The evening world. Newspaper, July 11, 1922, Page 21

Why Men Leave Home “WORKED OUT OF IT.” The Man Who Is Worked Out of His Home Says covvrign, 1922 gion vork mening wort, That “Wisdom Teeth Are Cut on the Wedding Ring!"’ - By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1 Noce'es worked, but father was the trouble with the man who was worked out of his home. He was what they call the “good pro- vider,” who provides everything ior everybody in the home but himself. He was one of those handy men ho ean do any- thing around a house and so it was always left for him to do. When he came home from work, no matter how tired he was, there were shelves to be put up in the kitch- en, or knives to sharpen, and if there were not such mannish things to do he was just good natured enough to wash the dish and [ have e en heard of him cleaning pots and pans— the man who was worked out of his home. The da always comes when he srows sick to death of being good father and being pointed to as a model man With him it has been “all work and no play” until he can stand the gaff no longer. uch a Oh. yes, there is such a thing as imposing on the old man. And many times he knows all the time he is being made the gout, but he takes It a3 a part of fatherly duties until & last straw is waited on him and breaks the back of his burden As one young woman told me, a daughter of such a man: “Father just walked out one day and didn't come back and we couldn't imagine what was the matter, until we got letter from him in whieh he told us (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Company. would be in a position to help him, But alas, in his old age, his wife being dead, he !s plain homeless, The childrén have all been married and have their own families and their own interests and have forgot- ten father, who has worked all the years to make their present situation possible He has been the rock of strengtl» for so long that they fail te com- prehend that he can be lonely and un- happy and homeless. He is paying board and living with strangers. Here is a true situation of having just worked himself out of his home. The birds have all flown and the nest has been deserted because he worked so well. ‘Then there Is the case of the man —a home-loving Individual, who al- ways longed to buy a place of his own and spend his old age in it. He did so well, became so prosperous, bought his home, and then ‘the wife seemed to think that it wag a pity for two people to have a home after THE JARR FAMILY yy Roy L. McCardell ‘by Press Publishing Company. O you know what day this “D—D is?" asked Mrs. Jarr, shak- ing Mr. Jarr by the shoul- der to distract his attention from his sporting extra. “Yes, I do,” seid Mr. Jarr, and reading the newspaper date line he told her what day it was of the week, of the month and of the year. “I don't mean that!" said Mre Jarr, “Why are you always so lit- eral? But just this day, one month from now, will be our wedding anni- versary, and it wouldn't be so many years from that anniversary until our silver wedding.” Vhat of it?’ asked Mr. Jarr non- chalantly. "After our silver wedding will come our golden wedding, and after that our diamond wedding—that is, provided we both live long enough.” Mrs. Jarr surveyed him. coldly “Well,’ she said, “I should like to know how it is that women get a reputation for loquacity when men just talk and talk and say nothing, when a person endeavors to engage them in an intelligent conversation.” ‘Maybe you're right, that the female of the species is more quiet than the male,’ Mr. Jarr admittea “And if I may break the cold silence of your reticence and reserve, may T ask why you consider this day and late of any special significance in connection with our silver anniversary many years hence?" “{ was énly thinking how grand it would be if we could have the silver wedding celebration without having to wait for twenty-five years,” re- plied Mrs, Jarr. “What good are wooden weddings and tin weddings or even crystal weddings? But to get a nice set of solid silver in a handsome mahogany case would be grand. Don't you think they would give you a chest of solid silver by taking up a collection down at that old office of yours, If NS be Mean i TUESDAY, JULY 11, EX-GOV. JAMES