The evening world. Newspaper, June 19, 1922, Page 19

*“Nagged”’ Out of It By Sophie Irene Loeb by Press Publishing Co, First of a Series of Articles. 0," but the unlike Tennyson's brook, ly not so musical. of the woman trials and lations «of man who sy rts. 6 of my wife,'' he said ers in my great efforts reminding me that this wasn't done, and even it was impossible to or ound do called every other grievance of it. mean things. jong as I was.” _ And this is the case with many f@ man. Even a henpecked worm will turn. The trouble with the nagging woman is that she never s0es the good things her husband does or balances them with his shortcomings. . In other words, she magnifies his faults and minimizes his virtues, and she never has anything for which to be thankful, except when she sleeps. roman something like this: pur happy home? busband and make him rect, constantly correcting @ very worst thing you Ihe ~most peaceful would him instead of the best iid-mannered man ho t jaw, a fashin and eye tone in his voi ing wife I believe there ought to be a ade against tt. 1 jould be adjudged a * ercised in her case. Webster terms a scold: “A troublesome and angry woman who, by brawling and wrangling lamong her neighbors, breaks the uublic peace, increases discord and becomes a nuisance to the neigh- borhood; a clamorous, rude wom- ng 4 wife into court on the and ition as a seold it, many a nai Ink twice hefo it what she usua © fails, from Friend ent treatment, and she rds on the desert air punish n WOU he y gets, victim of constant:abuse for thi that. it life is so short and th rriage is merely a matter of married life is another matter? effect of kind as against tand that a soft answer husband? Furthermore, onalities creep in, When, t, and that there is nothing s bas a dead love hen, oh, ht, 1922 (New York Evening World) ‘EN may come and men may nagging woman goes on forever— but Oh, the tragedy nagging =~ the tribu- the must constantly he ar her harrowing volee. “And it is not always a high fe aneteee, pitched voice," husband told me, who is now with his lawyers In the divores “The scientist who is looking or perpetual motion better study the I never did anything right, in her es, and if I did anything wrong it never forgiven or forgotten. All uring our married life I was a walk- Ing apology for the most trivial mat- to keep “She had such a cruel, cutting way that if she she ontinued to worry and fret about it just the same, and whenever she got good and mad’ about anything, she she ever had and I never heard the “What a memory that woman had When I look back I wonder that I was patient as I would like to talk to the nagring Don't lou realize that you are digging your grave-—or at least the grave of Don't you under- f that if you are striving to help more him is can do? become arrelsome. You bring out the worst Many a developed a a rebel- e because of be- | ae put on the defensive by The tongue is mightier an the sword and more destructive law *hink a woman ‘ommon scold,"” ith all the old-fashioned punishment ‘his same upplieation should be de in private life—within the home. inct. If it were possible to he nagged once when all Husband is wastes her When, ov, when will women learn t they can make or wamake a man this horrible habit? For it is a n he stopped. It ix up to The quiet man will crawl il where he never has any m to laugh when he finds himself hen, oh, when will women realize after all, w, hen, oh when, will the wife try words and kind 8 crabbed manners? n if there is a bitter pill, why not ar-cout it? It is "nuch easier to fe and usually does the work with b pain. hen, oh, When will women un- keepeth when love crawls oh, when will women un- tand that one may lose the habit loving just the same as any other when will she learn WHY MEN LEAVE HOME The Man Who Is Nagged Out of It Says: “Yes, There Is ‘No Place Like Home,’ and It Is a Good Thing There Is Not!" that the road to reform is reached oniy by the way of love, and that she who marries a man to reform him not only loses his love but him also? Many a woman thinks that because she possesses her husband, because she has a marriage certificate, it gives her the right to anything. However, she soon finds that though possession may be nine points of. the iaw it loses out to the one point of love. The nagging woman reminds me of a piece of furniture in tHe house whose presence we know only by the annoying creaks. And usually sucn women chain down their husbands w their nagging ways. If they would