Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, September 23, 1916, Page 8

1916. [} , SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 23, Personal Gossip : Society Notes : Woman’s Work.: Household Topics oy J . ling too much because of his own I’Folly of Marrying Man to Reform Him |« ‘self—rcspec( he won't do it for any wife. 1f he will not work ?nd S}L]lp- By DOROTHY DIX. |70 happiness for either party in such Port himself because he would rather My dear Marian: You write me (2 marriage. You caanot subvert flw that you are thinking of marying Dick. | order of nature and society with im- | ¥ Timely Fashion Hints die than eat the bread of dependence he will never toil to support a family. i If he has no sense of responsibility September 22. By MELLIFICIA—September 22. When the guests at the monster harvest home dinner at Happy Hol- low club last evening had been peace- 5 2 A she, too, coines to share in the | . L fully seated at their respective tables| Comus Club. 's+ contempt of him, ! b LEIBOWITZ . they heard a ripple of laughter ris-| Mrs. J. F. Dimick entertained the When the Creator made man of |} i ) i ! ing in the innermost dining room, a Comus club at her home Thursday | et reater stature and stronger muscle | | When you are in doubt i ripple which spread and grew into a | aiternoon. Guests of the club were | er petticc an lie did woman, he meant us to as to the correct thing i great wave. Such a craning of necks | Mrs, T. A. Truelson of Stanton, la, he icok up 1o cur husbands and not down | to present for almO?: 3 and murmur of questions as resulted!| and Mrs. W. S. Rowe. Prize winners fem. That's the way we were | any oceasion consul Soon the parties in the farthermost corners of the dining porches were rewarded by a quaint and curious sight. Strolling through the company came some of our best citizens, but, oh, in such an unfamiliar garb. There were Mr. and Mrs. C. R t Sherman, bowing and courtesying to | y e ) o M S 17 & ~ surgery has accomplished much, contentment where the wife leads the flatter ourselves a ny. Mr. Sherman appeared p / ) 20l S 1 ! I - ! ;::tt}feorgg:;u)r’ne of a gentlcmanp?armcr} “)e/!l;-(-sr H:;Kn\a\i:l’fir :l"':u:lp;:;o(,] Ia' it has never yet succeeded in putting | way, and the husband holds on o her ! || we know just what is s with chin wriskers and straw hat,| Happy Hollow club yesterday for | a backbone into a creature as spin petticoat like a toddling child to its | | right. Do not hesitate 3 PES Lo aed 4 | as a fishing worm. In homely phrase, | mother. to ask us to help you red bandana and a' that and 2’ thit, Mrs. Sherman wore corkscrew curls peeping out from under the back of 40 or 50 years old and which had been her mother’s, quantities of queer old jewelry and the most outrageous shawl.’ It was a gorgeous affair gf red and black checks which was really quite awful. Someone said, “Mrs, Hamilton, you bear a striking resem- blance to Queen Victoria.” “Although Queen Victoria was a very admirable woman,” Mrs. Hamilton replied, “I have heard that she had nothing to boast of in the way of looks.” Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Kimberly were among the party, Mr. Kimberly dressed in a linen duster, a big straw hat and gray chin whiskers which, by the way, proved very popular with all S S PO S S ST — the gentlemen of the group. Mr. and [ \fico™ i ; 4 phasizing a neat waistline, | acid h-on- instead—| e i « . iss. Edith Miller. Those present / ! ML ¢ . R acid or rough-on-rats instead—let me | edges and embroider a blue forget- )Iln, Ro‘bert le’r'ng‘re w&re1 also “gen- P prove becoming to most figures, “‘;"“‘;“”K*E”E”’C“WONTT"EC’ beg of you not to marry any man|me-not in one corner, or she may »\;!ezr tlemen farmers. rs. Gilmore wore My . - . |that you think of c it i i Missos— A bFIds TGt OBtabe R mayives m this y ink of and speak of as|it into a frazzle in a spot or two, but the demurest blue gingham bonnet and dress. Mr. and Mrs. G. M. Durkee, who were the originators of the novel idea, appeared in elaborate costume, In strolled Mr. Durkee with nonchalant § air dressed as a woodsman with high g leather boots, heavy brown coat, soft slouch hat and dark shirt. Mrs, Dur- kee minced along, as any proper old- fashioned person should, in a little old-style bonnet, a white satin waist and a full flowered skirt. I believe t ‘lhe was also guilty of mits and a big an. The party was seated at one big ® table and included also Mr, afid Mrs. C. H. Pickens, Mr. and Mrs, F, D ¢ Wead, Mr, and Mrs. C..M. Wilhelm ind Mr. and Mrs. R. Beecher Howell, Box Party it Boyd’s, Invitations have been received by the