The evening world. Newspaper, July 7, 1922, Page 19

So Why Men Leave Home “SPENT OUT OF IT” The Husband Who Is Spent Out of His Home, Says That a Spendthrift Wife Deserves to Be Crowned as the “Queen of Gold Diggers”! U By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1022 (New. York Evening World) yy Press Publishing Co. 66] VERY public school ought to E have a course for every girl om 'How to Spend Money Without Ruining a Husband!’" This is the advice of a man who was spent ouit of his home by his wife, of whom the husband sald: “She hadn't the re- motest idea of the value of a dollar. “Some women regard a husband as a regular department store, including a bank," he concluded in disgust. And how he is in the Domestic Re- fttions Court trying to fix it some way so that there can be a limit to ‘his wife's spending, “For she not only spent all my money, but me in the bargain,"’ he wails. And there must be considerable truth in what this man says, for the majority of cases that come into this court are due to money troubles or arguments on the “filthy lucre.”” T honestly believe that if the truth were known a very large proportion of the marriage failures might well be traced to this quarreling with ‘one's pocketbook. ‘The story of this particular man is “Oh, the Tyranny of Tears!” not unlike many others, The girl was married young, shortly after leaving achool, and had little or no experiences in the process of saving. Marriage to her meant freedom—treedom from the narrow confines of her family freedom to get things of mother did not approve. whieh her Her hope was that if she got into her own home she could do as shiv pleased—and she did. The baubles she had long craved were the first things she bought with her husband's money. And. of course, being in love with her he naturally wanted to in- dulge her in every whim, especially at the beginning of things. This. young woman really wrong view of marriage. Of Ishe would have been astonished if you had told her that she did not reaily Move her husband. She did love him, but she loved herself more. The idea of a joint partnership was altogether lost on her. The big thing in her life was to get things—get things she wanted. And again, she would have been surprised had you told her that she was not getting them for her husband but for herself, In truth, anything rarely came into the had the course house for the sole use of him who provided it all, and times without number he .went ‘without things in order that Lola might have some new -gaw for which she had taken « fancy. “She spent money like a drunken sailor,’ her husband told and ind@ed she was drunk,’’ in a way PREBLE QUESTIONS and Answers me, QUESTIONS. 1,.Was: John the Baptist ordained to be great? 2, What is the shortest verse in the Bibis? 3. Who was Esther before she be- me Queen? 4. Who reared her? 5. Of what disposition was Saul? 6. For whom did Saul feel a strong affection? ANSWERS. 1, John the Baptist was ordained to be great-even before birth 2. The shortest verse in the Bible is ‘Jesus wept.'* . Esther was a Jewish orphan girl before she became Queen 4. Mordecai, the Jew, and he cousin reared Estly 5. Saul was flery und way with « taint of madness at 6. Saul felt a David, ‘Copyrigit, 1922, Triangle Feature Service.) time: strong affection drunk with the position of being her own. boss and no one to say her nay. “She ‘had never earned a dollar,’ was her husband's complaint, “and therefore did not understand the struggle and the sweat that I went through to get it, and I could not seem to teach her," he regretted. “When I would remonstrate with her the least bit I was called ‘stingy’ and ‘I did not love her,’ and then she would begin to ery. “Oh the tyranny of tears! I just emptied my pockets at the first fall of them and faced another day of hard work. But just as constant drop- ping will wear away a stone, I soon began to get more stoical when she tuened on the pearly drops from her eyes, and learned to have the courage to say no. “Alas, my bravado was of no avail. We made a number of fnends and we had to copy what they did, and when I couldn't reach it we had to go it on the instalment plan. Before I knew it I was head over heels in debt, and finally it seemed to me that the of my life was a leech ‘rather than a wife."