The San Francisco Call. Newspaper, November 20, 1904, Page 10

THE SAN, FRANCISCO SU ND: . hind it and burn g v ndignant every min- unt of uch as weaken ense the one who covered by ence is without the It is one thing to h!! them quietly and te another to give a cold, calculating differe nt to walk down ully in a long skirt and attract attention for than it is to mince nch-heel stiits, g a bewildering array of fluffy s and permeating the air with L d strongest perfume ex- ordinary flirt, so to speak, is just the most obnoxious thing’ on that is, of course, the girl who t chief business in life to at- t the ..nun n of ‘every et and who deligh in chance ac- itances. She may bave been well but there is a spirit of unrest about her, and she excuses her follies foibles to herself and others by de- claring in a vehement manner that she “won’t be hampered by conventionali- one on the her way to the matinee she talks man who happens to be just be- and while she does not do it top of her lungs he under- ly well that much of it is for his Later on she lets her eyes rove about from seat to seat, and when she discovers him at last she tries @ thousand little acts to attract his at- tention, and then demurely eyes hfm over the top of her programme. To all outward appearances she is a lassie of gentle volce apd gentle actions, but those dancing eyes, that follow so flat- teringly and so persistently, are the key 1o her character. Outside the doors she contrives to drop her handkerchief, to Joosen her violets—in fact, to do any little innocent thing to gain time, and the man who would hesitate to walk over and make his most fetching bow is to be found about every blue moon. Just what such a girl is thinking of is somewhat of a mystery to me. Every man hates boldness and loudness, and he cannot be bluffed into thinking he is the only one, and that the little ex- periment was tried to see how the thing would really work. Such an ac- quaintance may be all very well and good—for a half hour—but the quiet ittle lady who is never heard or seen on the street is the one he goes to visit and invites to the theater the following evening. No one, either man or woman, considers it a compliment to be ogled, and, as a consequence, waste little time and no respect on those whose chief pleasure is to attract attention and to attract it any old way. The girl who flirts in this fashion is something like a bull In a china shop. The mere fact that she stoops to such tricks proves that there is something radically wrong with her somewhere, and that “something” is just the very thing that all masculinity infinitely prefers to see in some other man’s wife. To be sure, every mother's son will swear and declare that the “jolly good fellow” is the woman of to-day, but let him catch any of his own family cut- ting up the self-same capers, and it is a. horse of another color. He may not even be aware that his sister is an adept at relleving awkward situations and saving the day every time, but he does know if she is making a spectacle of herself and resents it in a fast and furious manner. Every woman is more or less of a fiirt, but the clever one is she who dis- covers her strong points and then makes the most of them, for the sim- ple reason that they are*both becoming and alluring. It stands to reason if a /woman wins a man by prettiness and coquettishness she can hold him ip the same manger, but too many wives con- T ENTLERS A CANL Yy SHo»P sider it valuable time wasted, and the very thing that was most admired is thrown aside as a valueless weapon that had outlived its usefulness. f— Answers to Correspondents WHITE SPOTS ON THE NAILS (Nellie).—The numerous white spots on the finger nails result from bruises which need not necessarily be severe; the careless hamdling of household or toilet articles will quickly develop these blemishes. If they have appeared in greater numbers since beginning a regular system of manicuring the nails, I am convinced that you are applying the steel flle with too great vigor in pushing back the skin around the root of the nail. Substitute an orange wood stick for the purpoge, as there is less danger of bruising the nalils; always hold the finger tips in tepid water for five minutes to soften the cuticle before attempting to push the skin back. If the nails seem very thin and are sensi- tive to pressure, get a mixture of tinc- ture of myrrh and refined pitch at the druggist’s and smear a small quantity over the spots before retiring, protect- ing the bedding and your clothes by wearing old gloves. In the morning rub sweet oil freely over the nails and in a few minutes the pitch will be soft- ened and can be rubbed off with a soft cloth. Then wash the hands and polish the nails in the usual way. Repeat the applications of pitch and myrrh until the spots disappear, which may be in. several days or weeks, according to the nature and size ot the bruise. RENOVATING THE WARDROBE CALL. it is useless to attempt to wear all her clothing, which was prepared early, the entire summer and still look present- able at the close of the season; so, to avold looking conspicuously passe, she manages in this manner. At least one bandsome thin gown is kept in reserve or a new one is made up during this month, when pretty fabrics are being #old at such low prices. If the goods are wisely selected and the garment well made it will do for all informal affairs at home during the winter. Ba- tistes, nets or fine mulles are always safe to choose. It is false economy to wear a faded hat; nothing looks quite so forlorn on a warm day as faded, dust-stained