The evening world. Newspaper, August 13, 1912, Page 3

\ THE EVENING WORLD, TUESDAY, AUGUST 13 New York Johnnies Told to Take Heart CHOOSING A WIFE And Discouraged Girls to Cheer Up} WIIH A BIG CLUB Neither Does Beating Her|WOMAN WANTS THE STRENGTH THAT WILL PROTECT HER. | When You're Jealous, Says | “The sort of strength a woman wants in Probation Officer. « doy, who pulle the legs of and howls under his mother's explosions and bursts of flames in Lae avenue between Middieton and Lorimer — str Rrookiyn, just a Mitte after dawn to-day. The racket waked everv> body on the avenue and many in te side streets. The sidewalks were fm @& moment full of men, women and effil« dren In their nighicloties, Aftor they had watched the gas flames fies cas. FLATBUSH GUS DRINK TO MU, ASSERTS PEST Father T. A. Hickey Declares He Sees Females of Tender Years in Saloons, i “There is a type of woman who will put up with a brutal husband, but she | in usually some any, ahiftiess creature | who would rather stand a few blows | now and then than attempt to earn her own living. Her body auffers but not her sowl So she forgets the beating tho brufses heal, Just as one tight do, &@ Woman of any spirit, any fineness of mental perception, every blow in an Which roared out of the conduits Surs themselves out, the frightened speople Were persuaded by the police reserves! | to Ko back to bed. The covers were teft off while a big squad of workmen went jat the Job of finding the leak by whith the gas got Into the electric condutt, Copyright, 1912, by The Press Publishing Co, (The New York World.) her husband is that which will protect hor, not assault her. Sho likes to feel, | down tn her heart, that her ‘man’ will fight others for her sake, if need be, but not that he will ‘urn and rend her. If she loves him, #he wants to idealize him, to belleve him braver, kinder, winer than any other man, or than her- self. But she doesn’t want to believe him a bigger brute than the rest of mankind. “It is true that women have wonder- fully forgiving dispositions, Case after case comes to this court, in which we ask the complaining wife if she wants her hueband sent to jail and she an- awers fo!’ Even when a man has eon gent to the Island for just cause, his wife Ie apt to for remittance of entence before the time Is up, “But in many of these instances the MERE BOYS GET DRUNK. He Inspects Road Houses and Reprimands Girls for Imbibing. AND DO NOT KILL HER, Matrimonial Rules of a Chi- cago Man Resented by Letitia Taylor. | Most everybody’s doing it! Whal? Going to the Opttie cal House of iM. H. Harris for their Eyeglasses, Mi Wiehivatle attraction is perfect fitting glasses—expert Service—accitecy-and, most (7) Riquor, ana the tect inet our } Girls and boys imbibe too Of 1%, are the causes of nine- All hat! to the hammer and tongs method of wooing’ Banaa! to the hair- pulling cave-mant Hickey has been preaching against the frequent use of liquor for the last three Sundays, and has even gone #0 far as to make a personal inspection of many of the road houses within the bounds of his parish. He has repri- manded several girls, begging their mothers to be more strict with the ebiidren. BLAMES THE MOTHERS FOR LACK OF VIGILANCE. “Mothers know too little of their aughters' whereabouts. From the time a girl becomes old enough to earn her own living she desregards her mother’s opinions and paddies her own canoe. . “T consider it a curse for any girl to earn her own living. Every girl her feminine charms on@e she is made to battle with the world. The continual journeying to and from work is what places fnany of our young girls in hospitals, A girl's place !s home, and she should be forced to remain at home. God made women to be the maker of the home and to have ohild- SimPuicery «S FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN RICHNESS” “I Have Never Had Cause to Think New York Men >. — Ten wen “THEY ARE * A BUSINESS MAN* FoR "THE GOOD FELLOW WHO DRINKS EVERY | KIND OF PAST DRINKS’ rVE NEVER BEEN INSULTED BY A NEW TORK Gewtuemar “HOPELESS” Are Other Than Gentlemen,” Writes a Stenog— “If Girls Would Select the Right Kind of Men They Wouldn’t Be Subjected to Disappointment,” Says T. A. BY NIXOLA GREELEY-SMITH. Poor, overworked old Diogenes, out with his lantern looking for an hon- est