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¢ RRR AHR The Lesson in the Garland Case Safety of the Whole World Lies In the Keeping of Contracts If Cases Like the Garland’s}What Would Have Happened / Were to Be Condoned No Oath of Love Would Be Sacred, * * By Sophie Irene Loeb. ND now that the world at large has heard all sides of the Garland case, and the psychoanalysts have blamed it on the sub-conscious mind, and the free-lovers have roundly applauded the players in the drama, it would seem that a few plain, common sense facts are in order that we may still keep our equilibrium and that the earth may still continue to revolve at 23% degrees to the plane of its orbit. Just what would have hap. pened, | wonder, if Mrs. Gar- fand had walked into the home husband with young “Please let him live with us. | love him.” Such a thing is unheard of, The question is, would young Mr. Garland have been so noble about it ag his young wife? Would he have gone as quietly away as she and said he would wait till her love came back? I hardly think so. I think there would have been a nice little fist fight and Mr. Garland would have had a chance to be a hero once more. Oh yes, gentle reader, | am wearted of hearing of those who want to make a world of their own and go on “happily ever after.” The best thing that has been done n the whole miserable business is the parting of Miss Conrad and Mr. Garland, and I hope this young woman sticks to her decision to stay away, That's what she should have done long ago. No one knew better than she the very first moment at which he was learning to love her. No one knew better than she that the wife wouldn't like it. No one knew better than she that eventually the break would come and somebody would be unhappy. And the sama thing is true of Garland. These two young people seemed to think that the greatest thing in life was to stand by their love and defy the world. They thought they were tine and noble when they did this. And what is the truth? They were merely satisfying them- Ives. There is something big- ger, much bigger in life than i If, and that is elf in the great cause of love. The big souls those who think of themselves last ind not first, as these people have of the world are done, If there were not people who were willing to give up something, the world would go backward in- stead of forward and happines would be built on sinking sands of illusion. Yes, even twenty times this young man says he could imagine himself in love with somebody and call it hap- piness, But the misery and the sor- vow and the pain he would leave in lis track in the pursuit of his own pleasure cannot be estimated. And who would pay? Not he! 1aps innocent children. This young man made a marriage contract with a young woman, The psychounalysts say this was made with his conscious mind, and his sub- conscious mind fell in iove with somebody else. In other words, the ight hand is not responsible for what the left hand does, What rot! » truth is, this other girl came along; she was attractive, and he had grown a bit tired of 1 wife—per- ns they were too much together— and he wanted to change off a little. But what about that marriage contract? The safety of the whole world lies in the keeping of con- tracts and breaking them only to the satisfaction of both parties. Would that same young man have dared to make a contract even with s landlord for his family to live in house and then have brought family into it? He would ave tried to rent a room to some one without permission of that jandlord And yet he can take the highest contract in the world and presume to tcar it to pieces on the altar of so- called love, It is high time that we inspired in our young people the great impor- tance and responsibility of making a contract and keeping it, even at sac- Per- anothe never ifice to one's self. It would have been far nobler for this man to have stuck to his wife she was willing and found it him up. far more bea itil best t ful for him » have had the memory of the girl w would not willingly break the rt of his wife in order to get him, ve shown the trength of their love. That would ve been the harder way, the splen- dw What they have chosen is easiest way—retting towether. n they would don't misunderstand, gentle reader, I do not believe that people who do not love each other should forever remain together because of marriage, are ways of settling this Mut there matter to the even though it takes ye duty of this husband was toward hes of his young wife, and Conrad should haye insisted that » wishes should have been kept, When love is big enough, it can af- tord to wait, and its great