The evening world. Newspaper, August 1, 1922, Page 25

Why ‘Not Cultivate a “FRIENDSHIP GARDEN” In Your Heart? “Look for the Better Side of the Friend and Keep That Ever Before You, and Soon You Will Forget His Little Foibles and Bits of Temper.” By Sophie Irene Loeb. Popyright, 1929 (New York Evening World) ‘by Press Publishing Company. ‘N the heart of the woods I cleared out @ place for a garden—my gar- den of friendship—and in that gar- Men there are roses that bloom monthly. Each of these rose bushes has a little wooden tag upon wh tch is written the name of a friend—the friend who ‘gave it to me. Every morning 1 cut one of these roses and put it on my dresser, and watch It from day to day as it un- Itsperfume and fra- Brance are a joy until it Is gone. Of course, hidden underneath the leaves are thorns, and to me these thorns represent the little shortcom- ings of my friend—the petulant pin- pricks, which once in a while I must feel; but of greater importance and @elight is the lovely flower jtself that brings gladness and cheer. And each rose, with the different colors, brings me beautiful thoughts of my friend, and I feel that friend is with me. Somehow, I cannot help wishing we could have the same mental exhilara- tion out of thoughts of our friends as out of the material rose, which friend- ship signifies to me. Why can't we think of the beaut!- ful things about a friend and forget the few thorns. In other words, too often do we let a fine friendship go because of some foolish pinprick—a bit of @ thorn that our friend has thrust upon us in a moment of mad- ness. After all, there ts a “‘go0d” side to everybody, because there is rarely any one who is not loved by some one. And if this ts true, then that some- body has called out the fine side and held it. Times without number we enhance the strength of these thorns—the faults in our friends—and fail to rec- ognize the finer things in them—the virtues. Then when we do fail a friend in this way, we make of them weeds and cast them off, when if we but nour- {shed along the better side of them the blossoms would have m and given forth fragrance into our lives, which is as the rose, despite {ts thorns, All of which ts to say, look for the gracious, the happy, the nice side of the friend and keep that ever hefore you, and soon you will forget his lit- tle foibles or bits of temper. I know a woman who dled a most unhappy creature. She had parted with a friend she loved dearly for many years for some trivial matter. They drifted further and further apart. This woman cried on her deathbed that she had always looked at the bad Side of her friend instead of the good. “I kept her at her worst always be- fore me, unti! now I realize how much I have misse: Yes, it is not difficult to make a friendship Garden in your own heart and mind, and keep paramount there the desirable side, and give | Gortance to the prickly points Perhaps, who knows, your frie may beas charitable mn his mind when he puts you in his Friendst arden Besides, the ennobling ue the feeling that you have been mag: nanimous and having assumed a big spirit, somehow, without Knowing It Yourself, it creeps into your makeup and makes you bigger. When you have always gtven such reat consideration to your friend, you will never want for one, as there wil always be the individual who wil ognize it In you, folds ttself. HABITS That Mar Beauty. \._ By Doris Doscher-——~ Copyright, 1928 (New York Evening World) by’ Press Publishing Company. SELF-PITY, F there ts one fault more than any I other that interferes with your happiness In life as well as spoll- ing your physical beauty, 1t ts the habit so many of you have of falling into self-pity. Bo subtly does this habit cloud your vision that you can hardly reo- ognize it Let meé explain to your Did you ever have a pain or an ache over which you didn't to a certain ex. tent pity youn self? You suc- oumb to the slightest bodily il with a resigned, martyr-like air, when perhaps you ought to bo really analyzing the situation to see if you can overcome this ill by proper living, ‘Take, for instance, indigestion. You pity you expect and want the pity around you just be- cause your @igestive apparatus is out of harmony, when you need instead to be censured for over-indulgence or {gnorance in the selection of your yourself, of all foods. But not only for your physical ills do you harbor self-pity in every r hear vexatious situation, every dis- appointment or defeat {s for you an opportunity for self-pity, Why, I had innumerable from girls who write in such a tragto vein because they have not been born with golden lo and big baby-blue eyes, They say life holds nothing for them Just because they cannot be as at- tractive as some screen star whom they ad This self-pity. have letters shows you how fruttless is The first thing {t does ts to rob you of contentment of mind, Tt takes awa your ambitions; you sit ssly and let the waves of trouble, disappointment and {!1 health roll over you when all you really need back hope! to do 1s to get up and use