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tion Which Haste Copyright, 1922, the triangle is made. broken homes could be saved { thé Fight time. ‘The big reason for the break-up or ie continued misery lies in’ the Mméthod of treatment of the trouble. Many a sorrow could be saved if but things were kept in mind to. avoid — being “hot -headed and hasty. ‘The thing to be care- two main ful about, mon parian not to raise “ in” and take venge- ance on the husbafe or wife, as the ease may be, who has come under the influence of another—a third party Take the case of Sup- Pose, my dear woman, your house Was located’in a nice large field and You wore very comfortable and happy there and you had carefully built up your home and put every safeguard eround it Suppose you went out and jnaclear y you saw a cloud coming—a cloud at bespoke a storm. What would Would you ral! and rant at in com- the wife. at all. You would proceed to protect your home. You would go about clos- ing Windows and doors, You would take things Inside that might he destroyed, Pérhaps you wouht pull down the shades and make a little fire to create a comfy and) cozy at- mosphere against the gathering gloom outside. In short, you would be about it. You would not stop to create @ panic in your heart because of the atorm, but you would defend yourself against it. It is the same thing with home. Should you discover that you Husband has learned to like anothe woman, if you love your husband y: Wilk move with deliberation and ca! and consideration—reason I am speaking now of the woman who really loves her husband and wants to retain him ana hold th: ‘Which is hers. Oh, yes, of course it is easy enough to start a row—upbraid the man and end things. But the thing to do is to fight not with him but for him in the interest of both of you. And such « fight can be accomplished by peaceful means if the woman is big enough to bear with it until she has conquered. I have a very dear friend who was able, in her time of trouble, to muster such a fine spirit as not only made her a bigger and stronger’ woman but preserved her happiness and her home. The other woman was a friend of hera—who was also engaged in busi- ness with her husband, And when he became infatuated with that woman, the fife saw it all, knew about their secret meetings and their deceit. She'said nothing, but set about to Win him back—away from the other woman. For she loved him dearly and she thought that perhaps if his infatuation was but temporary, this Was the time for her to use caution discretion. +She went on about her household @uties as usual, prepared his meals and especially the things he liked most. She aided him in his work as usual and acted as though nothing had happened. When he made excuses to get out to see the other woman, she always told him that she had something else to do or was going to call on a friend. Of course, she suffered frightfully, but she wanted to give herself every chance. One day she found them together when they least expected it. Her hueband had lied about where he was going. Of course then she could no longer keep the matter a secret. They knew that she knew. She then told her husband thar she would go on just as before, but tat ‘as long as he made love to the other Woman he could expect no show of affection from her. She wold do everything to help him and continue to do her duty, and if the time came when he could actually decide whicli of the two he loved the most, then they would adjust their differences. And this woman renewed her effort to be kind. Not by word or deed did she remind him about this again. Al- r ways, always he knew that she knew. ¢ And the very fineness of her spirit a» time went by almost made her herolc in his eyes. They were very near each other all the time, yet very far apart. And there was no bitter- woge. Ne nagging, nb scolding. nd the day came when remorse {22 shame came to him in gfeat de- gree and he felt humble indeed. And what is more, he told her so, This was years ago and they have been very happy ever since. The tact and tolerance of this wom- ap won for her that which she wanted most—her husband. And if you want a thing strongly enough you will go Uirough much to get it. Now while this particular action might not work in every case, yet the woman herself or the man, by prac- tising some patience, even though it be hard, might avert’ a catastrophe sand years of sorrow The reason the “eternal triangie” often falls to be solved is becausa eee & Wounded pridé that refuses to face the facts and, insists that he or ‘Mee the inalienable right to her sensible your ‘res 4 =| of rrre. FF When the Family “Circle” Becomes a “Triangle” Tact and Patience May Save a Situa- : Methods Would Only Make Worse By Sophie Irene Loeb. (New York “Evghing World) by Press Publishing Co HEN the ether woman or the other man enters into the family circle Then the trouble begins. and the