The evening world. Newspaper, July 5, 1922, Page 21

WHUNKSUDAY, JULY 5, 1922. Says of His Wife: By Sophie HERE is no more tragic human being than the woman who be- wails the fact that her husband has been lured out of his home, and you couldn't make her believe any- thing else but that some cre: ture in fem form has set hor- self to the task of winning her hus- band away. As a general thing this wife thinks she is very much abused and @ertainly believes herself more sinned @gainst than sinning. But if the ac- tual truth were known the same old theory of two sides to every question Would prove to be a great factor in Placing the blame where it belongs. Don't mistake me. We have with tus to-day, to-morrow and always the ‘wanton woman, she of the wilful way, who has no pity or shame and does moet care how many scalps she adds to heer belt of achievement . But with these reckless women it Is gust scalps and nothing more. Ob *° We, they cause much misery in the World, but always, always, Nemesis 18 on the job, The day comes when they «Wok at themselves in the looking- jass and wish they had done differ- tly. /These are not the women, as a general thing, that lure the average Busband from his home and that are the cause of the marital break. It is wsually the woman that the wife her- gelf would like if she knew her under other circumstances sort of ‘woman that even might be her friend And how has he been lured away? He has often been drawn away from his wife not so much by the activiti of the other woman but the inactivities of his’ ewn wife. To be very frank, there is one flagrant type, a com- mon occurrence—the man who is starved for affection. It begins first with the woman for- getting to continue the smal) niceties Of life—the little everyday marks of affection that gradually, as the years go by, seem to get lost in the hum- @rum business of housekeeping or home economics, Everything seems to get more im- portant than the little loving kind- Besses that sometimes mean more “The Attractive Woman, on a Moonlight Evening, Awakens in Him the Idea of Comparison and the Might-Have-Been.” @han food and creature comforts to a man, The woman seems to go on the theory that he must take it for granted that she loves him and there ie no need to tell it or show it in so many words and deeds, And, strange tu say, the man docen't notice it either, except on occasions when he is tired and weary and some- how realizes he ts missing something without being aware of what it is, ‘What happens? One fine day he Meets some woman who smil sweet- ly, who shows a sense of sympathy for him and his affairs and who thus creates a new interest in the man's Ufe, and very often, before he realizes ft himself, there is a problem and per- haps a triangle. Now in a like this, had he been accustomed to the sym- ‘pathy and the love and the little how of affection that was his ‘at the beginning of marriage, he ould not be so readily won else~ where. Im this instance the woman who has Yared him away has filled a want which the husband has either con- golously or unconsciously felt. Then there is the woman hasn't any time for her husband. is so busy making new friends with or without him that before they know it they have little or no life to- who She gethor. They grow apart and are mere partners in the business of keeping a home together, and have lost the great, fine friendship for each other that is the basis for all happy mar- riages and which must of necessity Why Men Leave Home “LURED” OUT OF IT The Man Who Is Lured Out of His Home hearts Once, but We're Married Now.” Copyright, 1022 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. Can You Beat It! You ARE ) (AYORKING Mo HARD \ “We Were Sweet- Irene Loeb. come firat before any other friend- ships. In such a situation the couple be- come too impersonal, and one fine Thursday evening, perhaps at one of the parties that he attends with his wife, some woman under a rosy lamp. sheds the rosy glow of personal ap- preciation of the man, and there you have the beginning of another story cf him who is iured away. Also there is the well-known va- riety—she who grew careless or in- Copyrieht, 1922, (ow York Evening World) By Proms Pub. Co, Ss T THINK MR JOHN (S THE BEST HAN 'N THE WORLD } different of her appearance and does not care how she