The evening world. Newspaper, December 4, 1920, Page 11

Ts ‘‘Love at "What is the explanation OHIGGINS existence? Of the poets’ theory that & @ine couple are two halves of a divided personality now united? “Why do young boys love first w happily re- usually £ th older women. wwhat is the attraction t eh r s have for young girls? Why does a wife so often thir her husband us ‘a great child,’ es while he has exactly the same supe- rior parental attitude toward her? “Why is a gitl who was 4 coquette before marriage %« ly contented in her married life Science has found the solution to these problems of the heart, “Ask the doctor’—if he is the right sort of doctor—and he will give you the true swers to these questions w ave puzzled lovers, their parents and velists for generations. | Such a doctor and his theories of @ new science and mental treat- ent, psychoanalysis, are described in rms anybody can understand by at clever writer, Harvey O'Higgins, his latest book, “The Secret prings.” The book is published by rper & Brothers, and is a popular explanation of the discoveries of Freud, whose name has been taken in vain by so many of us who have never read through the solid volumes. In brief, Mr, O'Higgins and “Doctor X" explain that many of th ) } troubles “and inconsistencies of our love affairs are due to the fact that we really are in love with nother images” or “father images"—some- times rejuvenated, sometimes unre- juvenated. That is, we are attracted, im our romances, by the qualities which characterized those persons we first loved—our parents—and who still dominate our subconscious selves If these qualities are juvena —that 1s, worked over and retrimmed fair chance of happiness. But dis- iNusionment and disappointment usu- ally await the woman who always ex- pocts her husband to be a father to her, instead of a lover and comrade; land she man who marries a woman / because she is’ the nearest thing he can find to his mother js also likely to be thwarted in happy marriage re Jations. ) Now how does this theory answer the questions quoted at the beginning of the story? Rich girls marry chauffeurs rich men go into che chorus f wives, according to Mr. Higsin cause the children of the rich often left to the sole care of servants at the time when the love image | being formed in the subcunscio mind, As 4 consequence or a chorus girl, reproducin characteristic of this debased imag sets the spark to the whole train of — ) BF instinctive love." { It is, literally, “your little dream \ girl” who is responsible for love at } first sight, in this philosophy the tender emotion, Your dream imag earried around In your subconscious mind, of a pair of beautiful hands perhaps like your mother's, or of a lovely ideal with curly brown | and brown eyes, may arouse instan ly all the emotions of love when you meet its realization jn actual life This dream image is also 1 sible for the feeling, known to mi lovers, ‘hat they have loved in some other life, and for the Platonic theory that & man and woman in love are | the two halves of one complete é The persistence of the | Image” and the mother ima is what makes the young often fall in love for the first time with pers several years their senior f | For the same psyelhy 1 reason ) Mr, O'Higging points out, “the hus- band will have moments in which he i will want his wife to be a mother to hin love her and obey he f child rileu when fie is ill, will have similar mo- | ments, in which she will be happy to act as if her husband were her father particularly if she has involved her= self tn difficulties with financial affairs. “Obviously moments will conflict. ‘The wife who is most con- istently datighter-like and dutiful wil also Know that her husband ‘nothing but a great child, beeau he has observed him in moods w he demanded motnering. And husband will be enraged to find hin self treated as if were a child times when lie wishes to be ) as if he were a father’ And whiy couuette often a din- comtented” w Hoed her the man of her dreamg—befo rage is move or less of a chan leon in its nature, thus causing her coquetry, and this instability of het ubgonsclous nature persists even af fer she has consciously promised to love, honor and obey one man, So now you know! Solved bv Science in romantic day-dreams—we have a | Rich Girls Marry-Chauffeurs ‘Boys First Adore Older Women First Sight’’ BELOW ARE EXPLANATIONS By Marguerite Dean. Copsrtght, 1920, by The Prewe Publishing Co, (The New York Brening World.) 