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eT Sine pte omens: = ices MONDAY, MARCH 7, 1921 It lan’t What They Do, but How They Do It—Not What They Wi Page Soon, | but) How They Wear It—This Met tibia For Fourth Time Celebrates in Real Life Her Poem, “The Marriage Feast” Odd Chain of Romances Precede the Wedding of Marie Tudor Garland, Poet, Who Succeeds Beatrice Forbes-Robert- son, Novelist, as the Wife of Swinburne Hale, Radical... Marguerite Mooers Marshall Oopyright, 1921, dy the Prem Putiinhing Oo, (The New York Evening Wortd,) 66 ~ COME with arms ‘That shall enfold and hold you, ‘Arms that shall thrust you far and free; With hands that shall tar Your hunger and your drvuth, ‘That shall be as lips and mouth, Passion-quelting in the end, I come with hair that shall shield And shelter you by day, And in the night shall be as flame I come with lips ‘That shall infuse your storm-pressed heart . With Nghtnings for your thunder, I come with eyes where you shail find Sunny fields for leaping and for play, And shade for sleeping”—— ‘That is how Marie Tudor Garland wings of, “Nhe Marriage Feast” in her book of verse published three months ago under thet title while all America was talking of how her son, twenty-one-year-old Charles Garland, had just refused a million doilars, hie share of the estate of his father, James A. Garland, the first man beautifal Marie Tudor married. Now she has just celebrated—not in a book, but in real life—her fourth “marriage ‘feast,” for the other day in Paris she married Swinburne Hale, Harvard man, lawyer, well-known radical and the divorced husband .of Beatrice Ferbes-Robertson Hale, niece of Sir Johnston Forbes-Robertson, ‘Both women are beautiful. Both are devoted mothers. Both have many friends in New York. Both are dis- umetively of the order of “new women.” The first Mrs. Hale is a novelist and essayi: the second Mrs. Hale is a poet, With the man who bas been the husband of each in turn, they form a “triangle” of re- markable and romantic interest. In “The Marriage Feast,” published Qgm's Sone, <henow Mra itten many poems of pas- ider has the right to accept them as autobiographical, but the cursory survey of ther ca- reer, which includes four marriages, ‘rusbands, two divorces, dis MONG the American women A who mike at least 000 a year is Rose O'Neill, the in- the now famous Kewple. She was an author and a painter unti} she brought the public these dolis which are in-almost every household. But now she may be called a captain of industry, for, be- fore the war, she had over forty fac tories which’ were turning out thou- AKowpics, ventor of before in 1893, Mario Brookline, Mass.—slender, with flashing dark eyes and a crown of dusky hair—be- came the wife of “Jimmie” Garland, popul and ‘y - man, They had four children, James ‘A. jr, Charies, Hamitton and Hope, the youngest, who is now about fif- teen years old. Several years after the marriage Mrs. Garland divorced her husband. Not long after the divorce there was a quick exchange of telegrams detween Boston and the Garland yacht at Hyannis, on Cape Cod, an impulsive reunion and a remarriage of the divorced pair, ‘Then James A. Garland died. His widow's third marriage to her second husband—since she was twice mar- ried to Garland—took 9! in due course, She wed Cushing Groen, wo had been superintendent of her agri- cultural experiments at Bay End Farm, Buzzards Bay, Mass, where young Charles Garland, hig wife and baby are now living. ‘By this mar- riage the former Marie Tudor Gar- land forfeited her claims to her late husband's estate. ‘Three years ago she divorced Cush- ing Green and took again the name of Garland. She has been Nving wbroad. . Her present husband, Swinburne Hale, is well known in New York, where, in 1910, he began his first ven- ture in matrimonial happiness and where he made his home and prac- tised law. Just ten years after thoir wedding—last March, in fact—Bea- trice Forbes-Robertson Hale filed against him in the County Clerk's of- fice here the summons in a suit for divorce. ‘They are the parents of three children, Sanchia, Rosemary and Clemency, the last two beg ‘he far-famed “Suffrage twina” Beatrice Forbes-Robertson Hale Jectured here for years on Suffrage; this winter she is touring America talking on various topics of interest to women. She is the author of ‘The Nest Builder,” a novel of marriage; ‘What ‘Women Want.” a discussion of femin- fem, and other works. According to report her former hushand fell in love with her through hearing ‘her make a Suffrage speech, and