* 1 doubt if this couple will ever come together again, since this young wo- man wasn’t ‘started In the way she should go." And this much can be sald of the business woman, that she makes a much better, home manager than the girl who has never done anything but wait for in gold-digging. { tget all you can and love arriage as a Hers is the incans of inwritten Law look for more.” hen there is the wife who wants ) be entertained all the time, She st be taken out and fed and nused and clothed properly for the she always lives up to the last payment the Victrola; and when Hard Tim comes knocking at the door she doesn’t eet him with grace. Oh, yes, there is always the happy nedium, Money pend, but how to do tt is the big question, If every envelope could but speak it would “Spend me Httle, spend on know how to is to me You Look TEN YEARS YOUNGER ! JULY 7 1922, A MAN NEVER TELLS A WOMAN SHE Looks YOUNG UNTIL SHE BEGINS To Look CINEMA Hollywood Now Runnin FTER fifteen years of lavish truancy, movie actors are going to school. Benevolent dukes of fadeout in- dustry have en- dowed a little pink education factory on knoll overlooking Holly- gray dawn of 9 toddle to wood. A. M., little hopefuls will kinemagarten in eight-ton limousines. No one admitted after 9 o'clock bell without tardiness excuse from Will H. Hays, School for celluloid bipeds ix a rich In cool, idea. After lifetime of reading press notices, writing autographs on photos and adding up personal expense, you can't expect a screen star to know as much as office boy to Thomas A. Edison, In land where three R's means Rools-Rice runabout, botany, sociology, psychiatry and Greek are bound to be negiected. But not any more. Santa Claus has* filled bathing gals’ stockings with little red schoolhouse for little read gals, From now on juveniles, in- genues, villains and vamps will learn more than just how to kiss and make up. Class in metallurgy will grab healthy erudition on history and use of curl- ing iron, Philosophy qrinds will suck up information on Plato, platinum and platonic love, Culinary pupils will get sentimental lore on custard pies and lemon meringues, and how to propel the same. ‘There are no out- skirts to new idea, Magnates may even take course on how to make dividends out of gelatine by removing the froth. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. A little ingenue is a dangerous thing. Now science combines the two for first time in history of solar system. Hereafter sweet cutie may read Bible right side up without two weeks’ rehearsal by director, Educa- tion, poise, savoir faire will be noted in every move. Erudition will be hauled into private lives, too. Acto- rines will: bawl out maids and chaut. feurs only with most correct blas- phemy, Gents will converse in dulcet The Jarr Family By Roy L. (New York Hveut yright, OW much do Lowe you, Sol? 6 asked Mr. Jarr, as in com- pany with his friend, Mr Rangle, he entered Sol's Smoke Shop te nay hie account of the week for tobacco and ciga “You got half a dollar's worth of cigars Chewsday and a box of smok- tobacco, which is fifteen cents, and Toisday you got a ing Wednesday; quarter's worth of stogies to give to the poor, and fifty cents’ worth of cigars again; and Friday you got fifty cents’ worth of cigars, and yes- terday you come in and chucked me dice and won and didn't pay any- thing for a cigar, and it all comes “Why don't you write it down and add it up?" interrupted Mr. Jarr. “ft can do figures and sums in my head; 1 don’t need to add up," said Sol “Ver Jarr, weil, f a man then,"" replied Mr. buys a dog that is worth fifty dollars by exchanging & radio outfit that cost him thirty dol- and the man sold the who owned the vadio outfit for half dog price, and the man who bought the dog was fined five dollar for not get- ting a license for the dog, how much did the dog cost altogether “You owe me a dollar and ninety cents,"" snorted the tobacconist. ‘I ain't got time to fool with what dogs cost, but T do know what is owed me for tobacco and cigars, and I'll bet that you don't know how much the dog costs, nor Rangle, either."” “Tl admit I'm not very strong on mental arithmetic,’ remarked Mr. Rangle. “I give it up, but I am a lightning calculator when the digits inclusive of one to six, Get out the dice and let us read the digits.”’ “What are them digits you're talk- ing about?" asked Sol. ‘It means single tigpres such as you can count on your fngers,"? Mr. Jarr explained. ‘Hence your fingers are called digits, too," ‘ot my fingers ain’t!"? replied Sol, “and if they was, what has that got to do with aice? ‘That's what L say,’! Slavinaky, the glazier, package of uch a preponde: is astounding!’ exclaimed Mr. Jurr, aking his head as though greatly grieved. ‘“‘Intermittently, or rather I remarked Mr who came in for it cigarettee at this june’ ce of asininity McCardell World) by Press Publishing Company. should say, consistently, the lack 0} erudition displayed by those residing in this vicinity has been poinfully ap- Parent to me; not that 1 would cavil at or vituperate the moron-like men- tality of the proletariat of this envi- ronment.” “Here, you!" snarled Sol, “don’t se such language in my store; my wife or stepdaughters, who are ladies, are always listening at the keyhole, “And if we are going to chuck dice, let us chuck dice,"’ suggested M lavinsky. "You fellows tu'k like ex- aminations for naturalizaticn papers: “Sure!"’ said Sol. “Anyhow, you guys can’t kid us with woids, because Slavinsky and me have just ag in- telligent educations as you and Ran- gles have got, and I'll bet the cigars there ain’( no such a woid as digit in the almanac.”’ Mr. Jarr stepped out of the cigar store into a stationery shop near ‘by and returned with « smail dictionary and read the definition of the word digit. “According to this dictionar; said Mr. Jarr, “the word digit means ny one of the fingers and also a sin- gle number, a8 in the Arabic nota- tion, such as 1, AS Br Ty 9 and 0." “There you see, suid Mr. Jaer, “you've lost your bet. Set up the cigars,” “| said the woid wasn't In the al- manae," replied Sol sullenly, "I didn’t say anything about dictionaries, So you lose, and four ten-cent cigars is forty cents."" ‘ And being appealed to 4s final ar- biter, Mr. Rangle treacherously sided with Sol and Slavinsky | Habits That NERVOUSNESS. ERVOUSNESS is a habit. You don't believe it? Now just listen. Haven't you often said, “I am too nervous to do this, I am too nervous to do that?"' In fact, used it as an excuse for every situa- tion? \ state of nervousness is the ac- cumulation of many little restless habits that have fastened themselves like the arms of an octopus around you until you are securely bound in their grasp and seem unable to free yourself, But slowly as these habits fastened their grasp on you, you can overcome them one by ene, until the restlessness and lack of confidence are overcome. You will then reallze that what I am saying is true. Nervous- ness to a great extent is a habit, in fact, the worse habit you ‘can have, because it interferes seriously with your health and eventually absolutely mars your beauty. A little forethought in allowing yourself more time for your tasks, a little more exertion in the matter of controlling your petulance go a long way in giving you such polse that you lose that sense of nervousness, When you have finally loosened this nervous tension you will find yourself budding out anew with renewed health and vigor, Recause nervousness in terferes with the proper digestion of your fved it rebs you of peaceful | For the Housewife’s Scrapbook | wholesome if ovenlone as when underdone, No precise time can be given for cooking vegetables. It is merely a matter of experience and e on the part of the cook Goon vegetables are just as un- All vegetables should be thoroughly washed and rinsed in cold salted water. They should be put into fast boiling water and kept at boiling point. When vegetables are done drain at once to prevent sogginess. ‘To make curdled mayonnaise “come back,’ beat another yolk of egg, add @ little off to it and beat until smooth and thick, then very gradually add the curdled dressing until it all) well blended with the new One housewife uses discs of tissue Paper to cover jellies and jams. She dips one side of the paper into a sau- cer of milk, then places it over the Slass, milk side down, and presses the paper down over outside of tumbler, Another woman uses white of an egg in place of the milk, Both methods sive satisfactory results. When the kiddies use a lead pencil in their efforts to decorate the wood- Work, the unsightly marks can readily be removed by rubbing'with a plece of cut lemon and follow it up with a lit- te whiting