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TUESDAY, OCTOBER 14, 1919 Happy Is the Man Who . La | Marries the “Mother Type” Marjorie Patterson’s Analysis. | cane = ‘ ” a aa oz Yet, With the Coming of Children, No Wife Should ne Man s Woman ‘ Uses Brains Just Over From Paris, Gaby Deslys Deprive Her Husband of the Love That Is His; To Gain Men’s Homage Husband and Children Should Share on a “Fifty- a oe ile tal Cont ene |Brings Knee-Length Gowns to New York\ "2. Copyright, 1 by The Press Publishing Co. (The New York Evening World.) Crowded Ballroom Floor and Yet Make Her| O children make married couples more contented or are they @ hi d He Are the Sole Inhabitant bone of contention? The other day a letter from a “devoted Feel That She and He Are the Sole Inhabitants of the Cosmos. | mother” came to the writer. It stated that before her child was: born her husband held the first place in her heart, but now she found that; A “Man’s Woman’’ Will Protect, Sacrifice and Even; Lie for a Man of Little Moral Responsibility—| with the advent of her baby ber husband holds second place in her heart. She wanted to know if this is a normal condition. Should a wife love her She Must Accentuate’ Her Charms: Mask Her, ‘ Intelligence. re | children better than her husband? Age they just a little bit nearer and dearer to her than he could ever be? By Marguerite Mooers Marshall by The Press Publishing Co. (The New York TUESDAY, OCTOBER 14, 1919 “Woman's Man” Needs Women : To Feed His Vanity | | $—83—$, Backless, Sleeveless and Skirtless Gowng Mirror the Latest Fashions in Gay Paree! Fancy Shoes From the French Capital Are Round-Toed and Have Enormous French Heels. 8—8—%, experienced this same sensation over|#0 afraid their husbands will think’ that motherhood has unfitted them to their firstborn, But motherhood | he good companions that they are should never be allowed to crowd wife- | tually willing to neglect their children hood to the wall. The tdeal wife finds|to keep their husbands’ love. ‘They that motherhood only increases her] Will go to the movies and leave thetr * children playing upon the street, make devotion to her busband. The child,|q jong cali until late hours without No doubt many young wives have ing World.) Coparia! woman's man? e HAT Is a Bs “ inetead of taking the love of the par-| once thinking of the child at home § What fs @ man's woms: ¥ | ents for itself, is sent into the world| But man is never pleased.or flattered ‘ “A woman's man,” says Miss Marjorie Patterson, “is a man | we the husband and wife cogett I by such attention at the expense of } ¥ e by 7 . “| his children, ; Who needs women, whose Lid Ap) Interest is women—and who makes er by @ holier, stronger tie than wed-| ‘There is a great deal of this “moths women know it! ding bells or a mere band of gold. er spirit” in every father, Mart ree f “A man’s woman is a woman who needs admir It matters not how many children |®Pects motherhood more than agy- ' tion, whose supreme interest is life and who carries will in s thing else in the world, and if he tind@ @ mother may have or how dear they | his wife lacks the greatest of feminine may be, she must cling to her hus-| virtues hé will step forward and pay band—that first love, The truest, best | the role himself before he secs bis ildren neglected. love which any wife can give her hus-*CMireh Neblecten and is the maw band is more or less of a mothér type who marries the mother type of w of love. After the first year of mar-; man. With the coming of childgem tied life a calmer, more substantial |man expects to sacrifice a largo per= a vite’: eo it he love for her husband is born within | “on of his wifes timo just as he exe pects to foot extra expenSes and p' the breast of the w This is the/ up with many inconveniences. Therer, love which should never desert him. fore he is not alarmed when his wife (t ds the love which every man needs, | finds less time for his company or is With the com! less affectionate to him. But he is ells acta ain 2 era Ne | alarmed if he finds his wife is just am oe eee re ee ee f| carefree and just as kittenish ay whem this motherly, womanly love. She| they were first married. “ must learn to share her mother love| Motherhood is supposed to male with her husband and her children| every woman a little more “stali” and alike. It ust be a «lear case of} 4 little more serious, Man appreciates bird.” The epigram-| tants of the cosmos, that he sees no matic Miss Pat-| One but her, never has ecen any one terson is a person | €l8¢, never will seo any ono ¢lso In the of interest for|M@xt million years.” several reasons.