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Who Is Companions—He, in 4, By Fay Stevenson. 4D cs 1922 (New York Evening’ World) y Press Publishing Compat ATHER and daughter! Do you realize just what that , means? ‘Of course, daughters are the apples ‘Mf thelr fathers’ eyes—that is’ com- on tea-table talk. And fathers? Well, father is the first man in the Werage girl's life. He is the man who nakes pin wheels, balloons on Fourth ‘€ July, mends broken dolls and doll ‘arriages, constructs wonderful two- tory doll houses and plays kiss the Now, He is her first escort and the me who digs down in his pocket when nonthly allowances run short. In fact, ather is the hero of daughter's life, tnd because daughters and fathers we always more or less ‘alike’ in heir general view of the world they ‘re apt to prove very companionable reatures, . No matter how much of a mooncaif ‘SoM proves himself to be, his mother ways sees something goud in him. for ages romance writérs and npyel- sts have scribbled away about others and sons, but now Henry Kitchell Webster, the Chicago novel- » author of “Real Life’? and “Mary Wollaston,” has come ard with w wok all about fathers and daughters. Mr. Webster calls his new book ‘Joseph Greer and His Daughter,” nd within a few days Bobbs-Merrill Yompany will give the public an op- rortunity to transfer their thoughts rom mother’s son to father's daugh- er, isn't a doubt about it, can't help being like Mr. Webster informed ut in the Hotel Prince Beorge. “I wouldn't pretend to go nto the whys and wherefores of this, mut you know it and I know it, a boy 8 very apt to be like his mother and « daughter is nearly always a pocket - ‘dition of her dad. “And that’s why they are near ulways such bully companions. interrupted. “I'm mighty glad you said ‘n always,’ ’ the novelist smiled gee the fact that they strong-willed or domincering, might tceount for a clash later on in their ives.: It just happens that the laughter and father in my new novel dave to hattle with th pwn natures o understand cach jother, And 1 sometimes Wonder if@this isn’t truc nN many cases in veal life? “For instance, take the ¢ of Mihd father who has been what we asually term a man-about-town. The moment he sees his datighter is viva- tous and gay and attracted to the ypposite, sex he begins to suspect her. While he will toterate certain traits u @ man he cannot imagine those waits (his very own) appearing in a Jaughter belonging to him. Ther fore, this sophisticated man of the “There » world often becomes extremely strict” am'th his daughter, and if she is rong-willed and desires to lead her #wn life, there is bound to be a clas! “Another matter’ which frequently tomes before father and daughter is faughter’s marriage. © Mother is aearly always willing. to aecept faughter’s choice. In fact, mother frequently aids in helping the young man along. But father never thinks any young man is quite good enough for his daughter. Of course he takes t for granted: that his daughter will marry ‘some tim but he neve scoms to realize that daughter is ting ojder, perhaps nearer thirty twenty."* “What do you think about the Jaughter who carns more or nearly a8 much as her father in business? Lasked, ‘Is a father ever jealous of his daughter when this happens?" Mr. Webster considered thi shook his head vigorously. dion’t think the ave ver jealous of then o, I fay. But I think the average fathe 8 proud of his davghter's progr and most fathers would ov saying, ‘You see she tak she is an excellent busin after me, woman, ov else, ‘Well, I gave, her a good + education and fitted her for lit “The main thing which #e¢ ms hen it comes to playing togethe they make first-rate companions. 4 father likes to go horse-back riding, hiking, rowing or to dances with his Jaughter. He is proud to introduce ‘My daughtéy’ and willing to go shabby, if necessary, to deck her “some fathers lik a school for them, to select correct jends,for them and help them play the game of life. But the daughter in my book strongly objected to this, and I am under the Unpression that *there are many girls to-day who f »much the same about entering a pr *seribed circle of friends Even if a girl knows she ia un- Jophisticated and a diamond in the wi she likes to add the fin touches herself. She doesn't ‘age he-man is envelopes,” he feplied, “Of course that condition probably exists in many homes to- reome a jealous disposition by egotistically. to ome between fathers and daughters this indescribable. ‘similarity.’ to place their faughters in a little circle and watch them spin round and round like ,a mechanical toy. They like to select @nyone (not even dad who made doll houses for her) to scleci certain young a Girl’s First Hero? Henry Kitchell Webster Says “HER FATHER!” i “They’re Almost Always So Much Alike,” He Explains, “That They Make First Class Turn, Idolizes Her.” men or women or sophisticated ma- trons for her especial company. “Sometimes fathers and daughters are able to talk these things over and the one who has the stronger nature wins. In that case father and daugh- ter remain inseparable friends. Dut there are fathers and daughters who are both so Aeadstrong and so self- centred and wilful that talking things ‘calmly over’ would be a miracle. Father storms and shouts. Daughtor becomes crimson and stamps out of Hen: Keechett the room. They are alike and they know it, but both are heading for the opposite directior imming up the case, however, be- tween father and daughter Mr, Web- ster believes that fathers and daugh- ters are extremely devoted to each other and exceedingly sympathetic. “A girl always‘admires her father, concluded the novelist (or romance writer as he prefers to be called) “snd a fathér simply idotizes his daughter. When’ the father ts a widower bis daughter frequent), sumes the ‘protective rol indignant when other women show him attention, And as to dad—wet!, you know he never thinks there ts a man on earth who is quite good enough to be his daughter's husband.”* Barbara’s Beaux iy Caroline Crawford ew York Evering World), by Press Publishing Company. The Love Story of a Small-Town Girl In New York to Find Her Career. ie: orphan, twenty y ) ee Copyright, 1 (The Barbara Bennington, a © she bas been tho vil ‘Times are slack and sh he an artist and win a husband too. LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. ‘ 8 sit this one out.’* I. Dan Dover was bending over Barbara Benniu was a new “It's funny, but 1 doi smoke when I’m with you,” he said "t want to as he led Barbara to a cozy little nook in the dance hu fellow is perfectly correct nowadays, understand, to smoke in the presence of his—I mean of a lady, but some- how I just don't feel like your face. Most of my lady friends smoke, but 1 know you don't “No, 1 haven't started in yet, egled Barbara This last remark rather blighted young Dan's incred nd made him recall M ,’ but when he the clear, trusting blue eyes befor him he fell a victim to Cupid's arrow again “Pm glad you don't smoke id, “and by the way, don't start in, Tell me something about. yourself how long have you b where did you worl b to our factory and ho ve you kissed?’ I of your qestions,” don't make a p: lows and L quit playing kiss cam There I'm t from a little town up nty and an orphan.” » wonder they call } Dan Dover ry fellow 8 and then lo 3 she'll have ‘angel's fat chance in life “I though you were different from "he said aloud. ed ARNE HN RI IO I ~ ORT 987 IC NE WIHO WOULD Pt 9 A: Ruy COAL HATS Medatogts 2 ia OMEBRODY —— Goap of A NO FURNACE No NEED OF COAL’. NO COAL No NEED oF GINE IT TO WE Do WITH SONNE BRODY? OUR FURNACE 2 Maxims of a Modern Maid By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Copyright, 1922 (The New York Evening World), by Pres? Publishing Company. Perhaps Eve was the first, young lady to remark that the man she loved must be strong enough to pick her up and carry her off over his shoulder. But the football players are still falling for that one. UST as moving day exposes a Copyright, 1922 (The stepfather of gazed at this strange and destrncitv the two Misses Cackleberry ap- berformance to proaghed and th view of the new imported hat and t) y got a closer our damaged goods to public view, so the matrimonial moving days in the divorce courts are as sudly revela- broken illusions and worn-out sessions, ars old, leaves her home up-State rrarian, and comes down to Greenwich Village to is forced to paint lamp shades im a fac val men into her life artist; old Smithy, the married boss, and at last xin this story to-day and see how a country tory of shabby sentimen’ fighting flappers were so enraged that a moment Mrs. would yfolently as: Dut that is tellin; conquer eity life, a career, is usually incorrect heckered past’ checkerboard are white! professional for half the squares on the " he apologized, you are different When a woman persisis in “moth she mustn't be surprised if ckleness, the ungratefulness ing" her husband he shows the e you aren't inus the rouge and lip st though to himseif. “And how iasthat charming matron of moonlit dream; ay dawn of the morning after.’ you kind of look like a girl who make an apple ple.” ‘in the cold, g > ae cosrespondent: yet the virtuous wom: a8 one of thesc “You look like ¢ rl who could her alimony “LE think a { didn’t suppose the confessed Dan, un getting One trouble with married they are hitched tandem, aulte settle which is in the et to smoke, ad of- shoulder to shoulder, “Let's dance again," suddenly smoking in who brings a breach of » was making loye to her. were interrupted sudden appearance of here, you big stiff, gallus young vanky overcoat which ends ju Oysters ‘“R”’ OYSTERS IN BLANKETS. Bennington, Dan Dover, and any greeny cut “If he hasn't ing, admiration to act like a cabaret come. title of Janced into Season you can have some ‘oung lady, I reckon he'd make a bet- uw can have som your pardon,"’ said Barbara that to somebody green as you are,” snapped Minnie, neck grip upon he cayenne pepper oysters to lie in thi pn in the city, fore you came ny fellows oysters and rol] in bread crumbs and beaten egg. Roll each oyster using a toothpick to hold it in place. 