on a damp cloth. to get the gra ite fabrics. Use ammonia stalns out of w It is said if you ‘run articles that have come out of hot starch through the wringer it will injure the rubber rolls, By Doris Doscher Mar Beauty| slumber at night, it makes you in capable of executing your tasks efM- ciently and you soon reach a state of chronic anaemia. You lose your rosy cheeks, your step will Jack its elas ticity and you even imagine yourself troubled with some chronic heart affliction or a disturbance of the in- ternal organs. But take heart, be- cause once you see the folly of allow- ing yourself to remain in this nervous condition and make an effort to con- trol it, you are Immediately rewarded by improved health and your looks respond accordingly. Oh! TI know it is not easy to do at first, but it wouldn't be worth while if {t was. It is worth the effort, and once You can see nervousness asx a habit {t will be easy for you to con- quer it. The best way is to make up your mind not to rush or let anything Jar you, Yourmust try to cultivate a greater calm and poise and you will soon find that these good habits have taken the place of the others and you have conquered your nervousnqss. Dear Miss Doscher: How can | prevent hair from growing on my upper lip, chin and on the si What ia i Dd. 8. The entire surface of the human body is covered with w fine down. ‘The face being more exposed, the hair is Hable to be a little darker in color, therefore more noticeable. — Bathing frequently with dil peroxide will ach and make it less conspicuous Dear Miss Doscher: Would you kindly advise me as to my correct weight? | am four teen years old, 5 feet 6 inches tall and weigh 120 pounds. CONSTANT READER. Sinee you are so tall for your age you are about the right weight. You will gain now that you have gotten nearly al! your bony development Dear Miss Dosche: Will you please tell me of some thing that will make hair grow Also something that will make eyelashes long and eyebrows thick?’ What will make finger- nails grow strong? What will re- duce knuckles? Mine are very knotty, BALTIMORE GIRL. Olive oil well rubbed in the scalp will encourage its growth. A few drops applied to the eyelashes and eyebrows will benefit the as well Cover the fingernails with liquid vas: eline and allow it to remain on all night. This prevents them from split ting, encourages their growth and at the same time keeps the cuticle around them pliable, Thorough massaging of the hand, especially around the knuckles, will M11 in the hollows and prevent the sprawny look and pro- truding Knuckles, Your Wedding Anniversary Ninth—The Willow-Pottery Wedding ’’ Copyright, 19% ning World) by Pre HIS is another anniversary with a or table might be acceptable. Then there ave tabourettes, footstools, work ation, some an- p p Cie, er Ereanon, iow baskets and clothes hampers. A thorities listing it as the willOW’ fo nery which may do for other grow others as the pottery wedding. -ing plunty is a nice gift. ‘There are ‘The two could be nicely combined in flower receptacles to hang aguinst the i wall or porch posts. Among the small articles are baskets for all purposes, lampshades, trays, &¢. Shops are re- Yew York Publishing Go, and ovations. Let the nine candles form the table decoration, Use the dripless candles plete. with. highclass pottery sods. and fit them into pottery vases which {eautifully decorated vases, book- you may tint and decorate as fancy €nds, fancy figures, umbrella stands, dictates, Set the nine candies in a D#98ing baskets, jardinicres, flower pots, crack jurs, fancy placques and row along the length of the table piates are other suggestions. Nine having the centre one high and the four at each side graduate in height so the end one ts quite low, shining silver dollars tucked into the bottom of one of those handsome pot- tery mugs is a good gift, Mass branches of willow around the ARLE NANAERS? central candieholder to reach nearly tO father was dining the top and carry this along the full length of the candies as a sloping bank until it trails off in a vine ut the end candies, The candle shades can he made of A with his son in a Texas hotel, and in the course of dinner t son got into an argument with a cow- hoy. ‘The cowboy culled the son an offensive name, and the young fellow reeds or a wire frame covered with Kiuymg! JNK