The evening world. Newspaper, March 9, 1920, Page 17

we Your Adam-and-Eve Personality Should Be Allowed to Live; Do Not Curb Yourself Too Mach Andre Tridon, Psycho-Analyst, Declares That There Is a Little of the Old Adam and Eve in Every One; But There Is Also the Second Personality to Consider. | This Must Fit Itself Into the 20th Century Condi-| tions. « By Fay Stevenson. Coprright, 1920, by The Press Publishing Co. (The New York Evening World) 'Y one has a dual personal.) his old life, but he always returned later to the city. tty—a side which he knows and @ side which he doesn't know, but may develop at any time. ‘This is the gist af a lecture en- titled “Dual Per- sonalities, ‘Jekyll and Hyde Types,” which ‘Andre Tridon, noted psycho- analyst, ts to give at No, 133 East 58th Street, March 24, “Would you divide our dual per- @amalities into our better and worse wives?” I asked Mr. Tridon at his studto yesterday afternoon. “I would divide dual personalities into the ‘old’ ‘and the ‘new’ personal- ity,” laughed Mr. Tridon. “And what do you mean by that?” I asked. “Well,” replied Mr. Tridon, becom- ing quite serious, ‘no doubt the origi- wal Adam and Eve had but one per- sonality. eetural, individual side. Old Adam Eve had no restrictions, no re ints, they did what they pleased, Grey thought as they pleased—natur- ally they had but one side to their natures, There were no landlords to Pavan ‘\\ Xia N STRIDON. Ysayl’t Oght, no maids to worry over, no Jacks or Janes to Adam and lve indulged every whim. “To-day things are different. Men and women are const» .tly on guard. Restraint and deprivation are on all hands. ‘There are billions of Adams nd Eves in the world and men and women have developed two sets of nervous systems; in other words, they have two sides to their natures, ‘There 1s a little of the old Adam and the old Eve in every one—a desire to ‘do exuctly what he or she pleases, at there is also the second person- ality to consider, the new personality which must fit itself into the twen- eth century conditions.” “Which makes the better citizen, the man or woman who harkens to the old ery, or the man or woman who steps in with the new personality and puts aside all his or her desires?” I asked. “I believe every one should give the Ad and Eve in him a chance to u * exclaimed Mr. Tridon, “It is a strange thing, but the man or woman who suppresses too much from his life, who turns his or her back upon all the good things of life, is the very one who sometimes falls the hardest, These are the yery people who develop th ‘Mr. Hyde’ characteristics and come to the pitterest grief. Perhaps that is why so many criminals and people who go wrong cry, ‘I didn't know what I was doing.” No doubt, in ‘nine cases out of ten, they Their dual personality, a restrained characteristic or quality of which they were totally unaware, broke forth. “My theory is that men and women should enjoy life. Get the most there is out of it, in a good way of course; but above all things be happy, Since humanity came into being, man has enjoyed himself too little. That alone is our original sin, “Accidents haye brought forth dual personalities, Sometimes a man who bas always led a clean life will meet with an accident, a slight injury which will change his whole mode of life, 1 reeall the caso of w minister in New Mmgland who fell out of his carriag wpon his head. Although there was oxy @ wlight bruise, his nervous sys- tam was injured and his whole char acter changed. He went to the city mma became one of the lowest men hmaginable. At trmes he would re- be jealous of—! tually didn't know. | ‘They had nothing but their |” \ | if | | case, for instanca That man had a dual personality of which be never dreamed. I do not believe that any- ;* man has gone to Europe or ont | “His wife's out and"— |sedd it in a very chilly manner, “Of course, I don’t mean that a Broadway rounder would be very apt to change his character by a mere fall,” laughed Mr. Tridon, “but it merely shows what shock and a strain upon the nervous system will do. “War changes thecharacter of peo- ple. There was the Spiker-Knowles thing but the war and the shock to his nerves was responsible for his un- faithfulness to his wife. “Too much work also makes people develop a dual personality. Men with large families, men burdened with financial troubles, frequently