finery; less should be spent on.gowns if need be, but a smart, fresh hat and veil are imperative. Shoes and gloves can always be kept in perfect style and condition, regard- less of the season. For little journeys into town from the country, or for a day’'s jaunt to the seashore, a modish two:piece walking suit of linen or mo- halr is ideal, wotn with a dainty shirt walist of white. Elaborate silk waists should be sent to the professional cleaner and worn places concealed by fresh trimmings. Cotton waists and gewns which show breaks in the lace or embroidery should be carefully mended before laundering. Discard crushed ruchings, faded ribbons and the like, and replace them with new. Remnants can now be bought for small sums and they are just the thing for late summer renovating. Just a word about the purchase of new ribbon_trim- mings. Select a softer shade than that originally used on the garment, so that the harmony may be betfer in case the waist or gown has faded some, as it probably has. To be more explicit, al- ways match ribbon to the garment, not tc a new piece of the fabric. CARE OF THE TEETH (J. B. L.).— Unless you are a confirmed invalid it is nonsense to say you are too nervous to endure dental work; it is unavoid- able, 50 meet it bravely and do not up- set the dentist by hysterical outbreaks. While no sane person denies that work on the teeth is both painful and tedious, like many other ordeals of life a vivid imagination magnifies_the an- ticlpation out of all proportion to the substance of the actual. Unsound teeth induce extreme irritability. ner- vous and stomach troubles incident to improper mastication, hence their preservation and repair is imperative. Avoid needless egposure to either heat or cold, for both£xtremes are injurious to the enamel on the teeth. even though no acute sensation be felt. Moderately soft brushes and preparations free from grit used faith- fully each day will prolong the useful- ness of teeth almost indefinitely, al- though there are, of course, rare cases when the teeth are constitutionally frail and preservation {is impossible. The hue of the teeth is also largely a matter of bodily vigor, those teeth with a slightly yellowish cast being in- dicative of strength. An excellent liquid dentifrice which will harden the gums and preserve the teeth is made of a mixture of one quart of hot water, one and one-half ounces of borax. one teaspoonful of tincture of myrrh and two teaspoonfuls of spirits of camphor. Add the borax to the hot water and when cold pour in the other ingredients and bottle. Use a tablespoonful in a glass of water when brushing or rins- ing the teeth after eating. CONCERNING WEDDINGS (N. B. V.).—As invitations, cards, etc., are in- variably sent out by the family of the bride, of necessjty all replies must be (M. N. B.).—The clever woman knows e D sent to them direct and not through the courtesy of the prospective groom. The fact that he is a very near friend and that you are not acquainted with the lady or her family does not alter the situation nor relieve you of obliga- tions. Under the circumstances it would be a courteous act to write a pleasant note expressing the wish that you might know her intimately in the near future. A wedding invitation re- quires an answer only when R. 8. V. P. is on the card. In that case a for- mal acceptance written in the third person is the correct form. The wed- ding present is always sent to the prospective bride, marked with her initials, and may be sent a few davs after receiving the invitation. never be- fore, no matter how certain you may feel of the exact date of the event. In giving a wedding present aim to select something which will be useful and artistically ornamental as well. Fads, or the merely commonplace grow tire- some within the year and reflect against the good taste of the giver. A MODEL BEDROOM (Mrs. N. B)). Sound refreshing sleep and good health are inseparable. The person who is an habitually poor sleeper should arrange her work to obtain reg- ular and needful sleep. The modern bedroom, hung with draperies and car- peted and with a cumbersome bed is not conducive to perfect rest, so I would suggest that you begin reform in the room itself and note the effects of cooler and more abundant ventilation. Never mind If your room is not quite of the conventional order—health is more essential, and yet the room need not be uninviting. On the contrary, it can be made a model of restfulness by well-directed efforts and particularly so if you are fortunate enough to have an available room with windows on at least two sides. A model bedroom is arranged on these lines, and the cost may be very moderate or not according to individual means and taste. A charming and highly artistic color scheme is formed of the soft, gray cornflower foliage as a prevailing color, with touches of dull tlue and pink of the blossoms with creamy white gilt and a mere touch of black. The side walls are papered in plain restful green, with traceries of gilt in the frieze, which is also a deli- cate blending of soft dull pink and cream, where it merges into the soft creamy green of the cellilng paper. Over the wax-finished floor is scattered two or three small rugs in green and dull blue hue, which can be taken out and shaken daily. The windows are without draperies, shades and blinds moderating the glare of light. When there are no blinds on the house, screens, made for the lower sash of art netting, which suggests a stained-glass effect and at the same time excludes inquisitive eyes and summer Iinsects, are very pretty. The management of the bed Is a triumph of all—it is just a simple, single bed of brass or enamel, with dainty fittings, cool and spotless. A mattress elastic enough for perfect rest and pillows of correct size; no thick down or cotton-filled quilts, but light blankets. Instead of standing the bed in a corner its weight and size will permit it to be pulled about the room at night in whatever position desired. Only necessary furnishings are tol ated, useless trifles are conspicuous by their absence and thus the labor of caring for the room is reduced to the minimum. At first such a room may seem stiff and bare, but as soon as you discover how deliciously comfortable and dustless it is I am certain you will be delighted with the change. HINTS FOR THE STOUT GIRL (M. R. L.).