The evening world. Newspaper, August 26, 1921, Page 15

teary Sl “Pa renthood mui are warn Discussed by _, Judge Franklin C. Hoyt of the Children’s Court Fifth of a Course of « Lectures Arranged by The Evening World. os cw AT dows parenthood m an Parenthood can © made one ¢ the reatese ties of ma It can be made a ti which grows stronger each year with the mental and phys- ical growth of the ld Tt can be nade the out Standing, ever wing tie of marrias re plied Judge Hoyt. “Rirst of all re is the common interes ne interest of two lives febound uj in one or more new a tl eis. ‘Then there the mutua standing — whic des parentiowd should brin the powe h and Understand each wth the characters ehild « Mery child bhagy to arene L said ‘Some parents seem t piek out a flaws and “aions ur iren wit "ROS so you, Harry,’ or ‘She is just iit ou 1 * dsn't it 4 this t ny know Tealicr ature wed ne € {etn ‘ dren loosen ut than 1 parenthy lou nh 4 ay rt t parents must ( tle i 4 mh Ww might divide othe baby t “First, there is the physical at na thagtion of the baby, Its sweet- aeshegs and wholesomencss, its first kiss, its first words, its first tod dling: steps. “Second, the mental develop _ment of the child—the notice- able traits of character resem- “'Bling father, mother or some \* "relative. “Third, the education of the vdhild, the period when parents Should try in a way to keep up with their children. Then the eutdoor sports and the athletic 12\ife of the growing boy or girl. “Fourth, the social life of the child, its friends and associates, zach mean much to future de- velopment. “Fifth, the fitting of youth into its business or artistic environ ment. sia. “Bixth, the marriage of the chil ‘drown and the grandparent stage. OAT! of these epochs or periods Sine New interests and new hopes S@ate the lives of normal parent Jattretr children ure the crowning ne ie which ory of their hives, the WFows nearer and dearer every day.” ‘© dm Kpeaking of parental responsi “OHity. Judge Hoyt said ‘cMThe sparontal responsibility isa wary large one and can hardly be iovefed in all of its phages. Among ithe! phildren who are brought to avi We find there are three out- standings offer child, the gmryents and the community wonsibility for ng the res offenses upon the pa that the often must re ize “munity are y Conditions live to tributing canse ldren wager 1 ch help inake the child, 1 have known par *nit to sive up their old friendships i& Well as their business connections ste mave to a strange locality in order °t give their children a new environ- ahr yecaV hat parents do about Bye ind) spoiling the ond 1 Hoyt St sGorpo ment is sometimes Mecessary. Oova uly it may be edjeneficiul under certain conditions for Ng"ehild of healthy animal spirits as a .Punishment met for an inexcusable eautbreak of disorde t would bi worse than usele a preventive hn the case of a morbid or misunder stood child who had committed a grave moral offense, pat 1s why it is #0 necessary tor The Evening World’s ~ School of Matrimony iGESTED BY JUDGE HARRY LEWIS OF CHICAGO “Out of 200 divorce suits I disposed of last year a large proportion were children. Teachers not permitted to train young people for matri- mony, and mothers won’t.”’ JUDGE LEWIS, are veer By Fay Stevenson. Press Publishing Co, (The New York by to marriage? ving World ituw are the lives of husband and wite influenced by the Pitering of a third Viltle life into theirs? “What docs this new life (this combination of thew oun Adam and Hey characteristics) mean to them? eas Phese are the questivns 1 asked Judge Franklin Chase Hoyt of the sghildren's Court, who is one of 3 York's best autherittes upon child lite parents to | . order tu a happy, lated hume, Parents who child as an individual and not a piece ofa who keep a lively, sym- nd th nde: eir u egu regard ti uve we achinery, I tic interest in everyday affairs ind amusem: will keep thei children ‘ associations ant contamina influences, They will keop them « part of the family cirele ind both father and mother and chi n will be bound by ties them in all the epochs of Will come to the youn Suds oncluded sweetest and strongest tes of mar riage can be mad °. eve owing int of 1 tual underst the teal Wusbane inda 1 narrig run RTHER LECTURES} IN THE COURSE. vi. MARRIA 4ND THE BUDGET SYSTEM. BF Discussed by Pauline O. Field, Lawyer. vil EL IC MARRIAGES. Discussed by Rose Rothenberg, g i Assistant on District Attor- ney Swann's Staff vin. WHY HUSBANDS AND WIVES LEAVE EACH OTHER, Discussed by Miss Genevieve Allen, in Charge of the Aban- donment Bureau. xX NESS FOR HUSBANDS 1ND WIVES. Discussed by Edith Ellis Furness, Dramatist and Writer. HAP THE EVENING WORLD, FRIDAY, AUG UST 26, 1921, Mri tt Tee Wat Beh Maurice Ketten ALL THE Dust ! \ GET OFF MY SKIRT Q The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell Copyright 1921. by the Tress Publishing €o, (1: 66] ET me iook at paper a minut vo