man, seems to have been a hope- ful and cheerful person compared with certain young men and women of New York who are seeking an ideal mate, but who, they all assure Se HE'S A CHEAP SIKATE Fo WE DOESNT Buy 4_*T An ROB MAN IN BOAT AND TOSS HIM INTO WATER. Thieves Seize Joseph Murray on Erin and Leave Him in Mott Haven Canal. Waugh, who is doing them all at once, with both hands and a typewriter. Dr. Waugh is Dean of the Bennett Medical College and ohlef physician of the Jefferson Park Hospital in Chicago As to whether he is a married man history remains silent, but you may draw your own conclusions, For here Are the four matrimonial maxims which he has the temerity to propound: ‘When you find your mate, take her. She awaite it. When you have her, live for her. She wants that. When she arouses your jealousy, beat her. @ moods it. If she betrays you, rill her, deserves it. simple maxims that ruled the cave Woman sits and walta che coming of her lord. She |s ready to follow when beckons, He is masterful, He woos no! Deseeches not, implores not, serves ni Ho takes his own when ho finds !t. Hi Ancestor simply caught Dr. Waugh continues cheerfully: “The | dweller govern humanity to-day., Kvery | his) woman, Salute the Sabine | husband has not been actively brutal. i of tenths of the trouble in New York. matrimonial arrangements! Or, of you| He has got drunk and refused sup- important f all, the Scone’ ‘This 1s the belief of the Rev. T. A. positively refuse to 4 5 port, or ho has earned money and Any wonder everybody's do» Hickey, pastor of St. Brendan's Roman ining, at least Tata to Dr. Wiitse ¥. | Pentcile tay fram Goma And mavbe) ing itp j hings, jaten to Dr, , Catholic Church of Flatbush. Father Pease, | the Sane te nat clone eaten the blame {s not altogether on one side. In my investigations, I have noticed that very often domestic troubles are started by the woman of the house, Sho in idle or slovenly or nay sho doesn't make allowances, She oan ntay at home tn her own house and do | her work when and how she sees fit. | Her man has to labor for a cranky ‘boss,’ under sorta of unpleasant | conditions, It's not to be expected that he'll always come home tn a per- fect temper, and his wife has altogether too little forbearance.” “And do you think a man may ‘take his own when he find It'—marry any} girl on whom he sets his fancy?’ Mra, Taylor was asked, it to-da: she smiled. “There is very little romantic giamor tn the life of the ave; je working girl, She’ business-like rather than primeval. Po: nibly her own father was a ‘cave man’ almost certainly there are some hu bands of that type among her circle of acquaintances, She knows, from shrewd observation, the life of thp | woman who marries that sort of man, for the happiness and suffering of the ‘There Poor are earentially communiati Use Tyree’s Powder To Avoid Disease jarris Glasses cost $2.00 or more, depending upon the quality of the frame you select and the kind of lenses your eyes require. G4 East 23rd St., near 27 Weat 34th St., bet. bthand 6th Aves, Ave G4 West St., onyd Lanoz A\ 442 Columbus Ave., ist and tnd Ste, 3 70 Nassau St., near John St. The need of an effective standard is ttle false reser! or failure of their domestic “The working girl user her her own judgments, and, modern approximates | would express it, resolves not to get hod the better it sults | ‘stung.’ She regards marriage primarily | 48 @ business proposition. If a man s her to bo his wife and she thinks ren. Every girl should know how to eook a dinner or wash the dishes. Her recreation should be had in company with the other members of her family. ADVOCATES LOCKING GIRLS OUT AFTER 10 P. M. *Sfothers know little and care less what is happening to thelr daughters. knocked her down if she resisted, and dragged her, none too ently, to his lair. The nearer the this type and me the woman,” CASE LAID BEFORE A WOMAN) he PROBATION OFFICER. me, have despaired long since of finding one. Now, an {deal is an illusive sort of thing at best. The sunbeam in the soap bubbles we used to blow was by comparison permanent and Joseph Murray of No. 159 East One | Hundred and Second street was tying up his motor boat Erin at a dock in the Mott Haven Canal early to-day when | three strangers leaped into the boat | and grabbed him. Harry, who Is