The Seattle Star Newspaper, June 19, 1915, Page 5

he - 4 MARGIE TALKS TO HER “LITTLE BOOK" (Copyright, 1915, by the Newspaper Enterprise Association) I believe, little book, that I know how a condemned man feels while) he is waiting thru long, intermina- ble days for the great adventure, | Strange as it may seam, | believe that the days-—the waiting days of horror—are as long to them as they are to me. Today I have “put my house in order,” Everything is ready for the coming of my darling baby. His lit tle clothes are lying with his toflet articles in his little basket, A note} of instruction to the nurse and a note to dear Aunt Mary, asking her to take charge of him and the house for a while are iaid under the clothes at the bottom of the basket, “to be opened and read in case | am too ill to talk.” My own clothes are all arranged in my bureau drawers with ribbons in night dresses, and everything ready. I have gone thru all the old letters and keepsakes in my desk and labeled them; some to be burn- ed and some to be kept if my boy should live and | pass into the un known. And, last of all, dearest little com panion of my life, I have been go- ing back over the path of my life with you, I wonder if most wives date their! existence from their marriage. | read extracts of those many vol umes before my wedding day as if they were pages from the life of an-! other girl; one whom I had known intimately for some years, but one who died on my marriage morn Some way, little book, I felt rath- er sorry for that little girl. She had such high hopes, such great as- pirations; she believed so thoroly) in the possibilities of love and life. That ecstatic outburst on “the night before my marriage” was her farewell to the life she had known, to the love which was in her mind and heart, a combination of ecsta and idealism | “I want to belong” was the ecstat-) fe ery of that girl, whose only hope of happiness was to be merged into. one with the man she loved. Oh, little book, little book, why is it given to us poor finite mortals to tmagine what we can never hope| to attain, to conceive what we are; unable to accomplish? No mortal can become one with another, and no human being can “belong” to another as do one’s hands or fect, or any other of the} members of one's body, to be un- questioningly directed by one brain. Neither the mind nor the soul can belong to anybody but the body the} mind and soul inhabit. I know, lit tle book, I conceived a thing im possible of realization—but it was something so fascinatingly beauti- ful that it has made all the lesser joys of married life seem tame. Now, in its place, because now that I am not guided by delirtous THE MAN WHO DARED! CAN HE BE HAPPY? WHAT SOME STAR READERS THI Seldom has such great interest! been taken in a0 deep a problem, and more seldom found such cap-| —— OHIO METHOD IN DENTISTRY Missing teeth are replaced by The Ohio Method by artificial teeth, that are natural your original teeth. Examinations sre now being conducted without charge, and est!- mates are furnished in all cases. WE STAND BACK OF OUR WORK FOR 12 YEARS’ GUARANTEE $15 Set of Teeth, $8 Guaranteed ... | $10 Set of Teeth, $ | Guaranteed ... 40 Solid Gold or # Porcelain Crown .... $4 @ Gold or Porcelain Bridge Work ...... $4 Solid Gold Fillings ..$1_ Up Other Fillings ..........50¢ Office Hours, 8:20 to 6. Sundays,| OHIO %2" re) Cut - Rate Dentists 207 UNIVERSITY 8T. CORNER SECOND AVE. ik @ LINCOLN HOTE 116 Market ot., San Francisco's . 2 min. trom Ferry Depot otel ton, Kills and Mar- Direet cars. || } jone. jand unreasonable love, I have rails cisco a } Canada has three policewomen ‘oronto with two and Ottawa with | policewomen in the at the present time. eee | It ts claimed that women are drinking to a greater extent than they used to. | eee Women will be barred from wit: nessing boxing bouts In Wisconsin} in the future. . average There are 6 United State The wages of 125,000 working women in Chicago are less than $6 per week ° oe | Margherita, queen mother of Italy, bas a fad of collecting gloves | and shoes that have been worn by distinguished sovereigns of the past ed another {deal | incapable of being Is that, too, realized? Can any wife become one-half of the whole? Can she stand side by side with her husband tn the comradeship and partnership of wedded life? Thru understanding on both sides, is it possible for these halves that are not at first alike to grow into a symmetrical whole? Am I fighting to bring Dick al ways to my way of thinking, and is he always calmly insisting that his is the only way? Do the