The Seattle Star Newspaper, August 5, 1912, Page 5

THE STAR—MONDAY, AUGUST 5, 1912. = sz NEWS OF SPECIAL INTEREST TO. WOMEN READERS sxx | OH, YOU WATEH-MILLION; CARVE ’EM TO DE HEART! GIMME A BITE! RIND AN’ ALL—AIN’T IT GREAT TO BE A KID? |* ® OME, SEATTLE’S DANCING PALACE. University. ent te Per Couple Letters to Cynthia Grey HHHKHHHKHHR KARA eS * * STER’S 18 THE BOY'S SOUL WORTH LESS THAN HIS 2 ‘That Please” Wreck Only. ee ee cabinet. Pletures with ‘you th nova Studio mite Tour K Ate Work Dear Miss Grey—I would like to make you acquainted with the fact that you are in the sanie fix as most everybody else seems to be nowa- days, namely, protect the girls and forget the boys. You say, “The married man who thinks he bas reformed (in mar- riage) is as guilty as when he lived the life of a profilgate.” You write as if it were a continual pleasure for bim to look back and enjoy the view engendered by his profligacy, whereas he is probably cursing his youthful folly and,gnashing bis teeth at the thought of his tnability to retrieve that which he has lost--not entirely through his own fault The cause of the profiigacy and degeneracy of our men and boys of today is attributable wholly to the unpardonable (1 could use a stronger word) neglect of the parents, who, in thelr blind ignorance isolate them- selves with their daughters and allow the boys to go their own way. You say that medical science admits that the physical condition of the children rests more with the husband than with the wife, Surely that ts a very good reason why our future husbands are entitled to a little more attention than they gen: lly recel It is one of the privileges of man that, as a youth, he is allowed to go to ruin, while his sister is being surrounded by every care, and incidentally kicks because she is not allowed the same privileges as her brother. God save us from such privileges. You will find in the average family of boys and girls, that there is a standing order for all the girls to be home by 8 o'clock, and when they protest to father that brother Bill does not have to get home so early, they are told by father that girls are different, and the poor fool evidently believes they are, and no doubt you think the same. READER, A-—~You are mistaken in your criticism, but you are sincere, so I will answer. My whole aim, in the answer you mention, was to show the real condition today, and awaken, with the knowledge that parents so foolishly deny their children, the boys to a realization of their respon- sibility, and to show that exchanging a profligate single life for one equally so, but within the law, is not true reform nor true marriage, jvery word you say is true, and my effort was to impart a little, at least, of understanding to the men and boys who have gone wrong through ignorance. Coupled with this desire was the one to lift the false accusation of Mrs. Woodrow from true American womanhood. t f | M the entire high- of Hill's Ostrich Now selling at 50 cents $30 Willows. ...$8 & $10 & $15 French Plumes. .$5 Heads, each.........92 HAT & PLUME CO. MOE ee | “How cold Miss Grey {s, she has * & | never loved.” ® HE NEVER FLIRTED *| Well, just last night I read where * BEFORE MARRIAGE * /he and his three beautiful daugh- ‘= *\ters, also his wife, have gone to BOR ee ee their country home for a rest. So Dear Miss Grey: I have been|that is what makes me write to married over a year, and frequently |thank you again for your good ad- when out with my husband, he will | Vice flirt by sweet smiles with other My father told me the same as women, Now why does he do that?|¥0u, and I can see now where you I left a good situation to marry |*re both good people. I hope there him and had plenty of money, and |#'e 0 foolish girls like me. was happy, but lonesome. So I} DAD'S GIRL." thought I should marry some good|, A-—My heart swells with thank- man and we met and courted al-|fulness for your escape. There is most a year. He never flirted be-| 8° little we can do for each other fore marriage, as he knew 1 was |!n this world—and yet so much, very much opposed to it, but now he likes to burt me. If I speak to him about it he tells me if I am not satisfied to hunt another. It's no wonder women are becoming des perate, I, myself, at times seem to be on the verge of something, I don't know what. I try to see a way out'of it in happiness togetMer, but there isn’t any. Rave been an invalid for the P fe, not being able to wusework, much confined to the & to be on my feet getting wo ie wer When I takin. of Dr. Swick 1 coul Walk to the corner of the take the car, but began te with the first btany opm | @short time the stomach aw in fine condition. and in began ERR ERA AEE EM proces Raw, it is one of the| te eee eke he eee eee *% |choicest as well as most popular) # *). TWO WAYS TO SERVE # /desserts of the summer season.