Evening Star Newspaper, March 17, 1925, Page 29

*bride WOMA Etiquette for Wedding Ceremony BY LYDIA LE At the coming of questions arise attendant upon various questions cerning them. cereniony jtself minutes to how many thought of. and simple out. But when they are such ity Spring many concerning weddings this season and the of etiquette con- Although a wedding takes about seven perform is amazing deta are to be These obvious when corredtly car how glaring a fault it is are not! Then, too, ther arying degrees of formal- which surround the occasion that it there seem so0 B QUET THE LE TAKES ARM AS ALTAR. CHAN HER BOU- 1OM THE RIGHT TO FT ARM WHEN SHE THE BRIDEGROOM'S SHE GOES TO THE one sometimes wonders how much or lttle one is expected to adhere to the established custom. Difficult as it to standardize | etiquette for diversified circumstances in the matter of a wedding, so wide- | 1 is the Interest that no phase | has been slighted by those se concern it Is to know the cor- rect deportment and dress for its re- quirements. At present we will chiefly direct our attention to the an- swering of certain specific questions that have been asked recently, know- ing that the solutions are ones of | interest to man How Cortege Stands. One of the things to puzzle a num- ber of is the position of the and groom in relation to each people BARON ted | WALKER. and, last, the bride and her father. The bridegroom, with his best man to his left, awaits the bride’s ap- proach and stands facing her. After the ceremony the bride and groom lead the procession from the altar. The best man attends the mauid of honor and each bridesmaid is attend- ed by one of the ushers. What He Should Wear. It has been asked If it is proper for a bridegroom to wear a navy blue uit at an informal home wedding when the bride is wearing a white satin gown with veil. The bride- groom regulates his attire according to the time of day and the informality of the wedding. These do not govern the bride's attire, though she may not wear the prescribed costume if she does not choose to do so. It is mot the hour of the wedding nor formality or informality of the casion that governs in her case, how- ever. As for the bridegroom, it is not flagrantly fncorrect for him to wear a blue serge sult, but it is not advised. For a morning wedding a two or three button sack coat of Ox- ford gray, with trousers to match, entirely permissible. A cutawa it in this same color is approved by fashion. This suit Is gaining in fash fon over the present regulation style of black cutaway and black trou with pin stripes of white. Of course, a tuxedo or swallow-tail coat is not worn before 6 o'clock in the evening. ers Wedding Announcements. As to the sending of wedding an- nouncements, about which some of the readers have Inquired, I may say that they are omitted when and general invitations have been is sued for @ church ceremony. When weddings are small or only inclusiv of relatives and engraved announcements are sent Lo the entire visiting list of the bridal couple Gloves and Hats. At a small home wedding it is not necessary for bride or attendants to wear gloves, although it is corre to do so if they wish. wedding of any pretentions, and attendants should white for the women and whit or gray buckskin for the men The question has arisen as whether or not the woman guests a wedding need to wear hats varies according to circumstance. At a church wedding it is bad form for women not to wear hats. At a home wedding, espectally one held in the eve- ning, hats may or may not be worn, according to the discretion of the suede to at Me and my cuzzin Artle was setting the | widespread | immediate families | At a church | bride | wear gloves, | This | HE EVEN DOROTHY DIX’ for Another Man—Sl Married Before H AR DOROTHY DIX: 10 and 14 years old. diy children. 1 have no grounds for a d him that I love this other man he ma loves me and the children so dearly I do? Answer rouse yourself from Quit doping In the first place, you you were you would not also love y compatible. the sentimental yourself with romance. make love to her, and it breaks the carry on a secret, thrilling intrigue, is danger of it rouses her sporting blo But if she carries the thing to th sionment. that breaking up a home breaks a w. young man you will spend the balance . To heglin with, you are too old fo | agea upon him. Not many men care for nd thrust them upon the doubtful would find no blessing for vourself | Tamagirl 19 ¥ SAR MISS DIX | D cretly as soon as we finish high s I am a married My husband Is kind and loving. but T am in love with a man who Is five years younger than I am, rce and marry him, and says that if 1 do he will take care of my I love this young man, yet T love my husband, toc risking her good name, and her home, You have no right to Jeopardize their