The evening world. Newspaper, February 23, 1922, Page 25

On “Tt So many communic but more of making a living. “Two years ago I met a man a few years my senior. At first we went out together merely for a good time, as any ordinary girl and boy would do, We were just good “friends, but about sx months later, bong constantly in each other's sompany, our friendship ripened Into love. > “Naturally the = man and I accepted, but only between ourselves, and here our | ifficulties lic. ‘The well off financially, 80 that he could Bot go to my parents and tell them. So we kept our s to all outward appearances we were friends until he was so placed that we could marry. “Up to the present we going about together. Now, my par- ents aro orthodox and naturally when they see mo with man only they wonder that we have come to an understanding, proposed is where man was not eret, and just have been one not and, L admit, looking at it from their side, they are right. I am thankful to fp them for letting me have my own 9) way this long. } “The man still cannot take care of me, Things have been so very bad this past year that he barely me“? his expenses. But we can- Bot go on like this forever. My parents want to know results, and there is nothing he has to offer as yet. He makes very little and the future holds very small promise, and so there is only one way open to us and that is that we must part. We love each other dearly, and after being together for two years parting will mean misery to us both. As an outsider, Miss Loeb, what do you think of the situation?” My view of the situation is this: It makes no difference how much people love each other they have no right to marry without ' gome assurance of the future. Their chance for happiness is meagre. Many young people will doubtless hink this is very hard, but the his- ory of marriages has proved that it s the rare case indeed that weathers the winter’s blasts of matrimony— mich as the lack of creature comforts the wherewithal to keep the wolf rom the door. The moneyless Eden is of short fluration. Harsh as it may seem, any a happy home !s broken by the Ml collector. If you don't believe it, go into th estic Relations Court and th judge will tell you there that the ma- ity of broken marriages are due to r grand- k of money. It is all very well for gu others to prate of those good old ys when young people married on mothing, grew up together, made their fortunes and lived happily ever latter, It isn't done to-day. What was yesterday a luxury and bh pastime is to-day a necessity nd a vital factor In the everyday life pf everyday mortals. People can no longer be hidden way, in a little home-sweet- home with everything beginning and pane there. There are moving pic- res, shows and parties and dances that are common daily occurrences nd are in the routine of existence. Where before visitors came but rarely, mostly holidays, to-day you Invite your friends to dinner or to yuncheon and such other entertain- ents, All of these things cost joney, and if you don't have them begin to think you are out of it. You are bound to brood and grow povetous and rebellious, When people marry, at first they ly think they don’t need any of hese things, and the average couple jou on the theory that if they just ave each other that is enough. But his is not true in real life—it only foes well in fiction. As a general thing, after a while ey grow tired of each other's con- tant company and they want to join ith others. And this is perfectly nat- with the way the world ts being to-day. There are the occasional lofty souls Famous Women. CHRISTIANE FICKER. HRISTIANE FICKER, in- ventor of the tambour- needle, was born in 1769, and was the daughter of the Controller of the Mines at Elbenstock, in Saxony. She was led to the in. vention by her love for embroider- tne and her desire to trace ralsed figures, by means of a thread and The in- needle, upon the cloth. vention became a fruitful source of employment to the poor women in Saxony. The inventor, how- ever, Ike Fulton, gained nothing through her invention, except 4 present of a small sum of money given her by Queen Amalie \ugusta. SOPHIE IRENE LOEB SAYS: Makes No Difference How Much People Love Each Other, Without an Assured Future Their Chance for Happi- ness Is Meagre.”