The evening world. Newspaper, November 19, 1919, Page 24

Do Not. Hunt a Husband! a Wait a Few Years; Give a Dan Cupid His Chance ' Do Not Marry the First Man Who Proposes to You Because You Are Afraid You May Never Meet » Another; Neither Should You Marry Because You Are Tired of Business Life. By Fay Stevenson Copyright, 1819, by The Prem Publidiing Co. (The New York Reening World.) RE you hunting a wife? | Are you hunting a husband? If you are, stop looking and listen. Why not let love come to you of its own accord? Why go after Gupid when it is so much better to let him come to you? 1 never knew a man who was hunting a wife who didn’t find one, nor did I ever know a girl who was hunt- ing a husband who didn’t secure some sort of a masculine being. But the question is: Do the people who hunt mates find the right woman and the right man? - Love should tomé to,you, and every time you go after it you are taking ‘Too many men in her own life work that she is lost to him. id ! Personally I do not believe in long | jengagements. Many times young men | are true to their earlier vows of youth, | but wed with all the romance and | sparkle of love quite dead. There- fore those young men who apprect- ate the fact that they cannot wed « girl because of their financial sina ditions make no mistake in tu¥ning about and putting love aside while they turn their attention to business. | ‘Their mistake lies in th fact that at the end of that period when they, have built up their financial re- | sources they cry, “Now I am ready! to wed!” . Without afty thought of love or the type of women they ap- Preciate they are tdo apt to propose to the first woman they meet through mutual friends or socially, Such marriages’ are not love marriages| but “opportunity” marriages. The! man is rendy to marry, ready to es- tablish a home of his own, # he marries the first woman who hap- pens to cross his path, ii Perhaps a young man is tired of his hotel or ‘boarding house and wishes he had the quietude of his own home. “I'm going to get mar- ried,” he announces, half in jest and hale in earnest, “and end all this.” And straightway, the first woman who is at all attractive, who smiles at him or who expresses one thought tm common with his becomes his wife. Time has suggested that | wed, he bas decided that he wants home anff hoitief édoking. He is ready to wed and hence he consults time rather than his heart. Many women are just as guilty of marrying on this pretext as men, The girl who sits down after her school days are over with the idea of “Now I am going to marry,” and waits patiently for her knight to ride by, seldom finds real love. She al- ways feels that she ought to marry the first man who proposes because ES Hd her father gives e s z 3 & z 3 E i 43 wait several years before marry- ‘business life, Day routine and grind soul. “I shall wed who proposes, no mat- @ snub nose and js “toed, as long as he will pro- lo a home and I can keep out of cars during the rush hours,” de- many @ young woman. And ly she does wed the first young her way regardless ‘TWO MINUTES OF OPTIMISM ey Li es the business life she dreads. years hence she will probably wall about the excellent business opportumity she had and how little @ girl gains from mar- rying. Seeing others happily married fre- quently starts the “marrying bee" in a bachelor’s or matden’s'heart, “I gu Til have to get married and be as hap- py as Joe or Lily,” they have fre- quently thought upon going home to a very lonely little room, But getting married is not a matter of buying a new derby or a gown, and the man or woman who is hunting for a wife or @ husband because they think it ts about time for them to wed usually manage to bungie their lives up pret- ty well, Few people marry their first loves. The Pauls and Virginias of Ife are hard to find, But because so many young people do have to put the first love out of their life a, reason why @ second or third great love may not come their way. Because one ro- mance must be ended because of time and conditions is no reason & man or woman should cry, “Everything in my life now points toward matrimony, I am ready to wed.” Time should play no part ip comparison to love, And love cannot be found in a day, week or month. Do not hunt a wife. Do not bunt a husband. from Two Ring capital, but be bas never done enough work to acquire any. ‘Ho yells about labor's exploitation ‘and about labor generally, but he fices furiously at the prospect of A eorehead is a man who always carries & chip on