The evening world. Newspaper, December 12, 1921, Page 19

[ORM ORLH WOHOH HH W ° Wom By Sophie band, Perhaps she is what Kipl is more deadly than the male.” TT cn Who Steals Another Woman’s Husband Order—She Is Permitting This Man to Give Her Every- thing Belonging to the Wife wo eae Xie ' The Two Who Try to Make a World of Their Own Living Usually Grow Sick of Each Other. Irene Loeb. ‘Copyright, 1921, (New York Evening World) by the Pre’s Publishing Co. HE is always with us—this woman who steals another woman's hus- ing meant, “The female of the species Yet 1 know of hundreds of men who have stolen the wives of other men who are infinitely worse than the woman who takes for her very own the husband of another. Many letters come to me from her Always, always, it is that early ac- quaintance, the beginn.ng of the thing that causes all the trouble. Looking at bare facts, no woman meed take the husband of another woman. When she does it, it is di liberately and with full knowledge. Sometimes it is because she is a weak creature and has not a mind of ner own, No man ever goes away from his wife w.thout encouragement from this other woman. If this woman would show the stuff. of which she is really made, she would send him back to his wife at the first sign of his becoming a de- serter, For that is what he is. A man—a real man—nfust de- fend his home as he would his army. Defending a home does not mean being a mere provider, be- ing the landlord, &c. Defending your home means defending your ife against the woman who tries to steal you away from her. But to return to this woman, The rst moment she mects a married ‘man and she ¢ 8 him any social attention, usually she is play.ng with Z fire, She knows it is wrong. ‘This is the time to stop. This is the time to abow him she is a real woman, and i has no disire to take that which is not is iove. bers, isis. I can hear these ultra idealists with ultra ideas who prate about living their own lives and a world of their own making. Just how many of these 1 who get this world of their own mak- ting “get away with it” for any length ‘of time? As a uscat thing, the couple who try to make a world of their own living grow sick to death of each other, 4 ‘Then come the reprisals ani the reproofs and the recrimina~ tions, and later the remorse. It dual exist- people } can't’ be done—this ence—this double life. Perhaps it is hectic while it lasts, \ ‘ut eventually the day of reckoning : comes without ‘fail—for some body, ; mostly the ~oman who has done the } stealing: it misunderstand, gentle reader. I do, not mean that peopl: must be ferever tied to each other if they don't love one anoth To me, such a situation is not hum Cee tainly, every one must reach for the bluebird of happiness. ee Every human being owes it to himeel? to find it, but he does not owe it to himself at the expense of some one else’s happiness— that. some one who is his wife and whom he has sworn to love, honor and obey. At least he must with her first before he elects to take +on something that will affect her. If {he othcr woman is a real woman, she ill demand that such scores should be settled before she takes the step that must always lead to an ignoble «nd, There ix the occasional case of the man who has married the wrong wom- ‘an and later finds the right one. 1 Phere is the case of the woman who has found the only love of her life in @ man who is married. In such an event plain, honest, fair dealing is the only course that will make ali parties keep self-respect. In such a case the wife who has given her all must be considered first and her end of the matter arranged satis- factorily to her. ‘Phat is the only honorable way in the last analysis ‘There are hundreds of such cases where noble men and noble women have made mistakes and refuse to have happiness a: the expense of cthers. But what [ am concérned with in this wriuing is the woman who wan- tonly and deliberately uses all her wily ways to attract and then to hold the man who belongs to another. I mean where there is not that great, one, divine love that comes to women only once in a lifetime—I mean the woman who seeks to amuse her- self or wants money from the man, or bis attention and cares little and is ee!fish, To me, she is the worst kind of a