F. FERGUSON of Tex: Mrs, Ferguson, are camping on opposite sides of the political The former Governor and his wife are both seeking a seat In the United States Senate. running on a light wine and beer plank, while Mrs, Ferguson Is an out-and-out advocate for bone-dry enforcement and his wife fence In Tex Mr. Ferguson Is Above—Here's “hot weather Suggestions For Your Vacation (New Tork Hvening World), t ig Company. OW is the time when most of us cation days, It may be only, Copyright, 1 by Vr days—six of them to many of us— 80 we must get the very best out of them, Vacation means a rest to most of us and that does not necessarily, imply inactivity. The finest rest a person is a change of occupa tion. T d-tired’’ housewife who has been on her feet for hours will get well rested by sewing for an hour or. two and the harassed business man who is fatigved from continuous ape plication to computation or other mental labor will find restful relaxas tion in straightening out a pile of aoe cumulated circulars or documents. It is all work, but it is something dite ferent and that iv the secret of the most beneficial vacation Your vocation should decide your va- cation. If you spend your workinag hours at office work or the typewriter your vacation should be spent in the great dutdoors, A camping trip would be just the thing for you. The next heat would be some mountain resort. You need congenial people around you to talk to so you do not have to kilt time by reading. Play tennis or golt and take walks, climb mountains, §0 Hoating, do everything to keep your mind and body actiye with the imme- dite surrounding If teaching is your employment you iiire variet in environment to ré+ store your exhausted mental faculties! ‘Travelling will give you the most restful vacation—ever changing mets tal impressions are just the thing to restore the brain fatigue, , A saleswoman requires both mental al rest. ‘The end of each Gay's labor leaves her bodily fatigued und her nervey have been on a ten- sion so much that she is mentally ex- hausted, For her the country board- ing house is ideal. The rural scenes and leisure life are the direct oppo- site to what she has left behind and will be decidedly restful to her weary mind and the quiet walks through thé and physic see me ee ee eee oe ANH I ’ and nothing else “But it wouldn't be our silver wed- wives."" Do your cool woods or up the mountains wil? nd I must that while my the children were married. he did ding,’’ Mr. Jarr protested ‘And they 8 Pe cooking on a cake give physical exhilaration. The aver- mother and the other members of the ROt want to be burdened with the wouldn't believe me if I said it was, By Caroline Crawford. 5 of ice! The girl in age farmhouse has a tennis court or & family didn't ree with him, I could Servant question or the work and because you don't look old enough to Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Company fs netsaeaelh croquet ground; boating and bathing 3 4 ' q t y vher 2 " f . . nu a ay any he: see his side of it all right, and I be- Ursed him te live in a hotgl, And have” been married any) where Does a Girl Ever Marry Her Summer Beau? ; PaeyeSeabit 18 are inducements many of these offer; lieve they are beginning to realize it that's wt they are to-day. near that long. Why, Johifson, the Bblig) Balers New Vors leinicta amceouia. (oie county, wnarecane: #ill rying an egg in most of them have a piano or phono- too, for they all have gotten to work. I know of no man who is so lonely cashier, remarked the other day that spend & month's 4 0. On the train she meets « young man in dining that way. graph, so the tired but fun-lovinig Where before when they were out of @nd unhappy as this one. He is you looked like a young girl ter who greatly ste with the story. ‘Tu-day's Instalment the -asoreé: ie leswoman will find ample amuse~ a job they knew that father would trying to conform to his wife's rs. Jarr was pleased to hear this sg . ea ment while storing up ener At byatiniee care of things, now that wishes and finds himself homeless. opinion of the bachelor Johnson. DESTINATIONS, know we did not for a moment think this, liquid oxygen, just got to do something and they Had he not been able to go to a marked, “and anyway that's only a