a breast stroke in the sea of life against the waves of self-pity. It {s very seldom that self-pity comes to us in the true @lamities of life. We seem to arise with herolo fortitude to meet real troubles, but in all other adverse situations self- pity draws us away from overcoming the circumstances, The best way I know to overcome this habit {9 to acquire a sense of humor and, best of all, to use this sense of humor to see ourselves as ridiculous as we are when we pity ourselves, Really, girls, yon haven't any {dea how self-pity mars your appearance, This is the reason the mouth has ose drooping lines and the brow the pucker and the skin is sallow and the body anaemi Ritl wrote me and asked enlarge the pupils of her eyes them spark She was a self-pity, and when she somes this mental habit the eyes will regain thetr lustre. Just as soon as you change your mental attitude and adopt enthusiasm and @n unconquerable will as com rades to dwell within you, you will seo A solution to your problem and ur mirror will reflect @ smiling, One to Copyright, 1022 (New York Bve HERE are families where ¢ mT are served for breakfast every morning throughout the y and yet they do not tire of them, " reason for this 1s that the cook serves them in so many different ways that ft does not really seem like the sam food. One housewife varies the coo ing of the eggs for bh st so that at least a fortnight p: before she repeats a recipe During the sum ™mer days eggs should appetizing in appearance in or Biimulate the jaded appetite POACHED EGGS. Vary the toast by cutt tn round slic t exercised in poaching « serve its appealing water should § contain a pinch of salt and a teaspoonful of vinegar or Juice to keep the exg from break Drop the egg into the water care when done drain and place on buttered toast. Have ready some hot ehopped ham and arrange a ble- gpoontul of this along tho edge of Appearance boiling and a y Vress Publishing Company, st to form a border for the egg. nkle a little finely chopped pars- ley over this and serve immediately. FRENCH TOAST. Add salt to white of egg and beat t stiff, spread this on a slic ot ‘ed to leay a round open ing In centre, Into t 1s put the yolk of the egs and place in oven until yolk 1s set and the white is slightly browned. Season with salt and pep- per and serve at once SCRAMBLED EGGS. Vor three eggs taka one-half cup ¢ ‘ rmilk. Heat eggs without » Season and add the eream, r into buttered pan and stir con Lit begins to thicken. Re the heat, stir in one eupful botied ped t drained, and let it 1 eges are set BAKED EGGS. eggs in buttered ba ukle cracker er t esp nfuls of cream and ba u ate oven until done. \ Margaret Campbell, an American girl, startled Piccadilly, London, with her “plus fours” golf suit, brown stockings, black Paris hat and bobbed hair. By Roy L. Copyright, 10 T the depot Mr. Jarr was still looking around for the Misses rom Philadelphia old lady drop her handkerchi 1 our hero picked {It up and, with all the courtesy of the knightly Jarrs, touched the old lady's the arm to hand her Whereat tho old 1 gave him a scathing look and hissed, ‘How dare you accost me, you masher!"* “What's the matter, ma'am?” aaked a depot detective, who had been watching Mr. Jarr. This loafer is trying to flirt with " said the old lady. No. the gentleman only meant to restore your handkerchief,” handkerchief. ma'am. remarked a commuter from Hacken- sack “You are his confederate, these mashers go in gangs!" shrieked the old lady But the man from Hackensack had been commuting for fourteen years and a gateman vouched for him “But them fiends in human form will carry commutation tickets and everythi surgested a suspicious tander 1 tell you t nan never said a wood to the | xcept to try to hand her a handker« she had dropped,’ persisted the f ly commuter “Maybe you think T am too old to be insulted,’ screamed the old lady “Does any one know this guy asked the dey ctive, laying a heavy hand up Jerr, The informa ureau man came over to say that Mr. Jarr had been acting suspiciow hanging around the plac leer questions he's one of 8,"" he added row and a nd this depot man of t a com to meet nung ladies who were to arrive from Philadely ‘ s for young women fre Phila hia ¥ he?" re marked a 1 ‘Invest gation will pre th an agent of the un looks it.'" “I tell you that asied this old lad b rr, when he wus interrupted by the handkerehtet TUESDAY, McCafdell (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Company, dropper shrieking: "How dare he call me old? Officer, do your duty!” “He ought to be tarred and feath- ered, like we do with his kind down South, where we have the Ku Klux Klan to attend to these insulters of the fair sex,"’ interposed a profes- sional Southerner from. South Orange, N. J., and upon whom the old lady cast an appreciative glance, “What's the row here? What's the trouble, Jarr, old man?’ a cheery voice was heard to say. And Mr. Jarr rejoiced to see stand- ing beside him the two most resource- ful young men in all his acquaint~ ance, Michael Angelo Dinkston and