bonds that bind us, which only four years ago we welded to- gether with what we thought was something strong that only death could break them, sometimes chafe him as much as they do me? GIRLS WILL WEAR CROWNLESS HATS STAR—SATURDAY, JUNE 19, 1915, PAGE 7. OF THING LADIES! HERE'S A NEW ONE SUMMER PLEASE TELL ME WOMEN'S QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY Cynthia Grey | 1 have your! my signal of distress. You certainly rubbed It Into me good and hard, It hurt, to be sure, |but | forgive you from the bottom of my heart; | am still the same Dear Miss Grey: answer to You accuse me of crimes of which 1 am entirely innocent. wanted “ companion, one to whom | could devote myself. Noth- Ing would have been too good for her, An excelient home in the country and a house In town would have been hers—in her name. What |more could | do? My firet love “went off with a handsomer man.” | do not blame |her for that. It ls poor satisfaction |for me to know that she now ad Again, little book, we come back There's a good deal of brim, but, of course, no crown to this to the stone wall. We can hear|crownless hat, designed especially for The Star by Mme. Merrelle the distant melody of life's sweet| of Chicago, The broad band of black messaline ribbon !* really a song, but we cannot sing it, for our trimming, not a crown. Black lace covera the wire foundation, and two soft, white roses and a cluster of buds add to the halo effect cf untrained and we lack inclination voices are the polse or even sustain the note. T am so glad, little book, that | can say these things to you with out being called fancifal or silly, I have been called both when I have to| the crownless hat. tried to make others understand the longings of my soul — I know, little book, that every woman has them more or less and nowadays some of them are throw-! ing aside their shyness and voicing | these ideas to each other, and/ Since a baby wants to put once in a while I seem to feel that everything in his mouth, all man, too, has come to the conciu-| | of his toys must be those sion that something might be done| that can safely be used in this way They sh d be washable to make of the lives of two people who elect to live them together, a | and should not have any sharp | realization of that for which they points or corners to hurt the |} have hoped and confidently ex ever pected Painted articles and bairy If I should read this to Dick, lit and woolen toys are unsafe, as tle book, he would say “Is it pos are objects smal! enough to be those having | bells and | swallowed, and Jooxe parts such as beads. sible, Margie, that my taking a few drinks with Harry can make you feel like this? You must un- derstand that a man cannot always be perfect, he must fly the track oc-| @ castonally.” z ‘ lcan't make him understan } that It is not the occasional “fiy-| CABY RAISING SYSTEM | | ing the track” that hurts me. It aby Saving Department My js the whole plan which makes ajusband {is A great man for wife out as unreasonable when she | *¥*tem so when our third child was deplores what the husband thinks| Dorm we decided the best way to is his right as well as individual| Keep it healthy and avoid the ordinary complaints babies fall heir pleasure. When I hold my baby next my|to Was to bring her up according to & regular system. heart, little . Tl stop each We followed it faithfully and foolish ache with the feel of its downy head against my breast. I am resolved that nothing shall hurt. me as long as I have my child. (To Be Continued Monday) some other women would | try ft Here is the system we etarted off able expression as in the John Hunt- Anna Sterling letters that cram The Star editor's mail. CAN JOHN HUNT AND ANNA of a good and man Anna, suspicious at first of John, | true man differed ema oe | Led | | first but {t's worth | baby with when the baby was real little. will that she is older we have, of |course, changed the system about la bit 6 a m., baby's first nursing Family breakfast, children off to achool % a. m., baby's bath, followed by second nursing Baby sleeps til! noon 12 to 12:30, baby's noon meal Outofdoor airing and nap 3 to 3:30 p. m., afternoon nursing. Period of waking 6 to 7 p. m, baby's supper and bed It may seem a bit confining at the healthy you'll have as a result and the troubles you'll avoid MRS. J. PL W ROTARY CLUB HAS ITS ANNUAL PICNIC Seattle Rotarians left early Sat urday for Maloney’s grove, near North Bend, with tents and ket ties. About 100 will pienic in the grove till Sunday night, when they return realize their worth and accept and