he was one of the fitgt handful of New York men fo match in a Suffrage parade and carry a banner. The first Mr. Hale js a most attractive woman, tall, with a Junoesque figure, deep blue eyes, golden hair and rosy cheeks—appar- ently a complete contrast, in looks, to the equally attractive eecond Mrs. Hale. She too—Marle Tudor Garland Hale —has striven to interpret women, as well as love. For example there are these two brief poems, in free verse, from “The Marriage Feast’; “What Is the sea? It is the tear We women wee That lave may nd poem is called by > be." the “Her joy was for a day. Yet into that day Were woven tears, And the sorrow Of another woman's Years.” Another poem, “Why?” expresses writt, intensity the longings of the un- lovéd woman, Here Is part of it: “Why have I ‘This sturdy strength . 8 «© With this sun-warmed Passion of the South, This sun-wooed Quivering mouth hy, When I find No steot To chalteege mine, % LENTEN DISHES. ‘LAKED salt’ codfish is very nice with rice instead of ‘potatoes. To ‘half a cup of fish flakes add one and @ half cups hot cooked rice, one table- spoon melted Qbutter, one tea- xpoon chopped parsley, one- quarter teaspoonful paprika, two tablespoonfuls of stiffly beaten whites, salt if necessary, and sufficient’ milk to moisten the mixture. Form into cakes and fry in hot bacon fat. It is nice to serve this with a roll of broiled bacon on top of each cake, Spinach and poached eggs make a savory lenten dish. Af- ter the spinach is boiled and rubbed through a coarse sieve, heat one tablespoonful of butter and add the spinach. Season with salt and pepper. Stir over fire and add three tablespoon- fuls of cream or white sauce. Place on platter and cover with well drained poached eggs. Gar- nish with bread croutons, Some day try cheese soup with @paghetti, Put one quart of milk in the double boiler, add two tablespoonfuls of spaghetti, ‘broken into pieces, salt to taste, and cook until spaghetti is ten der, Then put in the grated cheese. The amount to be used upon strength of cheese, sbout two tablespoon: wo talblespoon- fyls, and stir until cheese is meted. Then stir in a well- ibeaten egg and keep on stirring ‘until the mixture is thick. Do not let it boll, Season with paprika and serve very hot with To cool my drought?" In view of Marie Tudor (iarland Hale's latest marriage, her readers will catch with interest the note of anticipation in the verses called “Dawn.” She sings “All through the years I heard your voice, And T thought that 1 should find you Just beyond the farther hill; Yet ever you eluded, Seeking the deeper vales, The shades grew darker, And I lost the way. Then when I thought The least to find you, You were the dawning day.” After day's dawning, the lover's coming, the poet has volced a woman's passion to give, in a poem she has called “Take Me," “I only ask that you will Take me, ‘Mat you make me serve Your will, Use me well or use me Hil, I'll not care ~ If you but have your wit. ‘Try to kill me It you will. I Know the woman Here in me ‘Will tame the man in you." And love fulfilled is lyrically set forth by Marie Tudor Garland Hale in the following verses: why lose our way in eve lke ours has given birth ‘To countless winged thoughts ‘That draw us each to each. Nay, Love, what matters speech ‘With love Ifke this between? What matters anything to wp Who have this ream” Ne She dresses like other giris tn 1921, So she has ne corsets—especially at dances; She naturally hasn't the block, pul- ley and tackle arrangement for- merly attached to corsets, And known—in whispers—as ters.” She rolls her stockings, Both of which are of such cobwebby, openwork silk < That they can be drawn through that obsolete piece of jewelry, a wed- ding ring. Flora has a half-portion skirt, ‘A blouse which is like an dress in the Nice Nineties, With its rounded decolletage and its little sleeves, ending half-way be- tween shoulder and elbow. As for Flora’s own evening gown, It is a Gunga Din design— You remember— “Nothin’ much before, an’ rather less than ‘arf o' that be'ind.” Skeeveless, backless, trainless, That daneing frock is an example in subtraction, With one figure as the remainder. Does Flora consider herself a Men- ace? Far from it! She knows she is a Living Tribute To the Might of Medical Morality, To the Power of Pathological Propa- ganda! Flora has freed her lithe yotfng body from “the iron prison of the cor set” Which “cramps and distorts all the most delicate organs”— Or so the doctors said for decades. Flora has shaken her young limbs free of