The evening world. Newspaper, October 20, 1922, Page 33

What Sort of a Girl is it Safe for a Young Man To Marry Rev. John M. Moore Gives Ten More “Safety First’ ’ Guide Posts ; On the Right Road to Matrimony By Ruth Snyder. Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. ee HAT Sort of a Woman Is It Safe for a Young Man to Marry?" A few days ago The Evening World published for its readers the opinions of the Rev. Jolin M. Moore of the Marcy Avenue Baptist Church in Brooklyn on ‘What Sort of a Man Is It Safe for a Woman eo Marry?’ To-day Dr. Moore will tell what sort of a woman it is safe for a young man to marry. There are ten points a young man should look for in the young woman ‘he intends to marry if he wants to find a good wife. They are listed in ‘the box accompanying this article. ‘* Marriage {s no joke,’ Dr. Moore declares. ‘If we could stop the flood of so-called wit and humor, whicn is hearly always always cheap and silly When It is not coarse and cril, we should help immensety to give this holy relationship the place {t ought havo in all human thinking.” “Young people should not stumble Into a relationship which has in it more possibilities of making heaven hell on earth for human beings han any other into which we come.” “Society has a moral stake In every triage. Every matrimonia! failure a blow at the common welfare. ery happy marringe helps to un- Rergird the whole social structure, It s more than the affair of two people | you blunder, It is tremenaou: he affair of the unborn. It is not lust your own business if you de- pise and help to break dowr, the de- lense of the home God mesnt when He decreed that they twain should be 7 one flesh.’ In elaborating on his ten points, Dr. loore suggests some of the following , oints. , 1. Religion, ‘This does not mean . ere church membership, 0° so-called r piety, but the religious life tnat ban~- ishes se from the centre of ene's interests, knows how to forgive and forget, to bear and forbear and cul- tivate an unselfish spjrit."" 2. Health. ‘This refers to a heal- thy body, a healthy mind, « beulthy outlook on life—although perfect phy- sical health is not wholly an essen- tial to a happy marriage.” 8. Common Sense. Dr. Moore says that common sense is a far too un- common thing—that common sense is hard to detine—bit ns some AF thing like this: A is accus- tomed to luxury and demands it must not expect to marry a man with a small income. 4. Domestic Tastes. ‘One might ell hesitate to propose to u girl who practically unable to put her brains (0 work on a clean and tidy home. 5. Desire for Motherhood. ‘The irl whose definition of a home does not include children should not marry."’ 6. Intelligence. ‘A wife should for growth and be able ey st of her husband's in- tqllectual interests. Unless there is a partnership of the mind the nership palls. @. Culture. ‘Tie you marry should have conne nd interests of an order not very different from your own,”’ ‘8. A Sense of Responsibility. ‘It is a terrible risk to marry a girl who falls to take Iife seriously."” 9. The Spirit of Partnership. ‘Two eannot make one when their interests Hare divergent, and either cares littie nothing for that which means most to the other. The good wife is one } who shares her husband's life with a toleran and understanding which makes possible the thousand and one adjustments nec to home happiness. No girl onght to marry who has not informed herself as to th he Jobligations and responsibilities of married life."" 10. Affection, ‘Love covers a mul- titude of sins. Love bears all things. Not physical passion, but genuine hu- man affection is the supreme qualifi- tion for marria The s treat- of her mother, 4 not a bad index of her affection." physical gin n “Youngs people right to meet to make their own choice of lcompanion,"’ Dr. Moore says particularly would like to parents with this idea, “Young jople should seek counsel from those p have more experience and should Blcome the help of father or mother parents should recognize that is a point beyond which such el should not o0."" 4 lets us make if wo insist should have the freely and openly and a life and he impress fools of upon. it,” our- con HIS is a dessert. When a Swedish cook Is put on her metal to suggest a dessert— something d fferent—she while in uffish thought, then bre out into a smile of satisfaction says ‘Snow pudding It's Sw law. The Swe must suggest Snow Pudding when asked for an origina: thought in the dessert line. fo this dessert of mine was a pro- stands a (Copyright, 1922, by the Rell Syndicate, Tne.) The 10 Points To Look For in A Good Wite 1. Religion. 