woman. She has not the courage Bhe was born with. She is a thief of the worst or- der. She is permitting this man to give her everything that be- longs to the other wife, and constantly stealing that which is not hers. To such a woman, the great Naza- me said, “Go thy way and sin no ore," and no greater words could be vid to such a woman. If you realize that without you he would go back and b> happy with the ‘woman to whom he promised all, give fim up, no matter how it hurts, ‘Let something big rise within you, end let the best in you come to the burface and assert itself, If you haven't the spirit, cultivate it. Tt 4 there if you ate any kind of a God's soul. Especially is this vital if you know that the wife is suffering because of , and you can easily find out. We fare living in an area of frankness and fairness in such matters. ‘There is many a fine wife who will understand if she really has lost the Jove of her husband and where there gre no children, and where circum- stances are such that she will give him up if she can do it. She will even kive him to the other woman if she knows that other woman has done everything to bring gbat man back to her. settle his scores But that is another artic! her. But most of the adjustment in a triangle of this kind can come from the woman who is doing the biggest wrong, and it is never too late for this woman, It is never too late to mend, It is the one thing that can mak: her go on and look every man and woman in the eye and say to herself, “Perhaps 1 have done wrong, but in the last 1 have done the right thing. If you who read these lines, are at this moment beginning your first flir- tation with the other woman's hus- band, reflect and look long before you leap into a situation that may cause endless sorrow and suffering. WRATH WRK RR REE HE % « You Often Read * = AboutHer == Copyright, 1921, (New York Evening Wor dee By Prose Publisting Co MRS. FRANK A. VANDERLIP. (as. Frank A-Vanverup- OT content with just being the wife of an international banker who is trying to help the world get back on its bearings, she is doing her share to help the women of the famine-stricken and revolution-swept areas of Europe to get a fair show. To do so she will deliver talks to help the Stu- dents’ Federation to make educa- tion easier in Eastern Europe, where educators are starving and students live in squalor. fit eB BOE ae 3 9 9 Ornamental Cakes for Christmas By Emilie Hoffman ¥ OUR grandmothers’ days the Christmas cakes formed a con- siderable part of the Christmas tree ornaments and muny a tree was upset by some child tugging at some coveted cake which he or she hoped to eat “under cover.” Cookies cut in Various forms, for which cutters can be purchased, and spice cakes cut In rings or hearts were frosted, then or- namented with colored sugar. The children were delighted when they found their names on the cakes in col- ored frosting. Cookies cut in star or any preforred shape, with the name of each guest across the centre, are ap- propriate for the children’s Christmas parties. The cakes are covered with chocolate frosting and the name is formed with the noodle alphabet let- ters, tare mH HWRMNRR Rx SUGAR COOKIES. Cream two cups of sugar and half a cup of butter, add three well-beaten eggs, three-fourths cup of milk (or one cup cold water) and four cups of flour into which two tablespoon- fuls of baking powder huve been sifted. Chill mixture before rolling out thin and cutting into the vartous shapes, such as stars, hearts, fruits, animals and children shapes, SPICE COOKIES. Cream one cup of sugar and half a cup of butter, stir in rind and juice of one lemon, one teaspoonful each of cinnamon and cloves, half a tea- spoonful of ginger, one-third nutmeg (grated), two well-beaten eggs, one cup molasses in which ohe teaspoon- ful of soda has been dissolved, and three and a half cupfuls of flour, Beat vigorously half a minute. Half a cupful each of currants, raisins and nuts, chopped, may be added if de- sired. Roll out thin, cut with cing cutter and sprinkle top with granu- lated sugar before baking, if you do not care to frost them. Chopped al- monds or peanuts may be sprinkled over top and then covered with gran- Ab, yes! There are big soule Mke ulated puget 9... suis WAS Ushered