welfare by doing this. Loy two months younger than my G STAR, WASHINGTON, S LETTER BOX Advice to Woman Who Wants to Break Up Home hall They Be Secretly e Goes to College? woman with two little girls, He wishes me to get a ivorce from my husband, but if T tell 1y grant me a divor and my husband ‘What must PEARL. that T hate to hurt him. There is just one thing for you to do, Pearl, and that is to trance in which you are indulging. Wake up and face facts as they are. re not really In love with this young man, because if our husband. The two loves are not It flatters & woman of your age to have & man younger than she is monotony of domesticity for her to She knows that when she does it she and her children, and the very od and leads her on. e bitter end, it always ends in disillu- There is a scandal that lays her low in the dust, and she finds oman's heart as well Believe me, if you divorce your good, kind husband and marry this of your life regretting it. r him.. Five vears' difference in age is not much in *he tally of years, but a woman with half-grown daughters is in reality almost old enough to be the mother of a man of 29. He is a boy, and the chances are that in a little while his fickle fancy will turn from you to some young flapper. | In the second place, he would certalnly regard your children as a burden You are middle ready-made families, and very few of them are willing to work and sacrifice to support another man's children Certainly you would commit a great crime against your little girls if vou took them from the cere and love and tenderness of their own father kindness of a stepfather. Lastly, you n such a marriage. You cannot build a house of happiness out of selfishness and wrong-doing. DOROTHY DIX. ars old, and very much in love with a elf. We are planning to be married chool, which we will do this year. I expect to teach school while he is going to college Do you think it would be advisab until he finishes college? We have ag: Answer: 1f you will take my a never be secretly married. That is t doing a foolish thing which you | explaining ard apologizing for and re may be be able to make people believe so. Marriage is just the public annou complied with the legal and convent that they are henceforth going to other When people decided to be civili regulatigns by which they agreed to of the most important of these, you bitterly for it So don't do it, tatlon nor any at all be married openly. my dear. You d Nineteen is too young for any run a great risk if you marry a lad to collegs and, belicve me, a marriage certifica the sense that he has done a foolish future b a secret marriage will ma from you. will spend the balance live openly and honorably and when you break shadow on vour children boy | start a bewty contest for | cups for a bewty c on his frunt steps tawking and I had | a good ideer how to make some mon- | ey, saying, G, I tell vou lets wat, lets 1 the gerls and we'll make tickits and sell them for, a cent apeece and each tickit is a vote and the gerl that gets the most votes wins ferst prize and the gerl thats next wins 2nd prize G, all rite, ony G, ware will we get the prizes, we haff to have silver| ntest, Artie sed Well G, I know, dident somebody ever glve you a silver cup wen you was a baby? I sed Sure, its in our china closit, Artle Auswen <ed, and I sed, Well I got one too, its | accomplished more harm than good. put away in a draw and lts no use | foF Eirls to sit around in dark room and whether he wants you. not even want him. If you truly love each other, have that sort of enduring affection, mitted to a distasteful marriage. . DEAR MISS found n erround heer, DIX—Last Sunday eve daughter and accused her of having forbade the girl and the young man do the right thing? You did the right thing le to get secretly married now or wait reed to ablde by your advice. M.B. dvice, my dear, you will never, never, he surest way to wreck your lives, by of your days gretting. For while a secret marriage s honest and honorable as any big church wedding, you will never ncement that,a man and a woman have fonal rules laid down by custom, and with each zed they formulated certain rules and abide. The public marriage was one it soclety punishes on’t want any smudge on your repu- If you are going to be married to marry, anyway. who s going to leave And you will ou and go off There will be a thousand things to wean him away from you te won't hold hin. On the contrary, thing and that he has handicapped his ke him resentful and drive him away Wait until he is through college and then sse whether you want him The next three ye: period of your life, when your tastes, and habits | will all altér, and by the time the young man is ready to marry you may will be the changeable and manner of thought vou will be faithful. If you do not it will be far better not to be com- . DOROTHY DIX. ning when I came home about 11:30 T daughter with a girl friend and a young man in the lving room, with the shades pulled down and all the lights out. 1 scolded my a petting party in my absence, and ever to enter my door again. Did I ANXIOUS MOTHER. in_the wrong way, and probably Certainly it is not the proper thing s with young men, and every mother D. C UESDAY, Rambles Around South America BY RIPLEY. Second Day. S. S. ANTA LUISA, AT SEA, Janu- ary 27.