1 the band and the merry crowd. Again Barbara became a wall flower amed of how she would some paint a cover which would crown a would have a poor children for OYSTER CANAPES. lices of brown bre On each piece ‘issensions, In a alice of bacon, ake!" interposed the blithe i guess I better begin at the end niled Barbara, "I © of kissing fel- nes when I was sixteén, 1 have been at the factory almost two weeks and 1 late, n't anything else to tell only limousines and take a ride in the park and how her would be filled with admiring young men who would bring her hot house roses and takeyher to the opera en wild Dan Dover suddenly ap- peared again and demanded another back from the fifteen min- » and ear-rings to 1 OYSTER LOAF. tablespoonful is cof, call feigid fingers tn the OYSTER SAUCE of flour, then ¢ add two cupfuls claim upon me. T never proposed to spoonfuls of butter her because I was just waiting for a nice, good girl like you to come along and cook until edges of oysters curl slice from a cup strained coarsely chopped oysters of two eges loaf of baker's crumbs and beaten yolk ean I don't dress as well,’ you home," inner surface of deliberately then brown lightly in the oven Into this put the creamed oysters and ». I didn't take any account of '\Te-Morrow—As Bérbara Saw It. allow to boil and the Cackleberry girls By Sophie Copyr 66] WILL forgive, but I can't for- These are the remarks of the husband of a couple who had been separated but have now become reconciled. It is doubtful if such a reconciliation will be lasting. Times without number people have confessed forgiven but as- serted that they can't’ forget. If they would search “deeply in their innermost thoughts, they would real- ize that you never forgive umless_you forget. By for; ting I do not mean that tt entirely passes from the memory as though it had never occurred, but in effect it Is just that, That is to say, unless the feeling of forgivenes is fully one of real, heartfelt magna- nimity, then it Js not truly fotwiving. The person who, in common par- lance, “makes up". and still harbors disturbing thoughts about it has not really forgiven or forgotten, I know a couple who decided to “bury the hatchet” as far as any words between them were ¢oncerned. But the man kept on being suspicious about his wife. dt got o that it ab- sorbed all his thoughts and amounted nearly to @ mania with him. One day he saw her talking to a mutual acquaintance, and having secretly worked himself tp to such a pitch of suspicion, he immediately assumed the wordt, A big fight followed between these two men that broke up the home and this couple never got together again, althotigh the woman was. altogether blameless, as was the other m: This husband adored wife in this mad fashion and actually grieved himself to death over this situation, On his dying bed he admitted that the great trouble in his life was the fact that although he forgave his wife he had never forgotten their first dis- agreement and the other trouble came later. And this is bound to be the con- dition in many, many eases. The in- dividual who really means to begin all over again niust treat the former disturbance: as though if had never happened, and his mental process must be such that he in’'truth forgets, otherwise: he is merely talking when The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell ning World), by Press Publishing Compan surprised to speak. But Mrs, Blodger was delgiied “That «shows what a swell my, Ue nard is," she simpered. “He wouldn't have cared if that coat had coxt four hundred instead of two hundred dol- lars. He thinks eveeytteng is as dirt beneath his feet! And she beamed proudly at her beloved. Vell, he, needn't think iat we the dirt beneath his feet,” eried 5 Irene Cackleberry shrilly, “Here, and. are ashamed to any- s with her because. we haven't ent rag to ouy backs, while you tke que poor depar papa's in suranee money and buy that cat’ meow of & finvle-hopper and cabaret cobra a $200 overcoat that he maces 1 door mut 0} Ab, Mury, come up, good plied Mr, Blodgor in his best Shak peavian manner, “The village swains are gathering round the Maypole! Then buss me, buse mi e we trend & measure on the village green, Bisy me, lass, buss met" VN bust htm," erled the wari younger Miss Cackleberry B t then the jazz orcheswa in the cabaret, where “they had met sirugk up m Just Wild About Harry!" and the blithe Mr. Blodser bowed gracefully (6 his scowling step daught ‘All right, I'll dance with you." snapped, “You are loathsen nally, and you are the Bhs fen varies, but you s © the arb! “And ii me too, Barney rut don't forget that I hate you a much ag Gladys does!" eviod the other Migs Cackleberry Odd Inventions STAD of an hour hand, a new | clock carries u revolving dial which indicates the time in all parts of the world