appeared before her husband—the well known type who only dresses for company and whose hushand is constantly greeted with a head full of curling papers and a stragely kimono. Isn't it natural that the neat, attractive woman, who on a moonlight Wednesday evening wears the dress he has admired once, awakens in him the {dea of compari- son and the might-have-been, And there again you have another beginning of an end. HE 1S Jus7T ) THE KIND OF 4 HUSBAND [ D* LIKE To HAVE Ff SSA j Look before you condemn, gentle wife, who feels him slipping away— look for the reason. Search deep into e past or even the middle distance Find if, somewhere along the line, you have not failed yourself; whether it be to flatter him a little, or to frighten him that he might lose your love, or to fight for him against an other love, somewhere, perchance, you tight pick up the thread that has rown thin and #trengthen it by a w knot that will hold him fast to vou No woman ts too proud to make ar effort to save the love of her life. To MAKE ENOUGH MONEY SO HIS WIFE CAN SS SPLURGE IN A SWELL SUMMER. RESORT re 6 In short, if you think he has been lured away, why not do some luring yourself? THEJARR FAMILY —By Roy L. McCardell Copyright, 1922 (New “York Everiing World), by Press Publishr pany. 6COQAY, What's “the matter with S you?” asked Mr. Jarr. The question was addressed to Mr. Jack Silver, the doomed bache- lor, or we should say engaged bache- or—engaged to Miss Gladys Cackle- berry HERE HE /S SWELTERING AND WORKING DAY AND HE IS WHAT 1 CALL AN IDEAL HUSBAND IN,/M¥Y SET WE 'D CALL HIN A "Can't you me out, someway?" — — isked the bachelor anxiously, “by a _ —_ 2 7 fire eseape or se © out of (Gm this flat of yours, wife H bi . ° d Gladys come back to show me t h t M B ti rt h d M (at wedding arésa they've gone abits Tha ar Beauty Courts Ip an arriage after? . “You take your medicine,” said Mr. - By Doris Doscher - By Betty Vincent Jarr. “Do you think I'm going to Copyrieht, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. Copyright (New York Evening World) by Presa Publishing Oe. to get away and then get ‘ ' he athe ys that you / 7 RTCA He eeraeateneicien Sonlcneea ra heaie me Sep ite sant oer ee ae mote?” 2 you one of those girls who, When you pout you s You are popita : What Mr Silver might have re- A as soon as you can't have your really spoiling your face. Several imanthe. 390 a he dou net rates uae te Peed piied will never be known, for just seo oe inka Pouting at things that displeases Used’ ‘to see a Certain: ee te ee eee ey cone and then Mrs. Jarr and Miss Gladys own way, pucker up your face you js like blowing your breath on a young man on the subway train many nen in th 1d, kleberry returned with a gr in a real pout? It may haye been ne, It never gives you a solu ‘ Erne ane eae teboard box and) both ladies we & y a t almost every morning for about “ + f Pp: . jadies were oute when you were six, but be as- tion to the problem and It puts you ‘ Dear Miss Vincent: A few chattering eagerly'at ench other. sured It is inexcusable after sixteen. In a mood where you are not capable @ht weeks. He looked at me weeke ago Mr. B., a friend of my “| promised it wouldn't be tried on, Little ugly of tne logic that would solve. tie eentinually and seemed to want to —_perents, visited us with a Mr. C. a res I Rts in line mouth unpleasint situation, As soon as ) speak to me, although he never Mr. C. wae coming with she ne “I wouldn't think of such a thing pulled out of girl goes to business she realizes that smiled. | was very anxious to tention of being intraduce hig declared Miss Cackleberry in a ‘high- shape, frown hardly a day passes but what she is \, me. My folks knew of this, al- pitched voice, “It's bad Tuck?” aaron thes Keow) eoatronted (with woe Gnplonmant ley Tit) aaitie: shomed) <olbe/a though | wae not supposed to Mr, Silver groaned and mopped his In fact, the task or situation, Here is her op- Very nice type of man. ince pi seals Vs aarp ed forehead. Mr, Jarr grinned like a Whole face dis. portunity. to develop diplomacy, to that time, however, | have moved metho should have toyiee ae ghoul. torted—t his is exhilit executive ability and a chance and Ino longer travel on the sub- FAA Rd leo , “You 90" sald Mra. Jarr, bringing what happens also to show that she te big enough