6c HY do the daughters of the rich the sons of peers mate with chorus girls? » often marry chauffeurs and of love at first sight? Of the common Mlusion among lovers that they huve met the beloved one in a previous ND TOUN ays PA LOVE SUITH GLb Women] BY ROY L.MFCARDELL Copntighe, 1920, tw The Pree Publishing Co, (Tie New York Brening World). = 7% EING good driends, Mr. Jarr and Mr, Rangle were coming home in the car together, tired from the cares of the business duy, and not speak.ng to each other. Finaliy Mr. Jarr put down his paper as they neared the street where they both got off, and remarked, * that I remember it—isn't my be at your house this evening?" “By George!” replied Mr. Rang “I had forgotten it, to- is my wife's birthday. I was to bring you home w.th me to dinner, Mrs, Jarr is to be there, and a few friends—j€st an informa! » affair, you know the office and you remembered I we met here and I'll get a rs for your wif sand santhe- You ‘know women set quite by these little anniversaries jembered that way." they do," said Rangle, “They y sore if you forget such oc- ret off bunch of flow id Mr, Jarr, “ro! being re “su get m casions.” “You said it then, you sure said something marked Mr. Jarr, “and for that reason J am going to bring your bride a fine bunch of posites. “Patronize h e industr: advised “Lum in po! in our you know, Not enough to go Mr, district, bail for anybody, but enough that ces me in @ position where T must ronize the tradesmen of the dis- et Nick, the Greek, has a_ nice flower store near the corner, we'll get them th When Nick, the occasion the ho grew se nty fin the Greek, was told of flowers were to grace timental you don't wait for your s funeral,” he suid. “Most da yund here geeva da wife da eye, but no flowers till she And so overcome was he with the marital appreciation of a.living wife of his present customers that he gave them double measure of chrysanthe- mums and roses and insisted on tak- ng the purchasers into the back of his store and opening a bottle of Greek red wine Lawyer Hooligan, a political at torney ntly moved to the dis- rict, entered the back room at this point, and he t tal and also learned of the flowers, reel ry to the cf- fect that women in our hours of were uncertain, coy and hard “Rut red Lawyer . poin sticulag finger the Greek, that Nick mark the application, “But! seen too often, ,famillar. with face,” Lawyer Hooligan added, first’ endure, then pity, and then em- brace!" point Mr. Rangle, who, in 1 of the anniversary feast helped himself ngain to the burst Into tears. es were applied and igan volunteered to as- sist Mr. Jury home with Mr. Ran and the flowe But Lawyer Hool gun found no poetical quotation suitat what followed Ani pair of Jadies met Law yer gun at the doorway th smicile and tore hi vim. and threw t he was bearing, in his f Phen the door was slammed in the © of the surprised lawyer Ra birthday party has been a t t has since been avoided by mutual nt, But Mrs. Jarre and Mra, Ry on one matter. If th er sue fo diverce, Lawyer Hooligan shall not vopresent them, | AN HELPLESS WITHOUT Aw A COOK / CAN'T Cook A THING FIT TO EAT. 5 ‘)\ mi | [HEA ITM { BEEN MENTAL TELEPATHY! Sy ee UST HAVE TELEPATHY NOTHING / (T WAS INDIGESTION ———_” Make Your O By Fay Stevenson. Copsright, 19.4), by The Prow Publixhiug Co, Tie New Evening World), HRISTMAS {y on its way and it’s high time to begin thinking about candy. With all the best candy at $1 and UP per pound it is also time to think about making one’s own candy. Sugar is now 10 and 91-2 cents per pound and com- ing down all the time, so there ought to be plenty of good, wholesome candy in every home this year, And candy is one thing which can be made in the tiniest of Kitchenettes, In fuct, ull one needs is just one burner and one saucepa But of course candy-making 4s more or less of a business and like cake or pastry it takes “experience to make home sugar concoctions taste or look like “store candy." The average school girl and housewife is pretty well posted on making fudge or taffy, but that is about as far as their candy education goes, And yet there are many delightful nut can- dies and rich fondants which are most simple to make, Why not practise up a bit following recipes and client by holiday