2. Health. 3. Common Sense. 4. Domestic Tastes. 5. Desire for Mother- hood. 6. Intelligence. 7. Culture. 8. A Sense of Re- sponsibility. 9, The Spirit of Part- nership, 10. Affection. err cludes Dr. Moore, ‘Parents must sometimes let their children make what seem to us to be grave mis- takes. The individual has personal rights that God respects and that arents must respect—but interfer- ence quite frequently results in still graver mistakes." By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) v ‘ress Publishing MAN was berating the whole world the other day, He was out of work and the world owed him a living and had not paid. He had a team of horses which car- ried sand but there wag no sand to be carried at the present time and therefore he had nothing to do. No money was coming in and “the horses were eating their heads off," and he was disgusted with everything. He had to borrow money to keep his family, and he was getting into debt every minute. He had not bought a suit of clothes in two years, he told me, and his family had to live on little or nothing—&c. Bey Oona mene toe During this time a farmer went to him and asked him to use his team to do some farm work such as carry- ing some logs, some fruit and some produce, Did he let him use the team? Not at all! He had bought the horses to carry sand and that was all he was going to let them carry. Even if. there was no sand to carry, he was going to wait till there was some. ‘This man will never get ahead. He doesn't know how to ‘make hay while the sun shines’ and he will always live ‘from hand to mouth.” The horses and wagon could have done service for the farmer in the time of need and made money for the man who owned them, and his family. But he knew only one thing—carrying Intimate Interviews By James True. Copyrigh i r the World War Lord J Northeliffe told Irvins S$. Cobb where he got the idea for the venture that was the foundation of his vast publish- tng enterpriscs, and it is due to the latter's gen- erosity and ac- curate memory thé facts. that ure printed here for the first tim undoubt edly Lord Northeliffe said that he wos ti determined to enter the publishing business; but as he had practically no money he was at a loss to decide how he was to gut the material for a publication for nothing, and sell it at a fair price. It was a perplexing problem, but he solved {t with his magazine “An- swors,"’ after the first issue, ten by its readers. which, was w ‘iat gave me th Northcliffe explained, brance of my school days. notion,"’ Lord “was rerhem- When I was a boy I had rather a shrewd map for a te He was also somewhat When the scholars were routine work and like a plague over he would put aside tie cher, sinal. tired with lassitude spread the classroom when textbooks und have what he called a ‘question box." “Any pupil was at liberty to ast an explanation of some subject, no matter what it was, that p led him If no other pupil could answer it, then the teacher himself would do so, or postpone the answer until he could orm himself. The questions were ied, covering almost every cun- ceivable subject. The result was that interest would be revived. Our imaginations would © ftirred and our spir'ts quickened And incidentally our commont stock of knowledge was eolarged. It was re markable how interesting all of the Feed the Brute Favorite Recipes by Famous Men. By JAMES MONTGOMERY FLAGG, Artist. There is one very diMfcult in gredient—wine jelly! The Jelly 1s easy enough, but where 'n Jell do you get the wine? If you don't have wine jelly—it's ull off—no use beginning. If you can get the wine, then you put some ut-up oranges in wine jelly with an inch layer of beaten white of eggs on top and lightly brown this. A loose custard is poured on each helping. It sounds rather punk, but t is a perfectly good dessert. (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. Where Lord Northcliffe’s Success Began. questions became and we were alwa eager to answer them to show our su- perior knowledge. “I realized some time later, as I realize more clearly every