Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, January 11, 1916, Page 7

A} \ \ ) THE BEE OMAHA DAY JANUARY 11, 191 Two Kinds e Consideration t The Bees Home Ma gazihe Page How to Dance the Mazurka on Skates From Photographs Posed Exclusively for The Bee by Miss Gladys Lamb and Norval Baptie, Whose Art Has Made Them Famous R T ] By ADA PATTERSON, f There's no secret ubout b g | marriage famous man on the ] " anniversary of his i wedding hi next words he 1 prove here | a secret, a double acret, of such happiness and he gave 1t My wife s always let me alone on oceasior and 1 have let her alone. Then A w 1 needed help nhe asked i me what she could do for me and did it Vhen she was not exactly pleased witt nything 1 asked her what T could do to | help b That's all 'l of the ecret of happiness in mar riage! Al of what all the writers and philos hers and poet and playwrights, ! th married and unmarried, are striv Ing after and of which some are ready to andor he nr !l There many per n marriage, and some ¥ £ cannet found in at only ignatior Here comes the man who ends thelr doubts, Hapy n consideration, 1 twe dg, pas and 8 ve In the wedded state con: in judiclous letting nk that over. Te remine what a great editor said to me about newspaper work. It has but two arts, how to make « big thing of a little thing and %ttle kno when to use a & mistress of prac Boin monial taati For nt ed word are i the flamos of discord They arc the fat in the fi They re sa in wound They are din o tired nerves a n hand uy a nurt The man who knows that t ask a tired woman, “Why “did you do this”' is to her war hurl dishes at him aq say it ile waits unti] ehe is d, smiling, unhurried, at peace with ia The are g s'cians in the family circle who know the healing \ere are times when to say: “Can T help you ls to offer an affront. But there are other times when it says, “Peace, be still, to whirling winds of the soul, es pecially if there be children in the he hold. There are men—should we call them so? —who think it unmanly, beneath their ordl dignity, to h tak care of the children Such men should deny them- | selves parenthood. It is a strange lop- $dptt sided world that permits women to lit- RSN ! erally slave themselves to death, In tak- ing care of children, and allows men to look upon the little ones as mere dis- turbers of their rest, creatures that | EHO TO.EY tRALHILL By GLADYS LAMB. preliminary steps, first to the right and In dancing the masurka it must be {8 8o much more beneficlal than dancing! hen to the left, If the goneral rotation | remembered that each step of the dance for the reason that it is performied in| aise & row while a man is trying to read | his newspaper.” | Who, with her partner, Norval Baptle, I know a bank president and treasurer 5 s great attraction in ‘‘Castles-in-the- of one of the fichest and most populous | i atop the Forty-fourth Street counties of the east, whom I have seen ' theater. pushing the perambulator In his home block while the nurse took the older chil dren to shop. I have seen him spreading | apple butter on thick slices of buttered bread while his wife was at a church so- clal and the housemaid was on an errand, to appease their after achool pangs of hunger. He is one of the best business The mazurka danced in the baliroom is, as everyone knows, one of the most brilllant and dashing of all the dances. On skates this dance loses nothing of its life and vigor and is skated with all the {18 to bo toward the right, begin on the | right foot and, counting time to the musie | for each stroke, step lightly, with the left foot crossed behind, to a shert stroke of left inside forward, and then, [ on the next beat of the musio, to a short step on the right ineide backward, The fourth step is done hy putting down the left foot on the outward back- ward, and then, on counts five and @ the dancers jump from the right inside backward to the left toe-point crossed | behind, men and most intelligent and prominent z”‘: ““,lfh'“d"'""’r"ly "”:':"d th e cidizens in his part of the state. I should | 980¢® APOR 10, BIPORORR. K7 hites bo sorry for any poor whipper snapper | should be ralsed lightly from the lce The epirited and stirring mualo accom- panled by the gracefulness of the dance steps makes a brilliant finlsh to a shkat- ing performance of any kind, wider movements and more healthful because they are less con- fining. Alwuys skate in perfect time rhythm, acquire fearlessness, to and the be The pletures {llustrated shew (he peces. | sure that you will succeed. Anyone ean sity of absolute freedem with (he shka #0 that balaneing even om the toes easy acoemplishment, Any dance may featlon on the be breught to per, loa where the freedor of movement is mere evident than it id| of the in the mere limited ball , | akate well who can do other things well. | Determination and a sense of proportion are all that are necessary. This syoden Interest of smart soc'ety In skates and pkating should be one greatest advantages offerod to room. Skating! the world in some time. who deserved punishment at s hands. | They are big and strong enough to crush vet tender enough to wipe away tears of | a child. Heaven bless the men who are manly nough to offer their help to women. | nd heaven equally bless the woman who sympathetic her man, mdes tender help to the needs it offers of her man, By WOODS HUTCHINSON, M. D. | One of the most frequent points of con- — |flict between the rising and the passing “ ‘xenernuonn between the ‘‘wisdom of Th s C f babes” and the prejudices of parents, is e trange B30:: 0] [Peie el th M P " | ‘While children, for the most part, have ary rage a cheerful and indiscriminate enthusiasm lfnr food of all sorts, and a broad and of the At the request Essanay com- |catholic appreclation of almost every- prany, which will produce the story in |thing that tastes good, gives some reaist- film form, the publication of the serial, jance between the teeth and produces a The Strange Case of Mary Page,” is |sense of comfortable distension in the leferred for one we It will start in |interior, yet there are limits and some- | The Bee on Tuesday, January 19, and 'times sharp ones to their toleration will be run regularly on this page, one | A youngster with an otherwise hearty | nstallment each day natural appetite of sawmill intensity for the paricular things that he especlally approves of will suddenly jib violently t one or more harmiess, every-day foods cannot eat them VWAt Brand Of || s o . 