The evening world. Newspaper, August 20, 1921, Page 11

“2. PEA MAST TNR! RD en The Evening World’s School of Matrimony | SUGGESTED BY JUDGE HARRY LEWIS OF CHICAGO Justice of the Court Caner O matter w they have INSL, by the Dean Publi enter ei live radeship are the tanding real and together and still dread Judge Fresohi paused a moment and then he sad “Ie this is the spirit of courtship, the spirit that leads them te thealtar, this should be the spirit that bind tem together all through their mar- tied life. And if you look into the lives of all happily married couples you will find that first and foremost they possess a true spirit of ps & spirit of comradeshity which has in d daily sinea their ‘courtship cre days and anchored them to this earth with as much force and strength as the of an oak tree are bound fo the earth “How can the a ga couple keep this spirit which means so much to t future lives?” Lasked the Judge. “How ean t hold on to the ‘tie that binds’ und the very roots and founda- tion of a happy, congenial marriage?” “First of all a marriage based upon palship and comradeship must have no secret diplomacy,” deciared Judge Freschi. “Nations which wish to agree always avoid a secret diplomacy and so must husbands and wives, There can be no comraaeship where secrets exist. A house divided against itself falls and husband and wife must understand and know all.” “But could | sverage man and Wife uiWays stand the whole truth?" T aske Isn't if always a desire to keep in the housebold that causes this secret diplomacy?" A secret diplomacy is the first step toward t ttle word ‘incompatt itity,” nied out Judge Mresoh! “Ht is th a of the parting of the wav rowhat finanvia Joss 4 man may suffer, no matter what he loses'at 4 poker party or what a wife loses att no matter what misfortune or ine may come to either of 1 n order to have a clear understanding and a happy fu- ture they must tell everything, Bet- ter have an yment at the time and Cleat it up tien and there. “Then the second great thing in palship and comradeship.is to always have a common interest,” continued Judge Freschi. “Cou- ples start out with common de- sires, common interests and thor- oughly in step. They Must not outgrow each other, “No matter what this common in- terost is, it must be cared for and de- veloped each day. It may be the hus- hand is interested in the wife's house- hold work. It may be the wife is bound up in her husband's work and feels as if she were a guiding hand, a sort of silent partner, Or it may be both engaged in the fas is frequently the modern business woman ease of th and husband. Then again it may be a daughter or son who binds them to- gether. It doesn't matter what the interest is, as long as husband and wife learn to pull together and feel that in this part of their palship and comradeship each is doing his or her part. “ “And the third and last part of any great palship and comrade- ship. be we: husband and wife must be that they cover up all defects in public. “No wife shouki criticise ‘her hus- and in public and no nusband should poke jokes at his wife before com- pany. Things said at the expense of Other Leetures in the Course. Ww. DIVERS'ON AND OUTSIDE INTERESTS Discussed by Prof. Charles Gray Shaw, New York University. v. PARENTHOOD Discussed by Judge Franklin C, Hoyt of the Children's Court. vi : MARRIAGE AND THE BUDGET SYSTEM Discussed by Pauline O. Field, Lawyer, vil. EUGENIC MARRIAG: Disoussed by Rose Rothenberg, Assistant on District Attor- ney Swann’s Staff. vit. WHY HUSBANDS AND WIVES LEAVE BACH OTHER Disoussed by Miss Genevieve Allen, in Charge of the Aban- donment Bureau. 3 Further subjcots will be annownecd , later. Arranged by The Evening World gomes .into the life things Tie man may > ma rracteristic, Palship and Comradeship Discussed by John J. Freschi, of Special Sessions. Third in a Course of Lectures By Fay Stevenson. :. ‘. (PhENew York Hrening World) f We dverage married coupie, if «certain amount ot bip-und comradestip Utpy. May he classed us happy murried, Sickness, death of dear ones, tinan= cab reverses, shattered ambitions or * misfortune which may besall them wif be lighteried in this inde- seribable spirit of geomradaship and uiderstanding them=they have each other *“Palship and comradeship means the essence of married life, the very best of it,” said John J. Freschi, Justice of the Court of Special Sessions. “It is the secret of a happy married life. 5 “You know the most popnlar word in‘diverce is Incompatibility,’ continued Judge Freschi word is protably the most overworked word in the dite tionary, but vuples whe know the spirit of palship and comradesh are quite iene nt of this word. H never nd the spirit of good com tbat draw young people to tdmire the girl's beanty, the gir an for-some physical charm or some but back of it all there is mradeship. They can spend hours C LASSES in matrimony to take the place of social intercourse and dancing in schools are urged by Judge Harry Lewis of Chicago. In a letter to the Board of Edu- cation he writes: “Out of 200dixorce suits I disposed’ of last year a large proportion were chil- dren. Teachets are not permitted to