thirty-| five years old and athletic, put up a antiseptic in household, either fer deoderising snd dieting ice or for the prevention and a all intectious or contagious diseases caused bf germs, is a well established fact; and there is nothing better or ben Ce najaae) eo ut 's = Powder. th cent will make two pela of colond aati can give her an easier time of it | than her life in the factory, she will ac- “A STENO.” GIES JOHNNY A'HALO hatred girl who has worked beside you for years becomes the beautiful princess of China. One wish on the magic carpet, little girl, and, behold! I would close the Any girl who visite to enter the house, door in her face. only about three feet deep. Murray, in No . hie | ce ee Se. Sanne A) however, was brulsed and dazed and had| time have never been insulted by Extremely beneficial in Sold by to him?" “Doss the modern woman enjoy being | “ane laws of the United Mintes and of treatment of catarrh. substantial. And the cynic’s lantern; @mich interested in the recent | *Iff fight, but was overpowered. An of which was respectfully aubmit-| $50" Uttsanivaty’ she ‘willy tetuse. nitn Tyres Powder is in ral use : ‘They seldom reprimand them A or is not a good aid in the quest. After| S*ticles on “Female Johnnies" and Aveda ini hosts ahi tia aft to Mrs, Letitia Taylor, probation | anyway, She has a very complete idea throw thout the _y has ; tn late, and think ft clever of thelr “Male Johnnies," etc, and wish to 9 oat, ol and gagged |oMcer at the Brooklyn Domestic Reln- | "independence’ and ‘what's owln yale aie wae to be able to drink « few cocktalls| NIXOhd@ GREELEYSM all, there {8 no use looking for an| a word in defense of the “Male | hint and abstracted $7.60 from his pock-| tions Court” since ita inception, and; pigits, maepemaence” an hai son ie wean ae Dues or @ glass of beer. It is my belief vet ideal when every young man or woman with an !magination is another) Johnny.” 1 have been employed as jets. Then thoy toreed him into the in @ porition to know the ‘And what do you say to Dr. Waugh’s| intently in ev) Petar no poisons, when girl returns to her home after . n, an d-] @ stenographer for the past seven | water. nd that makes @ woman happy last pronouncement that a mao Is justt- y 10 ovclock she should not be permitted | Aladdin with the wonderful lamp. One rub, young man, and a little rei in a manufacturing concern | It was low tide and the water was| or unhanny, fled in killing the wife who is untrue |#od when used as douche it is bea’ by n, pulled around by the hair and | i | i. evi roadhouses in the company of young] you dwell in a country of sweet enchantment, enthroned and garlanded| any gentleman in New York, nor chad SRTASOUSTIEE SORE 1810) Wee wataced witnithinaer It ahe transters | Seay ie beh tat poles pa iven [aba es men and sits up until all hours !mbib-| b sia6 its wonderful prince. from a young woman who has rubbed} have I ever been given cause tO 1 "1. reported the robbery to Lieut.| her affections?” Mrs. Taylor was asked. | If there were not the laws, @ woman | ington. ing liquors ts not fit to enter @ respect-| G14, persons, too blind to see by the} Aladdin's lamp the wrong way: think otherwise of them than | nagner of the Alexander avenue station! No woman with @ acintilla of personal | untrue to. her marirago vows is pu ppleacne. lamp of Aladdin, whose dull feet have} VAIN SEARCH FOR A WHOLE-| fentlemen. 1 suppose a foqd many | and dutectives were went out to round | dignity or. self pect ever endures ished much more surely by Ife than by ‘I think the young men are equally SOME MINDED MAN. - «iris will say T aman old maid, |p the rowdiee who make their hang: Her husband more than one beating from her hus-, death, hould simply let USE THE bad ag Whe! youNe efrles, by a] Rever trodden the magic carpets mae etadam: Tm a young lady | P&St hope and looking for a “catch,” | outs in the neighborhood, and,” Gemly asserted the probation | Aer (0 her own way; sho will got al. rule, think that in order to be popular | recognize the prince of enchantment as| | Poear Madam: I'm & young lady | Gna thereby. wishing 10, get AOlld Dr. Relinger of tho Lincoln Hospital) omcer, “The only exception to thia rule | that’s coming to her befare the end. Cathedral Plaza they must become Intoxicated every}. clerk in a