The evening world. Newspaper, January 3, 1922, Page 25

* , J Love, Says Judge Freschi, Can Be Warmed Over But Husband and Wife Must Learn to Play “Put-and-Take” Do And They Must—1, Stop Talking; 2, More Thinking, and 3, Regard Each Other's Interests. By Fay Stevenson. Copyrigh (New York Evening World) by Prom Publishing Ce. AN love be successfolly “warmed over!” After a husband and wife have decided that “it ts all over be- tween them” and applied for a Paration or divorce, is there any hope of rekindling their love? is there a chance to “warm over’ at first love which drew them togetuer and give it a stronger, better foundation? Many Judges and Magistrates in Domestic Relations Courts attempt to do this very tiing—to find the spark of love which often still exists in the hearts of the husband and wife who have become temporarily estranged , ond to rekindle it into a new love built upon understanding and common wense. ‘How many estranged busbands a wives find a new happiness and . mew love in their reunion which has been brought about by kindly, well meaning Judges?” I asked Judge ‘John J. Freschi of the Court of Spe- ial Sessions, who has had a wide experience in the Domestic Relations ‘ourts, ‘low many of these anited vs uples find absolute happiness?” ‘Avhere there is an ounce of love left between a husband and a wifo it can be rekindled by their own com- mon sense and clear understanding,” replied Judge Freschi. ‘That is {t, it can be rekindled if there is no other nan or woman in the case, Little can be done to bring a husband and wife together when it is a triangle case, And even in cases where couples have been divorced because fof statutory grounds and then rewed there is seldom any real happiness » their remarriage.” “But you believe that much can be done to bring the husband and wife together who have simply become oparated over the petty, minoz things and allowed naggings and vickerings to come between them and tho big things of Iffe?” “It has beep done many times. Sometimes the estranged couples who have been reunited through Judges, mutual trionds, relatives or love of their children are even happier in their second chance matrimony than couples who have never separa ted temporarily,” declared Judge Freschi. ‘They are ahead of the game and know how to play it by experience.” “What three outstanding rules would you give to the couples who are trying to patch things up? How can they start again? “There are no elastic rules which may be read and will immediately oring them into each other's arms,” said Judge Freschi, “but there arc three little sentences which might help such couples to forgive and for- geet and start again as if nothing 12@ happened, Both husband and must: 1, Stop talking. 2..Do more thinking. 3. Regard each other’s interes “Incompatibility, misunderstand- ings, non-support, which really in- <ludes all money difficulties, and tem- peramental and sentimental differ- ences are the main causes for hus- hands and wives breaking up., When they decide to patch things up they must learn to push these things aside. ‘he husband must learn to avold tno subjects which irritate a nervous wite, The wife must learn to con- rol her tongue and not say things svblch may bt termed ‘naggins.’” “Marriage for the couples who wish to become reunited and ‘warm over’ their love must be a | matter of playing the game of | ‘put and take.’ Too many hus- } ands and wives take too much | and put very little into matri- mony.” ‘They are Itke the farmer who ex- pects to produce great crops and in mot willing to use chemicals and materials to enrich his goll, Marriage Ne a game and @ business. To play \t and make the most of it you must put certain things into it which will this game worth while. Com- mon sense, tolerance of each other's \veaknesses, work on the part of both husband and wife and the ability to keep a wholesome atmosphere in the home must be put into the marriage bf success. “Tho husban@é who wishes fo hwarm over” a love which has been rstranged must learn to admit his faults and correct them. Ho cannot home home ¢ross and tired from the pffice and vent his feelings upon his wife, He must be uns-!fish and dis- guise this meaner self. He cannot expect to use the money which be- tongs to his family for poker, club fife and outside interests. He will have to play the game of ‘put and bake’ end he will have to put all his knergy and force tnto making him- kel @ worth-while husband. "The wife who wishes to ‘warm | pve @ love which has cooled to the ptage of a separation must also learn Play ber part of the game ‘put and * @he must be willing to do her \usework and not complain the mo-~- ent her husband enters the house. 