Dr. Gilbert Gumm, society's leading famous dentist Two real policemen had arrived by this time, and although the heavy moralists in the throng insisted that AUGUST 1, 1922. F. B. Smith of Perth, Eng- land, crippled in the war, insisted on shooting from his wheel chair for the King’s Cup in the recent Bisley rifle matches. A girl friend helped him by cleaning his rifl after each round. ‘ At the left are shown Mi et Moffett, daughter of the f of the Bureau of Aeronau- and her chum, Mi Helen, daughter of Capt. Johnson, U. S. N., in their flying togs at the Naval Air Station, Washington, after a cooling off flight in the evening. Secretaries of War. HE first Secretary of War ap of the United States was Henry Knox, who was born in Boston 172 years ago, July 26, 1750, of Scotch- Irish parentage. Knox was the chief commander of the artil- lery throughout the Revolu- tion, and was Secretary of War both before and after Wash- ington assumed the Presi- dency. His successor, Timothy Pickering, had also seen active service, and James McHenry, the third to hold the post, had been a surgeon in the Revolu- tion. Samuel Dexter, the next in line, was a lawyer, but Henry Jefferson's had much William Dearborn, Secretary of War, military experience. Mr. Dinkston and Dr. Gilbert Gumm Eustis, appointed by Madison, were also accomplices and members pas & phsalblan, and-aave sae of the mashers’ gang, Dr. Gumm's ‘ anezy professional card and his fair young to a military man, John Arm- Van Dyke beard had created a senti strong, James Monroe and ment in his favor, which reflected Its William H. Crawford were 00d influence upon Mr. Jur, and | jawyers, and since their time even, for the moment, such was the mndat: Beasidanta’ i a urbanity of Dr. Gumm, and the poet- 98 ‘esidents have apps {cal eloquence whispered in her ear ently considered a legal edu- by Michael Angelo Dinkston, that the cation the best qualification for rancor of the alleged tn: i woman a head of the War Depart ROR ENEMA ENA. ment. U. 8. Grant, who held Ma a mistake has beer - mitted, “but we'll ¢ the war portfolio for a brief court and I suppose I'll b period in 1867, and William interviewed and photographed for the T. Sherman, whose gaat newspapers, and perhaps the stand | otticg was equally short, were that IT have taken against 4 in anhite Sahae aPCMaeTR te the only distinguished military morality and help me get a posit men to hold the post in the last on Board of Motion Picture Cen half-century. sors,” _ sd Courtship and Marriage By Betty Vincent a) Copyright, 1922 (New York Hvening World) by Press Pubitahing Co. Dear Miss Vincent: Recently Dear Miss Vincent: For six 1 met a very nice chap at a months | have been geing with concert. He asked to bake: me one boy who means the world to home, but | refused to allow this: me. Suddenly he left me for an- and my friends tell me he wag al Ghar de ch oa Stee ke aroken ups I did not know th much prettier than ! am. He calls hie feelings, and really cared 4 to eee hor every night and site on une atal tor nn + ee but her porch hile | have to sit all vary olsen upon she street, (bt alone. | etill love this young man, AWS) OS GRO and atra however, a do wish could each other. | can't seem to t tI Rae tee ee hae him and | wish you woul > F how to gain his f ship. BLUE EYES wi an t He very o dial time you ineet him. If posaibie, t ve a little invite him. party at your home and own ¢ 1 ind boys about y lot the other girl's 1 t Us con tent. @revers Highgate, England, anglers, have found that by hanging umbrellas on their fishing reds the shadow attracts fish to their bait. Below is King George's prize heifer, a blue ribboner at the Royal Agricultural Show at Cambridge, that was born and bred on the Royal Farms at Windsor. SALLY’S By Caroline Crawford. FIGI URES THAT. TBLL GDU SIURISS Easier Housekee For Hot How the Housewife Can Make the Tired Worker's Homecoming More Comfortable. By Mrs, Christine Frederick, Household Efictenoy Expert, Author “Household Engineering.” Diishing Company. WRTAINLY one of the biggest jobs facing the homemaker in hot weather is keeping her fam- fly fit both physically and mentally! While she's boss of her own work, can take @ rest in the hottest part of the day and consider her own comfort in various ways, she P[must remember that her husband and other members of her family in business are not so fortunate. They must remain | cooped for seven or eight hours = in small, overheated, me Poorly ventilated rooms, often in @ glare of light, or just as often in a dingy environment, with no outlook or view. And the final touch 1s added to the worker's discomfort when he has to ‘squeeze into sweaty, overcrowded cars or trains, possibly forced to stand an hour in an unwholesome and often nauseating atmosphere, It 1s, therefore, surely the prime duty of the housewife to make every provision for the comfort of her fam- ily when they return fatigued and dejected from the day’s toll. This is not the time to burden them with your own dispiriting reports of the day’s petty annoyances, Save