intowa tiny box of an 5 4 3 YOu DON'T NEED A FUR COAT Now wy \NE —~ 4 YT Oh DMT & ty, 192 (New Your to Prem pening World) Pub. Oo, SURI HO HO HIT 2TH ME I BORE HL " ONLY A SHORT WEEN AND IT S W YEAR : A FEW SHORT DAYS By Maurice Ketten ARE THE WINTER IS NEARLY GONE: Do Yeu REALIZE HOW NEAR WE tO XMAS ? AND HERE CONES THE SHORTEST MONTH OF THE YEAR . FEBRUARY WILL Go LIKE , LIGHTNING i THEN MARCH WILL s pe ~_ BLOW IN AND OUT 6H_U HOW TIME FLIES ie Guay = ee: ) Oy, SAN Se DTH eart of a REE The H OHM HI Girl By Caroline Crawford Gopsright, 1921, (New York Evening World) by the Press Publishing Co. Which Man Will Peggy Choose for a Husband? ‘Tho story of a typical New York entered hhustuess ae Siseneronner girl, Peggy Dayton, Her heart ig divi rrison ‘Townley, mw Bilis iheactuny her own ake and years her senior, ie ice erlences, Fading this sory cocisys every instelment a now epi HUNTING A JOB. NTING a job was twice as hard as Peggy expected. She found her letter of introduction from Sanford the next morning and trying to also was written by hand instead of her the best quali- finger, can I typed and gave fications a business girl would need. But after all, what did these letters amount to when one had to stand in line and wait among other young women with just such letters and recommendations? ofive. Peggy clipped three different “help wanted” ads and then started off on her tour, Her first choice was the very thing she had always longed to do, It called for a typist in a mail order house. Her one desire had been to work where she could read and write letters that would be different every day. But when she saw the line of fifteen girls ahead of her she gasped, a lawyer and Then, too, for the first time in her Sharp. As left the office, she presumed was not more than “You ar one from Rich- He jumped ardson, San- when ford's wa8 ® thin, piping voice: very brief but excellent recom- mendation, It choice had been taken, arrived at the Wall Street addre. ushered into the office of a the who has applied for this po. would-be employer told her. Peggy keen, clear eyes and noted the eighteen, who has just J between two loverny i office where a very pale, sickly look- ing little man of nondescript age was manipulate a with one finger, to his feet Peggy entered and “So vome in answer to my ad? e, I ne@d a secretary very much. can't get along very fast with one on The moment Peggy saw this man “There you go again! she knew she wouldn't work for him and stay in that little boxy office if he fight were to offer her $100 a week, but she also knew that his idea of a salary would be on a par with the size of his thin, When he named the salary which was attached to the Peggy vigorously shook her head and It was after 10 by this time and joay ty t and But when she her last twenty third his name -tomdo bache new lovers, le in Peggy's aff young woman looked By Roy L. 'S so nice to have young people around the house; I'm so glad you girls came from Philadcl- vhia to visit me,” remarked Mrs. Jarr. “But I do hope if you two have any personal altercations this time that you will fight it out in your room with the door closed. My little girl she is typewriter 80 observant, you know." “Well, she's got to learn to take care nervously of herself!" remarked the youngest said in a Miss Cackelberry. you have Vhy 60? She hasn't a younger sts- Well, you ter who steals everything from her I Older sister that she can lay her hands ” snapped Miss Irene Cackelberry, Urls! Girl cried Mrs. Jarr. You'd be two weetest things If you wouldn't ach other so. Really you should cultivate repose, Why don't you take up the Higher Thought or some- egio of the “Well, we did think of getting psychoalalyzed while we were visit- ing you,” said Miss Gladys Cackel- berry, “Over in Philadelphia every- alking about it. Mawr says when she was a young girl peo- ked about getting vaccinated somewhere it wouldn't show, and now 1 only discuss psychoanalysis.” position third ¢ ple she un he “Why, Mrs, Gabb is a psycho- He was “nalysis demonstrator, if that's what was John you call them. I hear her teems are into his very reasonable,” said Mrs. Jarr. firm- The Jarr Family D THEN SPRING S\WILL BE HERE BEFORE You McCardell Onprright, 192, (New York Evening World.) by Prem Pubtishing