The evening world. Newspaper, April 8, 1903, Page 13

PRACTICAL LESSONS IN THE ART OF WINNING A WIFE. ! BY esson Ill, Explains the Dis- position and Character a Girl Has a Right (o Expect In the Man Who Is to-Be Her Husband. HE girl a man wins has the right to expect and demand a good husband. ‘it she be a sane woman s.e will never choose for a life companion a young man who gambles with his money and who Is fairly certein to gamble with her chance of life happiness. She will choose @ young man whom she can Qonor és well as love, whom she can respect, whom ehe can trust with her But, unfortunately, girisiare un- is blind. Before making a marriage con- tract let both young people think care- future, suspecting, inexperienced and love fully of its meaning and all it involves. Here ia an astonishing fact for lovers Of all ages to consider: A young man tries to do his best in all lines of business—except for the respon- alble, lifetime business of being a hus- band to some woman ‘who trusts her entire future in his hands, For every other business some sort of @xamination must be passed—a physical, @ mental or a moral one, and often a combination of the three. A man cannot get a job at Btreet-cleaning unless he ~- HARRIET HUBBARD can show ability to do the work. He can not seouré a’ place as night watch- man around a lumber-pile unless he can prove his honesty and fidelity and his courage to meet possible dangers. But of a would-be husband no ques- ‘tions are asked, no public penalties are threatened for any failure in devotion. As a street-sweeper, glean streets would be denianded of him by a com- mittee of public safety, As a husband ‘he may leave his moral life doubtful, yet nobody questions him as to its dangerous menace to the happiness of the woman he marries. Think over my words, you young men who write to me for counsel, Think— anil let acting follow the thinking. Fit Yourself for belng a good husband as you” would’ fit’yourself for being a good business man—by training and developing the ‘faculties of mind and disposition which will be requjred in the marriage you aspire to. You will need sterling qualities of ine tegrity and honor in marriage as in any other position, You will ‘d sane mind, a clean soul. You will need a strength that is tender and o tenderness that is strong, You will need clear judgment, wise patience, perfect ‘love. ‘The woman you win has a right to ex- 1] pect of, you a realization of her best womanly deal. You take her from her mother; you loosen all her home tles; you transplant her ¢rom her own life into yours. At first there is the charm of nov- jelty, the delight in “setting up hou keeping,” the happiness of being all th world to each other, Married life may be always happy if AYER. husband and wife mutually endeavor to make it so, Yet happiness has {ts deep under-currents as well as its light, rip- pling waves, | ‘There ‘will come times when your joy will seem as solemn as sorrow—times when perhaps {t will follow sorrow. ‘With light hearts you will laugh to- gether when everything seems right. With earnest purpose you should stand Being extracts from “The Letters from a Self-Made Merchant to His Son,” by George Horace Lorimer, published in book form by Small, Maynard & Co, iy each other If adversities or any clouds come. 1 ‘Numbers of young men give more thought to the selection of a horse or @ finé-dog than they give to thelr chotce of a wite. ‘And many of them who reflect care- fully whether or not they can provide for and attend to a fine horse will take a girl from her happy home life and starve her in heart and {n soul. Love is absolutely essential in any true marriage, but in true love there must be congeniality, A young man nwbo chooses his wite because of her pretty face, may find it hard to be a loving husband if the pretty face hap- pens to fade. There should be @ like- ness of tastes, a true unity of thought; there will then be the Feat unlon of lesson will de- scribe a girl’s power of influenc- ing the mind and actions of the man who loves her. CAN THE NEW YORK GIRL TEACH HER CHICAGO SISTER MANNERS? $6 [RH Chicago people unfriedly, or fl 1s it but chance that one may walk from Randolph to Jackson om the east side of State street and back again at noon on a sunny day and Mever see two people bow to each Other?” asked the girl who had just got back trom New York, according t9 the Chicago Tribune. “Of course, there are people walking and talking together, groups of girls freed for a few moments from the foulttine of factory