impulse is to save pain to others, pene this young wife's love is thes, first In the first place, this' terrific triangle, or tri- wrangle, is only the common, everyday variety. story, made out of the same old cloth, with only a bit of silk fringe in the form of a million dollars, which a young man heroically rejected, and as heroically drew back through a heart-string attachment, ‘This isn’t the first time a man has deliberately brought home a young woman and asked his wife to treat her as her bosom friend, If Mrs. Garland Had Brought a Young Man Into the Home? * * It is the same old big enough to wait and see the out- come, and she will let go in time when she realizes finally that her case is hopeless—yet it was for her to de- cide, for she had the prior right by virtue of her marriage agreement and the welfare of her children, The greatest love histories of the world are built und the lovers who could not get to each other, but whose love endured, and suffered and d to save unhappiness of those who did not deserve it. What would we come to if the cases like the Garlands were to be con- doned and applauded? No oath of love would be sacred. All, all could be wiped out by the entrance of an- other lady in the cage. There would be an everlasting “off with the old, on with the new.” And no wife, no children, no marriage con- tract would be safe, Famous Women LOUISE BATTISTATI, OUISE BATTISTATI was a native of Stradella, Sar- dinia. She later removed to Milan, where she displayed remarkable courage during the five days’ revolution in 1848. On Sunday, March 10, of that year, she disarmed a cavalry soldier, although the latter was heavily armed. She took the weapons for her own use und placed herself at the head of the Pappietti bridge and continued fighting against the enemy for three days in command of «. valiant band of young men. She defended the large asylum at Vettabia, which contained 580 persons, mostly widows and chil- dren, who had taken refuge therein when Barbarossa stormed Milan, After the insurrection she continued on active duty re Lig civic guard and was an johored member of the until her death. at _THE EVENING WORLD, MONDAY, JANUARY 30, 1922, (OMIM RSL HE 5 fort, uy Pub. MRS. BOOZE PHONED THAT HER HUSBAND SLIPPED AND FELL ON HIS WAY HERE AND BROKE HIS COLLAR. ID HE FALL ACKWARD OR FORWARD > YES IF HE LANDED ON HIS TUMNY IT'S Not So BAD _ Bur IF. HE LANDED ON HIS SEAT IT'SA CATASTROPHE { WHAT DIFFERENCE Does IT MAKE WHAT PART OF HIS Body HIT THE GRouND ? HE IS A GUY WHO CARRIES A FLASK INHIS HIP PackeT New Interest in Ancient I N fenances of heraldry and such Thousands of American Descendants. GW that the Irish bave a Free State, limited only by allegiance to the King, several despatches have sudden yevival of interest in ancient coats of arms and other appur- It is agreed that a iarce part of the demand for crests and coats of arme comes from Americans who have Irish names and want something ciassy to emboss on their stationery, bus any member of the families bearing the old Irlsh names can find historical vomnection with @ lion rampant or something like that, and a large percentage @& New Yorkers are entitled to have the ancestral devices engraved on their silverware, carved on thoir furniture or New onas gost $200, old ones $40, woven into their doormats. is your name, for instance, Duffy? Then a lion rampant on @ green @round {s your emblem, His tasselled tail stands high in the air and his right paw is lifted higher than his left, as if he were rapping at the door. The motto, translated from the Latin of old Erin, is “Faithful to my country in its. misfortunes.”* The Daly fam- fly has a still more fanciful shield in gold and white, with a lion even more ram- pant than the Duffy folks can boast, for the Daly lion has red hind legs. And the motto is, “God assists us."” The “Murphy forces, whose motto is “Conquer or die,’ have four lions instead of one. The upper pair, left to right, are red-on-white and white-on-red, and the order is reversed for the lower pair. “I neither fear nor scorn,’ is the motto of the Sul- livans, and they have @ more com- plicated deviee— two lions boxing with each other on a black field, and below a deer on green and @ boar on black and white. Maybe You'll Find Your Coat of Arms Among Those Shown Below Irish Name? rish Heraldic Devices Stirs been cabled from Dublin telling of « The O'Gormans have not only a Hon but three short swords with the blades point- ing straight up, one of them just below the lion, which stands on a blue field. The motto is, “The beginning of bat- tle and the end of slaughter."” The O'Neills have two red lions with