only realize that a loose rein invites co-operation in the drive of double harness and that a little Iberty is relished by the best of husbands! If every woman would only be a little introspective, ghe would learn that what she is trying to do by her constant tirades fs to hold the hus- band fast to her. The truth is that the magnet that draws the wife's way is charged with the substance of consideration. The ons way to avoid nagging is to overlook the trifles that, if argued, become magnified. The way to hap- piness is paved with sacrifice— especially sacrificing one’s own desire to vent anger—anger mainly brought on by one’s self. And, finally, let it be known that everyday experience has shown that even little flares of temper will soon develop a conflagration in which a woman's happiness and that of her husband are burned beyond redemp- tion. The next article will be about the man who was “starved” out of his home, ae What They’re Wearing The Expert Dope on Smart Rags for Tidy Dressers By Neal R. O’Hara Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. — Handsome Habiliments Discreetly Described by Dame Fashion's Favorite Son. HAT the should Shown well-dressed Alec wear this season. by accompanying word chart of our expert, who calls a spade an implement and a shirt « negligee. Let's go: The really smart Pullman porter is this season wearing a voguish cha- peau featuring a Laring red tons. The cap is worn at a most engaging angle by the discriminating luggage toter, and a stiff visor of black patent leather sets off the snappy effect. The sartorial of the Pullman set are informal perspiration in the smarter railroad stations this year, ‘The beads are small but numerous, and fashion de- that they be caught in red a handkerchiefs at frequent in- A choice mode that has also found favor with the Pullman set js i gray blouse with. pockets inlaid with small change. leaders also wearing beads of For the well-dressed young man of ht or ten months, fashion’s arbiter’ have decreed an innovation that is at once intriguing and at the same time swank, It is an outfit of triangular trousers, deftly embellished with safe ty pins and hanging looscly from the young man’s waist. The smart material for this trouser effect is imported blotting paper from on The First Mayor of New York HE first Mayor of New York, Thomas Willett, was inducted into office 257 years ago, June 1665, Gov. Richard Nicolls, the English Executive of the future Fimpire State, was responsible for the of Willett, who was a wealthy merchant and trader and had a town house in New York and a country estate in Rhode Island, where his body was buried in 1674, Willett, who was a shrewd business man, governed New York honestly and well, and after his first term was made Mayor again in 1667 The municipal government of which he was the head was composed of five Aldermen, three Dutch and two English, and a Sheriff, althougn police duties devolved largely upon the Mayor, and he was Police Magis- trate as well. He had his troubles with excise matters, and his conduct of police affairs was subjected to much criticism, a precedent being thus established which has been adhered to thro tae \uministrations o Mayor Willett's ninety-four succes- sors. On the whole, however, Willett was popular with the English, Dutch and Indians, and came nearer to giv- ing general satisfaction than any other Mayor of New York. 13, first appointment the Orient, although the more plebeian cotton cloth may be used and still af- ford rakishness. Tailors of the better sort will be busy cutting this modish trouser this summer, and the truly cautious dresser who cares ts advised to place his measurements in haste. The outfit described is frankly in- formal yet as the mid-Elizabethan poet had it, ‘What is so rare as a loose pair of pants?’ And that, for- svoth, is the nub of the matter. Let the desultory dressers go hang! If the ten-months-old codger would be comme il faut, let him heed this hot tip and equip himself with the swagger apparel descriebd. The three-cornered trouser may be creased or go bagev, at the optior the wearer. Its most tantalizing vir- tue is that it permits a free movement of the legs, and as the old French chanson so aptly put tt, “*Honi soit qui table d‘hote, Voila! The glass of fashion has shifted somewhat for the meticulous second- story worker this year. The old blunderbus and blackjack are de trop. To-day the modish burglarizer—or to-night, to be perfectly frank—is wearing a lavalliere of semi-precious