pack up and run away from it all. Sometimes they actualy desert their families, go to another city and start anew. Many West and deen absolutely lost to his family.” “Then you would advise us to be happy in order to escape our dual— ‘Mr. Hyde'—personalities?” I asked Tridon. would advise people not to re- Press themselves too much, not to make the strain of life too severe; to enjoy life each day as they go along, and not wait until to-morrow, for to- morrow never comes. ‘Those who realize that there is still a little of the old Adam and Eve in us seldom have to combat their dual personalities, but those who hold themselves in tension are frequently surprised at their own deeds.” pill Aa hacen oes RH The Jarr Family By Roy L. McCardell, Copyright, 1920, by Tee Press Publishing Ce, (The Ne York Evening World) 667 THINK I'll run over to see Rane | | gle a little while this evening,” | began Mr. Jarr in a hesitating | manner the other night after supper. “Why consult me about your social | activities?” asked Mra, Jarr, and she) “ff you don't want me to go"—— Mr. Jarr began, “Me?” Mrs, Jarr interrupted. “Oh, I insist you go. I don’t mind being left alone, not at all; I'm used to it— ha!" But the ugh was mirth- less. However, Mr. Jarr did go and found his friend Rangle all alone, “Let's play some cards," said Mr. Rangle despondently. “I haven't a/ Pinochle deck. We'll play euchre—| that's a good two-handed game." Mr, Jarr knew it wasn't, but dole- | fully nodded assent, for if there was any game as stupid and tiresome as | two-handed euchre Mr. Jarr did not | know it The two played gloomily some twenty games, Mr. Jarr being four | ahead and Rangle was about to settle and call the game, when his wife en- | tered. “Well, I do think!" she began. | “You might have made less mess! Look at that table cloth! Look at the carpet!" | “Don't you see Mr, Jurr?” aid Mr. Rangle. “{ &2id ‘Good evening’ to Mr. Jurr | whoa I came in!” snapped Mra Ran- | gle, which she had not. “And I'm sure Mr. Jarr will excuse my remark wbout how things are, but I know his wito wouldn't like it if her husband had made a pigpen of her house! And furthermore, Mr. Rangle knows 1 | do not tolerate gambling! 1 thought | I had burned thove horrid cards! I'm sure I intended to!” “Oh, we weren't gambling; Just playing for fun, you know!" stam- mered Mr, Jarr, and he selzed his hat and muttered his farewells | “Well, this is a nice hour to get home!" began Mrs. Jarr. “I suppose | you waited ti Mrs, Rangle camo | back? How would you like it if I was always running out and staying UM all hours as she does? Maybe she does it on purpose, for I suppose that man Rangle go you to gambling and cheated you ou! of au your money ?" “No, I won two dollars,” said Mr. Jarr, paid ‘Let me see it,” said Mrs, Jarr, “I ou will gamble and if you do win spything it should come to me!” Mr. Jarr searched himself and found a twp dollar bill which he rt over with a sigh Phe next day he met Mr. Randle who said: “Lowe you two dollars. I'll toss you a quarter, double or quits!” He tossed and won, and Me. Jarr went without his luncheon. Now Mr. Jerr knows why the iperstitious sports believe a two dollar bill is unlucky, and pinch off corner, But as for his two doflars, Mrs. turg to the village and try to take up Jarr “pinched” it all ever, A but didn’t say be hadn't deen | ¥ Tt. (The New Xork Mrensng By Maurice Ketten ort.) COME AND SEE MY TROUSSEAU Hts ToHN WON'T | LOOK SWELL OMING TH You Look Lik! Movie. ST EVAL SAY THAT. BUT WHAT IF You CAN'T FIND A Cook > 4 The Girl Who Travels | By Sophie [rene Loeb. Copyright, 1920, by The Press Publ LETTER comes to me trom the | Travelers’ Ald Society set- ting forth the importance of caution for the girl who travels During the year just passed, over 78,000 girls in the Tnited States ere reported to ‘+ authorities as pissing.” 