tim on the become profi- Cream Chocolates (made without boiling) —-Put the white of an ¢ an equal quantity of cold wate and into & bowl, favor with vanilla and beat until froth Sift in sufficient con- fectioners’ sugar to make a_ stiff paste, work all together until amooth, form into balls, lay on waxed paper and set in a cool, dry place for two or three hours. ‘Then put one-half cake of unsweetened chocolate into @ pan with just enough water to melt and not burn. When this thickens, put one cream ball at a time on the end of a fork, dip into the melted chocolate until well covered, drain and slip on greased paper Veench Candy—Take the white an egg and an equal quantity of lemon orange juice Mix well to- gether and add confectioners’ sugas until the whole s stiff enough to roll into bails, Then dip in chocola Old Fashioned Butter-Scoteh—Put two pounds of brown sugar in a ket- tle with one-quarter pound of butter Set over the fire to melt Let boil until thick, stirring all the while to % Candy Prices Are Still Way Up; Sugar Is Coming Down—You Have the Kitchenette —Here Are the Recipes and Your Opportunity a Prevent scorching. Take from the roll the whole in powdered sugar. up of boiling wate stove, pour into buttered trays and = Walnut Creams —Take the half- then boll until it cut into squares. nuts carefully from the shells, in stage Now add Molasses affy—Two of order not to brenk them uke the om, thine: tt brown sugar, cup and one-lulf of cretm candy “according ' ai and Ie until molasses, butter ze of a walnut, rections for the chocolate cream dropped in cold water Boil until it will crack when tested without boiling, and 4 half a nut tered puns, cut in cold water, then cool and pull on ach side of the balls of candy in purafiin paper FudgePut in a saucepan two cups While they are soft, preasing them so Puste—Chop of granulated sugar, four sections as to fatten the cream nd of fies unsweetened chocolate (eut in fine Nut bars—P’e its, almonds, KE) au ‘e8: pieces) two heaping tablespoc Is lish walnuts or pecans may be used tt of trutter and one cup of m K fo this candy Prepare the nuts which about twenty-five minut | and chop. se 4 pan with fresh Stir in t candy gives” promise of butter and place nuts in preading and a Pour into buttered pan and mark off evenly. Put one pound of granulated | paste 0 in squarcs. For Maple Pudge sub ugar, With half # teacup of wa v and dist with stitute maple sugar for chocolute und and a pinch of cream of tartar into « fi Ha fr if a delicious confection is desired kettle and until thick, but not cup LV Use cream Instead of milk and add brittle, P the syrup ever the sugur and cup chopped walnuts, nuts and o t reachen t Cream Diutes—-Remove the stones Maple Caramels -— Make a ich one peaping tab from dates, make the cream as in Syrup by bollihg dow ac of Remove ‘om the cream chocolates, without boiling, maple sugar with a little water, ‘To creamy, When roll inte oblong shape, put into tho: three caps of this syrup add two cups die, make into bulls date where the stone was removed, of light-brown sugar, three table- English walnut ur spoonfuls of glucose, und one-half gach side, press the two halves together apd nha HOW 7 UNCANNY / C UNCANNY reaches 1 cup Jespoontt tire old enough toget n Christmas Candy nel wert butte n but und be p at f ar 1 { tor ty fi snd beat until to han da put half an Kory nut on SATURDAY, DECEMBER 4, 1920 NOISY NEIGHBORS The Barking Dog by Night--The Constantly Jazzing Phonograph by Day; Both Permigsi- ‘ dle at the Right Time and in the Right Place ~ But the Latter Is Not a City Apartment. By Sophie Irene Loeb. Copyright, 1020, by The Press Publishing OW that people are indoors most of the time, several communis cations have come, which com- plain bitterly of the needless noises made by thoughtless neighbors. One of them tells of her great an- Moyance caused by the barking of a neighbor's dog, which the woman has endured for years, being loath move from her very pleasant ap ment, I never realized how much havoo the barking of a dog could work in disturbing one’s rest until the other morning when I was awakenad from by the howl of a canine ity been acquired by family nearby. And y morning since, in the very early hours, this hound sets up @ howl that must cause great discom- fort to every one within hearing dis- tance, rte I don't intend that that dog shall