Wrong And how many f only the right action were taken at THE EVENING WORLD, TUESDAY, MAY 28, 1923. GSD Senior Statistics Near-Graduates of Swamproot College Bare Their Breasts ‘By Neal R. O (New York Evening World) by Press Pubtiating Co. Name Favorite Actors, Authors, Race Tracks and Recipes Without Fear of Contradiction. Qt esr la submitted to matte, $90 admitted they smoked Copyright, 1922, the senior class of Swamproot cigarettes, 115 admitted they bought College revealed the following cigarettes and 275 admitted they borrowed them. Thirty-eight “fur tistics WA Of 479 sentors, 102 had never kissed nished their own, matches. There A pu i SEE # girl, 144 had never been slapped in were also scattering votes for hash- AIR. ON the face and eighteen had never been {sh and optum. YOUR. thrown out of a dance hail. The fay- —— orite actress of the Swamproot boys was Cora Livingston first, Margot Fighty-eight’ of the seniors tka Asquith second and Clara Hamon third, The sentors’ favorite color was rye and their favorite taste was dari brown. Of the 479, three had never worn knickerboeker pants and golf stockings; eighteen had never said “absolutely wonderful” or “porfectly marvellous”; four didn't part their hair in the middle; three were bald, and elght didn't have college initials inlaid in their pipes. The Hardware Dealers’ Record was husband, or wife, as the case may be While a wife of husband may have the legal right, yet the human équa tion cannot always be gettled by law. Usually the wife of aman who has fallen in love with some one else will start fo Mug and provoke quarrels or will try to chain him down or to de mand accounting as to his every movement. ‘These are the worst weapons with which to fight for him. If she would sacrifice a bit of pride and retain hee womanly dignity and try in various ways to make him see the wrong done, she can save the situation times without number As I have said before, forged chains of law lose out to spider threads of love. Many a man or woman who is drawn away but temporarily makes it become permanent because of the */T LooKs You THINKS IT'S the favorite magazine of the sentors, with the Police Gazette second and “One Thousand Ford Jokes” third. Among the daily papers the Swarp- root men liked Daily Racing Dope first and the Paris edition of the Omaha Hornet second.’ A recount has been demanded for third choice. The seniors voted Nathan Vish, the Never been engaged to Peggy Hop- kins. The colleges most favored, nex: to Swamproct, were MeCluskey's School for Becoming Travelling Sales- men first, Bryn. Mawr second and Scranton Postal College third. The favorite authors of the 1922 men are Hoyle first, Henry Ford second and the gent that wrote Henry’ Ford's autobiography third. Among the classical authors, Boccaccio ranked first, Joe Miller second and Ontar Khayyam placed. For after graduation work the sen- lors named the most ideal occupa- tions in ment; millionaire; third, auctioneer for Fred Beauvai: follows: F. Ziegteid First, tape expert measuring depart- second, booze tester for blind Private correspondence, For their favorite college aport 50 AW/OMA HAIR. otk actions of his legal partner, who has aggravated the conditions as to SUSPICIOUS class bootlegger, as the one most likely to’ succeed; Nathan Vish, the make their living together tmpos- class bootlegger, as the most popular sible. ary EH ) senior, and Nathan Vish, the class There is « e and sane way of si bootlegger, as the one who has done breaking up the “triangle” and that — the most for Swamproot College. In answer to the question of which was the more to be desired, athletic prow- ess or scholastic excellence, 410 voted in favor of cake-cating and 69 were scattering. Of the 479 seniors, 116 did not drink before entering college and seventy-eight do not drink now. Eleven seniors who took wood alcohol fe by patience, and tactfulness, Look Your Best By Doris Doscher Copyright (New York Evening World) by Prema Publishing Co. { EAR Miss Doscher mer | am troubled with my »y Mistake were not recorded as vot- answering ing. In the question- eyes. Either | get styes or they itch. Last year | had glass remedy this condition. | them for reading and in the offic My sight is good. tion comes from eye strain, ao- cording to the occulist. | bathe my eyes in boracie a ery day, but it di relieve me much, Ph to stop th If you improve the general heath by exercise and eat plenty of laxative fruits and vegeta- bles and drink plenty of milk you will not get, styes. For the itching and inflammation frequent bathings in a tea made from pouring — boiling water over chamo- mile flowers is very soothing and healing, or you may use a tea- spoonful of Epsom salts to a quart of water. Since your occupation means continual applica- tion of your eyes you will improve and strengthen them and avoid eye strain if you learn to take this exercise: First look up as far as possible and