| “And the woman doesn't exist,” I ‘There is, first,|Temarked, “who can view that type the reason why I put these particular | of man with detachment while he is Questions to her—that she is the au-|around. She can analyze him, even thor of the recently published “A|laugh at him—but not while he is on ‘Woman's Man,” the season's strongest | the job.” ad most daring love story by an| “Of course he can make almost any } Amerjcan author. Then Miss Patterson | woman the object of,his technique of is the great-niece of Dilzabeth Patter-| love-making,” added Mias Patterson, - isely. “We must not expect con- warty -At 4, gon, who married Jerome Bonaparte, | 9 fifty-fifty. these qualities in woman. He does not i lL Geother of the great Napoleon. also | 2ta0cy from bim. It’s all @ part of In some families the father is made | admire that flighty, “aren't I young?” ‘ " Great Napoleon. Also! the law of compensation, probably.) to feel that he is only the financial | spirit in her half as much as he dows j # ®mong her ancestors are three Colo- | The constant, faithful man never can Bi 7 ‘ . end of things; that nothing is ex-|the womanly, sensible mind. j * ial Governors and Charles Carroll | 8!ve boxer} singel feta? moments. fh 5) “ 4 * + i cted of = excopt to “provide. Secretly many a man has hoped that la question of whether one prefers i - : - cj . i any @ father does not feel as “at| children will give his wife a serious, 5 Sf Carroliton. To breeding and beauty | \igntning or the calm glow of the} \j F ; : 4 % home" under bis own roof ay the| sane point of view. If he finds, hows she has that fetching combination | table lamp. Personally, give me) .¢ . . k z : Se : \ casual caller, ever, that his wife still wishes to pro= of curly red-brown hair, green eyes | lightning! ‘ > 4 A ‘ R ¢ 7 i eiges het ted of an uae are long those first days of “do you love woe . "Mo too!” I atipulaed, and then | ES : i ‘or the children” and none left for|me as much as I love you?" he feels |. and plnk-and-white complexion—she| , “Me toot" " om - ‘ Z the father has driven many men to| that something 1s vitally lackiag in big hereeif has added the laurels of ac-| «Now about the man's woman,” I Ne } their clubs, billiard parlors and other | household. He cannot help feel! “ complishment, for, though not yet|observed. “What seem to you to be . * { 5 | } ' masculine haunts when they really | that if motherhood and the caro of thirty, she is the author of three| her dominant characteristics? rs H would have preferred a cozy little cur-| tle ones will not develop womanlin ‘ y ” doe 5 " 2 ner by their own fireside. in his wife sure! Gavels and three playe—ehe holds th “The chief one is will power,” de po i i fe surely nothing will ¥ 8! clared Miss Patterson, “Sho must ee 1) +p t 3 : Of course every husband is thrilled} ‘The wife who makes her love fifty« ‘ distinction of being tho only Amert-! have her will developed to the point | » 9 u f Stam ‘ ree by the sight of & tender, devoted wite fifty for both husband and children ' ean actress to play lead roles at where it acts like the serpent's hyp- { - he P is . , 2 ending over bis first born babe, @]is the normal, natural wife. Her life, © ptrattora. nosis of the bird, You know Thack- . " i 3 ‘ new love is born when the husband |{y full of every-day detail. She is not tford-on-Avon, and she has been 5 , . i 7 toes his wife @ mother, but he oan-| fretting and wortyine her nonce, for Robe: eray says any woman, unless she has ; Ss c < j deading woman for Robert Lorraine, ¢ray ways # Cn A rs , , c ; 7 # not help longing for a few glances for |about how little time he devotes 1 one ces Ove T aoare think tne j * . : himself. Will this wife of his bend | her, she understands his business en 4 " | nue giana oN thi Wren Pe saae Y ry Sh. . over the little fellow all through his | gagements and worrtes and can coma ' pr onal aie kindergarten