The evening world. Newspaper, April 10, 1903, Page 15

nell — M yF ‘e A’ ) ¥ } PRACTICAL Fifth and Final Lesson of the Series Explains What “Living on Love” Really Means, O every young man who is trying to win a wife there will come a mo- $4 mentous day and hour when he Antist ask her if he bas indeed won her. Bach man will choose bis own way of Jasiting, each maid her own way of an- ring. He may write her a love jetter, which jme will read with quickened heart- ‘Beats, or he may trust to nothing less {than the taking of her hand with a teender pressure and the soft whisper- Mings of three words, “I love you!" What metho¢s or words a lover choose, he tells his sweetheart of ite Gevotion and asks her to be his wife. On the manner in which he has con- ‘ducted his wooing will depend her glad ‘Weadiness to be won. Xf she accepts him, then comes the wettling down to sober facts. Not that he romance has by any means ended, But only that it must now be interwoven ‘with plain and practical lving. Not that be built underneath it. Tho two ‘young people, who, out of their separate lives have met and learned to be true ‘ov must now prepare to unitedly 3, walk through the world as faithful hus- ‘band and wife. If they live on love in Sts eMullest sense love will provide all they meed for thelr happiness. But—do they know the real meaning of love? I promised to talk to-day about Mv- fing on love. A letter just received makes a good starting point. A young man (whore name T withold ft his request) writes me his love story, fwhich in substance 1s as follows: He married when he was not quite Bixteen years old, and when his weekly walary was only five dollars. He had ‘been apquainted with his wife less than fewo weeks before thelr wedding day, He is now thirty-two years old, with ‘"meven good healthy children," a wife ‘who ts still his sweetheart, a comfort- able home and a prosperous business of bis, own, This fortunate young man tells me ‘frankly in his letter that he conalders ft altogether Inconsistent with love to oun; the cost of living. He thinks It ¢ takes away from true sentiment to cal- culate dollars and cents, diam very glad that in this Instance the course of true love seems to have Fun smoothiy along, undisturbed by ad- jyerea winds or waves. But I fee! quite Ghe Wooing ae Alice, by H. S. "Canfield, An Exciting Conflict Between Blue Blood and Red Blood. KOoprrixdt, 1993, by Dally Story Pulsishing Ce.) EING the son of a small Dutch farmer in the Pennsy!vanta hills, nd" having been obliged to work ‘ay through college, Karl Diebold hate upon his jaw practice In aristo- @ratic Easton with some misgiving, felt dawardly, but not outwardly shown, It fe not surprising that at the end of @ year he should find himself to be mak- money, nor that in a small city he jould make his way Into soclety with- Out special trouble. Really, he cared mothing about society; his books and fong-stemmed pipe in his disorderly foome had been enough for him; but then he met Maude Alice Greeno Allyng- bam f Maude Alice Greene Allyngham was mall and pale and pretty, with a kind fheart, a lovely disposition, what there fwas of it, and an Immense idea of her Diood. “She was Vneally descended from 9 here of our tea-tax war, and of course ® Daughter of the American Revolution. ‘The local Daughters of ¢' American Revolution rewarded Diebold as a mud- _ @ysblooded interloper who deserved ex- os petty. @ result of five generations of in- \\ Minction. Their fathors and brothers eaid Ghat he was 4 good fellow, but they had es Uttle to do with him as they could help. @ had one protection against him, h @ frail one. That was Georg Wwerlng Hunt-Houghton. Hunt-How, too, was amall-boned and pale ané ae ing, and he was @ Son of the rdaae Revolution, 1d called one night and found Aliyasham end Hunt-Houghton Psa Soran map designed to show LESSONS IN sure t this young man, and the few others who could tell similar life-storle are merely the exceptions which prov the rule=the rule that a love which