The evening world. Newspaper, September 18, 1903, Page 13

Ey ee ee ee ee ee eee w EVENING .«£ WORLD'S » HOME .2 MAG AZINE oe 'o Men Marry the Wrong Women? | & Bachelors and Married Men Are Invited by Mrs. Ayer to Answer This Interesting Bich FRIDAY EVENING, SEPTEMBER 18, 1903, a Prizes Will Be Given for the Best Answers. Ccurage to meet adversity and ability to help if sne/all things on their bright side, Man seeks in woman} reasonably govern her capnices, for little does she, brilliant things are to be sail (such, ladies, ts 1 sound common sense, tact and a good temper, ‘EH Evening World offers these three prizes: must, & helpmate to share both his sorrows and joys, If] know what a furnace sho is bullding through them. | selft s) he wants to say them, If he wishes) who wWant# more than this combination a) "10 for the best description of the ideal ww Cominon sense in general, a knowledge of household n wishes to retain her sway over mankind—| She must not decoive or teli him an untruth, or sooner| music he goes ty a concert. Men who must ba watt for the next world and try his luck weitten by an unmarried or married man; $10 affairs, not an unnatural wish—she must learn that the only|or later she may lose his respect. And, lastly, (ie In the mean time his life could be! most important of all, she should consider him her in qu lifying himself for a residenagy for the best letter from a married man telling how [4 physique to endure the burden of marital cates. iu ‘and why he selected the wrong woman for a wife; || Egucated to a degree, diplomatic all the ume, superior, for reasons heretofore said. A good matri- where angels dwell. Gnd $10 for the best letter from @ bachelor explain- J) Pride in personal appearance and an interest in man- monial watchwort would be, “To put up with.” This IRVING WARD, dng lucidly why men expect their wives and alsters kind. ‘ little phrase ts the key to success. Above < H ‘to be paragons of all the graces and Maaeere aie In the possessor of these qualities, behold she sdea!) H. WIEDL, No. 1356 Madison avenue. ove All a Good Mite Be w i yet take sweethearts and wives who fall utterly to wife! Must Be Womanly. ome up to this exalted standard. Bhe ty the greatest heritage a man can wish for ta The Wife Must Never Dear Mrv. Ayers tgs ‘The contest will close Thursday, Sept. %, and this Ife. “Call the Husband Down: HB {deal wife ts one who returns the love of IT F B | cgay intellectual Man DES NOt Gafel'to: Marryvan|t Animated Book.” twenty-f just womanly, tled the complextty of ions unless thelr love is m to each other's faults, med for unhappy mare se they so often fail to! , and shows of love that wome! y receive return a hundrad| Dear Mra. Ayer: © a man seeking an {deal wife I would recom- mond him to find one whom the truly loves and overlook little faults, and when he ts a i fs certain she truly loves him; one who will | by Dusiness diMoulties and seems out of sorts will nor priges will be awarded Saturday, Sept. %. Letters positively must not contain over i0 words and must be written on one side of the paper only. ‘hey should be addressed “Harriet [Bteadas ‘nat'iliyou oa, ohe'te w jewel of real price, ‘And sure to make your Hfe and home a perfect paradise, A JOLLY BACHELOR. Must Sincerely Endeavor to Please Hubby. annoyed ‘Hubbard Uyer, Evening World, Pulltzer Building, ‘New York “ity.” “The One That Has Learned to Take All Things on Their Bright Side.” Dear Mrs,” Ayer: HAT woman endowed with the commendable trait with a rough world half the Announcement to Maids, T OE eaten Pekee, WhO emlestore maces is] Way to preserve the Uunfolgned respect of the oppe- Deeb trea CaM aslaeae akc ex eaN Raa canaureas | hotown evidences G7iaiaae fe please her husband in every reasonaile way, who! *!te sex ts by letting them se at home. They do not care for Intellectual con } feoth er find her faithless Matrons and Widows. Jether their attention or ad: n. The independent forahip, ff they must lose the finer qualities thht| os Ind! rai law the ‘head of Will gladly share his sorrows and his joys, sxmpathize ‘The Bvening Wortd has de} with his idiosyncrasies and whims, knows no other| Woman. the one that stows that the capture of a | make up @ perfect woman, ERNEST NAL 1 | rules with dignity and love! t deal of space dur- man ts not her only aim tn ite & Os ee meet if No. 191 Lenox road, Brooklyn, = | ¢ an ideal #16 sthee ARE t ught fol UIs: ALPERT. . ow) foruiieae We oe nipgipaibe She Must Be Economical, WIDOWER, A Poet Lover Tells His Thoughts in Rhymes views, the plaints, the encomlums and the dissection of woman by the men wh> are interested in Husband Should Command, and the Wife Obey: Tidy and Truthful. Year Mra, Aver: the solution cf the problems set Dear Mrs. Ayer: O get a good wife, I believe, a man should) Dear Mra, Ayer: forth In the prizo questions which Gq: made man, women tollowes: epaaru say; ia T use his common sense—that ts, If he has any; | Y weal ts ry they have attempted to elucidate 1s natural for him to lead. Law, religion and} (y 4 a visit her home, see if she can keep house, M Vive foot six would be and have vometimes fairly sue common-sens9 allke require that husband shail] “One Who Will Overlook Little Faults and Not Make) axe or mend her clothes, if tidy and clean, econom- light orown alr eua wide egee Sella ceeded from various points of command and wife obey. A wife 1s the greatest Joy i . 