Chicago Daily Tribune Newspaper, November 23, 1878, Page 10

23, 181B=TWKLVE PAGES, ¥ Insatiable longing to get np and eay And mai a5, ur:couth, aAnimal ** man, 1s ro- nponaible for the fact that sich a fats i Hable to avertake every such woman, Can Any worse com- mentary be made on his poverning abliities? Why, when he haa the law-making power, and knoswing that women have **freszies™ and **illumina- tions,” has he notpassed Mawa o prevent men from approaching women with nyrotechnic souts? Let us bave jt on our sistote-books that such fe. males, Jike other fireworks, may be brought out only on the Faurth of Suly,'ami that no one shall be allowed to stors ono wilhin a mile af any man, And that girl in the crimron silk, ruthleasly aleek pullet you admire ao much must grow old, | lonked at the box of planta § recelvod a week ago, and then where In the gallant chanticlear? O with | containing twenty.Aive fine primniaa for 81, 1 con- enma youuger chick. Todrop the almile; whera | cinded It was eheaper to pazchaso them, an § Jost On eatth tan w0 dosnlate An abject bo fannd a1 an | A1l my sesdlings ne past sammer. Xextto ihe ald maid? Instead of a Javing hushand te grow old rimroed | value monthly rasea (the winter-bloom- with, you are all alone with nothing but a cat. OF | Ing sarietien), gerantum3, fuchsias, Hbonias, enps- conraa, marry & nobie, refned man §f you arca | torloma, atevias, cactus (epiphyllim), and, wonld fhoble, refined woman. 1 & count coutd b made, [ you believs ft, balsama (Iady-slippers). 'These all there are eurely as many good men A< women, The | rive a windowfal amonnt of bloam from October conrne andl nntefined geneenliy mate with the same. | nntil Jane, aid Hitle tronble, and not esaily in. 1don’t belleve in such veneral depravity of men; | jured hy frost or tho heat of the room, “fhefirst T 100 miiny of ther aro shat their wives mnke thom, | enard azninat by elipoing newepaners betwren the Wait. my dear maid, tiil the right time comel d | pois And sanh, prating three together, which makes yor fall under the Influcnce of this love you don't | a stift sheet that can boslid down and allowed to seem (o heliavo in, sen your theorien dissolve be- | reaton the seat; the hot, dry alr I8 prevented by foro its inflaence, and then write to The Ilome and | keepin arge ahallow pan of water un the siove, bath-work (admitting that Rabbath-work in ajlow: bie) he uniertaken by thoso alrcady exhansted by their rix muccessivo aya' Iabor, ‘and encounter with the rough side of Jife? Natare's law fa as nnurnr{. and exacta ono day's rest in seven as afstinctly as does tne Divine, and got the religions consclence of the present dny Is cducated to that paint (hat, [ fear, in onr mistsken zeal, wo nro lu‘rfixmml] wullty of breaking both. “If for the well-being of souls Rabbath-work muat be dome, Why not draw onr warkera from the rank and flo af peopla of week-day lefeure? § am auswered that the dronca of the chirch-hive do not make eMeicnt workera; that the church exacta niors 1ime and mote work cach succcssive year: that the beila that eall tha flocka together ring nearly every tema of #pace, 1o preserve unbroken the analogy of Natare, shouid poxseas ail the diversity of auciety anid scenery, and pPeaent all the methoda and op- portuniiies todisembodied hehics, for the develop- ment and progress which tnis mundane existence presents to man's physical canditlon. But 1 must not fotinder adout in the myrteries of meiaphysics. 1 was thinking as I was sitting he- fore my canvas, teying to_dupiicate a torn leal from the mannscript of Nature, in 8 gorgeous gronp nf pansies, how more divinely awcet the sensation to Jean lovingly an the bosomi of Natore than to getone's carls tangled and twined aronnd the veat-buttons of & perspiring And jaded his- Lang, Deliold how Lhe shutils of the glow-worm T wea sitting [n my atedy, Writing letters, when T heard, ¢ Pleane, aear mamma, Mary told me 4 ', Mamma mostn't ba disturbed, . Hut I'se tired of the kitty, Want some ozzer thing to do. Wilung letters, Is 'on, mammat ‘Tant [ write a letter, toor" A weaves Its theead of Hght in the dark cartain of a0, % | acknawledie that your lecture was rather fierce | and tin esnn of walrr among the potaineveryavail- | avening in the week nntll the query husband #*Not now, dsrling, memma's basyt The poctey and enihatssm of ret love A R o and walss | And extravagant, Bavcin, | ahio 8por. Dnco each week § noe tabacen-teacelther | mado fy his zcalons Methodist Nifey *+ My Woar, Jene and play with kitty o Onds a'pecrect slmilitada in that tnscct’s evanescent | ;o'yur he' awveetness on the desert alrof a farm! e with “an atomizer or by sprinkling with A | when sball we expect you to spend an evening at . %*No, mo, mamme, e write letter— Taii; If 'ou will show me how," . 1 would paint my darling’s porteait * _As hls swect oyes searched my feco— WAKT HER TO SURSIDE, whisk broom, Whenever convenient I place 8 pan KL Pano, 1L, Nor. 18 —1 agree with the clog. | OF Xettle of’ boiling whier henath ihe windaw, ] the vapor 4 e BpIer’ Ing sentence of the letterslgned Oppaponnz, **To | snoarof \Prerenting all danger, of red splders e keep young s to be joyous forever." appears to have a wonderfully beneficial effect ne ’:ofl"" can be relteratod in & thousand house- okin. No doubt 1 am guilty of rank heresy, but churches seom to have become lecture-roains, rermona cater 1o tha intellectual paiate, and formalated prayors No_fancy aketch that, but onae palnfuity true 1o real life. There {4 not ane of ua hut that knows of & dozen cases in which girle of the perind have steoped down and out from thelr positions as neiles of the ball-room to become the drudeesof & » bplendor. Firat love goes up ilke Arocket, climb- the ahitoles of space, 1t ihen' bursia 1o 8 brief but gorgeous pyrotechnle dis. and comes down Ilike a° charred stiek, ‘bese caarred sticka csn be picked about the hearth-stones of myriads of houschulds ail over —, et Rut di v Id 1mag ent | revards lnxuriant growth, Fach time that | water | are the order of the day, While Ilta people are wan- Tialr of pold nd eyes of arare, adeThe. Wriiigncy o thers haa departed | 2901ty kitchen an—sliades of Malchuet-uinathers | e foss the deat Hobl R O o Satag 1o | 105 Hquid manute, auficiont to harely calor the | dering farther from the orizinal. fcacaingy to Al Form of cbildish, witching grace. 7, ‘11 you would bave your hioarts free and | Ch (R BN BEChy MRS SR e kept (rom water, whicl Is much better than atrong dosos occa- | with cheering worde, to ntrive to 1L (he burden 4 untrammeled s the faughing winds of summer, do | FREERRY hete Rendlof feemers mov be ept fTom | accomplish that object? I cannat quite see Bow, | yionaily, as [his canscs tho feaves todron. 1 ncvor | somewhat from the shouidern of thons more weary Bnt the eager face was clovded, noty without {he exercise of the most carefulrearon | nichl o gyt & tari pliced wpon farmers' sans for 1 bellove that every year will het 80 | water unless the esrth looks ary onthe anrface | than ourselves, and to ramember that ** It {s better much older, be she married or single., 1 sgrea | for aboui one tuch; then I give suliicientto motsten with her in dome of her laeas. For instance, the | the entirs ball thorougnly, pouring all from the tomperaments to two persons who tska npon them. | sancers in one hunr after. aclves the marrioze Yows should ba compatible, A The ts thna cared for in my sitiing-room boy-and.girl marriago 19 much to be deplored; | windawas era quite na healthy as those in my little and that & woman. on entering upon the cnninrvnlur{ or bsy-windowa, lesides ~ these duties of a wily, shonld be transformed be- fllfimll. the Lulbs give great saliefaction as winte times fnto 8 houschold drudge,—8 mers | bioomers, bt I do not recommend them to tho: automaton, soto apeak, not to be thought of | Who are obliged (o sclect with an economical hand, with any degree of allo: to glve than to recejve.” nstead of complacently murmuring **Good Lord dellver us'' “from this and from that, while entally congratulating ourselyes that wa ther men or women, [et us Ienora erceds and dogmas altogether and join In one large- hearted brotherhond, not of church-warkera, not of Habbath-workers, but of Christian workers, 1abor- Ing for emancination from the fotters of caats and ympathies, and As L'slowly rhook my head, THI Lieald, **T')) make & letter Of yon, darling boy, instead.” So Iparted back