takes no thought for the welfare of the loved one Is altogether unworthy its beautiful name. ‘To every young man and woman mar- rioge should be the beginning of a broader and ever enlarging sense of the true purpose of living. It saould never prove the beginning of a trend- mill of hard drudgery, a struggie for an existence hardly worth the pains re- quired to prolong tt. Waat clse but this latter can be ex- pected when two people try to live on a weekly income which barely sufficed for one? ‘Two are more than one in whatever way you count. No matter how muca two people love each other, their united needs are doubled over the needs of each when single, One roof will cover bow, It is trite, and one fire throws out heat enough for two people. But ever- coats and gowns and bonnets and boots have a way of fitting just the Individual wearer, while even (he economical Mr, Jack Sprat and his wife required two kinds of meat in thelr larder, +Do not put your trust In a man who wanted to turn to the right, but the Major reasoned that {t {s the nature of @ mule to want to do the wrong thing and he spurred him in the ribs and yanked him into the left fork, 80 he met the three American jayhawkera, dofgers and all-round rascals, who started to rob him and found the| papers.” “Where was your father born?” Hunt-Houghton, “In Uolland,"" sald Diebold, promptly, | Tow did he come by these letters? “Found them in the old house he, bought when he oame to thia country.” “What,” asked Hunt-+Houghton, des- perately, ‘is the use of talking to him? He does not—cannot—understand these matters.” | Miss Allyngham sighed, Bhe was, forced tu admit the ti h of it, Yet ual Diebold had only been a Son of the American Revolution things would be 60 different, and— Bhe checked herself and said: “We're going to hid a bamur, Mr. Dievold, to raise money for the monu- ment fund-to Chrin Vandewerker.” “Who was he?" Diebold inquired Iagily. | “Don't you know? Chris Vandewerker was a New York farmer who lent $10 to Paulding, and Paulding was one of hed | $10 THE ART OF WINNING A WIFE. BY HARRIET HUBBARD AYER. is willing to lend his wife from the marriage altar to an altar of cruel life- sacrifice. Love {s the right of all young mar- ried people who are heartily trying to be helpmeets in the best sense of the word. Such love ts based on congeniai- ity, trust and firm loyalty, It includes a tender thoughtfulness for mutual wel- fare and a wise patience that will hope- fully wait and work to make sure that such welfare 1s established. Vrue love will not rush blindly into marriage when the weekly salary 1s manifestly inadequate, but neither does it compel a waiting to grow rich before the wedding day, Some of the happlest homes have been very humble ones, and many husbands and wives count among thelr sweetest of memories the days when together they. economiaed, and made mutual sacrifices, and lived simply in order to lay ‘securely the cornerstone of thelr ome. No young man need wait till he is ch before trying this true living on love. | Aut he dags need to bo earning 4 salary which will let his, married feenbe hapey cand’ {ree on both aldee from the too, 'much care which almost inevitably makes men and women grow «radually ish and sordid and too often parts them, And only t ung man who {s com- etent to protect and care for a wife has an honorable right to ask a girl to leaye her home and share his 1 Being extracts from “The Letters from a Self-Made Merchant to His Son,” by George Horace Lorimer, published in book form by Small, Maynard & Co. Boston, and reproduced here by special permission of the publishers. (Copyright, 1902, by Small, Maynard & ©) Entered at tionere’ Hall.) CHICSGO, May 10, EAR PIERRPPONT: I have told the cashier that you will draw th week after thts, and 1 want you to have a nico sult of c send the bill to the old man, Get something taat won't keep people ques whether you follow the horses or do buck and wing dancing for a living. Your taste in clothes teems to be lasting