curly tails. They are dancing against a green background on whicha fishswims ge n 8 picuously. hree red stars and an equally red hand shine over the lions. The motto is, “For faith, King and country I fight. Ireland." ‘The red hand of The Ryans, whose motto ts “'T prefer death to disgrace," have a red field with three very fierce looking animals, surmounting the shield is a griffin, rampant, wield- ing an uplifted sword, The O'Briens have three lions on a red field. The Hons have black heads, but thelr hindquarters are white. And the motto is, “The strong hand on top,” appar- ently illustrated by the surmount- ing device. Copyright, 19%, (New York Evening Which Man Will Peggy Choose for a Husband? The story of a typical New York girl, entered businevs ay @ stenographer. senior, The office opens new experiences, story to-day, JACK REED GLORIES | UST as Peggy expected Jack Reed slipped in to see how she was get- ting along at the noon hour, He had formed this little trick of rushing out to see her dur- ing his luncheon period in order to avoid meeting Billy Bracton in the evening. “It isn't that 1 detest the old-top so much," Jack explained to Peggy, ‘‘but 1 hate to be here wl there {8 another chap hanging around. Two is company and three’s a crowd all right. ['d rather dash out and see you fo: twenty minutes than to spend the whole evening here with that litt! pal of yours,'* “Well you don’t need to do any more dashing or rushing at noon time,’’ announced Peggy, ‘Billy Bracton has been transferred front New York to Philadelphia, Just at this very minute he is boarding a train bound for Phillie. And he is to stay there a whole year,” "Great guns!" gasped Jack with 1s much dignity and solemnity as if si had announced Billy's death, Then brightening up with renewed enerszy and optimism, he slapped himself upon the knee and laughed, “WELL, if that isn't JUST my luck. My word, Peggy, now we are left ull alone. Townley's gone to Europe, and Bracton to Philadelphia—a gvod place for him too I'll s; Thope he stays there all his life." “You are horrid to say that, al though I might have known’ you would wish Phillie on poor Billy.” "Oh, don't look so sad, he'll write you oodles of lovey-dovey letiers.”” “Billy is a sensible chap, Jack Reed; when he writes his letters will be just the sort of letters he would write to a boy.’ “U'll be willing to take a wager with you that they won't, If you can Lroduce a letter from Billy Bracton that is sensible and absolutely devoid of love or sentiment I'l] stand on my, The Heart of By Caroline Crawford Her heart is divided between two lovers, Billy Hractou, hee own age, and Harrison Townicy, a well-to-do bachelor ten years her Every instalméat @ new episode in Peggy's affairs, PMD R Ek Not Look Your Best? By Doris Doscher Coyyttght, 1022, (New York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co, EAR MISS DOSCHER: until you have developed those flabby 1 am not a steady reader muscles and increased your chest ex- but intend to Bansion. Sf Your colvam busy ° You will by this time have noticed a Girl a ee f ; To-day’s Anniversary. SAN FRANCISCO. HE first to give the name of | , San Francisco to the future Pacific Coast metronolis Prerith ts Ree Eel eaes Ce were Francisco Palon and Benito Cambon, two friars, who, in 1775, left Monterey with seven civilians and seventeen dragoons, with their families, and established |) Vesey Dayton, eighteen, whe has just be from mow that your face has filled out at the | the Spanish mission of San Fran- brings new lovers. Begin reading this on, having same time. To overcome the effects cisco. In 1826 William A. Rich- heard of your of your lack of care of your face deep ardson, an Englishman, erected the first tent on the site of the massage is necessary. This can be Present city, three miles from r interest ane done without any cream at all. The N THE GOOD NEWS. head.” ing articles benefits of massage are derived from | the mission, on what is now [Du- “T hope you don't think I’m going through a the movement of the muscles, not | Pont Street, and began dealing in to put Lilly's letters on exhibition, friend. from the application of grease on the | hides and tallow. The next year lesides, | know what I'm talking There are a *rface. If you are persistent and at | Jacob P. Loose arrived at the about, for IL have received letters tions | {Be Same time learn to smile once in | mission and erected the frat Teer AURSNOND a while instead of allowing your faco | Private dwelling. In 1839 Jean from Billy before."" “Well, my word, Peggy Dayton, would like to to droop at the thought of that thirty- Vioget surveyed the town and you