his shoulder. His "very attitude and bearing are a ~ @hallénge. Wherever he is he is Training a Football Team by Aeroplane FIRST TIME IN HISTORY THAT AIR MACHINES . HAVE BEEN UTILIZED TO TRAIN THE GRIDIRON GLADIATORS = vc bd PHOTOES © vresaw: {A + DOT A FOOTBALL TEAM TRAINED BY AN AEROPLANE, Sounds fanny, doesn’t it? But is happening nevertheless. Coach Bob Evans of the Leland Stanford University eleven is using this unique method, and he reports remarkable progress, ‘ The men line up on the wings and the aviator starts his plane and attempts to gain headway against the strength of the men, In the line bucking test eight or ten men line up along the wings. ‘The aviator starts his machine and trys to gain headway against the strength of the men. Usually he is unsuccessful. A number of other plays can be worked with the aid of the areoplane. One player remains directly behina the machine while others re- main several yards in the rear. The ball, which has been thrown under the machine, is tossed out by the current as the plane starts, and the player grabs it and starts a dash down the field. His team-mates then grab him and the tackle is completed. One photo shows the player about to grab the ball. Your Sweetheart’s rei Characteristics a by Handwriting. Copyright 1918, oy The Press Publishing Co, (The New York Evening World) HELEN, E. F.—Frank,, honest.) doubted literary tastes. Cl Sincere _iitections pind | husband. | should cadurer beontec you! one xcellent q ies when he finds hi well balanced mind should harm self, At present fighting against dis-|with his Seaatlopat Savare: ene couragement, Some will power, but aan not thorough, WILLA B, 8—Business ability, kindly, but ‘level head, Versatile, moral’ courage. Saving, but not stingy. Dependable. Conservative, GRACE W-—The signature, Tom Driscol, which you desire printed, in- dicates kindness, nobility. Poise. Honesty, continuity*of thought, ESTHER 8—Vacillating, thgugh he shows desire for improvement ‘Tastes more spiritual than material Indications are constitution none too robust. Has a certain fluency of thought, but far too unstable at pres- ent to count upon, Must develop initiative sfor success, R. J. B., Conn—Hasty, companton- able. Frank, imaginative, Loving, but indications are no hurry to Ty. Specimen shows slight indisposition, YVETTE, Brooklyn — Indications are very saving. Not adaptable. Not communicative. Normally affection- ate. Conservative, Some will power, mildly stubborn, Simple tastes, Gradual financial success. You arv Kindly, timid, mildly ambitious. Should be a better mixer. and think less of youraself, A. B.— Jolly, hasty, careless. Spender, Not serious enough for ma- trimony at present. ‘Though excellent memory, must concentrate for success. Should make agreeable husband, but type that lets others worry. Be bolder E. M.—Not specially ambitious, but M Brooklyn—Sincere. Tender, | £emial nature; keen sense of humor, obit ea? ideals, refinement, | With a fair mind, will carry him far. simple tastes. Intelligent spender.) /©vimg husband. Is not jealous, Firmness, Indications are success. tL 8 —Normally affectionate. Rather material tastes, though there is a trace of latent artistic traits, Should make good husband. Indica- tions no great wealth. Not especially forecful. A trifle selfish, Common- place, LOUISE, F. D.—Type absolutely correct as to conventions. Modest C. R. Le—No great force, but some stubbornness. Not exactly lazy, but lacks imagination and ambition, yet is not inefficient, Indications are in- different to sports. Not generous, M. M.—Indications are not the mar- rying kind. Type that would make somewhat selfish husband. taste, lives by system, Not generous.) E, F. Sincere, broad views. Incapable of great love, Somewhat| Truthful. Forceful. Deliberate about clannish, Perfect!y safe to marry. No|marriage, Intelifgently — gen Should make good husband, | the fly in the ointment, the grit in ‘he oil, the thorn in everybody's side, Always he scoffs, sneers, @etracts and deprecates, but his Do not marry the first girl who smiles at you simply because you are financially fit or ready to wed. Do not marry the first man who proposes to you because you are afraid you may never meet another, Do not marry because you are tired of business life. Wait a few years and give Dan Cupido obenee particular force, but will always have money lald away. z. M. E-—Barring extravagance, splendid type throughout, ©. E., Lakewood—Insuffictent apect- men indicates modesty and easily dis- couraged. GEO, B.