annoy me for very long. [ will speak kindly and grac.ously to the people who own it, and try to explain how sometimes I have to work ¥ te at night, and how my bit of rest I get In tho early morning is entirely dispelled because of the.r animal. If these people do not that it tw infinitely unfair to have such a dog about, I shall immediately take the matter up with the proper authority, and see to it that something is done about it I shall not fail to do th » hot only for my own in but because it Is my civic duty to do it. The day will come when tho rights of the person living next door to one who permits harrowing noi 8 will be more quickly adjusted. In the interim, however, we must each have sufficient civic spirit to see a thing like this through for the benefit of all concerned I love dogs. I know of no more faithful animaf, and have never failed in these columns to urge consideration for this, man’s best friend But I am beginning to believe, b cause of the many communication that I receive, that the dog has n place in the avgrage apartment of a frightfully congested city like New York proper. There will come the day wh will be a gone, inside of which thes Kinds of pets will be prohibited, Do this seem unkind, gentle ler, to those who love dogs? Not at all Tt mer means that. t that has children, who wa pets, and even adults, will placa in Flatbush, Bay ough Park, Garden City or some other nearby section where dogs can be made comfortable and happy and where there is less chance for them to _be harassed into barkinus. 1 am contident that there will be a clean line of demarkation drawn whereby any animal, no matter how cute or aweet or petlike to the person who owns it, if it gives offense to family nts such find a Ridge, Bor- others will be properly dealt with and stopped This ts only one of the petty kinds of noises that people are tortured with that if all summed up would really make a mountain of suffering in the long run Certainly, great blx dogs are of place in small apartments, the crowded condition of cities Another one of these missives tells of a phonograph that is kept going out with from morning tll night all day Sun day, Now certainly there cant no argument inst having muste in your home—any kind you want Lut it is surely unkind, to say the Jeast, to keep a phonograph going, hour after hour, so that the toleranc ©, (The New York ke of neighbors ix durance at times This woman tells how the day of her family is spoiled by conatant — high-pitched Which never stops on “day of rest.” lay your phono, Jaze you want don't ‘keep it going And so 1 could Ko nolsy neighbors w bout the people a are selfish beyond wi #8 people ought something of the G way, somehow, & will fix It In the m lar, “Hay MAXIMS OF A MODERN MAID ARGUERITE MOOERS MARSLL rubs, 1Y), by The Drews Praliinliing Uo Tie Now York Evening Work) OVE is a grab-bag from whieh you may pluck a large num- ber of different experiences—+ no one of them worth more than 10 cents, ne World.) * elelted beyond ene whole this phonograph the su-called raph with all the but in all’ fairness | the time. of on and tell » never think vund them and sure to be taught “iden Rule, vome me day statutes an tim hea in the vernacus No really clever man ever bothers to be a tempter; it is so much to persuade a desired woman she is the temptress Praise a woman for her brain if you want Its services; praise her for her beauty If you want her socie but if you desire to possess he body, mind and soul, pay your ho- age to her youth. Not getting up for breakfast; miss- ing @ train by refusing to run a few steps; letting your young sons ia your shoes, put coal on, your furnace fire, and fetch matches for your pipe —these are expressions of the fine art of laziness, as cultivated by the modern man. It is only vanity which keeps any woman from being a successful con- versationalist, since to attain that end she need only ask a question about his job, his golf or his health, and then let the heathen rage, * Once upon a time there was an art of coprtship, but nowadays a man uses the same methods of dash, close calculation and bribery for landing a girl as for landing a contract. The test of being happily married is to meet a man you used to know and be left with a great wonderment as to why in the world you ever took him seriously. 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