skeleton keys pressed closely to the hip, A highly jewelled automatic ts off this outfit and ca s its wearer to the innermost circles, Cor- reet usage now demands, in addition, the use of rubber gloves for evening wear at functions where fingerprints are lable to be important Bellhops in the better grade re- treats are wearing a snobbish embel- lishment this season consisting of a form-fitting jacket, smartly speckled With brass buttons. The bellboys of the superior stratum are also wearing @ cleverly contrived expression that indicates anything less than half dol- lar tips is absolutely taboo. Last in our chronicle of voruish dressers is the panhandler de luxe, This gentry, always abreast of the modes, affect a rakish worn-away top coat this year, with porous-patched trousers hanging below. A quaint sign reading, ‘1 am blind and deaf," confers distinction when hung around the well-dressed ne and a shower bouquet of shoestrings, held in the arm, sets off the natty effect The Day of Rest! You STOP MUM JOHN OU KICK IF WE HAVE OMPANY AND You IF WE HAVE COMPANY TheSummer BUNG HAVE YOu ARE THE ONE WHO ALWAYS Meal ON A GELATINE BASIS By Mrs, Christine Frederick Household Efficiency Expert, Author “Household Engineering.” right, 1922 (New York Evening World) pie by "Press "Fublishing “Co. HAT to have for dinner on « W hot summer's night is even more of a problem than usus! to the housewife. One must ent something, but it certainly must rot be the eterna! round of heating steak, unsavory hash or the ubiq- ultous meat ball! What then? Ah, } but decide to put the summer meal on a gelatine basis and an en- tirely new vista of dishes opens to q } the discouraged 3 cook. For gelatine must not be re- ? garded solely as the main ingredient Hy of wabbly desserts or invalid dishes, . but has @ real personality as the main ' food of the menu. i All gelatine is treated the same, first } soaking in cold water to permit fullest swelling of the particles, then bein ‘ i added either to a hot liquid or being further dissolved by setting in a pan of warm water. It should appear just like water or thin cream when added to various dishes. Hot water must ‘ . ‘ ; never be poured on it at first, as this will harden it and make it like rubber, Many meats, practically all vege tables and fruits, and some forms cooked fish may be combined wii gelatine. In such forms the dishes ui» spoken of as ‘‘aspic,"’ vegetable jel!) or ‘fruit gelatines, Either cook« meat or fish, carefully seasoned a neatly diced, may be added to gelati\ together with bouillon or their ow liquor. This mixture is then pou: into any preferred mould, such as | bread pan, star, or round glass bakin pan. It is then allowed to cool an! later placed on or near ice until per fectly firm. To unmould, wrap in ; warm towel, invert on platter, an 4 serve with mayonnaise or appropriat: sauce. Nothing could be more refreshing to look at, nor more enjoyable to eat « an evening during this hot spell tho a jellied vegetable salad, a be tongue moulded in gelatine, a pea an tomato gelatine cup and many othe: point of view gelatine dishes are ve: The Jarr Family By Roy L. Copyright, RS. JARR appeared in the door- way and beckoned to Mr. Jarr, who obediently dropped his newspaper at the gesture and fol- lowed her to the window by the air- shaft. ‘What is it?’ he whispered, for Mrs. Jarr had her finger on her I\ps, signifying that he be quiet. She nudged him but did not answer, and then Mr. Jarr was aware of a fem- inine voice up the airshaft. “IT wish you'd pay some attention to what I am saying,’ said the voice whimperingly. ‘You are just like my cousin, Roswell, who married a widow with eight children, Sometimes he would be silent for days, and other times he would carry on like a ma- niac, just because his oldest stepson would be shooting on the roof with a cat rifle, and sometimes broke win- dows and nearly hit some of the neighbors’ children, and he wanted to send that poor boy to a reform school!** “This don't interest me,’’ whis- pered Mr. Jarr, and attempted to break away, but Mrs. Jarr held on to him, “And my cousin, Roswell, nevei had any luck, either!" the complain- ing voice went on, ‘‘He was hurt in a railroad accident, and although he got $10,000 from the railroad com pany his store burned down not long afterward and was a total loss. though he collected the insurance everybody said it was a warning be- cause he did not love his step- children."