1a4 et oo o Matches {thes Do You Use? 1t the foods happen to be of common Who makes them ? | |and declare that he use, and particularly if they are inex- pensive, thero is likely to be War at once For the general tendency of parental authority and that crystallized form of stupidity, proverblal philosophy, is that children must be taught to eat what is put before them and make no fuss, partly becauso this, being disagreeable, is good | Christian displine for them, and partly in the belief that they should be {in advance to eat ¢ food at least, 8o that he may be able to {find something to fill up on in the future Are they poisonous or non-poisonous ? Are the sticks long and strong or shortand weak? Do the heads fly off or do > days of boarding school or boarding | they stay on? house or public and away from home tables of all sorts and descriptions. Do they burn evenly or { Fortunately rational and kind- explosively? | lier spirit is beginning to prevade the re- | 1ations of parents and children, and in- If people knew as much stead of deciding the matter offhand and about matches as they upon maxims handed down from the should, they would use jgnorance and barbarism of the past, we Safe Home Matches made : are willing to Mk-hnn time and ;anu\d:r ig {and see whether there may not be some by the Dismond Match | reason and ground for this intense dis- Company. | ltke or distaste ! Also, it is gradually dawning upon us, Sc. Al grocers. |in this as In other fields of educatior Ask for them by name. | |a child like and do easily the things that " |1t will be necessary for him to do in his The Diamond Match J |iater 1ite by making him hate them while | Company | he is young from having them crammed | down his throat As soon as we look at it from this point of view we disgover that there is Jften g0od and sufficient reason for many |of these childish whims and fancies and | dislikes, | "Some of them may the éxpression | of & genuine antipathy and susceptibili {to that speeial food which will last all his life long and which make that food him in any shape take it remembered literaliy a to sr formi in which he ¢ d al This she e whei taught | ery ordinary kind of | | that it is hardly & rational way to make | Children’s your child objects strongly to & particu- | lar kind of food, and careful inquiry should be made as to whether he just aislikes the taste of it or if it makes him | feel uncomfortable if he eat it. | It it makes his stomach burn or his | head ache or gives him hives or other itchy conditions of the skin or upsets his | bowels, then it 4s to him a polson food | | and he should be excused from eating it altogether, although encouraged to oc- casionally taste a little of it from time to time as he grows older to see whether he is outgrowing his idiosyncrasy. More commonly, however, -this taste | expressed by your child for some feod or foods will be an unconsclous protest |against waste of furnace room. A child's stomach is smaller in pro- portion (o his body welght than the {adult's is and much smaller in propor [tion to the desree of his activity and \PXDPI’ldlture of energy, to say nothing of | growth. For instance few chiliren under ten can go with comfort and advantage for ! | | more than three or four hours without |food, while most adults will go five Grown-ups, with their more or less sedentary habits and avoidance of violent excercise and tough digestion, require or, at least, can utilize considerable amounts | |of rather coarse, bulky foods, what the | farmers call ‘roughening” or ‘‘rough- | age.’ | Children, on the contrary, have com- | paratively little use for these bulky hay l(nodu but, on count of the smallness | of thetr stomaches and the incessantne of their activity, require a diet composed | chiefly of nuritious, rather rich, and con- | centrated, real foods. So that If your child shows a strong antipathy to some particular vegetabls, {or for the matter of that, other food, there is usually a reason; there are plenty of other fruits and vegetables just as |g00a for balancing his ration, of which | he is safe to like at least two or three. With thelr unerring instinct the little | rascals will usually eagerly devour sweet |frults or sweet preserves, on aecount of |the sugar in them, which is the realest | kind of & food. So, by a judicious combination of bribery of this description and allowing |nim to eat his fill once or twice a day of the two or three fruits and one veg- |etable which he does like, there will be | no difficulty in keeping him healtby and growing and he'll come to the other Ithings in his own good time. For the matter of that, the vegetables which are the most frequent cause of war between children and their elders— through not necessarily wisers—cabbage |and caulifiower, and turnips and onlons, and dried peas and beans, are elements of rather doubtful value, even In the adult diet, and would scarcely sver have come to be considered fit for human food thelr heapness and the fact save | adults’ | youngsters a keen, |in smaller amounts, that they were good keepers and avall able all winter long in the dreadful old days when nothing green or fresh or sour was to be had for love or money | rom December to May. They still have their uses under these circumstances, and for those who have digestions like a