way. l) have fieticed! that: this id he wedding SO e : when you pout to smile at these little troubles, and i GbuBlo. GF Wabkes nis is @ bridal outfit made by Mme. hee! te le ROE GA RONIA ta monk capemi in thevquionsat 2 ouTalmaniworkaiin‘a Pahl ahout poveing endia rene aves Smith for another party, The wedding hit bewitching to way to make them disappear. @ block from where | work, and Ave Rasned ane re for this new had been postponed because the your. appear- Rut, alas! so many of you with once in @ great while we see one —Caifer, se what should | do? groom had to go away on account of ance. So if you your habitual pouting ereate an im another on the street. He atill ' “LK. MA" nervous breakdown. The bride-elect have acquired pression that you are not willing to ti ‘ h one to’ nutes ‘Nim—properiy. continues to look at me while we Leave it to Mr. C. If he cares for as Ei P ORS DOSCHER” this habit with Jo the unexpected task or give your | 41 call in. Yi chaperoned by her mother, of course,’” . ne ee y st you have to offer P88. Would you please advise you he certainly will call again. You she added, fhe qmistaken (idea that you are ims employer ths mow. you) might tell your friend B. that you ‘This to intimate to Mr. Silver that Pressing people as being cute and coy, and you really lose out all becaus eee inane “breakdown. did ‘not you are the only one who thinks ao, of the little pouting habit. Theat seca GR For the impression upon others is Now since it interferes with th “Ten! , that you have a very ugly looking efficiency of your work, makes y Isn't the veil sweet? It's point face and far from a charming dispo- unpopular in your social life and Menise, :6ai0 MSs) Sarr: MANE SI® nition ages your face with the Hnes it gives {t's one, of’ the cap. effecta! Why, frowning in itself, if per- you, don't you really think {i “The train is a court train!” sald sisted im, is golng to leave lines on (ime you quit pouting and tried t! Miss Cackleberry, pointing this fact your face, and when you add to that effect of ‘smiling through?” out by lifting the article in question, “You see, it hooks on, That makes it easter to change the dress into a ball dress or reception gown, though I've heard it’s bad luck to do it."” Desserts for Warm Weather “One has need ‘of luck at such a cake 0 y preferred s time," sald Mra, Jarr. ‘f wonder glee CREAN: beng! Bate ak be ee dice Grind how the gown would look draped on co) atte Bataan bir ep “or subatitute and some one? Let Mr, Jarr’——But Gclicious hot weather dessert, © 1% a tbo okt Mr. Jarr began to wabble Recipes for making same come © ot Bete ee ada f @ freezer. Variations are pro- vanilla tee cream, to he added wt Jarr turned from him. with the freezer on rt 4 af A ave tiie andl of fruits, nuts, cream is @ur tre To necent added, “he'd put his foot through it or CUC ative) tiavoring sherry is anded comethinan’? cereals or macaroons RES URL USN he MATT Ua RACE Ne Let Jack do it!" said Mr. Jarr, FRUIT ICE CREAM — Whatever Volatead pala aad Abe a tee 4 S “splendid!” cried Miss Cackleberry, fruit is 4 must he thoroughly q favorite flavoring both for who was in high spirits. ‘Stand up, er void its fre too hard. and fruit fee creams Jacktle, dear!"" Sweeter the fruit to taste and allow CEREAL—A bisque ice cream wit Mr, Jarr pushed the faltering young from one to two cupfuls of fruit to cereal jg delicious. Toast shrevi man to his feet. Go to it! It's the one quart of ice creain fruit Julee wheat, crush it and add one « first lesson in subjection!'? he whis- { substituted, use ene ¢ juice to these crumbs toe the cream wh pered. "You'll have to be a dress- one quart of ice cream, Blend the tg not Almonds, rushed — ar maker's dummy after you're married, frult well with the cream and let It browned, ‘make a favorable add and they'll stick pins in you,’ stand at least one hour for “ripen- Grapefruit can be used in the SE gianced appealingly !n& Manner, and brown bread used {ih around, Was he the once carefree, NUT ICE CREAM—Nuis tnust be wise makes ao appetizing i independent and self-aspertive bach- finely ground «id to the frozen pread ice cream. The cream s lor of other days? He Was not. He cream when it becor “ht and he cold before putting into fres was standing dull and inert as the smooth, Sometimes the finely chopped b tull strengt