longer education, You looked like a young widow who had raised the second crop of daisies over the deceased when you were in here last week. Of course, clothes don't make the man, but they make all of him except his hands and face during business hours, and that's a pretty considerable area of the humen animal. A dirty shirt may hide a pure heart, but dt seldom covers ay clean skin. to the conclusion that you have, and you will never get to know them weil enough to explain that your head {s so full of noble thoughts that you haven't time to bother with the dandruff on your shoulders. And df you wear blue and white striped pants and a red neciile. you will find (t diMcult to get close enough to a deacon to be Invited to say grace at his tmdle, even if you never play for, anything except coffee or beans. Appearances are deceltful, I know, but so long as they are, there's nothing! like having them deceive for us {nstead of against us. I've seen a ten-cent shave and a five-cent shine get a thousand-dollar job, and a cigarette and a pint of champagne knock the bottom out of a mililon-doliar pork corner. But it Isn't enough to be all right tn this world; you've got to look all right! as well, because two-thirds of success is making people think you are all right.) Bo you have to be governed by general rules, even though you may be an excep. tion. People have seen four and four make elght, and the young man and th 180—, bination can work out any other way. The Lord only allows so muth fun for every man that He makes. Some get St money most of the time and going Asning the rest. money, the less fish. The further yon go, tue straighter you’ve got to walk. A man can't do what ho pleases in this world, because the higher he climb: the plainer people can see him. Naturally, as the old man's son, you have a lo! of feilows watching you and betting that you are no good. If you succecd they will {t was an accident, and Jf you fal! they will ray (t was a cinch, ‘There are two unpardonable eins in this world—success and failure. who succeed can't forgive a fallow for being a failure, and those who fall can't forgive him for being a success. If you do succeed, though, you will be too busy to bother very much about what the failures think. I dwell a little on this matter of appearances because so few men aro ceally, thinking animals. Where one fellow reads a stranger's character in his face, a hundred read ét In his get-up. We have shown a dozen breeds of dukes and droves of college presidents and doctors of divinity through the packing-honse, and the “workmen never noticed them except to throw Ivers at them when they got in their way. Dut when John! L, Bullivan went through the stock yards {t Just simply shut down the plant. Tie] men quit the benches. with a yell and lined up to cheer him. You see, John looked his jot, and you didn’t have to explain to the men that he was tho real thing in prize-fighters. Of course, when a fellow gets to the point where he ts something In particular he doesn’t have to care because he doesn’t look like anything special; but while) a young fellow isn't anything pacticular it is a mighty valuable asset !f he looks like something special. Just here I want to say that while it's all right for the other fellow to be in- fluenced by appearances, {t's all wrong for you to go on them, Back up good looks by good character yourself, and make sure that the other feilow does the same. A susp'cious man makes trouble for himself, but @ cautious one saves it. Because there ain't any rotton apples in the top layer, ft ain't always safe to bet that the whole barrel {s sound. A man doesn't snap up a horse just because he looks all right. As a usual low wants to sell. squints under tach hoof for the grand hailing sign of distress; and he peeks down his throat for dark secrets. If the horse peeses this degrees the buyer drives him twenty or thirty miles, expecting him to turn out @ roarer or to find that he balks or shies or goes lame or develops some