2 ahe rly) ead to discuss disagreeable ' bondition#in the home she must wait until ber husband is rested. She )taust prepare a warm meal rather jtham @ @elicatessen one, And she [pave earn that sometimes @ sugges- tion counts much more than a long lecture. “Love can be successfully ‘warmed over,’ concluded Judge Frescht, “it has been many times. But it takes brains and common sense and under- standing and unselfishness and a kind heart. And it takes voth hus- band and wife to do it.” Poeneanehty senator = You Often Read : About Her rl CLARE KUMMER, ‘Thompson = VER since “Uncle Tom's Cabin,” the Beecher family has been doing something by way of contribution to American literature or history, and this modern playwright keeps up the family reputation with a comedy every now and then. First made famous by a song, later more fam- ous by plays, her friends look for- ward to repetitions of “Dearie” and “Egypt” and “Good Gracious, Annabelle” and “A Successful Ca- lamity,” with good prospects of realizing their expectations. > oS 1 SWEAR OFF SHOKIN CIGARETTE 1AM THROUGH ss fe 1\Y Sct 1AM THROUGH WITH CIGARETTES 1922 Can Still Grow Up to Be an Awful Acting Child New Year Has Got a Good Start, but That's What Ponzi and Hindenburg Got By Neal R. O’Hara. copyright, 1922, (New York Frening Wortd) by Prem Publishing Co. N spite of youth, innocence and previous condition of servitude, 1922 still | has plenty of room for improvement. No New Year has ever been born yet that would take the gold medal at a eugenics show. Nineteen- twenty-two arrived on time, which 1s something you can say for it, Also wore enough loose-fitting ribbons to keep from being entirely decollete. But aside from that the new Annum Dowigi is the same as any other fresh- born kid. It'll grow up to be a terror, if Something Isn't Done. See Record of this juvenile delinquent ia already leaping from pink to scar- PROHIBITION FRUITCAKE. WENTY-FOUR hours before the caxe pour ‘one cup of cider over four tablespoons of chopped candied orange peel, half @ cup of chopped candied pineapple, one pound of chopped seeded raisins, half a pound of soedless raisins, half & pound of chopped candied cherries and one pound of seedless raisins When ready to mix the cake beat to @ cream ono cup of butter with one and a quarter cup of brown sugar, Deat well and add the well beaten yolks of six eggs. Sift two and a half cups of flour with two teaspoons of cinnamon, two teaspoons of allspice, two teaspoons of nutmeg and one tea- spoon of musce and add to the butter and sugar mixture. Add the soaked fruits and half a pound of chopped blanched almonds, two squares of chocolate, grated, the stiffly beaten whites of the six eggs, and half a cup of molasse: Mix well and just be- fore putting in the paper lined pans stir in a pinch of soda dissolved in a tablespoon of hot water. Cover pans with buttered paper and steam for four hours. Finish cooking in a very slow oven for two hours. If weil Wrapped in ofled paper and placed in Ge this cake will Keep indef- PARIS ROLL. To one cup. granulated sugar add five tablespoonfuls of mill. Stir over fire until it boils, thep boil five minutes without stirring, Remove from fire, flavor with any desired flavoring, set dish into another dish of cold water and stir or beat con- stanly until thick, Add cold milk very slowly if it becomes too thick. Have roll ready filled with thin la: of Jelly or cream. Apply icing on outside and betore tt hardens roll the cake either in chopped nuts or cocoa. nut. TURKEY RISSOLES. Grind the meat very fine. Add an equal amount of fine bread crumbs, season with salt, pepper and summer savory to taste, Beat one egg and stir into the mixture to form # mass that can be motided into balls and try in hot fat. Copyright, 6c RDB comes that feller now that stung me for the five boxes of cigays, saying you was his brother-in-law, and giving me a written order which he signed with your name!” This from the ex- cited Sol, the Smoke Shop man. ‘es, and he's coming right in, and just as I told you, it’s Michael Angelo Dinkston, poet and peasant and heavyweight champion of the English language!" said Mr, Jarr. But at this Mr, Dinkston himself entered the clgar store and handed the proprietor four boxes of cigars. “I really only required one box as a present for the holidays for my good friend, Edward Jarr,” Mr, Dinkston explained affably. “But you forged my name to a written order, Dink!" sald Mr. Jury, more in sorrow than anger. “You mistake the matter, I simply signed a receipt, ‘Received five boxes of cigars for Edward Jarr.’ Examine the document.” Sol brought it out, and it was just as the peet had de- scribed it. “But you told Sol you were my brother-in-law,” remarked Mr. Jarr, = a= WHAT DoYou e Know omic. HH ORL Posie Met QUESTIONS. 