—Lay late—awaking near noon —completely at sea. Gone. Gone the blinking lights; the blooming faces, and the blankity blizzard. All gone—except a headache to remind me that eher Is such a person as Vol- stead. Smiling viclously, I carefully fed moth balls into the yawning pockets of my overcoat and consigned it with a kick to the bottom drawer of state- room No, 40. The climatic change s miraculous It has grown warmer by the hour— a degree an hour, to be exact—and now I pace the deck of this sanctified ship with open coat and trying hard not to remember all the hinga that I forgot when leaving frigld old New York yesterday. The Santa Luisa s a 10,000-ton ship—small but speedy; well manned —neat and clean—with hot and cold running Chinese to walit on you. The skipper Is Capt. Dexter, of stalwart frame, and tanned and toughened by the suns of the seven seas. A hard man is the captaln, but with a kindly smile and manners as gentle as a kitten. An armored knight incased in satin; a man who fears nothing that lives or walks— except a woman. “I have sailed the seas for 33 years,” he sald, “in all kinds of weather and in all sorts of climes. 1 have been shanghaied, marooned and shipwreckeW, and once I clung to a floating spar in the icy ocean for 36 hours before being rescued, but I MOTHERS AND THEIR CHILDREN. Use for Old Sweaters. MARCH 17, 1925. FEATURES. Bistory of Pour Name BY PHILIP FRAN LEEDER. VARIATIONS—Leader, Leders, Loder, Lederer. RACIAL ORIGIN—English. SOURCE—An occupation. You'd need more than three gu to pick the occupation from which this group of family names has been | developed. The reason s that th meaning of the word itself has]| changed since the medieval period in | which it became a surname. It is not exactly a pi tical knowledge to know that orig inally the words “lead” and “load had very similar meanings. We use the verb “lead” today in the of “showing the way.” But dieval times fts most usual meani was that of pulling or carrying load; as often carrying as pulling So, If you hear any of the family | names In this group you may be sonably sure that in the dim distant past one or more of Your ancestors filled & position In the economic life of the community as a bearer of bur- | dens, a position very similar to that | of the teamster and v of to-| dny. He n have efther a| bearer of loads himself or an | ployer of such men, and more than likely speclalized in the service some particular mercantile trade S NOWLAN s | of prac THE SKiePER [ CAPTAIN DEXTER Place-Card Holders. ; want your little parties to be complete you {have some of the new pla holders. There are charming 1 painted iron robins and wee bunnies | with little slits in the standards that the cards may be placed just behind the small animal U It you dinner card | tle | | never had a voyage as rough as that | 5o | one on the sea of matrimony | This vovage, however, I8 growing | smoother every minute. It Is always rough around Cape Hatteras, but now the waves are showing signs of Spring, and tomorrow, says Capt Dexter, it will be a Summer sea Thers {s nothing on the calendar better than a Summer sea—a good ship—and Idle hours to dream aw For instance, about Great steamers, white and gold, o rolling down o Rio (Eoll down—roll down to Riol) And I'd like to roll to Rio Some day before I'm old Bad poetry, I think, Kipling did write it even though Don’t simply. order sugar! Specify “Domino.” It pays. Onlyin this one way can you be sure about the sugar you buy. When you order Domino Package Sugars by name you knot that the sugar is clean—protected from flies, dirt, handling—that it is uniformly good, the highest quality cane sugar that can be bought. American Sugar Refining Company “Sweeten it with Domino” Granulated, Tablet, Powdered, Confectioners, Brown; Domino Syrup; Molasses Tints the unusual ! New colot- Happier ful ! 