The evening world. Newspaper, May 8, 1922, Page 21

Charles T. Jackson and Dr. Ho Under the. Spur of [nfatuation. By Betty Vincent. ‘The Evening World's Authority on Courtship and Marriage. 1032 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co: OW can a young man or a Copyright, young woman know when they meet the proper per- son, the “right girl’ or the “pight man,” to wed? ‘That is a question which puzzles many ‘a young man and woman. it is not so difficult for the mature man of thirty or woman of twenty five to people up,”” to judge character and to appreciate the dit ferent qualities and characteristics which they feel would blend well with theirs, But, to young people still in their teens or early twenties this mat- ter of picking your proper mate and realizing when you meet the “right sone’’As, no timple task: Young people have 80 much in com They love to dance together to hike, to skate, to row, to swim: they enjoy the same sentimental poetry, read the same things and fre quently think. the. same line of thoughts beeause they:were educated inothe same ptibtic Kéhools.., But be- young couples toddle well to- because they rave over Bliss “size mon. Carmen's poetry, love to hike or are “Just erag about liver and bacon is no reason they would be happy to- gether through the long span of years. How, tien, is youth to know when the right girl and the right.man ap- This os’ the time of year when a young. -tman’# “fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love; yes, and a young girl’s too! Vacation time is coming and many new ac- quaintances will be made. How, then, ch, how, is youth to know when, Miss Right or Mr. Right abpear? res | : Alas, there aren set rules. Whether Dlondes ate’ happier together, bru- ffette& should “marry, blue-eyed and brown-cyed people avoid each other, fall men marry short girls, or vice versa; nobody, not even our most learned honestly psychologists could tell, : i Character” anolysts may tell us “How to sucreed in business,” but | wonder if they ean tell us “How t« +pick a mate” hearts and good common sense? If we to’ classify love and the ‘way ‘most young people select a mate as well as our own were we might group it this way 1, Love at.firgt sight. 2. Through . matehmakers other people 3. Through one’s own apprecia- tion and careful observation. pat faith in 1 believe a peopte and sonally, 1 aly at sight.’ y "Young natural! Jove each other from the moment they Introduced, meet At a dance, a EKING, May 10.—Despatehes re- ceived hi state that Gen. Wu's army ie déyaneing. «But all Chi- nese despatches ave read backward. This means Wal's army ‘is retreating, jnilitary critips claimy CANTON.—The battleship Chicken ‘how Mein avas bstown up to-day. In- Uigation “has. swept ‘the country. Remember the Mein’ is the popular slogan. The-bittleship was covered Uy accident insurance, HAVILAND, China.—At Gen. Riu Barb ‘Pei's beadquarters it was an- nounced that the Province of ‘Ting-a ling, hag, surfendered and the armies nre advancing on Clang-Clang-Clang, Whe defending- soldiers are wearing dress ghirts to present a stiff front. *“LONDON—Thé “military critic of teh London Times has cancelled, might ‘of lecture © contracts Sharge, of the. wat, He hina to-night by freight tons to take eaves for FUCHOW—A. bulletin AV iz-Edka-Wey's headquarters states that to-day's programme was as ful- lows for the Chinese soldiers: 6A. M viser-@19 AvcM., tee; 1230 P.M whép Suey? *145 P.M. chop wood; from’, Ger @ P. M,, rice pudding; 6. 15 P. M., Geecrackers ‘and chees: The boys t ‘ rl ' v w to Select the First of a Series of Three Special Articles by Betty Vincent “Love at First Sight” Often Results in a Happy Marriage, but Most Often When Acquaintance Has Been Given a Time Test-- Least Often When Marriage Has Been Rushed Into Recklessly CHINA COMMUNIQUES ey Neal R. O'Hara, be SCIENCE IN HISTORY The first use of ether as-an anaesthetic in a surgical opera- tion is credited to Dr. Crawford Long, of Jefferson, Ga.. in 1842, although similar claims have been made for Dr. Thomas Morton of Boston, ; party, some al’ a or even through busiyess relations, Youth is quick and keen and able to compre- lend situations, to know what it like at a glance. Sometimes, it is true, youth is too impetuous, but it is also