broker's office or the book-| 7Crlv tho seats Of nie; have 10t8 | with the male generation, No, in- | dressed Murray's cuts and brutsos, Ww the case of the wife who in also | 4, Zt seems to me that if there 1s one Fon FOE OLE ence in a while. They are not ‘sood| keeper in a cloak and sult house. BUts! considered good looking and come of | deed: I am engayed and to be mar- ee mother, and who feels that for her! Virtue of self-control.” ended Mra. Tay. Beautifully furnished or unfurn sports’ {f they can’t drink. Moreover,| after all, you know best, very refined people; am @ lover of | Ted in @ few months, and before oe Coatraste TEP [onildren'a sake she inust endure any-| Jor. “More than any other ethical qual- | [ished apartments—one, two or three the girls will have nothing to do with) pe main thing when you 60 1! good music, as I myself play, and meting my “ideal,” went out with Bankruptey schedules of Shanley-|thing to keep the home together. But! ity this differentiates wa from the ani- rooms ‘and bath, overlooking the the majority of men unless the men! search of an ideal, whether of love oF] am. accomplished; have sporting | S@¥eFA! differen: fellows, and they a] Morrianay, Inc., burge canal contract-| oven aho, though aie may remain a witey Main, Tf Wwe ate to, call ourselves “nic |{ feorate 8 Morningside and Central Sr: t worldly success, 1s to take| blood in me and like to have good | Ml! treated img with respect. Av for | ora, with officer at No, 20 Broadway |in name, lon ali love and respect tor) perior to them, if our marriage ts tol] peepee “That {s precisely where most of the Roa te mest vaniae aes to reaiigel tities in a good) innocent. way? but tee entils) ac - Rheteg ele i Disa at Alsshenl avila pte wero the brutal coward who has married her. | moan something more than the triumph ; Our own restaurant In the bulld- trouble lies. When a fellow 1s seen In- the fellows don't care for that. Date FO DESY Bae toh feb vet a " with Dr. Waugh thata | . ~ | f ing, al itchenette in each - toxicated, no matter how vilely he may| that you have not failed #0 Jeng. as When you refuse to let them Kise p fast in the atreets of New York you ele tc aa ane sham nseetn of nim} oon iaeuaien beak ‘ be and Pathe Sees a Seen aba re |] ment~ where you may pene have acted while tn that state, he will| you have not given up the quest, But) Ys no | re in danger of getting overheated bel ip Bee Oe fiw ta hie pclae faverttng, to thems” np awn meals, if you like, ee recelved with open arms at the home| let's hear what some of the searchers earthly use for you, and they never deere He esl Tagea id pi a se ae oe wifebester is net : oe Set 980.00 Fee Ur Orerter of some respectable girl on the follow-| nave to say. call upon you again, Of course It's 4 5 AVidtme Fakes a wetae, strong. A man who uses physical ies! ier. ine pvening, | T sincerely wish girls! BREQUENTLY ENGAGED, BUT | understood a girl is better off witn- | Dever set had an occa of fo set INCINNATL 07 Aue iacAtiOr al yietenon am @ omai 10 iavartebly MANHOLE LIDS FLY JN AIR. CATSEBUDRAL PLAZA would insult such men when they cail L UNWED. ou: them, but what gets me Is why | Qremented by remarks passed by courtship David M. Beach, eigity-| @ coward in soul whatever his |ramittes Rush to Mt in What SP en prone at Se Ses. $e viatt them. Instead of being de- Pike tow moras to the | J0n't they appreciate a good girl? ne, by reason of my having one, a wilower of Covington, Ky., and! gusoular powers, Me never dares ‘amillen Resh <o Street in Might~ || 1 tor. from sebwey, der hemad @hted to see them, and giving them a| Dear Madam: A hurry to get away from them. Girls are treated, asa rule, just according to thelr manner, not because ‘all’ fellows in New York are not respect- able. I trust you will not think I am trying to “boom” the New York fellows, but if there is any dis- Have they no manhood about them, no self respect? A man can easily find out whether the girl he's keep- ing company with, and with whom he has good intentions, is good by call- ing at her home, speaking to her par- Miss Sarah A. Thompson, aged seventy. three, @ sister of Mis firat wife, wore 4 hore to-day. ‘The bridegroom ta ran of the civil war, warm reception, the girls should repri- mand the men for their conduct and refuse to have