The evening world. Newspaper, November 11, 1914, Page 3

% a mn ED DOL TOEND DISTRESS HERE DUE 10 WAR | Commissioner Kingsbury Says Suffering Is Great—Urges Peopé to Help. FASTING IN SCHOOLS. Unfed Little Girls Can’t GoOn With Studies — Principals Seek Money for Lunches, By Sophie Irene Loeb. 2, “It would take nearly $6,000,000 to pat our equipment and means of re- Met to nearly adequately meet the | Great distress of this city to-day,” John A. Kingsbury, Commis- @loner of Pubiio Charities, and also former head of the Association for of the children in the prim- les are suffering from mal- of the gramm ge on with the’: leseone on “We should meet the immediate “ineeds of the school children | epeak ef,” o.'1 Mr. 4 8172 thie mEtter could be well } led by the present Committees o 4 eA mpi Jerisdiotion, and their only reason, serve is a shortage of money. Hun- dreds of chikiren in the schools could | be provided with a substantial noon- , ay meal that would certainly be a Great step in keeping them physically M& to take thetr lessons, “The children who could pay a penny without hardship should be required to do so. But where the investigated case shows destitution, this money should be furnished the @aild, or some other method could be gemployed to secure that very neces- cary meal. )* “The present state of things also _ Makes it necessary that many chil- Gren be put in institutions that could , Otherwise be kept at home with thcir parents or guardians if some means Were available for contributing to ‘their eupport until the earning pow:r of the famity was restored. “I believe that @ well directed cam- Heo investigation would people paign with oonvince itably inclined of this great city that money con- tributed toward relieving this matter of unemployment, school lunches, and various other measures would prove . ‘This could be done throuch ry the municipal authorities, not only relieve the present crisi but would go a long way towa: nently correcting ‘the under- tors who come in Gaily contact with cases of destitu- tion report unemployment as one of Much of this is due to the methods of many em- jy fd who provide only seasonablo an number ig causes. vious inv the chief causes. epaemodia employme “This necessarily throw: TiaPthing. and certainly. tis ¥e lar thing, and cer fhe condition’ Is accentuated, In lg LA ! and other fi orles who have joined with us. ‘Of course this faira, But if funds were available ai s othef means of mecting this unem. playment problem would be to send * men to various places where employ- ment is obtainable. “The Municipal Employment, B One Ten The Famous Chocolate Laxative will regulate your bowels and relieve you of the miseries of Constipation If your stomach isn’t just right, if you have a bad taste in the mouth, @vated tongue, feel distressed after take Ex-Lax. and strengthen the nervous system. You will be surprised to see how i vere ' nr energy, ambition and appetite will come back to you, h. UU,UUU . and the principal appealed : grades makes {the came appeal, and saye there are Pimany girls in hie department unable ingsbury. “lcm ciation for the ement of the Conditions of the “This matter is now under their J understand, for not developing the symtem to the great purpose it could “ ] oy one ail | fon eet Bvwei. Fritihe Te i 5 | c Cooker ¢ U “Why Should a Husband Feel Ashamed to Sew On His Wife’s Buttons?” Asks Mrs. Havelock Ellis, Who Declares He Should Not Expect Her to Be a Servant, but Should Help Keep House. ny wires my CHILDREN, me MOUSE ! MY MONEY J “(No One but a Pig or Monkey Wants to Possess by Force. “Boredom Ie the Death of Love. “If a Husband Asks His Wife to Cook and Clean for Him, Let Him Do the Same for Her. “There Are Plenty of Men Who Like Says Mrs. Havelock Ellis, Author, Who RUMIMATE SLAVERY -- Is On the Domestic Duties and Plenty of BoRgDOm fh THe Firing Line Women Who Dislike Them. DEATH @R LOVE fW ; “When I Visit My Husband He pa Sa e oF Women's Takes Care of Our Rooms. And mistrust between husband and| Detrott busbands tt assumes throug>- Movement: 3 «The Man of the Future Will Ac-|sevendence ot the lation. "Wide teat] oi ete Tae tae Actually, ho ts just as much bound to live for her.” And Mrs. Ellis and I agreed that in the !doal marriage husband and wife live for each other—ffty-fitty. removed, there is no motive for much petty lying that is done to-day. Th woman will ni 1 much money she has spent, cr pi varicate to obtain fresh supplies, a: . he re ee nee Sete aggerato income, ey say at By Marguerite Mooers Marshall. all is fair in love and war. We're find- What le an ideal wife? _ [ing out daily One hundred Detroit husbands have fust announced a counsel of per| turn quire So-Called Feminine Attri- butes. pOVEMSER 3 is n ! It a Wife, |YOUNG MINSTER If 'M-E-A-L-S Spells Matrimony For You!