The evening world. Newspaper, August 9, 1921, Page 19

Has Geraldine -Revised Her Farrar Again “Reversible” Matrimonial Philosophy? BEFORE Taking Called All Men ‘“‘Cakes’’ With Different “Icings,’’ and Said She’d Never Eat but One Kind Forever. AFTER Taking Found “‘Companionship’’ and Mutual Desire for Simple Life ‘‘Key to Married Happiness and Content.’’ NOW—? ? ? £ ? ? ? ? ? By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Copyright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Oo, (The New York Evening World), EFORB she married Lou Tellegen, Geraldine Farrar sald: “I shall never marry because marriage means eating one cake all your life and keeping on eating it whether you like it or not.” After sie married Lou Tellegen, Geraldine Farrar said: “Yes, it certainly is a success. We are very, very happy. The secret? Good comradeship, similar tastes, an equal interest in art and complete onfidence in each other.” Now that the Farrar-Tellegen matrimonial ship has drifted on the rocks, now that the matince-idol- husband is about to sue the prima- donna-wife for separation, and she is to fight his suit with counter- action, isn't Geraldine wondering if first thoughts are not better than second? Never was there a sharper con- trast between pre-matrimonial and post-matrimonial views than in those voiced most frankly by Geraldine Farrar before and after taking Lou ‘Tellegen. ‘That she never would marry, that married artists cannot be happy, that Mo man could ever mean to her as much as her art, that she would not the herself to one person of whom ghe might grow tired—these were the ideas of Geraldine unwed. That she was so happily married, that hers was a very special case, that she and her husband were 50 interested in each other's work, that they shared confidence, sympathy, frankness and comradeship and a d' sire for a simple, frugal life—these were the confessions of Geraldine wed, One can't help wondering if to-day the ghost of the earlier, more coolly cynical Geraldine is pot revisiting te woman who is alleged to have locked her husband out of their home—whiie her lawyer retorts that “she has been far too lenient with this arrogant man"—and if the ghost is not whis- pering in her ear, “I could have told you! You might have known!" For in her pre-matrimonial era this prima donna said, eleven years ago: “Ll mever shall marry; J never have intended to marry. 1 am old-fashioned enough to think a woman should be subordinate to her husband, and 1 must have my freedom or I can't work, and I don’t want to live if I can't work. Five years later, and still unwed, she remarked, wisely: “Hypocrisy is at the bottom of all these stories about happily marriea stage stars. Tuey would give their ten fingers if they dared to say so. They kowtow to re- spectability. They enter into a part- nership where they know beforenand they cannot fulfil all the demandy of each, Either they must leave the \heatre or leave marriage.” (Was Geraldine a prophet? she nor Lou Tellegen has theatre. And now?——) Even more fully and picturesquely did Miss Farrar expound her before- taking-matrimony — philc when she told The Evening World just few months prior wo her wedding day: “Men are like cakes in a bag. After you have begun to eat the cake wi the green ic.ng you think perhaps you would like the one with pink icing better. You try that, and a yearning for chocolate seizes you You put that aside, for the cake still in the boitom of the bag allures. Now, I shall never marry, bee Maar ras ineans eating one cak your Ife and Keeping on eating it whether you like it or not. You know, I should not like to have to keep on eating my cake after [ had had enough." Neither left the But how differently she t after almost two years of married life with one of the most magnificent lovers who ever harrowed the ptible hearts of matinee girls. es, it certainly success. We are very, very happy then plained to The Evening World. “One reason Mr, Tellegen and are so hap- pily married Is because we are so in- terested in cach other's work, We riticise each other, you know, Mr, nis brutally frank and I am [sm politely frank, Hach of ue urderstands the demands of the other's work. think mine is a very special c: Some husbands might resent the r strictions imposed upon me by my vaice, but Mr, Tellegen understands. i) Lam to sing the next day we have @ quict dinner by ourselves and then he reads to me “When Mr, Tellegen and I were en. gaged | said, ‘Now, tell me just what do you expect of me?” He sud then that he would not dream of asking me to give up my career, that he did hot understand how any man could make such a demand of a woman, and that he was irmen y proud of all 1 was and would be. (Yet it is now whispered that “Tellegen likes a quiet home lite, which ‘he found to be in conflict with his wife's professional aspirations 7) “1 must. feel and confidence,” conti married Woman. woman asked me when Mr. Telle inspire perfect Geraldine the was making love to a little girl on the stage if it did not make me jealous to see him kiss her. ‘Why, no more than if she were a chair, “That is just an expres- Mr. Tellegen feels about my roles in no; 1 answered sion of his ar the same way opera. “We fo to the movies a great deal and we stay at home a great deal, We both like the simple, frugal life that is really necessary to a serious artist. Neither of us takes any stim Jant, but we save our natura! energies for our roles by getting a great deal j ee of sleep and rest. You see, all our tustes are simple, Neither of us cares for society. “A little talent is needed in mar- riage,” she summed up, “but I don't believe hard work does very much good. Of course, some effort is re- quired, even where people love each other very much, to keép life oiled and smooth and easy. Besides love, there must be understanding and sympathy and, as I sald before, con- fidence. But, after all, the whole thing sae § up in the words, ‘good comrade- The story of Geraldine Farrar’s re- action toward marriage might be pias up in three chapter head- Chap. L—Aversion! Chap. Il.—Conversion! _ Chap. I yet to be written)— Next versio OOOO PPR LPP P LAID APPAR What to Do Until The Doctor Comes By Charlotte C. West, M. D. eR Wea Tank ety ele Oo, ERYSIPELAS, OME persons are much more sus- ceptible to the germ which causes erysipelas than others, and, although we may boast that we are perfectly healthy and could not Possibly be attacked in this manner, we never know at what moment something untoward may arise and Predispose one to the viru For instance, an ulcerated tooth or series of ulcerated teeth may so weaken the soft tissues of the chock us to invite the germ of this to find a ready lodgement thane"? have such a cuse under observation While we look for this condition at ee ae * wound, it dor out any nuviced e skin, and is usually econo an in the springtime. It developa s from three to seven days, As a ruit there is @ chill and fever; headache sometimes vomiting Wn e femetln nd more or less he favorite sit is at the cori tion of the n for the eruption the mouth, func. © and cheek, corner fred may It then spreads over ysipelas of the fac the eye, or a patch o cheek on the rare. uvels to the body, but may 80 severe that the entire face len beyond recognition, instant measures to lessen its sever should be enforced, and for this purpose we tind the following of sig. nal value: Pieri acid solution 1 t5 ,000, with 12 grams of alcoho! to the liter, dt 1s painted sro ee swol- Therefore, diseased i and a dry cotton dress- ing applied, Kepeat every twelve hours. Eruption ix checked, tempera- ture reduced and improven provement in gen- eral conditi e As erysip $ contagious the THE EVENING WORDD, TUESDAY, AU GUST 9, 1921. an You Beat It! semth. By Maurice Ketten ULL SPEED THE PARTING GUESTS The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell Copyright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Oo, (The Now York Bening World). 