—Very affectionate, frank One NOTE—The Character Anatysis eater qraves the indulgence of Evening World readers who have sent in specimens of their sweet~ hearts’ handwriting for analysis. Hundreds of specimens are re- ceived daily, while space permite but 20 answers. All letters are answered in the order of thetr '] from @ nerve remedy into a powerful with certain amount of caution, Ad/ receipt. mires orite women, Genial Uns Four-Room Apartm Why Pay $100 a Month for Four Separate Rooms? Simply Press a Button and a Turntable With Three Equal Compartments Offers a Kitchen, a Bedroom or Bath. Coppright, 1019, by ‘Tho Press Publishing Co, (The New York Evening World.) By Will B. Johnstone HEN American inventors come face to face with any problem they can solve it. Take away all alcoholic intoxicants and they immediately provide end- legs inventions for making homemade buns, and the scientific contingent even turn the harmless celery etalk intoxicant, You click the celery stalks together, say “Hero's how,” eat, and then hit the floor, To meet the high rent problem and house scarcity the inventors again prove their ingenuity, as photographs show in the Llustrated World, The invention is called a “Four Room Flat in One.” That the idea is practical ja ahowa in a acrled of pho- iy . one room and installing this new vice, It ts as simple as A BC, The one room is fitted out as a Ing room; that is, one end of it, other end is partitioned off to cont a turntable of small dimensions, centre, In one compartment compact kitchen—squipped, with % 5 WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 19,1919 \The Maxims ofa Modern Maid By Marguerite Mooers Marshall Courright, 1919, by ‘The Prem Publishing Company (The New York Evening World.) D IVORCE is the digestive tablet that “settles” many a feast of love. ‘ ‘The chastening influence of shaves and hair cuts on the Reds at Ellis Island does not surprise the married woman, who has learned that the meekest /usband, unshaven and unshorn, looks—and acts—like a fittle brother to the Bolshevik. ‘ Yes, Doris, a girl finds it harder to be engaged to a war hero who will not talk about what he did than to a war liar who is perfectly willing to talk about what he didn't do, There is the spear that knows no brother, but the one that knows no wife or child belongs to the normally pacific husband and father whose pipe has been misltid somewhere about the house. Not even the dog escapes suspicion! Add life’s:little ironies: the young man who believes in the girl who makes a point of smiling and cooing at babies in the subway. “A wife,” says Gilbert Cannan, “is not property.” Indeed she isn't—but in America her husband is! Why is it that the average woman cannot be another woman's friend without also expecting to be the custodian of her secrets, the censor of her love affairs, the critic of her husband? You can please some husbands some of the time and some hus- bands none of the time, but you can’t please ANY hugband ALL the tographs of an actual “flat” already in use, Instead of paying $100 for @ four room apartment, you can reduce your rent to $25 by merely getting ‘This turntable is divided into three equal parts with walls meeting atthe isa time. Only when the American has p' Add eternal whys: man can't. does he stop to figure out how many necessities he can afford. Why a woman can kiss and tell and why a rovided himself with his luxuries Brief Speeches By Matthew Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publishing Mr. Chairman and Fellow Members: The office of President is the most important one in our society. It is the duty of the President to institute policies and to see that they are car ried out. It is the duty of the Pres. ident to further the principles upon which our association is founded. He must always have before him the aim for which we have united and must do all in his power to attain that aim. But these things'that I have men- tioned, though essential, are not all that is required of a Chairman. The Chairman presides at our meetings. We éan have no meetings worthy of the name unless they are conducted in a decorous and efficient manner. We must have order and it devolves upon the Chairmar to preserve and maintain order. Without that the work of the society will fail. You need as your President a man | who {s an administrator, a man who | has a large grasp and can mould the opinions of others. He must have knowledge of parliamentary proce- dure, he must know how to run a club. Above all