1. Of what does an anemometer gauge the velocity? 2. Of what living creature is a cyg- net the young? 3. By what other name is the dog- rose known? 4. What city is the capital of Cali- fornia? 6. How many cltles in the Uni States have over 1,000,000 popul. tion? 6. What famous cape was Jam Lemaire tho first voyager to around? 7. What conquerer was the master of the famous horse Bucephalus 8. What was Josh Billing: in private life? 9, What English Queen was nick- named “Brandy Nose? 10. Of what mineral are pencil je? ANSWERS, swan; 3, eglantine; 4 y 5, three; 6, Cape Horn 7, Alexander the Gr 8, Henry W. Shaw; 9, Queen Anne; 10, graphite. name arr Family By Roy L. McCardell 1022, (Now York Evening World) by Press Publishing Co, “I didn't know you told lies, Dink.” “I only prevaricate under condi tions of ‘extreme necessity,” said Mr. Dinkston urbanely. “I did not say I was your brother-in-law. What 1 said was that J held you in brotherly awe.” “Moebbe that wag it,” muttered th dazed tobacconist. “But, while I am glad to get these four boxes of cigars back, what about the five dollars you owe me for the other one?” “Why, temporarily, at least, I shall be compelled to owe it to you, But be not cast down, my good sir. Credit is the lite of commerce,” replied M>. Dinkston. “Not these hurd times it ain't!” snorted Sol. But he was too glad t> recover four-fifths of his lose to be truculent. “The so-called hard times, as has been wald, are simply psychological,” suid Mr.’ Dinkston. “The present nancial vepression is purely psycho- Jogical influencing as tt does all tlelds of endeavor. This psychologi cal condition is due entirely to the fact that we lack «fiduciary initla- tive.” “I don't understand that feller’s wolds,” said Sol, “and I'd like him to explain what he means.” “It ts extremely disingenuous to do 90," replied Mr, Dinkston, “but, to be explicit, currengy deflected from the channels of comimerce because Jones does not pay Smith, and Smith, therefore, cannot pay Robinson, who, in turn, cannot Mquidate his financ! obligations because John Doe w not pay Richard Kore, who would then have paid Jones.” “Any fool knows that,” enarled Sol. “You stick me for five dollars for a box of cigars, and a lot of other people hang me up. So I can't pay my jobber and he can't pay the man- ufacturer, and so it ges. Do you call that a sl-st-sicollogical, or whatever it is, situation?" “Yes, for you eliminate the per- sonal equation and the debt killing power of money that 1s in circulation. No money in circulation, everybody ig depressed, and that psychological condition brings about the stringent financial situation and what are known as hard times generally.” “Prove it, prove iti” cried tiv traseible Sol. “Lend me five dollars for a few moments out of the cash registe oh, it will come back to you!" i+ marked Mr. Dinkston, “and I wis iRustrate the debt killing power of even a small sum of money, and show you that in industry and commerce and finance, as well as in the human hody itself, ‘circulation 1s life.’ And Sol, as though hypnotized, opened his cash register and banded & five-dollar bill to Dinkston. But tt will take another day to tell what happened tn it, I ‘ By Caroline Crawford Copyright, 1922, (New York Pvening World) by Prese Publishing Co Which Man Will Peggy Marry? ‘The stor tpyical New ¥: rl, Di eighteen, of a tnzical New York sire Peery Dayton, cishtees who bas just entered ‘yisiiess ‘us a stenographer: “Mer here ts cen two lovers, Billy Bracton, ber own ag Harrison Townley, a Bae jo-do bachelor. ten veary her senigr. The of ne Mew experiences, brings new lovers. Regin reading this stury to-day. opens Every instalment w new eplsode in Peggy's af! TOWNLEY'S ULTIMATUM. IFS fact that Billy was sueceed- ing in the business world raised hins considerably in Peggy's estimation. She tried to tell herself that this was not worldll- upon her part but simply pride tn Billy's welfare. She be- Heved in Billy and she always the reason she had not been able to accept Townley’s of- fer of marriage? If Billy had been as eligible as Townley, would she have married him? Pegsy asked —_ ness had, Was this herself these quee- tlons while she was waltin; for Townley to call one evening. He had phoned that morning and stated that he desired to spend an evening in the quietude of her homo, “We have been going about a great deal,” he sald, as his volce became very serious, “ard besides I have someting I want to talk to you about.” When he arrived his manner was boyish and jolly for a few moments, then he resumed the same sertous volee which he had used over the telephone that morning. “Peggy, do you realize that we scarcely know each other any better than when I first