or office, "young men of the $-a-week type, who smoke Jong, light cigars and laugh loudly. Now and then there will be a mother and daughter talking busily or watch- ing the show windows intently, Oc- ¢asionly, too, some older men will have ‘@ joke and a smoke as they pass along, which breaks up for a few moments the strained lines in their faces, ‘But gt least.two-thirds of the pedes- telans along, hurriedly, ‘eyes front’ and countenances sorewed into one. of two expressions—‘How can I do the most shopping in the shortest time with the least money? ‘Mow quickly dan I eat my luncheon and get back to the Office to finish up that busines: “The other day I met in the morn- knew in the course of the shopping district. ot eeoognize me until ie become universal. ery guest on his ar- get ac ? i iteboant and the rest of brown paper, cotton to prevent Hf # g l Mt i A j | whom T knew well, passed within three feet’and did not see me. The bow given me by the second two was the only one I saw during my Journey. Once in each block I saw two people talkigg in the middle of the sidewalk, inconveniencing passersby on both sides. On a corner a man leaving two women touched his hat with ‘his fingers, otherwise 1_inte cepted no raised hat or smite of erect ing. Was this merely chance? “In all the outlying districts, except when a person is on his natiye heath, he may pass over miles of territory and have no opportunity to smile or bend his head, Seldom elther does one see trlends foregather on car Ines, unless jt be a suburban train or the Jamented carette, which had a social reputation. People seldom go to places of entertainment glone, so that the failure to meet ac- Boston, and reproduced here by special permission of the puluishers. opyright, 1902, dy Small, Maynard & Oo, Entered at Stationers’ Hell.) OMAHA, Sept. 1, 189—. EAR PIBRREPONT: Yours of the Sth ultimo strikes me all wrong. I don't dD lke to hear you say that you can't work under Milligan or any other man, for it shows a fundamental weakness. And then, too, the house isn't in- terested in knowing how you like your boss, but In how he likes you. You want to get it Qrmly fixed in your mind that you're going to have a Miligan over you all your life, and if it isn’t a Milligan it will be a Jones or a Smith, and the chances are that you'll find them both harder to get along with than this old fellow. And if it dsn't Milligan or Jones or Smith, and you ain't a butcher, but a parson or @ doctor, or even the President of the United States, it'll be a wayback deacon, or the undertaker, or the machine. There Isn't any such thing as being your own boss in thts world unless you're a tramp, and then there's the constable. Like your boss 4f you can, but give titm no cause to dislike you. Keep your melf-respect at any cost and your upper Hp stiff at the enme figure. Criticiem can properly come only from above, and whenever you discover that your boss {4 no good you may rest easy that the man who pays his salary shares your seerct. Iearn to give back @ bit from the base-burner, to let the village fathers get their feat on the fender and the enwdust box fn range, and you'll find them making a littie room for you In turn. Old men hae tender feet, and apologies are poor éafve for aching corns, Remember that when you're In the right you can afford to keep your temper, and that when you're in the wrong you can't afford to lose it. There are certain antmels with which the Lord didn't Intend white men to fool. And you will (ind that, as a cule, the human varieties of them are not the fellows who go for you rough shod, Nike Milligan, when you're wrong. It's when you come across ono'of those genticmen who have more ofl in their composition ‘than any two-legged animal has a right to have, that you should be on the fookout for concealed deadly weapons. I don't mean that you should distrust a man who is affable and approach- able, but you want to learn to distinguish between him and one who Is too affa- ble and too approachable The efiver) mal the difference between a good and @ bad fellow. The hunco nien sron't all at the county fair, and they don't all operate with tao little shells and the elusive pea. ‘When you have been tr business as long as T have you will be inclined to put @ pretty high value on loyally. It is the one commodity that hasn't any market value, and it's the one that you can't pay too much for. You can trust any number of men with your money, but mighty few with your reputation. Half the men who are with the house on pay day are