The evening world. Newspaper, August 13, 1921, Page 11

eral “Professional Men Make 1 MostSuccessful Wooers--- ' Business Men ‘Effete’” **Cave Man No Longer Popular—Girls Want “ Man Who Talks Understandingly.’’ “Day of the Bouquet and Box of Candy Wooing Is a Thing of the Past,” Says Elisabeth Sanxay Holding, Authoress. wyers, the doctors, &¢, ce to the literary world has just blished, a little over a year ago. By Gertrude Ruth Snyder MBERICAN busindss men—you are a dead issue when it comes to A conquering « girl's heart. All the roads leading to the Kingdom of My Lady's Favor are nog being held by the professional men, the ‘This is the opinion of Elisubeth Sanxay Holding, whose latest contri- been published by George H. Doran pany under the title, “Rosafeen Among the Artists.” Mrs, Holding’s novel, “Invincible Minnie,” ‘brotgnt forth a shewer ot comment when is a keen Bharacter analyst, and Waving analysed the modern girl is a stanch champion Yor her. WRosaleen represents modernity as ‘injrrored in Greenwich Village.* Her beinte among the artists there is quite Whetched, with only a cursory glimpse of Romance, When the doors leading “tOr16ve are finally opened to her, after youth had stealthily left her, they re- Yeul only a matter of fact love. When “hef man" asks her to marry him, with never a caress or word of love, whe—very much to his astonishment (/aostarts to weep. Why? \ “1 wanted you tobe. . 5 dear , .. and loving,” she sobbed. How many* girls there ure to-day (Jwho, if they were perfectly frank, would admit the same thing. Pro- yo§als, sentimental proposals, went out Jong before Prohibition. “There is no such thing a@ courting nese days,” declares Mrs. Holding. “he day of the bouquet and box of candy wooing is a thing of the past ‘phere is a better courtship now—just mutual understanding and gvved, solid friendship. “But don't you think the girls like ne ‘cave man’ wover?” L asked. (emphatically) not Do you she queried, surprised. “The ‘¢ man’ is not popular with the g Tpe day of t man is no more. ‘To-day the wagt the man who can talk. That's ‘owhiy “the business man is effete. The ‘popular man with the girls now is the professional man—the lawyer, the dgctor—the man who can talk under- standingly to her. /'The trouble, the big trouble to- day,” réfettedt the Wuthoress ‘through rings of smoke, “is that men don't undegStand women, 1t is hard—very hiard?-for her, and it will be hant for some time to come. The husband ¢ pects his wife to be feminine all the t He is jealous of her outside work! He cannot understand why she Spoujd find interests outside of the homé, Why shouldn't the woman felp ‘too? Look at the animal king dom? for example. ‘The male does not do all the work, The female di her share. Woman does not like to fel fader nt. And economically she is dependent © can be a det nt t) her huswand's svecess. Knowins tat he has a wife and family to sup- porto he is afraid to take ‘risks he night if he felt freer. Then, too, th Tran cunnot afford to buy her all the things ste has been accustomed to before mariiag la nterested to &e how Fannie Hurst's experiment turng out Doe 1 advocate it?" (Reflectin Yes, ) It an ideal solution if- iactjeable, But is it? ‘That is why Memeanxious to see the outcome “Men are victims of _ senti- mentality,” continued Mrs. Holding “Women ‘are senlimental—but m so. They expect thelr wive ave no flaws, and when they find they >have they are hur, Women, of the other hand can condone mis- fakes! ‘They know when they marry tut ‘heir husbands will have vices they are 1 to forgive them.” Over the tea cup we forgot the ment women for awhile and dis us: the “modern girl question A what she thought of the “bobbed hair” dapper, Mrs. Holding sreplieyt: “T Jike bobbed hair. It's cool and eomfartable. Why should men senti- Mentalize Tong hair? As a matter of oa zi — fact, in savage countries, where both allow their hair to grow, the man's hair's more often the longer.” Mrs. Holding bears out