he must have suf- ficient personality to earn the re- spect of the members. The candidate whom I am about to nominate is not a wonder. You do not want a wonder, if I voice the sentiments of the members correctly. ent in One stove, sink, cupboards, ice box and a folding seat, The sqeond compartment contains @ bed that can be lowered into the ilving room. The third compartment ts used for a bathroom. The turntable 1s swung around at convenience, bringing the compart- ment wanted into an opening in the Itving room partition, It ig a con- clse and neat idea. If you want to retire you push the button for the bedroom and lower the bed, In the morning you fold up the bed and push the button for the bath, The only inconvenience is that if your wife ‘wants to start breakfast while you are shaving you will have to take a ride in the merry-go-round. ‘As one can’t get in the kitchen and ride, the only way out of that aim- culty would be to push the button for the kitchen first, start the coffee and oatmeal, then ring for the bath. {f you wanted scrambled eggs, put them on the gas stove and throw the turn table into high for a,few turns, The idea can be developed further if you have more money. By getting a large main room you can instal turntables on several sides and increase the number of your rooms, You could have a revolving brary, ollliard room, planola room and— what is more up to date—you could nave a seeret wine cellar, \ In case of an unexpected call from the Secret Service the wine cellar could be wheeled out of sight by de- liv- The tain Nominating a Man for President of a Club | for Busy Men” J. Epstein Co, (The New York Evening World.) You do not want some one in the President's chair who is so superior to you that it is a condescension for him to speak to you. But you do want a leader, You need @ man who is energetic, who is earnest and who is efficient. You want a man who will command your respect and the respect of others. You need some one who is not look- ing for personal glory, but who has the interests of the society at heart. Mr. Blank has been a member of this club for some time. You have heard him on various occasions. You know that he has the right spirit. you know that he is a worker. He has shown by his conduct and his in- terest in the affairs of our society that he has a proper grasp of the aims for which we stand. He under- stands parliamentary law and reat izes fully the duties of a Chairman With him as a President the society will grow. With him in the chair our association will gain prestige He knows how to maintain order which is a most important qualifi- cation. Gentlemen, he is the one logical candidate for the position of Chairman, and therefore I take pleas: ure in proposing™4s President of our society the name of Mr. Charles © Blank, iemenneneiaihitemstdieh What the Prince Did to an American General in France NE American general will never forgive the Prince of Wales. The general got hin pants wet and spoiled his dignity all on the Prince's account, and the worst of it was there was a division of A. E. F. soldiers on hand to laugh at him. It happened at a review of the 35th Division, Kansas and Mis- sourl guardsmen, on a broad stretch of the Meuse basin in France, near Commercy, Feb. 11. It was a typical French day, with lowering cloud banks and a steady fall of rain. The field was patched with pools of water, some of which were of no small di- mensions. Gen. Pershing and the Prince of Wales had completed their review of the Argonne fighters, had given brief talks, and were leaving the field, They came to an unusually large pond of water. “Over we go,” said the Prince, “Right after you," said Gen, Pershing, A puffing staff general who following in the wake, stretched his dignity and tried to make the leap. He landed in the centre of the pond, his pants got wet, and hig face went red. And the doughboys laughed, —— HOW IT LOOKS. H® artist dipped his brush in a bucket of paint and wiped 1t across the canvas several times horizontally. When he had done this he took his labor in hand and care fully placed it in an elaborate frame, “What's the idea?” his boon com- panion inquired, “Impressionistic study.” “Do you mean to tell me that is a pressing the button, and presto! it would be displaced by a cozy corner decorated with such homely old mot~- toes as “Lead Us Not Into Tempta- finished painting?” “Certainly,” “What are you going to call it “A village street as seen from the rear agat of a motorcycle.”—Londoa | Answer, ie Red oe?