The San Francisco Call. Newspaper, February 15, 1903, Page 9

yll Y > L off the sit =h the wet regardless are dry garments at ey, and why augmer the hot water L when she man pronounc his a .,,, 7, the t her embarrassment She will take it al and imagines outing ana at t he cannot polo who can share a man's " " sappointme ik oting is a . t ightful fo s f th ¢ ntleman ! withou & = f her feminine charm She ma b vith the best of 1 1 never take on - ghter's sparri She ma de herself on bea g men friends at hockey, but sh os ght of the fact ta trig the onus of T defeat. She can play golf without nag- gihg the caddy or stopping to flirt at every inviting hazard. When she goes to a.football-game she does not annoy her escort with absurd and unreasonable questions, She studies out the line-up before she leaves home and she shouts herself hoarse for the side chosen by her companion She is not a prude, yet a man would blush to drop an oath in her presence. She invites his confidences. but never his familiarity. He may smoke if he will, but she knows better than to light a cigardtte with the idea that this is the comradeship he will enjoy. Men like to see women smoke—in the somewhat vague realm of Bohemia—but not on the country road sides where wild roses blow. But if she will let him trudge by, her side, ~ulling hard on his beloved pipe, he knows \ s AR 5 "TEROUGE A ST oz A SZTORAL ~ T TH A SMILING FACKH AN 7R TZZS VAUZEES she is just the sort to build a practical cozy corner in the home which is to be theirs some day And won't have lace curtaine or silk throws in his way either, but just a cumfy nook, whe he Yean. see air-castles rising above the curls of soft. gray-blue, The companionable woman does not chatter’ wivn she plays whist, and she respects her beloved's enthusiasm fer pinochle. She knows that a quiet game of vinochle is infinitely safer than a try across ' the - fatall fascinating green baize. So she knots her pretty brow over the mysteries of “royal marriages" and “sixty queeps” ‘until the onliest man in the world has to lay down his cards and kiss away the puzzled look The woman who can enjoy ‘a drive be- hind a skittish horse and not grab her escort’s agm evary e the trotter makes a spurt, the girl w 0 ‘can take a sail without Kkeeping an anxious eye on the canvas, the woman who can strike “out across the country with a man and keep the pace with h s filling and facé teeming with reciation of out- door life, will draw ¢ man she loves away from clubhouses. The woman who spends her time ideal- izing men instead of studying them is preparing trouble for herself .when she enters the matrimonial estate. She must learn as a girl to overlook small foibles and be content with large graces. A little knqwledge of the,world will do.her no harm and make her more tolerant of the dearest man in the world when she wakes up from the rosy dream of ship to the stern realization of wedded life. Girls reared mosphere excl prepared to become happy, conte wives in this day and age. Happy deme ticity requires companionship, a sharing of interests. The girl who has known nothing of the life led by men, the af- fairs which interest them, is apt to land in the divorce court Happy that girl whose father and brothers take her into their charmed cir- jcle. The girl who is companionable for the men of her family, is equally certain to walk with assurance in the path which leads to the altar—and beyond. The girl who has been raised by a wid- cwed mother, assisted by a superb array of adoring feminine relatives, burns im- cense to a manly ideal which never finds its prototype in real life. She is the girl who has hysterics when her. newly wed husbard forgets to bring home her vio- lets, who thinks he should hold her hand in public places, who s made ill by the smoke from the choicest Havana, who faints when the auto tries to go up hill backward, who rails when her spouse in- dulges in language that Is at times the one safety valve for an overtried nervous system, and wails because thfs same hus- band, being a wretched suburbanite with a train to catch, chases off without the third” and last kiss. Far be it from me to suggest that this in convents or in an at- isively femin THLE IS FAITLLAR WL TH ZT&EL LU XTI ! BAS s am age when pand and tion woman is deman by m They do not expect her to 1 nothing—to en and the things ¢I k housekeeper 2ione paths strewn i the happiest m al r you have ever krow 1 ¥ w walk? _Then s rt of g radeship NEL KATE.” ADVICE FOx THE BUSY WOMAN n who values a good ot the ambition necessary to kely to declare e prevents her ttempting the work. Her dashing tit at conspleu- ed finger 3 the fact t stumbling block will Iway: hefr per- are apt to per- belief. s undoubt- , can al- 1 the few moments necessary to preserve her looks, If she will work meth Each night the face ald b with warm water ps, using a silken se. “Then, while the cream to be ture or the , should be rubved in well and worry lines swiftly patted and from the eyes and forehead s are then well scrubbed and washed with a mixture of cornmeal and soap and the spots on and >ved by applying stone If neces- under the nalls. ream is rubbed om, t forgetting to apply ail by means of nd my lady's the ora wearisome t In the mon water on the application 4 to rub away with the usual face is and the >t sunshine. The malls may be buffed for a moment now and the cuticle pressed back the hands are thus not only presentable, but In good condition to stand the work befors them. The use the cream under the finger nail eac fally a protection as it often c ! e tendency to become brit ear and break on the slightest provocation The entire tim t in thus caring for the face and h exceed minutes night ng, while in the matter of expense a little study will N manage the few ary, and after a moderate d not ex- most penetr: articles neces equipment her ceed % a year- » it & month. Tf she desires she may easily jearn and practice at home both the mas- sage and manicuring.