't cast aside faded, lace-trimmed silk flme Glorient tints any silk beautifully even and Leaves Jace White We this. Sach results. Soft lnstre, new body, silk becomes new. No boiling. No staini hands, nflz:h:mlms. i - Tmore so Tl ask my mother if I|Should see that no petting parties go on under her roof: but in this case Y 4 other more s sk my | and to the guests during the | marriage ceremony. The bride enters the church (or room, If it is to be a home wedding) on the arm of her father or whoever is to give her away. She carries her bou in her right arm and her left hand is rest- ing in her father's right arm. The groom has entered the chancel, church or room from a side door end ands facing the bride until her ar- val at altar or chancel. If in a chan he takes a step or so toward which brings them side by side then turns, standing at er rig Both have their backs to the congregation. The one who is to give the bride away takes a step to one side. widening the distance between him and the bridal couple. the Manipulating Bouquet. bride, just as the bridegroo: s his place beside her, shifts he from right to her left | The bridegroom takes the right hand and puss it| an have it for the ferst prize In the bewty contest and you ask if you can have yours for 2nd prize, unless mine looks the rustiest, and then we can use vours for ferst prize. O %oy, 111 bet we make a hole pack of money, Artie sed. And he went in to find out about his cup and 1 went home to ask ma about mine, saying. Ma, do you know that old silver cup I had wen I was a baby, that's no good eny more, is it? It has no practical use, if thats wat you meen, but it ha: a sentimental value as the ixpression is, I wouldent part with that cup for a million dol- lers, no sir, if somebody offered me a hundred dollers for that cup I wouldn’t even lissen to them, ma sed. I wunt to preserve that cup for my grandchildren and my grate grand- children, thats how much 1 think of it, she sed. Me thinking, Aw G, good nite, aw. And I thawt, O well, then we'll jest have one prize, we'll jest use Arties cup. And I called him up on the tele- your making three are a crowd. The ex | accusing a girl of doing something w for | suspi that she is,_while, on.the other hand, n incapable of doing wrong. As for forbidding girls and boy: makes her their partisan, and she w have them come to your hole, whe (Copyrigh Pork Fricatelli. One pound of vork, one-half cup stale bread crumbs, one teaspoonful salt, one saltspoon pepper, one-half teaspoon onion juice, two eggs. Chop one pound of fresh raw pork very fine, add one teaspoon of salt, a suspicions were doubtless unfounded, as when it comes to love- tra girl served as a chaperon, as no | youth couid negotiate a petting party with two flappers at the same time. | I think a mother makes a very great mistake when she is always rong. There {s nothing more effective ither good or bad than the power of suggestion, and if you assume a lous attitude toward vour daughter you keep it before your mind oy, think she s weak or vicious, and she is apt to be what you think othing will do more to keep a girl straight than the knowledge that her mother trusts her and believes her s to come to your house, that simply ill meet them on the outside. Better re you can keep an eye on them. DOROTHY DIX. t, 1925.) Lampshade Designs. A distinctive lampshade for a li- brary or study is made from an old map which is drawn tight around a slightly flaring straight shade. shel- lacked and neatly bound around bot- tom and top by a bit of inconspicu- ous brald. Another interesting li- brary lamp shade is made of neutral- At Leading Drug and Department Stores GLORIENT, Inc. 30 Church Se. Now York One Mother says: My sister had an old sweater which had become too small and she was about to throw it away. I took it home with me, raveled it out. washed the yarn and reknitted it into & warm sweater for my small son. In every home there is usually an old sweater which has shrunk or become raveled, but could be reknit- ted nicely for a younger member of the family. (Copyright, 1925.) Roller Shades. Roller shades made of very gayly flowered glazed chintz, with red roses and green leaves, are used In a little sitting room or sun parlor, the win- dows of which are draped with nat- ural-toned casement cloth. These bakeror Place a standing order-with your grocer arm. Her finger tips rest in the crook of his left arm ids, If there are any, stand to the left of the bride, and grooms- men to the right of the bridegroom. The order of entrance for the at- tendants and groomsmen, who al- ways precede the bride, Is as follows Ushers come first, walking two by two, and ranged according to height; the bridesmaids follow, walking two by two; the maid of honor, alone, lows them; then the flower girls fone to tell him and he sed, Well G wizz, 1 cant have mine either, my mother sed it was the craziest ideer she ever herd and she gave me a rearse crack for argewing with her about it Being wy the bewty contest is pos- poned. dash of pepper, one-half teaspoon of [toned grass cloth with an old en- cnion Juice, one-half cup fine stale|graving or etching mounted at one bread crumbs and two beaten eggs, | side. and mix all thoroughly. Shape in small cakes, pan-broil slowly to thoroughly cook. 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