5 wn. foal, truthful. It you can find these qualities in a| lookiierat ones view, and the greatest danger in a man’s :ife. In her place,| make matters worse by “calling him down;" one wbo| gis with her true love I am sure both can and will] danas rach areliatdh saturday, Gept. 29, the clever man who has suc- | ghe ta an angel, she gives him comiprt ond noriheart-| wil stand by him even if he loses every cent; and | te neppy. WILLIAM E. BROWN, that's all her own. ceeded In telling us what qualities the {Meal wife must felt sympathy when the occasion arises. Let her,| lastly, one who thoroughly understands nousskeop No. 18 Coenties slip, New York City. Oo]; Ei GoNbARO ae aI possess and the gentlemen who have most intel gently responded to the two other questions are to receive their rewards, Their names are to be en- grossed on the scroll of distinction and their pocket- books are to be improved in cond tion to the extent of $10 to each of the three fortunate winners. Then we will take a turn at the same questions @recting women toward the other sex. Why do wom- en marry the wrong man? What attributes In man make the ideal husband? And one or ‘wo cther queries along the same linea. I expect great and wise and brilliant things from my own sex. So, women of The Bvening World, get ready, sharpen up your pens‘and your wits! We have @ chance but rarely to speak the word; don't let us lose this coming golien opportunity! a HARRIET HUBBARD AYER. The Ideal Wife Must Be All Here Enumerated. Dear Mrs. Ayer: BOVE al a Christian, pure in heart, eoul and mind, A A sunny disposition and by nature true and kind. Love that ts undivided, complete confidence and trust, Compleion Has Its Effect on Longevity, Experts Can Tell by the Color ot Your Hair and EyesHow Long You Will Live, Cd Od a rd HETHDR you are blonde or bru- W nette may affect your ghances of success in life, This 1s the assertion of Havelock Tlis, the English anthropologist, who has in- vestigated all the differences of temper ment and qualities of mind aa existing at the present day between blondes and brunettes, and placed them in their réla- tive positions. ‘The fair ere dogs of war, Mr. Dilis ‘ays, full of grit and energy, tenacious, and absolute in thelr meanings and wants, and they never give in tit they are compelled to, and then only by rea- ®on' of @ collection of forces which, on eocount of their mumbera, are strong enough to beat them back. But the fair are only beaten for the time being. ‘They renew the fight again with greater vigor than before, and with o greater determination to win back again thelr former position. Such is the etory of the men-who have made themselves—Lord Strathcona, Can nogie, Lipton, Morgan, Cassel, Kitoh- ener, Wolseley and many othera who, ‘to speak in the language of the cards, @re “‘hearte’—that is, fair; elther fuir of hair or complexion. From his observations Mr. Ellis proves That the fair are people of action, pre- ferring deeds te words; but they are, asa rule, less academ!o and less phil- osophic than brunettes. In opposition to the alertness, the wideawakeness, the impulsiveness, and the pluckiness of the fair, the dark are elower of action, are tremendously deep thinkers, are extremely obstinate and harg to be convinced that they are wrong, even| when reatly they are eo, ‘The dark haired are not particularly clever at invention, are seldom geniuses, are in- frequently wideawake, are the reverse of impulsive, and are not nearly as courageous as their fair btothers and] matists to fair ones. In diplomacy the dark outshine the fair. And the samé/and Burke, Russell and Palmerston, But just as Napoleon always chose|remark applies equally ¢o statesman-| Bright and Cobden, and Peel of other sisters, @ man with a long nose for any serious] ship. or Important missfon he wanted car-| Gladstone, ried out, so do modern monaxchs, it}again in the language would stem, prefer dark-haired diplo-lthat te to say, he was dark; #0, too, “She Endeavors Sincerely to Please Her Husband in Every Reasonable Way.” law but true love and companionsitp, lives econom!