against it the other six. ‘A good many young fellows come to me looking for jobs, and start in by tell- ing me what a mean house they have been working for; what a cuss to get along with the senior partner was, and how little show a bright, progressive clerk had with him. I never get very far with a critter of that class, because I know that he wouldn't like me or the house if he came to work for us, I don't know anything that a young business man ought to keep more en- tirely to bimself than his dislikes, uniess {t ie his likes. It's generally expensive to have either, but it's bankruptcy to tell about them. It's all right to say aothing about the dead but good, but It’s better to apply the rule to the living, and expecially to the house which is paying your salary. Just one word before I close, as old Doo Hoover used to say when he was coming into the stretch. but still « good ways off from the benediction. I have noticea that you are inclined to be a little chesty and starchy around the office. fellow hasn't much behind his forehead to throw out his chest and attract attention to his shirt-front. But as you begin to meet the men who have done something that makes them worth meeting you will find that there are no “keep off the grass” or “beware of the dog” signs around thelr premises, and that they don’t motion to the tra to music while they talk. 8 Seeley ‘slow Superiority makes every man feel its equal, It is courtesy without condescen- sion; affability without femiliarity; self-suMclency without selfishness; sim- plicity without anide. It weighs sixteen ounces to the pound without the package, and it dcesn't need a four-colored label to make # go. Your affectionate father, JOHN GRAHAM. A Difference of View teww— By (Copyright, 1903, by Dally Story Pub. Oo) weok, and I thought’— She broke off, THE FAIR CHORUS GIRL IS — NEARLY 3,000 YEARSOLD. — She Dates Back to Homer's Time, and Preceded the “Legitimate Drama” by Many Centuries. HB latest musical production on Broaway comes from Chicago, and with {t comes also some startling decrees Issued by the “young ladies" of the chorus. The Chicago maidens refuse to respond to the name of chorus girls—they call themselves “Jadies of the ensemble," which sounds wen Chicago. began to chant individual songs to which the chorus responded. The moy- ing bands became reduced to a dofinite form by Arion, and the standing or cycle-shaped chorus sprang into ex- istence, Arion invented a style of musle adapted to the charactor of the chorus, and in this way tragedy sprang Into ex- Istence. ‘The tragos, or goat song, was the beginning of lyrical tragedy, and from the name of Arion’s contemporary, Stesichorus, who did much to develop this form, the chorus derived its name, Tt was in 5% B, C. that Thespis intro- If the protesting members of -the “merry merrys’ would examine their professional family tree they would not, perhaps, discriminate so strongly against the term “chorus.” The chorus was the real beginning of everything Greek Choric Singer. = dramatic. ‘The greatly revered and ex- alted tragedy grew out of the chorus and the modern acceptance of the term carrys with {t but Uttle aignificarce of fts real meaning. Long before the first mild Jay strolled over the zephyr swept plains of the ‘Windy City the chorus bad started the all of dramatic revolution rolling and the changes which have taken place in the first chorus and that of to-day are numerous. The beginning of the chorus can be traced to the old Greek classical days, when inhabitants of the Dorian states dances. ‘The next step came when the poet with trained dancers and singers repre- sented the people. The celebration in honor of the birth of Bacchus was the oceasion of an important step In the evelopment of the chorus. Then the revellers sang songs led by flute players i ‘~ was well past 11 o'clock when Dis- browe reached his home, but a bright ght still gleamed a cheerful wel- come through the sitting-room windows. His eyes softened with a quick glow of Técasure ag he noted this, transforming his distinctly plain face into momentary beauty. A waye of tenderness swept over his face. Dear little Violet," he murmured, softly, ‘dear lttle woman, perhaps, after ail—he broke off and ran Ughtly wp the veranda ateps. The one drop lacking to complete the cup of his great, new-found happiness quaintances ts not so noticeable. Many ald residents, however, testify that they can attend lange assemblages without catching slght of a familiar face. “Ia Ohicago in this respect peculiar