* | Could You Earn the ‘‘Fliteh of Bacon’’? — HE first modern revival of the T celebrated English "fliteh of bacon"’ custom took place 221 years ago, June 7, 1701, when Will- fam Parsley, a butcher of Much Faston, and his spouse appeared in court at Dunmow, and, having con- vinced a jury of five old maids that they had not quarrelled within the Space of three yeurs and were in the of cun- Joyment of a perfect sta nublal felicity, were rewarded with a tlitch or “gammon’* of bacon The Dunmow custom, thus revived, had its beginning in the middle ages, when the jolly celibate monks of Dunmow Priory offered to bestow a fitch of bacon uvon any couvle who, after a twelvemonth of matrimony, caine forward and made oath at Dun- mow that they had not had a quarrel, never regretted their marriage, anil would do it over again if they lad the opportunity. So far as the records show only three filtehes of bacon were awarded the Dunniow monks, After the suppression of religious establishments the offer was with- drawn, but in 1701 it was revived and William Parsley arfd his wife proved to the satisfaction of the spinster Jury their right to the prize. Since then there have been many notable ceremonies at Dunmow, when couples enjoying the highest degree of mat- rimonial felicity have been acclaimed by multitudes not so blessed by Hy- men. by McCardell 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. Mr. Jarr wiped his brow, but Mrs Jarr held him to hear the rest. “And there's your Aunt Fanny, in Newark, who has fits,"’ sald the fem inine voice, and is cruel to her step- daughter and accuses her of jumping out from behind doors and screaming at ler till it brings on attacks. Why don’t you answer me? Why don't you say something?"" Mr, and Mrs. Jarr heard a confused mumbling in masculine tones but could not make out just what was said “And I have been cleaning house all this day, cleaning after you," the female voice went on, ‘for my chil- dren are as tidy as they can be: and I sound the leg of the sofa broken and cigar ashes behind it, Everybody asked me how I stand the things I do so patiently! Mrs. Dilger was talking about it to me just yesterday und she told me that I was imposed on simply because T never said a word in the way of fault finding or grum- bling, Her very words were ‘You have the temper of an angel and the patience of a saint.’ Now where are you going to? The very minute that T endeavor to say a word to you in my own behuif or for my children, oy for your own good, you grab your hat and rush out of the house! I want somebody to talk to, and 1 a t going to put up with the way you go out night after night and leave me all alone! You sit right down there and don't you start to smoke and smell up my house! I make the house comfortable and keep it clean for you, and that's all the thanks I get. And put down that book! You don't care how rude you are with me, and it ts the height of rudeness to read when @ person is trying to talk nicely to you. Never mind your book and never mind your pipe! You can make your- xelf comfortable in your own home, I hope, without reading or smoking Other men sit down and discuss the affairs of the day with their wives Mr. Jarr, upstairs, does it; Mr. Dil ger, across the way, does It; but all you do is to sit and gloom at me and my children, and if I say a word to you, you grab your hat and run out! “All right, go out in sulky silence and stay out till all hours, as usual, if you insist! But if you go out of to-night I will lock the doors, and if you attempt to come in I'll scream for protection. I can stand it no k n Mr, and Mrs. Jarr heard a door slam, and then there was silence “How would you like to have a wife hat?’ whispered Mrs. Jarr. 1 haye—sometimes,"* said Mr, Jarr, } he grabbed his het and ran out this house Ni rN Habits That Copyright, 1922 SHRUGGING THE SHOULDERS. WONDER if you are unconsctously guilty of that rude habit of shrug- ging the shoulders? It gives the body such a careless look while you are doine it, and besides, its repe- tition several times during the course of the day has a effect your body. It would be all right if you held the body in an upright posi- tion while you shrugged the shuulders and el- very bad on evated both of them at the same angle, but this is very seldom the case. You ordinarily crouch the shoulders together and then raise one thoulder, usually with a forward jerk. You see, by repeating this movement you are exereising the body but In the wrong direction. “If you insist upon shrugging the houlders, do so with a backward mo- Jon and you will at the same time rid of round shoulders instead of en couraging them. It {# not only the effect it has upon your body, that T varit to impress upon you, but the tin »reasion it gives of an unladylike and careless way of expressing yourself. Every movement tho body makes ts expressive, That's why we have such distinct personalities. 