your troubles and tell them later, if at all. Don't pour out your tale of how the children have misbehaved, how the butcher disappointed you, nor start to complain because Mrs, Jones is going away to the country to-morrow and what a shame it js, a perfect shame, that we can't afford to go away also! And don't, for heaven's sake, meet your husband at the door and inform him that he must run down the street to get a loaf of bread or some cream or anything else that you've for- gotten. Having everything ready for the meal is your job, and it's unfair and more than annoying to expect the SUMMER i) Copyright, 1922 (The New York Evening World), by Press Publishing Company. Does a Girl Ever Marry Her Summer Beau ? Bally Peters, New York gtr @ month's vacation, On the tri who greatly Inter J.C, Billings, a w Upset while boatin with her THE FATEFUL RING. HEN Bonnington’s seal ring W rolled out from Sally's hand- kerchlef along tha bottom of the boat, Billings looked at tt In utter astonishment. He had just finished the romance of his first marriage and Sally felt he was splendid to give her all these details. But the large seal ring which bespoke masculine owner- ship put romance and sentiment to flight. Billings reached down for the ring and immediately handed it to Sally, but the worried look on his face told her he knew St was @ man’s ring and that she was keeping tryst with some one else. She was about to explain how the ring was thrust upon her that very morning when he asked !n @ changed tone of voice: “Have you ever had any serious romance, Miss Peters?” "Miss Peters!” But a few moments ago he had kissed her and called her w they were back on formal terms again. and n “No,” she declared, rather firmly, as she added: “I don’t quite ike that word ‘serious, Mr, Billings" her do 1,"" he agreed; “but, of course, an exchange rings dows mean something “Yes, of course it does,"? admitted Sally, as sho wate! face and the different expressions of jealousy, re- 8 ent and distrust it’ registered: “But this ring came to me before breakfast tht and I am merely keeping It to return to the owner to-night."" “Then it was not an exchange or even accepted under u pledge?’ “It was thrust upon me and left with my landlady to d to me."* “Ah, that ts diffe that te dif. ferent,” chuckled Billings, as he re- gained his composure und rubbed his round little bald head with satisfac. tion “But who left the r may Laski" he questioned as his brow again wrin kle “Richard Bonnington, the young man who tipped me over in the rows At this Billings burst into laughter and ¢ th ‘ 4 clear and “I gue yu wouldn't be Ikely to lose your to that dear little Apollo, volunteered, “Any chap who didn't know ¢ h to row a «irl has gone to the country, where she will spend heme her, and another at « Ithy widower, who rescues her when she and Bor proposes to ‘her and ls accepted. Bonnington 1 Bonn Then ah 4 young man, Richard ce, Billy Croton. me ington are nonatrates about a ake tsn't very Ikely to row her around life very well.’* But Sally couldn't quite see what rowing on a lake and making one's way in the world had to do with one another. Rowing and playing tennis were sports and, after all, {t was experience and practice which counted, “I shall be on edge until from your parents,”’ Billings sa! denly breaking the silence. “There 1s nothing to worry over about that,’ quickly replied Sally, “I know they will be very much pleased with the match, They will doubtless wonder how I captured such a wealthy widower."’ “You flatter me,’* he assured her and then he spoke of the future. Of course, it 1s true I have considerable money and a good deal of real estate," he began. ‘My sister has as much as I have, so that I should not teel entitied to leave anything to her Therefore, the bulk of my property and personal belongings would go to you, Sally. Since Iam getting along in life, I should feel it necessary to put a few codicils in my will, For instance, I would leave everything to you unless you should remarry in case of my death, then [ think I should only leave you one-third of my tate."" “That would be perfectly fatr,"’ Sally found herself saying, but in her heart she wondered if Billings would have thought of this arrangement If ' had not n Bonnington’s seal ring TO-MORROW—ANOTHER STUM BLING BLOCK. (BIBLE QUESTIONS | And Answers. QUESTIONS. 1, Was man idle in the Garden of Eden, or did God employ him there? 2, How was the Garden refreshed before man was placed there to tend it? 3, Did God permit man to pluck and eat the fruit of the Garden? 4. Was there any restriction to this permission? 5. Did man obey God's command? 6, What did he do? ANSWERS. 