don’t think we're going to waste ask you. First, two years on your shoulders, I am | aid out streets and lots. In 1441 the few minutes I have to spend here do you think tre you will be surprised at the good | two Americans built a sawmill, talking about Billy and the type of results. and in 1846 Capt. Montgomer that @: woman of the war-sloop Portsmouth, letters he writes to young women, do you? Look here, Miss Peggy, if all your suitors have fied the town let's rejoice and be exceedingly glad. Your sprained ankle will be well in a few days and we'll go to shows, hunt For falling hair there 1s nothing better than scalp massage, occaston- ally feeding the roots with a little Nquid vaseline or olive ofl, sunning, airing and resting the hair, If these methods are followed out I do not raised the American flag on what became Portsmouth Square, and a little later a ship arrived from New York with two hundred Mor- mon immigrants. This little com- of thirty-two is beyond redemp- tion, or do you think she can improve herself, as | am defective in many ways? The muscles of up a lot of excursions about’ New my face have sagged quite some, think you w ; munity was known as Yerba When did the doctor say you could deep massage, but as! have quite bobbed hair will be more becoming to | “Seventy-five years, ago t Besse return to businces? a show of hair on my face ! would = you. “It certainly will not until you when the sicalde officiully “In four days I have like to know if it can be done have filled out your face by following | Changed the name to San Fran eway ten Gays and my leave of a witheutarearn cf any KINACOPSAN the directions 1 have elven cisco. 8 replied I “but T ean't promise yas 8 you recommend a cream that will added not grow hair, | would like to i SACRO RT BH HE br te do much rinning around Jack ier now if there is anything | could & 1 have been thinking of taking a bi do te develo: chest. Could A ee . . ” mt if p my a fe ie ees evenings) MME S Pe te deen renee og ~— Appetizing “Thrift Dishes” ; ‘ou may have been thinking,” Cises would be the best for de- & ad Jack, “but [notice you dun't riously* thinking. You are just that to put me off."" I think T will take a business three veloping my legs? | believe you have given them all in the pape but I have ed them. Now one more question. Do you think that BAKED APPLES. AKING apples on top the stove requires less time, hence is an are better left This is a god is hot flame, but they white if milk is used. way to cook onions when time bmited, as it requires only twenty B course, of thos nights a ” 4 woek afrangements,” inaaited Faces, reviba. dhe fain cut, align’, will economy in gas, Prepare thom minutes to prepare them “ , . ? improve the growth and strength in the usual way and put them ip 1 id vou Rey “BO OMaY GBs t of the hair? HOPEFUL. i ae & *% CHICKEN LIVER CANAPES. x laughed and J: held up a le pale saucepan with a little water and cover oo throw away the liver, mlz warning finger to Peggy. det me very emphatic in an- . PSE af y awa © + Biz~ IBAA cltae. youl’ beauty’ (eisen: ONAruiE Bod fest question, Decid. “&hHY. Set them over a small Baste sard and heart of the chickens. Cook learailie’ to lie Gh oxpert tenlen ce edly inl woman of thi + they will bake in a few minutes. them until very tender in water to crackerjack business woman, Peggy. not beyond redemption. I Some cooks prefer to peci the apples, which has been added a little celery, You'll ‘never need your experience, tion you give your smait ‘that case they must be carefully parsley, salt, pepper and rice. Fou are & marrying gitl. ome Bike Ohested, lets without developmant, waned: Xt te better to peel'them tm’ liquid’ will make nice soup. Rup ore, you know, just a3 others are cut sagging muscles in the face .nd vertical strips, leaving just enougi the liver, gizzard and heart to a 1 Feel to keep the apple from collapsiag. smooth paste, season with salt and out to be ‘old maids,’ not even bach- elor You'll next two years a left a widow, ge @ poor growth of hatr—all plainly in- dicate that it is high time you took yourself in hand What you really need is general de pepper and spread on small pieces of toast for the Sunday supper. LIVER HASH. COOKED ONIONS. After peeling and slicing the ontenn put them in an aluminum saucepan 1s. marry within the ( you are ever Peggy, you within velopment, In first place you w:thout water. Cover Ughtly and Left over liver will make an appe- r will never deepen your chest until you place over a medium burner turned tiging breakfast or luncheon dish. Jack grabbed up his hat and pre- learn to breathe properly. Therefore, off ittle more than half. In