The San Francisco Call. Newspaper, January 25, 1903, Page 9

THIE COLONEL KATE PAPL TSPI.S OF MANAGCING MOZITER.S HE epecies might be divided into several classes I CITIL.DRFEN .5 AN UALRS" 2577/ 90= cure them for her daughter, provided, al- ways, that she herself be not discom- moded thereby. Mothers of the embonpoint type are in- clined to be selfish and arbitrarv. They give advice exclusively from a worldly WA standpoint. They have little or £o sym- pathy with the tears or hysterics of the ‘“f A girl who wants to live or die.for the / clerk of the corner grocery. They love comrort too well to undérestimate its ad- vantages. Such & mother is rarely companionable for a daughter, She takes little intarest in & girl's love affairs It is too laborious to carry around an excess of avoirdupols and to worry over a girl's folly at one and the same time Bo she allows her daughter to drift until the mischief I8 done. Then she asserts herself most ag- gressively. 1t the gir] takes her fate into her own hands and marries she cannot rely on her mother for sympathy should Cupid play her false. If, however, the first at- tack of love dies out, such & mother i8 apt to keep up the injured role ad in~ In any event, the most suoccessful type +f the managing mother is she who takes Werself serlously and goes through life with a sledge-hammer in one hand and & book of etiquette in the other. Her nose s sharp-pointed; her lips thin. Her whole manner s keyed up to & pitch of severity that makes her too thoroughly feared to be opposed. The girl who expects sympathy over & ttashy love affair from & thin-lipped mother might as well expect to find & hardwood fire on an ice flo She selects her daughter’s friends from ng mother who are of embon- generous 1 manners. severe crea- mother who er of o act 0 > [ . qwe the eligible lists, and woe to the daring youth ou the pale who tries to cul- tivate th aughter. He will be frozen % with a stare that will leave him so Inert S5, and frappe that, if he is not too stiff to > bow himself out graceft he will at least never be able to rec er his former courage to i aga < - She delights the twigs of eligibility e vat . whom she impresses with her daughter's s E ’ s 2 rare gifts and advantages. She cultivates i with rare tact the society of the man whom she thinks will prove the most satisfactory son-in-law. While never los- ing an opportunity to sing the praises 3 ] her oftspring in high C notes, she does e e o with such consummate diplomacy that ] she contrives to bring the ¢ ¢ | . hopes to her own way of g ¢ ' She has little modes of arrar par- 5 L soetiee s ties that throw the young people to- ‘ P ' ~ . gether. She manages little di and ‘ ole of de y § -ozy luncheons and de ¢ E how she will prevent his | ] . 1 any one else. 3 & sumr . 4 . 3 > By degrees the young man finds himselt ' X ; . ’ it . : . 4 hedged about with the girl until it i aw 5 : o . comes recognized among their A ghte that they are to bs paired wheneve 4 P happen to meet. Unconselously . may acquaintances thus become allies mother. It is the tall, thin-lipped woman who has the deter! hation of a flend and the vesources of & witch, and she it is who, despite obstacles, manages to marry her daughter exactly as she wisnes Then thers i the mother w manage it so that she will 5:. l}ku b for her daughter's eldest R flatters her vanity, and she . e as the loveliest mother on record. . She 18 voracious for att n and cultivat 2 SECOMND & skittishness that often proves & heasc. Cl.ASS OF sore to the d oty R all the pleasures and a S MANAGING o the younger we .t & hesitate to court the MOTHERS sires to ce. Her hu what does sk opinions? She 1s tur . — K‘Om: !:m'.1 d but vain and one e se to effend. When a w ity is assalled she is not always amiadle. She is & good com- panion as long as everyth her, but after that Ot whatever ty é eciate her, and perhaps = Lre. k heart! “THE MARNRAGING & - £ n manage to pro- MOTHER WHO HAS & GOoP @uce a few tears while des- on her horror of th SLARE OF EMBONPOINT AND bopsideswpon b i e . GoOoOP MAaNNERS?