all her ideals of women helping in the home. She has just completed her fourth novelsand: stil], finds time to run very pretty fone and keep two bright Tittle girls interested and ip- teresting, But what about you business men who out? What ‘s the trouble? Don't you think you had better inv: ale? Evening World’s SCHOOL OF MATRIMONY Advice on Every Step From Courtship to Later Life Given by Prominent Authorities FIRST ARTICLE IN :: SERIES ON THIS PAGE MONDAY Appetizing Ways for Using Apples By Emilie Hoffman. > APPLE PANCAKE. EPARATE four eggs and beat S whites stiff. Beat yglks and mix with one generous tablespoonful of flour, @ pinch of salt and one cup of milk. When tho: ended fold in beat chopped or sliced very thinly. Have one tablespoonful of butter hot in in, pour in the pancake batter ani over moderate heat ‘until done vrinkle with sugar and cinnamon and serve with cream FRIED APPLES. This makes a good accompanimen: apples and cut into quarters 01 eighths, according to sige. Sprinkl sugar into the hot fat in fryingpan and fry apples until nicely done, APPLE ROLL. Beat three eggs and one cup sugar until creamy, Add three tablespoon- fuls cold waiter and one cup. flour fted together with quarter tea- wonful saltand one t mixture on greased paper in a Leave she sugar. Cut into th sauce, APPLE-RICE PUDDING. Put stewed sliced apples in bottom of pudding dish and cover with plain ice or rice custard anu bake * By Sophie Who refuges to get te For fear of the intim: To quarrel with you. And’ witWholds judgment Who respects your silence But not intrude upon you Nor ov When yoy are down; And withholds the one that And, finally, And who ts with you, A Friend Irene Loeb FRIEND is he Who stands up for you in public And gives you the tr Who is interested in your affairs, But pet inquisitive of them; Who fights vou when you need it and are strong But’soothés and sytmpathizes when you are weak close to you y that breeds contempt Who does not question you Because you have not answered his letter And always waits until the uth in private morning after A friend is he who gives you the benefit of the doult When doubting world make you lose wlways Unt! he has heard your side, When you do not wish to speak And is a good listener to what you have lo say Who will seek your company tep your hospitality; Who praises you, but never flattens Who censors, but never blames A friend is he who gives advice, but never inflicts it Who cautions you, but never threaten: Who gives you the first 1ift Who returns your money at the time he agreed Who gives you the word that will ald you will pain friend is one Who always remembers when all others forget right or wrong. Whether you are right or wrong, sughly blendet whites and one or two apples that have been peeled and meat and fs easily prepared. Wash spoonful bak- hg powder. Mix weil, then spread llew pan, Bake in hot oven. ton paper: cover well to keep soft and set away to cool. Then spread the sheet with apple sauce, roll wp and sprinkle with powdered k slices and serve with plain cream or eream _AUGUST 13 Beat It! sxwwihs. NO : ONE PIECE SUITS ON THIS BEACH | THE LAW. HERE SAYS, TWO PIECE Now [ HAVE TWO PIECES OFFICER i aie’ Benner rrr: Is 40 the “Dangerous Age” for Husbands? “Psychological Restlessness of Middle Age May Inspire. Indian Summer Love’’—-Cases in Point. By MargueriteMooersMarshall support her since last March. It is and who suffered for it—was that of counsel that the late Jake Hamon, oil man and Republican ty “Buttertly Girk Committecman from Ol ting w the story, iliewed by Mrs. Sha Mr. 5) S there a “dangerous age” for men? Is the husband between fc and fifty in danger of for spent $8,800 a year on tie air tting “To y that my busband is un- cor¢ his ola weve tone pewionet sport like to express it their two children and ey uildly,” Mrs. Shaw declared cause of his infatuation That suggestion has just been ofter- Mrs, Isi Orthwein, of Chicago, teen-year-old Cla ed by a New York woman over whose home, in her own words, hangs “the shadow of divorce,’ She is quoted as {ey Companionship suying: “My husband is madly infa.