then down and to each side, and then com- pletely revolving around. This changes the range of vision and strengthens the strained cords. ae: yack in your useful column a remedy for halitosis. Could y Hl me what will curl the eyelashes without ruining them? GRATEFUL. Offensive breath (halitosis), if not twaused by decayed teeth, is usually a disarrangement of the functioning of the digestion and can only be cured by improving the general health, avoiding constipation and drinking plenty of water between meals. Pieces of charcoal, the'size of a hazel nut, eaten several times during the day are helpful. The eyelashes are easily trained by allowing the finger tips to bend them upward, Dear Miss Doscher: tam a girl of twenty-one years of age, five feet, six inches tall and weigh 174 pounds. Would you kindly let me know what my cor- rect weight should be? MARGIE, Your correct weight should be 186 pounds. But you can allow ten pounds over that and a little more if your bones are large, But even then you are overweight, so I advise you to change your diet and take up system- atic exercises. “ZED sere FOR A poraN's HAS Re Copyright, 19: ID you take your medicine?’* asked Mrs. Jarr. “I'm feeling pretty god, replied Mr. Jarr, which was not a swering the question, and h his hat and began to whistle Dances With Me." . “Never mind about Frances danc- ing with you,’’ said Mrs. Jarr, with wifely persistence; ‘even if you are feeling better it is especially danger- ous to have a cold at this time of the year, and you'd be all right if you took your médiciné, I don't want you to be sick on my hands, and you haven't answered me—did you take your quinine pills?" “Yes, I did,’ replied Mr. Jarr, and to prove it he brought forth from his pocket a round, flat pasteboard pill box and shook it. There was no suund whatever, ‘'There were a dozen of them this morning and they're all * Mr. Jarr added, “and if you don't believe it, listen to the ringing in my ears."* “That there's no quinine pills in that box proves nothing,” remarked Mrs. Jarr sceptically, ‘Maybe you threw them away.” “You'll have to believe me,” replied Mr. Jarr, “for I have taken them, and my ears are ringing so that 1 think you should be able to hear the sound yourself.” “Well, I believe you, although you I speaking of wool fabrics a buyer who has just returned from Europe remarked that in Paris ribbed materials are leaders for suits and tailored garments, She an- nounced that she had ordered some stunning costumes in white light weight broadcloth and white kasha. She says: “White is yery much in evidence, but for immediate wear and for summer travelling we are showing some very smart costumes In brown, tan and navy blue which really are the leading colors in suits besides the white.”" The well dreased womam selects her shoes with the same care as she docs her hats. Never has there been such 4-variety in footwear as the shops are Glimpses Into New York Shops presenting this season, The sports shoes, especially, cover a wide range in color and the two-tone effects are the favorites. Vor legitimate sports wear attractive two-tone models in saddle effects with the corrugated rubber soles are popular. Black hos been the favorite spring footgear for dressy wear, and ia these the patent leather leads, with suede as second choice. The combination of the two makes a smart shoe. In white shoes, which are as fashionable an the black, buck or buck and canvas combinations arc Madame Mode's choice. Most women prefer the Cuban heel, and this merchant advises against the very low heel for women who must wear shoes as long an they can be repaired, He terms thia a “flapper style’ and predicts that it will be doomed before another seavon, The Jarr Family By Roy L. (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. McCardell know, no matter how the quinine made your ears ring, I couldn't hear it,’ said Mrs, Jarr, “‘At the same time, I think you should to bed. I'll make you a hot lemonade and if you have a good sweat, you'll be all right to-morrow.” “Ain't going to bed, ain't going to take any hot drinks, ain't going to have any swe retorted Mr. Jarr. “What I need most is a good supper.” "Oh, dear, I thought you'd be sick this evening, afd I didn't go to any trouble about supper,” said Mrs. Jarr. “The children and I had a light meal @ little while ago, and as you would wo to work to-day wi you looked 80 bad, I think you shouldn't eat any thing. You know the old saying, ‘Starve a cold and feed a fever?" “Ien't it ‘Heed a cold and starve a fever?!" asked Mr, Jarr, ‘I'm hun- ery.” “f think you are wronj sald Mrs. Bf “In fact, I'm sure you are, But have your own Way, as you always do. I'll cook you @ chop for supper, and meanwhile you can demonstrate thé Higher Thought. Say to yournelf, and concentrate your mind while you are saying it, T’m not ill, There is no iliness, All is Thought!’ That's what Mrs. Stryer is doing about getting stout. She says it's so much better than taking violent exercise, or diet- ing. She eats whatever she likes, and feels ever so toh better than she used to,” “But she's fatter than ever,” re- Dlied Mr. Jart. “What difference does that make’ anawered Mra, Jarr. “Mrs, Stryver Says that Mind is everything, and as long as she thinks she's getting thin, it is much better than paying a pliy Siclan or a physical teacher in a gymnasium.” “But she's paying a mind-curist isn't she ked Mr. Jarr ‘Well, that's what I askea Was the reply, ‘‘and she said it was the better way, because it proved that one is more spiritual when one exerts mental power.” “That what cured me," said Mr Jarr emphatically. "I have been say ing that I am not ill, and that T am hungry., What do you say to us going out to @ nice restaurant and have @ fine dinner and then go to a theatre together?’ “The very thing!” erled Mrs. Jar wayly, “I have house nerves, and that sort of mental stimulation would cure them.” her Copyright, The Love Story of a New York Working Girl. coant New ¥ S aa Lee, 0 fellow, satonetri. ine er acalse” weate this A YOUTHFUL TRIANGLE. ARGIB walked calmly to the stationery store, bought a paper and turned to the “Sum- mer Boarders Wanted’ ads. Her keen @ ran through column after column of people out on Long Island advertising for early eummer boarders and finally lt on one which sounded good to her, There wore several others which she clipped from the paper, but she felt certain that this one out in Hunting- ton was the one which her mother would approve of and advise her to go to. Then she called up the people at the department store and told the head of the glove department that she needed @ rest and wished to resign. “Why tesign?’’ asked the head of the department. ‘Take two weeks off at our expenge and the place will be open to you when you return, We have liked your work, Miss Mindon, and figure that you make a number of sales by your kind attention and pleasing manner.’ This was uhusual and the tears sprang tO Margie's eyes in apprecta- tion of the evident leniency on the part of the store. An hour later two large » packed full of Margie's best clothes, including a tweed suit with knickers and a very stunning black and silver e¥ening gown which she had worn when Spafford took her to the theatre several times “T imagine I'll need the knickers for y tom it ¢ were Jong hikes, but £ have my doubts about the evening gown. laughed Margie as she kiased her mother goodby. * “Well, [ thought you'd better take the evening gown along. her mother with @ merry twinkle in hor eyes, “While the farm folks may not apprectate it, if any of your Charmings get it tnto their Prince boods “MARGIE” By Caroline Crawford 1922, (New York Evening World) by Pre: eaitnrgery Minden, nineteen, Helge te sugport her widowed mother Peace C1 Publishing Co. Trorking, at Her most {ntimate iy and wee to conie and see you, you might need it. You never can tell."’ As Margie sat back in the express which left Jamacia tor an hour's spin out to Huntington she felt a new hold on life. Stie was really running away from Willis Channing. She knew that if she remained in town he would call very soon and again she would have to face the problem of “yes or no" to his proposal But as the train sped on through the fresh ploughed flelds and she watched bronzed farmers und their sons sow seeds into the earth life did not seem a8 narrow and set as it had in the shop behind the glove counter after day and at home t little living room “This is really a youthful triangle,” she told herself wonder, how 1 will all work out," J her mother not to day homely tell Channing where she was, for she well knew he would take the next train out, “Just tell him that { had to go away and I'll be Hack within two weeks or perhaps sooner,” she told her mother. ‘‘He'll know I'm thinking out bis answer for him, but if he can’t reach me I can think things out my own way and take my own time,"* So there was Channing wondering about her, Meanwhile dering about Spafford ning away from her’ It had been five days sir told him t she was in lo him and advised hi to prow sli Was |) won to i Never had he neglected her so long. A telephone cull, a letter er 4 tong call in the evening at least twice @ week had been his customary ever since they first met All she could do now Out here away from the bustling city and free from the dd tribula tions of a salesgir) M elt that the waiting would be © she felt that her dreams and id Charming would her and within two weeks she ‘would how this youthful triangle would tuen out To-Morrow—A Farme View. way 10 walt trials now tte’s Point of Maxims of a a sex inferiority complex. WOMAN!” HEN a girl has had brothers, worked in an office beside me! erence, verse also occurs—as when the o. f. old men!"