Ce, dreadful—and morbid or worse,” said Mrs, Jarr. “Let us see the circular,” said the eldest Miss Cackelberry, and Mrs. Jarr searched among the bills and other things she had in her work- table drawer and brought It out. “Oh, don’t snatch it! Haven't you any manners?” cried the eldest Miss Cackelberry, tearing the circular from. the hand of her sister. “Let me sec. Ah, for five dollars she will give you ‘recent modifications of her exposi- tions of the processes of Freud aml Jung,’ this circular says.” At this the youngest Miss Cackel- berry snatched Mrs. Gabb's circular from her sister and began to read It aloud. “For ten dollars she will give you the results of her inquiries into the sublimal and the reorganizations of the attitudes.” “It's too much money. I can get both in Philadelphia for a dollar!” cried Miss Glayds Cackelberry. “She says the full course will be only fifteen dollars. This will include primary concepts, complexes, imagos, fixation, repression, compensation, overcompensation and her analysis of the patient's social attitude in love,” “L know what my social attitude in love is!” the younger Miss Cackel- berry declared. “It is to marry a r with money!” ‘Why, what else?” asked the elder sister. “The woman must be a sim- pleton to think it takes psychoanaly~ sis and fifteen dollars to tell a girl that these day: ‘Anyway, we came here to get a permanent wave in our hair or get it uhbed—we haven't decided yet life she bad to face a Personnel De- Kee! nd firm- Oh, a woman!” remarked the eld- Which, although it will make Mawe pachaae On one sae of the fonds aon chet ene MOREINREd NOM ON oe aia Dee eee awdul mad if We get our atr boned, Fo lice row Ur young coon who | 'E deme wank talses sour lotlorat’ “We want to'a0 to @ tase Dol vou Me tne | ee were seeking a position, being ex- he continued; “they don't mean ® think I would want to discuss my “Still, wouldn't it be nice to be amined by an industrial psychologist, oper Py ir gone roe g Mane complexes and inhibitions with a Paychoanalyzed for Christmas, toot” and upan the other side an equally sit down at that desk and take this.” “oman, and have her going around fan ae ee Leena thea oes long line of girls who were examined He dictated a brief note and asked tlling everybody?” would bob our hair and could also sym acecnd! paroliclontat, her to put it down on the machiny yor, nere 4s Mrs. Gubb's circular, Pychoanulyzo, us for the same Muha ib Geme Kar dum ta niet tha (an a tow minules Pegay turned over nd 1 don’) McOW any map who pays Gn oro cere an tol conteas aha ad of the girls’ Personnel Depart. “ perfect letter, correctly spelled and lyzes, 1 think it's all very pe Pa sg punctuate espa = ment juite forgot the elabi ‘The salary is $18.50 a week," said little speech she had composed and Sharp, looking over his glasses. “Do SOapasnmenmmesmnersersneane : simply poked her two letters out you Want the position’ % ' awkwardly, But instead of a volley , “Yes” said Pexg Ithough she 54 ° fo? id . had oxpoctad twenty-fve dollars a e Housew of questions the keen-eyed psycholo- Week. But there was something busl- ife’s Scrapbook gist tossed back Her letters, scarcely nesslike and forecful about this man & Copyright, 1971, (New York Evening World.) 5 “ which made her realizé she would ge looking at her, as he sald, “Sorry, which made her realiz® she would Ret wwii, eure will look like new If girlie, but that positign was filled an hour ago.” Peggy hurried out of the room and proceaded to her second choice. She she desired. just the “local color “Then take off your hat and coat, said Sharp, and in a few moments she was piled up to her neck in work. and exp knew of none so versatile, AC’ sprinkled with plaster of paris, which should be Lightly rubbed in wth the fingers or a soft brush, Shake well, Qand if not clean, repeat the process. eg by Pree Publishing Co. ‘ change the water once a week, ‘They w.ll keep a long while in this way. When mashing old potatoes add a teaspoonful of bakng powder and és LODO O00 OODMONCCE RICK * ; i Ala Cafeteria {7% {United We Stand; Unaided We 7 ‘ Grab Our Meals 4 After Rash of Put and Take Habit, Nation Jumps ‘ to Taking Stuff Alone. By Neal R. O’Hara. ‘Copyright, 1921, (New York Byening AFETERIA system is one thing C She sent