66] WONDER if looking at so many ] moving pictures wouldn't ruin one's remarked Mrs. Jarr, “Of course one would not mind ruining one's eyes if thereby one pre vented the ruin of a nation’s morals. “Why give a look if it is going to eye pa- Hea aes be guarded (gua nuined) ruin anything?" asked Mr. Jarr, takes two weetee Nes This usually “Doggone it! It seems to me that If_ pier d cannot be_ proc everybody is greatly concerned in employ a solution of boracic acid, a SupBressing everybody else's unsup- large teaspoontul to a point of boiled pressed desires, hut there's just as constant contact with the inAnnea papers—but what's that got to do skin, Painting the borders of the With injuring the eyesight?” Inflamed patch with liquid collodion “I was thinking of all the women may prever spreading moving picture censors; they have to e Maxims of a Modern Maid By Marguerite Movers Marshall Cony right 1981, by the T washing. Prces Publishing Co, > (Tho Now York Evening World) Ho man who has asked for and obtained a woman’s forgiveness feels exactly like the little boy who hu survived the ordeal of a thorough Mud was never such a temptation! Women used to be taught that men would “protect’’ them, but as a “protection” the average male is about as ineffeetns bretla. When a man generously offer: town for his wife, he and that he on his offer. considers t is quite justi ‘There are moments when every as the average um- Both invariably collapse at the most critical moment. the at he has reached the apex of courtesy ied in forgetting the next morning to make good night before, to take 4 package in professional bachelor makes love so earnestly that he almost convinces himself. It this season’s nope too voluminous bathing suit maintains the July rate of sh inkage through August ‘some mermaids—and mermen—wil) have to go home in barrels by Labor Day! Marriage is, for woman, the great adventure; for man, the great fusal of aqventure. sit all day looking at films to see what is immoral, and I feel sure tt must be hard on their eyes,” Mrs, Jarr explained. “What I can’t understand is why the morals of censors are not utter- ly ruined,” remarked Mr. Jarr. ‘The average citizen only sees an immoral picture at rare intervals, Dog my cats! I've been cheated, I never see ny. But censors see them all the lime, or see what they think is im- nioral, and then they censor, I eee by the papers that one of the lady cen- sors cut the pictures of Texas bath- ing girls in one-piece bathing suits, out of a news reel. summer beaches, everywhere, women and girls are wearing them. “Looking at them on never injured anywody’s murmured Mr. Jarr. * Kreud most of our sins come from the busting oul of suppressed desires, 1 wonder if all (he censoring that is being done these days isn't going to be followed by still wi in the future ing suppressed, books are being sup- pre see geod liquer has been sup- Mrs, Jurr interrupted. But L do wish 1 knew where we could get some good Claret at reasonable prices. And I do miss cooking sherry. It flavored so many things 60 pal- vtably. And I don't see why a law ould be aussed that prevents mo from having some brandy in the house in case of sickness As for cen- soring pictures of bathing girls in one-piece bathing sults, that seems ridiculous to me. And as’ for suppress- ng books, I do so want t read ‘Jurgen.’ 1 have heard it's a beautl- fully written story and not vulgar at all. You promised to get it for me, And if you can, and it doesn’t cost too much, get a bottle of sherry" T'li get you both,” ssid Mr. Jarr. Tdon't unow. any Bookleeser to alip me a copy of ‘Jurgen’ securely sealed and marked ‘For Medicinal Purposes y,' but al! day long the bontleggers Phe Ghana we aan Kene ~ sht Slip into my office. Toney the boot- hi an ‘oman remembers longest is usually the one she ought tie he has chianti, Johnson, most quickly to forget the r, and Jenkins, the book- aan : eald “Me cal. ay have their own pet rum run- Tt was a man who said “Men are deceivers ever.” A woman would een Rava Dacaa ner anita have qualified the statement thus: “Men TRY to be deceivers ever—and wants through bis club steward; Fred get away with it about four times out of ten.” Sometimes a cat says “Miau! Miau!” and sometimes she says “I've so often wondered, dear, why you never married!" me men don't Know what to do when their wives are away and some men know wo much to do! = the barber tells me he can get me some imported Scotch.” “If they could cut out Nquor like they cut out bathing girly in the pte tur 1 wouldn't: w interp Mra Jarry * yun hey’ cen sor bobbed hair fur girls next and short ekirta’ Don'T LET EN KNow How GLAD SuRe WE CAN IF HR JOHN Group Exercises Specially Arranged