in relation’ to any standard time in this country Novel in the musical instrument line is a violin that cun be foided, inclosed, in a case and carrie’ like a walking, stick Of Engliah invention is a motor driven wheel to be attached to baby carriages to propel them A typewriter which writes thusic han been invented by an Itatian ws When You Forgive And Don’t Forget that they have Irene Loeb ght, 1922 (The New York Evening World), by Press Publishing Company. he says, “ get." One must do both, It is like cleans- ing the system or a wound. For ex- ample, if you suffer a‘great physios® pain or go through an operation, you may recall it but you have foregone the pain of it. In short, you have put it behind you. It is no longer some- thing that is a menace to your pres ent or your future. It is a thing that is past. In like manner, it is just as easy to School yourself to a thing that is gone in a mental way, Shut it out alto- gether and insist that no act or word will bring it into being again. That is the true way to forgive. It is forgetfulness of the pain or wound that has been caused. And whoever says it can't be done has never really, forgiven. The worst thing any one can do ts to hold a grudge, a secret feud, after having agreed to adjust It. They are not even truthful to themselves. Bet- ter not forgive or forget, rather than to retain in the mind a miserable or revengeful spirit. And of all the great joys of the world, that of forgiveness is one of the strongest. It creates a bigness of being that lifts up and makes one feel a bit worth-while in the scheme of things. In fact, it is finer to forgive than to receive forgiveness, LOOK YOUR BEST \“———-By Doris Doscher. Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Company. : A WALK in the open these days forgive, but I can't for+ soon will ahow you what @ wonderful artist Nature is. When the tints of all the foliage mellow into the beautiful fall colors there is a general softening effect everywhere. If you wish to imitate Nature im this artistic ef- fect you must blend softly’ and grace fully in your appearance with the fall sea- To accom- this your fallcostume must be har- monious in tex- {ure and color, but you yourself must not prove the inharmonious note im ihe general effect. ss We have considered the color of your skin, Of course, you would not look well with the summer's tan in your new fall clothes, If you have been using™the skin bleaches I sug- gested a few days ago, you have al- seen an improvement in this t reap Th sometimes other little things that mar your appearance, such as sinall red or brown spots, I do not mean freckles, These usually fade out as the summer season wanes, espe y with any face bleach; but thexe other marks come with indls. cretion in cating. With the lowering of ihe temperature there is always an increased appetite and 1 fear that _some of you have satisfied yourselves too freely and consequently the face reflects th indiseretion of ~ diet. Usually these litte req and brown spots are given to ‘you as a danger sign to say, “So far thou shalt go and no farther." Hot water is their great cure. Noy jo not mean upplying on the out- but taken internally—a_ cupf rising i the morning. A speck of lemon or baking soda may be added if you like. This cleans out the stomach and starts you off right. You have all had such a wonderful time this summer, there has been so ueh to do, so many places to ge and ted so many good times in such a little space of time on your vacation that you could not for one instant think of making an appoint- ment with the dentist. But if you wish to feel free to smile and know that the smile will enhance your beauty, you must see that the teeth are kept in perfect condition, Just as we go over our homes at on of the year, putting ev in) ¢ rr the winter season, you to see that you go uve all your teeth and repair as much as you have ero’ possible tie damage of ne during t Nevaw be afraid of 1 tecth too frequently. © times a day is not too often, you eu er retire at night until you have wiven the ‘strictest attention to, the thorough cleansing of your teeth, You will be rewarded by a row of manage it, and above all pears that will prove your greatest attraction and aiso make you feel more in the humor of smiling at life, which will give you & good disposition as well. During the summer there is not the sume close proximity to your neigh- bor that is necessary during the win- ter season, There is one thing that proves disastrous to the attractive- ness of any woman and that is the slightest suggestion of a bad breath, That's why Lehave suggested your taking the hot water in the morning and giving the infinite care to’ your teoth. ‘These ve the best preven- tives against the barest suggestion of any possibility of this kind, ‘These details, small though they be, are big in importance when considered in relation to your general attractive- ness, Without good health there is no charm, Without cleanliness there is no beauty, \ i t