other horse nonsense. If after all that there are no bad symptoms, he offers fifty less than the price asked, on eral principles, and for fear he has missed something. Take men and horses, by and large, and thoy cun pretty much the sams There's nothing like trying @ man in harness a while before you bind yourself to travel very far with him. Your affectionate father, JOHN GRAHAM, SPRING FROCKS FOR CHILDREN. enough the paper this morning tatled to print the story of how 20,000,000 peo- ple came near to being killed by trolley cars yesterday. Did Paulding pay the ‘What difference does ¢hat mak: ‘Oh, none at all, except to Vander- werker, His name ought to have been Vunderwerked, hen he laughed coures.y and went awa! joing down the street ith muttered +4 himeoit: "This <hing bas come to a. p where something has got to give. ine Tiunt-Houghton crowd will ‘huve her cree it, another ™ ant, 1 belleve she Said that she was going tot {O-morrow afternoon) (> At meeting He met ner five blocks home, walking soberly hands were full from her duty bent. of PAN uaeript $na @ lipped hers without treating and. tuned” her ints wordt Btrcet. “She muttered » faint inquiry, | Wut he bore her eteadliy Aiong, kiwi way down (he block he took ner ‘up some Bleps, rang the bell, an when @ nud opened the door walked in 4a 4 Matter 'cf courte. Bho "kien 1 t home of ev. renloaly I" Congregationa) ministe: “rwlsas, nktng and with Foon ras later, # all thourbt seattered, she stood parlor. She did not understand ut ine not Underatand yet {hen Her she Was ver rm through does bin ble = nm with the wide she lyaed her fninking faculiles. The aiinia- from an arm chair and came the men who captured Andre. “But why the monument’ “Why, you see if Vandewerker had not lent bim the $10 Paulding might have moved to another section, or might bave starved, or might have been thrown into prison, er died from lack of medicine, and Andre might not have been captured, and ‘Benetct Arnold an Pat 2 mie cy allen anh ee oat ni it en, yb we yp ier of initatn. bas You are prompt,” mid Dleroid. ‘Thi ian with a he nid, roducing th xi iyngham, ‘ns you kiow 00, that ale tt of nee. Ukes quiét aa’ t'do. Fave minutes Tater they" were man and wits yl Ce pre Bh he HAY Oss OR! one in a @ form 4 iat i ring on her Anger. Diebold moneda ed ota F104 She did not ihe meeting ear iio |rlais. The very pretty little frock, No, 4261 than the rest of your college! If you look as if you had siept in your clothes, most men will Jump) smal! bott!e make a fool so often that they are hard to convince that the com- going fishing most of the tlme and making money the rest; some get it making) You can take your choice, but the two lines of business don't gee. The more} Those: thing that on'y makes him wonder what really {s the matter that the other fel- So he leads the nag out Into the middie of @ ten-acre ipt, where the igh’ wil) strike him good and strong, and examines every hair of his hide, as !f he exptcted to find It near-sea! or eome other bare imitation; and he The New Ten been Is the Scene of Fearsome Struggles to “Inhale,’ “Blow Rings’’ and “Borrow Lig \ts.’’ AVE you deep down In your very teapectahe dainty Madame tt Manhattan, a dealre to he real be thing? Do you want to see life, not hrougit your own br.ght iimpid eyse, but Wrapped in the enveloping mist of that sign-manual of bohemianism, the eigar- ette? Think of ft! You, too, may pene- | trate, an an Evening World writer did afternoon at the tea hour, the | room. label recesses of the dainty tea- hirty-five cents for a box ally for"—— &e,, &e, and scompaniment of tea and cake | number of the Ittle rice} paper cylinders with Mra, Jacob Van- | derbiit's name on each one of them 4 writer found tn room at the rear of the the little ten DUPULTIED art shop five sturdy women smokers besides the proprietress and her little | French partner. Later in the afternoon ‘more women arrived, ‘The first five were seated at little table: h of which was lighted by one tall candle decorously