true that some young people possess an apparent “live wire" instinct to understand and to love at first sizht, just because there is a sparkle, a da of something which appeals to them But while it is quite natural for youth to fall in love at first sight it is well not to marry with such rapidity. je certain of ther aa “first” impressions, take plenty of time to prove that your love will endure. Am the young couples whom [ know who fell in love at first sight and ai» happily married, over a year's courtship took place before marriage And in almost every case of unhappt ness through love at first sight mar- riage a hasty courtship can te tr to the cause of their infelicities. They “thought’? they loved e certain that you know you love before you trust your first impressions. The real old fashioned matchmaker is passe, but*there are still a number of people in the world who are con stantly making introductions between young people with an eye towsrd Cupid. — While most of these people mean well, impressionable youth is apt to be persuaded to take a step which may not be the yenture. matrimonin! Because brother or father or some well meaning matron announces that Bily or Jack is a “very eligible young man with a s omising future’ many a young girl is impressed. And because Billy Jack is told that or ‘ Lave appealed to the folks They “don't at home want cigarettesy ‘They want more opium pipes WALL STREET—Rumors of 120,000 Chinamen wounded and captured sent Eureka W. 1s, points, shing Machine. ‘up TIA-DIA, Manchuria—Ching Ling Foo has been awarded the commiss: contract for supplying rabbits P goldfish, paper silk flags for the Wu army ducks, eons, ribbon and DETROIT—Henry Vord will send a peace fleet of flivvers to stop the war in China the boys of the tlenches by Chlistmas,’* said Mr, Ford, with a quaint Chinese brogue. “My peace fleet will arrive At Tin-Tsin around the first of July, freight prepaid." “I want to get out HU'S-HU, Shanghai China Zouaves, according Havas’ Agency despatch, have adopted as thelr marching song, ‘Pack Up Your Troubles in Your Laundry Bag and Smile, Smile, Smile.” The boys sing it incessantly, without a queue The 216th to a PARIS--Pesgy Hopkins Joyce de nies her engagement tu Gen, Wo “Of course, I know Gen, Wu," said Peggy to ou Paris corsespondent, GIRL MAN _ i ith, You Should Marry | Don’t Propose or Accept a Proposal of Marriage Until You Have Studied the One You Think You Love in His or Her Home and Decide How They'll ‘‘Wear" When the Honeymoon Polish Has Worn Away. Tessie or Tillie can make a cherry pie as well as she can punch the type- writer keys many a heart starts to beating which naturally would have gone along quite regularly until the right girl came along. ‘While it is well to listen to. other people's praises of young men and women, that is not enough founda- tion to start the matrimonial craft down the long, winding stream of ma- trimony. Listen to the praises, but do your own thinking. Don't marry Billy or Jack becatise some wiseacre predicts he is going to succeed and make a barrel of money. Marry be cause you like him yourself, and then if he doesn't live up to the other people's opinions you won't care, And, boys, don’t fall for Tessie or Tillie because somebody says sie makes a corking cherry ple, or is old-fashioned as your grandmother even if she has bobbed hair and wears skirts to her knees, Marry her be- cause you love her, and then if she burns the toast and doesn’t know how to boll an egg it won't make any dif- ference. You can buy, her a stand- ard cook ook. Selecting a proper mate through jon and care- is probably the safest rule in the world to follow for a thoroughly happy marriage. Study the young man er young woman in his or her home | Meet their father and mother; see how Billy treats his small brother and how Tessin treats her small sister. No’ now forgiving or ‘0 ng he or she is when a date is broken or) when.things do not run smoothly. Picking your proper maté is really « matter of common sense. Billy may dance the latest steps and Tessie may have dreamy eyes and a rosebud mouth, but try each other out, delve into each other's characters and take note of the little things which happen along the courtship path. Love at first sight? Of course there is such a