—The girl who has lounged about on shaded verandas all summer until obesity is tbhreatened must change her regimen. Actlvity is the principal green of the PHOTOS Y TH factor in ridding the body of unwel- come tissues, hence sedentary habits and an occasional leisurely stroll must .give way to brisk walks and vigorous exercise which will bring all the muscles into use and send the blood bounding through the veins. Lack of regular and sufficlent exercise brings, bekides fat, a host of evils in its train, while physical training strengthens the muscles, the body re- sists fatigue and the brain is clear and alert. Exercise during the cool early hours . of the morning is best. If postponed until night and hastily per- formed the routine is merely a farce. Golf affords the most exhilarating pastime, although rowing or tennis are good -substitutes. Delsarte moyements are excellent for indoor practice. HOW TO PACK A TRUNK (A. B. C. The woman who has reduced the labor of packing a trunk to a fine art arrives at her destination spick and span, while she who scorns trifles or doesn’t know has an outfit crushed and tumbled almost bevond repair. An expert packer knows that express and baggage men recognize neither top nor bottom of a trunk and it is useless to pack the heavy articles in the bottom, in the ordinary trunk, and the light things on top, as the novice is apt to do in the vain hope of regulating the pressure. The moment the trunk strikes -on its end the contents fall downward Into a confused mass. Al- ways fill a trunk full; partly filled, the contents shift with every movement no matter how well they may have been packed. An abundance of tissue paper is invaluable in packing: crum- ple it into soft wads and put it in all crevices between grticles, folds of trim- AT WOREN SWANT. TO K NV mings on delicate and waidts until a solid mass | The pa- per pe ers and vyet is increase the wel tent Place hats ments and prote mings by soft tw forced in about which may be rec m use should be tied together and placed fently near the top of the trunk, avoid being ed to d from should be pol- paper. Any breakable bottle juid should have the corks tied down, rh!‘\ roll ed sep- arately orbent cotton and pa- per, tied ely and placed In a heavy cardboard box with cover tied on. Very hea articles, like books, should not be packed in a trunk but sent in a separate RIZING A SICKROOM (Mrs. ).—To keep a sickroom free sant odors in hot weather » most perplexing duties of DEODO M. N from unp! is one of t the housekeeper. By setting draught screens about the bed an immense amount of fresh air may be got into the room out danger to the patient. When the weat lear, alir all bed- ding, toilet articl lothing several hours each day the hot sun, except the | which should be placed in several times By having the s during two se can be 3 of both Carbolie ne should not be abso- odor is , often When despite all >us deodor- , 13 quickly yance bot- ts and un- ar now lavender. If the weather hot, wet towels in ice pping as they dry, and hang you will be sur- ange in tempera- very restless on to the iced . place a large block ‘.'1 e in a !u.l and set it near the bed. ging the patient, always act- ing under the physician’s advice, how- ever, mfort. Rugs are the ideal ng, as they can be quietly ta the room to clean and the floor wiped over to free from dust. Only washable draperies should be retained, and it js presupposed that the nurse removes all soiled articles as quickly as possible. CLEANING FINE BRASS (Bessie).— The girl who views with dismay the fleeting beauty of her pretty candle- ticks and other articles of brass should know that the labor required to keep them brilliant Is not so formida- ble as it appears when a number of tarnished articles have accumulated. The time-honored preparation of salt and vinegar for cleaning brass is unex- celled and so inexpensive that it is within the reach of every one. The pro- portions are one teaspoonful of fine table salt to two tablespoonfuls of strong cider vinegar. The work is fa- cilitated by washing all tarnished brass in hot soapsuds to remove dirt and grease; then dip a piece of old flannel in the vinegar mixture and rub- over the surface of the brass. If there are deep crevices a soft brush, such as is sold for cleaning silverware, will be useful in reaching all parts. If very much corroded, let the article stand for five minutes, then go over it again with i Have plenty of hot, soapy wash the article at once . Mix one tablespoontul each of whiting and sweet oil and rub over all parts of the brass, allowing the mixture to partially dry, then polish, using more dry whiting and a clean, soft flannel rag. The brilliant polish thus obtained can be retained for a considerable period by rubbing the ar- ticles each week with a little whiting and a clean chamois skin.