any further conversa- tdon with theem. If this happened to many young men onve the world would be better, Any fellow wie is once ins to hit man of his own sise; he Slinks out of the way of @ free fight, Me is Uke the ortel ttle discouraged girls, Why condemn all men and classify them as the Jonn- nies? I do not think that there le @ man who would not share his life with a loving helpmate, But there The covers of five manboles of the edison Company blew off with loud ; ents, noting her surroundings, &c. sulted by a respectable giri usually tries} re too many disappointments ai But, no; they are in for the good | TsPett shown to the girls walking best to get back inte her good| and there is always @ reason a fellow who drinks every kind of @ along in a business-like manner, and ces, 3 man does not marry, Tam thirty | fe) ini. telis off-color stories and } Ot commenting on the color of the BOYS OUGHT NOT TO HAVE| voars of axe, not married, belong t9 | Aiows the men to treat her av they | H0°%8 be aecsy hair of the “good- LATCHKEYS. many societies and have @ large ac> | choose, ine Lae tices “There should be no such thing as a quaintance. When I was about | FROM A YOUNG ences aN you will have to how me Tom (4) Ne, 0 ur younger geucration.| twentyetwo years of age I had tne | FINDS FINDING A I ane ] Radisson seat Viaabteddbe ; s knew they must ring| tentions to marry. I never looked HOPELESS. THIS GIRL DOESN'T THINK MEN — ARE ENTIRELY TO BLAME, Dear Madam: From my own point of view the men are not entirely to blame, ‘The girls who are good and dress nicely but yet in Kood taste must suffer because of the actions the bell upon thelr return home, und iy that there would be an angry parent waiting up for thom, they would make It their business to be home early, Here !n New York I have seen little girls and boys as young as twelve|” years of age with their own latchk lovely complex SHE SAYS MANY GIRLS SELECT mo THE WRONG MEN. Now, let us hear from a young wom- an wno holds some harsh opinions of \her own sex. Dear Madam: I have been stand- for the fluffy girl class, always for the plain, simple-minded girl, | having had a good education and @ good home training, One day about vix years ago I had called on @ young lady whom I had admired pantry in dust-proof germ-proor packages “ $ aside all these days reading in t . When they are out tate at night uti] much, She was employed as a book- | ins aside ail these days readite Ot of ur ungerupulous alsers This ts they need to do ts open the door, The| eeper at ® eatery of, I suppose, | Nandtemedl Ot oN cing iady mys | maT ap teal yo cae Point, pea AG aay Pe Ma dad they! about $10 a week, her parents veing | Ji’ y observa that the letters of the | many male friends who would never “{ urge mothers to insist upon tne} of very ordinary standing; but when- men are more honest than those of think of saving anything that was children handing over thelr pay en-| ever I called, witnessing her make--| the jadies whose serpent tongues | not entirely proper Velopes every week unbroken, This up and overdressing, I could not, some of them—run riot. The young Tt Is absurd for a girl to say she illy idea of paying two or three Aol-| unger any circumstances, see my Way | iri who claims thai for theatres, | can't moet a nice fellow. Perhape He cutee tana’ Ienty Of foods Ia nat | business allowed me then to draw | turns are expected must have only a she does, she will be disappointed, ia breaking up most of our Homes tae] 91,000 yearly. IT have had the same | certain class of gentlemen (7) friends, Iam a stenographer myself, and al. day. There 13 no more home life. Ev-| exper on other occasions, and | Would this same young lady or | though I have to be pollte to the ery house is a boarding house, with! decided to become engaged to a poor | others of her stamp allow herself to | young men in the office, I wouldn't the mother turned into a boarding- But there | be entertulned by a plain young man girl of very poor parents. allow one of them to accompany me house mistress, No wonder a mother again ignorance, lack of manners | who does noc or cannut buy dinners, | to the train—my boss included. One f has no Jurisdiction over her children.