The evening world. Newspaper, June 3, 1921, Page 29

HOW TO LIVE— AND GROW YOUNG a Arthur E. Stilwell, Railroad Builder, 62, . Learns Secret From His Famous Brownies “First Thing to Do,” He Says, ‘‘Is to BELIEVE That You Can Be Young—Then Banish Hate, Worry, Envy, and Cultivate Sunshine and Joy— Above All, Be Moderate in Your Eating.” By Fay Stevenson. Coperight, 1931 W dread and " Mrs, Dlizabeth Smith of No. 436 old, has enrolled to march in the anti news columns: Mrs, M. A by the Press Publishing Co. ITHIN the last few days the following items have appeared in the (Tho New York Evening World Ryan of Chicago, 100 years old, bakes her family's ‘ould be ashamed” to patronize a bakery. West 42d Street, eighty-seven y -dry parade July 4 Maston Ohristian of Webster County, West Virginia, eighty-one years old, hus just taken his seventh bride, Thomas H. Farrell of Cleveland, eighty years old, is waiting impatiently for warm weather in order to go swim “These are unusual news oddities to-day, but in a few years—possibly in a decade, such things will be as commonplace as similar acts by young people,” commented Arthur BE. Stilwell of No, 576 Fifth Avenue, Mr, Stilwell, railroad builder, finan- cier and author of “By Order of The Brownies,” is spreading the gospel of Live and Grow Young, asserting that the abolition of decrepit old age lies with every man who will believe in his ability to turn his back on Father ‘Time. Mr. Stilwell, who is sixty-two years old, asserts that he has stopped gréw- ing okt and has started back toward youth within the past six months. The secret of how to be young, he says, Was revealed to him in his sleep important n revealed tilwell is regarded rallroad matters in For al- just as other is life have bei though Arthur as perhaps the greatest builder in America now built the Kansas City road, Kansas City Ratlroad, Kansas City Northern Con- necting Railroad, Omaha and Eastern Railroad, Kansas City, Mexico and Orient Railroad, designed and built the great harbor at Port Arthur, Tex., he declares that his wonderful success has been the direct result of Brown- jes’ aid and guidance, Suburban Now, the Brownies lave told him that the first thing to do to keep from growing old is to believe that you can be young and to refuse to believe ‘that the normal span of man’s life is seventy years, Then stop being “mesmerized by the thought of years.” “Rise above the meamerism of years 4f you would retain youth,” said Mr. Stilwell. “Then the lines of age will not be mani in your face, You will stand erect at 100 or more, and your step will haye the elasticity of youth, for your thoughts and your viewpoint are building your atmos- phere and will be reflected in your hody. ‘To live and grow young, you must banish hate, worry and envy. You must cultivate sunehine and joy, and, above all, you must use moderation in your eating. The le years and that three score fen is the alloted time of man’s life thas been believed too long. Man never will be free from the shackles of this belief until he understands that it is a fable, Cultivate a confidence that you are not growing old and in- firm. Believe in yourself and your ability to do things as well after sev- enty as before. “Avoid, all you can, everything con- nected with the death thought, Do not form a habit of looking for and reading the obituary notices. Never mind who is passing away. Keep your mind on life and everything it repre- sents. Do not attend funerals just for the sake of secing how they are conducted. Some people make it a practice to go to the funeral of every prominent person. wwhile it may be necessary to at- tend your brother's funeral, you need mot make a practice of attending thore of all your distant relatives and favorite movie stars. Funerals are permeated with the mosmerism of death.” Mr, Stilwell advises that instead ef pondering on old age and eee one should affirm youth and Iifs morning and night and he will live on indefinitely, in enjoyment of existence. ee el PPP LLL LLL LAD LA NEW INVENTIONS. Fc DERS entirely surround vigorous an automobile designed by a North Carolina man with a view to protecting its of a col- occupants in event lision from any angle. Because it is the air that it compresses ahead of it that makes a baseball bounce from a glove, an inventor has brought out a glove so T-rforated that the air escapes through valved outlets, Its inventor has patented @ tiny electric Hght to be 80 mounted on a fishing rod that it is switched