respect them the more for the bat- Kradually learned that the respect tie they have fought and won. And John Hunt will be as happy STERLING LIVE HAPPILY EVER from the commanding ownership of|as most mortals AFTERWARD—AND WHY? a tenderloin boss, and almost un-| This is the problem. consciously learned to love Jobn Hundreds have answered it, in| with an unerring and undying love,| What is your view? not experienced the fiery test of) For the best letter, written in 100 the crucible—a test from which they or 150 words, The Star offers the emerged so purified as to be able to writer $5. For the second and third say to the world, “Show us the one best letters, $2.50 each. For the| who hath not sinned, and we will five next best, box seats for cou-| show you the one who can throw ples at Pantages theatre, where the! the first stone at us.” story of John Hunt, The Man Who! aR Dared, is shortly to be produced Eternal feminine and universal dramatically masculine are an organism. In the The story, The Man Who Dared, | distinction, Smal! Desires vs. Grand ran serially in The Star recently | Passions, lie the potentialities of and briefly portrayed the love and|true marriage for John Hunt and marriage of a man, John Hunt, who! Anna Sterling. found the woman of his soul in the| If polygamous-minded men “keep tenderloin. She was Anna Sterling.| sweet one clean spot in their He knew what she was before the| hearts,” as Anna did, and are en- wedding. She turned from her past,! titled to married happiness, under bent on leading an upright life, and/ reason why not the woman? did so up until the story closed. In| Love ts sexless, soul is sexless. fact, she was the “stronger willed/ So, too, are all human attributes. of the two in this respect. Love gives all and asks nothing. WILL THEY BE HAPPY? Love knows no jealousy. Jealousy Here’s what a few persons say: | abides on the sensual planes only. eee | Marriage is an evolution—soon John Hunt and his wife will be due for a revolution, It is a man- happy for the reason that both had| made institution. It has been experienced being thru the fire of polyandrous, polygamous and mo- a melting pot. | nagamous Anna emerged from the cesspool| Mumbled of vice, for which soctety in gen-| marriage. eral is morally responsible, and Nothing is sacred in marriage ex John had come out from the depths|cept that sacredness with which of drunken squalor, and in the joy|each one endows his own obliga- of new found life discovered Anna, tions, True marriage ts soul-union, a soul undeveloped’ in the love-partnersitip or co-operative ledge that womankind can be| chymship. love and cherished by Home means together —- \love is “watchfully waiting” one’s rights are inviolate. Twenty-four years’ continuous companionship from a love-at-first sight romance ought to give author. ity to experience, M. B, F. rites never made a where -@ 1 ef ul e Vi Will John Hunt lve happily? tS! rs If John Hunt's life is not happy he will be tg blame, and no one = else In the incomplete story of their lives, Anna Hunt proved herself worthy of any man's love and trust, and if he lives bis life as he should, she will do her part willingly. After a man has been, married a short time bis home life ts only ap incident in bis busy day's work. RE Her former life need not mean 500 to 91.80 Daily. | gocial ostracism for more than a Reduction by week! few years, If they keep themselves aloof | from the rougher classes of people, sooner or later the better class will OTEL COURT BUSH ST., AT STOCKTON | Heart of Everythi 8 Minutes to Expo, Direct Lime | Rates, European Pinan, 81.50 Up | Teke Universal Bus HOTEL ROY 898 Kearny 824 Kearny. and | more such “women reformers” the Imost as many different opinions. not given to every woman who has, path | ried MRS. J. A. P. . Anna Sterling left the downward because something new and sweet and clean had come {nto her life, and with it a sincere desire to do right. She realized, perhaps, for the firet time, that there was something tn the scheme of things worth striving for. Very likely she sought aid of Him who said, jo and asin no more At all events she was leas liable to fall again than some of her more favored sisters whore “lines were cast in pleasant places,” for she knew the bitterness of the cup. Her husband, tho assatied at first by jealousy when he remembered other days, would realize, as time went on, the depth of her loyalty devotion and steadfastness of pw pose, and could not be otherwise than happy The past would be forgotten, and in so far as it concerned Anna's life would be as if it had not