the tresses From hia forehead, high and white, And a stamp {n sport 1 pasted "M1d §ta waves of golden Jight. and Judgment, aaller youraclves to be bunnd in the cave of q’hflu which symbolizes the stern and Im- peeative obligations of ‘wedlock. The unforseen experienceaof married lite which, a Of time, bring down to the ragted edge of disappointment and failars myriad tarted forth on their piigelmage with high hopes sud lofty expectations are |lka the craters of ex- tinet or slumbering volcances in the pathway of dy Just by onc nnguarded siev the black- lmfm?ltd into the city as toz*practicslly protect the guileless girla from their devilish arts. \What woman can read that seantence about the “'milllons of weakly, depraved offapring in our Isnd "—plcture i1, think of it, diesolute man—and not immediately take Jamler'sa advice, snd get her tos nunnery?” Why did Oppoponnx thna apring the whole dreadfol trnth on na at once? Why dla she not let 1t gradually dawn, beginning with thousands, and working ip In numbers? To come 3o daTkntrs eashionds yon ‘Torever: I m th B O e A | e oe oy o it DIAom oIl i the maes | Tor The e R e siay , ness ol g er. g e “ 0 young Iady, after casting aside hicr superfivons | ingsmu 8 broadening of our charities, thef Toen Laad, Now, lttle letter, imimediate vicinity are lone widows, with gmarming forngn e atone follawoan vty ninione (0f | it dnd weclees simatlens © fof successive seanons, not only mspire 10. but reach, that purer, higher o away, bound in chains of poverty, and they are Hier lieas on the discipline of chiidren are good, | 17 thess brief hinta afford any assistance, I shalt | life which It 1a not uniy ont privilege, bat otir diity, roml young one c¢an mske things uncumfortably Ively fof one, and, if this conntry has **miliions 1 1t of viclous offspring, [ am going o 1o look for some morae relice of Mirdohn Franklin, 1domnot clearly underatand the *'rooster and pullet™ simife, but 1 suppose that aleo hides somu awinl fact In regard 10 mien's treatment of women with pootic tendencies, which Oppoponux thinl 88 yoi wo are unable {0 bea L after tho horrore Ana I arllcd ae down Lhe staircass Clattered loud the little shoes, Leaving me, the darling hareied . Down to Msty In his glee, . *iamma’s witing lota of lctiers, 1'se a letter, Mary~sea!” wearing out thelr lives by atitching them inla gaz. Matvation prices, These toattain, AusT JISLENS ARSENIC. 174 USK A8 A DRAUTIZIER, Cnicaco, Kov. 12,~—1 fear the ladics who are anxfons to try * nic as a beantifior " know very But let my say 8 word of advice o the young Jady | beglad, and with this hopa I have written, for even direet. b Ramie that yon_are amy A0r® You | & Fbit o' green ™ in the window givea J cheery glve promise of bocoming gulto n aprrkiing writer u{mnmntu to & room, and 1 have been thinking at soma future time: Lutvon't rush Into print now, | that the mothers who require to panish thelr young- for your ldeas are scarcely hall-fedged, nor your | lady davghicrs with ¢ cat-o'-nin G sentences full, 1beg ynu to recelve this advice | surely nol have brought them up amid thoss aweot kindiy, for it is kindly given, and from ono who is | messengers of peace and purity—the beautiful old in experlence, ipDY MclRUIsR. flowers, Auxt Canmz, to be eniancipsted from their strugele for existe ence except by death, Thelr hageard coun- tenances, their bent forms, their wnbieless faces geveal tho bitternces of thelr adversity, 1 4 A s Iittla of tho chisracter af arsenical proparations, or . 1on the basement of that iast | 7€ IAY6 supped on, we can'stand suything, An i ’ of theffieflecta upon tho snimal body. Or perhaps F::Z;:: :nr:r.a" ;:‘:;:;:m?: G iy, z‘“‘““"‘“"'"““”‘: i e foual4gee- 106 Sonuien ot Telt o troty, ¥ 1o ‘.3’,', ainnal-a TLOMIOU LT UL, TAxRRTON, D :" “%ln';b:":?l‘::‘monln snd Anafy | 4007 arfkwse of tho effects of ordintey peepiras Reanched his 11tile cap and tippet, 3 Juquisition—-the most ipgenivus insiruinents of i ot ‘*RENNIE'S "' LETTER. STt tlons, and yet Imagine that s combination might toriuze which the humsnmind could concelve, ‘Thete were thumb.acrews, breaking-wheels, pin- cera to pult oot nally from tho bande mnd fect, ripning water that fell on the nead drop by drap, producing the mast _exceuciating soguish, and o wirgln with outstretched srins 50 constructed that when the vietim, as he wascompelled, stepped on the semicircle o chress her, her arms wprung to. gether, tnlald with 8 thourand glitiering knives, and chopped 1he unforiunats futo pleces. ilere wera physical tortures, Uncongenial wedlock fs an inquisition of the heart more formiasble and more Lerridble than all the dovices for pain ever in. vented, Manya wn!lh’ young man has with & naptisl kiss eaiuted the {alr one who, full of hyp. o selfahiness, snd decell, ahipwrecked his lire and crusned his smbitlon forever. 1 am ot opposed 10 marrisge; where there cxtela 8 com- vauibility of charscter I wonid encourage it. But poverty does not bring contentuient, sod coarse. ness aud zefinenient have no afinity, Many s wan loven his doy better than Li6 does tha mother of his children, 1'kunow & young man who has been mar- ried but one yeur, who keeps a fiddle and 8 fost hurse, and compels his young bride to saw snd split sll t0e wood, and even to bring it from the woous upon her shoulders, IHe reclines on his couchi and tortures melody while bis wife laa slave to malutaimiog him, Within toe circumferente of haif a mile around my home | can count thirty widows, dragging out pitlful existences in strug- gles to fecd, warmn, and clothe numer. ous offvpring, Where fs the romance, the poetry, the cuchantment, the beatitudes of wuch” an experience In trylng to sover the iron fetters of want and wretchedness? Ohl the walls that ascend In silonce from thelr souls, thie unspoken gricfs and laments: **Would that k wetg _vlu.nnu again and bad the knowledge of expe- rencel” 1 bave & young lady friend who will fake her brash and colors Into the woods, pull up a bunch of blue violets, wash the roots i the waters of & cleur brook, and paint the cluater, with every leaf, blossom, sud routlet true to neture. The tuspiras tion, satisfaction, and delight she expericnces tn the practice of herart has no paraliel in unconges ninl” wedluck, whero. taunts, 1nsingatio: plcions, tnaults, provocalions, and sulks the distempers that alloy the happiness of life. Uirle ehould learn trades, study nookuoglmz. becoime teachers, learn the telegraphic art, By all means adopt somq avocation remunerative and pluasant, Laarm to be sell-reliant, independent, and distrustful $hat 1arve incowes and fortancs sl ways eventuato from eoiall beginpings, or that puverty swings wide open the doors to terreatrial pa . Congenial marriages are the divine of- der of socisty. They are the culminations of ro- cial happinows and persopal development, as well as nattvoal cuvilization. The innumersole divorce sults which confront the counrts all over our country demo: three out of five of all marriages were tined, —~were Irreparable follies and misiake OrropoNUX, MATRTMONIAL DUTIRS. . Cricaco, Nov, 18.—All hall to thee, Oppopoun: though, by the way, 1 scarcely belleve thatthoa art o mald of sweet ninetesn, llving on & goodly tuterest, but perhape 8 hen who has learned by ex- perlenco, or maybe the veritable Chanticleer him- self, It matters lttle, for thou bas set & breeze 1n motlon tostir up ths sometime monotony of The Home, and, though L take plesaure In wifchood and motherhood, I cannot agres with thee in sl things; stifl, teanamile ‘at 8 somewhat original style of ventilating ‘some wholesome truths. It 1a good for soul ‘and body to take s good langh; but, ridiculo aside, we honestly adswer, Yes, we seo before ua a cross, yet our souls sre not connd In eonclualon, atiow me to lfl{ that I for one will Join in any movenient which wifl secure the classof women eo Rnfihltlll{ described by Ovpopopux from all danger of having thelr soaring souls crushed under the brutal hoel of tna Tyeaut Man. Jaxzs C. McLaix. Sikepae. ., Nov, 18.