| IND WOMAN READ UNTIL MIDNIGHT Rev. Mr. Baker’s Deposition Tells of Mrs, Brashears’s Visits to His Room. 1. 2O24 tent Wad Compaay of No. 111 Smith had lived in «@ boarting trouse preacher with the warm The brought suit after ehe and Mrs. Broadway, fashionable i Portland, Ore, where, she charged, the seventy-year- Rev. Mr: Haker in his, dopo. wald hi at Mre. Denn; boas house in 1908 and 1909, He withdrew his arm. ktos or embrace you?" “Did Mra. Bragheare ever try to tn (oe pastor? the door was focked?* boarding house mistress had 60 tified in @ deposition, “Well, the parlor door was cloned,” the Rev. Mr. Baker anawered, “but I nover tried ihe door to see if it was locke.” i Rogers said he strongly Mrs. Brashears felt rather toward him. Rogers was asked: “Is it true you told Mra. Sinith that you had said to Mrs. Brashears on one of her fre- quent calls at your office t tell it to Mrs, Smith—tt | was my wife,” was Rogers's answer. The deposition of hia wife, Mrs. Frances Rogers, denged she had heard | %, Mra, Smith utter slanderous re-|* — Pa. 4 yd ate She what Mrs. Taylor, another boarder, told her. “She told me she heard Mrs. Bras- hears in Mr. Baker's room and Mr, Baker was conxing her to go out, it wae then midnight.” hears had testified she foom for warmth because system of the boarding- was tive. S| also sald sho obtained a iittle spiritual uplift 01 the Smith ified ahe heard the Rev. Mr. Baker exclaim ‘or God's sake, leave my room!” The minister {a now tn California Te. — BESIDES THE LOOKS— THE COMFORT Mot ently looks better, $02 Candler Building—220 W. | Honre—Monday, Westni ‘end Hridey, 104 * day, Tharwt Palate We Ninday. 10k te toe “No, she never showed any affeo- tton for me except taking my arm. ‘The minister was thirty-three years hears ‘thi fection for HER, to counterbalance the Rules of Rectitude tor Married Men which Detroit wives propounded last week. Here is the Met drawn up by the husbands: 1, No woman can qualify as an ideal wife unless ghe be s good cook. 2, She must be self-reliant. 8. She must not nag and find fault. 4. She must be content, but not without ambitiom 6. She must continue to be a sweetheart, 6. She must keep her home as tidy for the recep- tion of @ husband as she did for his reception when he o PSHAT Was @ wooer. I wondered shortly be published here. just what a successful modern wife would think of thess connubial commandments. And so I submitted them to Mrs. Havelock Ellis, whoge husband is certainly the best known English writer on sex psychology and who is herself a person of distinction. Sho has just arrived in New York to lecture on the woman movement, in which she has been interested for thirty-five years, and sponta ‘be worth snything. ist get over hie ide: ruth se. monkey wants to A human man wi peed faith iv BONWIT- ‘Ghe : about TELLE FIFTH AVENUE,AT,38™.STREET Present a Special Offering Thursday th hi q her newest novel, “Love-Acre,” will something about the job of ideal wife. should abjure a too confining domes- frankly attributes much of her own husband have always had separate when they felt inclined, freedom ify as an i " “You also think the ideal wife city? I euggested. For Mrs, Ellis appiness to the fact that she and her uarters, and “ isited” each other However, she doesn't say that every husband and wife must live apart in order to live happy together, Unusual and Exclusive Models in Women’s Limousine and Daytime Coats These models depart from the commonplace types in dares that makes for distinct individuality. Choker Collar Coats id would year “We have endeavored to correct this by interesting the employers so to regulate their labor that it may con- tinue during the whole year and not cast out workmen at various inter- vow of shoo ilar manu. juires a long, well- planned campaign and will not imme diately relieve the present state of af. This will tone up your stomach, aid digestion, promote bodily _ 10c, 25¢ and 50¢ a Box, at All Drug Stores, But to many the most remarkable of Mrs, Ellis's achievements must be the one she gracefully acknowledged last epring—that »he and her husband have been married for twenty-two years and are sweethearts still, Surety that record indicates that she knows Yet sho doesn't in the least agree with the Detroit husbands as to the re- quisite qualifications, WHY NOT HAVE AN ELECTRIC- COOKER WIFE? “T should think the men who drew up that list wanted general house- workers rather than wives,” she ob- served briskly, “Or, eince they con- elder