among large cities? Do its Inhabitants have less time and desire to cultivate friendship? Do their pursults and small olrcle of intimates make them self-suf- clent? Or is this lack of friendly dem- onetrations in public merely the mathe- maltical result of seventeen hundred thousand people gathering in one place pnd having only twenty-four hourly o day in which to live, the greater part of which, for the majority, is passed in one room?” LATEST PHOTOGRAPH OF THE PRINCE OF WALES’S CHILDREN. seemed now, indeed, about to be real- ined. He entered the house and went at once to his wife's sitting room. The room was empty. AM at once things grew fiat and colorless. After a while he drew a deep breath and his hand went involuntarily to his pocket, resting there lingeringly, with a wort of regretful affection. For an In- stant a look of gratified pride stole over his rugged features his fingers closed tenderly over the precious letter that had that day brought him tidings of fame and fortune. With a sigh he sought his sleeping room, taking off bie clothes in « half- @azed fashion that betrayed the mastery of some terrible emotion, He was ex- hausted after the day's strain and soon Gropped Into a restful slumber, Toward dawn he was dimly conscious of foot- steps on the veranda; there was @ busz of voices, then his wite’a low laugh! broke musioally on the etill alr, and he! fei ¥nto a profound sleep that lasted till morning. Dawn broke gradually into a perfect day. Violet Disbrowe sat watching the brilliant streaks of sunlight that trem- bied through the breakfast-room win- dow. After awhile Violet @lanced furtively toward her husband and her Up curled fainuy. Awkwardnets was perhaps the one word that best described the whole man. Leng, loosely put together, nie attenuated height serving only to acoen- tuate the first impression of ugliness, he Was not wendered more attractive by th clumsiness that emphasized every mov toying hesitatingly with her coffee spoon. That evening with Jack Wetherell Seemed strangely short, in contrast to the Jong, dull hours she was sometimes forced to spend in her hueband’s society. By the side of this man’s conversation that of her husband's became mere in- sipld twaddle. The thought that she the wife of such a one grew more and more intolerable with every hour. When Disbrowe came home the fol- lowing might the house was in total darkness, He entered with a dull fore- boding pressing ke @ physiva! burden against his heart. He sat down wear- fly to rest, all capacity for, thought seeing to have gone from his over- changed brain. Presently he turned ab- sently to take up the evening paper. As he Gid so his keen eye singled out a folded sheet of note-paper on the reading table. There was no address; he raised it slowly with hands that shook beyond his controt and read: “My Darling; I an compelled to be ‘away from home this evening, much to my regret. Forgive what muet have seemed “ke neglect for the past few days, and believe me, always, your loving ‘VIOLET. Oa heshad finished reading the note bastily about him; He on wide hacen impulse of un- speakable Joy he lifted the precious bit of paper and held it fervently to his lips. After all, then, he had been but & blind, unreasoning ‘fool! Presently the front door opened and closed softly. He sitpped notseles ince the corridor and seized his wife's hande in his, devouring her face with his @yes, “Dear, he said, tremulousiy, “I found your note and I've counted the houra until your return, I--{ have you, Violet; say that Bhe stared at him incredulously for An instant, then swift comprehension Swept over her, He had read the note she had left for Jack Wetherell. There was & momentary feeling of terror, then a sensation of fierce resentment, followed by one of quick revulsion, Her own wrongdoing flashed before her in vivid contrast to this man’s trust, At the seeming evidence of one frail trag- mont of affection on her part he had ment. The woman was thg firet to break the allence, "I have asked Jack Wethe' ell to spend the week with us—you don't mind? Ge leaves for the front next CASTORIA counted as naught all the slights, neg- lect, even sneers that hud been heaped upon him for another and in that other's presence, ‘Tt 1s I who should esk ¢orgiveness, Amusements, “Still she rib 4a Woath. Weury WT Savage Proveuts Geo. Aaa'eHit, SULTAN SUL 4 new burlesque The Big Littic Princess, accompanied by the moving Bacchanal: Tho leader of the band was called th coryphoeus, and later, he ft was, who N. C. Gilmore. A Man and a Girl Whose Eyes Were Strangely Opened. Gear," she whispered. Her lips quivered painfully and a pleading look came into the blue eyes. Disbrowe lald one of his big hands on her brown curls and laughed away her seriousness. He patted her softly on the cheek, and stooping, whispered some- thing in her ear. She looked at him with a startled ex clamation. “And you did not tell me, she cried reproachfully. ‘Bo you are the wonderful ‘Incognito,’ the rising star of the Mterary ‘horizon! 