sent you a bouquet of roses upon your eighteenth birth- day?” he asked. “Nonsense, Harrison,” laughed Peggy, nervously. “Didn't I call you ‘Mr. Townley’ then?” “Don't be silly, Peggy, dear. We have been about all fall and the ly Part of this winter and I know you don't care a snap about me. Is there bome one else? 5 You told me t go about with other young people; you said you wanted me to be sure of myself be- fore we became formally engaged,” pointed out Peggy. “I have been @round with several young people and 1 have a school friend, a Billy Bracton, whom I have known a good while, but there tsn't anything sert- ous between any other man and my- self, I was just trying to test things “Yes, but how tong ts this testing business going to last?” queried ‘Townley, as his square chin became inusually firm and ?.o looked off into distance sy looked at Townley’a face and saw a certain determined spirit which would not wait as long as sho had eapected him to, She admired him, apprectated him, probably would have loved him if every timo urged her to marry him she had not seen Billy's round, boyish face loom- ing up before her. Was Hilly tho one who kept her from marrying the man whom Marion Minton had sald was her fate and the man whom her parents desired her to marry? No, she could not tell him she loved him, not even If she lost his love and he married another girl “Perhaps there is some one else in your life?” she found herself say ing, although she despised herself when she saw the hurt look he gave Peggy, thero | any other 1 in my life," he replied slowly and tinotly, “and I suppose you ‘ht about having plenty of time to chase about with young people. How ever, I can’t stand this pressure of waiting around for you to make up your mind. At first I thought we didn't see enough of each other, i called or took you out once a week and then J usvally managed to a: you about Saturday afternoms in my car, but now J am beginning to think that absence might make the heart grow fonder. I am going to pack my trunk and leave New York for two whole months." “Where are you going?” “To Europe. J shat! go straight to England. and then spend the last two weeks in Paris.” “Do you think I'll know my heart force which she did not know made up ‘Yr character, ) To-morrow—Billy Basks In the Limelight. Why Not Look Your Best? By Doris Doscher Copyright, 1924, (New York Prening World) by Press Publishing Co, ' take the best possible care of my skin every night following directions. tell Dat MISS DOSCHER: essary to use a cold cream on the face every night, as | am troubled with a pale and dry skin. A CONSTANT READER. Very good alts are some times obtained for a dry skin by al- lowing a skin food containing a good ly proportion of almond meal to re main on the face all night, but for the palencss attention to tle general hygiene 18 necessary. Dear Miss Doscher Is there anything under the sun to make hands white and soft? If e0, please let me know through The Evening World just what it ie? MARIE. ¢ Apply to the hands a good, heavy coating of glycerine with a few drops of of old white kid them to remain ha re- rose water and put on @ loose pair gloves and allow all night Care in necessary washing of the hands not only to thoroughly dry them, but to dust them well with a talcum or flour Dear Mis’ Doscher: Is there anything you could sug gest to fill out a very thin face, especially my cheeks, Have tried several different things but met with no success. My body ie all after each right. | am twenty years of age. mM. Y. Deep breathing exercises aud sul- ficient sleep, together with the deep ma nstructions fe which IT have given, ! out your Dear Miss Doscher: 1 have hair on my upper lip, 1 would like to appl it to make the hair ty not and lighter. Will peroxi crease the growth? What is good for chapped skin on the face? FL. Mix a small quantity of ammonia wbsolutely certuin to ‘ace ip a yery short time. with the peroxide. ‘This will not only bleach the hair but split it and so kill the growth, If the constant use this trritates the face, a little cold pum or cocoa butter will heal it Dear Miss Doscher: young irl fifteen and are falling so that my feet are almost flat. This causes a very low instep and a large ankle giving an unsightly leg, 1 do not wear arched shoes. Could you please advise me, as | am,about to purchase @ new pair of shoes and would like to know whether to get arches or not, R. K. 2. Fallen arches ts a serious condition that should not he eated lightly At fifteen you can do a great deal for yourself by exeroising the feet. If the arches are light und properly fitted to your foot they will help to place the bones back into position, but they should not be worn steadily at first. The