the long skirt— ‘Branded, medically, as the “trailing menace to health,” “the dust and germ carpet-sweeper.” Even Flora’s generously arms and chest and back Are but giving her th “hardening” which all the robust hygienic Pro- testants = Long demanded As a substitute for the Victorian damsel’s pagsion for “bundling up.” Now what happens? All pure, high-minded young men at Princeton and Brown and Amherst Shrink, in their maiden modesty, from poor, dear Flora, Write pieces about her in their sophomoric college papers and first novels, The clergymen, the clubwomen, the Atlantic Monthly essayists, the rest of the Grandma Grundies “View with alarm” Miss MacFlimsey, Even the doctors, who are to blame for it all, Do not utter a peep in her defense! And so it goes, If the King can do no wrong— The YOUNG can do no right! ae exposed GOING DOWN! AR READER—When you get a fit ofthe blues you imagine you are the only person in the world who ons such depression. As the sea rises and falls and the earth elevates to moun- tains and descends to yaies 80 human experience has its ups and downs. Meet such depressions with full knowledge that something GOOD is just aread if you can only HOLD OUT. . ‘Those to whom you speak of your depression look upon it as funny. It is well to bevr your cross atone. However, smile grimly and remember— IT iS PART OF THBP SHOW. Sincerely ALFALFA SMITH. NO, HES Too OLD TAK. JARR FAMILY Oovyright, 191. by the Prom Prbtiahing Co, (The New York Kventog World.) HB Jarrs bad & little tiff, orig- T inating, Innocent\y enough, in a discussion ament the crime wave. During the discussion Mr Jarr had incited the indignation of his gpod lady by venturing the apin- jon that closing the saloons was in a measure responsible for the crime wave—the crooks having given up drinking and idling half their time in saloons, and without liquor to be- guile them from duty now they had gone laboriously and ndberly to work at their various criminal occupations, putting full time on the job instead of at least half time in the saloons. Mrs. Jarr had declared Mr. Jarr only said that beoause her mother (vE IRRESPONSIBLE BUSIRESSiaN 1921, by the Prew Pubitighins Oo. New’ York Breniog Workd,) HILE | was out of the city | had occasion to come tn teuch with some stenographers. i wanted to engage one to do some work. Now, in the town | wae visit ing there was a firm of etenographers —the firm being two young ladies, one of whom agreed to do my work. We made the appointment, and on the first occasion she came an hour late, her excuse being that she did not know I wanted her at the time appointed-—was not sure of the time While I was working with this young woman her partner came in te tell us that some one had disappoint - ed her, and what should she do about it? She was disgruntied and did not wait for the party who had failed to come. ‘This etn broke tn on our work and our time, but did not seem to mind it, ‘The next morning at the time ap- pointed for my stenographer to come she did not make her appearance. After waiting an hour I telephoned to ascertain the cause of the delay. She said she had been trying to get me om the telephone “all morning,” but had failed to do so. There seemed to be no reason for calling me on the phone, because she was ens to come I hem suggested that Covyrigis, hard Ww she come at onve and waste no more teme. To this she reptied: “Couldn't you wait until this afternoon?” aa he: partner had gone out, and she would have to stay and “mind the office.” Needless to say, I_didn't want any further business relations with this young woman or her firm. I am telling of this occurrence with one purpose “in mind—t help the stenographer who will make good In- stead of making excuses ‘The young woman referred to, and her partner, are the kind of | irre sponsible business women that do more harm to the sex than can pos- sibly tbe estimated. For example, take.any busy man who has dealings with such girs who disappoint, or fail to do what they agree to do, and most likely he will condemn the en- tire sex and will often give prefer ence to men because of such expert ences A woman's word should be as good as her signature on a paper, The woman who truly succeeds’ and holds her miccess is abe who is ever mind- ful of her reputation as 4 reaponsibie business person and refuses to side- track anything for her own whims and caprices. Upon being treated in the manner described many a man would aay “Just like a woran!" and as a con sequence other “iris would lose op portunities, ; I wonder if Women rea