train'young people for matrimony and mothers won't.” the h band or wife te make others augh or amuse “tho crowd’ destroy all the spintt of god: comradeship. Not wife should atr her matrimonial xperienéty atca’ cluhor party or in any way make light Of her husband And the husband should not pretend nefore his chums that be is afraid of ‘the wife. ; “Nor should “husband or wife ever say anything befor ‘their children which Would belittle the other. Par- ents who are small exough to do this destroy every spark of palship and comradeship. Paiship and comradeship beautiful relationship life,” coneluded Judge the relationship that that beautiful old” sone nreads Among the Gold,’ eatest protect is the of mar Froseni inspired ‘Silver it is the on filam diverce, sep. arations and misun¢erstandings and if you sum it all up it simply means IKXHEPING IN TUNE WITH BACH OTHER.” The next lecture on this course will be published early next week. nek SI ogee 4 rnenet cme SNe _THE EVENING WORLD, SATURD OTT TEP RN Hi Tae » TAME ! | Never HAD So MUCH EXCITEMENT AT Hone | YOu MUST HAVE THE Dog DIED THE CAT IS STILL SIC _ THE HOUSE ALMOST BURNT DOWN -1 WAS POISONED ee — By Maurice K Re bac, AY, AUGUST 20, 1921. TRYING To FORTIF | NEARLY KILLED MY WIFE _ THE RooF BLEW QFF — 1 Pur THE NEIGHBORS ON THE BLINIC \— By Roy L. Copyright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Co. (The New York lrening World) ASTOR WILLIH JARR came rushing into the room orying “Help! Stop he He was followed by his little sister, who was screaming inarticalately with tem- per and had her mouth wide open, Tt was evident that the dear little girl was pursuing her brother to bite him, “By George! She is sure one fem- inist!’ myurmured. Mr, Jarr, as Mrs. Jarr held the little girl and shook her, while Master Willie, still very much frightened, made his escape. “The wild, wild women start in as ferocious little girly 1 do believe,” Mr. Jarr went on.. “Well, now I un- derstand this article I have been reading.” “What article have you been read- ing?” asked Mrs. Jar, still bolding the little girl, who now was getting calmer under the repressive action of her mother, “Why, here tt says in this news- paper that Mary Hastings Bradley, thé novelist, leaves New York this month with her six-year-old daugh- ter to ihunt the savage gorilla in the jungles of Africa. ‘The trip is mapped ‘out to the Congo, via Capetown.’ And the article says the trip will take six months and. will be entirely by foot, ones the Congo is reached, by the help of safari or native caravan.” “| don't see what you are talking about,” remarked Mrs. Jarr, as she shook the Little girl, who had now quieted down, and still holding her beside her on the sofa. “Welk I thought it rather odd that this little BradJey girl and her mother should trek on foot through wildest Narobia to’ hunt the ferocious man- killing gorillas and obtain specimens: for the American Museum of Natural History.. So,.as we have not had any vacation this summer, we might get in touch with this little lady and her little six-year-old daughter, and you and our little girl might join the safari, Of course,” Mr, Jarr went on, “the lady and ber httle gorilla-hunt- ing girl might not want our child to jnterfere with them; still our little Emma, whe is some years older than this other ttle girl, might hunt the man-eating tiger, They tell me also that the rhinoceros is very danger- ous. Yes, our little girl might devote herself to bagging tigers and bons and rhinoceroses while Mrs, Brad- ley’s little girl is devoting herself to shooting gorifas.'* “Don't be silly," eakd Mrs. Jarr. “I'm not ailly,” replied Mr. Jarr. “But here is the fem; you can Tead it for yourself, and i & grinted ta The Jarr Family McCardell N her childhood days she looked tional newspapers. Here it is, under the heading ‘Books and Authors.’ ” “I don’t see what books and authors: have to do with hunting gorillas by @ six-year-old little girl,” ventured Mrs. Jarr. ‘Nor do 1 see what makes you think I could go off with our lit- Ue Emme to kit! lions and tigers in one of our most reliable non-sensa- I She attracted muny, Vanity By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1921, by the Press Pubtiahinz Oo, (The New York Erening Word into the mirror And smiled, for it gave back to her a tace of beauty rare And she loved it as nothing else. Vhey told her she was fair to look upon And with every word came a greater sense of strength And always and forever she kept before her the glass, Recause to her this was the one unfailing source of her power No time had she for work or thought—of higher and better things Every moment was spent in ways and means to enhance her lovely self Africa,” “Ke that as it may,” Mr. Jarre in- sisted, “if our Tittle’ Emma wasn't All else was sacrificed to make way. giving a great imitation of a boy-eat- ing ‘huntress, I'H say no more. So I think we had better send her to Africa with this little playmate who ts going to shoot gorillas with her mother.” But fittle Miss Jarr began to whtm- per that she didn't want to go shoot- ing gorillas and lions and tigers, and she was sorry she had tried to bite Suitors there were many, All cost of her beauteovs existence. And life moved on apace. A wrinkle—and another ail off the emfari and took the recon- ied ctiiidren owt for ice cream sodas. ? Coparight. 