da: the surest y to interest a human being Is to arouse one of two facul- ties which all of us have—his curi- osity, or his vanity In having in his esion a fact which some ong else not. ji Vor the first number of ‘Answers’ I wrote all of the mutertol myself, putting down every imaginable ques- tion and then finding its answer It was merely a development of t question box of the room. And the ish public responded like the jaded companions of my boyhood “After the first issue there never a problem of filling the maga- zine at the minimum of cost. Readers furnished an abundance of material, both questions and answers. My edl- torial duties were ght and my main effort was in arranging the contribu- tions so as to give the most striking and dramatic effect. “The publication was profitable al- most from the beginning. The money I made with it furnished me the cap ital for other ventures. So my suc- ce began with an idea that came to me, and a few simple facts I learned from a game in the school- room,"" was Why Some People Never Get Ahead sand. That was the business he was in and the other was not his busl- ness. Therefore he was borrowing money to keep the wolf from the door. I could ‘not help reflect that there are many people like him. They would rather starve than do some- thing different from what they have always done, You will find there are thousands of them, Then they will suffer many hard- ships and want rather than step aside from their common groove and they get into a rut from which they rare- ly rise. What such people need {3 a rude awakening. ‘These are the people that do not get ahead. They are not willing to take the “goods the gods provide.” They won't make the best of things. They want to make the worst of thom. I wish {t were possible for such peo- ple to read the history of the great people of the world—people who got somewhere and accomplished some- thing and have made their own way all the time. They were ready to do whatever came along when things were not runaing in thelr direction, Mon who have reached tho tup are those who have been willing to stoop to anything that was honest in order to make things go and not be éevsad ent. Horace Fletcher, the well-known ‘chew-chew" man, once gave me a very good prescription, He said: “You can't be on the crest of the wave all the time. Sometimes the wave must go down and when it goes down, go right down with tt and move along until you are again on the crest, when you can do your shouting.” Most people, however, shout when they are down and they never get up because they are too busy shouting. sverything comes to him who waits” provided he works while he waits. In other words, {f you've not your own work, take some other kind of, a Job. Suppose it {sn't in your line, If you can do ft and it helps you along, that {s the thing to do. You tre thus snatching victory out of de- feat. You are not at a total loss waiting for your big ch ce to come. The man who is too good to do me nial work while is out of work o his own kind, $ not got the stuff in him of which r made I know a woman who was a very fine pianist. During an industrial al men ar that ‘slump she lost nearly all her pupils, as music was the first thing that was dropped. She found herself without any means of support and everywhere she tried she s unsuccessful. Finally she went into a restaurant and washed dishes fro: morning till nicht used her lovely hands that had played on the plano for this lowly work But this woman said t “T had more real living durin time 1 was washing dishes than when TP was playing the piano. [met in that res taurant real hard-work ag people with big hearts and big souls and, while I made myself independent of help, I gained something of another side of the world that I didn't know at all back on with great satisfaction."