culinary achievement of the first CHEEK-BY-JOWL DOMESTICITY NOT NECESSARY, If the two can find happiness tn one household, by all means let them do it!" @he exclaimed, “Ail I urge that th should be no prejudice against a husband and wife whose temppraments are such that their love would perish if they were compelled to live all the time in cheek-by-jowl domesticity, My husband and I hava with satin....... The ‘Hussar schemes similar to this, out various PP et banan electric wife? “I believe that you cannot have the ideal wife unless you have the economically independent wife. No man can ever be sure of t! of the woman he marries if he supporting her He can never @ ati ith him distant separation during our twenty- two years of married jife, we are eim- ply ‘peaking and pining for each other, Oh, I wish him to come over he: @ breathless little bui “When we married made up our minds that we would not be bored,” she resumed. Bora- dom 1s the death of love, you know. We vowed a solemn vow that we Ivingr=ties is, collectin, je eume of mo! in ag A] uld persuade she ended in r. Ellis and I a or because she and butter, Un- ie self-supporting, m is simply a legalization of that situation in which a man Su~ports a woman to whom he is not marri Only, Mrs. Ellis used one unequivo- cal word to denote the “situation,” with @ determined. nod of her well- poised head, covered close with a thick crop of short, wavy gray hair. She is a small, plump, energetic per- son, with very bright blus eyes and a weather-tanned skin that tells tales of the summers and winters spent on er Cornwall farm, “No woman can be herself when she has to ask a man for the wherewithal of life,” she continued earnestly. “No man can possibly have the right view- point toward the woman whom he is supporting. There will be prejudice, tyranny, fear, deceit, all sorts of things which cannot enter into an ideal relation. BOTH MUST BE UTTERLY LOYAL TO BE HAPPY, “Then the ideal wife must be utterly loyal to her husband and he to her— in the little things of life a# well as the big things. They cannot be happy together if petty deceits are continu- i ally between them. And yet it is the|rather a hybrid of passion, posses~ rare and exceptional married couple |sion, boredoim, maternity and several that enjoys the blessings of absolute|other things that are not romantic trath and fatr dealing, [ey “again of the decety would not be #0 much together as to reach the point of addrasning each other as "My dear,’ in a mean, snippy, uncaressing way. Therefore we de- d to have separate quarters and meet only when we wish “You notice that the Detroit hus- bands specify that the ideal wife re- mains a sweetheart, while becoming a splendid cook and houseworker. Do you think the combination a one?” I asked. if the husband helps,’ tckly. “If a husband id lt to give adequate relief no working unit mothers with end; wherever there wh othe average applicant for poor re Nef in the city to-day doen not gen- erally seek to be a burden on the community, and there are hundreds who never applied before, One way to help these people is to keep in touch with communities —rre tator is need- ed and provide means to get them there, but with available funds other us plans could be devised. Cent Box of LAX | she re- asks his wife to tah ture the very smartest and skirt effects. ... m, go to visit him he our rooms. “Why should a ashamed to sew on or even his wife's, future will acquire s attributes, Just as we shall share in some of the qualities hitherto at- tributed to men, And the love of to-morrow will be so much morc wonderful than the love of to-day, So far we've had little real love, but husband — feel is own buttons, man of the called feminine The accentuations of fu types. f models are military in and simplicity eating and have frequent headaches, just believe most “As for that list compiled by the but certainly there with which to handle this dy | importance, why doesn't each of them ware mad aur errenie Gwallnes model, In plum or black owing need. lectrii ee, re have been together . sre seat balleve eo much In |PUY,8D electric cooker and call it hie| Preat deal, and: tu thus tin eee gaberding, .....sssscereees Fur Trimmed Long, loose model of wale cheviot, interlined and lined “ 29.50 ** Coat Accentuated with Fur Smart military choker collar 45.00 Civet Cloth Coats Exact T Limousine flare marshal collar; Coats of Imported Plush Dell flare with an unusual belt and skirt arrangement........++ A Collection of High Cost Evening Coats and Wraps Rich Fur Trimmings At the Exceptional Price 75.00 black fox. 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