want to who won yesterday,” pleaded Mr. hurr “Ht wasn't that French girl, Mile. Lenglen, or whatever's hor nar “And if you unkind urked Mrs. Jicrr ing to make ibout women tennis players not being any rem ood looking, you can save your eath,” she added. “It isn’t playing lawn tennis, it'@ those instantaneous piotograplis; no woman looks nice ya snapshot out in th ring sun.” “that's the reason ladies who have shot their husbands in the open Iu band shooting season on Long Isiand always smash the news mphotogea- pers’ camer Mr. dare observed, “Well, be that as it may, I wasn’t in terested in the lady tennis players’ games; T want to know if the Yanks. won yesterday Babe Rath knoc! of another home run “You can wait till I'm through read ing the store news, or rather the sew of the Mrs. Jarr firmly. WHAT" You? Know = and if stores,” said QESTIONS. 1—Of which American colony was John Endicott the first Governor? 2—What is the name of the south- western extremity of England? 3—What is the national motto of the United States? 4—How many degrees tor from the Poles? 5—With what ironclad did Ericsson's “Monitor? engage in a_ historically famous battle? 6—Which is the greatest volcano in Europe? 7—What is the most famous public hool of England? 8—Into what body of water does the Rhone River, in France, empty? @—How many stripes are there in the United States revenue flag? 10—In what direction do the stripes in the revenue flag run? ANSWERS. 1, Massachusetts Bay Coiony 2 Land's Dnd; 3, E pluribus unum; 4. 90; 5, Merrimac; 6, Mount Ptna; 7, Bton Gollege; 8, Mediterranean; 9, sixteen; 10, perpendicular, the Equa- New York Evening World.) Your old baseball never interested ai last baseball game you took me (o not to my liking. One of t constantly treated the ball in a unsunitary manner. 1 wondered th the Hoard of Health was not notified Lyidently Mr. Jarr was not concerned tliat the ordinances pertaining to tho Hoard of Health had been violated at he game in question or any other, for he yawned and asked Mrs was. men most Jarr what tore news it was that she was real- ing “ls it store news about early autumn bargains?” he asked, “or is it news concerning the personpel se establishments and the and regulations that govern the porsonal appearance ot the sale people? Any more news amin zirls bobbing their hair o dering eon- the nose by forbidden clnded, ng “Phey wouldn't print that in the ad- vertising, and that’s what {am (ry- ing to read if you'd only stop inter rupting me, which is a very rude t to do!” Mrs. Jarr replied Why didn't they make a rule in offices and stores against girls wea ing their hair over their ears in. big puffs?’ Mr. Jarr inquired, “Phe flap: nd the debs and women old to know better lave been wearing their hair that way fore the r, When you s¢ c man withoat a | ke the ace of clubs, No won ¢ that youn sare e days, tha pay any attention to what to them for their own y can't hear a word for the hair over their ears.” "Kor my part, if bobbed lair were @ Vd have mine bob Jarr, “But | agree with you about the hair puffs over the ears, And that reminds me as your boss, old man Smith Ko becked at home by Clara Mudrid Smith. It's a wonder he hasn't tried to bully the pert and forward steno. rraphers down at your office by noti- fying thein if they wei hair skirts too short, tt be charied “The only reason why usn’t the office enough this summer to no tiee bat to you know what Mi says?” . t know what he says, I jon't even know him, but what does he say" asked Mrs, Ja “Why he says one of those Chicago employers that discharged his girls for bobbing their hair, got the clip- ped locks and had a wig made for hie old bald bead!" replied Mr. Jarr. h, LEGs | THIS IS THE NEW STYLE THIS SKIRT) \ SWEEPS UP >) Bre THis SKIRT) ALWAYS CATCHES | j) INTHE \ m DOOR ! WN Lg \\ 1 | HAD To TURN IT UPL 1 CAN'T \ WALK IN A | PESKY LONG (« SKIRT! ——— i} cs | Maxims of a Modern Maid | By Marguerite Mooers Marshall. by the Prese Publixming Oo, (The New York Evening When a modern man and woman marry, each merely takes a lease on the other’s heart—and there are no rent laws against the eviction of love. O for food; whereas the woman of to-day takes him If trying to change the unchangeable! NE reason why the old-fashioned woman was happier than he cessor lay in the fact that the former took man cally accepting his selfishness, suc “as is,” philosophi- indolence and pi and then wastes her- negligence, sion Love is the only known example of perpetual motion. It either waxes or wares; when it remains a fixed quantity it is liking but not love He who marries a business woman must use warily the favorite maseu- line alibi for an evening out, You see she knows just how many business conferences are held after 6 P. M.