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THE EVEWING WORLD, FRIDAY, MAY 12, 1922, 83" SMR Hine HERRON ..<o0n, How Long Should Y oe ey 4 ron bs demain En sal ) qi" Nf) SY Couples gag Before Marrying ? pierce Lives of Great Men Daily Footprints of Immortals Explained Step by Step - By Neal R. O’Hara ciate?” Courtship and Marriage. the wedding. While many young Copyright, 1922 Cate Fore Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. “opytlant, 1989 (New ork Evening World) girls have found they love these How Your Favorite Authors Live While at Work, y Press Publishing Co. “older men" better than the boys in . i tong should young couples sic cer it is often advidable to wait at Play and Attempting to Sober Up. To-Day In New York’s History To-day is the birthday of Tammany. On May 12, 1789, the secret society of St. Tammany, or Columbian Order, was founded, and incorporated in 1805 as a regular fraternal aid society. Its first hall, the old one, was built in 1811. BETTY VINCENT ADVISES:— “Six months if you are both young and of nearly the same age— 4 year if the man is several years older—If one keeps making excuses for postponements, the ether shar] not wait too long.” 7 in such cases it i@ ‘ways better for By Betty Vincent. her to wait a yeat or over between WE NEEDED A SOFA. NUCH NORE No, | BOUGHT A SOFA INSTEAD | WANTED AN EASY CHAIR. TO REST married? After he has “popped” the question and “pop” has extended his | dlessing how tong should they wait | Refore the organist pipes up with *Lohengrin’ GR Frere again we have a personal 4@estion which depends entirely upon the man and the girl concerned. If the path is rosy, financial con- ditions permit and parents are willing six months is a very conventional and “romantic lapse of time from en- fagement announcement to wedding date. It ts true ‘‘all the world loves a lover,” and if Romeo and Jullet stretch ‘their engagement period too a The Evening Werld’s Authority © the engagement period and the date of { | Unfortunately, there is a certain type of man who is perfectly willing to become engaged, but puts the wed- ding date off indefinitely. “My mother does not wish to haye me marry for a year or so," or “I have a younger brother to educate,’ is often his ex- ‘cuse for waiting “just another year.” Of course many of the excuses are as clear as a summer's sky, but some- times the year passes and ‘'mother still objects," and sometimes brother is educated and In business and the young man finds another reason why they must walt “another year.” My advice to the giel who has such the other half of the writers live, We explain it tersely— with diagrams, timetables and full list of properties. DAILY SCHEDULE OF GUY THAT WRITES POEMS OF SUNSHINE, 6 A. M, (except Sundays), awakens to soft, mellow tinkling of alarm clock. 6.05 A. M., looks out back door at God's great azure sky and regis- tera heap o’ satisfaction that he's alive. 6.15 A. M., leaps into bath tub of tepid maple syrup. 6.16-6.40 A. M,, whistles “Home, Sweet Home” while taking bath, 645 A, M., hugs and weeps tears of joy for being alive. 7.16 A. M., breakfast of steak smoth- ered with honey, cream puffs and glass of God's own eilvery nectar— water, 8 A. M., remarks to wife that there's a heap o’ satisfaction in being alive a day like this (daily including rain). 8.10 A. M., looks through: family pho- tograph album, takes walk through field of waving daisies or drifts of virgin snow (depending on season) and fondles outfit of baby clothes. 9 A. M., takes shot of soothing syrup in arm and staggers to typewriter. 9.10 A, M.-6.80 P. M., writes six weeks supply of poems on “The Joy be engaged bdefore they are a year. HH“ the readers don't know how kiddies, plays leap-frog with them long, ‘when all the world 1s quite a suitor is to drop him six months aware there are no obstacles in their after brother comes out of school and way, people lose their interest and the young man presents another per- even Cupid begins to yawn. fectly good reason why they should not wed at once. Many girls have Then, too, couples who stretch waited patiently year after year for ‘their engagement period too long are whole families to grow up and then ‘ ‘apt to fall into that ancient rut of in the end seen thelr suitor take a ‘overs’ quarrels.”