been. G. AN eee Most assuredly John Hunt will live as happily as the avernge mar- man He knew all about Anna's past, and she knew he was no angel, She will be loyal to her husband, as he sacrificed so much for her sake, On his part there will be no more fits of jealousy as her beauty fades, and there will be no more drinking if the town goes dry. Daring John Hunt? If there were red light district would soon be de- populated But if neither God nor maw con- demns the failings of such women as Anna Sterling, then why should any woman strive to walk in the straight and narrow path?” This is the truth, M. M. eee I think Mr. and Mrs. Hunt have nee for happiness than ChungMee CHINESH MEDICINE Co. 11% Yesler Way We have Chinese Roots, Vewetable Cures all chronte diseases and dis- orders of men ud women. mits her mistake, and would, If #he| could, return to me. | often think | lof her with the tenderest feelings, | but that is all, She is the wife of| j another man. | My second love was too puritan. leal. | felt that her regard for me was only skin deep, only @ display | lof sincerity. Perhaps | was mis-| |taken, but | do not regret the breach between us. You say | am “unworthy of a good wife. In reply, let me say that at 221 graduated in New York city without the trace of a stain on my characte You accuse me of vanity. You certainly took the starch out of me. | || feel as limp as a dish rag. You |warn me that the “fogs of experi- ence” will dim my “bright light | With) others, | believe that ex- | perience will clear, rather than dim | the mental vision. j 1 confi that | am ata | to} |know what you mean by the “pol |tuted darkness” which threatens to envelop me. is it something r ly dreadful? If so, | want you to shield me from it. Now, Miss Grey, you deliver | much theoretical, tho well-m ladvice thru your columns. He a chance to do something practica| | 1 do not ask you to play the role of | a matchmaker, but what | need in| la whole-souled, woman to marry me to | me, if | am not too far gone. It is/ a big order, | know, but | believe) \t am well worth reclaiming. Here| lie a case where you can do some good. Are yougame? “L.M. 7." | | A—If T have misjudged you, then | }t humbly beg your pardon. Never | itheless, It seems that you are not} consistent. Will you kindly explain just exactly what you meant by the following extracts from your firet letter: “A young man of similar propensities took me around and showed me how to paint the town jred. Now I am a real, live sport Again, “No wedding bells for me. In general, I am a ay, care-free Lothario, It will take a clever trap to catch this little bird,” and so forth and so on, If your thoughts can be construed otherwise than |the interpretation I placed upon |them, then perhap different an-) |swer was in order. But of this much I am sure, you can't buy the| kind of love you want with dollars land cents alone. As near as I can ‘figure out, this is what you have | been trying to do so far; and, nat- lurally enough, you have failed. A those never tried as they were. If we are ever to merge into a single standard of morality let us not accept the one now existing for men, but let us urge them to accept ours, 1 say, let us have more people like Mr, and Mrs. Hunt, willing to help each other climb. I would like to tell these two peo- ple how I think they could forget the past What makes us forget unpleasant things quicker than a little baby and who would make a ‘v't father than John Hunt in h! oft-) ‘ened life, and who would fight for| |the safety of her children better than Anna Hunt, who knows what they will encounter when they come in contact with life? | Where is the father and mother} |whose burdens don’t leave or | lighten when their children smile? | MRS. G. 8, cee I submit the following reasons why John Hunt could not “live! happy forever after”: | First—Because the mother of his| children must be a woman above! | reproach, | Second—-The first year becomes! deadly monotonous to the ordinary married man, and results in un- favorable mental comparisons be- jtween his wife and other women.