us Lafayette and we us Lenglen and we service. and get it. Diphtheria i: catching. Cafeteria is grabbing. Every man his own waiter, Menu is painted on the wall and covers the full Marathon dis- tance. No rules for playing cafe- tera except you lead off wth a tray and pay your I. O. U. at the door, You do everythng a waiter would do for you. Illusion can always be made complete by pouring hot soup down your own neck. Only offe {tem in which cafeteria is same aga reg- ular restaurant. You have te watch your overcoat. Self-help idea is now spreading like seams in a twenty-dollar suit. Now comes safety razor. As cafeteria serves from soup to nuts, so safety razor serves from beard to corns, Statue of Liberty and we shipped over Douglas Farbanks. save her hysterics, If France expects to be paid off for that, she will have to come That is one of the cafeteria rules. ‘ODODE HATH HDT HHI HE : Why Not Look: : Your Best? Fl } By Doris Doscher | Copyright, 1921. ANew You Evening World). By Drow Publishing Co, EXERCISE FOR THE LOWER MUSCLES OF THE FACE. HE rejuvenation of the face and a throat is dependent not alone on surface massago but on the wa in which the underlyims muscles are handled. It is noticeable that not only people who are advanced in years but also young people, throug! excesses or physical deterioration, show sagging, loos: and shrunken skin which we would oniy expect to find in the aged. Now to prevent and correct this condition is our immedi- ate concern, so that you may have a more youthful appearance. ‘The same principle holds true of all mitscular activities, for exercise is the secret. When muscles are exercised they will grow, and when they are not they will shrink, thus losing their strength and elasticity, so you se you can obtain the result so anxio! sought only by contracting and laxing the musclgs of the face by per- sistently and systematically toning those important supporting muscles. The cheeks are supported by eight muscles, four on each side. They are attached to the cheek bones immedi- tel below the ¢ From that point they descend and become attached to the strong muscle around the mouth, ind still lower down are again at- tached to the large band-like muscles of the jaw. It is only by giving back to these muscles their natural elas- ticlty that you can regain thay full rotundity of youth, but the muscles of the face respond most aston- ishingly to this method of treatment, and this toning up also has a very Deneficial effect upon the skin, The best method of applying this principle to those muscles is shown in the Iilus- tration. You will notice that the outer edge of the palm of the hand is brought to bear on the inner muscles that join the chin, Working with a strong stroke, let the hand rise upward bunching the muscles so that retract with natural spring. This will have the desired and if persisted in will overcome the loose hanging Jowls that are so disfiguring to a face, and Will fill out the hollows around the mouth and chin and giv a more symmetrical line to the face Tt will send the blood to the impov- erished corneis of the mouth so that the lines that mar the face will be erased, Not only the muscles illustrated to- day but the entire face, for which in- structions will follow later, must be gone over for ten to fifteen movements to really bring into play those import- ant muscles You will find great encouragement in this method of treating the faco because the results are so rapid when you apply cxercis? to these deep-seat ed muscles instead of a superficial massage, After finishing the move- ment on one cheek repeat upon the other, after which both hands can be ased ‘simultaneously with great ben efit, More than any other muscles of the f the muscles that support the mouth are more iiable to atrophy, and this 1s what causes the droop and sag at the corners and the deep lines that descend from those points downward. If this is your particular probiem be sure to take the deep massage of the muscles by following to-day’s ilustratian, and you will be greatly To:morrow—A_ Busy Day and —e beat vigorously. This will make them surprised to see how quickly your fuce PPR el Evening. \ Keep lemons in cold water and light and creamy, , will recover the rotundity of youth, — eet ee I A