maids of honor of the Ak-Sar- Ben queen for a box party at Boyd's Boyer was queen of the Mardi Gras in New Orleans several years ago and is looking forward to playing in Omaha during the Ak-Sar-Ben cele- bration. She is*a Vassar graduate and a daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Ar- Q thur Boyer of Philadelphia. Several {uncheons are being planned in her 4 h0nor, n for New Students, The Bellevue college social season opens this evening with the new stu- dents’ reception to be held in the new Emnuinm. This function is one of llevue's traditions, and no trouble has been spared to make this occa- sion one long to be remembered by the stydents who will thus get their lfii;“ impression of Bellevue social e. President and Mrs. Kerr will head the receiving line, which will be com- })oud of pfominent members of the aculty, alumni and student body. e “gym” will be elaborately decorated, the school colors, purple and gold, l!mdominning. A ‘special- ly arranged program of music will be ven, The committees having the affair in hand are: Entertainment, Miss Mar- erite Diddock; refreshments, Miss hapman Rummsey; decorations, Miss Ruth Stokes, Pearl Wedding Anniversary. Mr. and Mrs. Fritz Stacker will selebrate their “pear!” wedding’ an- aiversary at their home next Monday vening. They were married Wednesday, September 25; 1886, thirty years ago, in the Douzfn county court house by County Judge McCulloch, and fave lived in Omaha ever since. They have lived at their present address ‘or a quarter of a cemurly. Among those who will be present it the celebration will be twenty-two £ NES QRO ZZT | B T 3 U S A o Her W a party of twelve at luncheon Thurs- day. Miss Mabel Melcher had six guests and Mr. and Mrs. R. E. Sun- derland four. A. man, P. O. Din k. The club will were Mesdames T. W. Hood, P. ]J. L, ning and J. F D not meet during Sar-Ben, so that the next meeting will be in four weeks with Mrs. Charles Everson, For Mrs.” Walker. Mrs. Bert W. Walker of Syracuse, N. Y., who leaves for her home next ' Wednesday cvening. Those present For Miss Tierney. Miss Ethel T ic‘n(‘y, who is to be| an October bride; is the guest of | ! honor at rous affairs. Monday afternoon Tuesday Whist club, | of which she is a member, will give a luncheon in her honor at the Carter Lake club house. Miss Viola Mor- earty will entertain for her Tuesday afternoon, and on Saturday she will be honor guest at a party given by Miss Helen Anderson. Yesterday afternoon Miss Agnes Whalen enter- tained at cards for Miss Tierney. Decorations were in sweetheart roses and hearts. High score was won by Pauline Green, Rose Whalen, Terra Tierney, Elvira Green, Viola Morearty, Edith Miller, May Whalen, Lucile McCreary, Silver Wedding Anniversay. Mr. and Mrs, David Gross will cel- ebrate their silver wedding anniver- sary by a large family dinner Sun- day. Fontenelle Chapter Meets. Fontenelle chapter, Order of the Eastern Star, was entertained Thurs- day afternoon by Florence members at the home of Mrs. J. H. Price. As- ters made a very charming decora- tion throughout the house, The pro- gram, arranged by the members from Florence, included musical numbers and readings by Mrs. F. H. Allis, Mrs. g H. Price, Mrs; Gordon, Mrs. J. B. Butter and Miss Vi Harrington, Assisting the hostess were Mesdames A. C. Griffin, R. A, Golding, E. E. Ga Social Gossip. Mr. and Mys. C. J. Baird have pur- chased the home of Mr. and Mrs, E, J. McVann and move in on Saturday. The McVann family left Sunday eve- ning for Chicago, where they will reside. \ Mrs. George H, Palmer, with Jean and Morse, returned Tuesday roml Dennis, Mass." where they spent the summer, Morse Palmer will attend school at St. Paul's this year, the opening date having been put for. ward until October. Mrs. Arthur C. Smith, Miss Harriet Smith and the children are expected home from the east the first week in October. At Happy Hollow Club. Mr. and Mrs. G. W. Hervey will entertain twelve guests at dinner at Truelson, J.| | Advice o Lovelorn et By LA RECONTEUSE. The buttons do not make the trim lines, but they accentuate them. They are ordinary bone tailor's buttons, the | smart sort just now on simple tail- ored suits like this one of dask blue serge. The panel front and belt, em- should By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. The Bridal Party. Dear Miss Falrfax: My brother will hal married soon, Can you kindly advise mo as | to the people to be selected for the bridal | party. 