fifteen Chop it fine, Put butter into a pan pared to make his exit as hasty ae get out in the open 45 much as possi- minutes season with salt and stir and when hot add a teaspoonful of his arrival, At the door he paused ble and take long brisk walks, prac- lightly, When done add pepper ant chopped onion and fry brown. Add “Will you be home to-morrow eve tising deep breathing at the same milk If desired, No butter is r e chopped liver, moisten with a lit~ ning?" he asked. time, Every ni snd morning take quired as there is sufficient olf in ths tle of liver gravy and cook slowly for “I may be at business school," systematic exerciscs that circle the onions, If the family prefer them f.fteen minutes. This ts nice served on toast or spread between two slices of bread and served with the gravy, trowned this ts readily accompliat.ed ty uncovering and stirring over the chance.” To-Morrow—A Letter From Billy. arms, that th them forward, over the head, sideways. in every pgeition ¥ 4 F Copyright, EAR MISS VINCENT: I have been going with “D ‘a girl who fulfils my ideals in every respect. Recently roposed and accepted. Last week she read an article about a man named John who prided himself upon being a bachelor and remaining single. My name is John, and when she noticed my embarrassment 6! < said the only way | can prove my sincerity is by an engagement ring. Do you think $400 too much to spend when | am well.able to buy one ? | know that if | do not to her she will turn me she will not bother The price of your engagement ring is a matter which you must decide yourself, The young woman is un- usually clever in her method of ob- taining the ring. “Dear Miss cent: About a year ago | met a young girl my own age (fifteen) and we seemed to take to each other until at the end of the school term we quar- relled about another boy. When school opened this fall we made up, but said she could not write or have much to do with me because of her studies. At Christ- mas | sent her a card and she ed me eweetly for it. | think Vik 1 often Please she catch her looking at m give me your advio “MF. O. Think just as much about your studies as you do about this girl, She is quite right in refusing to write because of her studies. No doubt she likes you, but she will Ike you better {f you succeed in your school work and fit yourself for something worth while in the world. “Dear Miss Vincent: Quite a time ago | met a girl and grew to like her very much. All went well until | spoke about another boy whom sh ed to like, and we didn’t speak for two months. Then she wrote and apologized and we patched things up. Last week | received a seo- ond note saying she preferred the company of the other boy. What shall | do? J. G.”" She is evidently taking advantage of the woman's privilege to “change her mind.” Better just take her at her word and try to forget her. Courtship and By Betty Vincent 1029, (New York Prening World) by Press Publishing Co. arriage “Dear Miss Vinoent: | expect to te from high school the end ry, but thi separate a certain young chap and myself. | love this boy very much and | am sure he loves me. Do you think this will part us, and if 80, can you suggest some way | may keep his friendship. x. Y. Z" Many young girls have written let- ters very similar to yours. I think all school friends feel this way when the time for parting comes, About the best thing for you to do is to arrange a little gathering at your house and invite this young man, This will give him the hospitality of your home and in all probability he will make his “‘party call’ and many others, “Dear Miss Vincent: | seventeen and our church has recently formed a gathering of young girls and boys, | mot @ young, fellow there who is a fi er’s and he 1 am not thinking of love, just friendship, A day or so ago | went to a so- ciable a to dance with me or to take me home. Can you help me ascertain the reason? “DOLORES,” Evidently the young man does not wish to be taken too seriously, Sim- ply assume a cordial, friendly manner toward him. There Is No Substi tute for Your Hands Working about the house means working with your hands. In hot water one minute and taking the mil bottles from the cold window ledge the next roughens and reddens them. You can keep them smooth and white with VELOG Just rub it into your hands thor- oughly at night—wiping off the ex- cess with a soft cloth—and you will notice a decided improvement in the morning. It tones up the com- plexion so that the peach-blow of health does not have to fight through clogged pores to be admired. VELOGEN does not stain delicate fabrice nor grow ha’ Your druggist has it—25e a tube Adot.