1¢ this number, 4.000 disappeared in New York City, ‘The above figures are suf- Verinynenecove? ficient reason for continued vigilance, At every rail- Toad station of any magnitude, there is usually @ matron, or representative of the Travelers’ Aid Society, and every girl’'may apply to such a one This representative always wears the badge of the Travelers’ Aid Society Hundreds of young women have been saved very embarrassing situa- toons, to say nothing of real dangers, by the timely appeal for ivsformation | or help, Hundreds of interesting | stories are found in the history of this group of workers, who are on the lookout to ald girls at railroad blations. A significant story is told of a girl Mary, who lived on a farm. In the summer, at Mary’s farm, they had summer boarders, whose description of the great city filled her with a longing to go there. | One day in December the sixteen- | year-old girl, who had never been away from her immediate yillage, found her way on the “local” to New York to find a jdb, On arrival Mary became bewil- dered at the hurrying throng—a scene |so different from the serene white tarm | house and God's green acres, She went along with the surging crowd and |found herself appealing to @ taxicab |driver to take her to the address of |one of the summer boarders, an address to Wall Street, As tt was after bustnese hours the “cabby” called a “young man ef un- | mistakable Broadway clothes” to take | | | ing Co. ( | Big Brothers’ or Big Sisters’ Society. the girl to a hotel, Fortunately a | Travelers’ Aid worker appeared on the | woene af his moment, ew York Rvening World) Mary is only one of ninety-one run- away girls wno were apprehended in the month of December by this or- ganization, In the words of the so- ciety: “There was nothing particularly iniquitous about Mary’s coming to tho! city to find a job, But her innocence, her lack of sophistication, makes it im- perative that there be agencies at work to protect her from the pitfalls that beset her in New York and every great | city in the world, Mary's predicament | might easily be duplicated by some one dear to you—your own little country | cousin, The great cities must be made safe for the trusting Marys who come to them.” Lf only girls could be made to realize yhat they can readily eufe-| guard fhemselves by appealing to some reliable source, many disagre- | able occurrences would be avoided, to | say nothing of real trouble, ‘Dhis | holds good with other travellers who are timid or weak or aged. If a Traveler's Aid agent is not about it is easy enough to telephone to the nearest Y. M. C. A. or Young Women's Christian Association, or to Some one can always be found to give first-aid to those who seek it, Also, there is the policeman, Many @ person hesitates to ask aid | of the policeman for fear of being arrested or coming to public nottoe. | This view of the policeman's services is being gradually changed. We must realize that the policeman, after all, | is there in the interest of the public | peace, He is not only there to see that the law is not violated, but he | is especially charged with adding dn | the prevention of crime, The suceesstul policeman of to-day is not the man who causes the mont arrests, but whose efforts are directed in the interest of preserving the| eace. | Children should be taught to appes| to the policeman in time of doubt, anywhere, any time. The stranger who shows undue Interest in the trav- eller 1s to be donbted in the large city, | especially in the case of the young gin. | ‘While there are many good people | who want to help, and with whom a gtr! might be safe, yet the chances of danger are too great to admit of | recommending the acceptance of uid | from any person excepting Loltaecall wulhoritien | THE HIMSELF OOR CHILD | DoYou THINK EAL LIFE tS Like THE THIStS TO PUTON IN THE A HE ‘LL Cootr TAKE A TIP FROM ME! Pur REAKFAST THE A FEW IXITCHEN APRONS! ables forthe Fair By Marguerite Mooers Marshall. Copyright, 1920, by Tho Prem Publishing Co. (The New York Evening World) HE trouble ale With this married couple was that they tried to save daylight With differently geared watches. His put breakfast time at least two hours ahead of hers. For how could anybody expect a Lady of Pleasures Who had danced till 2 o'clook in the morning To pour coffee at § A. M., for a Man of Affairs, While wearing a pink breakfast coat and a happy smile? Not being a carpenter or a coal-miner, with the God-given right to an eight-hour day, He frequently could not leave his office in time to dress for the early dinner She and the cook preferred. Pretty soon they were saving a corner-table for him at the club. Naturally, she wasn't going to lone touch with her friends, Just because he was Loo tired, as he said, and too selfish, aa she said, ‘To be her escort for a seven-night week; So