skilled hands of Mrs, Jarr draped the nuts are merely sprint wer the the flavoring extract this shoui/l bridal gown on him and even put the tee cream when» Use one be added while the mixt t vell on his he cup of nuts to ereum. Mr. Jarr stutfed his handkerchief In PISTACHIO—To « mapale Tee ercam will freeze 1 fi s mouth to keep trom laughing green, use pi the if the ist nour ly He looks sweet enough to kiss,’ nuts may be ¢ er ab ut piu he said, mockingly monds; in er « ched and i icc ¢ eh ‘ And, the man being helpless, both finely choppe t. The | the prope ladies kissed Jack Silver, BISQUE — Maca: nabiscos, galt thé more rupid the freezing ' me what to do in this case? 1 can think of no one who could in- troduce us, and would like to know whether or not it is the girl's place to speak first? “EBs Te ili k. This liked him and feel quite certain that he will act as messenger. Maxims of a Do not be the first to spes ght give the young man a wrong pression of you , } h “Dear Miss Vincent: Am going When the wife goes away for the around with a young man six months my senior. My parents fee do not object to him, but my half lives. friends do everything to make things uncomfortable for us. Please tell me what to do. Shall | give up the young man or ig- nore my friends? = M. C. T more compunction about dispe “The nicest “They are—but girl who iets | ends run A surely will not be guided by ner flapper’s hopeful youd feminine Intuition, Ask irself whether you |ike the youns More than 01 o and you will have the answer, easy enough to to dispose decent ‘Dear Mias Vincent: | have been By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Coprright, 1982 (New York Bvening World) by Press Publishing Co. would if she were a troublesome fly, men are always married," SUMMER MADNESS Americanism of Congress This Seasori Is 100 Degrees Fahrenheit, By Neal R. O’Hara Copyrieht, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. Washington Gets Ready to Cross the People as Boys Dig Themselves In for Leg- islative Orgy. ONGRESS digs iteelf in for i summer, while constituente crank jitneys for two-week vacations. Lower House of Congress and second-story workers pull necks in behind thetr palm leaf fans. Over- whelming majority: drags out white linen snits and real Panama hats from woodpulp mills of Newfound- land. Hardy Representatives from North pair red flannel undershirte with cheesecloth B. V. D.'s of South- ern Senators. The legislative panic is ont Fall elections cast chilling shadow on eweltering cross-section of Na- tional Legislature. Congress reads hieroglyphics on wall and whips self into lather of patriotte duty. High tariff on potatoes grabs solid Maine vote. Lofty duty on peaches sucks in Delaware electorate, and protec- tive ad valorem on interlocutory de- crees puts Nevada in solid ranks again. Tariff is lke cluster of skeleton keys for lacking up vote at autuninal elections, For purpose of keeping constituents in line, Congress would rob St. Betersburg, Fla, to pay St Paul, Minn. All's fair in love, war and primary contests. If Vermont demands protection against imported granite quarries, Senate slips @ atick-up duty on gravestones, mau- soleums, obelisks and pyramids and Green Mountain vote assays 100 per cent. G. O. P. If California bean magnates and Kansas corn barons yelp simultane- ously or in solos for a tariff wall, Congress jerks up duty on succotash and wins double approbation from doubtful States. What is high cost of living compared with six-year seats that G. O. P. wants reserved in advance? But tariff is only a deuce-spot in three-card-monte racket now going on in Capitol tent. Slipping porous- knit bonus to boys that stopped the war and slapping synthetic subsidy to mercantile marine are the pair of trick aces up Congressional sleeve. Nothing is too good for khak! elec- torate, Congress stands eager and itching to give $2,000,000,000 worth of pawn tickets to soldiers if some one else digs up collateral for same. Congress is for bonus all day long It.will give anything {t can for bonus, including speeches, talk and debates. You can't expect anything more from Congress than that, can you? Swamping merchant marine with Mquid gold is different question to perplex the House. To offset chain of allen ofl-burning steamships we have fleet of swell money-burning