* Lovers’ quarrels younger, fairer girl to the altar, may be esential and play an all-im- portant role during courtship, but if There is also the young man's side Betty and Billy can escape these to consider. Sometimes it is the girl petty bickerings their honeymoon and who constantly postpones the wedding @D later married life will be much date. “Mother thinks we better wait sweeter. another year," is her plea, or “Wait For the first six months engaged until you have a certain sum of money couples are really ‘blind’? to each other's faults, Love throws a glam- our, a golden glow, over their lives. The couples who marry with this low of “first love’? pass on to the honeymoon without a single mis- understanding. But when Betty be- comes accustomed to seeing Billy, every Wednesday evening, every Sun- _day evening and golng to a show two or three times a week month after month, and perhaps year after year, that “golden glow’ wears off. Betty ‘becomes peeved, Billy wonders if she is as sweet as some little flapper two years her junior, and Cupid begins to realize he isn't as blind as he might be. EXCUSE NE | ICANE IN G THIS SOFA IS JUST THE RIGHT SIZeé. NOT Too BIg “Mother's Knee” and other daily heart crushers. 9 P. M., packs ol’ jimmy pipe with "baccy and gets Into carpet slippers, 9.15 P. M., remarks to wife that there's a mighty heap o’ satisfac- tion in being alive. 10 P. M., puts on old-fashioned one-piece nightie and calls it a day. SCHEDULE OF A GUY THAT WRITES RACY STUFF ABOUT FLAPPERS 11.80 A. M,, awakens at loud buzz- ing from splitting headache. 11.85 A. M, goes to door and swears at janitor. 11.45 A. M., slams door. 11.46 A. M., pour out seidel of absinthe and drinks it. 11.47 A. M. takes pail of brandy for chaser. 11.48 A. M., leaps into tub of vichy water. 12.80 P, M., breakfast of rolls, whiskey and soda. 1.05 P. M., reads excerpts from ‘McGovern’s Encyclo- pedia of Cuss Words, Jeapy's Out- line of Mixed Drinks for Young and Old,” and ‘The Handbook of Fa- oO COCCI DON'T You miliar Flapper Quotations,"’ and takes noteson barns, REALIZE OUR 2.30 P. M,, dictates first eight a DAUGHTER IS chapters of ‘The Swearing Maiden A and the Slob."" 2.50 P. M., hops taxi 5 to Turkish bath. 7.45 P. M., has luncheon. 9.30 P, M., starts for week-end party accompanied by note- book. 4.20 A. M., prepares for bed 4.21 A. M., rings for tub of ice water. 4.30 A. M., remarks to valet that there's a heap of satisfaction in bo- ing dead. ‘i YOU BUTTIN IN HERE DAD. ? ONLY AN WOULD SrA But, mind you, this advice to young lovers to marry within six months o: so after the engagement is announcet! “Ys only for those who are FINAN CIALLY FIT. There is another side SCHEDULE OF A ‘QUY_ THAT DOES THOSE FROZEN « NORTH STORIES. 4A. M., jumps out of bed onto polar bear rug. 4.05 A, M., goes to window and. listens for howling of wolves 4.10 A, M., puts on red underwear and sealskin pants, 4.30 A. M., puts feet in. refrigerator and cats breakfast off «lap. -Breakfast consists of bouillon cubes, whale blubber and unlighted tallow candles. 4.50 A. M., picks teeth with ice pick. Cannot Stretch the A. M., goes to front door to get . 4: Bes mofhing paper and look for icebergs. Balcony Scene of Fairs tare uy newspaper Into Courtship Days ‘Into small bits and sprinkles them all over A : room. Shakes salt on shoulders and Middle Life—Romeo chest. ‘Turns back thermometer to 40 Sings His Best and below. 6.45 A. M., takes off earlap and listens for growling of walruses “Romeo and Juliet “MARGIE” a ——— By Caroline Crawford Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World), by Press Publishing Co. The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World), by Pr Publishing Co. Truest Love Song and — 5's) 4. Mf, goes to seo if wolf o1 taney Mindeo, ninstee, Belpe te sibpert hep widowed jmeluor ba, werkis os [TING some tips on the ‘Well. I'll give you a good time Expects the Answer wolves are at front door. 6.10 A. M., j;rchum'™ Is “Mulale ‘ice, a fellow salengiel. Malale’s ‘atendy" iy “clarence Wimple, new spring and summer and not show you one,” said Mr, Jarr From Juliet ‘Within a ety EN Bee ee ad fer idoniar’ mage thie sate dey aad OE eo ae eee styles?’ asked Mr. Jarr, ‘1 am #o sure I'll be able to finance Sor 2. . 