IE te a ET ERR oa ee mare I cee d all World) by the Press Publishing co France gave us we never paid pack. sent over Pershing. She handed us She sent * But cafeteria is science of self- * Using safeties on little toes has dou- bled safety razor busine: Those guys now make two blades sell where only one sold before. Opening up corn-cutting fleld was like a Nine- teenth Amendment to safety ragor boys. It has made thetr razors twice as safe for the stockholders now. Shoplifting trade is also gotng in , for self-help idea, Shop-snitehing queen show cafecera manners at jew- clry counter and drops soup tureen into skirt pocket. Tries self-service idea on silver service and kidnaps same in her muff. Scoots around to ; cut-glass department and pokes lem- onade set in winter turban. Doesn't care for any dessert, so passes up . | crystal ice cream outfit. For next 4 next course tries out some platinum , f nuterackers and aceldentahy drops ‘em in her shoe. Makes clean sweep of tablecloths at linen counter and , pays respects to floorwalker on way | out, That is Christmas shopping cafeteria style, Best flats also are run on cafete- ria dimensions. When elevator cherub fs engaged at craps you hoof down fourteen flights of stairs. When 4 eam pipes fail to rattle familia: : tune you leap to sub-basement ani toss on shovelful of state. Wher, switchboard lassie is taking perpe!- ual nap you limp to nearest corner © pay station. In other words and phrases, you help yourself. Bul when you exit on Yuletide mornings you unfurl tips’ from anaemic bank-\ \ roll for downtrodden flat employees, | That is Christmas gypping, cafeteria + style, We area Nation of cafeteriacs. Real” American likes to serve himself-—- that's why he carries a valise instead of a valet. Average citizen of this so-called broad land twirls off more self-help than Robinson Crusoe. We rob ourselves making out in: ” come tax blanks. We kid ourselves on Blection Day. We bathe ourselve; on Saturday night. And we kill our selves with our own home brew. If that ain't living and dying in cafete- ria style, then you tell one. ry pee ust Glimpses Into ‘New York Shops Since clothes of the sports type are now ‘so generally worn, it is but nat- ural that dress accessories should b: designed along the same lines. This fashion trend is especially apparent in the neckwear. The tweed pait, which is so greatly favored now, re- quires tailored neckwear, and among -* the new displays are collars, guimpes «+ and gitets in pique, heavy Irish linen and the heavier flannel, kid and nov- elty fabrics. In the latter there are. _ vestee effects attached to net guimpes. ~ ‘These are made up of a heavy pile broche material in green and orang: tenes. They are decidedly smart end sell at $15, 4 xy me The Bramley collar has gained great favor, especially with the girls who wear bright Windsor ties, This style collar is being offered in novel modifications with matching cuffs ip harmonizing suit colors. One eet in : white broadcloth has appliqued de- signs in brown leather sewn with scarlet yarn, Pretty sets in kid are effectively embroidered in colors and + are $4.50, The tan embroidered in brown or green as well as the gray with embroidery and insets of blue are especially attractive. The Van Dyke gauntlet glove is now greatly in demand. In one shop they are featuring these in white with the cuff lining and back stitching In color. The popular orange and cerise are especially prominent, while some have the stitching in the purple and cerise combination, which has had a... strong vogue in Paris, These gloves are marked $1.98. Do You? WHAT foo QUESTIONS. 1—What is tetanus more commonly called? From what source are ani dyes obtained? 3-—-What kind of canes are obtained from the calamus palm? n ae vine was Oliver Optio in private ife ‘ 5—Which piece of land would be the larger, one compr' half a square mile or one half 6—In what Palace at The Hague dedica ‘ 7—With what body of water does _ © Strait connect the Atlantic is the lake largest ureater population, Kentucky or Tennessee? ~ 10—Which is the larger city, Provi- dence, R. ly or Rochester, N, Y.? ANSWERS, I, lockjaw; 2, coal tar and benzole; 8, rattan; 4 Vyilliam A half a sagire 5 6, 1918; 7, Ray; 8, “adoga;' 9% Kentucky; 10, Awchester, ¥ i