days, school days and!pare them with her own household enough will power, } t 4 , ‘ 3 his college days? ‘Will she be more | duties, Her life 1s not made up of ; > | ‘She must not be a too unselfish | ‘ +f Interested in this new life than in his? | never-to-be-satisfied, clinging lover Peron, as is so often the woman who | ] It Is true the perfect mother is de- | it is rather a life full of carnest, ain« » | succumbs to the woman's man, The | ‘ voted to her éhildren. The siren and | cere lov : | man's woman must appreciate her| i ‘ iy the Sappho type of woman cares only! No husband is ever jealous of the own worth, as the first step toward wf, t for the mdn, But the true, womaniy, | Io his wi bestows upon hie chilw | making others appreciate it, She . natural mother loves the child. Moth-|dren, He never begrudges the time, | need not bo beautiful if whe ts intel er love is first of all in her heart. But| she gives to the little ones who ligent, She needs to be enormoysiy A ? . she must not allow her maternal in-|to bear his name. That time intelligent; then she can seem to have | n* i ‘ ‘ stincts to crowd out the first big love |rob him personally in many cases, ‘ beauty, charm, grace and seem NOT | - } ’ of her heart, she must not become so| something big and manly within hi } . to have inteliigence, except of the , - i i VENING . absorbed in her new cares that she| would not hi it otherwise, “ng i appreciative order. GOWN OF BLAC forgets to be a comrade and a com-| Such a husband alwaye says “m: “As I see her, she does not so much A : " CHIFFON panion to her husband, wife” with an indescribable tender | need men as she needs the richness * Some wives, on the other hand, are'ness tn his mind, : of life they stand for—their homage, OWN OF 7 their knowledge of Ife, their ability | CERISe SILK FINEST SUIT OF ARMOR, 392 YEARS OLD, to kindle and enrich emotions, The VET YN y Y¥ METROPOLITAN MUSEUM man's woman knows a dt more about | Ms AC QUIRED BYM , f how to live than any other woman. She is cosmopolitan, even if she has By Pav S | always dwelt in one city, She under- | y Fay Stevenson | i. stands good cooking. She keeps in ¥ | at . Consright, 1919, by The Prege Publishing Co. ’ touch with current events, And she pig a eg San oad | wo MINUIES | Cn Hehtheartednesa” Bhe is’ more than | (77 ABY DESLYS is in town! And \ OPTIMISM | “ ‘ on RG ! oh me ! what » ‘likely to be @ woman's woman too, ( ; my! hse, OR yl, w ! \ because als is so interesting in her- wardrobe she has with her! OF rm | ; eA ae Es | self. What dackiess, sleeveless, skir Herman J tic H { Charles Wyndham and Sir Her-| “And ta she ‘catty’, as is so fre-| * gowns —straight ' j y h ee Dert Treo. quently assumod?" I asked Miss Pat- from gee Bares’ ik i ji & pinged ‘ . 5 +, | terson ; 4 fe ‘A Woman's Man,” Miss Patterson's | "F000. oe ane amserted. “L Yesterday after- oor FS Batest bit of work, is in form the|inink a man's woman hag her sense | noon in her suite at Compensations rs gutoblography of a man whose life Is | of power too well satistied to descend the Savoy she shawed Copsright, 1919, by The Preas Publishing Co, f Uterally made by women— first his|to pettishness and scratching. The | them all to me, one (The New York World.) 4 4 mother, then a cheap actress for {catty woman is much more likely to by one, a8 she un- RAVE lips have been, silence ) the the soured, disappointed, unsatis- saiced thanstrom forever; beautiful cities crumbled whom he has a boyish infatuation, | eq creature, who has not many pa | eke dus Ge ties scutes ant then the super-siren wife of his pub- | friends of elther sex she tinicet steamer And do any of them have backs?” Gaby shrugged her shoulders, de-| . nosing of all centuries revert to the i } lisher, then the good little girl he Bele & man’s woman doean't trunks _(maginable ne skirt comes to the waistline claring that personally she didn’t) ao, wi8on desire and stone clubs out- i marries, and finally the bad little | Vonin eats from the companionship Babigt SOurees vines in the back and that is all. Just Iook care very much about trotteurs and) rycc1 reason, when benighted in- girl with whom he just misses elop- | and admiration of men she can make | BXvans peda of i me | at this, Here is an afternoon gown.’ | really only has one, Bhe brought it] duicance in primal passion and lust j { ing. The story is as interesting as |use of artistically, or, if she does not | and only fall JS!) ‘she held up a little gown of certse | forth it proved to be an electric] +) yu; was the ocoupatjon and recre- ; the stories of unprincipled porsons {Choose artistic expression of any sort,|one Inch below the kneo one dees] jin” gavetyn with an overakirt| blue serge sult with a tight skirt, un- | (KU! was th | waually are—we may as we:l be can. |{" enriching her life and the con- ie sets oie Agia 22k: SUES drapery. of heavy gray Venice lace.| belted loose box coat and just @ 8u8-| civiigation can never hold a brief aid on that point {ful career!” ended Miss Patterson | piv Dea cee ce a pile tha] The front bodice was a combination | gestion of mole on the collar. for war, for to hold @ brief for wer “Why is it,” I asked of the lovely | enthusiasticaly, “I had rather be a - ree . ee lat ® h just enough |°f the silk and lace and strands of| “I préfer a little coat like this," 8he| were to imperil civilization itself. is young author, when I eaw her at the |™8n's Woman than anything else tn | ™4! vl : sn RR SG abelge ea yt pearls in motifs, A girdle of mole| said, exhibiting a little box coat of] ‘phe world was prodigal and profii- ' Hotel Wentworth, where she ts stop: | "fe 1 how anytt ine obeleees cs eee ae ener re Boake DEM und gold embroidery completed tho|conoy, “and a plaid sport skirt or Wool |gate, shamefully and criminally ex: ' - J | ow 4 i DS, | as a native Parisia se 1 tc ” avagant of hourg @ powers anc ping for a few days, “that—whatever {ts one! “Phis is any vest gown, my most | SowN : Co ee eee ae aie nate? Wolt,| Bosesslons,, Uli the supreme crisis of else & woman's man is—he usudlly is ——— —- -- \eiuknine gown.’ wala Gabi, diaehe Another scan FOND bs of i | Piaget st ue Hae aeg 7 fa rime aieiapee) ae and Goats, ey ter?” ling evening gown of black chiffon | Teen Keorgette, ‘ no Sees | Her Fe MmORUY BE Pim oe Mohammedan and €onfuc joslem 5 ig fb : | Y ie an evening gown of black chiffon | On ery of kitten's ear satin in!the ‘Tam style, and nearly all of them| and ragun, ‘Theist and Atheist and < ‘For three reasons, replied velvet with just a pretense to a back é ~ . 3 ; religious ; , i oh Agnostic to lay down their relig - nieh cftises' so chara, about *Hlty way of strap and tinsel, It con-|® deeper shade attached with ©}are black, ‘Trust a French woman | Agnostic to lay down thelr rellgicus ; ‘ 'T Copyninat, 1910, by THe trom Pubtiming Co . . reen volvet buttons, Lace dyed in | for that every time. Black gloves and | @!iferenc wee morc: irresponsibility —- perhaps be- Tite New’ York Sivenivg World} | alates of a few*inches of skirt ang . ' t purple te used for! black bats will always look well with tense of duty and Gecensy. aun wa 1 f sarmonizing tone of purple is used for! black hats will always look we i peaceful, law-wbiding globe wa cause of its good humor and light- | My dear Readers: Once up- , fa few half inches of front bodice. THe) ™ sa ag ng ry Ohe facinie hak Ge CSB tatchnted into @.bleody Alms Meastedness, Then the strain of weak- on a time there was a man “[| gown was absolutely plain with the| tho skirt and front bodte | he 901056 Ak: Spe. PALAROW: . feddon, determined to prevail or who was out of a job, So he : ‘ And then Gaby displayed a Uttle| But Gwby's shoes interested me) seddon, mie terminate ness in a man is an irresistible ap- pxception of a slight fulness over eat ta . sghe |perish in its mission to 7 | went to another man and asked » hips giving the harem influence, |wown7of dark blue chiffon over red | more than anything in her-wardrobe. | PTO" Who had vandalized holiness ee) to moat vigiep igs / Aah Si] Biss for work, 600 the other Mien ae eee cause of ite severe {aatin, And next to it came an elec-| They were all made on the ame pat-|and purity, violated the faith and . Benen: 20 488 make eacr! meRolt this stone up and down {ness volunteered Gaby, “and 1 add| tric blue panne velvet gown, All.of|tern, whether. pumps high boots or) sacraments of MADMInE || os ‘@ces for him, to mother him. And . J ‘ | Bee th 5 elthe: high shades|half-shocs. They were round-toed— 0 wale & . Leen