9 8 noticing his good lady was eagerly you to most of the latest fashions frozen pudding. 6.80 P. M., takes off REASONING THINGS OUT. in me. Arctic haberdashery. 6.35 P. M., re N i 3'S spirits rose as Frank know it doesn’t sound like me," Reasonable Time. scanning a fashion magazine. that Iam going to ask you what they “Oh, I know what's being worn, if “re im hats, dresses, shots, stockings, marks to wife that there's a heap 0’ Spafford's flivver speeded up she confessed, ‘I'm afraid I'm get- Senpation in living in a cold apart- and they sped out into the ting catty.’ F only ciuid ation: ta\'tany: thei etuitt,”* Orie a subject Mrs, Jarr could - counhey, Spafford threw back his head ana "Pied Mrs, Jarr. discourse on with eager interest. “You said you would not come !ughed heartily. To instance, what?" asked Mr. “Well,"’ she sald, “black and whit “Not as long as you admit things,’ Jurr, “I am expecting to make some {or hats, fine straw and Canton he said as he started up the lite old 1 . eaten wehey wok 46 ke They are trimmed with flowers, and whole month and flivver again and chased a frightened iy rouey, gy the Gee) sees rdenion or water ilies are the that you were go- Kitten straight in front of the car for through [Ml finane to see me for a Why Not Look Your Best? you to all that's : a 7089 favorites this spring. And all the - By Doris Doscher ing around. with St east sty yards, © Pats, Of course,” he added, women, from fifteen to eighty, ave st hen, turning to her, he sald, “Mar- with a touch of cautiot ! rea: effe * 5 S INCE Eve first saw her face fe- of the water, such as bath sults, this Lelia Whiting,” gie, 1 came uround to-night because I son A uch of caution, “within rea fis cting the a Mates I saw ~ ; vats a ia 4 . ‘ on. 1 beauty yesterday ie - Es S flected in the mirror of the waters Same borax plays a very large part she sald play- simply couldn't wait out that month ~ ,, fu Hea hy) SeaLSeay SALe SL Ay 4 Sden, wi i ha Soda will also do this, but it is fully, ‘inow tell we decided upon, [ really only in- I knew there would be some catch ‘© have—a yellow crepe de chine hit { by the pool in Eden, woman has Lyon stronger and therefore must me why you tended to try the car out, but before 9 your proposition of suppositious With a small bunch of violets han- always been seeking ald to improve he used with a more sparing hand F unew ie tt cue puthed in front oF Catt eal Mire det, me at the wide. It was worn by PD that reflection. Almost every ancient A few drops of toilet water and « broke your Prom- your apartment. I looked up at the sigh. “you remind . h & woman I saw In a department stor: Tec tae Peter adraareniae nitaieee eaten racé. had some dash of borax and you have @ bat ive?" window, saw you, honked the darm ji 4y 01 OU RRS LN BAR A etes Cora eee a a ute on with Het : in the bank,” But when the year goes that leaves the ski the body as) « 7 little h oe sand here wo Hickett was saying.” about seven years of age, and what ; ; : i particular re- that leaves the skin on th ‘And you said that you would not little horn three times and here w S y young woman should wait between by mother still wants her to wait, or eeipts so to soft as velveb and also gives A V°TY wee me for a whole month and were sithatts that “What did Miss Hickett say?" in- “1? You think? That child's hair hud Wie wontne dete sanounoemsnt: an bite pe young man merrily an- namel and paint Tetresh’ng feeling and Just sufficient i \ * s to Lelia Whitting and all quired Mr, Jarr B. PORAnSRE Wave! Sue: wes. whe Wake ng i |, Roufices that now he has that desired enamel and paint fragrance to be delightful. In t & wround with that Western the society gira In the world [ ‘Why Tait ine cae boldest little thing and was sucking & emember, it costs twice as much sum, she finds another reason why the face Is NO iN- this elusive fragrance is by far the chap, Willis Channing’? countered of them for life. Honest-to-« sald Mrs, Sarr, “Cora jollypop, and 1 said to her, ‘Your tm he torday ab it did when “dad they must wait until “noxt year.’ novation With best way to express onc's individucl Spafford, “now tell me why you ! Lelia doesn't care a thi Hickett saya that It makes her tired ctl wave looks bewutiful,’ and she a 4nd mr. went to housekeeping. ‘There Is no doubt about It she: is Sree ibisterence for Kiaartaln scent : ef angining bur siothes and & when her beaux tell her they will show Wered me, as bold as you please, ‘ Furn’ure, apartments, entertaining ‘stringing him along," and if a mill- She. ae eee e iatial aise of hard wateiond) Une. Tom Bromine smoking, Bully kind of a wife her a good should hope tt woald!"