. Salicylic .. “Tt would be childish and spoil al! our real friendship for us. to bind ourselves like Paul and Virginia,” continued Peggy, “to sp7:l our few years of freedom and rosnance to form a pledge which we cannot fulfil now, Wait, Billy. We will both wait and if, when you have established | yourself and are ready have had a few more yea business and to run around with other people, we still care as wo do now, Infinitely more and hearts, that wil the tin wedding For & bg Creel at Pegsy” * “You are he jortly after "montents silent. i Fe Fgh fx Bitiy Bacto or care; re sure of our e—the stime to-became engaged and: have a hal." he Ketpoed always skin as wi pte wrinkles cali Af when you are working on the wrinkles. If you do not care for the trouble ot making up this cream for yourself, there are several very excellent brand» on the market for this purpose, by? whatever materials you use, the face must be wiped free 6f it after the massage is over.’ It should be fo's lowed by a tonic lotion for the pale and dry skins, an astringent fo: wrinkles, and then a cream or salvo -Should be applied. According to the object of the ma :- sage, it should folldw the direction of ‘the blood vessels. where there is an- sence of secretion as in dry skins ‘The movement of the fingers shoui’ follow the folds of the skin and th direction of the musclesswhere wi kles are to be bliterated, Be sure t» start the massage from the nose, ,Working toward the temples. Like the first gray hair, the appear- yance of crow's feet always gives you a feeling of coming age, #o the little time you spend on the daily massage twill not only improve the appearance of your face but give to it a lasting youthfulness, But do not think tha: this result can beobtained by simply massaging away crow’s. feet around the eyes. It reqyires pot only the strictest attention to the Jaws of hy- giene but time spent im the open alr and exercises that st{thulate the ci - culation, sp that,the general color of “the complexion,’ (He texture of th ag the jroning out ute to e : the “teat wal Wireless. allt _ iy hat is ft that you want?” it isn't what [ it's what [ said Mrs. paternally, “and if you are a good boy till then Santa Claus will bring you something nice.” “[ don’t believe in Santa Ci be of good cheer,” replied none of our gang does, paw, “The poor we have always truthful Willie, realising that the with us is true enough: but I notice holidays were so far away that he could affect a scepticism he could safely renounce later. “I believe in Santa Claus, papa,” said‘ the little Jarr girl, “and just for that Santa Claus will bring me a doll carriage and a lot of dolls and a playhouse and dishes and a lot of things, and ho Won't bring Willie nothing!” “Aw, [ don't care!” said the young heretic. “Santa Claus is only for girls, {don't want no dolls, huh!” “I do not like to hear y ppeaning in that bold way, Willi sound nice,” said Mr ing: 8 with us, too, “And what do you think you'll get from him, sinee you are so hopeful?” ‘On, T'll get lett, h I mean I'll get Jarr, em satia~ “But you are the most improvident man [ ever saw. You will deal at that Sol's Amoke Shop for your cigars, and he on't even give coupons!” Jarr, 6, no matter what you believe, my son, you will have to be good, oli, a very good boy from now on, if you wish to get anything Christmas,” re- marked Mr. Jarr, “Well, I'm good, and I believe in Santa Claus all the time,” sald little Miss Jarr, assuming an angelic ex- x Li CRANBERRY CONSERVE. RY this cranberry conserve—it's delicious; ite from the private recipe book of a Itussian Prince, ‘lace in preserving kettle 3 pounds cranberries, 213 pounds sugar, juice 2 oranges. you are going to get some nice clothes, and we'll see about the doll's carriage the dolls,” inter- You break all your Cook slowly’ for five minutes, Now add 1 package seeded raisins, 1 cup finely chopped nuts, two-thirds cup for are very hard times,’ “Santa Claus is very in phen bas the use io peenE fnely chopped crystallized ginger. Jarr. “Mr, & ays poor Cook very slowly, placin/ an asbes- people sim § Lath in awe at his ma. tf mat under rer kettle to ia ofhentl prevent scorching, stirrinft requent- &. “How can you talk that way, Willie?" spoke ‘up his mother, “The “The poor ye Have ly; when thick like jam store in jelly glasses or half pint fruit jare in usual jelly manner. niffed Master ye they are always ‘borrowing money and_ they don't pay it back. Mr. Slavins! says" — ‘ever mind what Mr. Slavinaky interrupted his mother. should be thankful if you get a tile sult of clothes and some stout shoes for Cerigias From the same source comes the famous cranberry mince—it ts used around the holiday season for pies, pastries and (arts. Cranberryade is freshing beverage spring tonic, aelightful, re~ id @ splendid a FOE OO DER GSCI IOC RBON AON HN RH KO OCS ROR HR Cranberry Recipes of the picture. This is first Lou has been in a suit, but think the fun he'll have. BACKFIELD. For backs we name Maizie Whoops, Lucille Tinkle Olga Wow. Coached by Ziegfeld: Every one of ‘em an Al Ameren back from the waist-line up. bin babes can do anything—run, It entire line — pass, raise or call. was bow-legged, these gals could 8 still make the team a success. ae. ‘ t Cranberries may be canned pa rhubarb, with the cold water Fill jars full of cranberries, a } tightly, now place under the cold rams ning water and fill jars to overdion on ing, place on rubber and seal 4 ly, store in cold place, {reo trom water through sieve to remove skins ang sweeten. These derries must used before warm weather, TO CAN CRANBERRIES. Just as fast as you empty fruit jars fill them at once cranberries and you can them them the year around. Wash berries, look over cai discarding all. mushy berries, pounds of berries in preserving tle, Add 1% pounds sugar, qi teaspoon salt, 1 cup water. ; Cook slowly untit berries are fll into sterilized fruit jars, rubber and lid and place in hot water mivestes after ‘| (Se CREE, CRS opera eee emer enemas apes: oe megs oe