on when a fish bites. An inventor} brought out a golf club with a handle of gteel tubing on which slides a grip to adjust its length. ing. The Mayor Of Delhi By Bide Dudley Copreiaht, 1921, by the Press Publishing Co, (The New York Evening World.) AYOR CYRUS PERKINS WALKER of Delhi delivered an addre: Betterment I 8 before the Women's © Wednesday eve- ning in Hugus Hall on the subject of “Honest Shoes." As result Milt Dodge of Anthills, near Delhi, is out on bail awaiting trial on a charge of cfficial indignities. Dodge was in the audience that heard the Mayor and, 1umor has it, he had been dallying with moonshine Promptress Pertle called the meet- ing to order at 8 o'clock and immedi- utely announced the Mayor's speech, Mr. Walker talked ten minutes and then shouted: Where will we get sionest shoe rom Shoe-cago," replied Dodge, cking an old joke. Everybody laughed, but the Mayor vas plainly nettled. Continuing, he sked: How can we make honest shoes?” Dunno, Cy came from Dodge. “But a couple o' banana peels make & purty good pair of slippers. It was more could stand. “Is Constable Pelee Brown hall?” he asked. “Right here, sir!’ replied the offi- cer “Arrest that man!" A fight followed in which Constable Brown was knocked down four times and lost two tecth. However, one was an old snag molar that he in- in the tended to have pulled, anyway, He succeeded in quelling his man_ by promising him a picture of Milk ‘Loto, the Parisienne, doing the “Dance of the Absent Veil.” Mayor Walker believes the inter- ruptions were part of a plot to de- feat him in his race for re-election The whole town is talking. There is much indignation than Mayor Walker THE EVENING WORLD, FRIDAY, JUNE 3, 1921, copy. The reason why a man is cannot keep secrets is C an You Beat It! ot, 3021, by Th Butbiianing Co. (The New York Evening World) By WHERE ARE You GOING MOSQUITO ) DEAR O To SEE WHAT THE PROSPECTS ARE FORTHE Covet By Betty Vincent. HOM shall she please—mother or herself? “Dorothy D.” writes Dear Miss Vincent: During the war I met a young man whose home Is in California. After, being mustered out he returned to his home town. We have been corresponding for the past two years and last summer he came Fast to see me, At that time I told im I would never be able to live in the West. I @o not love him but have tried to do so because my parents think he is the only true man that was ever born, I find myself entirely alone, as all of my friends are grtting married or else are too busy with their beaux to give me their time. Every night finds me in bed by 9 o'clock, My mother used to tell me to have other men friends (but that was before 1 met the chap from California), Now she makes life unbearable if { mention another man’s name. I have met a man whom I dove dearly and he loves me, but mother is 60 fond of the Cali- fornian that she won't consider him at all, He is refined, has a good posi- tion and lives right in the city, but mother tells me if £ marry him and give up ‘Mr, Californian she will not give me her blessing. What am I to do; I love this man and IJ love mother? Consider your own heart first of all. It would be most unwise for you to marry a man you do not love and go to California when you like the East, just to please your mother. Have you reminded your mother of the fact that if you should go West you would be separated from her while if you married the other young man you could live bere in the same city with her? Answer to L. G.—If the young lady feels that way about the difference in your religions better give up the friendsh. “CAIVE M.” writes Dea, Miss Vincent: | have a young girl friend who is deeply in love with a young man whom she has never met. We are always together and many times she has tried to show her devotion, but the young man js always around Courtship and Marriage By Betty Vincent | ANAL by ‘The Prees Publishing Ci (The New York Mvening World), with other girls, She is heart- broken, and 1 would like your ad- vice as to how they can get ac quainted, Tell your friend to brace up, for she really isn't in love at all. She may admire this young man as she might admire a picture of a collar advertise- ment boy; but love means more than this, If she has never been tntro- duced to the young man and never spoken to him she really does not know anything about him. However, it may be that she would love him if she really knew him and she may have a splendid case of “love at first sight,” so why don't you meet him through mutual