- young man, 1 vated with anoth woman and wants eighicen year t winter shot nd killed Herbert Last winter ‘she sixteen-year-old p, He was no rash Okla, r he had been ma and must hay brought to. trial his freedom. He has told me so, As C!OS0 to his fortieth birthday if not — Gray-haired and middle-axed jton Rogers, ray yer, at the time when he dent attentions to Mrs. Orth- interested in Mrs. Ida Sniffen than in his own I look about, it seems to me there ia ROME It He was the mannsey oft Loriys a veritable epidemic of cases of mad ing infatuation on the part of husbands Wein, the beautiful divorced wife of a for women other than their wives— Wetlthy oll operator, ‘They quarrell men between forty and fifty, That had visited 1 seems to be the age at which some men grow tifed of the woman tney have loved.” Do the facts, in cases of matrimu- he proposed marriage nial difficulty that has int ed he met New Yorkers, bear out this somewhat in his kil pessimistic philosophy? And if so, Another sensational case of a mon Mrs, Walters. why? who became estranged from the wife C dyn Giddings. all and sh ‘defense, for four years they shared in varinns pleas month after she instances of matrimonial infelictty magnate, was forty-one the man between forty and fifty has when Aevtmarried been the protagonist e much- headlined Stillman affair is a cage in point. James A. Stillman been well within the “dangerous de- settlement on he t have ‘i divo oad f forty ta fifty when estrang Gopyn Wy the Pre Publiating Ca. prised ment between himself and Mr Anne (Th w York Evening We Ng marrh 1 U, Stillman began, If his wife's ac Mocking 13 QUESTIONS, cusation un ue, urned from pare usations are true, he turned 1—In what European country are Aiiarent ty to that of other women in the valdai Hills? a Just that Indian suinmer period 2.—Which of the planets was known 2° {i Anoth been to the ancients as Lu when it was o. not fi ikened to the Stillman imbr . of Morning star and as Hesperus when it 444° maturity was the evening star? i an allegedly errant middle- nick band ts that of Philip Rin Ghee gos in) wealthy banker and broker of No. University of Vermont located? Nor to be marr 15 William Street. He is a man in 5.—On what bay is Mt. Vesuvius forty-tive her s nan case, Wineh by situated? A) co aecaniithe othe middle life, and his wife, Blinor, is SBOE age must a man have tyrouen xbout the same age. Now she has peached to be candidate for the Vice- ti ctiesnosn in just sued him for divorce, after nine- Presidency of the United States? being foreed 10, teen years of marricd life. Sie peewee is the largest lake in yi. js ny jonger hares ag co-respondent Muss Madri- “g—On what river is Vienna, Aus B witen enne La Barre, twenty years old and tria, situated? Huey ay of the 9--What group of islands did the United States purahase from Denmark vhe former “Butterfly Girt Follies, “A miserable Bluebeard of jf, ’4917> wis ie gollng woman sake of his tnfatud get all other loyalties a husband! Is the way ia which Mrs. 10.—What is the common name giv- Shaw's counsel deseribed Mr. Shuw en te strong sulphuric acid? ual ae. moth bab at a recent hearing before Supreme ANSWERS, pollae wie: Court Justice Martin, and Mrs, Shaw 2 Venus; 3, Verdi; 4, Burlington @6, Bay of Naples; 6, 35; when th has said that she is utterly destitute 7 Victoria reper 8, Danube; 9, Vir- of Indian summer love— ad that her husband has fatled to gin Islands; 10, oll of vitriol. fifty. » By Maurice Ketten - ALLRIQHT OFFICER! _ who are not str © very bad maniers!” Mra, Jarr inter= GOING DOWN! by the Press Publishing Co, ug. York ycwiug -Wasld) imagination! If you can make money a’ an author, train it so that not run away with you. Imagination, Into Worry and worry leads to fear, in fact, worry and fear are good; otherwise Aiegier, who had left his wife and had a. furious