~A very prabty plant— | M: B. ank how to start alips from rex begonin, one to by met with inalmost every collection, how. | Fut soms pare, cloan sand in o shallow box, overamall—ls tho begunis, There arg three dis- | MIxed with amall pubblea; on this place & leal of Uinct specien of this plant, the flowering, tuo orna- | {he hegania, with a liitle sand, on the muddle of mental-leaf, ad the bulbous or tuborons-rooted, | malst, aad let it stand whore it will ket tlio sun and In each clasa soveral varlotles, Of late & | partof the asy. Do notloss patience aven if scv- number of requests hava been recoived for apecific | eral mnn’lg:fih;hlld%u;‘"’mfl% r{‘n"; ::'?d-;fll:‘ ;:'f names of begonia, by leaves sent to mo by my cor- " L roepondenta for that purpose. Sometimes I can do Aaf somaljene KhirwionTone "5’;’;,;’"" g, this simply by the leaf; but, whenever possible, Kangaxer, Iil., Nov.0, —=W1ill Tell please sel ploase send hoth leaf and flower, and aiways a de- | me some of those ferns, and tell me how many scription, I prize a plant myaelf mora highly "‘L"‘“;.",’,::"‘fl'”wl when X can give the true botanical appoiiation. that cornee bracket Begoniag reqnire & warmer temporature than | sumac leaves. Will » geraninmefor roses, and our 1ving-rooms, which | howmany? If you will send the pattorn and leaves n wintor aro 00 warm for many plants, aro nono | And trustto my noneaty X will wead stamps sud too warm for begonlas. An average of 70 deg, o . Rbont Fights They thrivo best yn sul) corapused of | o 1T Yankee, Vandalin, will send hte or hor sd. twa parts good garden soll. ono part well-deckyed | feicetuty ey WU ASEU 8, €OPY 0T, G100 FULAES mandre, one part sand. In potting them, put in | {hogh shagaw n!emn?flwomd MWke ono {n return, Rbout tw Inchen of eharcoal for dralnage, and 1t | 30700 '] wil) send the poem anyliow, 4 {ip the pot o wilhin halt an inch of the top to al- | “I'igva hulbs gladlolus, madeira, and dshiin; If low wateeing, U sure the plant gtande in tha | 4pyone wania thom they can dropmea hino say- ceatre of the pot. Thore I8 no yreater eyenors 10 | \ng what they will give in exchange. me than to seu & onc-sided plant. e Canany one fl“ag wne with the I.JOIII the Of the Nowaring varietics, the boat with which | oci's paintar,—T have. fotgatten hie na Tam acquatnted aror 43, IVeltontensls, an excels | | ! Yo 1 will exiat which would be perfcctly harmless under all circumatances, yet retalning specific heneficlal propertics. Lt me eay, then, that this, bowever desirable, ts utterly imposmble; and here s the explanation of the matler: Metalllc arsenic Is In- solnble withont chemical change, and, so long as it remains in thls form, is nocessarily Inert, —has abeolutely no effect npon the amma! body, elthor guod or il). The chango essentinl hefarc arzento can become an 8ctive agent 1s fis chemlcal unlon with oxygen. This takes placa In two proportions, forminz arsentous snd arecnic acids, these ackde farming, with the alknlls and other metals, arsen- ical salis, called respectively arsenites and arsen- ates, The sulphides of arsenfc, of which there are sevoral, are simply metallio arsenic in combis natloa with allforent proportions of aulphar, This suustance, then, when taken into ine stumach ean have no oifoct whatayer, cxcept 80 far as ozidiza- tion takes place within the body, forming llrenhllll acld, which, as every une knows, n active poi- oA, {n very small quantity. Again, arsenious acid, or tommon commerclal “nrecnic, 1s but sparingly inble withont further chemical change. 1t free rofutlon in effected by 1ta union with the nlkalls, thua producing fros solutlons of the arsenitcs, as in Fowler's solution of the arsenite of potash. Morcover, some of the alkalis have tho power, when brought in _contact with metallic arsenic, of frst vxidizing 1t Into aracnlous ncid, aud then dis- solving It freely, thus almost instantancously producing a donble change in theatsenic: from 1ts wholly finert atate, to thal of i1a nighest intensity of octlon. 'The combined snlphur must alse undergo oxtdization within the budy before it can affect tha same in nn{ way, and thls change, we know from Lhe sulphurous ador which its use occanions, I8 uno that Is very roadily accomphahed. For myself, I do not think that sulphur Is capablo of rmducunz any 1l elfccte, as there ta raa bolleving that it was the formerly imperfect uriication of the sulphur from ite natural ateen~ [cal comuination which should have been ficld res sponsidble for it traditlonal 11l effocta, - But, to retarn to the arvenic side of the aubject, the practical quastlon iy, whathcr it 18 more wise, whor contemplating tho use of arsenic ar otber metal ‘whose oxies and snlte sre potaanous, to decide upon using the substance in its insojudle metallie form, depending for jlsaction upon the unceriain extent 1o which oxidization within the body may tako placo, or, on the other hand, 1o unc the substance, if at aif, 1n the moat potant form which it Ia capabla of zming ander the actlon of Imporative chemical Jorces in constant operaiion wilhin ihe animal body, 1ashoula say, emphatically, that the Intter tvas the proper plan, —ihat to use Fowler's sula- tion, for example, with the carc that would bo natursl, knowiug thatone was using an active pole sun, would e renlly mozasafa than to be wwallow- Ing large snd carclean dosce of motailic arsenic un+ aer the improssion that it could by no combination of circumstances produce 411 effects, True, the chemical changea noceasary to its activity may ordinarily be slow, but they are ceaseless, and the safoty-valve of ellmination sometimes falie} tho Increase In the blood. or be atored up or other viscus, to act, in time, a8 & cumulative polson, or more ropidly upou the ace cession of an exalted degree of oxygenalion or ale kalinity of the circulatory fluld. . The elow alteratlons In the finlds of the lwdf. offected by the contlnued use of arsenle, oven In amall d perhaps generally understood, "'f' are, of canrse, the same in kind, ‘whatevér the dif- ference in degrea; and thie Jattee ' diference bears na relstion to tho form in which tho srsenic s Standing on \be eniry stair. ‘No one heard the front door open, No ane saw the golden bair, As It floated o'er his shouldera Inthe crlsp October air. Dawn the etreet the baby hastened, TI he reacbed the ofice door; $1's¢ 4 letter, Mr. Postman: 1# there room for any more? .'Cauge dis lotter's doin® (o papa: Papa lives with God, 'on kaow, Mamma sent me for & letter; Does an fink 'at I tan got™* +Bul the clerk in wonder answered, ++Not fo-dayy my Hitie man,” *'Den 1'l1 ind snozzer office, "Canse I must do If 1ian." Faln the clerk would have detained him, Bat the pleading face was gune, And the little feet were hastening— By the busy crowd awept on. Suddenly the crowd was parted, Peoplo fled from left to right, As 8 pair of maddeoed horses " At the moment dashed |n aight, * No ¢ne maw the baby figare— No one saw the golden balr, Till & voice of frightoned sweatness Raog ovt on the autumn air, APPECTIONATE WIVES. RicuxornvisLe, N, Y., Nov. 10.—I have long tead Tho Home with Interest, and wonld like, for the first time, to say my little plece, 1f worthy of toom, > Oppoponux seems to ehan the marriage ties. T always thought of marriage aa the proper stato} that God intended every one fo marry. e gave Adam a mate in the Garden of Eden, and asld, ‘*1t 1s mot good that man should Lo slone,” We cannot always be the *‘sleek pullet," for time I8 no respecter of persons, and leaves his mark on all, and tho chanticleer will choose another, snd then the foreaken one will feel theso words: For her no warm heart s bestlag, Unloved and alone, she must wauder uncomplainings Her hopea fiava long since down, It 18 not when we are yonng snd fresh or gny that we need 8 strong arm to Jean on, but when old age comes for ** Old age is st} old age. It {snot sirength, bat weakness; not desiro, but ita sare cease, " Our compantand drop off, and wo sroalone. How much the word means! It {s plensint to fec) that soma one cares for you. A great many women are responslble for thelr hosbande® lack of attention. They are so indif- forent (of all dampers indifference weara tho cruwn), and do not show tbe liitlo attentlous which were 90 plenty before marelage. Ask him how ha fecls, what he hawseen; got hls slippers. When he is nred ki him, Wo are 100 pranc to expect all from them. This Iathe advico s fathor euvo his dsughter about to bo married bove all, be an aect.onate wife.” Ah, there is whero the mistake ls made. A wile holda her huaband's heart in her hand to keep or throw away, and too often ~doen the Jatter. Vo those about {0 marey I wonld ay , Go to housekeeplug, especially If you h any ides of tha culinary art; if not, an earne effort will bring forth frait. Noone who marrios (If uhe be & true woman) wishes to apend hor yaurs Ina boarding-house, w0 there is no vetter time to begin than when first married. If you ace pat quite ready, board witha friend. Above all avold a boarding-hou thosg hot-bads of Vicious, ma- acandal, 1fear 1 have occupled more than my ahiare of #pace, 80 8imply add, this is the experlenco and Judgmont of only one. VERDANT GREER, d the burning out of the eyes ol lent sammer and winter bloonier of dwarl, donss | (i ae po Bablt it crlianon ‘stoms and leat-atelks, Urght Pt sie ook of Agong . 