® g for she does : ossibi ut she and gratified aspirati WIS S St is. rather the exponer 5 ed aspirations th 3 SRy S0 ather the exponent of sold comfort tion of any thing likely to Gonre o S65r Méntal lines or worry over esthet! ey g ol e e et R Y40, flgure in wanti- - lovea crenture comfints bt o o DSES 06 Wit 40 Wohie LE R E SRS oo et R ke brafrs e SSONS IN THRE SQIENTIEIC GAR i sverymer \,. he has no chance to | By |Mrs. E. P. Schell. When teams of fonr nl e be there to note | A S i - plavers gach are 3 o | O Ay 'ob& W0 his Eiven Buti litile davises for the Aot rieita N several .. 4 Fiikoq ard ghikojtiis aibjct AL . waye son papan. b the Srehacr S hp el e o4 | a purprise to see expert player of A tiur oMt he make-up fess that, whi cams yors byt rising congeniality of it evolting | t ams of experts, meet with.defeat Y1®WS. a courtesy which fucludes thio ob- the fitnes the managt at the hands of opponents admit- ance of a disposition to criticize mis- 2 ethe téd to be much Tess versed in the rules DIAYS during the contest, individual ap- sphardbad of the game. For instance, in the c Preclation of the responstbility o o or to dscid Of iR I SRR or Averr pATE. INOUIRIT g il aeriuenty are to "allow & gini ta of players, it is sometimes very difficult member of the o ton the part of each Hast and West 8, North.and South 5. | age them for } g Bl g mri‘f:f)y} stich’ Taiturent still ithare” ure. teDdenciiwitns i Hne of hunsla |‘rl~lruln 4 Tick 1—West opens top of nothing in age them for her. The moth the oiher ot (e e ot fe HryEiL IR Sponition (hiparraaii s s Tueaieace o P e | T N A S tho other of the more skillful combina- Indicated wishes, is recognized by all as lr\lr:nn S Yience. [Peullisus m call Jor e the ot ¢ n was emselves ustio: ha 2 a x b s » ; the mat A et themselves justice having an important bearing upon this _Trick 2~But suspends i all the . A stght indispoaition or some other sim- Polnt I il pogsible (o) atiedis fatie HoRR TSIt b e Aueiny (et s aihes g far cause may affect a player In such a Plavers of nearly equal ranic. It has b \ all first count a trump on the B Dame, 5. S SuStune manner as to make it impossible for him TOHI il Haihbg wote aniaMl7 (S e B i h e ta ProbAlly short. Hant her daughter decide’her own hea to “keep run” of the eards or exercise BlcasithiK DECAR e nd Ss ha cora it s i swaiot cltey andest” teag ety . Wi i pung s usual good judgment tion a winning one than a close a me opponent is holding up a call un- | o h: Sh. Wh0 Wethes i B ot ndeing. o Classitn She ] a close adher- til his partner escape the obloquy of being fou o gfully judging or {ng ence of these sugzestions. The poorer makes a trump. P v g found gullty heir opponents expert players often los players of a team, encouraged by the ab- sn";y.”f ky, 3—And while his diamonds are af Belag “n Tdnsaing mother.” games. ‘With a slight adverse score early Sence of Farall oriticlumg and STk gl face e re o i B spady salt | O i the game a complaceney is shown heartening elements of discord, soon ac- trick Jrd phe toly,way. 10 save' o club which says as plainly as words could, qitive the ‘fabulty. 6F JoRHESIGE COmPRFE - soaut by taking two rounds of trump There are by careful computation about VL until the proper time comes and tvely few tricks. while to the members SR eI Dosiilie: MW Wdak advecio | SASAN cosssiug paie tn. the. wertd s 'lnu\l]show You how to play the game.