- cally and yét sensibly, yearns for her home above all wearnings, who oan cook plain and sensible meals. A woman thus endowed !s my teal of a wife, and such I am happy to etate I possess !n my wife. BENEDICT. She Must Look Ever on the Bright Side. Dear Mra, Ayert AB day's are gone when a beautiful face, couquettish figure or stylish frock was all that man sought in woman. The man of to- ny chooses the woman that possesses @ tfe-lasting quality such as grace, talent or gift of mind. There are women whose outward appearance is not at all impressive, yet men ere charmed tn thelr presence. Tt ts because they cultiveted a cheerful spirit. How ‘the heart leaps up to meet a sunshiny face, a merry tongue and an even tempen The woman most ad- mired by man 1s the one that has learned to take however, hold the reins and consider perior, and she can be the very devil She should endeavor to meet her husband half way, because harmony is necessary for her own happiness. She should not mask her love, for !f he ts contented sho will have no difficulty holding it. to be pleasant and never irritable; dtpiomacy is the motto of many successful housewives. She shoulg man does not care to marry an animated book. If herself his su- ‘The ideal wife must learn to have complete control of her temper. “The Ideal Wife Must Learn to Have URED Con- trol of Her Temper.” She should try days. They were all dark. for instance, was ‘“cluba"— of the cards— to @ genius statesman, livii The Home Dressmaker. By Mme. Judice. bse. 4 = Smee 4 who wes fain, Ng NZ were Beaconsfield, Bismarck, Chatham Woujd come hand for any one to point A aA ’ ‘The German Dmperor ister. ‘Wheth- or he may be reckoned as an astute pol- fticlan is an open question, but as & fighting man he may be reckoned with. Versatility is one of the dirthrights of the genus Fair. ‘The fair may be sald to belong to the oreaking door drigade—that {5 to aay, they are full of little atkments—but sel- @om ere victims of any virulent diseaso, Inquiries made at a hospital revealed that quite two-thirds of the in-patients Were of the dark species of humanity, while the majority of cases ocourring Indeed, it ing or dead, pss If you wish advicec on- cerning new gowns or the making-over of old ones, if you wish advice concerning home dress- making, write to “Mme. Judice, Evening World, Pulitzer Building, New York City,” and she will give it to you in this column. Pink Nun’s Veiling. Judice: h earty fourteen yards of rose pink nun’s velling whieh I would like 0 make into an evening dress thet will not require much extra trimming. Are ruffles fashionable now? If not, how can I trim {t up prettily and cheaply, Please make a sketch, as I must mak it mvyself, I want it low in the neck, but with a yoke extra, AMATEUR DRIDBSMAIER, Your fourteen yards of rose pink nun's yelling can be used to splendid advantage and quite inexpensively in‘ this design. It {s cut from the two- piece circular skirt and plain blouse) waist pattern, fastened in the back, Bins folds of the material from one to two Inches are laid on the entire gown, like itho cut, headed by a narrow white | DESIGNED FOR “AMATEUR _ DRESSMAKER.” lace “beading.” run with black vel avy ribbon, The decollete louse 18 pack wand front in rosettes. A whito tled over thop shoulders with several jace yoke olther plain ar renrin and ont Jeans. of the vlack velvet ribbon ending with pleck BL rippon thay be made to wear separately, A girdle of velvet with long sash ends gives a pretty Anteh. This mode of trimming ts quite effective und ark one of the most tnex- Denslve, as the lace behding costs only 2 cents a yard. gnd. velvet ribbon 25 cents a bolt of teh vards, 'To Lengthen a Skirt. Dear Mme. Judice: T would like to make « royal blue fix ured cloth skirt longer, I also have « black jacket. It has the old-fashioned leg-of-mutton sleeve and big collar. aR Match your blue cloth in same whade of mote! dotted velvetine and add a hip yoke and a 4inch Dias band at foot of the skirt, finishing the lowe: edge with solf colored skirt braid. A heavy corded black silk 1s a good ma- terla use in your Jacket for now cape collar and deep cuffs, Rip out the leg of mutton’? sleeves and recut, re- versing the ‘fulness to the lower part, making the shoulder part plain and Ught-ftting. Fanoy make a pretty addition down the front. Ball Gown for a Girl. Dear Mme. Judice: Kindly describe a ball gown for a wirl of fourceen years of dark complex- jon, rather stout P. K. FF. Diack bode buttons | 2 White Swiss or organdie combined with Ince and dainty ribbons will make a girlish party drevs. Make the skirt five with two or three deep with tucks and lace, juss Wa'st with a Lucker ‘ofbow yoo and Ahytshind * fd tucked te Rink ute oF del low wash fn ribbons die best tur desk somplexlong, re in the accident wards were those of the fair type. ‘The fait restet disease better than the dark, because their vitality is greater, More dark persons succumb to disease than fair, The dark have stronger oon- stitutions than the fair, hat Shey, can- not t iness, Tghtess ine orp ae jot born But cite hey are not able to cope and beat eciNo diseases that flesh ay teat to thi ey rarely complain of muftermg trom we