1Esa, green loaves, and pretty, wax nk flowers, i1 Kake Shauld bo pinhted | 11_-"&-;:,’ pu'nllorm';nllm:lmr.;’réd Dox2a; Kaakskes; Sandersonl ) s & One vano! or, 8. . ding during sammer; flowers acarlet, 'fl. G- 6 ZAIRE » AND ¢ AMBER.” z"lap :gz‘ ; dr;mpéngknflacm, with orange-colored A, 18" REPLY TO THEM. owers: fine for baskel The ornamental-laaved class 16 cultivated for the | Zaire, whatevor feellng I had for tne hoar over beauty of tha follage, aud ars usad auly 4 pot- | Your expose of meit is past long ago, snd no trace plants or in Wardlan cases, belng too tender to | of it remains. I never doubted the kindness of :‘f;“flg“‘; .:r;“dm;:n::lnr;z d“m‘“:fl:‘.'fll' are :l:‘lfl- t':{ your motive, but it seems ta me, on ganeral peinets i, 'or! nd wetal- 11 gloas, 'Cara should bo taken o ke the foriags | PIh Whore & welter fa The llomo chooses to with- free trom dust, as the leaves of thoss varities | hold her name, it is not the parc of anothier to dls. will nat bear belog washed or showered, although | closeit. 1n my own cane itmay bo aifferent. At tney ke dn nbundance of wator at thelr roots, | ANY rate it matters little, as I writo nothing I sm In thfa scction ara the famous Zex Begoata, which | 10t willing to be held responsibie for, every flower-lover longs 1o posscss, and some By the way, is Zairo your real name? Therelsa othors of most beantiful markinge, lady In this “city whose Christian name s Zaire, VTt A Tawr yoars b Bew section has come fnto | BNd for a tinre she was credited with your writ- dererved favor, called bulbous beponiss, because | ngs. But, the matier caming to her knawledge, they form tubors which can bs taken tp In the | Abe disclaimed thesauthorahip, and was surprisea sutwinn apd stored ke thoda of dabllas ot Aunn;znmprl-llnn of her signature by another. uladiolus, Tho bulbe do well 1f sct in tlio open | 18m nota reguisr reader of your papor, and hava ground in May, bus it is bettor to start in pots, | ROL1ime toeven look over ail tha resding-matter inaoors of eolrse. " | that um:lef o rlny uu’xl:. but l‘ln nl-ld to learn that liegonias are propagated from seeds (of which I | yourartic wa va the true Fn, can -;l-m-le\v)‘: cun'l’nn. and Iuval.( 1 take a | Amber, Iam gl *T1vaa too Iate—a momaent only Stood the bennteous vision thers, Thea the little face lay lfeless ¥ Covered u'er with golden bair, o Reverently thoy raised my darling, Brahed away-the carls of gold, Saw the stampgpon the forekiead, Qrowlug uuw 20 ley cold. Vot & mark the Tace dlsfigured, Showiug where a hoof had trod; But « luttle lite was euded— “Papa's Letter” was with God. NOTES TO CONTRIBUTOURS. Qrandma Oldways, whoss communication was crowded oot together with maoy others, wishes 1o thank those who havo sent her various things for distribution nmung the poor. She will write to Xavler snd Oconto soon. o*s Farrn Oraveon—Aithongh your commanlcation was luteresting, Inck of space preventa its pablica- tion, as the watter was not of greal ymportance. 13 ; e Jam gl 122 eslad sl o caf uf the Kex variety amd cot it ints a8 kind b n waa wrltten, Dlecen, Iny osch placa o damp sumde ‘wanon oeh | 1t wap not tho rat Uime you had asia hard things through tha veina with a penknife, and thus they | Of woman, nor the frsttime I had written In her root. Onc ls 1ot always succossful with tias | Sefonse. 1intended notlcing some of tha pointe operation, nelther on the Amt nor aubsequent at- | iB Your reply to me last weok, but my time was so lompte; don't yet diaconraged, however, but try [ takenupin gathoriag tomether and packinga box agaii, ' The leaves can be bought trom almost any | Of Feading-matter for the convicts in our Stite ora cont of twror and thero ls slways great | BEet ok a0 § shoula nos wiler gresds vould ?:sxarfiix;.gomxlbhnunl. Iralscd that plant ""m“‘h and -‘;"‘ “""F A ‘-‘ml ' souid From o prominent secd firm I hay o really bave’ ‘ hope of converting you tery chalce seeds, such o g,:{.:“',,';f,"'g:‘:,',';',';f e docitin attogether, 1 surec caléeolarls, primrose, carnation, and others, more | YOU that thera “are women wha than I can make use n’. To any readar who will | Narrow-minded, ilitberal, and censorlous (and make me somothing suliable for my desk, capocially [ $hero are many men of the same kind), and lt Is « contrivance to fio ‘fotters 8o (hat they can be | exceedingly dificult and unplosssnt fof progressive roadily found, 1 ye s faw of each kind, and | 384 liberal ininds to work fn convention, or sl {0l who duslre naeds and. have noting slse i | Wiicre, with this class, Diferencos and’ contens wend In exchange, will mive six of easlly-grown | HUne Wil sumetiines occur fn wpite of the best kinds for one dime, to cover office oxpenses, pnagement ‘and guod fevling, Mra, Mott and L‘,mu Lanblik, the siips wete recolved, bus | Mi2. Livermore, Whom you soem to sdmire, have verfshed during the very warm weather in July. Liad tholr share of these, and have botn recelved C. W., the troablo Wwih your ivy scems iobe | and giten ofle ‘And it 18 not In conventions tbai of Wmany othor plants, —suffering from excess | Hlo0e that differances and of water at the roots, Bee'my roply to Crayon last | ®Xitnd toa ieater ur Joss degreo to private life A DONRIDLE YUTURE, Davzaront, Ja,, Nov, 11,—Has the charmed ¢elrcle of Tho ilome room for ono mora ? 1t has for many monthe afforded me pleasaro snd informa- tion, When Miss Alice Cary dled I folt as though & dear and well-known friend had dropped her fet- ters, and bad gona to warble her sweet, heartfelt songe in & purer atmoaphera, 86 have I jearned to love Fern Leaf, Aunt Lucy, and far-secing and sumetinies causlic Amber, Bho finds anccho jnmy heart when sho says, **Iaesert withsorrow, but in truth, that my experjence with womsn. ontaido of liome, hawe Leen largely unhappy.*! ButIam lothto believa a0 nobia a charactor aa 1 believe her to bo says opa word ogainst her own sex, aavo In the same spirit tho surgoon uees the knife: for the pa- tlent's good. So let us all recelve her fenrless sen~ fiments with the guod naturs she so highly recom- monas, This week I enjoyed the spicy firobrand of Op- popounx. Mark my words, aho will nover dle an old maid. Most likely she will marry nowse poor widower with aix or elzht motherlces chicks, -and . v g%y Lxir—Send the ferns and thoy will be delivered 8 the proper person, 3 A THE LETTER-BOX. There nre letters, postal-cards, or papers atthls oflice for tho following persuns. Those Ilviug out of tne city will'pleaso send their address, sna the wptter will be forwarded, Resldents of Chicago can obtain their mall by calling at Room 38 Thin- 1aken, except so far as It may tuflucnce tha elze or dowo {n activo operation, The dazzling and crys- talline whiteness of the okin, aa well “as tho softened and roundea ontlioea which it en- velopes, wro brought abont at tho cxpenso of the red corpuscles of the bloed, producing a'watery candition of this fluld, Thase eifacts, though not ussles oceur, 'Thoy 0 (s well, though 1t [s the ono who s herself up be- | generally termed polaonous, ara certainly pernls uxe Buildiug: 10 1t by Iron bands, but often tho llken fattera of | _ bCTEtCh and die’ from motnine Uil wianty fore | Y0Ke, ¢ it yend you double porsalsces, alio | 1970 the DuoHoaa & writor, of ieacnor, ot preach. | Elous, and are wuch ay practitionors tey ‘to'svard Watcher. Chicago. Alorda, Chicago. Tove, Therofare, sometimes, when almost pros- | Hiren with that ** royal cuanticleer, ® never fntonds | dooble hotlyhock, ana I believe I have sume pay- | ©F Who espacially bocomes an objact of envy of ;l:::‘l"lm’“m :r;;l:j‘lge'::o Its known spocific effocts in 4 Friend, Chicago. May Weea. trated with care, growing to expect oar life-paths | Ing to singe hei g plumage. ‘011 have heard | 310n-fower sceds'alvo, T am glad to knuw thera fa | Jealousy for smill miuds to shoot rtaln formiof dlimel o S o e e TR s Shicago. 