results are better ob- tained when « gradual adaptation to the artificial support is resorted to. ,tor, no doubt. let. The hens are still refusing to lay. No relief for egg fanciers in sight (tH hens start practisiny Walter Camp's daily dozen. And another breakfast complaint looms up: Too many married guys are pay- ing for ground coffee, pure cream and unatiulterated sugar and are still having @ substitute for coffee served to ‘em. Yeggmen are also grabbing a raw deal. A lot of high class yeggs are being mugged for Rogues’ Gallery without privilege of choosing their handsomest front, and side views. That is nasty treatment for star cracksmen of Mutual Welfare League. Outside the steel-trimmed rest cur: things are better. Since Liberty bonds have jumped to par, bank mes- sengers don’t have to frisk so many street and saving the coupons fs a business, not a pleasure, when you get ‘em with bonds Instead of bum cigars. Since America went from alcoho! to alkall, things have been fleree tn medicinal circles, Not only takes six feet of earth, but three miles of sea to make all men equal now. When boat gets outside the three-mile limi: the crew gets busy with the pumps- only they’re stomach pumps. To-day the boys on shipboard get more ex- ercise grabbing for bar checks than from playing shuffleboard. Everything {s tranquil in the films. Einstein's relativity is being {lus- trated In the movies, with a few snappy improvements by the direc- Hollywood {3 calmer than an eye-dropper of water in a keg of oil, and leading hearthstone lovers of celluloid colony are atti! clinging to their second and third wives. Filmburg is simply waiting for a $5,000 shipment of Eastern coin to make another million-dollar movie feature, Show biz is also quiet on Broad- way. With dancing elephants and juggling crows elevating stage, it seems like there are no animal novelties left except maybe spelling bees. Now Ziegfeld will pack up show shop and sail for London, carrying shipload of scenery and satchel of clothes. Zieg is madder than @ wet hen, He ts even madder than a dry chicken tn a temperance cate ‘There are only a few other small complaints. Like salesmen. There are still two kinds of clothing sule:- men: (1) good and (2), the ones thu’ vay, “I wear this kind mysejf.” T! good ones are too scarce. ‘Then H. G. Wells compares Cou- Bress to a sieve, and H. G, Wells is reht. It's the wire-pulling that makes a sieve what it is and the same thing goes for Congress, And there's that annual kick that the smart set no longer regards modesty as a virtue. They think It's the name of a yacht, But outside of that, 1922's @ good kid op YB 3H TCHR HHT TB TSB HEY HIT TT > Dexa, on the bottle for a few wee! then suddenly begin to lose welslt progressively, He becomes tr- ritable, may always appear hungr or may lose his appet.te entirely. Ho may vomit a portion of each feeding, and his stools will look unheuth Gradually the extremities becom cold, mottled and blotchy looking. Tho infant coases to grow and pre- vents a most unsatisfactory appear ance. Although this condition of maras- mus or #low stary tre quently seen in tubles that are bot fed, it also occurs in older chit », who aned cit ition is more upe from the breast or bottle, are given table foods and artificial foode of one kind or another, Children with weak digestions » are breast nursed may get along fairly well until they are weaned, when the ne m the breast to heavier foc reaks them dow! If fresh cow's milk cannot be as- similated, it should under no circum- stances iven, Skimmed milk may be well or the cacgal waters with other hygiente mer ‘ys usually s prepare the child's di: Saran t N When Baby Does Not Thrive: By Charlotte C. West, M. D. x NEW BORN BABY may thrive” be atus for the management ef heavir . foods. Among these cereals malted gruc: in excellent. It is made by adding 1 tablespoonful of malt extract to one pint of gruel. In a few min utes the gruel will become thin from the conversion of starch into maltose Aw everything depends on the feed ings, the preparation of gruels Is most important. Select the cereal 1 care, 1t must be of first quality For oatmeal gruel use four table spoonfuls of rolled oats, one-hal: teaspoonful of salt, one tablespoon ful of sugar, and four cupfuls of bot!- ing water. Place all in double boiler and cook for three houts. I ap ordinary saucepan is used, cook for one hour, stirring frequently an‘| adding water to keep Strain careful the origina) amount y to remove f oatmea! make a pleasant gruel, making barley gruel, use four of ey. When adding malt extract eruels, they require only half the smount of cooking otherwise needed, If marasmus oceurs in breast-fed maternal milk oust be examined to see where |