friends and then in- troduce him to her? “Jones” writ Dear Miss Vincent: Am eight- en but look twenty-two, One of the girls | am interested in is sev- enteen and thi her senior, § she could like a chap eighteen and she said she couldn't consider him as a friend at all, whether she liked him or not, Shall 1 come out and tell my right age or keep ©n fibbing? Tell your age now and glory in your spunk. Later on you will probably put it back ten years, “ADELE B.” writes: Dear Miss Vincent: About one year ago | met a young man five years my senior, who showed that he cared for me a great di He asked me to go out with him and | accepted the invitation, not be- cause | liked him, but s0 as not to hurt his feelings. After going together about two months and a half we quarrelled (my fault), and after we parted | realized that | really loved him. He has “made up” with a young lady whom he knew before me, and now | am joing about with one of his riends. 1 do not believe that he cares for this girl and wonder if | am doing right in going about with his friend, Will that. not hinder my regaining his friend- ship? Tt rather looks as if the young man is inclined to quarrel with his girl triends, However, if you feel it was your fault and wish to win him back I would not advise you to go out with his boy friend, for Jealousy or trying to impress upon him that you can get some one “anyway” will not be a of regaining his friendship, Unselfishness By Sophie Irene Loeb. by Gee Pres Pubtiing Co. Sm was young and lovely when she began to put away Copyrigit, 1941 (ie Now York Hreing Worid The pretty things in the big box, The work of her hands and heart And a thrill like no other in the world Crept through her being—a thrill of hope of lim that would come To share with her these sweet-scented things, Ie came—brave and strong and fine. Oh, the joys that were woven in the threaded things! Oh, the sunny days that passed with dreams of delight! All, all can ne’er be reckoned by human measure, For they are more of a heavenly degree. And then came the shadow one sad day And the heart of her cried out as she saw what was in store. A servitude of vigilance and care. And she denied him she loved. He never knew that the herrt of her almost died at the saying But she knew she was making the choice between love and life. Life to one—the one who bore her, who needed her every moment Years crept by and she carried her cross Wen as a soldier who gives himself for that which he must obey, Came the day when she returned a black-robed figure, And the big box in the dark corner looked back at her. She opened it and again fingered lovingly The bits now yellowed with age. A tear fell and then another, Yet a sweet calm came as she appraised || all For she had closed the eyelids of her who never knew Whose last words “I would have died long ago but for you Love was gone, yet in its stead a satisfaction That duty had called and found her not wanting L'Envoi. Somewhere far sway he read and came on wings of hope It was nut with the first fire of yout) but with great understanding A forgiveness of Fate and a great God-given desire To spread sunshine o'er that spirit of unselfishness No Window in Your Room? Try This One NEAT little {ilusion that gives closed add to the setting. A plant in A to an interior room without a @ small pot rests on the window sill window the appearance of outside the window. The whol having a couple of windows has lighted by electricity, the lamp being grown out of the housing shortage. out of sight, outside and above the In one of the remodelled houses the window, owner has had a window-frame with ‘The indirect lighting, the window. glass in it set in the wall, There is the flower and the curtains combin: a space of « plece of studding and to destroy the feeling that you are then a suggestion of a blue sky in a room with no outlet to the open Curtains are hung over the window air and adds a cheerfulness that could and a pair of inside shutters pawfly be obtainod in no other way, GIOING To BE GREAT THIS SUMNER, rice Ketten au F GOING DOWN. BAR WORRLER: It may D be you cannot stop think- ing, Dut you can stop worrying. Controlling your mind becomes easy when you learn the value of BEING STTLL—of withdrawing within yourself and substitute a PRACTICAL idea for a worry thought. Weigh your thinking. possible or feasible? ‘You exercise your body—why net EXERCISE YOUR JUDG- MENT? Sincerely, Salads for Warm Days By Emilie Hofman Is it ALFALFA