10 bo filled with thorns and brambles, we ars sus- | EItls undor 20 talk before, Ten yeora from now | 9nt nihier man who' dellehts to ' bother® with | | 1wt it does not toltow that theaoars ot att good | T AKEE B el Xo0 Jrueh ek {Fom (old. oxe Sls daple Lawn.. * ghclatials Cowlng,, Prised 03 faokink GowArd Lo ses Toieh biooming | ¥l will wrilo dissortations on e chgems of wifo: | fowers. " Wonder I the’ 180y over beard of James e e Boh amenee they should ba | (o vely an n beautificr) 1e freo from the injnFone Chwap Living, Culcugo, 8.1, I7., b, Bimon's 3ule | Mereon, or periape, hung up 'a hudle highor, ® | 808 e s B e T A ttniasiy 1t | For fowers for & arave to bloom in , plant | ciuroh thore are eravu diiforances amonk the | ofiocta St ol Aoctedl Br O e rne WO Yo Caleago. randma Dldays. Partion-flowers, afinlsy. unwelfuhners, nd pure, | LBelr father s progont, and hio wears o vory deep | 1O OF bafore hurd front whito crocusos and anow- | Sleriy; and {ho aposiles wera ot all of ous mind. | (L io'al oaate of Ton it fu worthiass ag & Deatts ok oy Chleam. e, Chicago. Sadnierated Toves we. must. expeet wurkeay band. -Sho' will In her heart of hearta | 4rops. Koraummer, pansics, while candytutt, or ' # 2ers | tlar, aud if not thue combined, which ts mot Each one has s THE MOME CLUB. How, any low-growing plant. feet? Al cannolses as we sse, Rox week I atiahl 2ive Inatructions reqar right to har own ovin t 1rom fmpalee ealtivaion of wuborotes und Iy of TactardisR the | ryther shan reason, whil motivos of alla ved} clrv-hlml many 100, If the mother rear chiluren ha 2180 one from | ¥eod, and all desire the success of the right, the snq the father work for thelr maintenance, Dut ciucking old hoos with faded plum-". n when the litle bands aud feet grow strong, and goout with thele braods to let them rol ties a8 chickens aro wont to do on aunny probable, then it 1s aqually obuoxious with any otuer arsenlcal combination, GuNaKA, 178 PLANS FOR 3 he exuberant spirits, which sometimes jur our es, indeed, fancy-free malden of 10, I Yiddie, your lotter was rece Cuicigo, Nov, m‘_“:'n;u:::;;u:l Nov. 20 o b e B R el gt L ’mu b | would like o peew Into your heart and yonr home | 8 lady st "‘"'“'“'"!’\ 1think; both bave been “";"‘J'.v'."fl..'r'i‘é,',:‘x"fima. who do not seo aw 1 & BOW 1O LIVE; bl b Nov. 20 | Uor tam fo loan upon ibem. A dear woman | V€N yusrs hence, TuaLIA, nilaluld or lost. WIitl each of thess Jadies write i th and Tonld diff e PON'T DOAKD, Y vhused off, ax I expeciad, with alarge smount of | gaid ' to me mot long ago, with & swoet mo what they dealre? on all guestions, ‘we sliou er sometimes Exarewoon, 1L, Nov. b,~The flat of the Cre- Lusiness plauned for the future, and a good share 1leath, many thauka for the blooming heather, | ¢ 19 W of enthinstasm over tho anticipation of favorabls smile that rested me ever so inuch: **When I Treeh Toomm ot aative by o Bospmin heather, | Satrabie 1o BEWARE Of ONLY SONS. wras like you, I guve myself to 1oy chil Dow Once upon a time thero was a girl, snd she st means of accomplishl $lall I then call g .n:l! l.n'\li a.x:d I may thinl ator made s maleand female, The faw of pers lant from the feaf, but it is certalnly | LA7d things of them? By uu mean, petnlty belog co-ordlnate, the machlnery once in sewilts, Dot befors § give tbe outline of the pro- | they.are Ro tiouble, but take card of me.” Noe, | yonded the Chicago igh-Schioor, After studying | Bot 8 producer af wimerrie s 7 | them narrow in their viows, thaid in_their action, ; : poted winter's campalyn I will brioty refer to the | LrS/LBOLLers, dachabenot Mnk & wreath of t0868 | four'y oars aho graduated, and with honore. That | J0uF address, &al wikn 10 write you & persoual lote | B0k lind n what [ consider the warld's, best In' | motion, thet Infiulle wprck of los colsus Into trouble, It becomes atance & quastion of comtlart and economy, Pardon the expresslon if you wlil, but it 1s nevortheless s wholesomo truth, that the situation of love fs one of those things yon have to" donation the oficers 80 conNdently expected to for- ward to the yellow-fever aufferers, but which, from s ecries of unfavorable clrcumetances, has never reeched its destinstlon. In the first vlace, we ter, \trlulllhs' b:i ‘-'f;wri:l ?:-dl lovlo' \h:m atill, "rhny May 8. H.. may think me too , may not spprove of m; ’:.,um.,, and that 1 have & 1 quantify of acud | 1088 and give mo the right hand of friendehip, Gietrlbate, . Yaur Inquiries fegarding tubstonss. | Nelther feels inclined to talk or writo down the honsework, sawing, snd the care of them keeps my body and braln busy. Ah! what failores we make, and often &fter dolug my beet, after the givenand the last prayer sald, les are ** cuddied down, ' § pavss for Is, aho read au casay of hor own compaoaition en the atage ol Farwell Iall, recelved no end of flowers and compliments, and thought the world o Faradise. Ouo year from that timo she atvod ay It -to tully reallze the force and fonnd, after 5 unaniuious vote In favof of 1 sac- | self-cxamination on my own piliow, ‘or tho. tears | o marriage altar, and the world scewed doutly a | as well ns thoso of ssvetl othor curzespundents, | Siief #nd [ slwaya uve hope tiat in good time | fod) for yoarsaclt to, tlice Top the warking metibers, thab by far tne | fall on wy patching abd darning, 'for I feel that | ¥4Tadise. will ba auswarcd next wesk {o an artlcle on tug | imill come toon oy platiorm. I Write by poriaiaon of tha Canduetor, who b : years she had four children, and, un. | culture of tuburos Wheo [ meet with ‘8. narcow, feslons spirlt fo [ 1 Write by poriission of the Conductor, = largest number of pou-wurkers wero opposed to w\:\y“m‘;- te'mvxanrvy!l:g‘e‘h '-‘u:a." T?fiffi,‘:&‘.‘f& fortunate) ey wera &Il *'screamers.” They PR Sl geutly leBdown the bars for the blushiug munjbere of The Jlome who are sbout to **aceop in * the Pucnul part of life, alter the droamy indulgences n the ctliereal atmusubere of love. Besides saylng to them, *‘God bless you," I have a fellow-feeling in tho common tuterests of homa, 1t ls prudent to remark that happluess is the avowed futent, whether it be realizoa or not. Connequuntly that course of living which contrib. utos niost to tho hsppiest resulle 13 demonstrably oper, pr'l'h!u re & variety of phasos of life that depend on clrcumatunces which inakes It Bocesoury 10 see Juct particulss conditivns and apply a relutiva con. cordance. The announcemeut couiea to us that Ann Eliza Suitties and BlIl Jones ara to be married, The litile amenitive are ende lie spasmodic blubbering ts over, and the question now 1 the practical convenieucs af ""'"f’ with &l }te hoee mouy, Bhall we tell them to look fur a boapding- house whila the lLins¢l drapery of Jove's past dry 1a hanglag over thom, and their seusos ujpset h{ an sccomplislinent thiat, if in no other time of thetr lves, now maked thew act tha silly part, sud take the coujukal aweetuess'on the balf-shelit Hhall we rather not cuansel thom to got rght down to cominon-senso bousekeeplng, and eme brace the divinity of lifo In the full mvasuro of manhood and womanhioodte k Duarding is ouly stricily legitimate when it 1o a necoseity, There ara s thoussnd pains to one \casure, The foelings, priviloges, the moral tne opeaduncles, died by s rescrvaiion that modesly, with au avorage seave of diguity, caanot 2 were restloas during the daytime, and crled untl mmnuim. d the mothor had long since forgolten ‘what i{ was (a have u good night’s rest, Ler health has falled, and you would never recognize in the Careworn, mervons festurcs of the womau, the once animated face of tha girl. Her hushand was the only son of his mother, and sho & doting, foolish woman, who conaldered bor darling as Grat, herself s néxt, and overy one elseas last. Whon his wifu's health was poorost, he thoughit & trip o the seasldo would be beaeficial tohimself, and nccorningty took it. He went to the opera, and when she longiugly sald, ** llow [ do wish T could go too," he Anawered: **Tha fact thal you are *deprived fu no resson why I should be, 18 181" "And, gayiy lightiog bls cigar, dooarted for an avening of pleasuro. Ghe has her ceylngchild. That {s enough for ner, Yea, Uppoponus, you sre right in & great many things you say, no matter now you discovered the truth. You tell the girls whom thoy srouid :l::'r, 1 will tell thea whom they ahould not Never marrr sa onty son, eapecially It he ba haudsome, or cousider bimsslf 88, Which Is worso. 