The evening world. Newspaper, August 15, 1919, Page 13

a — Keep in Step With Hubby . ° tid Then, Mrs. Newlywed, x ell Never Outgrow You Just Learn to Put Aside Your Own Trials and Listen _ to His Business Talk, His Fads, Fancies and Hob- wee cat and Keep in Tune With Him, and Rew t the Mixing of Cakes Keep All Your A ‘tion From Current Events. i By Fay Stevenson wer Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publi y HB June bride is coming back F received ajl her “at home” calls life will begin to settle down to “prlite, the whisper of “Here comes the Go. (The Now York Bveninig World). ‘rom her honeymoon. After she has and given a festive “house warming’ dull routine. The glamour of a new bride,” the wonderful trousseau and) t the joy of having her husband constantly at het heels will ‘all be over: Breaki ng in the new maid (and since there A 7 are very few to break, perhaps breaking In hersef) to} the problems of the kitchen, the butcher and the baker | } and taking care of the brand new furniture will be ro * ‘Nght task, Mr, Newlywed will find a lot of work stacked up for him at the office, and perhaps if he inherits even & small amount of temper he will not be quite as sweet! and gentle or as thoughtful as he was on those first fow weeks of wedded life. settle for the little June bride who returns in the fall, | } ‘There are going to be a number of protilems of life to} | Phe must shed ber butterfly wings and dévelop into.a busy bee with real ! + bared 4nd real burdens to bear, The \ bride who éan meet ait these house- _ Rel. questions, who can learn to ‘amuse herself and plan her life with- x ‘bubby,” who can stand a good lessons in life, who. can put her own trials and tribulations Still be willing te listen to the Dmisiness talk of her husband and the 4nd fancies and hobbies which he has, will keep in tune with him, She will find that he will never “out- " her or tire of her. After the “home-coming" of the ‘eride and bridegroom so many condi- tions change and circumstances arise “that it takes the greatest skill and taet to keep right along at the same ogeit life started. Both husband and “wife should use every precaution to ‘keep the first year of their married life as happy and as closely in touch ‘welth-each others thoughts and in- [yr ‘as the honeymoon days. fA great many newlyweds start out in perfect step. Their lives are tuned to the same pitch. ‘They speak Det only with their tongues but with * Lowe eyes, their hearts, their souls. ¢ “then—tiké ‘a flash’ of thunder | from heaven—because the man is ¢ Worried about his busines’ affairs or “A Youngs wife troubled about the » gunning of her new home, they find They. are getting out of tune with each other. They cannot meet the “problems of life and still retain that j tenderness and kindness and: deep sympathy for cach other that drew them together in the beginning as imvand wife. Tt bas been wisely said, “The only | thing we Know about hu nature ae that it changes.” If a young j ¥ride is so taken up the first year of her married life with the care of “her home and the mixing of cakes jana planning cf daily menus that tghe forgets to keep up with current Sevents, forgets to read the new yooks, forgets to even pretend she CAtiterested in the work her has- a is doing, her husband is bound } “outgrow” her, He will think of her as “a dear little domestic thing” but not as a Mental companion, nét as the com- rade who strolled beside him during thoge first honeymoon days and dis- cussed all the problems of life with all the power and ability of a woman lof fifty. It Is true those very | problems and situations looked | niuch easier than they actually are, but the wife who wants to keep up with ber husband must learn to find time enough, somehow, to keep In- | terested in the very. things which |ship days and honeymoon days. Sometimes the mere fact /couples dance well together, that that together or enjoy the same style of literature is enough to take them to the marriage altar, But in the long run of married life theig tastes will | most likely change, | comes interested in the hea’ |Jects of life, his business, ancient history, collecting pottery or antique furniture—you never can tell what Wa bent, wilh be—but, yous can x ture it will be something entirely different from what it was at the beginning of his marriage. And -un- legs his wife is interested in his new tastes there is bound to spring up a big, gulf between them and we sa Mr. Middle-age