SMITH. Commright, 1921, by the Press Publishing Co. (Tee New York Evening World.) N a warm day a salad is often just what the appetite craves, and it is an ideal dish for the hot weather menu, both from the point of preparation and taste, SHRIMP SALAD. Break bolled or canned shrimp in- to small pieces. Mix with half of the bulk of celery, cul in small dice or cabbage and ery chopped fine. Add one chopped hard-botled egg or cut egg into small pieces and scat- ter over top of salad. Moisten with French dressing. Serve on lettuce leaves and cover with mayonnaise. Shrimp combines especially well wit cucumber, Mix the broken shrimp with a small cucumber cut in’ thin slices and then divided into small sections, Add one chopped hard- boiled egg and a few chopped rad- ‘This is nice when mixed with e sauce and served on leituce THE PICKING IS MEAT SALAD Foiled cold beet or veal can (be con- verted into excellent salads. Remove All fat and gristle and cut the mea into dice. Add an equal portion of cold boiled potatoes cut into same size dice and a little finely sliced onion, Geason with French dressing und serve on lettuce leaves. VEGETABLE SALAD. Various vegetables can be combined to make a good salad. Left-over vox- etables can be used up in this way. Cut the vegetables Into dice and serve on lettuce leaves with either a French or mayonnaise dressing. Potatoes, beans or peas, cabbage and either beets or carrots make a od combination. Another combina- tion is tomatoes, cucumbers, radishes ind scallions, Asparagus, string beans ind Wax beans is another. ——— The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell (The Now York Brmaing World) Copyright, 1921, by the Pro Publishing C2 said Mr. Jarr as be regarded his wife with @ puzzled look, ‘What do you think of it? “He talks ailly, like all the rest of SEE by this artiole,” remarked Mr, Jarr looking up from Ins reading, “that a Dr, Grinker, in “| Ogden, Utah, says love Js a horrible the men," replied Mrs. Jarr. “Women hallucination. do pick their husbands like they pick “Oh, I suppose he wanted to get hie tuelr dresses, Some women kn name in the papers, that’s all," said BOW to pick good dresses—dresses that look wel and wear well. And some get loud and vulgar patterns und shoddy goods and" Mrs, Jurr, complacently. ‘If my name Grinker I'd want to get it into court and have it | “Oh, come now," interrupted Mr, changed,” said Mr. Jurr. ‘you don't mean to say men What else docs he say?" asked je their wives as they choose Mrs. Jarr, looking up from her s nob . ar ee “Yes, they do! said Mrs. Jarr; ‘Oh, nothing much, except that a “they want emart models in wiv woman should seject a husband wish @2d automobiles" the same care she buys a dress, and Never mind the rest,” said Mr, a man should select a wife with the J@rr. “I see what you mean. It isn't same ntion he pays to buying an ¢¥ery one that's smart enough or sutomob fortunate enough to pick what's best “Huh!” said art, supercil- for them, either in husbands or wives, ously, “Ther new in that, Or motor care or dresses, [ won't J} wonder if he's kin to a family wo forget it.” ised to know whose name waa the “And don't forget you owe me ten ame as his? ‘They moved out We Hare,” sald Mrs, Jarr in her aweot or was it just in West Virginia? f est manne orget, but I used to go to school with the t irl Such a freckled hing. Her name was Hila, but her umily always called her ‘Tutie,’ Tutie Grimble,' T remember her as well as if It were yenterday”—— “pon't you think there is some slight difference between the name by ibe Mees Publishing Oe, Grinker and. Grimble, Mra, Jar York Evening World ) ask Mr. Jarr, with a sneer, “And QUESTIONS, West Virginia is quite a way east 1. What French monarch was so from Ogden, Utah.” sy atee iffluenced by Mme. du Barry. that Weil, it dovsn't matter,” sald Mrs. she became the real ruler of the Sarr, "1 m the same Dee country until his death? a Mpa prance a2, Who, was the author of the novel, H , “Trilby?” t girl In’ Nust My 4 smoot little thing was too, and tiey 3 On what island do the Dyaks, slways had } scouts for breakf:at, Who formerly made trophies of their ho. for every meal, and her name was enemies’ heads, live? It Pulleferr yet ever ly 4, What names are given to the rononnes olliver’ So there three amall bones of the middle ear now!" because of their shape? <iee whiz!" eried the now exasper- 5, Wh, the sh. f th y ated Mr. J Mer "You women aro cof orbit? ayia the phakecet she-earth!s s 6. What State group name is given you rede RK LH) Hania Dey to Maine, New Hampshire, Vermon A . eis Massachu Connecticut ani \ day with you. ‘Thie in Massa Why, are we not discussing it all. 2 On which side of the sun's disk right?" asked Mrs, J. w yt does an eclipse always begin? Now, we Vl bet you ten 8. On which side of the moon does you wit t'm x about, or what we are talking an eclipse always begin? 