0 chauces to oue ha will be egotiatical, vain, and selfish. Aud the wifuof & seifivh manis, of all Sreatures i this world, the most (0 ba pitied, CaTuEmsa GLoven, bresking lnto the fund. Thelr excuse was: ‘‘1t was ralsed for the founding of Uenevolent {nstitation; thersfurs, is §t right that [t shonld be turned 1ulu & forelgn chan- uel?™ Tuls argumont was used repestedly, sud thoso in favor of its besng beld in truet for the ariginal object were fu the m-xum{. Ta the credit of the whuje world be It satd, contributions poured 1010 the infected dlstricts ¢0 bountifully that vur weager donation, though the afefing was made 1n 1ue wpirit of generous vympathy, was nut argeatly necewsary o the saving of life. Wu owe this apology o e readers of Tha Home who are acquainted with the laudable design we bad iy view wlien wo oilered (0 part with our bard-earuod u¢cumalations fur the assistance of our sufgring Boutuern friouds, from whoss lips had sscehded Auch su agonized apposl for aid. The same gen- efous apini that anwwered our wailing appesl when our besitiful city 1ay in ashed and our prairies were dark witlh -ummu; fugitves promptly came to the rulief of the suferers from the baleful Eouth- «€rn scourge, and eased the pangs of the paor uu- fortunate victime, Sucl generous lmpulsea sure- )y €uu00t gu unrewarded. “The Grst entertatnment of the sexson was appointed for the evenlng of Dec, 17, hia dret Tuesday alter the rexular monthly eetiug of the Club, which will occur Wednaaday, Lec. 11, Of this eutertsinment wmore anon. I4 Wwill suttice for the uresent Lo say that a selert pro- wIaMIGe 10 expecied, ‘Phe ladies are 210 prepaning tu hold & grand fair aud festaval i the besutiful wobth of Msy, when old winter has been laft in ¥ wotan I do uot aet it down to naiursl badnesa Sihave maw s &‘":flfi‘;‘-“}“flg:‘:‘“};‘y‘; foal compelled to hald or up o publle vcorn "fl frionds at tholt convenience. M. As e 11" plesss | 18 il owine tv tho narrow, cramping education frens Tnuie, Bos Lot | has recelved—ta bad lawa'and customa that have 4 3 SRl ;:rloundcd and :;-htnm% ber ail d.nwnulrnm the 5 rbarous ages, ~Hhe needs more enlargad views, WINTER-ULAKTS, wider unx?or thouyt, Blgher Ingentl 3 Moxnox, Mo,, Nov: 16,—I am oxceedingly glad | action, mare d""“"‘fx And lunu?hu.' dutlos to touee how stosdily and surely The liome continues | dischurge, to call out (he highor and vetter tralte to grow, snd, though like msoy otbar of the old flflfl;‘n;mf',f:; “‘f,“;fl,‘::f':};’n:’::{,‘?,‘},‘.‘J,‘,flh”":,fr friends, I have becn long silent in order to Mlow | it hio! Euttivata her bighor facaltles: 111t her from Toom fOF BEWer uames 10 ADpoar, my luterest aw | her suburdinste pusition, aud she will riso above nover diminished, and each woek T watoh the de- | the weakness aud folly that you, In common swith velopments, witl earuest prayers for the succeas | 19807 othors, Row o greatly duplore. of the groat philanthropls work which we haveun- | %, Ut .l.,p.w?rm" .?.32‘..""-:" :::n:ug:l":;. .nx«‘:“l dertakon, ‘fi -mhnu many valuable letturs lu **oue | yrove your caso. ‘e slungy exclamatiou of your department ‘Tir Tsuxs, snd bear frum | one woman shows peglect un the partof the mother Jarious editors thay the (uterpirise 18 tha Woudes | who trained her, The wse of slang pheases jare and ouvy of mauy other bapers, And‘ indved, 0 | upon my car as harsiiy 88 upon yours; but I kinow it may be Among other wr ics, 1 am | gome really nice women in otlier respecis who have glsd to sce that ioricaltars becnmlm{ a hablt of saying **flood gracious!" ** Uooa Lord 1" moze and nuu‘lnnullr, for In no ona departmun and **Mighty," These are used thoughtlossty, but of the houseuold schewo 1s thers &l wount | (hey are all the samo an evil, snd mar_the iy of I:uul(. refinement, and pleasure cured, ( of oherwise retinod and cultured ladiee. us ‘The winlor {8 upon us, and 1hat houss the Win- | point out the eyil practise, but not cundomn het dows of which are graced with verdure and blos- | wno s addicted toit, Tho Iadies Who did Dol see som is the home wherein dwells a pure and exalted | 1ho boautics of nature vou yazed upon so tovingly 1asie for Ine beautifol; snd, thoneh only oue #oul | may have been familiar with Lho acone snd pre- nul-rqol mily may ba thus inchined, that une fa- | forred Lo enjoy the conversatton on toplcs pare nn«lan will exert & vawer ot good., ticularly interesting 10 \hem: and the Jady who lore Having never been withont s collgction of plants, | her drevs would have been carvlovs Indocd bad she Tcan scatcely belleve 1t possible tust thero | not noticed or cared for i, oven Amld the besu and childre; Al, would that he had 8 broader faith and a groster hope Inimmortality. 1remem- et hearing & gentloman say o a lady; **1 think it 19 hard for a woman of your talent 10 be confined 10 voarse drudgery, Why are you not out in the world earnlop munc{. leaving sll this work tosomeo ona betier fitted far ItY" " I have heard the busband wof this womsu, sfier she had passed a day of un- ceasing toll, be held licr babsto her breast (she always had & sopictiwes twol, [ have heard bym way, ** { married you for {mn genius, and Bere you sre, uo belp to me, Why don’t you write nd stad: Studyl What chance had sbe for nudJ unless she shut hersell nway from clingin tauds and hungey hearta, delegating the rights of mutberbood Lo another! Lieeldos, afler she had PuL tier Laby oul 10 nurse, aud let her other little anea run wild, s they would with ona aervant to csre for them and do the work: afier she had kept e Cwowan w0 o plain sewlhy (snd there 12 wo end to plain sewivg among fiitle ones), hbow many tlmes o yuu muppose 1hat she would use up tbe saia 7 Bas woman you- Ily ¢arust It le bes: King Lo make s tru o) woinan, giving all her tme snd energies niet famtly, feel that she la nol earuiug her own Iiviog, i nuthing bu; 4za¥. Sno who docs her best in attanding to ths tuteresta of her howe earning woney Just as much As the husband who &oes Lo his workahoy, office, or counting-room, It all senslble women had their allowance for houss- keeplug proportionste to their husbands' inconu ho TH® JOTS OF NENHOOD, Raoxyonn, I Nov. 10.-—-Well, Oppoponur, d were 1ot forced 1o sak for every cent the. erson who does not admire, at I these | Alie dreary distance, gracetul spring Las nearly run :" o 14 yur lettacs are making quite & breoze. Your fieat | ¥ Yy - hese fov tles of Yusswita, stand, Ler blith 7 D | apead, women would recelve an education in fuan- % treasures of the woodland or parterce, But I ¢om. Freedom by ite juheritauce must dud an outlet e contve, aud buuyaul, Jovial sum- | cisi matters, and e0 any men would 0ot be bank. | 08¢ tsde me think It was & cass of ‘*wour | junced this letter with & view of telling Wose who m:L'a:“.'m.ul: '."w".?.'n’é.""w-u';m".":;;;fl".‘fiit‘.‘if 1n s exerciso of possession. . Notin & paiaco of rupt in credit and purse. It is Yery coammon among foreigners herw for tne busband and wile 1o have Ona purse, as accesstble Lo ons 89 the other, 1like he Independsnt *' our™ of a little goldeo-hatred friend of mioe; sod by the way, gisls {you wno are so afraid of forel, nfllz. she 18 marrled W an at the threshold " pazing wistfully through toe balt-opeucd dooeof the gods. ‘The Lauds und bearts of the lsdies will wedded 10 the Work of faalionlug clothiok for the little ooee and srticlea of u; Ki8pes,” or that you had got the grapes, and they had sobred you, You treat us o some unique compsrisons with birds, beasts, fabes, and creeping thinge; you have got well on fu tbe let; but [ must say you sro uot very woll sro still tyrou in the ast of floriculture of will evar be petloct, or evan the bust eive dutlrel, auts certain to give the greatest suount of above the “v.k""l; of buwan natare. Hut 1 i vl factivn duriug the winter, yei which may be ob- [ . W taincd with the lcast expense 8nd trouble, I wiil ::: :;’::n‘:hi-”::::; “::l"wu c.ll":lcuhwu ul:;;ln'lhafi suppors you bave twu windows, a sunnyand a | o g e nnes - irer, you with 10 Torm b frame ot | i fenfold confusion, ** ur that the dreadtul state of rounded clegance, but in n?ulau sensiblo homie, crowncd with tho neatness of a hlury auoclation. 