has “outgrown” his wite. But man is not the only one who changes! Many women become in- terested in new thoughts and cults which the tired business man is not able to grasp. find that husband and wife are not in step but growing further and further apart every’ day of tholr lives, Starting out in step, both in- terested in the same things, is hot half as {ntportant as keeping up with each other all along the way of married Jife. The whole secret of Itv- ing happlly together year after year is for couples to’ change, together. Couples who have a few interests In common never outgrow each other. TWO ie Be Herman a Stich Copyright, 191 by The Press Publishin : Carneg H SPIRATION is a poor plat- ti form on which to stand and H expect niuch measure of Suiceess, It is PERSPIRATION that drives businesses and men to’ the top. Inspiration is shortlived, its fire burns, bright but BRIEF; its’ force is transient, uncertain, | Mudependable, If is the steady, 4 Hourly, daily drip of PURSPIRA- } «TION that dissolves diMculties, wears away obstructions, makes disappointment an incident and épur to fruitful effort. Tnspiration is the occasional “thongnt, PERSPIRATION is tho QONSTANT THINKING, the girncture evolved of brain and e: ‘awn, the success that is built rd tailyro, for it is struggles with saiversily ‘that transform ordi- ‘% Bary men into successful men, Gentus is but the capacity to <,conguer defeat. E <hapitation is the easily, fre- x quently smothered spark, (PERSPIRATION is the all-en- ©" yeloping, inextinguishablo flame, e hhe sense and the security of » bower, the impelling spirit that you are as good as the best of potitem, the conviction that life stands eager and ready to give ' you what you by honest offorts tive for, MINUTES OF ‘ct Nidal 1 Co. (The New York Evening World), ie Knew. Inspiration sometimes gives a man a good idea, PERSPIRA- TION gives him as many as he wants, makes them FACTS, creatos the Atmosphere and the things that breed and bring suc cess. Dame Fortune withholds only what you yourself spurn. She is too proud to tender her titbits where they are unearned. Only PERSPIRATION can earn them. Genius has been justly ad- judged 99 per cent. PERSPIRA- TION, 1 per cent. OR LESS ta spiration, Genius is possessed by a negligible modicum of the world’s population. The great majority of our successful people owe their station to industrially and industriously applied com- monsense~—plenty of PERSPIRA- TION. The empty, scoreless career is the almless, careless career, in these ‘8 Of countless oppor. tunities, only the mentally in- capacitated may’ be pardoned failure. The man or woman of average brains can chalk up suc- cess if he or she will take the trouble, “It 18 intelligent OVERWORK that does it,” said Andrew Car- negie. Carnegie knew, they had in common during court-| they play a clever ‘game of tennis | And here again weg Inches in tte’ S Just A . LITTER KIBb IE (Wwe Bri & ER OOLLS By Will B. Johnstone | Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publishing Co, (The Now York ¥ ng World), . ARJORIG FORSYTHE KIND- M BR fs the child’ wonder of | rifledom. Marjorie is a chubby, blue-eyed, freckled d kiddie with a wavy string*of yellow hair. She is four- ;teen years old, stands four feet ten| height and weighs only | ninety-sevqn pounds, |Last Webruary she won the Ladies’ | Match at the Quinnipiac Rifle and} Revolver Club, u national shoot, She! |won the expert Riflewoman’ Medal, | making 500 © t shots for a score | of 2,500. She won the National Junior Championspip last spring, making | sixty perfect shots, for a score of! 300, beating’ a field of "485 junior vharpshooters of the United States. These records were made indoors, Wednesday at the outdoor camp of ithe Navy Rifle Range at Caldwell, No Jo wh the National Matches are now being held, Marjorie add- ed a crowing achievement in the Ladies’ Sweepstakes, Using a smooth-bore calibre rifle, almost as tall as herself, the rémarkable child split the bull's-eye with every shot, doing 2'100 “possible” at fifty yards, not beaten, the Junior Championship wit a pra of 97 out of 100, Competing against Marjorte | J older boys who are suffering the Ig-] nominy of being defeated by a child! of the ox, and at thelr own game of firearms, Marjorie Sho is also leading tn weaker from Bridgeport, Con@, chaperoned by her doting father, K, , Kinder, who takes par- donable pride in his “baby’s” marvel- [ious skill. } 1 watched Marjorie — shooting Wednesday