they didn’t see much of each other evenings, And that’s how they burned the marriage at both ends— Like so many other uptown wives and downtown husbands, Wives in the leisure clase, husbands in the working clase! Now marriage may and does survive the disuppoarance of mutual passion, But without mutual conversation it's ail off! Uniess a man can talk to bis wife ubout the winner he picks in base- ball, the condemned, congenital idiovy of the Repubi!can party, und his favorite method of preventing colds— (Democratic) Unless she can talk to him about the latest imposition tn the kitchen, her bargain purchase of puppydog satin and the shameless way Mrs. Smithers cheats at bridge— last call for Reno! The Man of Affairs and the Lady of Pleasures never had a minute together— Then how could they have a word or a confidence together? “Nature abhors a vacuum.” ince he could not talk to his wife, He talked to his stenographer Not wisely but too well! As for the Lady of Pleasures, She talked To the obliging tea-hound, Who knew just enough to live on his inherited money And take lovely, lonely married ladies to parties, Marrying one of them Wasn't on his score-card, But of course he had to do it, after the Lady of Pleasures Went through all the agonies of an uncontested divorce sult and the humiliation of ample alimony For his sake, Oh, yes, and the Man of Affairs treated the stenographer with chivalry! ‘The stern morulist may know—he usually doce—where the blame Delonge: As for me, T am perfectly willing to lay it all on the parallel lines in geomotry— ‘They set such a horrible exummpe to every Man of Affairs married to & Lady of Ploasures— They NEVER meets | instead of the prescriptions, the Sun- )day School Antis complained that | Broadway had no soul. Which was Correct, But the Antis have changed TUESDAY, Was a Resident, Coprriebt. Broadway. In the days when | the botties were non-refillable all that. They've fixed it so Broad- ‘way to-day has no breath. The only thing laws cannot stop is a thirst, and Broadway has that for fair. Broadway's so thirsty now it'll even scoop up a non-musical show that Basn’t a kick im it! They used to sing how Broad- Way was once a pasture and 42d Street was just a lane. The old Gothamites used to milk cows on the very locations where the MARCH 9, 1920 Broadway In the Old Days a Rube at Broadway and 42d § Not a- Visitor, and He Had Hayseed in His Hair—Now Broadway Is So Dry! Takes a Street Sprinkler to Wet It Down. : By Neal R. 0’ Hara. +4 1920, by The Pres Publishing Co ~ 5 HE Antis bave sure changed old) not visitor—and he had hay | 4 192 Bs a (The New York Livening World) seed in his hair. Yep, Broadway was once @ ture, but Broadway has been teurized again this year. It's : pasteurized, and all you can get drink is milk! The guys you seo ¢ Broadway now don’t have in their bair, But they have tonic in their stomach. To-day York is neither a hick town nor hic town—thanks to the Antl- 0 boys. It sow foolish, bat Broad- way Is so dry it takes a water wagon to wet it down. The only thing they're opening up on Broadway these days are new shows, And new shows dowt | i ticket speculators now milk customers. There was green grass in Times Square insteaa of green stripes. And shade trees in the cross streets of Broadway instead of shady re- sorta, A Rube at Broadway and 424 Street was a resident then, Courtship and Marriage By Betty Vincent SHE LOVES HER COUSIN. ILEDN V. M’C. has a hard prob- E jem to solve. She writes; “I am very much in love with @ cousin of mine, a young man of twenty-five years of age. He is a very hand- some, lively sort of fellow, goes out most every night, but still is very sensible. He has a great many girl friends, but somehow he gives them all the once over and does not go fiza—although some of ‘em fisale, And that’s as close as they aro i to booze, The theatres have { |) fixed It so you can lean on the brass rail, but all you ean order are theatre seats, There’s no fun ordering a pair of tickets— with a table at a midnight show as a chaser, The day when a guy conld see each act of a show between drinks has passed, New there are plenty more acts but no more drinks, A guy can Bow see “Parsifal” between drinks a © plenty of time to waste. Yes, the Drama has doubl Drink, The mask and wig bat nosed out the flask and |Thespis thrives while backs away. The