much {t means to be reall atble not only for themsely: the progress of their sisters at work In there days, when women are try aug (i) the places of ingen in com- ze how respon but for OPHIE RENE fo) st) Mercial activities, they should even put forward mofe earnest effort-than young men in the same business, for the ‘simple reason that in many cases they have yet to prove that women are just as efficient as men. methods will be tol- erated 8 is not like being at home, when you have your own time to do what you want and delay is of little consequence ‘The punctual person—the person who can shoulder responsibilities —is greatly in demand, During the in dustrial depression the worker who was elothful or careless in the time when his services had to be utilized during the war is now being dropped. And only for one reason, Because of bis careless altitude and his seeming disregard of alertness, especially aa to litle things. I cannot help wishing that women the world over would reflect on the fact that women in industry in the many places are etill on trial, and that every act abowing thelr efficiency helps other women who are trying to get somewhere im the work-a-day world. I know young women who are oecu- pying the highest places—only on ac- count of this one trait which they have developed — being absolutely responsible. 1 have heard prominent business men say: “All 1 have to do is to hand this over to Miss So-and-So and it will be done; she is a cracker- Jack.” ‘That js the kind of reputation that orth while, Such young women never want for the best kind of Blue Lawal Baby Neal O'Hara Suggests the Women Could Give Us—Watch jome Legislation This Page for His ENTOY THE THEATRE 2? LIKE COMPANY 2 NOTICES THe CHICKENS ! No, HE IS Too OLO NEVER TOO OLD FoR had heen active as a temperance worker. Whereupon moodily sient. Mr, Jarr had turned Then he began to “Please don't do that, It gets on my nerves!” crigd Mra, Jarr. “If you ary whistling because my mother dis- agrees with you on the liquor ques- tion, whistie when #he's here.” Mr. Jarr ceased whistling ‘but sald nothing, “My mother only did ter best,” Mrs. Jarr went on, “and yet I sup- pose you'll say some people do the worst when they are trying to do their best, My mother is one of those old-fashioned women who, except in great public causes, mind their own affairs. But, as she says, a great public cause is her own affair *“@he's very considerate,” remarked Mr, Jarr dryly, “yet 1 suppose if I say a word I will be at @ moral disad- vantage; any reflection upon my dear mother-in-law will be construed as my bewailing for the late iament- ed John Barleycorn.” “And Gertrude takes her cue from you,” remarked Mrs. Jarr, "At the st word of advice from my mother as to how a thing should be cooked or how the house should be cleaned, Gertrude gets impudent. Yesterday when mother was here and told Ger trude she did not know how to sweep 4 room, Gertrude threw down the broom ‘and left and hasn't come “Phen yowr mother left and hasn't come back—thank goodness!” mur- mured Mr. Jarr. “I suppose you are happy that you are at your favorite pastime of abusing the members of my family!" whimpered Mrs, Jarr, "Mamma was always nice to you, although she did advise me not to marry you but to accept Mr. Biggier, the prosperous real estate man, ‘who afterwards made #0 much money that he had two wives and four automobiles and then lom everything and ehot bhim- mamma saya” t,” replied Mr. Jarr. “What do you mean by that?” asked Mra, Jarr, “Why did you sneer at my mothor when she spoke of the matter and said that if Mr. Bigwier had mar- ried me he would not have married the other two women in despair, and then drank heavily and got money on forged mortgages.” “T hope you don’t regret that you are not one of the impulsive Mr. Big- gler's balf widows,” said Mr. Jarr. “After all, maybe it te fust as well you rejected hia perfervid advances and became the one sole wife and help BY - Roy , (i Gamemeat meet of Edward Jarr, who with all hia, worldly goods did thee endow.” “Well, I might have done worse, perhaps,” Mrs. Jarr admitted. ly it Is said to be bad I Gertrude. won't come back.” “Or your ‘mother may?” suggested. Mr, Jarr, But Mra, Jarr would not turn against her mother, she anid, out aw Mr. Jarr ceased whistling, Mrs, Jarr came over and kissed "him, and then they heard Gertrude, the maid, enter ‘and make for the kitchen, Who Is ‘She? Hundreds of pictures have been printed of this woman, This ~ is the first picture taken of her” since she bobbed her hair, Who is shed