| Lasting affection does not come| |thru bearing shame and ostracism | for one's wife, | Third—The average man's only) claim to “chastity” and “virtue” is what is reflected on him thru his) | mother, sisters or wife, and no mat ter how depraved his own life may| be, he demands absolute chastity in his women folks. | Fourth-—-Man was born with inflated ego and an ingrowing con vietion that the woman must come to him for disillusionment. Knowl edge of her former life would dam- nen most any man’s ardor, Notice with what extreme nicety the clergy handle such reforma tons, L.A In spite of Anna Sterling's early| career, and regardless of John| Hunt's fondness for liquor, both are somewhat above the average and! capable of risking marriage with] each other, but in fairness to all,| there should be no children | Down through the ages man has| ee expected the mother of his off spring to bequeath them a pure [heritage. John, loving his wife! however much, would not be a hu man male ff her past did not come! up before him at times, especially were there children born, Ml | self-sacrificing 1] an Qe SSTEP MAY MEAN MISHAP; SAFETY FIRST Yy HAY! WATCH Y G | ZAYer ster) 2 | Never board a moving street car, and NEVER step from a car while it’s in motion. Watch sharp for autos and wagons when you leave a street car—a “look in time” may save | your life or your Iimb | Don’t linger in the street after you step from the car—take the shortest route to the sidewalk. Don't—this don't” for the boys—flip street cars or wagons. Don't pass to the rear of the car If you can help It when you leave a car—an auto, a wagon or a street car may catch you before you have time to “watch all simple precau- ut simple as they are they may save your life, they may spare you the pain and shock of serious accident. SAFETY FIRST is a good motto. Make it yours. would not looks claim welgh | in the] woman such as for your wife money or handson balance with her love. You say you need a whole-sonled, | woman to marry! to reform you, You are intense sifish. You expect something | for nothing. Young man, your! ideal woman does not marry a man save him. If he has not the will-/ power and determination to come up to her mark, she does not take the chance of being lowered to his, | ; Sloves together, but smooth the —— _wrinkles out and lay away. Q.—Please give the meanings of ir, Meat, a ht (1) consomme, (2) canapes, (3) |tenspoces of baking powder and a pisch | TWO pair of gloves, purchased at | mix well. Grease 2 cake tins, the same time, are an economy anchovy, and (4) cafe noir. FARMER BROWN. (1) A strong, clear soup, (2) pa foods spread on very thin| slices of toast or fried bread, (3) aj small fish resembling a herring, which has been much used for| sauces since ancient times, (4) black coffee. A Q—Kindly print directions for! making beet rouge. oO. T. A.—-Boll the beets, press out the juice and bottle. Dilute when applying. Strawberry juice is sometimes used as a cosmetic, It] is pressed from the fruit without} boiling. And Anna would live in constant] dread of just such thoughts on his} part, to say naught of the fear of} her children learning the truth at some time. Pity for them and her- self would make her wretched Without children, average domes-| tle peace is very possible, With| children, their chances of happiness are slim 2 . T can see no reason why John Hunt should not live very happily the rest of his life with Anna Ster-| ling. They have both seen the dark side of life, and now both have found the better way of living. | You can see by the stand Anna} took when Big Martin came and} told her all, that her great love for John had made her a new woman If she can stand all she has and| still believe, she will never fal again Her thoro change and kind pa tlence will be ever as a tonic to) John to be a bigger and better man, MRS, K Polygamy and polyandry are ob viously detrimental. The physical! construction of our women has} everything to do with this. | how terrible the eco- No matte will make your sick skin well | ‘That itching, burning skin can be | | healed! The first use of Resinol Ointment seldom fails to giveinstant relief, With the help of Resinol | Soap, this soothing, healing oint- ment usually clears away all trace | of ecrema, ringworm, rash or sim- | ilar tormenting, sleep-preventing skin-diseases quickly and at little | cost. Physicians have prescribed Resinol Ointment regularly for 20 years, so ite need not hesitate to use it freely. Sold by all druggists. | ceasful wife. TO ANNOUNCE | closes today and the winner wil | magnificent but futile, for without "mm fi 0 JUNE BE UMAN l NY) MME. § 2 ®) Gh ifs fh FOR WOMEN fc G0, BY HE DIVA seutrhi GIVEN RK, wD “Love Is Not the Be All and End All of Marriage” Some clever Englishman has said, that it takes three genefations of gentiemen to de velop a case of te y. Bn, | gout, and | would Ipggees say that it takes three generations jof — gentlewomen | to develop a suc- | Don't mistake me 1 not mean that a suc- have high birth, One of the most successful wives I know 1s my Jaun-fam dress, who © born of the man peasant class, Nelther is tt necessary for a girl to be born of wealth, The richest girl of my acquaintance ts impos: sible as a wife. The successful) wife, however, must be well bred She may get her breeding from her parents, from her environment or from the great world, but get it she must. Happiest {s she who is born into one of the numberless homes of the| great middie class; who has not the temptation lure that luxury brings nor to suffer the staltifying process of poverty and tt» attendant ills, In America every boy is born a potential president, and every girl the future beloved wife of aman who must be able to pay Income tax. Marriage is @ woman's greatest and most honorable business, How, then, shall she be trained or so train herself that she will have | at least the modicum of success? We step headlong into this serie ous affair which we are tanght is for “until death do us part,” and then we find we have fallen into @ pit instead of setting our feet in @ mossy hollow that is inviting to our souls What shall the coming generation of girls do to be saved from this? Not only must the girls do much, but thelr mothers as well And the first thing our girls must be taught is that love is not the be all and end all of marriage. There must be a willingness to suffer and bear patiently all the petty tribula tlons of household drudgery. (Another Schumann-Heink Article Monday) | THE WINNER | ON MONDAY As a result of the strawberry shorteake recipe contest, the edi- tor is in receipt of about 200 rec- ipes. They are all good, but owing to the large number it is impossible to print them all. The contest be announced in Monday's paper. The following are a few of the recipes suggested Kaitor Woman's P Two cups flour; 1 teaspoon sult; 4 teaspoons baking powder; | teaspoon sugar; % cup Crisco; % cup milk. Sift together the dry in- aredients, Cut in the Crisco thoroly with knife and the milk gradually, mix- ith the knife to a soft dough. Tose on floured board and roll lightl; in round layer pan in hot and butter before filling with ries, Cut in halves. Sprinkle with pow- minutes, Mash part of berries the on bottom layer, place layer and cover te cake, the whit the red straw- berries you have something beautiful to wee, Il as delicious to eat MES. P. KE. BOELENS, Fall City, Wash. Féitor Woman's Page: the most delicious In the word: sift to suit | oe nomic pressure, how fierce the de- sires of hereditary sin, or however degrading the social environment, we demand that the mothers of the race, my wife and yours, be pure and , uncontaminated. We even aspire to abolish the double stand- ard and train our boys to the glo- rious monogamic ideal—the mor- ality of our unparalleled mothers. The very essence of things places John Hunt as a lonely experiment, offspring all things must die. The stain of the Barbary Coast absolutely forbids children, if not physically insuring their absence. Man ts but a mind, all wireless perceptions and reactions, and when John Hunt realizes his racial crime he will recant and commence Alaska Se aD See Alaska The splendid steamers “F Sophia” offer unexcelled serv: modern conveniences, and me desired, Inside passage, Passengers round trip to summit of White Railway MAKE RESERVATIONS NOW sailings every Saturday at For rates and other inforn E. E. General Agent, Passenger Department 713 Second Avenue, Seattle y | Who ‘sits Excursio By the Famous “Princes Canadian Pacific Line No seasickness. 1,000 MILES OF DELIGHTFUL SCENERY have sufficient quick oven. Cover thickly with straw- berries that ha been previeusty lay the top ermal ail there le any Juice Leth, pene ore be he cake The pair of long white gloves — that have “seen better days” may be made as good as new if the tops, which are sure to be in good condition, are stitched to a pair of new short white gloves. : The stitching should be done at the wrist line. . . Pe sure an? remove gloves properly. Do not begin to pull at | the end of the fingers. Turn wrist or top over band and gradually / work thumb and fingers off. Pye When removed from the hand smooth and shape correctly, blow into the glove several times, then ~ lay on window sill, if possible, to allow a good cireulation of alr to get inside of gloves. Do not roll rather than an extravagance, and will, if worn alternately, outwear three pair !f purchased singly, and worn continually until worn out. MOVIE SIDEWALKS They're talking of building moy- ing sidewalks on the Seneca st. hill, Cost, $17,000 for four says H. C. Henry. 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