face on the Toom floor is now the face in box office window. ‘They sell stan@s ing room only to-day to guys the | once couldn't stand up at all. . And what of Broadway's famows | bars—have they really gone? Xou} bet they've gone! Broadway's \ with any of them very much. His | one great saying is, ‘I'm never going to get married,’ but I cannot believe | him, as @ young man like he is could never be @ bachelor. “On the other hand I am young, jand everybody tells me I am pretty. J also like to €0 out, have good times and be among people I know a lot ef young men, but 1 don't seem t gare for any of them es much a4 my cousin. Now it happens that I live very near my cousin dnd frequently pee him. We get along fine together He takes me out quite @ little and tella mo any time I want to go out Just to let him know. “Now, Miss Vincent, do you think he caren for me? If he doesn’t it will break my heart. Ploase tell me Just what you would do in my cas. I Would do anything for him, ag I jlove him, but then the thought al- ways comes to me that he is my first cousin and it is terrible to think | that is es far as my love can go. ! | Thanking you for your kind advice 1 wish to say I will follow it, no matter what you say, as I am an or- | phan and have no one to advise me.” | My dear Eileen, it te againat the law to marry a first cousin, #0 ban- ‘isn your thoughts of sentimental love for your cousin at once, I think if you will stop to analyze , your | thoughts you will find chat your love | for your cousin is really a ‘coustnly love’ just as a sister loves her brother, Since you are an orphan [ | feel quite certain that ts the type of |Jove you bear him. Cousins are en- tirely too much alike in temperament to think of marrying, especially first coustms. Turn about and try to ad- | mire some of your many acquaint- ances. ‘THE EVENING WORLD | QULJA EDITOR ASK ~— Who Put the Jazz in This Win- ter’s Storms? a | TRY THISON “3 WX, YouR / ae ~> OUIJA M Bome Answers to Recent Questions. L. C, D.—Will the “reformera” suc ceed in doing away with tobacco? My outja says "No, for that would do away with ‘The lips that touch tobacco shall never touch mine.'’ George A Brady, Bronx My oulja board spelled out, ‘If they take away all the people who use tobacco, goods Broadway—My oulja board said, “The delicatessen store keopers get that way by short-way-ing the pub- tie, are now shirt shops and haberda sid | eries. Where once you bought beet j with « collar on it you new buy @ + shirt with a eollar on that Wh: ‘olives and cherries were once at the bottom of the glass, lavenders an pinks are now at the top of tha showcase. Where once you bouche two fingers” you now buy four-ime jhands, Ab, verily, times have jchanged! There ain't even a dag |Of vermouth in a haberdashery, | OF cabarets’ the tale is still | sadder, The lobster palace is | now for smaller fish—it's a ome. | | arm lunch! It's a place where a : | flowing -bowl means only an order of Irish stew. It's a place 5 | NOW where you eat, drink and | Pay as you ext, Hitting the | high spots at Rector’s these days | only means getting your check | punched for 95 cents. Prohibi- tion has given us two legs to stand om, but it's left us only one arm to eat from. | Yea, friends, Broadway is a |formed thoroughfare now. Timed. has changed and so has the tipple) Even the theatres are losing th: pep. You now see “George ington” and “Abraham Lincoln” Broadway instead of “Arsene Lup! and “Robin Hood.” { Copyrieht. 199, by The Pres Publiguing | (The New Tork Brening World.) | 1. From what direction do the winds blow in the Northern phere? 2. In what country in Europe the most diamonds cut? | 2 How many times greater tho diameter of the earth is the 7 ameter of the sun? 4, How many Virgins were ners f the parable told by Jesus? 5. Who wrote “Pippa Passes"? 6 What is the substance ta fi blood which causes it to coagulats 7. What causes the green colori lin planta? 8 What is the name of Prestdond | Lincoln's son? ) : ! During what war were backs first used? 10, What is the nationality of lehmainen, the long-distance rumm LU. What medicine is usually for malarial fever 12. Wh first "Ge to Jericho’ ANSWERS TO YESTERDAY'S | | | QUESTIONS. : | 1, Virginia Dare; 2, Tennyeemy h: 4 Media; 5, John Dawes” | Wolf; 7, Dundee: & Turks; & Bi 20, Thistle; 11, “Goodby!"; 2% ily \eom. ai i '