Moe gid ay for a day and I'll pay you a just a touch of color to the thing by | her gowns aro either in high | energetic, most virile and humane na SRP AMY: women jike & duy's wages.” |weariyg this." She threw a Jong|or black, Kvidently tans, browgs and | Just as round toed as our “common-| tion, yet necessity fertilized and Woman’e man that he js bound to No, the man didn't want t we . bes i - appeal te} senso” shocs—and then, with those] stimulated our Industries and agri- do tha . searf over her shoulders, very simi-|sray and pastel tints do not aFen| AE a ete a LR ard sme id GRE Ines chee thet aly #0 Il Is not work you want.” [lar in length and width and the way |Gaby's love of color, She ospeclally | enormous grench heel! Every one of{distribution, spurred medical | and suid the prospective employer, | it fell, to a priest's pall, It was heay- {adores a gown of prune color tricu-|our boots having a French heel boasts | chemical research to wonders of 6, 1 need coul in my cele Hl ity headed with orango and grecn|lette with a front bodice of channel /of « long, glonder tor, Naturally, her| human rehabilitation and resurrec: ‘eed bis vanit jar,” replied the worker, 1% meas - * hia oc | foot looks very all, aw the round !tion, bared the peaks of humanitar- Bere semecnnens to feed his vanity “You may have a ton from veads tngel and the same now fabric Insec) (OO its or in the front and the heel | ianism men and women could attain, at thelr springs of appreciution, needs my cellar,” said the other man, [| “Are all your gyening gowns axfon the skirt, Because this gown! cut, off in the back. But then, of|tho sacrifices and dangers they thelr encouragement and the en “No, that is not the way ‘short ay that?" Masked, noticing that | needs life she slips an Oriental scarf | course, one’s feet must be Considered | cheerfully braved, the bardahiipe ey HE Metropolitan Museum of Art hus announced the acquisition of » e n lo pnors want it,” answered the worker, , nie, ? ove: jand made to look as tiny a@ possible| willingly underwent, he comforts the finest suit of engraved and gilded armor for man and horse ta tions they inspire in him. Io is enor “Then you do not want work as sho held the velvet gown up tolof many shades over her shoulders, | in) & sxirt 1s to reach just one inch | they uncomplainingly relinquished, | SR ae ee ee eat itelinsel to Gauente moualy intorested in women, since his or coal, you want peace—peace her it seemed quit short as the| And then there is the fur gown in| oy. ine Knees. War, with its shocking concomi- ene b n 1466 and died in 1546. He was a dis- Memperament tells him that they are of mind—ts that It?" little blue serge house dress shé wore. | which she travelled, Although it looks And then there aro the diamond| tants of evil and death, must stand| Genouilhac, who was born in ons ‘ nh bes ft Aan he gate 'tl guers that is what T an ~ 4 s Hy ts all in one| garters to be considered. Not so very |for always as \ts own’ executioner,| tinguished courtier and warrior in the court of Louis XII. and Francis £ eer £90 “he geie his 8 Th Busse thal ie whet t an hoy are ull exactly one inch over | itke # coat sult It really is all in one |i ert Alice Roosvelt Longworth | seif-convicted, It has no more rea- The suit includes trappings for the horse and is in thg pink of con- isepoes, He is tho sort of man T Was out of work, i: y isbees," she replied, looking at me| piece only having the overskirt effect) aried yoclety by Wearing slippers|son than rampant murder, than| dition, The armor ¢ the rn as well as that for the horse is heavily man ith the very expression of a wax|which gives the coat lines. The gown) with diamond: studded heels. Porhape Wholesale slaughter Se jnnncentas but) gilded at all points Bod ta r ornamented with figures, traceries and | od in fact, £ think she could be|is made entirely of ragating — she chose diamo! is inst ol @ the flower om. borders. The locking gaunt special feature of the suit. Up in a store window as a yer-|coney fur. % and anstore, Iaeeeipe. ther were lewamp and the oid hit Oe streined ‘This magnificent pectin been placed for the present in the { wo = 7 7 AE Ay 1. bit lgner toward the | ™ain entrance hall of the y Gat the Fifth Avenue entrance, where