thing, but do not marry at first sight. Other people's praise? Yes, indeed, listen to all they say about Billy and ‘Tessie, but keep your own eyes open. After all, what you think about him or her is what counts and therefore it is up to you to make your own careful observations. The next article—How Long Should One Be Acquainted to Be Engaged? ause young coupler toddle ‘ony nm if no Treason they wo appy together through the long of yearn.” * + Confusion Reigns in Confucian Ter- ritory — Laundries Not Responsibl: for Goods Left Over 30 Days “but we are just good friends. Can't wiien hostile airgratt will make bal ps we take a few trips to Chinatown to- loon uscenstons over unprotected meiee Dene gether in u sightseeing bus without towns and shower them with red vesalved never heing reported engaged?’ Miss laundry checks. Lucky number wit ta Dey ores Hopkins also took occasion to deny « house lot in Rahway, N. J. Chin lqdkoemand to think things over, her reported engagements to Jack eggs, filled with natural ov poison sheweatiged: that she had tuld iim e Dempsey, Prince Buz of Abys- gas, will also be dropped ernew interest in Willis Channing, sinia, Charles Ponzi, Lloyd George iled. as desired They had agreed not’ to see each ‘efor a month, Hach was to Mux Oser the company of Lelia Whitting and = TSE-TSE FLI-Gen. Won | Willie Channing. At the endoof thar CHIN-CHIN- Atrocities of war ng awarded flatiron crosse me if they decided they cared more . ; aioe Wie Fe » for each vother, they we meet have commenced. Enemy bal)oons following «heroes jto-d 1gain--perhaps to wed flew over the city of Honk-Honk to- Mock, Duck, Mock Turtle Sout aisnigla GE the thealre ahecadin day and showere e City ‘Clerk's Quick, Asa Wak, High Strung Gir seemed f wut. this: morning office with rice, A companion dirigi- and Joy Wagon Gong, All fiy pees he glow of a bright puntata ndecloar thoughts, Margie (elt tat owed immediately and dropped ‘coll ed on. the nation id ble followed in 1 y and dropped ‘cot y ‘ Spaftard and she were taking: a bunch of old shoes. Reprisats: wilt ow in vogue hing Hest Monday silverwa start’ promptly morning O NOT use a fork to turn meat entice u rat any time of t) D that ix cooking. This will Use it for ‘bnit next tine cause the red Juice to escape the trap and render the meat dry and tasteless, m M tnadtte Whitting, that silly little debutante a it ob L. GA The Love Story of a New York Working Girl ght, 1922 (New York Bv by Presse Publishing “MARGIE” By Caroline Crawford Es ie World) WILLIS CHANNING. ARGIE awoke headache and a So Prank § dothat he lietdoys step, ‘Lisnow ‘Lelia nes’? ly weeshould diy Aad st 5 had © he after) marriage 1 Margie in turr rue lam inh h splitting vy heart pafford has ad At first lesl ce each Keeps me guessing th thought Ae nat 1 ie interested in Lelia ne first that into her 4 mad- le debu prob other-very sometimes: suid: Yes interested or I met aoMr. Channin We \ fiction writer, aad 1 hike hun very After ull, we bo’ wal sed that we were nut at Roaches will disappear if you ix thought Margi« " When baking lemon pies put the one cup ‘tine plaster paris with t work. “If he lemon juice in lust and the mixture cups of oatmeal and a little sug dibes (Sbaishine. Eig. will thicken smootiily Scatter this where the insects id anyway, 1 do like wnning gate, Slices of onion or potato 5) wuch.. Perhaps he is the right Oyste are jed from the with sulphur po und put a A monty later surely menus during those months minus an’ infested places three nights {1 Thad mveniee. ater a vethan Aral R, but there is nu such restriction im cession effectually —iuuts . stlews day at the glove counter, she the diet of rodents, Am oyster wil? regiments’ of roaches, found herself witting in the living THE EVENING WORLD, MONDAY, MAY 8, 1922, ‘ q AN) 7) TNever\ DID DRINK covered all children ‘they Cc) MAXIMS. Of a Modern Maid FAMOUS. WOMEN Mrs. Roger Hendee, When Royalton, Vt., was burned by Indians in 1776 and ‘her children were carried off, followed to the Indians’ camp, and by her bravery re- had ‘taken. TAM our ALLTHE TIME | HOw CAN [ MANAGE ITS Look Your Best —-By Doris Doscher.