- By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1022, (New Yor: Evening World) by Pregs Publishing Co. F all the tragedies of home making one of the worst Is marrying on nothing—marrying for love alone. and die for love only, but in real pra ions come to me about the lovelorn couples who Bre brought face to face with the business of making ends meet the honeymoon days are over life is not so much a matter of making love To-day I have a letter from a@bung woman. Nothing It sounds good—to do and dare ctice it is a different matter. After who are quite satisfied with almost nothing—away off by themselves somewhere. But they usually are of the "genius" class, They belong to a different plane of thought. But for the earthbound spirit li the young woman who writes, it is a different matter. And wise are the parents who insist on “results.” The truth is that young people can afford to wait—watt until they hw some surety of the future, To be ple to start life with something ahead is the st insurance to keep Cupid on the job. udgery and struggle and sordid- Will bring most any love to the breaking point, If 1 were a young man and really loved a woman would show the strength of my love by not permiting her to marry me until f was fairly sure of her future welfare, to say nothing of the ehil- iren to come, the and Any other course on part of @ man is pur shows selfishness: a careless: titude that p stability of his love. & test of the big love is the on the part of both parti until such a time as there security of their future wait is some finance CHIN He He OR, Why Not Look : : Your Best? : ce By Doris Doscher. | css Pubitehing Co HAG MISS DOSCHER: | have been reading your articles. in The Evening World and would like you to advise me what can be done to restore my skin to its original smoothness. | am thirty and my skin is be- ginning to show the use of pow- der. 1 massage my face with good cold cream every night, then rub it off with a soft cloth and | take good care as well as |! know how. But lately my skin shows large pores. Please advise we what I can do; also would like to ask you about the oatmeal you speak of for washing the face. Is it to be used in the morning or at night? My skin is also very, dry. E. S. H. ible to do a great deal for your skin if you first pay atten- tion to your general health and diet and get plenty of time in the open air for your deep breathing exercises, This is absolutely necessary. Every night thoroughy massage your face with the cold cream, the directions for which I am giving you because you will find it is better for your dry, skin than those usually placed on the You will be market. GIL of vaseline +10 grammes ‘of sweet almonds -10 grammes Havas ef taverase 1 gramme Essence of rosemary. and oxide 1 gramme of zinc or carbonate of magnesia, quantity sufficient to make a cream, In the morning bathe the face in oatmeal water in which put a fow drops of benzoin and follow this with an ice rub. I am sure if you follow this advice the pores will con- tract and your skin will be toned up and you will not look your thirty years, Dear Miss Doscher: Have you any advice for get- ting a little plumper about the region of the collar bones? Al- though | have tried rubbing my chest, and always stand in an upright position, with my chest out, my collar bones remain very, noticeably in view. . V. M. There is nothin better for filling out around the throat and chest than exercise This can be done by bend- ing the head rward and backward to euch side anda making a contplete circle, Also massaging with the palm of the land and deep breathing is very helpful. The chest after-bath rub will improve the circulation, The head exercise may also be done while you lying down by placing a pillow under the shoulder blades and allowing the head to completely re- lax backwards and toward each side, This devele the deep underlying muscles and helps fill gut the hol- lows. Dear Miss Doscher: Will you kindly tell me how to apply the formula you gave for thick lips? JEANNE. Apply frequently and allow it to dry in, but remember that massage is also luelptul, THE EVENING WORLD, THURSDAY, ‘FEBRUARY 23, a i ANY CAST GFF W PEOPLE IN THE WORLD AFTER A HRs DESTYLE HAVE You INTER CLOTHES FOR A Poor THERE ARE SONE Good iw) ——__ PUT ITON AND GIET WARN Copyright, 1922, (New York Evening World) by Press Pub. C ( TTHINE | HAVE THE VERY THING FoR HER ERE MRS SENT r aos You 2G ~( IS A GOWN De; STYLE 1922, HER HUSBAND EEN OUTOF WO \TSREEP WARN / |S A STRING ( OF BEADS See Ce Sa ALLYOU NEED Now Copyright, 192%, ND Mrs, Jarr had left her hus- A band, her home and her chil- dren, but left no one to shake a sympathetic head and say “I told you so, I knew she'd find out that man some day!"’ The fact 1s Mrs. Jarr had gone to Atlantic City as the cherished guest of her opulent friend, the wife of Mr. Jarr's employer, Clara Mudridge- Smith, And Mrs. Jarr, amfd the pleas- ures of Atlantic City and winter sun- shine on the boardwalk, had not for- gotten home or husband, for Mr. Jarr had been awakened at midnight to recelye a special delivery letter, which, after many gratifying prelim- fnary endearments for himself and the children and u page of instruc- tions as regards medicine, warm clothing and other safeguards of the health and well-being of the little Jarrs, contained two pages of in- volved directions, wherein Mrs. Jarr requested her husband to have Mrs, Rangle come over and select articles of apparel from Mrs. Jarr’s ward- robe; and then {t took Mrs. Jarr two more pages of her letter to explain the varlous places where Mrs, Jarr had thought she had hidden the key, of the bureau drawer, in which was the key of her wardrobe. “I don’t want you to touch a thing nor to try to pack up anythin Mrs, Jarr had further written. ‘You get everything all mussed up, and your !dea of packing clothes ts to roll them up. Mrs. Rangle is the nostest thing but she can pack beautifull Maybe she was a lady's maid at one time? Don't let her go through all my things, but the clothes that are hanging in my closet will do her good to see, and if she wants to open the large pastebourd box on the shelf in my closet let her do so, It is summer lingerie which T bought at a bargain last fall. [ don't want but it will make Mrs ine to see all the nice things I have, At lowst she will think them tine for the poor dear iin 3 my, ure &rand simply than she has.'’ Early telephoned to Mr in the The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell 2, (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. because I morning Rangle # cy Ey i st be By Betty Vincent ~ Copyright. 1922, EAR MISS VINCENT: 1 am a girl of seventeen “D and have been going about with a fellow two years my when he thinks call at my home. it me. impo} «New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. ible to 1am doing th to accommodate him but it wor- Both our fam pc eT ett a9 a5] HTH HT HT IH SM RT DP i Courtship and Marriage 8 are How Do You Run Your Home? The “One-Piece” Meal By Mrs. Christine Frederick. Household Efficiency Expert—Author of “Household Engineering.” Copyright, 1922, (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. } HAT ts the Ame n national dish? If, for example, a Frenchman were to ask you what It was, what would you say? Surely, not most dyed-in-the-wool Bostonian would tell him our na- tional dish was baked beans, would he? Is it pie? Is it griddle cakes? Is it turkey or chicken a la? Who shall say? even the It seems to bo typical of our average menu that Wo serve a Jarge roast of beef, or other chunk of meut, separate potatoes, separate veretables, separate i gravy, and, of course, a separate dessert. In other words, the common meal of our American family table consists of five or six foods, cooked, served and eaten separately. Yet, strangely enough, the national dish of practleally every other country is what I call a “one- m the them pire al. ‘There 1s goulash, there's chop suey, there are currles of India, the pot-au-feu of France—all of consist of only a very little meat, a large CHRSTING FREDERCK quantity of starch or vegetable, and gravy—all cooked, | served and eaten from the a same dish. marked ad- is place, they pfec asta Now, such dishes offer In tho first We this method of cooking retains the nd blends them—meat, cereal vegetable all together, Second, such a method of cooking retains the valu- able mineral salts and most im- portant qualities of each food. Ci trast, for example, a French ragout (a stew by uny other name does taste flavor of its least once a week and fuel, time and dishes. You can originate more dishes of this Kind, new recipes for meat and vege- tables cooked and served together, If you want to make money and don't know how start a shop serving corned beef and cabbage, or chicken with rice, | Southern style, as a spectalty—it you | make it right! Help revive the good old-time American dishes at their best and let your frying pan have a vaca- tion. | What do you think is the American national dish? | save money, vantag or tate: good ise one yors, and more sweet!) with the carrots, onions, &¢., mingled with | c d the meat, to the aver- sae cooked. “ello” potato, bothd Tha okt Wann arrot, or other vegetable if cooked ‘Th ht W cogs we oan a Thought Waves: a “drained.’" eo fal preset Ameen sits, in uy 0 Sele Dudley. opinion, is the habit of throwing away & a MIDDLE NAMES. One balmy summer evening He asked her for her hand; She Dlushed a rosy reddish, Just blushed to beat the band. “Who are you, please?” she mur- mured, “John Brown,” the answer came. Alas! She could not wed him— He had no middle name. —M. Muddlesworth Botts (1842-78) the water in whioh are cooked—the sink does not need min- eral salts but the teeth’ of your children dot A third benefit (not to be over- looked by the mistress-matd) is the suving in the number of utensils needed to cook the “one-piece meal, Instead of four or five saucepots, a separate roasting pan, and many sep- urate serving dishes, we need but one or two pots at the most, or prefera- bly a covered casserole, which will enhance the flavor and assure both meat and vegetables to be perfectly cooked. “But don't you stand up for Amer- vegetables IDDLE names supposed to lend marks of distinction. Frequently make small boys marks for black eyes. Youth named John H. Potts gets job in bologna factory. fean cooking?” one of my readers i. . asks. Yes, Indeed, if it's the old. Marries boss's daughter; becomes J. time cooking whe patience and bs : Father-in-law's suspicions confirmed; opinion vindicated. Society hotbed of middle names and looks it, Miss Barber weds Mr. Butler; name first boy J. Barber Butler, Both families distinguished. Coat of arms razor on silver salver. Barber in corner shop Archibald de Belleville. Newspapers to blame for display of many middle names. watchfulness were us any other ingredient. heat the genuine beaten biscuits boiled dinner New England the country over come to belleve important as No dishes can chicken and rice and of the South; the and the brown bread of But to-day, as [ travel and across, [I have that our national em- biem is not the flag, is not the eagle on our coins, no, alas! the national emblem is the frying pan! Thousands of women to-day never think of their dinner till about 5 In the evening. Then they hastily ex- ,, claim: ‘Good gracious, what shall 1 COPY boys Pug Jones, writes up have for dinner to-night!’ Then they _ School basketball game. Becomes Ellsworth Ballington Jones. President Harding's middle name Gamaleil. Call him Gamatleil and he'll sic Laddy Boy on you. rush out to buy a steak, “open a can of something,’ throw a few potatoes into a pot and top off the meal with some store pastry, Their entire cook- ing could be translated musically, the steak heats in the skillet, “Sizz’ as lady gave her husband such a scant well acquainted, so do you think — smyuz ‘Spirt-apirt''—''Siz-z-z-2" Washington invented U. 8. without breakfast and such imperative ord senior. 1 have known him since this might cause any gossip? | suppers ready. ald of middle name, to hasten on his way to work thoi | was a child and we got along feel that | can trust th As against this type of hurriedly Parents didn't want to crowd hearts Mr. Rangle protested that, in splendidly ‘together, but lately although he has told me one fale prepared, inadequate meal I offer the of countrymen, eagerness to be a slavey for the Jar ¢ hood. 1 earnestly appre- + . ik done haere es : he ha been very. caldi and (ndit- y ‘one-piece’? meal as a happy solution. Middle name and high silk hat in she was giving him what he des ciate your help. ML. Like the one-piece dress which 18 variably fatal in Rawlins, Wyo. nated as “the bum's rush."" ferent. | cannot understand this chievi: reater popularity year after . 33 i I think a girl always makes a mis- achleving &) DDSI E CE eek Smiths, Jones, Cohens need middle Mrs. Rangle arrived at the Jarr as we seemed to be such good take in golhe to a man’s office, Elven year, the “one-plece'' meal is easy to "Damen to unscramble ‘em, apartment accompanied by Master friends. Please advise me what sensible wives refrain from this. If brepare, 1s most wholesome and least “ ‘ohen’* Johnny Rangle, little Mary Rang 4 Chen vi expensive. Don't tell me that your Yell “Abe Cohen’ on Bronx subway, to do as | can’t bear to give him = the man § very much about you €XP dest the Rangle babe and suckling, and old seats he can certainly snatch a few min- husband won't eat stews and doesn't xpress at rush hour, Mrs, Dusenbery as chaperon. up. SINCERE. utes during the week-end or one eve- like left-overs! If vo, Mrs, House- Vibration of response apt to wreck “Mrs. Jarr will want her sport When young people have known ning a week to see you at your home. keeper, M 8 bacause you do Bot Hrs, train, skirt, her brogues with the comm ao othe air Live: Is Bee! i ; rare and cook them right Joesn't Prince of Wales has nine middle sense heels, and these new yur eee Pal ae Byes thine ee ea Mite Vincents Blase let your husband—and mine—just haunt names, stockings," said Mrs. Range, indifference sometimes springs up be- me know the quickest and sim- ¢noge iittle basement restaurants where 5 seemed to find the keys by tween them. Sometimes ft !s the it way of getting married. ite are to be found “‘one-piece’’ meals of Eira area apcretariey iP keep ‘em sight and to go to the heart of tines man, sometimes the girl Perhaps iy If are both foreign descent, most well cooked and P s with an uncanny presctenc vou Ned cual lather deo frequsntty lew Thought in religion. 