* Who knows but going Into some- thing else than what you are accus- tomed to mav be the you. Leastwise, your hands t Is unwise to fold and wait antil your kind of work comes along if you ‘can find some else to do that will make you self-reliant Those pe will not walt but insist on doing what they can—those are the people who always get ahead Home Decoration (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co PILLOWS IN ORIGINAL SHAPES. Copyrle OU make your pillows to suit \ your own taste these fine days. So longer are there set designs or shapes or sizes, You do just as you please and you can invent and adapt and adjust them to your heart's content. But the only crime against the nature of decoration, {t would scem, 1s to do them In the same way that any one else Is doing them, A pillow is made of striped silk long and rolled and bent in the mid dis, As it strings out to either end, there it is very thin and attenuated nd from each end there drip long tassels Which fairly meet the ground colors in this pillow are lovely tones of blue with tan for a back ground and shadings from the blue into deep lavender, The pillow Is just the size and shape to tuck Into the back of a hig, deep, comfortable chair so that all of those adjectives of repose shall become much more accentuated & ause the pillow exists and {s there. You can revise the shape a Uttle here and a trifle there to make tt fit the outlines of almost any chalr and then, whea you take the colors of your room's decoration, and carry them out in the design of the pillow, you will have added something to your furnishings which will be a distinct help tu the whole effect and which will make the room the more artistic for {ts being. Round pillows of this same general teter, when leét uncurved, are nice to tuck Into either end of a day bed. They can still have their deco- rative tassels, elther long or short, and they can be edged with galon tn all widths and all states of fanciness rom the plaincat of edges to those that are quite ornate in the way they are woven and decorated Round pillows made correetly cireu lar are nice to throw into any chatr when they are made of beautiful col ors, for they can often be used in this way to repeat a coloring which, ot erwise, would have too little effect, It may need just the repeat that th color of pne small pillow can manais to give, & © Can You Beat It! THE PEOPLE WHO LIVE HERE ARE ONLY HIGH CLASS PEOPLE BILL] CALL THE SHERIFE OUR NEIGHBOR /S THROWING? HER. CARBAGE Covyrtent, 1922, (New York Bvening World) By Press Pub. Co. ‘Trace Mark Keg U 8 Pat Off IT'S AVERY Barbara’s Beaux By Caroline Crawford THE WONDERFUL JIM. eae. ONE evening when Marion was entertaining Jim in the board bee ing house parloi mara ef State, hg house parlor, Barbara came 3 Plate, w to the that she ne down her pictures, It was a part of my life that I look ald, three stairs at a bound, but as Marion ventured up slowly and grace- fully, a sry making of question him, please let me have him Copyright, 1022 (New York Evening head of, the stairs and called ded assistance in taking Jim flew to her Barbara waved her back with knowing: “Now I am going to alone," duck her. share my studio with me, don't you, Jim le asked when he mounted = “DN upon the stepladder months."* ure, I'm tickled to death,’ he grinned, boyishly “You know that Marton ts going to “Always did h to think of Marion cooped up in a boarding house. There's no_atmos- phere about a place like this but h sana onions.’ a friend, ‘Of course you'll come to see her up here, Just as often when we g& quarters?” black eyes. EF this fun, his rer le back to his work; * wild about Marion, so I might as well admit It. vhoet of n chance with her?” t in our new Say, will I?" tho handsome Jim d down from his lofty pereh and ked two dare magnetic n Barbara felt thelr Marion admired Dig fellow, with his and | “Just * he continued, going I'm just rwer, Now strapp! Say, ried man. hate s dash ave it to me you kne while. Do you think I stand a “Yes."* This was the opportunity which Barbara had been waiting for. Tarhara, “Yes, \f you are not a married say?” man.” finshed the young artist. wo deflantly hammer directly at her hea A and went back to the dent, manner, his face had disapeared told you T was?" potnted his “Who In thunder demanded J “Rumors.” “Umph," grunted the alluring Jim picture “But are yon?" “Are I what?" grinned the law stu- He had regained als old boytsh and the flush which covered “Are you @ married man?’ Yes." “And under those conditions do you 6 and goes tint, work in a lamp shade lage to"be an wally moves up tor like the at a Neveral men come into her life— wt—but th e not to call and at the foot ing Marion's name toming,” erted a cited Marion honey, ge report but my wife (gosh to say the word) ts in Reno and T'll be free in a few months dear, about with me?” World) by Press Publishing Co eee SYNC PSIS hay been villag to Greenwich Vil- She Ix forced to factory and because shi mphere of the 4 who also tx to be an Smithy, the married bows, ty telling things, story to-day ani Interestin, read for yourself, Oe eta In fact, she's in Reno now." “But you will not be a free man until you get your decree.’ at will be within the next «tx “Until then I shall have to ask you upon pi M on “May I ask who you are to come teacher think? Aren't your feet wet? to the rescue of Marton? I under- stood you were not a relation, merely Marton, oh Marion, come He was off the Iadder with a bound rst day rainy day after school open- ed, Willle fully of tho stairs follow- t the top of his flushed and ex Is correct I'm mar- Mean- are you willing to go “IT knew It,"" smiled Jim, turning to “Now, what have you to hat Marion must choose between my studio and you."’ (To-Morrow—The New Studio.) Going Down! Des ONE: All tho Bible ts the admont- tion to WATCH. What does this mvan? What is there to watch? The thing nearest us {s what through think you have a right to call upon we need to wateh—our an innocent young college girl?" thoughts ‘innocent? muna; “there (n't Shakespeare says: ‘There ts an {nnocent the world ove 3 hing good or bad but th question, “Well, yes, T think I have @ right Ppa to call upon Marion and I'll te'l you why world. the world, and in time I'm going to’ ‘James Bra I'm the unbanpiest man in the I married the mennest etrl tn. ing make Remember ntly WATCH—your it wo." this when thi ko wrong thoughts. Sincerely, ALFALFA SMITH Genres twetvhdollars—then you will have ALL OUR NE/IGHBORS ARE ULTRA Ree ee HOw DIDIKNOW HE WAS LOOKING The Jarr Family McCardell By Roy L. Copyright, 19 w York Eveni glance rested upon the pedal extfemities of Master Jarr. The Wile! of both were loose and as he walked pri they worked open and shut again five doll what was left of the uppers—like the Lat i mouths of baby alligators. muctadl Master Willie hung his head. “And did you go to school with those?’' asked Mrs, Jarr, “Nome,"' replied Willle, ‘This was his way of saying, No, ma'am’ Me cataneneommiay IDOI Erandbag iNew Fad in Paris of Alaska "You ther. ‘Oh, dear nust have!" replied his mo- dear! What will the “Nome,"" agin murmured “I was wearing rubbers." ‘Why, you lost your rubbers the the boy, said Mrs, Jarr repre Izzy Slavir were ore to it he t ky's rt the explaine m from mie com and I give him because he p ys that mak ing from school cents to wear th them red, and he dian moccasins of ‘em “How silly! And you, a big boy, to wa ) wor Ped ov hoes and make a show of yourself!'’ declared his imo- ther “He needs a new sult, and {t will hardly cost anything,"’ Mra, Jarr ex- plained to Mr, Jarr. ‘In fact, 1 s¢ there is a sale of boys’ uit at inte In twelve dollars reduced from fifteen A new nd that means it will only cost me ba bay about seven dollars on the “What do you mean, a twelve-dol- bag. is lar suit for Willie reduced from tf teen dollars ¢ you about seven inquired Mr. Jarr, who had been pres- ent all along. “Why, don't you see?" explaine Mrs. Jarr, ‘I was going to get Will a pair of shoes—in fuct, he HAD to have a pair of shoes, and I would have to pay about five dollars for shoes for him, So, as we found this mended pair of shoes, that I have saved the flve dollars 1 would have bought him shoes with, and that mean) ' t uit thes only cost Safe twelve dollars: t you No “EP don't get your bran ca refi matics,"’ ventured 19 neh in irritntin zied tone, W vt a8 five lars you s 1 oft sults peing reduced from fifteen By Maurive Ketten World) by Press Publishing Co. 66 RE those your now shoes?’? money to put in the miked Mow J as her to your computath Why, bank—accordin:s son the suit of clothes for Jarr, “But now that you re- mind me of it, L see where I can got shoes for myself.”" Mr. “go down to the store with your mother and get, your sult of clothes before she figures she can get out of what she saves shtening pair of str a set of sable by buying! KAOEA ave renserr, called the into popularity ulevards of Paris. extensively with ostrich feathers and has arms, legs and a head, each being a receptacle in itself. Antiseptic Wash . arty anefol toilet eestaany £ recommended by ciraaliness Dependable, MAU Druggist and Department de, Oe ond $1.00, nn D ‘ ght of saving her faco Jarr “ inter- Oo The ‘