1. God placed man in the Garden of Kuen to dress and keep it By a mist from the earth Yes 4. The tree of knowledge of good and evil was excepted 6. Man did not obey God's com mand, Gen, 8: 6 6. Man disobeyed by eating the for- bid: frutt Copy rant, 10 ’ by Triangle Feature Service. ping Weather ‘ sf 08 yom wt tired homecomer to make up for a delinquencies. Pack your troubles Ht your old oretonne bag—and smile, emile, smile at the folks when ‘ first come homo these hot evenings! Let their first impression aa enter the house be that of coming a fresh, sweet-smelling room. Al 5 o'clock make a special point of pull<_ ing up the shades and palling 4 the windows at the top all over, 20 to get cross ventilation and all ¢ fresh air possible. If you have ag. electric fan, set {t going. Then don’t, let hubby be greeted by the odor @ washing linen or overprominent, cooking smells. Often a few mine; utes’ burning of some fragrant m= cense powder in the rooms. such gs pine or wistaria, will refresh and lend, charm to the entire house. Fi The first thing any one wants to @e. these scorching days when they get, home is to make a dive for a shower: or bath and put on a clean change of, clothes. So don't let John waste times or get irritable mulling out all. the, drawers trying to locate a clean sport, shirt or searching for his fresh ‘ Since you probably know what he will. wear, why not thoughtfully lay outa complete change ready for him in hig. room? And the daughter or son whe, works should be equally treated ta» the same attention and thoughtful, , ness. 4 Another thing that is a most umes welcome greeting to those returning enervated with hot weather fatigue is? to be met by any special disturbances or crying on the part of the childremo One thing that will avoid. this: most effectively is to have the ehiles dren's supper served separateiy and tee advance of the regular fainily meal. The mother who s preparing some of the dishes can easily oversee and rege: ulate the separate eating of young children. ‘oo often the tired bread@es winner can scarcely get a chance’to converse because of the clamor of the children and their repeated demands Pa 3 for food. cy Indeed, it should not be necessary tg) tax the tired worker with unnecessary, carving or serving of any sort. When. he comes to the table he should be served first and his wants attended to and he should not be made to extra energy and time serving a num ber of others. Why not follow in hot weather the delightful Russian of service, where all foods are cut in advance In the kitchen and where, individual portions of salads and déme_ serta are attractively arranged beforen,. hand so that all carving and serving, at the table is reduced to a minty; mum? Nothing 1s worse than to sit dows? to a heavy meal, especially a hot one); when feeling tired or depressed. The Japanese drink iced fruit juice andy wait or a quarter of a half hour until their energy {s raised before partaking of the usual meal, It ts a good plan, to have ready a cool, refreshing drink,, . a fruit cup of some type, to offer the. homecomer. Or a cup of hot bouillon or refreshing hot tea is liked by some, , nee the person employed all day usually spends his time in a close” room, office or still more crowded train, the one thing he would most naturally want at the end of the day is to get out in the open or fresh air, Why not accordingly follow the plan of meeting friend husband or others of the family at some point where it is possible to piento or enjoy supper” outdoors? Many women who meget’ thelr husbands with cars can just am. well arrange to fix an appetizing sup- per In picnic form and bring it wif rh them, then motor to a beach oF other picnio spot direct from the train, i I know a Western city which pro~ vides parks with small brick stoves, scattered all over the grounds, Bs which families may heat # pot coffee or grill a chop aud where thousands of the city’s inhabitants nightly enjoy thelr meals outdoors, | Every large city should provide such municipal picnic spaces. In any qase the hot weather can be taken on a porch, or in @ : yard, or on the apartment roof—any-. where that one may secure @ glimpse. of green and cool air while eating, . Keeping the family ft {n hot weather . 1s a worthwhile task and the slight, effort and thought It entails om the part of the homemaker will be well. warded. CJ € Child's Hair Often Ruined By Careless Washin: Soups should be used very carefully, if you want to keep your child's hair looking its best. Most soaps and prey pared shampoos contain too mueh al This dries the scalp, makes the hair brittle, and ruins it ‘The best thing for steady use is Muk sified c coanut oil shampoo (which is, pure and greaseless) and is better than anything else you ean use, ‘Two or three Yeaspoonfale of Mulsified in a cup or glass with a little warm water is suff cient to cleanse the hair and seal; thoroughly. Simply moisten the with water and rub itin, It makes am abundance of rieh, sreamy lather, whigh: rinses out easily, removing every particle, f dust, dirt, dandruff and excess oil. The hair dries quickly and evenly, and it leaves the scalp soft, and the hair fine, and silky, bright, lustrous, fluffy and® asy to mana You cin get: Mulsified cocoanut sibe shampoo at pharmacy, it's verma cheap, and a few ourees will supply every 4 member of the family for months, sure your druggist gives you MulsiMless MU Ce ene a er en spaeeeere meres te Ne |