petticoated CASTORIA For Infants and Children. | The Kind You Have Always Bought Bears the See Tooth Powder Used by people cf refinement for over a quarter of a century PREPARED LH Gor Mach of the ria might be evolded | Ri mere thoroughly clegaoed talon & ploy only the most appr i DH SLT table was a china from a Impossible| next table and abstrecte? the and greeaness, whose yewn-| matchbox. The stout woman gave hideousne: ing mouth gaped for the ashes and cigarette ends which were offered from time to time. Occupying the place of honor on the central tea table was the box of matches, Yor. prietor naively explained, in the hurry of purchas’ the various other acces- fories of the ten and smoking room, bouh matches and match trays had been forgotten. Please imagine a “smoking- room" with one small box of match Whenever there was an omer for fresh ten an attendant retired with the little box of Vestas to the adjoining room and lighted the gas stove, and while the matches wore gone nobody could light a fresh cigarette if she wanted to, for, strangely enough, none of the five in- veterate smokers had a match about her or even carried a match safe, and it had not then occurred to them to take Ughts from one anotner. When men smoxe cigarettes they seem to be able to taik at the same timo. Yoacerday the woman anxious to be the roal thing concentrated her attention on the little cylinder fn her fingers and sat in silence. But when the reporter entered, struggale was all over, seated at one of the tables with an ad- miring spinater for an attendant was a stout matron of forty-fve whose carriage was waiting outside. And thla woman was blowing rings—acthally blowing rings! A woman who was sitting noxt the re- porter sald im an awed tone, feoms to like ft, doesn't she? The speaker was one of those women who shift the cigarette unea: from one finger to another and gaze at it with that look of admiring but vexed unceriainty which a Western million- aire might bestow upon an oyster fork, “Yes,” the reporter acquiesced, “ahe does seem to like 3. Don't you?” "No, sno said, “1 don’t. And tnat’ the first woman I ever saw who did. All the women | know who smoke do it— well, because they want'to be the -real thing. They think it looks a bit sporty, you know, I learned to smoke when 1 was at boarding-school. ‘ne principal had eight sons, and they used to emug- gic cigarettes to the girls, we used to have lovely times! The recoliection tired her to lght ean- other cigarette. She took one from the the Absolutely Pure | THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE CHANGE THE ORDER OF; THE DAY. ‘The alr we breathe ts often w source of éa and disen Amusements Whe T To? PROCTOR’ 5 ie TO-DAY, Se. To Motit Wes the. ‘Orchestras, Full ‘Vaudeville. Eugene Co. Morris Grants, Anas rel, ‘Wii's © Dory, others. Modern Grasce. Bary! Hope, Hi, Florence tees, b' oll Ae. {i val SL thal mack tavort Mate, Me DR. DECKER'S SHAKENO MORE CURES MALARIA, FEVER AND HILL. he benedis of medical wetence in gurig ang eviating Glennon are Atly sit Ne ore. ‘It te the result of B @ life work. edy has been of reaver, value to Teste Gnd ried tar 34 veare, walled. for the Cure of Malaria. all drug lots’. Amusements BROADWAY Grr ities West a sat a Special Prices Wagnrndny Mate. G0e. to $10. JENRY W. SAVAGE Freerate Nie Musica! Comedy fuscen, PRINCE@PILSEN A SOCIAL HIGHWAYMAN. Lal Mon Kerbhe, Ned Howard Powler, (Doth SI {x ALLSTAR VAUDEVILLE. Ir R Ci LE ert bE, BIG ACTS. | a Rann aki 9 a r. WIZARD OF OZ| Souvenirs. with Montgomery & Stone.'Wed. Mat.Apr. 15. AME gla evils isha D, lext week. The Christian, Breept Mond ED MARKS BIG. concen TS! \ ar SoHE, sauder OF MUSIC, 1418 ot. & Irving igreslant oF New Nerk'e ‘preavetone THE SUBURBAN *27205 Prices 25,50,75,02. Mate Wed. @ Sat. Eve, 8.15, HB box, for, as the pro- | pin: Mtlotgarette to the tacter'’s giggling, hearted prot Conversatl seamed about to Ls come near na strong for proudly | taken three who.e puffs of It, audd she'll And as she made a