1f there Uy any nobility in Ife, if there be sny sacreducsa in’ Ita exisienco, if Ihere be any o3- ¢ellencies In tho unlon of man and woman, 1t will : . ly, no miore safely, than by lisbman, Iy making If toe husband's duty and | wcqusinted with ehick - Ince arouud 1b +; now, f thiogs would bo beouzni about tuat you depict werg | develap 09, uore surely, ! time lor prepars ter Ul Eug T acqusial wi ¢hickens, or'wt least country | vincs around ibe casemont; now, foran east win- | wumen permliitod to exercise the righi . | bousekeoptng. The centralization of ail is llur searpronapatiung afier the | privilage (o ecurs 1o tns wits cqual frecdom 'with | Ciiclene, for a more’ pompous, self-lmportans {ndued, in & nuribhern exposure, | b s o Hghk of soll- | 3O vay ducldadly, Hiet Loarding ba & overament, il & glorious show of mornin, o dug- | & Soat heartily [eympathize with you 1a your sad g t\he ontre season. {1 prefor tbose lavely Ipomwas of pule-biue, Fich 1ac, a0d CIuAbr-red, | Sah ars sourad: toaie (o i wey AnkS tlay with wuite stars in the tobe, and baud around the | iguid be undes ke circumstances, . Bub Are you edgew; but | have good wattefaction from 1 quits sure tha faalt 44 ull 0n gue sidg : didTalona. vanviivi, Shich ROW pgome 4 | | Derouda, 1bad no theuzhtof ** spologlzing for T tocre s whtch "ome oein e aaga ¢ | the wanncr in which my ‘wame becars conuucted voluntsors ch como up fn the beds, are | witn tha filoomer-costume movemens years ayo, " Just lurge enough 1o oot In tha fall; but eveu'now [ Y'only wishid (0 give & statement of facts 1u taply a faw secds HMW la Boxes orpots and forced | 1o misstatement of another writer, And my with beat wil] beiin to bloom In ve waeke. articlo was timely, for noticad 1 & New Jereey Then thero is the Madirs yine, s few tubers of ) hRL koIt Way BV an s which will garland s large window, sud then con- s origluator of thy c tluge on around the celllng. Thoss tw vines any | gepliod by saylng it was futroduced ous biay secure. ‘Then I the centre of lbawin- | bl Sinith Alller, | daughier dow-frame (evenif uoreh) Lang & bavkes with | suith, the pr o & well-rguted sweet-potata vine (o w5 for, of | 1hy watter b all rarely beautiful obiects for this purposs, Jt1a | {he provent, iba woney she Lielps eara in her awn bome, do not ihink el L wm trylug (o usrrow woman's sphere, ‘Theto are noble women connected with the wom. en's-righta movement. ‘There are grand minds do- fug the work uf men oat in the world; but do nay confuond thess women with the gushiog dameols of mpecunions graa widows wbo have mors brass (han. courage, sad | Afs gene erslly found banging for proteclion o some other woman's husband, sometimes fastening like a vamplre on hiw Uy sod bis twoney, & thiol to Lls fawily, and & curse to hlimsell. As loug as loud-voiced moutbiugs and pleaty’ of brass ate takeu by so mnl ¢ talout and the pure guld of tle spirit, will thesa falee lighte allure, How (0ol~ 1sh women are to Lhrow as aven the appearsace of virtus, for, thuugh thelr qoula may de oa oleck- ac (3an thatof the wiale sluncr, tild fa their last 'l“:‘l aw ghat Justives the marriage- holler palronuvae to its Vurpo ¢, 1 trary to every seuso of harmony, uew fuces at our gatherings 'wbeo we weet to cu, Notice will be kiven of vur progres: from timie to tiwe, and we confaently hope to b able tu furnlab & bome for our working sisters at iy 0y (hat vhatl ?lu lhem hopesad toil sad discoursge- OBLEXA. dog't-louch-ma beast thau that self-seme ** uld Ly ssting hen," I nover ' sud when aurvhaling her Lrood sround her no Druwm-Aajur could exhibtt more oride, and the acratchlng you think sa wearying L am syre {e & posilive pleasure, aud | huve never seon pullet ye! L was not anxious ‘0 go and da ltkewls Wait il the ngng splder ** conies slong. a fne bluck and gold fe)- low: ab,Oppo, you will walk right into his parlor, well Snowiug there is no exlt, You say you arv 40 now, but you can only Le that just one year of your life, and every day carries you fro that 1uth birthaay, and pext yvi you will be out of your Leens forever. Your roses wust fade, your voice will lose ite musical ring, u sound some day, sud you ed; your hair 1# sure Lo tarn Ny rauu: friends, don't you do i Arrange your [ittle mstters fo live fu your own furalshied roais, where you can sinlle your 1t1e throuun, and be ovor bapuy ju your jouruey, Fo W, MATRIMONY, MOKZ WISDOM FROM OPPOFONUX. Rockyusp, I, Nov. 11.—I have just been promenadiog in » plctare-gallery of Nature. With the alvige rapture of a plous devoles I have besn **holding cowmunion with ber visible forma ' Upward from & psney-bed, measuring 200 fegh In HUOUSBKEEPING TUB OUEAPEST. Cuicags, Nov. 10.—80 mauny sre dlscusslng which {s the bost aud cheapust, housekecping or boarding, that [think perbaps I can give a fow facts which way help sume, In the Art lace, It ol depeuds on whathior you need o be saving sud i leagi by five in widih, thoussuds of msgoifcens | dass, looking out of the uaue 1 ud all the many charis most vauish, You . 8 ko & reat Jor anuthar || o Sratone of Xalarve Ialmiiate ar reveat (s | Which ey U e e Vil bariut e ol | iy, i oumlt” e 4wt Featr | Eiclie 1 osioly b 34 owtbis Srop | e’ aronh s B fepmsanicon: | TG 08 e uuequaled brilliancy and beasty, The seed which | 114 B0LL, but & woman whe way vania, sud you may 0ou i barder to [ 1110 CO8 ',‘,‘,’;',,‘;\{.’",,m;‘mf;‘u‘,}k"’w_;{*l'g;l"g": {uwe woyement ye wCand | no apoloay | wraveled for somo thres years, aud, of course, durs srabellisued av jazge an area with the Soest mosaic of foriculture, cawe by steam and rafl from the Uity of Ertust, Prossls. As 1 stand and stretch asrp a) b cowpaulol for this churming trsiler, iu ine < o] it 0 ) have vutterns or srticles of fancy work tbat you L yourselt than to help scratch for the Wa wight almost fsncy you 8 nurser, Roveruses, frow the way you Inatruct us in regur ve ale the ap; for Aunt Emina some Home she can get my 1l the lady who inqu: 11 that time bos b it o aquire ing a1l that time boarding at botels. I had slways pictared woman'e heavon to be & llttie bome with ddeeas, 11 not neguainged siresdy, will be oleased (Wandering Jew), moneywort Sk 0 sy g, T muves La- what s | ekt o et 1 ot oud sy Lol | 13 i E s L™ | i erealhy. suadrundrs ioee, ez, Gorinag | Sooye o2 doRale o §chircs fair, ad wilgand | Slovioe uastnd sviesar1bad trowm s child flt " 3 vy, 3 rinaniug 1Ty Rer i N e et A clsmentd’ praducad such || poets AX OLD MAID'S WOES. Aot whic will grow 1a s shaded windon + ihosgh | toaskfully received and Kestefully ackuowledyed. | tol cost us uaaally $100 er month, 8od I proposed Tigw 0TVGL And color. . WAL magnidceat shioe ey ong thy dutles wals th Pasuivotox, IlL, Nov. 15.—A young lsdyof | maorsndys sud swilsx will not bloow ubless ex- OLE:D0B taking a lat or hooss and golog to housekecping. Kr3pLe the processce of Natire have Loacilod o l.«“uéx{ufl" Lrength go to packt Rackford etartles the readers of The floms thig | Posed to the sun a portionof tho day, kor & sunny My busband sald [ should have to kesp bouss on 1he broad dlaca of thess priswatic Howera | Tanra thoi ret what thess was toach, woak with & ferocions view of men and Ynieh B drvsan MEOAARL Convaleving BAUBATI-WORK, what It then cost us cach month. Ihought It over, "Ibe vatire plat louxa 8 though s bandof apgels T Ewaa orocious view of men and marrisgs. | aurdanicss are sxquislioly lovely, as well as AUNT HXLEN'S VIEWS. whatli m ght 1t over, ouce LSTed 1ruante (rots Paraiine, Rad Cate sonn 1isounda s if ebe had been attenalok 3 meonagerle | lusuriant growers. Wiusaton, 1., Nov, 35, ~Tiat § may beasbe | 02F oot dage aderiake it, snd so wade mo 10 ¢arth aud dropped iheir Jewelry thare! 1t s A YROOATZR'S™ cROW, ' or county fair, for hee comparisuna rua to wild an- Now for tue wmdowdcu! brackets, sud a shelf, foctad: 1o ue nis: stlon, 1 diatlact) change. You see, then, much 8s I wished 10 keop Wiustratcd frous the olbum of mals aud Oue ponltry. 1f Mlss Ovpoponux has | Derbaps. Noiblcg heew will give grestor octe so_mlsconception, I wish to distlacty | ouge, [ folt no need of saslug, aud preesme that it is a tranafigusation ot or e dthvln ‘fm:‘" v & lhcory an . Osopliv, woich I have mever Toruatored. tath: ua argumient, bl the exteroul univetss i3 oply 3 wmaterlallzation, 8 tyue of by autotype, Lhe canse ©f an wiect, the scquence of the sclivitics put iy opvsation by the Avevluts Heason, which Mes ol scated beblad iy vall of incarcation. ‘Ine spiritual bousckeeping would bave cust me considerabiy wore than boarding, From Bt Louls wo went to Kausas City, liviaz the suwc a4 8t kt. Louls. oud atabout thowanie expunes. At last we took for & few mtouths a furnished cottage. Thers my lait Mttlo one cawe tu and was taken frovus. 