1 refer to bridesmaids, flower girls, malid of honor and best man. I have just found out that the groom's eldest sister should be “mald of honor.” I would like to know any other set rules re- garding the rest of the party. Also whether | above Is correct. M, 8. There are really no set rules con cerning a wedding party. Out of cour- tesy to the groom the'. bride fre- quently selects his sister as maid-of- honor, provided she has none of her own; but if the bride has a very inti- mate friend whom she wishes to have act in this capacity, there is no reason why the groom and his family should nat be sufficiently gracious and sen- ' sible to content themselves with hav- ing any daughters in their family as usher, generally favoring one or two cousins or brothers of the bride, if she has any. And in the same way the bride shows him courtesy and consideration when she is choosing her attendants. Any children in the family of either are chosen as flower girls or pag the club Saturday evening. Anniversary Card Party, Mr. and Mrs. S. Spiegal entertained m it their home Thursday evening for 4 Mrs. Robert Nalibow of San gran- cisco, who is visiting in the city. The svening was spent in dancing. Those Jresent were: A Mesdamen— Joe Splegal, 1, Sam Greenbery, Meyer Coren, Ben Telpne: 4. Gentis, Mrs. Robert Naitbon. Mr. Charley Splegal. Misses— Misses— Zsther Splegal, Rosle Gentls. At the Country Club, ed Miss Sarah Padden, who is at the Orpheum this week, played golf at ,a, Country club this morping with Miss Daphne Peters, Edward Creigh s Will Hoar, the club profes- Ray Low, another member of was unable to be present. match was followed by irty guests at dinner at cvenln“. preceding the costume ball. Dr. and Mrs, Schindel will have six guests, J. W. Woodrough cutertained Mrs. D. E. Lovejoy entertained the Rummy clubat luncheon at her home Thursday afternoon in honor of her nineteenth wedding anniversary. As- ters were used throughout the house. A mound containing nineteen pink roses formed a centerpiece for the table. On this occasion the Rimmy club was reorganized. Tea for Physicians’ Wives. Mrs. J. P.2Lord entertained at 4 o'clock tea at her home today in honor of the wives of visiting physi-| cians and the twenty-five members of the assisting committee, Tea for Belgian Fund. Mrs, Walter T. Page entertained at tea this afternoon in the first of a series of tgas for the Franco-Belgian relief fund. The gyests were: Women’s Hughes Car;;aign Train is to Stop in Omaha Omaha and Lincoln are the two Ne- braska stops arranged in the itinerary of the special Hughes campaign train sent out by the women's co: mittee of the National Hughes Alliance, The campaign train will make a nation- wide sweep. Among the members of the national train committee are women who have | taken a prominent part in the affairs | of the nation. Mrs. Arthur Capper of ansas, Mrs. George Sutherland of Utah and Mrs. Gifford Pinchot of Pennsylvania are some of the women actively engaged in making the train campaign a success, Special Noonday Luncheon, 11:30 to 1:30 p. m., 38c. Special Evening Dinner, §:30 to 7:80 p. m., 50c. Sunday Table d'Hote Dinner 60c. The only place in Omiha where you ean get good home cooked meals served the way you like them. As Usual All the classy styles that have that individuality you like will be shown first in Walk-Over Shoes for men--for women for your approval. Let us show these to you. $350t0 $12 PHOENIX GUARANTEED HOSIERY To match all our shoes Walk - Over Boot Shop L 4! the same individual before and after | motor coat on her honeymoon trip. The hall mark of fashion aristocracy is evident in the smart flaring lines, in the big collar of velvet and mole- skin and in the new cuff with pointed flap turned the unusual way. The coat is of mole-colored velours de| laine, matching the shade of the fur collar, | ! you | character, the same desires. |not be metamorphosed into a fairy | They do not owe their rise to any You call him “Poor Dick,” and you admit that he is a dissipa ho has been her take h of appe and sclfishness! 1t can't be done, my dear. M an’t make a silk purse . ut of a| s ear. When you marry you must 30 take a man as he is—not marry him Young Men's Temperance union, or | makes a lazy man industrious, or that | gives weakling strength to stand alone S0, beiore you march to the altar | | look carefully at the man with whom | | you are contemplating taking 1 that fatal journey, for he will be precisely | taking, with the same tastes, the same | He will prince, but just be the same old Tom, Dick or Harry. Before, however, you commit hari- | kari—and I would earnestly recom- mend to any girl-thinking of marrying a drunkard to take a dose of prussic “Poor Dick” or “Poor John.” That phrase in itself is a confession ot your recognition