* the in-laws, amusements and honey- ion dollar boy would hop along she is one’ simple ooavey soap will absolutely ruin a “1 couldn't very well resist a rid® make, wouldn't she in onae e What she wants ““snut the fashions, the fashions?’ (00m, tripe cost Just dauble what they would march up the aisle with him thing that. hee eee eee one eora you i a brand new flvver when a very ‘They rode along for almost a mile jt m to do 19 to GIVE her a good gasped Mr, Jarr, amazed at the age of in the good old days." There- stood the test of w: . nice young ama onke admiring the fruit trees which were “me youth and the youth of age, as de- e nj ‘ al ae : will find the borax or the rain ¥ @ man came and honked Its ae yi WHER YORE: COMRIOR| Dave ail thince, Gad tes bath @ Gelghttul elternative. We new saucy ho 3 ve vtow," all in blossom, the linc bushes in “Isn't it all the same thing? asked scribed by Mrs. Jar: pledged their love the next thing to Therefore, T am in ‘or of short : have had famous stars who bousted aucy horn under my window.” front of ola tumble down cottages Mr. Jarr. Well, spring wraps are all the rag do is to get out a pad and pencil and engagements. Real love and romance cause It is: #0 igi + i she replied, along the wayside and the occasional in marvella, Canton crepe, and swan- of a‘full bath in milk. Many “I should say not!" was the reply. start off on the budget system cry out to be married directiy after simple we often . ‘ i he way ce it.” . = ‘ - * > - e the en “Ane 0 u e ti es robin who hopped near the edge of ,,. ska—if that’s the way to pronounce it! And, strange to say, couples who the betrothal. After a young mun ME ERSTR OE elagt ib mn Tue ren cui ce euitnua that rape j Saude may eh mt the road to bet his last worm for the “When a man says he will show you sald Mrs, Jarr. he spring wraps Mahe a decden clea IMe'thio mise au. 04 8 YOUDS WOMAN have exchanged ih1c has to do with the kind ef water Cte oleae tae vo ae th Chto & Sertain, youny womad 7 fight, Daylight saving gave them an @ good time, it simply means he will &re all dauble-taced, Sinareak solar the petty bickerings and lowers' quar. /oV@ Vows and announced their in- | 2 Sarl Grae cen OP at you jis 1" knew out In my new fiivver the first exira hour to ride an! now, at seven take you out to dinner and order what and you can wear them inside or out- rels, You see Betty and Billy have a t¢Mded marriage to the world, it is so We Use. You seo there is water and fact e the ty ag a wonderful ©” night I drove it," he continued fifteen, It was still light with a great |. 4) ‘ ide, for day or evening; but the color definite aim and therefore they are. auch better to marry within the next water. For instance, in some parta of fect om the texture of the win. WY ienane if tt had been a Packard t bull of fire sinking into the West he licen and eat the most of tt, or for evening In those double w not trying to pick flaws im..each ®* Months or so while love is young (he country the water is exceedingly ay an > Decaanaites. Y yon would have'Qtven eround to Mine -720W 80 you fool toward! youRE j/5 you: loses 6 show that he will never matches your evening gown. [n other's dispositions. Both the:yuang ®i full of happy dreams. hard and/the habitual use.ot ittands age or, Blennping, Due ib s , aie nning? asked Spafford, ‘I have anc you may not care for stockings, chiffon stockings are the man and the young woman . This ts also true of older couples i can mean much more than that. The whitting’s,"” cynically skested told you about Lelie now supposing latest, and they are all higher; I don’t goal, a future, and when they twat} The, Widower and “confirmed bach- ‘0 harden and coarsen the texture of temperature and the softening a Margie, ¢hinking of Channing's You tell me about this interesting 4 mean in length, but in price, Every- they have something