1hada culored servunt sod nurse-girl for baby, besides suy uurse, aud ob huw the Lille accumulated. Et took us mouths to get strsighiened again, sieauwhile Loardios for the Szt tiwy ot a buarding-houss ot Cmitaco, Nov. 20. —Oppaponux rave: horrl- ble siste of alalre lu tbe domestic lifeof our toyutry, When one s juformed tbat, in A, D, 1878, 1t ls pusslble for & wowan ** whose whols belng is arbythm of postic tendeacies, foapired with the trensy of gealus, and Hiuminated by thu prism of the fmagiostion,* to warry, snd (tell It Bo4 I8 Guth) to tsrey & 11an, one 1 Bed with sa tion than some well-atartad petuniss, candytufi, ( vrewise that I beliave that Babbsib-schools sad swuel alyssum, aod wigoonette takea frowm the | tho efurts copnected with thom tend Christiam. rden beds; above ail, tust mopparell amon, winter-dowers, priwrose, no one varlety ol whichls notatreaaure. Eachautumnlpurcoaseiwo | Bear pak dosen youog thrifty plasis, sud they blovm con- | selves more tinuvusly uniil spring, aud wren during th mer If out keot closcly cat, 1 preferted, plauts can be easlly ralad from vue pack: seedi, suwn 1o February' or Narchi but when tesd The Homs sluce itsbeginning she cannot help but remember the multitude of wives who bave told of their happy sud coutented condition, Thl world is far from perfect, cousequntly theru a ushavpy marriages; but what d “worzld tbis would be 17 the alioal stale of adairs prevailed that tuis maldon of 19 bellevesin. Her op- portunities for obacryation mowt have beeu véry Uufayoraple, Bear ln wind, Oppopouus, tlat the cue ward, and no duabe Hesvenward; still, when I e them- 'y Babbatb evenings than anv other he sevun, that old Moalc law (ntrudca £:++ But the seventh day Ls thy Babbath of tuo Lord thy God; in It thou sbalt do Bo worl.™ Tue quoslion, 1 wish to agitats ls, Should Eab- & of L “ba wanted upon this U per month, 1 ihen begged agaln to 1 and keep hotise on'a mall acle, Ay Rrond Beine away A gond Dart of tho tme 1 1) pvand alonc Tiveil on 810 per week, and thoneht jtyand dertal, " Bince thae we hnve hoarded al) tng 1ons 141 nolv. W have & Weo Bit of & honae riuh; | in Chicigo, which we get, wll tarniafica for § peemanth,’ In retarn, Tam ta take (he' piof 3 care of everyihing, Int 1o OWROF Mave 8 Tooms take hin meals hore, he prving 20 centa por man! Sont the end of each movth bo han to pay ph o stead of we him.' St in thres weekn Inat Aohon #inco we began, snd 1 find that cveryining ro e Ban cont un $11.48, Gue famtiy conalas by 100 husvand nd mysel? and 1ttt hoy, o netl] olil (nud my, how he eaty alnce e eaie herefy iy Mr, —, the ownor. YOu sec that to-gay I' e anif feel"that we must aave, and Lam willing neg eager to do so, If 1can Just sce amiles runng mn 1 get dreadfuily tired, for, mithongh o %o Do isoior and taiizhi’ to work, e iover besing cen obliged to. Daldear mother need (ooore ++ Elsie, © want You 10 know how 10 0o evaryriiy anv ife and mothor needs to know, for we capm.s il the ninca dod may ace 1t to jace vou o Tlesven bless my dasling, ssinted mothe; the knowledge she has glven me. 1do ajimy wranh. ing,—~n mnalne‘er did before, —and Jaut we did’ my better Ralf up Qv sbifte.—my feat 5 tempt, 1 don't doubt many_ will say, I o g want fo be {nvited Lo cat at Elsie M.' tabl on aex cheap lving, [ am goiag to keew a ot of Wi} nf fare thia week, 8o I can show that wo do not Ity poorly, I havanot throw away one cent's worlh of nnything yol. Yousee we only get ahont what will Bo wanted for ona or two monis of meats, an, a# baby and I have uur noon lunch alane, 1 usg find plenty laft tcom dinner the day betore 1o un. [ think {tis Amber that sava it young peop! are in rather siraitencd circamatancos they ing bedter not wo 10 huunekesping, Taay thot, If the wife in not heart and soul In carneat to make homne the dearest spot on carth (in ona sennc and thy cheapest in another, then they had better neses begin, 1 believe that nine timea tn_ ten boardin meansmorennhnngln:u Aamong marriod qus than almostany other one thing. ‘I'hie wifelearng to love ber easc, and oxprcte that she must haye it under any and All clrcumetances, Again, v, ing in one room hreeds disordor, espocial tho little ones come, I have friend who hia heeq married five years. Bho has two Little pirle, fiyes up fu the fourt! llnrs of s public building fn one room. Ifer husvand 19 very anzious to go 1 honsckeeping, but sho s determined not to, ang when [ spoke of huwhupwl was in our |iile dove-cot, she snecrinely laughed and eafil: vop don't see when yon hiava time to be happy.® | told her sha had not heard the songs that filied my heart and came forth apontaneously while I wag hending over the washiub or on my knees nerub. bing my floor. I have handreds of old.tims friends who would not call on me now In our little. humble home, but I am happler without them with my dear husband snd darlingest of little boys. Kext week T will_glve il of fare for the week and tho expensc; alao a few of ald-lrmdzmclpol. Lotx M, GIRLS! INDUSTRIAL SCHOOL. AN'APPEAL FOR NIELP, Cnicaco, Nov. 22,—Will Tho MHomo allow me s ttlo spaco to tell it many readers about an in. stitution which has one of the noblest onjecisin vicw that may be found thronghout our country? Troferto tho State Industrial School far Girls, aitualed at Houth Evanston, and now occunying the Soldlers’ Home, npon the lake shoreatthat plice. The fact thst hundredy of Iittle girls are mrowing up In Ignoerance in our connley Poore Houses to-day {# a blot upon our civilization, Tho Doard of Managers, than whom more ey clent toachers or modest workers cannot be found, are building up an fnstitution which woets a long. felt want in our immediats community. This ope Ject ta to take girls of nll agos, from early Infancy up to 1B years, beginning with the earlicsi stages of education and domestic Induatry, AL them for any poaition or situation that wilf enable them 10 support themselves respectahly and_woll. From the amall number with which the 8chool opencd abont eme yesr ago, 3t now numbers fortr Irle, all ages, between 4 snd 17 yeary. oro e nothing in the way of domestia dutfes which s overlooked in thele 1raining, llarneesing the ** famlly " norse, milking the cow, svashing, ironiug, cooklng, hing dishes, meads ing and darning, and maki thelr own clothea, are anly a few of the many daties which belong ta well-regnlated houschols and which aro taugbt withaut confunton, moves along qulelly and hatmonlonsly. \Without any a1l at present from iho Stste, the Board of Managera depend eniiroly upon members ship feea (81 por year) and personsl appels and work. Now that the abundant erops are harvested and the winter's slore I8 sct aside, will not the ladies romembor these Jittle onea? Old clothing, achool baoks, fuel, vegotables, fonr, egge, butter, I meat, cornemeal, buckiheat, canncd Roods ing materla), g:dn. or money will be very sccepl- uble, and can he forwarded, If piainly addrossed, *'Industrial School for Girls, Bouth Evsnaton, 1L, " tres of (')unLn I:{ the express companies. . To any and all who feel an Intcrest in this noble work, an invitation 18 extended to make a trip ous 1o th 00l and eca for youraelves the huppy, rosy-cheekal yirls, who anpéal to all noble-minded women for aid In thelr holplessness, I would Ilko to hear from tho friends of The Home upon thia subject, and will cheerfully any any questdonsierifive -any (nformation which may - MoNTROSE. Iy \when 3 = THANKNGIVING ! Chotee Tatla Ralsf: bor., New Attsed Nate, perlir. Ilew Pine A flew aldime SHAKER GOODS. Ahisker Puckwheat, per pk; 50 BhaXer ,!‘...-,. et o s 81,10 sliaker Abple llutter, per pa i gln:ar mmnl!l;n::r. per ul’ ;:' naker Pench LIk, ber Hian 5 Siaker b ot i rlud Sugar Corn, per 1D, Very Hest 8t. Louls Winter Wheat Flour. perbrl. 3150 Yery lest Minuesots 8priog Wheat Flour, per brl, 50 Very Hest Minnesots Patent Fiour, per brl, . 150 Vary llest Wintar Waeas Graham Pl Yery Hout Kye Floup Vit e RV Vary Dest Grehau Flour, peraack.....i. L very barrel guarsnteed and dellverad frea of chatg?. FINEST TMPORTED TEAS Wo sllaw a discountor 3 cents per vound wi pounds arg taken, Teas of all grades from 28a per Ib. Hickson’s Cash Grocory House, 113 Enst Wadison-st, E®3end for copy of Ilickson' NEW FPUBLICATIONS, Leading Musie Hooks of the Season! ) Woodland riu Day Behacd Biaplng-Besk. PuexBoc. 18 7rx Doz AAC IR OCS Eeay audeharming ivaes. Pure and toble senulmens. Cbo Tesas Quarielies, Tri i . A el wry D:rnl\nui. Large ol as over publiahat "< 4. K. ilerilage. 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