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Thurs, ELSIE de WOLFE in CYNTHIA, April 14, Broathuret’ Hie Money." ave thanks to the gods in hymns and] em en 18th Century Chorus Girl. duced an actor for the purpose of rollev- ing the chorus, The actor addressed his speech to ithe leader while the chorus stood around on the steps of the Bac- chus altar. The actor was placed on a table, which was the predecessor of the modern stage. In all countries ‘the drama originated In the chorus, and from the Greeks, who sacrificed a goat or tragos to Bacchus, while chanting epic poems, to the Chhi- nese, the Indians, the early French and English, religious sentiment was upper- most. The word orchestra of to-day 1s de- rived from the place where the chorus stood and performed thelr orchestric motions, It was in the later develop- ment of the Greek drama that the chorus stood on the stage. It 1s not stated that there were any front rows for the enthustastio elderly patrons of the drama, and the chorus gil of to-day from her vantage ground of ithe raised stage has, gained something in the line of evolution. The prototype of the mod- opera was formed when the chorus was moved to the stage. An interesting detafl of. the ancient chorus is theofhct thet the characters a chorus assumed lasted after the con- clusion of the performance. For {n- stance in the Ion, the chofus represent- ed the servants of Creusa, and they at- tend their mistress home after the play, Fancy such @ state of affairs on Broad- way. Another characteristic of the Greek CARPET CLEANSING Largest in the World, Every Detail, THE THOS. J. STEWART CO. 80 years’ experience. Broadway, cor. 46th St., New York, Erle and Sth Sts., Jersey City. STORAGE WAREHOUSE AND MOVING VANS. ‘or telephone for interesting Dookjet. Amusements. 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BLUE BEARD Gotoh Production ith “ S STAR ‘fe idislors Dang BIdOU, Bway, 900 wt chorus was that in the tragedies thelt songs and dances assumed the liveliest | movements. Thls may account fOr #6 many sad affairs being in some emalteal comedies of to-day. In ancient Rome the choristers qwery both men and women, and In pts Te) man pantomine we find a step toward | the present development. It was with the ballet that direct steps toward mad- | ern chorus girls began. It !s common to attribute the origin of the ballet ob the Egyptians, but its evolution rom. the old Greek imitative choral moves} ments is more easily traced. ‘The home of the ballet as well as ont a in Italy. Throughout the evolution of the eho-) rus there has been more or less of the} religious element, and {t te only of intel that religion has been entirely elimie nated, To tho habitue of Broadway @ siaralf’ ballet seems incongruous, but ta the beginning of dramatic action In eve form morality and religion formed at tmportant part. The costuming of, Black Crook Girl, ’ ballet underwent many changes. pa Tallien it was who introduced in the’ In the days of La Tagiione, the great eighteenth century dancer, the skirts: were wom to the ankles. Then in short skirts were introduced, and costuming extended into our dresentt times. not know that she can trace ‘her ani try back nearly three thousand but she need not blush arith shine: when she is spoken of as & of the chorus. Let her think with of her family tree, and when the haughtily at her she can “say” phantly that from her great, great, dt, ancestors, the tragedy ftself spran) When it comes to ancestral tions, the chorus girl om Broadway | boast of & family ‘tree that eC back to the days of Homer. omer ‘serial el 3ibs. $i; Found Admission to all, and 50 cents, ‘Rese No seats reserved by tolehone. BROADWAY TATE, Oe Ev.at 8. Mats, Wed, SIO” e Skt a, De Ae JONBS ii AND’ "Honry 1vSIC, 14 * Tage The greatest of New Yerk’a productions, 00) THE SUBURBAN SS uone rices 25,50,75,81. Mats, Wod. & Sat. Eve, 8 14th St, Theatre near Och anal 1 Week’ rie Muulal Spotless ‘To f y (only) A sna a ae ONtAEES F STUART ROBSI THE COMEDY Mie MARIE Week toward Krle io