7 appetizing? Thousands of men eat All royal persons have large eolec- would haye made Sherlock Holm s we A. R. one-piece meals and dishes of this tions. turn green with envy Ivy to get up some new stunts, dif Get your marriage license at the type for thelr noon luncheon because Marble Cutters’ Union arranged ft in “I wonder why she went off in ferent places to go, games to play, Muntcipal Building und you may be they taste good. You, too, can treat year 1455, such a hurry; she forgot walks to take, or ‘something which married there immediately. your family to a one-piece meal At xtogng moro work on tombstones. evening dress!" Mrs. Fangle t on. “She'll want this beaded & ette evening dress for the black velvet to play the sport skirt and boardwalk, and the tan gloves," dancin. bridg Jacket { “Is there anything she'll that big pasteboard box on t in the close’ he letter by had Rangle her gone in th “Oh tf only tha rememl charge envy w ropl some She here “Well, 1 Jarre thing want to ig tha roont send the And she inquit abou some t h M knew in vered t ed him on, at need: led Mrs. summ: ad she Rangle, “the Jarr 2 Servant ow at od t bat sent te thin dary at to th n't Th er ade di in i n spectal delivery fot a good look, sked Mr. ni Jarr, her sur linger won't need old Mre nk all them s unmoral D Didn't was uid pastebourd box will Interest both of you M weeks Vincent: About ‘ two ago | a very charming young woman who was a rélative of mine, “Dear met working for As | became acquainted with her t I fell deeply in She seemed to care for Then a young man friend of hers, who unattractive but Copyright, 1922 love. also me. very swell ! seo he had misinformed her about She became cool and | have ' talker, came along and could with a “safe” noted a marked change in her It must be 50 nice to be sould | call again or give her up Vy See tle thing take him A ABE: frase: <fite When a man con! an is cool, ¥ letter “he fs never quite oly vwee Bit she note of simpk oH tl ; Those chicken re t nythins any belong to the Cochin-? So piuiend share Even if a man fal! ne boll year after he mi ; RAITT hoe Bonus buck-pa | have had the inandanne mestle Rtrategy 0} professional man, but due- elther cf whom war ing last six months we have Women are vi ime up cecasionally v@ wader twenty love mest Kim) al hla ofloe One divorce de (Now York Event The worst drawbick to marrying for money is that it’s usually so perfectly obvious you COULDN'T have NVESTING love 1s like investing money. man and you draw small but sure returns in affection, and receive 50 per cent. until {t stops altogether and you find you've thrown away your principal. You choose a “wildcat” eriousl: rind } his @ man: turns him down he !3 wondering what he ever did to make the emotional “past,” inking It over ¢ uon or of contempt, “Maxims of a Modern Maid By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Middle name often direct result of ancestor's hard work. John D. Piker labors hard all Ife; saves fortune. Dies and son, J. Delancey Piker, spells it that way and gets dough. Grave for old man; gravy for J. De lancey. Never knew a J. Middlename Any- body to get anywhere on his own, Thinking too much about wrist-watc! styles and pink teas, ather or grandfather primary, cause; too good « blacksmith. Bet you don't know John D. Rocke- feller's middle name, Neither do T. Actors never use middle names. Jutce for electric signs costs much, Don't worry about safety of country. Middle-namephobla will never hurt it. World) by Preas Publishirig Co. married for anything else! You place your heart's capital passionate interest— in less than a month after a girl . “Is that all?” r she sounded woman say too | ‘d, wheth and the terwar wear overshoes with the fur on the outside must ; J. Skeppington Bartholomae runs for | 4 breed, : , Congress. | love with wrong girl he always knows it— Gampaizns in $7,000 with . name and liveried chauffeur, i has become almost as much involved as the do- Opponent Jim Bangs uses mule and | f ur both of whom want a new car, old spring wagon. i onus of deciding to buy i Jim wins. | +; Violet, but no woman, bali, “How'd you do (tt? asks J. Skep . hi the. topd faith coun pington Bartholomae arries with the fond faith that some youngster iu Arcee “My name beat yours; my mule beat b heraslf:alens your auto,” Buys Jim anothor—anidl frequently Bofs Mi fo 4 ~ c ‘