by Doris Doscher STRETCHING ARMS UPWARD. ONE—Bend the trunk sideways to the right and touch the floor with the right hand; allow the knees to bend to admit this. TWO—Kise w un erect position and stretch the right arm upward THREE-—Bend to the left side and touch whe left hand to the floor, the right returning to the FOUR—Kise and stretch upward; alternate the Keturn the hand left arm ctions, p after ai to the hi stretching on the last count, the most ciren This exercise is one of effective for quickening the tion throughout the body, ae the larg est muscular groups in both the trunk and thigh are in action. He sure that the upward movement of the arm pulls strongly upon the Ghest, to correct any cramped posi tion that ma the bendin cramped pi your upat prove especk in particula Strain beth ing train have tle that be en of rin nd we Mf ener s you Uaye you ut wssumed La But at all the No, 10-TRUNK BENDING SIDEWAYS, TOUCHING FLOOR AND Mothers’ no thermometer, test r for baby's bath with your eibow, To test food pour 4 lttié over the wrist, lt should feel lukewarm, When baby vomits do not attribute it to teething or overfeeding and let it goat that If vomiting te habitual, it is probably due to wrony feeds and the error shouid me without delay. Somet nN is caused by a tizht ali nina! band Overfeeding, rapid feeding or frequent Nir Inay cause vomit Playing with a fi ‘in tae mpure or ak od, vor tow moat, a Suburban Specials The Choicest News Items Hang : On the Rural Date Oo They Bloom in Rows From Right, 0., to Oola, La. esd Lines By Neal R. O’Hara Comyrtet LL the four-alarm firés are in A the populous zones, but the real news happens in the eub- urbs. ed the Rubicon, Washington crossed the and Bergdoll crossed the War De- partment. All of ‘em heading for the suburbs. All the news that’s fit to print blooms in rows of rural date lines. We can prove it by to- day’s ticker service: SOCO, N. Y.—Linotypers’ Union adopts new cheer: “Etuoin, etaoin, etaoin! Shrdlu!” BOSKY,* Del.—Citizens protest at telephone service, Claim it has gone from bad to normal. RUSHTHE, Kan,—Business at low ebb here. Too hot to fight. Court plaster a drug on the market. Too hot to drink. Snakebites crash vo two for a quarter, YOUKNOW, Me.—Consignment of toddle tops reaches town and de- mand for dining room tables doubled. PURE, R. 1—Bike Riders’ Union refuses to sanction six-day race. De- clares the boys must have Saturday afternoon off. HOOT, Mon.—Local militia scored 100 per cent. in target practice, using 45 calibre blank cartridges, NOAIS, Ark.—Low necks being worn this season have thrown 10,000 buttonhole workers out of work. FOUNTAIN, Penn,—Local druggist monopolizes prescription business by giving stomach pump with every pint. PRETTY, Miss.—The village fool asks Mr. Edison just one question: Does he know the answers to his latest list? Caesar cror Delaware 1921, by the Preas Publiahing Co. (The New York Frenine World), FIVEAND, Tenn—Board of Health closes town's only picture house until it gets another clean sheets ; RIGHT, 0.—Carload of dynamite arrived to-day to blow nine mofe holes in the golf club course, $ LIEBENSIF, Mich.—Carnegie UM, brary has added “Robinson Cré and the Sears-Roebuck catalogue its shelves, Library Committee bla heard “Main Street” is a good bot and will install a copy if it isn’t t@ much like a directory, Committée has turned over copy of Police Ga zette to the police. Police are tite vestigating the inside pages, ; WEEKLY, Wash.—New procegs discovered by agricultural profed sors. Feed cows golden-rod to make ‘em give rich milk. COPPER, Ore.—County papers sum pend on account of wood pulp short age. Claim overproduction of erpquet sets has wrecked the news print mat ket. COOLIDGE, Cal.—Women assert powor of ballot and put heavy penal ties on snoring. First offense, thirty, nights in solitary confinement. See= * ond offense, hanging. Third offense, bottle of asthma cure. RICKARD, Tex.—Lightning struct oil here to-day and eight new oif companies were formed on the rumor. WHIS, Ky.