~ ©f the combination possessing the great- less to ‘;;‘Sf,,;';; thus rendering It power- | full besring. and ce SR . et e kely as not one opportunity after ©r skill is left the duty of gaining tricks, " e club. . an e n t another fs allowed to pass by, and at 2nd the four as a unit surprise ‘Relr og. .iHck 5—South sees that he is in for it X0, pieloy gu. Muky. Sifuns Jeednts the close of the contest the “boot 1s on ponents. The success obfalned by four ine bast ne e o1 ho WOre trumps 9% (3 PRl GEPS MSN) Vuhitle dwa N o other foot.” Dxcuses are then very Mmoderatély strong plavers against teams the ‘best he can do is to catch all of wood is used for bulldings and for boats. much in order. At times matches have COMPprised of experts very often is due p, est’s. East knows that West would not ?:a::'lv e le th » he T e Hmen Traighes Xave (oitha fact hat.fhay aive XiEht Slonih nfocs o bt s iube WHBA the | s e e e play or by a smart stroks of genius Make all thelr winning cards, pay littls nine, so he can safely -discard the ace. sands of buildings and afford useful food i Tl e AT o PR e L xSellus. ormo-atiantion to false cards DIEYSEDY - ail oo een s i urd. hiy e R SEtivess alve: Slly geod Tetults owing to the fact that the wfiat thelr opponents, but attend to the busi- spade or else deceive South as to his BUIL, | Lo meney Eorrcin o o e il characteristics” of the remaining deals 1SS In hand. which he entertains not unmeasurable | b.elas.’_e[s e PNy offered no chance to retrieve the losses, A deal where a nice point of play gained hopes of Deingtag; in. 'F oy gy ok gy It has long been admitted that two play- tPree tricks. Trick 6—East Is growing a little appre- | of] barrels of the cocoanut palm a of moderate ability who are thorough- North. heneive about the diamond suit now. so ol i 1 water pipes are easily y en rapport can make it exceedingly 88175 3 g ghtly to every preclous one of | The fibers make s give a red dy interesting for two experts handicapped s three. It is well he did, for his jack - mats and even by the friction caused by lack of prac- blocked North's whole suit. [sner. The kel ¢ t Is the main tice ' together. And this result is ob- -x;r.ck 7—Now for North's great diamona | fogd of several millions ¢ f human betngs. tained by the lesser lights without a re- atts West's King diee. undec thel Nisyioee ek nesEiing dxfnl¢ t Ve st course to anything like private conven- ad no guard. comes th Y otammt o€ Th 2 ik ci s aikibe stysniage of “SHoWE Trick 8—South hastens to rid himself of @ commerc cocoanut of the edge which they may possess regarding 84 that losing two of clube. Sonfistiona 3. it ylelds cocoanut s AREN each other's peculiarities. One of the ik 3—But he cannot help himaelt. for | Fettp ot S or reasons for thelr success is that, con- no spade to lead him, and his | S e HER DAUVGHTER Y ceding their shortcomings, they do not last trump Is forced by the jack of dia g 3 » - # last night to a nearby s undertake plays that call for the knowl- Foatits. Waat Skcizte (he’ et otubs o b oo e e t by e bty ¢ managing mother who is more dls- mation of edge possessed by thelr opponents. They 7% 4 order to keep four spades to the elghts | s ires. and by tapping the cont o worse. for bet e managing mother who is mors dls- mation of fortultous eircumstances. 1f | aro satisfed to rely upon the Jjudgment s of hearts trumps. West to lead, SPOt. R e e e 3 e Lo er embonpolnt than for her mental equilibrium balanced her em- |of others and to follow the rules lal w. Tricks 10 and 11-All Bouth can i Bves e o . point perfectly she would, indeed, be | down by experienced writers. i diag 4o TmOW are the ace and king of spad ARG | teinedt, BVES the R & East geta his club trick after ol "0 | where in the tropica for s where in the tropics for cups and dippera