— By Marguerite Mooers Marshall, ——————Sevrrtain, 1922 (ew York Bvaning World) Copyright, 1922 New HERE will be no equality hetwer sible for a woman to rememt her as it is for a man to rememt +Only the novelists can make their in real life who tries to make hy usually succeeds in making her nose to The greedily hance to know their true flavor When a stranger calls a married wot glee that he may think her still in the he may put her among the alse Young lovers doubt ure Romeo and Jui among ne Ww of moonlight (4 worth twenty-four of daylight! Home is a vestly overestimated spot: as noisy os a Mit-wheel street ca 48 uncomfortable as ight shoes, as expensive as a chorus girl It must be so nive to be a man. He never spends any time worrying about what some girl thinks ef him: he is interested at all in what HE thinks of HE! Sometimes, when « Norse thing befall Aman has he finds |t couldn York Bvening Wo impetuous loyer peminds one such a hurry that he gobbles lis emotions whole followed st 4) by Prese Publishing Co n thie the ner the name of the first girl he kissed sexes until it is just as impos heroines cry effectively. Dok like a drenched ved strawberry of a seagull fish or drops them be n Miss matrimonial running the objectors to daylight saving Paul's advice "L possibl and marpies lest Courag to answer, when -a man says, “But | bore ow to answer, then y and brutally, "You do!"* room seading ve she had “Why not?’ demanded. Margie it last completed. 3 ped Willis whose cheeks were flaming . wthough the “Because there's sense t « ud ven ber Lo) pointed out young Channing, with all that evening I couldn't wait he laughed boy- shiy. “and 4 a it,oul that ut least if ou hadn't fimished the stor you would have « fa.ily good t But | have nis i} f . Margie Jeu ut this b re eat ‘ to just Channing w ding her st ) © elecute lig o that bh 1 asily read eve rd. But at the nis heel and, third page he t ooking at her out laughing. [t was # loud, Western laugh, a lay which shook the rickely old furniture ind jarred the walls It likewise J d Mariie's ny reat guns, you don't thimk THIS would eel!?"* he all too frankly asked. the directness fessor or an instruct hen her burt eyes and. high color he be- came gentle, and pulling out a chair next to his said, me “Come here and tr tell you something about putting a story nerself pointed out construct ran back story index finger takes in and then of the bang 8 failed She not only she but as his b al mis of sentences. to thé beginning and indicated there ntroduction and het 3 very much 9. his eruel laugh but be cause had hoped to become fa mous lover night “Let's take a wall a bus ride down Fitth claimed Channing, noting her ind ten minutes later they seated on the buck seat atop a green bus. To-Morrow—On Top the Bus. ey was hurt, by or, bette Avenue, stil mood wer name of the first boy who Kissed The woman eyes look “like drenched blue violets’ He is in re he has shé is divided between and gloom that Publishing Co. ARE YOU “SPRING CLEANING?” OST every one these days Is em- M xaxed in some kind of house- ning. Office, house -and this time of the year usually secelve-a thorough ove hauling and‘~as you undertake these tasks. "T want you to be very careful that you do not aa warden at the good you have acepm. plished * in =the cure of the hands in the wintér months by reg- lecting them now. A litte fort thought in gréas pons BOSGHERS ing the hands and placing a paft gloves on before undertaking a ‘¥éty grimy task goes a long way in-pré- erving the whiteness and softness’ 6f the hand. But should you have af- ready acquired callouses they can’ be softened by an application of the Pets lowing Tincture heazoin 2 drat" Aleohot a J ounces Water 5 ounces. 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Theve is nothing that so quiets elieves Uhh ollen feeling and minishes the protruding knuckles 1s bathing in hot water first, amd then ¢ followed by a massage, aad by rubbing every knuckle joint of the hand und from the Anger tips to’ the elvow, Snishing with a jong upward stroke ‘ It ve been using your hangs vil day they surely deserve “tits umount of attention at night betore you rett If the veins protrudesand we of @ very bluish color, it is in mast canes significant of poor efreulatton and it is, therefore, well for you to take such aS a good tong preferably 1a extra exercise, walk in the open air, he sunshine. ae eee | | | 4 | ! | | | | 1 ¥ i y