looking blond merely had to fin- *¥P@ now did we, Miss—Miss” below zero, and 344 he is gone they see that they have He has also worked himself out of “A man said that,” she finally re- ALLY knew that the distinguished We belong to the typical New York which is 312 degrees i‘ ployed in a factory among constantly aa ° * 1 1 stryve “Sally Peters,” she reluctantly sup- machines, will gain the most have managed.to get something todo, hotel, he probably would have had bachelor’s blarney The Stryvers 18 e Se degrees below th whirring ma 5 s “He certainly has waRened them up a home. ‘This sounds patadoxical, have lots of money, and they ‘av ish his Icey possibly stroll Into plied and blushed, for she had not 99 she good from a vacation in the country, to & realization that there is some- but’ there it is, only known us a few years. Mrs. the “~oker and tien come back and advanced to the card stage and did temperature of ice, She needs quiet surroundings, so @ thing coming to him. besides ever- —s Stryver would believe T had b read his new noyel, She hoped he not even possess a social one, to Say makes ice intensely hammock or easy chale under .@ lasting work, until I believe that soon ‘Then there are hundreds of young ‘ied twenty-five years. But she cn) nothing of a business card Hon CIN. coniparieens he will come home and find a different’ business men who are constantly Would crow over It and T doubt tf she shady tres, some fancy work and good Then taking up his remark, she books will satisfy her requirements, would not meet any men in the smoker with whom to swap stories or to play family called upon to take eir wives out Would send me anything more valu- si said, “I don't see why we are not the little liquid oxy- She can also share her good times in “It was so funny his going away. go incessantly that they do not have able than a cake knife or a silver Poker. She wanted him to come back ‘New York type. We were both born gen in the pan with letters to the home folks. He rarely complained and then all of the home tor which t work. Pickle fork." to her car, or better still, now that and reared there, so pray why aren't the egg and it siz- When the city housewife, wha 1s a sudden he left us, I believe much yfany qa mun has said: “While it is “Oh, don't speak that way about they hed met, sit beside her and tell Ve?" just fagged out, goes on o vacation tiles in style. of it was mother's fault, because for s0 many y 's she ha g futher and then she on our side “Y¢ only women would realize that “I have known rich people to send The screened door of the car openea didn't mean to Intimate that foo much and couldn't see that his t6 big thing in life, the thing that ‘thelr poor friends bottles of pickled and her Apollo appeared. Without !0kKed and thought the way all N load was getting heavier Instead of joyag husbands and inspires faithful Silver onions on twenty-fifth anni- York girls do, and I am quite certain Dabterias the years\went by.” fathers. is the versarie: They call that ‘having you didn’t mean that I was a poor true there Is no pltce like home, I Your friends,"' admonished Mr. Jarr. “In that case we don't thjnk very d depended on yeyer get u chance to find out.” “But it's true," Mrs, Jarr went on. much of each other,” he yentured. “L on At the right is shown “M a grotesque doll made she should go into the country and the one who lives in a small town will get most beneficial results out of the seashore vacation. What they both vbsolutely require is a release from ill responsibility—this, in ftself, is @ her his whole life history. , The girl who works at a ma_.ine all day—in fact any woman who is em- ' t | ; the slightest hesitation upon his part wherein some no consideration is given to their labors ® Sense of humor.’ Did you ever he walked deliberately to the vacant dresser and smoked too many cigu- |” Parley ta: amuse vacation to the housekeoper. , And this is no uncommon rea aoe ikiine tact hume, und that too notice that when people do things chair next to hers and began an ani- rettes. You'll notice f didn't waste “grown-ups.” It is i¢ you want the very best ob- t leave home, Of co nat’ heated “pan tiem that are cheap or in bad taste t ted conversation neh thease: thi Ene “SMOREN ENS. cvo> st Rpoeed) tai bring Hee eats iteomint as ere ix the other side of it, There MUS ee ea Wily. they ascribe it to their sense ning.” Good) ldeke tara to dust the opposite from what se ny women—certainiy more)" Teen eAM Ene eof humor “So you think New York men are “No, oh, no, of course we were not werd bo iave been doing all year, ‘The solléf= than men——who are worked ulmost to {1° “Well, how about the sense of shabby, that they smoke tou much personal when we said those thing e who climbs stairs fifty weeks a death in the home, and who have not humor in discussing a silver wed- and only admire the well dresseq . “Well, then, we are not the usua ye the ghost of a chance to leave it be- t bind tt t ding more than ten years ahead of t ; he triump 1, and that part pare cob isie Men that: bid thera: 2) ya foc | time?” asked Mr. Jarr of their conversation ended with a that home. ‘Thelr case, of course, | Amtswers to Queries i . . “Lam not discussing a sense of “Oh, let’s not go back to that con- complete victory for him and a ques- Courtship and MI arriage 4s worse, because mother love and the From Housewives humor.” Yeplied Mrs. Jarr, “I am yersation in the diner,” she laughed, ton in her mind whether she really womanish traits that gre born with | « “rom Sew only discussing a matter of justice. liked him or not. r makes a great mistake by 3 climbing mounta during his vaca- tion, and the man or woman who ‘sits \ at a desk six days a week can find nothing better_than mountain climb- ing during the vacation. If your A girl? them make ‘them hold fast to their Alter all T have done for a whole “1tseemato me we are nea‘ly even on “By the way.” he sald with re By Betty Vincent duily duties are carried on in a nolsy , own, no matter what trials and tribu- By Emilie Hoffman lot of people in this world I shoula that subject. You said all New York yewed energy, “where are you going?” Copyright, 1922 (Nev York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. place select quiet surroundings jations they are called upon to bear. y ‘ e “orgy, Bet handsome and expensive presents girls looked’ alike and thought alike “To Round Take, a little town Just 66 EAR MISS VINCENT: greater, than hers. Whenever | the tion; if the dally son GREE * nbey ee to) thely eaves! wont be Conyriant, owe CSew York Evening World). gt ait my anniversaries, and not to and naturally 1 had to invent some- “hove Troy. I heard there was good About a year ago | met see her | feel faint. Now, M monotonous and sulet yourvecaien with work and worry, and there has lates y have to wait twenty-five years and thing to stand by my own sex. 1 °*M!ing and rowing there and when ‘@ chap about two years Vincent, won't you please advise should be spent where ther t Deen little or no chance of escape ¢¢ MY Yes, you can cook all then be disappointed.” a y . mother found out It was sort of a ™y senior, We went about to- me you have advised others? °xcitement tet “ for them, However. a new iday 1s foods fi the fiveless cooker [ER De GapPornted vay a silver Gom't really know what I think of the quiet little nook where many re- gether for awhile and then quar- Do you think this man le worthy tut no matter what your work tm : wning in their behalf as well and for summer ae 1 anniversary for you sald Mr. Jarr, New York man, Mr.—Mr.”— si0U8 conventions met, she was per- ‘relled. He asked me out and ! of my strong affections or shall | eave that behind you when you leave: hat with women entering every would highly ecommend it But as tie handed lier two lars in hard wpic i a jy (ctly satisfied to jet me go all alone refused. About three weeks ago | ignore him, as! shall have todo if home. The teacher must not devote y field of frultfuiness, even a rooster- 1 would not advise its use ex- 08 he Richard Bonnington,” he promptly — “ny jove, I'm going to Troy. Isn't Met this fellow at a dance and V cannot regard him suitor? the vacation to reading or maki : pecked woman will turn. They: get clusively throughout the year, For in- "No erat era: Pocorpenrrt ame to her aid and handed her a jt great we'll be so near? There is While he acted very cordial to me HEARTBROKEN.” ions hedules and looking over work onside the home and have some stance a enleh clans Bad uae: mane