9. In which of its phases must the Bee. awe {4 Mre, Jar, an moo? always b slipsed? : A See ‘nd put her work ., 10 What is the State flower of u wero telling me abou. a Mississippi? who said that) women ANSWERS. 1 « their hp nds ib wy 1. Louls NV Du Maurier. bought 4 dress, and men should ¢ *® Borneo. 4. Hammer, stir their wives as they would buy an rup 6. Kilipse. 6. New England automobile. States, 7. Western §. Kastern, @& “Well, for once, you got it right,” Full moon. 10. Magnolia. j 3% * BY MARGUERITE MOOERS. MARSHALL + 1021, by the Prem Publishing Cn. ODERN ascii) (The Now York Evening World ) convinced that a woman because she doesn’t keep those which he tells her, after'‘he has promised solemnly not to repeat them toa soul! IRST love is a blaze easily extinguished, but last love is a three-alarm fire which calls out all reserves of self-control, prudence and cyniciam, and even then may cause inealenlable damage before beimg put out. The real danger of the short skirt is that it often leads a man to look where SHE’S going, instead of where HE’S going! A friend is a person meam enough tu tell you disagreeable truths whicli your enemies merely repeat out of your hearing. It is the time of year when the eligi ble bachelor would flee where no ‘woman pursueth—only there iwn't any such place! Why is it that a man who calls on al! the resources of his knowledge and judgment in choosing a car or or dering a dinner marries a woman of whom he has no knowledge and. concerning whom his judgmen! goes to sleep at the switch? “Short skirts and rolled stocking /< make rouge for the knees neces sary,” says a connoisseur of beauty Gone are the days when a knee wa. born to blush unseen! In India, mothers throw their babies beneath the car of Juggernaut; in the civilized and humane Ocelident women urge their daughters into marriage, the wheels of which are guaranteed to crush all {deals, in dependence and illusions, Ever so many young persons of either sex think they are in love when they are only in June, Vanity is emotional benzoate of soda: a small quantity mixed with elther love or hate preserves each pas sion indefinitely. What to Do Until The Doctor Comes By Charlotte C. West, M. D. Cony rit, 1921. try the Prem Publidhing Co (The ‘York Evening World.) Injuries to the Eye—Burns. CCIDENTS to the eye are, ( more serious moment than ac cidental injuries to any oth portion of the body for the reason that the Inflammation almost always communteates Itself to the other eye This sympathetic Inflammation be comes just as dangerous to the unin- jured as the accident may prove te the Injured eye. ‘The most common type of chemica! burn results from unslaked lime Mortar mixers and plasterers; house keepers, in fact, any one using lim May splash the material into the fac: and pustain a severe infury to th: eye. When this occurs the eye should immediately be flushed with ah excess of water and the patient hastened an eye surgeon When burns are cansed by acids pursue a similar course. ‘The usunj idvice given for accidental burns t the eye from lye, mmonia and \e 18 to use weak acids like vinegar, and to treat acid burna with dilute soap- suds, ‘These measures are not always near at hand. We nvust bear in mind that speed in ridding the eye of the of fending matter is of paramount fn portanc: nd water is an agent thy can be reached in the shortest poss bie time A burning cinder, the flying up of « match stick, hot cigar ash, ny smal burning object may lodge in eve.t Your first impulse would be /io clap the hand over the eye, By dding th you may destroy the sigh¥ of tb eye. Alicays pull the lid away fron the i and at onee flood the injured membranes with oil—any kind of ol, If there is no oi] at hand use butter, Jard or any soft fat, the ob: ject ‘being to render the cinder inert to soothe and allay the Inflammation to separate the membranes that no adhesions form—until the patlent sees the doctor. ITTLE Miss Muffet Sat on a tuffet 13 And threw her curds ia away PR For right there beside = her { tier 4 « She suddenly spied her Bond- Bread-and-milk |» for the day :