sawmill, but In many and in most children's stomachs they produce more indigestion than fuel ‘value, and their places are being rapidly taken on our modern tables by lighter, wholesomer and much more appetizing foods, such as lettuce, celery, tomatoes and the green salads generally, The only ones of them that have any real nourishment in them, dried peas green peas are different, digestible und appetizing, but of very light food value and dried beans, have such irritating flavoring extractives in them that can only be eaten to advantage abtout once a week by adults, outside, of course, of lumber camps or construction gangs, where they can burn almost anything Children can live and thrive much more monotonous and restric diet than adults, providing that they are allowed select that diet on n to It your child wants to eat only three or four foods, ask your doctor if those three or four form a balanced ration and if they do, let m alone, urging him, of course, to make a friendly ex perimental trial of other things from time to time and watch the result As & foundation for and accompani ment of other foods, starches—that is, bread, biscuit, crackers, toast, rice, corn meal, potatoes, etc.—play & heavy and important part in children's diet As they are the cheapest of all human foods and the most In favor with ama teur diet reformers, there is little fear of the poor youngsters getting enough and move than enough of them. Their genuine food gives the natural appetite for them in connection with and a background and filler for the attractive, but less substantial fruits, preserves, vegetables and soups, or for those real foods which can only be eaten like butter and meat The best form of all the starchy foods not alue more | which they | a sort of which for reasons of economy supply nearly two-thirds of the fuel value of | our food ration, s good white bread, | either plain or toasted Next comes the biscult, if thoroughly baked through and through and with plenty of erisp crust; then then plain cake and puddings, then pota- toes, then corn meal, rice and last of ail mushes and cereals The value of these last has been enormously overrated home-made ones are mixed with so much water in the process of preparation for the table and the manufactured ones with much air that they have a low tritive value for their bulk fac for children so very n In crackers, | | | the | | Food Antipathies the cream sagacious nsisted the and sugar with which young hopefuls have on having them most nutritious part of the mixture. Not one of them supplies an element 18 lacking in a good, modern, mixed diet, with plenty of fruit and green stuffs, and not one of them is either as nutritious or digestible as its own welght in good bread, and they cost anywhere from five to ten thnes as much our The main secret of their enormous and flatulent popularity hus been the cheap- ness of the materials out of which they are constructed and the huge profit which they yleld to thelr makers and most ingenious advertisers. No health food or patent food yet in- vented can hold a candle for real value and permanent wholesomeness to the plain everyday foods which come on our tables every meal under eonditions | always | deluged are | By RUSSELL H. CONWELL, Unlversity, phis A young man is waiting in the presi- dent's office to arrange for matricula tion, The usual questions have been naked him; but as he does ot fit exactly into the cut and dried scheme of things it has become necessary to pass him a little higher up. . Ho may or may not have met all the | preliminary requirements, but he knows {one thing for sure—that he needs the col |lege course as the foundation for his | future work in the world as he thinks he sees it. It is not possible for him, perhaps, to take the entire number of units usually prescribed for the freshman year, though |he is willing to undertake heavy burdens, for he is young and does not realize the after-cost of excessive effort; or perhaps he cannot fit into just the usual combi- natlon of courses. What will the college authorfties do for him? Will they allow him to do as much work as he can, ana will they allow him some latitude in the cholce of his subjects? It necessary, can he take half of his !l\llv\u-lu this year and half next? If the college renches out to meet individual necessities he stays not he seeky further All he asks is the opportunity, (will seelc until he finds it | Seldom he aske financial assistance from the college; but It you question him President Temple Philadel- his and he The Boy Who Went to College If it does | (¥ou will find that he is self-supporting, | that he has a fob. | It may net him little more than the barest necessities or he may be fortu nate in finding one that will give him comparative comfort. He may run an elevator at night, he may tend furnaces, he may write up life insurance, he may do one or several of a thousand thing; He does not talk about his business af- fairs on the outside; he only asks twe college to let him come and do as much of its work as he can. You can trust him to do his best; but the college must keep a careful oversight over him without his knowing it, for it owes It to its own future glory to protéect him from himself, from the temptation to overdo. It must not allow him to undertake too much at a time; but if it is true to the best ideals of service, for which the col- lege should be the synonym, it will show him every opportunity, every help in its power to give him the chance to do all that he can. In return, the day will come when he will surely honor the institution that was true to its purpose of training etrong men and women to serve others. Such a young man came to me some fifteen or twenty years ago. He was self-supporting, though he wa. through his course before the authorities knew anything of his outside business affairs. 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