versary.” Mrs. Jarr declared, as she card which she quickly placed in her # little. trolley which goes like maa | ete to him ae 1 did not If the young man still comes to see now te xt-beeks aus iesncetan egree of independence ut tha ye sutisfuctorily prepared in the cook- Mrs. J ‘ fron ound Lala . wa as runni ou do not act jealous or allo nis must not consider the vaca him who is imposed upon ing that there is nothing gained by us- jad brought to the euiface with the giance at it Saturday and stay over the week-end, 9UP office is planning an outing ty forget her and entertain this young respondence. The office girl shoutt ; —_— , ing the fireless for this purpose, ex- Mean oS irae, i ‘ajebratea. tn “Of course, when we talked about We'll row all around that Round *® Whieh we are allowed to ask man as though you were the only two net spend her hours in embroidering Hi T know a man who has worked and cepting during the summer when heat | Every day that is cetbrated th i yor man and maid we were PaKe and Tl show you some reni 9U0 Friends, Would it be proper young people in the world, those articles she is so anxious to : slaved as a carpenter. He has edu- exhaustion and fatigue ure conditions that h , c ome teal urselves,”” he chuckled. “| “2 fishers and worth-while birds for me to ask him? | wonder “Oear Mlee Vincenas ome it into the t hest 3 gated his seyera! children and oe rn Houuewice att bousiders 38 oaks expenses of the celebration. omitting our '" chuckt ‘TH be delighted,” she found her This would be an exeolient way to years ago | used to go outgwith a The shorter fhe vy meets Mga two of them to college, always in the and bread can be baked in the fire ; 99 Sl! Saying, “for you see Tam goin show him that you still care for him girl but time has passed and we necessary jt is to plan it wisely a hope that some day ‘those children cooker. IM your, tamil demand hot ‘ce New York to Frisco to a boarding honse and probably “Dear Miss Vincent: | am a have both grown up. | should like six days of such a vacation will send duinety cueing ne evenier, pee a on't ike the people I meet at all.” young woman in my early twen- to go about with this girl again k with more real cosrey than ri mr) Vistas ane a Orsless cooker: | Yow You may find you'll like New York ties and deeply in love with a but at present she is going out nonth's vacation spent In follows % BIBLE QUESTIONS | = *« eather comfort. ins better despite the fact they are young man four years my senior with another young man. | know desire rather thar requirement i ‘i poor dressers and smoke''—— | am positive that he is my ideal she cares for me a bit by the way Sa § and Answers HOUSEWITE =1 think you will “I thought we agreed we were un- man. As he has often expressed she looks at me when | meet her 5 nds ine Bankers You) maanGn Naty sua) types.” she retorted with Eve's his admiration for me | have been at dances and parties. Will you Use Cocoanut Oil t satisfactory. Many excellent house- mmininity and he laughed and threw — ted to believe that he loved me tell me how | can renew our 7 A i wise BURSTIONS: vamana. KNUTH Prefer a slight cotton warp tk is head, that Apollo lead of However, | have learned that he friendship? ANXIOUS." For Washing Hair : mae ee durubiity and dose not doiram Grom Nery HIE Re eee Detar ont Kesking jeempany: with: an ac It is only fair to both the young qT? sou want to keep your hair in good i 2. What is the second greatest the warmth or lightness of the blan those of “Civic Virtue’ ae ae OF tine ow ernguah «woman and yourself to renew this conditionsebe careful what you wash it commandment? ket. Of course, this does not apply POSIADRROWSCAIK Revel Tove fay nave him | know that my friendship, Doubtless you have many With 3 3. In what Book is St. John’s vis+ to blankets that are half or one-thid lial Sve BSE Nin We Haat as greats Tinet old times and triends ‘to walk Most soaps and prepared. shampoos ies on the Island of Patmos de- cotton. I understand you are refer- and whether you care seriously or contain too much alkali. ‘This dries the soribed? ring’ to the wool blankets that have 9 fat each pu you will neverthe soul es the hair brittle, a he very 4. Why did Ahasuerus put aside a cotton warp running through the Wh om) \ nko much pleasure in spending hee Mulsified cocoanut oil shampoo in Vashti? length and which constitutes only a y oO OO our ,eST! last one evening together. Invite her (which is pure and entirely greaseless) ix 5. Whose words are these: small proportion, probably about one yattend a dance with you or to some jyuch better than anything else you can “Whither thou goest | will go"? fifth or one-sixth, of the blanket , Doris Doscher MURISAL Colney use for shampooing, as this can’t possibly 9 9 ‘Senta % 6. Where was Christ when He — EA Pesan ; “Dear Miss Vincent: Will you ‘njure ait fasted forty days? “MRS. G."