--and just how few! ‘There are persons who prefer to bathe in still water instead of surf, and there are men who value the tame satisfactions of a marriag venience more than the thrills of a love match When a woman wishes to impress a former band’ much, admirer with her hus- atness she should remember the old line about protesting too Hlome is @ vastly overestimated spot; portion to the profits of the business the overhead is out of all pro- The serpent was sin’s first press agent, but prepared most of its free advertising. Quarrels between the between the married the of reformers have pdoare the and proportion is just the other way engi exception pot the rule ife’s S book : a The Housewife’s Scrapboo LWAY'S pla silver spoon flour to one quurt of gasoline. Inp tumbler or bowl befc the plumes into t Migewmin diet in hot liquids t ed with the fing Dry in open af fruit This precaution will prevent They will jook Like new and toe curl cracking of glass Will not be ge aie : Imring summer days when When puttin away PS Wy rand. are ornaments of cut steel n warm Water, dey w rub on with a coating ol Wh u aw light coa Vaseline again wash in st wa ads od = ; polish with very find ry paper is to rub on sutfic it butter vover " 8 will mot affect tt 1° silk utbre’a beyins to wat y sponge It with etrong tea of the fabric sweetened, The tea will r When you fir frult staina on table lor and the ugar Ww Give } n ter a meal an easy metnod for removing them ta to moist rhem at once with camphor, This should be done at once before the stain is To aleen white ostrich adA one cup , wet with water. \ THis SKIRT ) a ALWAYS By Charlotte POULTICES AND PLASTERS. HERE is an at in making # poultice, Boiliys water is poured on ground edo oor meal un the mixtu an be spread on lint or mnuslin. A seft old handkerchief It laid over painful spot, which ts then covered with the het poultice ind the whole well covered with some non-heat conducting matertal, lik flannel or oiled silk, 6o that the heat will boone as long ns possible The cloth on whieh the poultice spread musi be large enough to tuck under all around, so that nothing escapes ton the patient or etoth ” \ poult prepared and ke on a hot plate or oth means bet the one in is moved heat Otherwise the application 0 interrupted and the treatmen is worse than Chareval poulliees are sometim ordered in cases of malodorous Hivioms that result from. lewt gangrene. ‘To inake powderal ehareout and 1 axseed are uss mf the poultice mad in equal parts in the usual way. Bree charcoad | first sprinkled directly over the pa be deoderized, and the poaltier lireotly to the skin, which be car cleaned with and water, then washed off with ut th and allowed to remain on draws a full blister, whiet These smal) blisters wd over painfal neuraigic nerves, the chest in cases ‘ and pnea- nia, &c, Cantharides should never be applied in cases of lumbago and other painful conditions in the lowor part of the baok, ae It affewts the kid~ be Hrees Publiiting C0 15 How to Reduce Your Weight Right in Your Own Home Reduction of Abdomen Insurance Against Many Serious Ills By Doris Doscher. LMOSTT every or uarm clock. ‘The after-bat meant to aet as an alarm ¢ ind quicken the bl ty even day Ali my stent readens who have had to wear stiff stays to hold this un- fat in place will yee in to because if persisted in it will in tite strengthen the inussl and wear away the fat and permit fr Mm oof movement of the torse, Which no stout person ever can enjoy Every athlete prides himseif on a ability to contro) the muscles of t stomach 1 have given t exercise to-day, at first using your anda to help encourage this movement but later on as the are strength- to distend and without the ald and this movement masses of fatty on the abdomen body is Kept in perfect the head well up. T mu you will be retract of the hands prevent the muscles, will Ossie owt The wit poise hands of the 1 deep imhal- while exhaling bond re ced on the t lower part ab domen, while and the you draw ution. Going Down! com Your y vers -Happiness from wiltio and, all, DOIN atitude should always be “What can 1 do for you?" If you feel that the love is slipping away above e you from you thing ig just one to do to do for that by doing dn we love, sow what there i to} sure rew person, we our rt, tas (howe We do for not necessur ly those who do for Ask yourself, person f naking us “Am 1 love bette healthier, making this am my loved one ier or wealthier Selfishne sand annot sist toy Yours ther truly ALIALIOA SMITH 2 Until the Doctor Comes Cc. st, M. D. : heysaind is likely to set up considers. vie hisehief there Blu should never be put over bony urfaces that are near the skin as » uleer night form that would expose the bone In adults whos: Vitality is low and in ehildren, plas. ters should not be allowed to remain in the ase of th mor rebus as they form blisters much Mother’s By Emilie Hoffman. vther room will be amused for quae while y it next time the li tot gets cress you cannot give 1 (tention ju ou must finish what you are do! NT 10 prone A really mu less Lo nr f any ul