—Democrats hold huge mass meeting. Demand pleasanter weather predictions from the Gove ernment. OOLA, La—Mme. Lookerovs pinched at Opera House for doing dance of the seven veiis. ° Citizens will appear in court and demand @ punt of madame’s costume, re Is Education of American Babies Left to Chance? “Nursery Schools,” Says Margaret McMillan, “Are Needed Here as They Were Needed in England”’— . Give Mothers Chance to Do Housework and Not Neglect Child’s Welfare. By Fay Sfevenson. Coprrizht, 1931, by tne Press Publiching Co, (The New York Brentng World). VEN the tiny toddler and the ‘baby in the crib oan be taught many things and should have a pre-kindergarten -ourse. All thia is clearly brought out in a fascinating and instructive book called “The Nursery School” by Mar- garet MoMilian “why do we want nuraery- schools?’ Miss McMillan asks. “ghould not every mother take entire charge of her little ones till they are of school age? Is it not her duty to remain at home and to devote herself to them?’ And she answers these questions by: “Nursenes ind nursery-achools are wanted ly because Lttie chil- ‘They, being chil- en want nurses. dren Med that very important kind ve mary, education culled nurture. Can this be giv nd given entirely Ie lot us say, the average mother? “phe well-to-do mother never at- tempts to do it alone, She engaures eehurse, perhaps also a governess, perhia ‘schoolroom maid; a great eany ensue a cook, wso a& house- That, All these mother helps work a mpacious houve, 1 don't wish to continue the par fs too cruel. The working in her tiny has not : n Miss McMillan goes on to tell what success the nursery 201 hea et with in London. Through the peas s ot her sister, Rachel MeMil- lan, who died In 1917, just as the pluns for the extension of the first nursery centre were passed, and her own per- ‘onal experience she has gathered much valuable information. ne nursery school of which L have experience and of which, th: fore, 1 must often sperk, was sta in 4 very poor, very crowded dist in the southes Landon Misi McMillan. “AM this mak and if un be we n won anywhere Miss McMillan explain that ther hed infant t t 1st hool «distin ol which will develop hild to de “The / How far this can g0, how responsive they can be we did not know ull we tried the effect of regular clock. habits, All the toddlers are ck and regular in their habits. All gp to sleep at the right moment. Toddlers are glad and proud to nicely, to hold the spoon well and spit nothing, to make no crumbs, and to say “Tat after being helped, and to bass things to one another. ‘They do all this every day. ‘They do it well. ‘The life of the three to four-veara olds varies a good deal from that of the toddlers, The great desire for Movem@t and the Impulse to touch and handle, are not less noticeable In the older children, but they tind new ways of lips raed these desires. On coming out of the bath, our chil hove toddiedom, that is three enee old and over, have to dress. At first the three-year-old can hardly be coaxed to pick up any garment When he does so he holds it wrong way up. After a time of patient Work he pulls on a vest, and them looks he ssly at knickers and stockings. He has to learn to bake anc to p the kn r or bodice right Y up, to put ¢ limb in and then another. Stocl take thag, he has to learn to pull.” Our burried, crowded city Ute aes may be too late to foi mands a new ¢ ronment for ou young children new type nurt and elteation- stan dard of teaching. t Miss Margaret MeMill Miss Rachel McMillan’ and Mi Grae Owen have been pioneers t greit movement for sa’ educating the babies of FE When will A 1 awa j her babies are left | chance, t S Prof. John Ws } kins of Johns Hopkins: Uoiversty weed. 4 if We Wait until the child is’ thi i] | Dils of physical, mental ai health wht a the founda. f character and citizenship, ys is publish s 1. Who wrote “Il Trovatore2” 2. What nickname was given William Henry Harrison? a * 3. What soap commonly used to= day is named for the town in Spat where it was first made? ie 4+. What is brimstone composed of? What is the circular tank j which gas is stored called? vale 6. What. strait lies between Gilt ish Columbia and Vancouver Island, 7. In what State are the Kootemal lountains located? ‘ 8 Where © Brazos River? 9, What 5 used fer | ally eile | made by combining on? nst ntensifying iment 10. What gas is hydrogen and c 3 i Seay ore sre are