|* FACTS AND FANCIES * WATERMELON *|Here are two simple ways to/® ABOUT WATERMELONS * ® jserve it: * * Lah othe Rha ml gid henlintgbohod L—Thoroughly ice the melon |e & ae eeeeKRe Ree REE The watermelon is less used Slice across xbout an inch thick than any other fruit in the culinary |Remove the rind and cut the solid; The watermelon with its abund —|red pulp Into cubes, diamonds, |42t Juice is the natura, hot weather hearts or other shapes as desired. | “ccompaniment. |Piace in salad bow! or individual] There is no food or drink that dishes, dust with fine sugar and|has the same refreshing effect on serve at once, the sun-baked human 2.—Cut across In inch slices. Re-| Unripe, like the muskmelon, {t move rind and serve the heart (each /ig apt to produce unpleasant, col large slice, of the red pulp in round |icky symptoms. But thoroughly or oval form; sprinkle with sugar. |ripe, it furnishes safety to the sys if cut into small rounds or ovals|tem with the carrying away of any ected with./ a drop of medicine. We *® tuch for you if you are ®. like manner if you will gw opportunity RR KKHKHHh * * ;NOTICE TO READERS * All letters cannot be an- ® * swered in the paper, and many ® * are without name or address. ® * A stamped, self-addressed en- ® * lope always brings a prompt * reply. CYNTHIA GREY, * * MELON TEA DISH ‘Take a fully ripe watermelon. Put on ice until thoroughly cold. Slice, remove seeds and cut any shape you prefer—-squares, diamonds, stars; size sufficient for mouthful, Put layer into glass dish, sprinkle with granulated sugar. Then another large layer of melon is placed on top, sprinkled again with sugar. Continue until you fill the dish. Sprinkle sugar over top. Return to ice box until wanted for tea. Dish and eat the same as any kind of fruit MELON SHERBET Scrape all the red pulp of the melon, carefully saving the juice. Allow to one gallon of liquid a pound of sugar and freeze. This may be UNHAPPY A.—Lonesome alone is by far bet ter than lonesome in a crowd—even | if the crowd consists of two. If you RHEE KKK, REE KEE * FREE PUBLICATIONS TA. p 7 Phowe Main 5709. Seattle and Grays Harbor ‘Trains leave Seattle 7:90 A. 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First Ave. and Yesler Way, Seattle, Canadian Homestead Lands J 8. HURGIS, Passenger Department. Wash Gen'l Agt “Renton, Rainier Valley, ackson Street and Colum 1Z] bia THE FOLLOWING FIRMS IN YOUR DISTRICT, THEY ARE RELIABLE COLUMBIA GROCER P. PHALEN ___ RENTON _ GENERAL MERCHANDISE Williams & McKnight | | | } box i# periodic sunning and airing.| | Every so often the entire | must be washed thoroughly |ammonia water or soap and water, = then (inch length) sprinkle with sugar | feverish tendency. Or sauce and sefve as cherries or Away back in 1629 an English plums. writer discussed the best methods of growing watermeton in hotbeds. ttn home ie tn Egypt. But it te found abundantly in India and */ China. In all southern Europe mel- */ons are both common and popular. *| Wherever the climate is sultry */and the sun rays are hot, the de * | lclously cooling, juicy watermelon ®/ wins favor and friends. *| To the poor Egyptian watermelon is both food and drink. And in the wealthy Egyptian * it is the custom to eat slices of watermelon at intervals between the different dishes. In Parie—-and sometimes in America, too—this melon is eaten with salt, which is said to facilitate its digestion * Silesia Sede Sacliadiadaating * MELON DRINK ® Crush pulp of white melon * until all the juice is out of it. ® Add lemon juice and water to ® taste. Set on fee and drink ® any time. Said to be an ex- ® cellent blood purifier * * KER hhhehee ICE BOX DRAINS NEED CONSTANT LOOKING AFTER The remedy for odors tn the ice} ampearapennap an ACTRES S SAYS outfit} with so placed that the sun can nine into the Interior for several rs. Antiseptic and deodorizing | Washes only temporize lee box drains need constant and careful attention. The drain water }has a temperature of 35 to 55 de grees, and slimes, molds and some jbacteria grow well in that tem | perature. | The jellylike mass of slime com- jmonly found in the refrigerator jdrain is a vegetable growth, The cure for slime in drains is to rod them out, wash with ammonia, amd then with chiorina lime This should be done periodicaliy. First Picture Postals | The distinction of making and maliing the first picture postal card is claimed by Leon Besnar- deau, a bookseller of Sille-le il Jaum near Conlie, Franc In 1870, during the war with Prussia, he printed pletures on postal cards he was mailing to clients. M. Bes nardeau is still alive The Ger- mans adopted the idea for the Nu- remberg exposition in 1882, TOK TOTTORI HII I bk * “Men to blame for the present reign of horror in women's clothes. Argue it any way you will, women DO dress to please men— yes, Mr. Sullivan, I'm coming!” are * * * CYNTHIA’S ANSWERS TO #& * MANY