rapid exit br ward ‘She really | other smokers puffed their mild h Egyptians with conactous Feed Here are some :eflections 1 ginened@ | from room 'T gue she said faintly and hurriedly to the tea-room's proprietor. general when a woman the window who had smi particularly dark cigarette 6! Cuban variety, and who niv T won't wait for my friend “I don't think come.” the fresh alr of the avenue that visit to the new Smiolinie Not one woman {ot mty that the hold it at arm's t feouth. fete aire: rend them. Some hold it as if it @ crowbar; some as a powder puff. like a noon factory he: inwninent. The feminine faces In that tex-room wa! pathetic. able. amok: “fit were & Den ome exhale the whisie; part f little toot-toot-toot oe Es ngale awtul. results cok of mannish bravado he Iai Ik was only {diotic and Te ithe world at large aaa 14 Ag among women n act ig he decorous, yrould continue io A magistrate has rived the Can f Acts women Ww a indy smoke?” e less one of ladyhood than of Sanity. uation Amusements Afternoon at 2 and Ryentng at open an dour earlier for & view of Pie, “Warsnipas Freaks, Prodislea, ete. ‘TRIN. Week of the Short Season BARNUM & SAILEY GREATEST, SHOW ON EARTH Freep Prete: sei a tee & Fasten, Adm Bingle Box tee fom goen. Nation ‘Ave. rate rion to all, boxes, eat meats, thio 5 for advance hy felamhone: antir FRRAT RE. The sean TRE. Wetasetat a a in MG AND CRITERION THEATRE Evga, eanestay Bat CHARLES HAWTREY. 38: NEW SAVOY THEATRE. "34a at & Mats. Wednesday & HENRY MILLER. "OF GORDEN THEATRE. Eve $.20. TH comment Mew, HE MORALITY PLAY, Vantevitle | HADISON SQ. THEATRE, 2 Even 8.30. haat: Sat WARD & VOKES,| ELSIE de WOLFE in CYNTHIA. te Mow. Wet, Thame, SM. | Apri! 11, Brsedburet KNICKER! 12th Week, BOCKER THBA TREN way 6 Evgs., 8. Mate. Wed. & Gat. at i: dolcmal Protection Rs BLUE BEARD 14th St, Theatre near 1 Week The rir Spotl Next Week 140d a, Comedy, ar ‘Mata. sss Yo 0 os St area Bre. 8.15 me ae A ate Mar ‘Next week-—HAPPY HOOLIGAN. BIJOU.MARIE CAHILL, Bi way, S0th st, KEITH’ a STAR w “NANCY BROWN,"* Dagt mow De 90) TCH Se, and Next fifsrdl’s at BY [AY MANTON. Yor the costume on the lett, wantity of mpterial required for the medium size (10 years) te 5% yarde 37 oF BM) yarde dé inch This pattern, No. 4256. cut in elses for girls of & 10, 12 and 16 years of age, will be mailed for 10 conts For the right-hand costume, the quantity of materia! required for the medium size (10 years) io 5 varde 27, 3% yards 44 or 3 yards 52 inebes wide. This pattern, No, 4218, cut 1a sizes tor girle of & 10, 12 and 16 years of age, will be matied for 10 cents, fend money to “Cashier, The World, Puiltser Bulldiag, New York City."* The costume No. 4218 is tucked at both waist and skirt and includes a novel and becoming bertha, which finishes a square yoke. The original is made {u asparagus greon veiling, with trimming of black velvet ribbon and yeke of cream lace; but all simple, girlish materials are appropriate. The walst is made over a fitted lining, which js faced to form the yoke. Both fronts end back are tucked for their entire Jongth, but the backs are drawn down suugly, while the front blouges slightly over the belt, The skirt is cireular and arranged in tucks at the upper edge, which give a yoke effect, Plaits and tucks make one of the notable features of spring and summer styles for young girls, and are exceedingly effective in the fashionable mate- ie shown in blue chambray, with y trimming of white embroidery, and is exceedingly charming, but the design 4s suited to pique, linen and ajl similar eultings, as well as to wool materia’ ial fio: ee hie ‘The waist |e made over @ fitted body lining and closes at the centre back. ‘The box plaits at the back extend for full length; but those at the frout a to yoke depth only, bed pravidinn becoming fulness, The skirt ts Wallach’s. vs, B15. Mats, Wed, & Bat “BUHL the best munloal plece In town. tribune, 4h Month. Henry W. Savage Presents Geo. Ade’ ali! 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