| Os queation caused me to break | flowers, &., but who would enter- | of the young men in the office Is } May out unt! ail hours of the nignt| our engagement, Notwithstanding | tain ner most amlably with is | frank enougi to state that he hae } and always have plenty of money to] this sad experience, I again became phatieally no! ‘That | more respect for dogs than tor A Stron Week ‘ spend on drink, Is there any wondor| engaged about a year ago, and, un- atte best it Rabe He LL LA ME L £ { why our young men hate to get mar-| fortunately, had to break it for the heap skate, he PN Ne gen a ir's Pe nn Sig bata eeneriateN emma mn re | ried, and why our young girls refuse] game or similar reasons, So here T | ladies hide too much behind their | What a good 4irlis company ts. For for World Ads. Monee and rerpecied ‘autherite cinee| amuneve tried falled'and em willing | sex; “that is they attack men bit | ie company of @ Kom, clean boy ~ money and respected authority more! ty try again—but I do not know what terly and then dare them to strike Don't get discouraged, sisters: Just . B “vg pf Ay Me Mae ining ia ihe kind of a girl hyd ene I suppose bask sy HEBER sah ae a bale Ipok the Fight kind and you wil A new product (29 Sugar granulated fine enough to take the place of Last Week There Were Printed: ' pare er, more serious, intelllge! ee eeear ye mi b Bee iced aceakiinc to methane fore OF Te era “very man | honest friends atnong men than | AN ENTIRELY SATISFIED GIRL. powdered sugar yet perfectly adapted for all cooking purposes. 13,742 World “Help Wanted” and he a Bad among women, A woman's best and truest friend ta man: her worst enemy will be found in her own sex. Why do these girls seek and often run after m Why are they eager to marry them? Why do thelr moth- era go husband hunting ail the while should marry his equal. Unless a». man and woman are equal there can- not be any happiness. But if the xirls of to-day would only try to look for thelr equals, not endeavor to attract millionaires, there would about the necessity of guarding thelr daughters, I have seen many girl from this parish visiting road houses, and I have repitmanded them severely. ‘The crisis has come. Liquor tm tke cause of nine-tenths of the trouble in the home, and unless its use is for- “Situation Wanted" Ads 5.651 More Than the Herald, 4,819 World “To Let” Ads.— 3,000 More Than the Merwld, 1,681 World “Real Estate” Ads— Refined by the makers of the famous “DOMINO” Cup Sugars G2) Un- touched by hand £2) all done by machinery GZ) Sugar not as pure costa as much, IN GERM-PROOF PACKAGES ONLY 7 THE BEST OF EVERYTHING 16 NOT FOR THE ORDINARY MAN—BUT “ the best beer brewed” — ! ———ee + : | 452 More Than the Herald, bidden we can never hope for any bet-| be many, many leas disappoint- o . | ts yours if next lime you ask by name for | fpr rowel. mani SHriR, token. oy savige! Da | At OL Dee Ore Or ee voworthy ww || MOERLEIN'S No flies—no dust 2,204 World “Summer Resort” Adg— aes a away with your artificial “makeup; ere are wor n@ uns ' Oe ce Killed by Third-Ratl Shock, be simple—simplictty in a woman is | both sexes; the unwortay female, , Sold by grocers in 2 Ib., 344 Ib. and 5 Ib. 4 p38 Patrick Donovan, forty, of No, 213) far more attractive than riches. Do tho aahy aby far worse than the un- a arossa wor! ; East One Hundred and Second street, was instantly killed late yesterday gfternoon by an electric shock when an fron bar, with which he was removing irt that had collected in the trolley alot between the westbound street raii« T. AY WHY, NEW YORK JOHNNIES ARE THE NICEST EVER. | I close to-day's discussion with two letters which are more hopeful though Sealed Packages (2) Guaranteed Weight THE AMERICAN SUGAR REFINING COMPANY Address—New York City not try to attract some millionaire, as they are not your equal. Follow the footsteps of your mothers and grandmothe nd I assure you there will be very few bachelors ar eld maids to complain about them 1,093 Work “Business Opportunity” Ads.— 708 More Thaa the Herald. And this was no exception to the general rule, as The World leads the Than the Best Made On sale at most bare and cafes , its nearest and ONL’ way tracks in front perhaps less true to the average girl's! pe Dealer, ae. by ‘bout the same rt in contac PO Fr ith te M pata ae | Bryant (New York City vin week after week, an sow i} ol enother ar adem: ve beep very . / \