QUESTIONS * varied by adding lemon flavoring add the whipped whites of eggs, finish the freezing. WATERMELON A LA MODE Cut the watermelon across in Scallop or star the edge of each piece and place on fruit plate, as dessert, surmounted by foe cream, using strawberry and vanilla to carry out the watermelon colors. ping off the whole dish with a cherry or a fresh strawberry. SPICED Quarter, peel and cut into preferred Weigh and place in earthen jar. let stand over night and cloves, a little grated nutmeg, Bell several minutes after commencing to simmer. Cover them and let them stand over night the melons. | firm Then seal MEN ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR FREAK STYLES FOR WOMEN DEMAND CONSPICUOUS die! Let me die through the empty playhouse. Then she fluttered back to her impromptu seat on a table. “As I was saying just before I died that time,” she continued, swinging smartly-clad pair of small feet, “most men want women a be fashionable. Our brothers ask Then drain and for every seven pounds of melons make @ syrup of 3 pounds of sugar, a teaspoon each of allapice reverberated | with whom they appear in public to| and lemon juice. When half frozen one for each quart of mixture, and Remove the rind. Serve twoinch slices. Or simply use the white cream, top- MELONS size the pleces of melon, Pour over them cold vinegar and , and a few bits of stick cinnamon. Pour this over RKRKKKA RARER * HALF FROZEN MELON Break the ripe pulp of the melon into Mine vite with a silver fork and place it in freezer without dasher, Let stand two hours packed in salt and and serve in sherbet glasses or the half shell of the melon, chilled and garnished at base with vines. | * *!| * * *! * * * ed | * * * . * * \* * * * * * * * RRR ae Re RHHRRRARKKKE THE YOUNG *) REE Dear Miss Grey—Will you please tell me how a boy can overcome) bashfulness? How can I become! acquainted with the young people| where I live? I am green, bashful,| and awkward. Is a boy of 18 old enough to go with a girl? When a girl is going’ away is it her or my place to of- fer to write? CHARLES A.—Do little kindnesses for others, you it make friends readily. A boy is never too young to associate with girls if he is the | right sort, and not given to “spoon- ing.” If a boy wishes a girl friend to write, he should ask her to drop a card or a few lines. tht * are sure you are not super-sensitive. and that he really flirts, make your- self as independent financially as you were before marriage. If he flirts to tease you, do not notice it, and he will stop. A fire cannot burn long without fuel, and one person cannot quarrel very long. ERR * COOLLY ASKED HER TO * * * * LEAVE. * * * Keke kkk kakh tek Dear Miss Grey—I am a young married woman and my husband and I were happy until he met an old friend of his. It seems their Repeat this |love for one another has come back. | days twice, the last time simmering until melon is tender and clear, though|and gince then he has not been the) nim Place melon in heated jars and pour the spiced syrup over. same. The other day he asked me to go ={to my folks, and we would get a He says | can take baby with me, as he would be too busy to look after her. Now I am kind and love him, and try to do every- thing to please him. We have a nice home and he says he will sell it and give me half of the money for baby, and I am to stay with my folks. Please advise me BROKEN-HEARTED WIFE. A--A man who cast off a faithful wife and baby, like a pair of worn shoes, is not worthy of your love. At the same time you may be doing him a wrong in making it easy for him to shift his home responsibilities. You, not I, must make the de- cision, but if you decide to leave, not only get one half of all you have acquired since marriage. see that he supports the child in addition, If I can help you further, send stamped, self-addressed en- velope. divoree. RK TTT RK KH can so lightly} but | * * HIS INTENTIONS a * * ERE E RRR KHEEKE Dear Miss Grey—There is @ young man who has often asked jus to come and help him in his of fice work. He acted as a gentleman should the first time we went, and sald I helped him very mu and that he got lonesome and I | interest in his work when he had to work alone, and we thought if all right for two of us to go ug and help him there. One night one of us went alone |to his office to return a borrowed | book and he asked for a kiss. O1 course, he was refused.