that he is a weakling, one who must be protected, instead of be- ing the protector, one who is not able to take his part among men, one who must always be explained, apologized for, excused for his shortcomings. Believe me, my dear, that there is When the woman has to be In tal clinging vine, the spectacle at which the very gods laugh. er how much a woman loves a art oak and the man becomes |just of himself, nos is one | Plant it in him any h ] ¢~ |could graft on to him a voice like No ¢ 8 | Caruso's. no woman can im- more than she 1 to begin with, nor how sorry she | is for him, when she sees him a pigmy 1g men and realizes that he can t fight their battles nor run their | r, and the plans and spe-, n which a woman's| iy constructed have | ered. ‘I'he only happy ||| ose in which you find the | along after the husband | g nand in hand with him. [/ never find either peace or || But you will say, you do not expect ' “Poor Dick” to be always *“Poor! i i ! Dick.” As soon as he has the benefit || seen succeed in making these intd prosperous and honored business or | professional men? | Not one. The men who run the banks and big stores and manufac- | tories; the men who are leading| lawyers and doctors, and editors and preachers; the men who are elected to | gh office were not weaklings made by their wives. They were strong men | who carved out their own fortunes.: woman'’s influence. They got there by their own hustle and push. | There's just one job, my dear, that every man has got to do for himself, and that is to make his own character. | {A woman may scallop it around the that's just about all she can do. It’s as far as her influence goes. She can make her husband happy or miserable. She can help him to success more | quickly or delay his getting there, but she can't keep him down if he’s a good | man, and she can’t make him rise if | he’s a poor one. | If a man won’t refrain from drink- her mother's wedding bonnet, which Weres ¢ o S | for something you think you can make your sustaining influence you ex-| elry and Silverware is is 50 years old this month. Around esdames esdarnes A . 14 Hiex th t Iste ia : E. G. McGilton Clifford R or, ! of him pect him to become “Successful Dick, ROt comple her shoulders was an old-fashioned In- . e : o S Qe A C Nt dian shaw! o h Bl s, There are no miracle workers in|"Great Dick,” “Rich Dick.” Look the) city and new ones M d Mes. E. O. Hamilton. at- e LR L G | these days, my child. Still less is any | about you, cHild. You have seen many coming in daily. A visit P F I Bert W, Walker of R..W. Dinning, : wife a miracle worker. There no | women marry shiftless, drunken loaf- | from you will be ap- x tracted great attention. Mrs, Ham- v R { 2 ; ened Y . . ilyt vore 2 brown d & hich was Byracuse, N. Y. F. W. Clarke, | conjure in the marriage ceremony that | ers. How many of them have you! preci-ted. Eyson yore 4 TERS-WRICH Was| J, W, Tiaher, Charlon K, Welter, | changes a sot into a leader of the Solved us. We may not have what you think you would care to give, but we can help you solve the problem by sug- gesting. We are call upon so often to help in similar cases that we make your selection. Our stock of Dia- monds, Watches, Jew- 218 South 15th St. New World-Herald + Building. | The Day-Dream Movie As the afternoon wears on and time for dismissal approaches, a picture ' store across the street where the smiling attendant, anticipating their arrival, has already started to heap up dishes with pyramids of frargrant, 1 pure Ice Cream which they devour rapturously because it is whole- 5 | Special Ice Cream For the Coming Sunday Is CARAMEL | J some and go | | I S L1718 [V - od for them. A “For your<own sakes, dear children,” the clerk says, ‘I should be to teach them to eat goodies whick are br{t Jor their ‘‘tummies’’— therefore assure you it is 9 ) "L?::" ofM&“e:le;v:;mB‘o e‘r‘ v;ll::) brielson, J. Johnson, J. P. Comstock | bridemaids. The groom selects the | appears in het new play, * hc'Little and J. Weber. Twenty-five members | best man—a brother or intimate Lady From Lonesome ’I"own." Miss | Were present. {friend. He also chooses his own were hove at i g tveker’ who | gttt 5K Wit K * . e : i iage Ry RN Raldrides, The new color combina- (| | starts upon the mind-screen of each of these healthy school children. ‘ I A W. A. Fraser, Herbert Wheeler, tions so popular this sea- \ . . . : i d For Mrs. Nalibow, Shantt e i A e : They see school dismissed and themselves hurrying to the cool, clean artha Sharp, A Sharp. Country Ciub. || CLAREMONT 317 So. 20 5 ; ab Com;;g:; S | INN e 16th St. A part of the children's education Wfi I \