—The durk stains on R MISS DOSCHER easily rained by gently brus please teli me if it is bad luck Simply. put two or three teaspoonfule ANSWERS. you flands from paring fruits and Kindly tell me whether tein upward with the litle to postpo) wedding or is it of Mulsified in a cup or glass with » 1. The greatest commandment is: Vesetubles are the result of neglect alum is a good astringent for eempecially ‘for it unpone superstition ? 'N DOUBT." Utle-wariawater, then mini m your baie “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God Discvlorations should be removed ut educing purposes. Also, please Dear Mise Doscher: IC Ins GF Gottpe, ineialy: A suparalt= “WEA NR Et MN TE ey then eee with all thy beart and with ull thy 02°. Dishwashing will not doit tell me just how astringents are Will you please tell mo the tion to think that postponing a wed~ an abundance of richy creaing tether & fas the soap will set the stain, Imme- used for reducing. S. CG. S. cause of perspiration of the hands ng isan til omen, bift there is an- Cleanse the huir und scalp thoroughly, bis cd Al cl Decora 4 dlutely after paring vegetables or Alum 18 often used as an atsrine nd what | can do? other side to this, ‘There ts greut The ther rinses fut catty, tnd eno E OF dry ths Local 4 fruits rub the stamp on your nands t An . ; GRATEFUL sentiment attached to that first wou. every particle «f dust, dirt, dandruff and ment: "Thou shalt love thy neigh with any acid. Vinegar will do, the r astringents are USUBlIY (veal toning up of the apstom “MS date, and I sometimes wonder cars ot. | The hair deiss quickly and bor as thy self, bits of discarded tomatoes or lemons wed in the last cold rinsing water. 4. improving the circulation. will tf it isn't better to abide by that date ;CHiyy Ane, It maven Mone 2 8. St. John's vision on the island of gre good for this purpose, or sour milk he best reduction is accomplished (ure excessive t thin ye fOF SHAR redson plone holy get Mulsifies t oil Patmos is described in the Book of 5 : i : 3 perspiration a a You can get Mulsified cocoanut ai Revelations, may be used. After rubbing with one combination Het and exer + {0 nervousness or la f ciren A to. 4 shampoo at any drug store It is very ayerations of these wash the hands in clear wa 4 lation: Bathe the har with ¢ nawer to “Patient: Do not be Cheap, ands few ounces is enough to kad 4, Ahusuerus put aside Queen Vashti ter, ‘That little roughness may be duc 2 Miss Doscher olluwing. lotion; revengeful. If the young man Is t aaa aa che Gemila (os taeetiee LAs because she refused to come before ifhaste in washing. Hands should be = [SS # fans pily Married Tet tt go tt Chat ind eee ten nee es you Mulsified him and the people carefully washed and every particle of y eyelashes are ra ng Keuxain minate him from your tite f 5. “Whither thou goest 1 will x0." soup should be rinsed off, und then Smilingly these three New York school “marms” are shown here ind are always straight. wwii you Watenctt erat he time of year to make new . are the words of Ruth they must be thoroughly dried, Do not starting on their long hike to San Francisco. They are, left to right please let me know how | ¢ \iterwards dusting wit r juaintances and in alt probibility you 6. Christ) was in the wilderness use kitchen soap to wash the hunds Freda Bayern, Fannie Krainin and Jeanette Levin, “The finest thing to make them stay curled? 0. B pecially pr wal ‘ pb \ & much mire interesting pd r when he fusted forty days. if you value thelr appearance, reduce and keep in shape for the next school term,” they say. The eyelashes lke hue wie pose is very hel en —— COCOANUT OIL SHAMPQ@:~ ~ ‘ 4