* Do you | think it was right to refuse? Some later both went up to help and when we were ready to |go home he offered us a drink of beer. We never had the faintest idea that he drank, and were im sulted at his offering us a drink. Do you think he was very gentle manly to return all our efforts to help him in this way? We helped him purely out of friendship, and don’t you think he is very ungrate- ful? His intentions may have been all right, but he didn’t show it | that way. Should we speak to him when we |meet or drop the friendship for- ever? We do not know of anyone |to go to for advice, for we do not want any of our personal friends |to know about this, as we see we were wrong in ever going there Jalone. Our intentions were the best though some may not believe it. I hope you will believe us and tell us as soon as possible what we should do. CHUMSB. A—Have absolutely nothing to do with the young man, and let this experience be a lesson to you all your life. Conventionalities seem hard to young people; but */ihey are a safeguard, and sooner * PREACHES, BUT DOES * NOT PRACTICE * * RK KEKE Dear Miss Grey: Iam In trouble and want your help. I met a young man of 21 about a month ago, and gince then he has been coming fround regularly, and has made ardent love to me, He gives me a good bit of advice about my behavior towards young men. Of course, I appreciate it or later they recognize such, Do not try to decide what his in- tentions were. It is enough to |know you are unsafe in his com pany. them as RRR EK EKER * NOTICE TO READERS * Questions sent to The Star & physician will be taken care of & by him. * * * * TERRE ERE RE very much, for I have no brother; but he does not expect me to treat him in the way he says a girl has to treat a fellow to make him re- spect her. I have learned to care for him Beacon 1522, Columbia 1 Up-to-Date Grocer of the Rainier Vatiey. loods—Full Weights IACKSON ST. 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California, Colorado, Idaho, Utah, Washington, and Wyoming are the) % equal suffrage states. % MUCH VALUE * HOT WATER bi employed| * Tho vaiue kt tk tk kt tt th hhh 859. | There is no remedy of such gen- eral application and none so easily attainable as water. Yet nine per- gons in ten will pass by ft in an emergency to seek for something of tess value. A strip of flannel or a folded lengthwise and dipped In hot water, wrung out and then applied round the neck of a child that has croup will usually bring relief in ten minutes. A towel folded several times and dipped in hot water, and quickly “Mina Black Eyes,” come to my| wrung out and applied over the office some afternoon, or send me) seat The Alaska fisheries 15,620 persons in 1910. of the produce was $13, The East room of the White House is open to visitors dally, ex- cept Sundays, between 10 A, M and 2 P, M. Mail for all the United States vessels of war, stationed In foreign waters, should be addressed with name of the vessel care of the Postmaster, New York, N, ¥, He will forward. Bring Results a stamped, self-addressed envelope, | neuralgia will generally afford *) iy tight dress or Miss Thing-um- vob’s false hair “Men solemnly declare they adore the simple, stay-at-home, old-fash idned girl, but how many of them a4 k her society?” —— STAR DOC prompt relief. This treatment works like a charm, | It would be difficult to shorter cut to relieving congestion \of the lungs, sore throat or rheu |matism, than hot water plied promptly and thoroughly. in colle often by showering it with hot in so brief a time as an hour | Pieces of cotton batting dipped in| |hot water and applied to old sores napkin) new cuts, bruises and sprains are used very generally in hospitals. Mrs, the Rosary and other books, greatly Interested In foreign mis sionary work and attended a meet ing in London lately in the inter ests of this work [not often leave her own home. TOR! find a when ap-| A sprained ankle has been cured] water} poured from a height of three feet) Florence Barclay, author of is She is the busy of the pain in toothache or| wife of a country parson and does| 4 h it. The child who never learns what it is to want will never appreciate what it means to have. The saddest creature in the | world is the old man or woman without any reason to hope. Bad Complexions Are Now Easily Discarded] Ibyery woman has it in her own hands to possess a beautiful and youthful complexion, No matter how soiled, faded or coarse the cutl- cle, ordinary mercolized wax actually remove It, and Nature will substitute @ skin as soft, clear and lovely as a child's, the wax is not dr and |cernible h}complexional improv Jounce of mercolized wa at any drug store, suffices for most on It is put on at bedtime, lke cold cream, and taken off in’ the morning with warm water, It is a Jcertain method of discarding tan, | freckles, sun spots, liver spots, moth patches, blackheads and pimples. can ed wi | benefit b ing the face in a # prepa by dissolving one gradual ment, One , procurable Wrinkles i will|® t|* dearly and am afraid if I treat him coolly he will come no more, and will not marry me. Do you think he doesn’t care so much for me for not acting free with him? ANXIOUS ONE. A.—A great many men are prone to give advice they do not follow. 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