scows. Question is whether we will let ‘em sink from fron rust or float ‘em with $50,000,000 loans. United Board Modern Maid States Shipping summer and the husband stays in town, it’s just as well that one half shouldn’t know how the other osing of a troublesome woman than he A MAN considers that he has a chivalrous soul when he feels a little sighed yesterday's debutante not always to the same girl," is the thought for to-day ne couple has found that, while |t is Kill love, it Is extraordinarily difficult ly of the corpse. iting to a young man for a long ¥ What a man can never understand is why the time but we broke off Easter woman who has forgiven him seventy times seven Sunday He did not answer my should ff My refuse to take a chance on the four hun- etter on that date and feeling dred and ninety- certain that he did not receive my etter | wrote him a second one, putting my name and address on th sides of the envelope. Me iso failod to answer that. Now | know that he received both let rs, and would appreciate your es Sh equally stupid youns tinetion, she is surprised. but not flat When a man tells his wife that loves him, he first time too. female moron tells a Great Man that is flattered but not surprised; if an nilar confession to 4 woman of dis pd te he can't go away for the summer be Ivige how to win his friendship cause he is “tied to his desk,"’ sho can't help thinking that some pretty Jain, K. 0. B. stenographer has him on the string like ne A woman has hecun to xrow old when she wonders, for the these time, she really looks her age——instead of knowing she doesn't Youth used to be ‘innocent’; nowadays it ts “sophisti one good pose deserves another! okiffs are self-supporting outside three-mile limit. As soon as tourist- bearing Mner gets past final Voistead buoy, ft registers heavy wine list to port side of ship that isn’t corrected till boat straightens up to enter New York Harbor. That is healthy con- ition of affairs for tourists, but very sickening to parohed yoters that re- main on land, We can carry saloon passengers at stewrage rates and still make money so long as alcoholic ballast is correct and legal. But put trans atlantic sipping on temperance basis and nobody will travel but Captain and the crew. All Congress has got to decide ts whether it's going to be subsidy or suds. It looks Iike a hot summer! My Favorite Coiffure Screen Beauties Tell Secrets In Hair Dress, By Agnes Ayres. AM particularly fond of a coil | fure in which my hair is dressed very close to my head The wavy marcel breaks the harshness of such a close hair dress, which is further softened by the little curly bangs which partly cover the forehead. No false hair is required, and the hair is very y arranged in this fashion. This coiffure is also very apropos for a face and head shaped like mine. The lines are smooth and the general effect harmonious. | consider it one of the most becom- ing hairdresses | have yet worn. BIBLE QUESTIONS and Answers QUESTIONS, 1, Who was the father of Daniel? 2. Who was King of Judea at the time of Christ's birth? 3. What was Mordecai's employ ment? 4. Who found Moses in the bul.” rushes? In what book was the birth. of John the Baptist foretold? 6, Why did God destroy the world? ANSWERS. 1, David was the father of Daniel 2. Herod the Great was King of Juden at the time of Christ's birth, 3. Mordeeal held an office in the household of the King. 4, An Exyptian prineess found Moses in the buirushes, ' 5. The birth of John the Baptist was foretold in Luke I, 6. God destroyed the world because of its hopoless wickedness, Copyright, 1022, ‘Triangle Feature Service Going Down! 1 took oc- EAR READER: D casion the other day to copy down the following: “Things that do not in any wise concern me should not re- ceive my attention,” It me to me that thie sen- tence, with its wonderful word- ing, very pat to-day. 4 There are so many people wha have nothing to do, yet who are willing to help or try to help some one else with advice and suggestions which cost nothing, By “butting in” on this thing and that thing our minds be- come cluttered with a lot of trash until, at the end of the day, we are #0 tired and weary we don’t know what to do. Perhaps it might be better to put the sentence this way: Mind your own business! Yours very truly, ALFALFA SMITH,