worth while gpq Her” WhO suddenly throws aside the the skin, undoing all of the good of the water can be used to make ts srning that he might marry the Western man." GOING DOWN! thing seems to bo getting cheaper, ex: sincere to talk about. This is a casé loon tirmed Pe at ri his love for work of massage and skin food, skin soft and beautiful patent ienana saaie ala A mischievous twinkle in his ayes EAR FRIEND: If you have cept oN stockings. ape tant . »membe ; r Kex is much --- if and was merely BINS took y possible evnical slur ‘ used to be air are now $7.50, and roese Canid ftails to yawn and lov“) iopier to marry within a short time YOU know that rainwater le far 4. wis. Doscher: w r because she was pretty and be y Gretemaatite Western D ene it abarne? nobody roll taaeaen an the saying . after the marriage announcement, softer and more beneficial to the skin i rin n unusual “little workin rl ‘don't think I like hlin,’? declared es: not agreeable, is, as was the style alone nd Juliet cannot stretch the than that which you draw from the aint ron Sey ns Se aaee ae Dit chetekiene ste Bete om. Marale, “he didn't give me any en- | Keep it to yourself, What good Sport clothes,” Mew, Jarre went yalcony sv -@ of courtship days into ; 5 ese words 6% Conragement in 1 h jo to tell any one? on, “are more fashionalte than ever, PF rahar ya youth ts another very good <midate life. ::omeo sings his beat and faucet @# supplied through the pipes, WINIFRED ped Margle's lips she deeply regret: “pat it he had? ides, that opinion may | and will be especially so ut all summer V areeed bal ang men and women tmegt love su and expects the an- It is a simple matter to retain for Frequently bathing the eyes { then. Spafford. gave her one of “Thingy might ha 1 much | Shange and then you would find | resorts, White skirts and black silk Yer read the engagement period. gwer from Julie ‘*'thin a reasonable your beauty bath just enough rain warm water to which a little bora: keen, searobing ‘glances und then ake Tauabad that you had been mistaken. | sweaters. Sandals are still in—flappor Heald ; young men should assume time." The time depends upon THE water for at least to wash the face, acid has been added soothes any Ay z raid we doen't care very Often the very thing which you sandals of black and gray, Skirts a) oe ponsibility of marriage until MAN and THE GIRL and THE CIR- Wut where this is not possible you flammation and as this often cu PSUR ERE much these other people, dislike ina person is a quality longer and shapes all run to boysh- they aro at least well along in the CUMSTANCES. If the path 1s rosy will find that a little borat added to these wrinkles uround the eyes Phat doesn’t sound like you. Mar- gavly pointed out Spuftord which you have yourself. forms—fat, It's a hard world for wenties. Twenty-one may have been anid all is clear, marry while tho the water will soften and make it well for you to do this every day was all he said, but Margie knew But w b vaste eriectly One must love to be loved in | stout women and a harder o} gape ; t y 1 ni v ) un 4 one for ough in dad's day, but the glamour of love and the first kisses equally beneflcial In its éffect. ‘The light massage is helpful and the be meant much more. He n clear that they did not care for return, and unpleasant opiniones that are fat." glever youngster of this age watts at still count. If you have a few finan- use of borax.as A beauty’s ald js per- tonic is ice cold water or u pieve heen tatiine " i other people’ his conversation was are better left unexpressed. Mr, Jarr kissed her goodby Jeast until ho is twenty-four or five. clal conditions to straighten out, sit haps not so universally known as it tee, A drop of hengoin in the li VO DOC a CATRED wlth tile ¢ MAN indirect and he did not declare his Faithfully, left her behind him happy, for K Frequently @ girl of eighteen falls down with a pad and pencil but don't should be, but in preparation cold rinsing water acts as an The has been putting idenx in your for her ALFALFA SMITH. next to having things it is Women's 0 love with a man of thirty-five and let Cupid yawn thet you purchase for the softening gent, head, You have lost your confidence Te-Morrew—Concerning Implied Love pleasure to talk about them,