1021, by the Prem Publishing Oo, (The New York Kvening World), QUESTIONS. 1. Who wrote the great mm “Jerusalem Delivered.” fon _ 2 What are the four central teeth in the human jaw called? Was the one aim of oe Which could no more be hers. WH AT D0 You Know bor better and for woree, A wise grandmother came one day and saw The vision of now and the future, and cautioned In the good old-fushioned way—that beauty ie as beauty does But she tossed her head and ecoffed at the words of one ‘To whom she said had already lived her life. For they saw only the surface of the beautifal being And at last she chose one who could satisfy As years went by she looked longer in her mirrer and saw therein Serious indeed it was, and the doctor of beauty was calied ‘Lo hold fast to that whieh she regarded as her big asset No children came—she wanted none—tor they would interfere. Came the day when loes and disaster found its way to her rosy boudoir And she could no longer indulge in things she held dear, ‘Vbere was nothing but reproach for the partner she had chosen No servants and no friends came to her aid, For she had given them nothing but vanity. Her beauty gone and with it her one source of power Came days dark and memories bitter. ‘The evening of life found her undovely, unloved and unsatistied And as she gazed into her mirror she cried aloud to the glass: “You give back to me only what I have given you—vunity. “Hear ye all, the world is a mirror that reflec 8 just what you give 3. In what Asiatic country is the City of Teheran located? 4. Of what Central American repub- lic is Tegucigalpa the largest city? 5. What term is used to denote the influencing of one mind by another © without other means of communica tion? 6. At what exposition was the newly invented telephone first ex- hibited to the public? 7. 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You must soften the pores by hot applications and a good soap and allow it to remain on long enough to soften the dirt, Rinse in hot water and then cold and finally take a piece of ice and rub over the entire face. ‘This treatment if persisted in will remove them. ‘The cold application after the hot is necessary to make the pores contract. 1 am a young fellow eighteen years old, 8 feet. 2 inches in height and weigh only 101 pounds stripped. Onty recently j the army, | was rejected by What Would You Have Done? By Richard S, Uhrbrock. Conumigt. 1921, by the Prem Publishing O» ithe Nie’ York Events Wortd), ILLIAM BRYCE has a large motor boat to sell. There te an injury in the hull which wil cost a large sum to repair, At present this injury cannot be seen, as the bowt has been pulled wp on the beach. A close inspection with- out moving the craft will not reveal the defect To-day 4 man catled and looked at the boat. He knows nothing about boats and was well pleased with the eraft that Bryce 18 offering for sal Before leaving, an offer was made that would be quite fair if the boat Was in good condition, Bryce knows that since the boat was injured it ta worth only half what has been of- fered. A he knows that the law in such cases is perfectly clear — It there is no misrepre- Lat the buyer owner i not ts that may exist na thing ere for sale, What would you do? 1 Tell the purchaser of (he defect and either lose the sale altogether or certainly cut down the price you would get? 2. Aceept the offer without telling toe purchaser of the defect? reason being underweight. 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Thy pupil of the eye af a yenomous snaki is vertical, whereas that of a harm less snake is round The symptoms of every kind ¢4 poisonous snake bite are the same Pain in the wound with swellings an | discoloration of the tisues, which a: rapidly destroyed. The effect of to Pelpee is upon the centres in «the brain that control the heart and fungs. These are paralyzed, so that breathing becomes very difficult an! the action of the ‘heart very labored What Is the first thing to do? Pri nt the poison fram entering th nod strean. 1 this by cutting o the circulation above the wound o between the wounded part and th heart with anything you have on hand, a handkerchief, a strap, a strij, of clothing, anything you can t, around the limb and improvise a tour niquet. Loosen this in fifteen min utes. Meanwhile enlarge the wou! and make # bleed. Cul a slit—if yo Wave no lance use a fine penknife Wade through the woun+ lengthwis: of the limb, two inches long and hal/ an inch deep. 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EAR FRIEND: Le. me to day pam on to you a thought from one of the keenest sufferers this country has ever known—Aaron Burr, | “That mind is truly great which can bear with equanimity the trifling and unavoidable vex- attons of life and be affected only by those which determine our substantial bliss." ‘This ts particuiarly apt to-day, for we must realise sooner or later that the ouly races which are in a turmoil are those of CIVILIZED NATIONS. Very truty youre, ALFALFA SMYTH