* she to succeed. By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Copyright, 1922 (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. The trouble with the old-fashioned woman was that she suffered from Instead of accepting a criticism as personal, she said—or thought—"Well, of course, I'm only” a The harder @ woman tries to please a man, the likely—such being the contrary nature of the beast- Swamproot boys favored parlor fodt- ball first, hammock swinging secorid and one-armed motoring third. °% answer to the query whether tity would prefer the varsity “S" or the Phi Beta Kappa key, nineteen ‘fa- vored the college letter, two akbar the scholars’ society and 458 pre: @ private latchkey. Many esow= edged a preference for the “3” witi: two perpendicular lines running through it. Of the entire senior class three had never overdrawn thelr checking accounts, Out of a total of 479, 405 owhed evening clothes and 406 dis- approved. of flappers using talcum powder on their arms. Modern to a co-educational college ani she may still have a king for th» creatures, but her respect for them falls somewhat short of rey If the new-fashioned woman shocks her old-fashioned sister, the ir 8. comments, enviously: “Mr. Joti» is so cléver—he marriéd off both his daughters to ri A psycho-analyst says that a man may be half in lo, with two women at once. better than no bread? In that case, ts half-a ip) Even the personally modest man has no sex modesiy He concedes that @ woman may prefer another male to himself, but he never dreams there are moments whyn she likes her own society, or the society of other women, better than that of any man at all, Although a woman may be trying her hardest to be economical, sho can’ help @ secret thrill of shoppers’ delight in the fact that she “jus: must” buy a birthday present for her husband, dancing slippers for hr daughter and a bathing sult for herself. Male condese: adjectives “bright ngion can ake a nearly perfect score with the two and “little’—coupted, of course, with “woman!” Conscience is a man's name for (1) the mood of disinclination; (2) the instinct of self-preservation; (3) the 1922, Copyright, ISH should be frequently included F in the menus during May, be- cause this is the month when the choice varieties are at their best and cheapest. In May the largest flounders are to be had-—the kind that are used for filet of sole, Shad te at its best and other seasonable fish are mackerel, bluefish, halibut, salmon and cod, BAKED SHAD. After cleaning and washing the shad stuff with following mixture: Soak three or four slices of bread in cold water unti! sufficiently soft to mash, add two tablespoonfuls of fat, one small onion grated, one table- spoonful each of chopped parsley and celery and one-fourth teaspoonful of sage: pepper and salt to taste. Poul- try seasoning may be substituted and one sinall egg will improve the dress- ing. Sprinkle fish with salt and pep- per and lay slices of salt pork or ba- con over the top. Add a little wat Some cooks prefer grape juice to wa‘ er; they use about a cupful and baste the fish frequently with this, SHAD ROE. jack shad is less expensive than a ror shad but moat cooks pre- ior the latter, ‘To prevent its spoiling they parboll the roe ten minutes in sulted water to which is added a little lemon juice, a small slice of onion and «tiny leat. After draining and couling they wrap it in waxed paper and put it in the refrigerator for an- other day's meal. Shad roe may be simply seasoned and broiled tive min lites on each alde on @ greased wire, then served with maitre d'hotel butter or it may be rolled in egg and crumbs and fried in deep fat. It makes a The delicious salad and bakes ni Savory cyoquettes can be made of it With a fork separate the tiny egess of the parboiled roe, Melt one table spoon of butter and stir in one table- Kpoon flour Slowly add three- fourths-cup of milk and cook until thick and smooth, Whip in one beaten Fish For May By Emilie Hoffman (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co. creeping lassitude of years, egg. Romove from fire, add the mashed roe, one-half teaspoon of pars- ley, one-half teaspoon salt, one-fourt! teaspoon each of pepper and paprika Tf roe has been cooked in plain water, add one tablespoon lemon juice and « few drops of onton juice. Pour on platter and when cool shape and fry in deep hot fat. The Housewife’s Scrapbook Copyright, 1988 (New Yor oy Press Publishing Co. Tie dark color In cauliflower is ing World) due to overcooking. It proba- bly also has a strong flavor, Overcooked cauliflower is really indi- gestible. Half an hour is sufficient cooking. Small heads or w! Pulled apart before cooking will be done in twenty minutes, Caullflower should be served without delay. If it must stand for any length of time it should be blanched then chilled with cold Water and reheated in salted bolling water when ready to serve. If it must be kept warm only for a short time cover the dish with @ plece of cheese - cloth | Protect Your Garments 7? Against Moths :