kaite in tis fist and crepe paper. Rolled strands of the onged paper or fine cord can he used But bis father seized him by the form a design. Shellac the ¢ coattails, you will have w good substitution for. “Ain't ye got no table manners?" the old man hissed willow ware. “But, pop, ye heered what he called If you have not forgotten the basket ye, gidn't yer" weaving of your kindergarten days "Yes, [ heered all right, but that you can muke pretty bonbon holders, #n’t no ground for yer fergettin’ yer shapes and sizes, Charming re a Dyato s ure obtained by the crepe paper rope Weaving, which is an art roadily acquired, Shades, vases, cand! holders, serving cups, trays and has kets made by this method would A + Y prove excellent simulations of real F I U F F willow. ¢ Have the paper caps adorned with willow plumes, made of crimp per fringe, or cabochons can be muile of reed and fastened on the RUFFLES. PEL) the men have a pompon of the crimped fringe at the centre top. neat Hor serving refreshments use wick: ‘m sandwich baskets, cake plates and Rufflc trays for the beverage Inexpensive favors may be made in the reed or shellacked rope work and if pottery is preferred beautiful enamel effects are produced by apply ing sealing wax of varying shades on in earthen jug, vase or other article then revolve the objec over a hot flame Until It is satisfactorily blended SS After @ woman has been married lt nine years she may appreciate son ‘Ask your grocer for trial package new furniture, soa pretty, wicker chair Movie Stars Are Going to School, but Not the School for Scandal By Neal R. O'Hara COLLEGE ig Second to Harvard as Plush Seat of Learning for Idol Rich. tones with bootlegger, masseur, valet and Hypothetical earthquake will shake up libraries adorning Beverly Hille: Bound volumos of Police Gazette; gagged issues of Parisian weekliter will go to junkman in spasmodic in. crements. Learned grads of movie school will spot Doc. Eliot a yard of books and beat him in footage, bind- ings and square miles of deckle edge. = Class in chemistry will study the glycerine tear, analyze its pathos per fluid ounce, dissect its value as op- Posed to the onion. That's getting somewhere. Class in geography wil! take up eskimo pie and other productd of the Arctic zones with regard to comic values when hurled at film clowns. Class in first aid treatment will learn to cut films and just what Yo do till the scenario editor arrives, Don’t snap at impression that movie school is all play, with red apples for teacher and gold stars for good boys. It is hard, serious, grilling work. Lifetime ambition of faculty is to make stars act like stars, leading men look like leading gents, and to make entire cast of principals know as much as the supers. If that's a soft job, Switzerland's as flat asa bowling alley. My Favorite Coiffure Screen Beauties Tell Secrets in Hair Dress. By Gertrude Olmsted. Y hair has always been curly M and almost unmanageable. 1 try to wear it as high on the head as | can and parted a bit at the right. | hate ‘ear puffs’ and try to comb my hair as close to the side of the head as possible. Bangs falling down the forehead: are very becoming, | think, espe-. cially so if they have a tendency to curl, | never try to capture loose strands; if they want to run wild 1 simply let ‘em run. Sometimes | think that if | had th te do it, | woul! bob my hair; but per- haps it is better that | haven't. setlcf SHADES OF THE LAUNDRY. SAN FRANCISCO lady was enced Chinese houseboy, and among other things found it necessary to teach him how to receiv caller. “Now, Wing,” she said, “when 1 ne home this afternoon T shall ring the bell, and you must pay attention to what I tell you to do when you open the door," 3 When, the boy did this on her ree turn, she handed him her visiting: ecard and had him show her into the drawing room Be Jong « caller pared, Wing took the proferred bit of pasteboard and gravely compared it with his mia- tress's card, whieh he produced from his sleeve. At the end of bis scrutiny he remarked: Tickoe no sar erybody's M: no can come in” In Summer Time clothes require much laundering to be kept fresh and dainty. Make them look like new with Fluffy Ruffles Starch The thin starch which goes into the tabrir and will not stick to the iron, Independent Starch Co., Inc. NEW YORK ¥ ‘ eed <a eae eee