trot tod de not negleet jet the b my nd rea dir lunpression ¢ benetited by the fresh air tam to sit ina draught be- tw pen window of door nt day parents do not exact on the plow that t dy not vak the wi bila, but @ vast difference betw oT s and A committee to ime tnportance known nfancy readfly atand weeks ( recognize authority whom it can impose upot Ittle kidiets in the homes of some of your friends for proof of this. And then wisely admonish the parents to reform their ideas on child training.: wt! unde Watch th wakened in tt its foundation in vito the muscles of the the ring of een giving grou Dy to wwaken and to morning by 1 ruby that Lb have vod from slut sishiness yond to parts of the body that are undernourished because « this lack of cinoulation They proper breathing is essen tal during the execution of all of them, but particularly nt les a ry ACCUM LES 1 the wbdomea@ in te With the movement of the digestive urgan Well as marring the beautiful | of the figure. As these organs are interfered with the mopious dark ing of our digestive system is interrupted and a fun ain of iit follows, starting with slight indigestion as Obesity in une ing in serious iHness. Aw auty has its foundation im good heath and as grace freedom of movement, | it ses that will give to take hragm and abdomen slightly forward, press the hands in w nd move them upward as yon were going to push the intes tines up under the ribs. Witile “the hands relax their hold, draw an@the 4 breath, endeavouring to dis tend the abdomen as much as pos sible, and then repeat the moverten This distention and retraction shou! | be repeated at least ten times, bath rubs touch every body, but this abdomen hes the vital organs and js extremely important. De pouraged if you find you ar: in the clutches of titetati your abdominal ars refuse to move, but remember tha you combining these exercis with proper dieting and this will he reduce sible you to gain control of the muscles « the stomach, which is the most in portant thing for who would retain his he the Ereshiness of youth portion of th rub or tissues and are you and make it pc verybody alth and Answers to Questions 1am a daily reader of your wonderful articles published in The Evening World, and would be very grateful if you will an- swer these questions: My com pexion is very poor and | am a mouth breather. Has that any thing to do with it? 1 think’ 1° have adenoids, but have been advised against an operation, as it might not do me any good and 1 am not in ill health. Could anything be done to cure mouth breathing? | am nineteen years old, 5 feet tall and weigh 120 pounds. Has adenoids any effect on my growth? Ww. M'M- 1 believe that the adenoids underlying cause of both your breathing and your poor complex. As the removal of these by an oper tion is nearly always successful, as you sy you are not sickly, th is no reason why you should not-ha them removed at once, as your gene gu mo: health will improve and your com plexion will be better, Adenoids sume times also have an effect. on you growth. A person that has ealerged sdenoids is like an engine that isorur ning Without sufficient fuel, becru you cannot breathe properly and'oxy ix absolutely essential to. fou rewlth. ‘ 1 am a constant reader of your articles in The Evening World. | follow all the instructions and | can do the exercises with perfect ease. |! have had a recent illness and | get very fatigued in my legs at the slightest exertion. Can you give me any help? | realize that life has nothing better to offer than good health. | am 5 feet 2 inches and weigh 112 pounds, MAB Do not be discouraged abdut” tre ve of fatigue that you des your letter, as 1 assure you tha with proper treatment it will ve oon pass away, Your recente tine caused the muscles in the eaive of your legs to becume Qabby.vund < these are the muscles that you us when walking, you can readily s you have that feeling of fuligue, is a ¢ non thing after one been cont nbed. Massaging a ind mornin will gtve you # grea relief, as it wi mulate the etret Lion, and be cure and take : ween cach Catiguing task o whea you have walked distanee, ¥ und wr nore for ye nt, so Ury Lt ple 1 am sure will have nour and that in a short while you rebounded back realth, | am fourteen weigh 101 pounds. My height is 5 feet 4 inches. Kindly tell me my correct weight and why my face is so thin and not my boay rs of age and A. K. You will find that your face wilt Mi ont us you row older, because you Ate for your age and all of y ength has gone to develop your bony structure, You shoukl weigh 120 pounds, Phenty of aleep ani milk Will give you this extra weigh! and also fill out your face. Sarah V.: For your age and heig! you should w 139 pounds. Suga is converted heat and fat m quickly than any other food: so should be eaten in very ama quan- tity, especially in the summer, and be eliminated from the reducing Get, Ey | mecaliabiet ee a ~ —