tantalising 1 iitnenses ‘that {clan has made 100 as ti basis of his calculations, He has m that his unit, been fairly coi puted that there are as yy fair por- Hons born ae dar, and the table serves the purpose of showing which of the ypes have succeeded in life, “That unit of 100 te the index ot color, and from the following table may bé fathered the “fon of blondes and runettes, and thetr relative position in each sphere: BLONDES. Folitioal reformers and agitators. ets. Created peers and thelr sons, BRUNETTES. Gtatenman hf Hereditary aristocracy Divines Geniuses of low birth, Explorers ua beauties . tors and actresses ... stroy, and people are ft pnd that ing, even if she has none to do herself. the above directions I believe he will alwa a happy home and a loving wife. JOHN J. WILLIAMS, She Must Accept Any Old Fate Cheerfully. Dear Mrs. Ayer: HE qualities tn woman which make hi dime are lack of vanity, spect for herself and husband, shining light in any home. would She Must Make Hubby'’s Life as Cushiony as cur. Dear Mrs, Ayer: RS, W. M married Ute of the Grand Old Man —the Grand Old Woman, was near! especially beautiful near {ts close, which makes her ac- ceptance of the inevitable a foremost thought in her mind, her love for her home, coupled with re- E. GLADSTONE sald it was a wife’ duty ‘to make life as cushionary as possible.” ‘ine An intellectual If he follows have Dear Mra. Ayer: A 4 the result of a goc life T can confdent! well as the practic jome a para- make her a Ja, 8. Possible. and—may I ly ideal and Health, Common Sense, Tact and a Good Temper. “Better Walt for the Next World and Try with an Angel.” . “wears” the best. To this end she should have good nd many years of married Alw y assert that the ideal (as al) wife is the one that hat gh She Mus My opinion husband and her lord, but {s ambitious sibility, than a hut dience and ri > To meet such a girl who wouldn't be won? Dear Mrs, Ayer: him most, and sees In him wealth, handsomenesy thoug his pocket affords her little mom” t not a religious crank, God and perfectly frank, impulsivences addeth a charm; & affectionate doeth no. harm, ate and a bit daring, and of musical bearing; a picture of ‘health ive me In prefereMice to wealthy . jolly, and ready for fun— PWA t Be Loving, § Obedient and Respectful.” of an ‘al wife Is one that loves her” him ©. One that feels thatche ta that she Is no less his quecn; one whe: to make herself the woman that orcrasia and simple food. With such: love, ob@t). espect, happiness is bound to exist. i HERMAN |W, FEESER. Stories Told of bis own that there is a ten- Grant tm proof thereof. He also adds: Ng 4 UDGD NEWBURGDR has a theory (| eee see public men, and cites Low, Grout and “President Roosevelt shows a partiall- ty for men with short names as his A tow years ego no well-dressed man wrould dare appear on Fifth avenue on or after Sept. 15 wearing a straw hat. ‘This year, howsver, there seems a gen- eral sentiment to revok all around against the earty demise that becomes born of headgear. Straw hate are still to be seen on the Stock Exchange. Gembers' are permitted to wear straw @eflance of the unwritten but broken law ¢hat ‘on ant! after 18 no member shall adorn his head other than @ felt hat until such ag the snow files, when he ehall be permitted to wear a oap if he #0 5 About xg New Yorkers. to onfer. He mate a speech justifying the etrww bat and used the ther- mometor to prove his case. The board grumbling?y subsided and permitted che incident to become a precesent—some- | thing it had not done before since the | days when tt met under a tree in Wall street a century ago. Bafore the news of this oMotal ection reached the curb! straw hate were treated scandatuely. ‘but later the open-air brokers fell in fine. * . Tt was Pat Dolan’s glory that Horace Greeley, John Hay, Whitelaw Reid, Charles Dana and other famous men regularly patronized his place and paid thelr ttle old dimes for @ mess of beans and beef. Today other editors whom posterity will celebrate are duck- ing In and out of the Park Row quick- lunch places all urnoticed. Such menas Howells, Finley P. Dunne, Hamlin Gar- {and and others frequently drop into hese places for “beef and fat,” and no notice is taken of them unless they thoughtlessly neglect ne pba ‘heir chooses.” ‘The weather on Sept. 15 had | (poura tay, mew ee euch 0 Go! with the innovation. The | red. hi vow coffee ts adn oh iat a aule eke Gay wee a scorcher. John Clews was | lunch place thout attracting more ths languld Interest. loncure D. the Gret man to appear with a straw | Cot way, too, in a gevanionally be meen boat, Mere was a sortie, but the chair: |in’a resiaurant aay Se nee man bo rge'bow! of cragkers and toilic. A % watstings in silk, wool and the popular French flannel simply stitched and held b: available for ali the materials mentione ferred. 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