quarrel, ghter to share were staying together and she shot but she was acquitted after The thing for you to do is to FEARS are ABLE ts never imaginary, ¥ via, fore you tell your other, iL-might be better to test your thoughts with rea fears to an- w York was Mrs. Walters had tried, in a tit despair, to poison dren, of whom Rogers wns the childken. cied, bul KEEP STILL. In short, unless yo lize your imainatic practical, not Uyt his infatuation was so Kreat that and herself The r rself recovered ch he was then quitted for her share in 1. She has just been acquitted After Mrs. Giddings: a divorge Loriys Eiton ATPATIA SMITH : To go back a little tainly in a number of notable & § youth far another woman Elia Corty, © mutti-nfttttanatre= 12.—DEEP KNE men! One often woman ted Lo be and permet snd head should. be 3.—Who composed the opera Aida? yo yioientiy admired « pont is the ty whom we are de der shuld vary alling unexpect tained positions. This exercise is admivable both for wives vy husbands ar Hard Times Only Relief in Sight Is to Be Relieved Of Our Rolls! By Neal R. O’Hara Copyright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Oo, (Tho New Yor’ ening World) HESB are hard times, but they T could be worse. Every one should stop knocking and boost. That's what the landlords are doing. Be cheerful. Money is tight, but what of it® If you'd been work- ing as hard as money has lately you'd want to be tight yourself. Brighten the corner where you are, but don't remain in the corner tog lang. No doubt about it, this is a tough season. Kven.the paakandlers are pasging. dividends, Feotories man- ufacturing tinsel. are. nok to. be opened, till Chrigtmas. [f. baseball attendance doesn't improve every ball park magnate will have to hock his diamond. Business is terrible in many lines, Guys that make single-faced phono, graph discs have to call ‘em one-piece records to sell ‘em at all. Shipping Board has décidéd to slice up ite wooden fleet ang sell. it, foe potatd chips. Industry's sagging at the knees everywhere. ‘The only onea that are working fall timeyarg the guys that make up the funny stories that Abraham. Lincoln told: Conditions are bad fer the ultimate consumer. He pays forthe bone that the butcher pulls out of his steak, He also paya.60 cents, a poupe for the hand that the butéber leaves on the scales, ‘Phe white chips your » iceman leaves in the gutter ara worth about a nickel api Inspectors read your meter monthly and you have te take.gas when you look at. your electric light: bill. Movle musicians call a strike and Lou-Tellegen has a lockout, Actors demand @ closed shop and managers Lasiat on -the open deor for bedroom By Roy L. Coppright, 1951, by ths ress Publishina-tuo, “ee AYBE \t'@ just as well we M didn't go anywhere this ween: remarked = Mr. Jarr ag a cogl,morning breeze came tfflo the dining room and stirred the fowers that-Mrs. Stryver had sent Mrs. Jarre from her summer_ home. “All the Comforts of home beat x0- ing up agalnst_bad food _and strange people with bad Wfanners"—— “And one might speak of people ngers but who have rupted.. ““So please put duwn that newspaper and eat your breakfast. How can you expect the children to observe the little niceties of fife when yeu, do net?” Tien, that the chiddfen might an example of the little nicetic “jife, Mr, Jarr put down his newspaper and tueked his napkin, bike; around ing throat, Yes, apd often, when he was (fra hurry at breakfast, he poured fils coffee inty his saucer! Anyway," Mes. Jarr went on, don't see what you find to interest you in the newspapers in the morn- ing—policemen clubbing innucent by- Standers and the famine in Russia where peasants are starving to death because they bel isn't very appetizing to me ‘T don't Want no preal! I don't want no cereal!" erted ttle Mis# Jarr You eat your little sister's céreal, Willie,” said Mra. Jarr soothin Master Jarr passed his saucer for another hetping of wheat wtrtskers. Maste brom the Hearted Grain. *{ don't wanta eat her leavin imme some for mnysell!" wh Masher dace "You should be sent from the ta eve in Bolshe moper you naughty Boy! Papa, why don’t The Jarr Fam farces. Show business is hit so hard the scalpérs are now offering one ticket for the price of two, And to make the situation complex, now we're having movie censorshop een- sorship, when every fan knows that super-films are more to be pitied than censored. / But things could be worse, not- withstanding. Oysters on the half shell are, better than, uo oysters at all, Right-o! To-day every women has a rol) in her stocking. You can figure that out for yourself. And every one isn't out of work. Not every one. For statistics show that Nero is the only noted violinist that isnt making new records fer the talking machines, ‘ The: trouble Hes in Washington. Washington Is a city of magnificent distances, if yous measure it. with red tape. And Congress is a lawmaking body that takes a 5% hat. While the citizens are- forming. in bread lines Congress takes a loaf. Word comer from the suburbs that the people aze starving. So Congress cuts down the tarif€ om. artichoRea.to_ relieve the stricken constituents. 6 is now on the save more money every time (hey frank ‘thelr thatl. Other impreve- ments are being considefed to-relieve the ttred ‘business man.. That {3, to rélieve him of all he’s got left. There is a rumor that the Nation wante loss. ayes, But Congtegs. pays no adgentign . la. rumors. unless aceom- panied by a 2-eent stamp. Mean- whilé, Cépigress gets ready to send seeds. to the people. But the people don’t want seeds—they want raisins. (The Now York Krening Werld), you make him behave?” “Why don't you let him have some more from the, dish replied Mg. Jare mildty to his good lady “1 wish you'd Wey ite maintain» little disetpline and god Kehaytor in- stend Of “encotiraging “Wille to” be rude!" Mrs. Ja rotested. he® and proceeded with hia be whe” Mrs, farr took the newspaper ind began searching through thedatest MUagbaad shoot ing notes and other urticlgs of igter amo here se Sam ia Suddenty the litte Jarr girl broje into hyaterioal ladehter, ind Mr. Jarr looked tp tomnote® thyt™ his son” and heir was playfy paigtifie his nd€e with strawberry’ jam - Mrs. Sarr Seized (he young impres- “sionistMnd ted ‘him Howling from the tale ¢ nares “4 help me with the children!" remarked Mrs Jairplain- tively, Upon. betoTtT psy. . “Dae e, are getting beyond my strength!" sotine theoiittte zirl was feeding the cat, pitting Mts of fF dewrtron the ric beside ver enix, at- temptéd-recgive the’ nila ® warning notice, and dr sh moing fe Tpsét Wis coffee all over his git Bummer sult, Look out forthe’ flodr! Look otit for my mug that) gust had aned!** cfied Mra! Jarr. “Wh, oh, why ‘fre you 80 careless?” ? But Mr. Jarre *wshed from the table gnd after chanting tts attire rushed oun te Howse, av) nw timetettet ia Breakfast before begimadng t “ “AL Lie -stree poooenie in t auto. matic doughnat restaurant, be beher! Mr. Slaxdasky tao thasier, making 6 modest. morning meal of coftea ami S cuullers,. ~~ “Hello, Stayinsky! “Arent you boardir days?” A replied Mr, Siavinaky mueurn “When © man is merrted and gotgt a big farnidyesomy times Wr finds there ain't no room for hym a Tee 0 Waetertyte | * tdelieww youl” said Mr. Jarr. And he sat down beside Slavineky and ordered votls @and-Or ier too ried Mr. Sarr at homer these a Group Exercises for Summer Health| Specially Arranged by Doris Doscher : bi Ww ES zs Aa B dy ge of the body and for the effect Upon the circulation wh from the wk demanded of the heavy museley of the thigh The group will find this exercise bg we more adaptable to a game than any, its cullivation of steady. eregh cas- of the others I have given you, as it Ss our old familiar ehjidhoed game of “squat under tne technica name of “1 ad AS in this ed knee position iy sustained, thereby’ protonging ‘the strain on the muscles, it is of, great benefit in strengthening and shaping the Texs.