1 have been trying to rectify some of the bad habits that many of you have fallen into because I know it gives a wrong mpression of you. You should appoint yourself a con stant vigilance committee of one until you have discovered just how many of these little faults you have. It is often helpful in overcoming the shrugging of the shoulders to clasp the hands in back of you when you fee! in the mood of expressing your disdain or unwillingness to answer by a shrug of the shoulders, At the first glance you may not sew the close relationship between your good appearance and these littie bat habits that reveal mome carelonmnons of mannerism, but to me a pretty face ta By Doris Doscher - (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing desirable because all the tngredien! and the entire dish can be made in t!) dishes of this type. From the labo { Prepare, boil and dice veg: ‘ forenoon. e B tables, or clean and cut fruits, or ° Mar eau y range the meat first; be careful |) ; seasoning the stock or the bouillo. used, add the dissolved gelatine # \ the dish is done! é Co. always marred if the person owning it has not also a beautiful carriage and a gracious way of saying and do ing things. It seems that they all should go together and it gives one 4 sort of jolt when we find the contrary to be true. If these faults, especially the shrug- ging of the shoulders, detract so from the good appearance of a pretty girl, Many milk dishes made stiff by ge! atine are much liked by children an: | should be given them in place of the | usual dishes. Who wants to eat « fried egg on a hot morning? But whe will not relish a cool, delicately fx vored egg custard, made solid by « spoon of gelatine? Indeed, the entire family will relish even as the mais dish of a summer supper those recipc called variously ‘Spanish cream, how much more should her plain sis- “fruit sponge," “‘Jelly charlotte’ and a ter beware of forming any of them! Others which are combinations of i It is very easy to forget the plainness, milk, egxs, gelatine and fruit. It |» | in fact, even homeliness of a face if its dificult, perhaps, to make the fami; ¥ owner has such poise and grace that believe that they are securing as muc!, she gives a charming impression as a nourishment from a ‘Spanish cream t whole. cool and refreshing, as they woul! . So watch carefully that none of from a hot omelet, but nevertheless i | these careless mannerisms become a ts true, Why will people fail to se | fixed habit with you and like a dis. that a cold dish has as much foc! | value as a hot dish, if it contains the same ingredients? | cordant note mar the harmony of the expression of your individual charm, Maxims of a Modern Maid yy Marguerite Mooers Marshall... J (New Tork Evening World) by Press Pubiishing Co. When one sees the large, worshipping eyes even an_ intelligent business girl turns on the mental two-by-four who is her imme diate official superior, one wonders why people still say that worl in an office tends to “defeminize” a woman. Cop ant, 1 cilia starinatis jit seepitiie's later HE easiest way to make a child want anything is to put it jus’ of his reach, and the easiest way to make a MAN want ANY’ is to show him he can go “fust so far.” and When a man comes home with a hangdog expression and Afte, for his wife, only a fool wonders if he has those things which he ought not to have d/* woman knows—anu lets it go at that. oe , +75 and 1,00 The gir) of yesterday hunted for Aased here. “irl of to-day—i? we may believe t for some one else's husband. It is a question whether the life, engaged in a never-ending nly! peace-at-any-pricers do more t Institution in the critical eyes Person, Not all the adjectives ever invented so fat’ eyed attention. Orce you get it over that yor a matter of me before he speaks the fate’ A man calla a woman unre: $1.24 whereas he always has a good reason f Hinks Ht Ne atvermand the best manufacturers, in a “Fleeting shades of emotion,” te count percales and madras. 1 from the modern heroine's coun een and heliotro| fleet hor make-up ts more Dery, blues, tan, gr h ” Al sizes and sleeve lengths. Whot the argumentative hur ‘ ‘a often merely exhaustion, ae ta