xiely followed by an admiring gallery, all pulling for She is unspoiled by the Is-attracting and She was « her success great ‘attention s! is ngt a bit precocious, She 19 quiet and pashful, without ®@ trace of j"nerves,” Dut her bright, squinty blue eyes twinkle with childish delight with every bull's-eye, and she smil from ear to ear on being congratu- lated. Marjorie naturally shoots in perfect form, haviiig’ been instructed by her father in the game, When asked how she Came to take up rifle’ shooting and how long, she repli¢d; "I have been shooting only for }5 months, Father taught me, and he also taught my little sister, Adeline, “She is nine years old." It didn't strike Marjorie as anything wonderful that she had become the| | chatuplon junior shot:of America in ‘ such @ remarkably short-time, or that there was anything unfem, \ine about it, She modestly talked all .vout her ne i Champion MARVJORIE F KINDER. wer min sister's skill of qualifying as ‘a “How much do you practise?" 1)‘ asked, “E don't get all the time she ladghed, mun chocolate almond war}. "You § 4@ junior in high i fre A. M, till noon I'm at sehaool.’’ “Do you know your mat?" £ asked. Yes," she grinned Caesar, this year and Cicero study physics agd geometry, keeps me busy, I only Ket to abot three days a week,” Marjorie js a prodigy in s dently as well as on the rang “T’am going to Columbla Braduate from bjgh school, added, “To what do you attribute you as a ‘markskiddie’?” I inquired, ne puzzled. ng on » always been al vegetarian. Here her father accused-her « ing pork chops recently, ,exploding the | ¢,, Vegetarian explanation Marjorie dresses like a boy range. She wears «& boy's cap, shirt, black bloomers, canvas p wnd sneakers, . She is captain of her schic ball and and {isan o team, plays basket swims girl generally She is a movie * ites are Marguerite Clark William -Hart, a range fron pretty pretty to the pretty dances, an” and her w plece when 1 gho| Ale sharp Marjorie can only be tied in this, but | Shooter with 21 perfect targets out of I want Hot un 270 arnds ext, 1 Rifle Shot. “Tm aking] Histel and it] ur skill “May ow, the Khaki uttees, i} | | | | tennis, | uldoor favor and m the rough. a ey “ee at Fourteen, Marjorie Kinder Real Child Wonder. Has Been Shooting Only 15 Months, Yet Added to Long String of Victories by Making 100 Bull *s-eyes in Ladies’ Sweepstakes at Caldwell Rifle Range Won National Junior Championship Last Spring—Taught by Father, Has Nine- Year-Old Sister, Also, Expert—Dolla and Rifle Share ‘Her Affections Waa \ ee FF oe we yar eS H Le)! 2 Fate FauetT. HER, ANR- wNe YE ‘ TO e only likes boys’ books that have yd adven- shéoting practising on unch” of the outdoor When: she t Marjorie ts sure, ory Undying the plana. “Her fathe fond her insists fy still wn, fyat Vrom,sdolis to doadly weapon stop, is not the} dems bit -Linid, ab either, She] Her t ot} daughters of a long but Macjorie no fear the teaching bis use firearms He suid fulness in, handliy Tho fiest leswon i a rife; impress lugaer,” un Annie 0: wins, from prices, she fifty-fitty with Who is home Py interested in’ a Camera. Hhe Caldwell than ‘anything ti “and. nus chog In other wore she sl both | she aut une ome ey on the her siwter with mother won else, jaton, while ols with style) eyes open (professional stots: with’ both’ eyes open things of lite normal, sweet Mttle girl thas she Is — FIRST LESGON IN ART HISTORY. PWACHER jn. one of the Bas- | ton schools had shown the lower “grade pupils in. yer v beautiful picture of the “Mas and Child," and had asked them to w omething about it"! One boy of a dozen years’ handed: the teacher the following brief apd terse account of the picture “I think Mra, McDonough's baby is just fne,"—Harper's, room don | | | H AR OLD GISTER HOW SOOT DAY. Aue Uar f The Four Cornerston Of Success 4%, gt A And the essence of éMficiency space. SL ERPICIENCY |A Man’s Efficiency Depends Upon the St His Purpose— A Man Whose Strongest Perseverance, Even Though He Has But: nary Intellectual Gifts, Is Likely to Almost Any Business. Be: iy é By Joseph French Johnson ™ |‘ Dean of New York University Sehcot of Commerce; President of Alem ander Hamilton Institute; Author of “Business end the Men”: ° Comyriaht, 1019, br The Preap Publishing Oo. (The New York Brewing World), MAN is efficient in bis buginess when he devotes bis cuersies te tte, tasks with such wisdom that'all are 4 NY properly and successfully dene. is the economy of energy, time and’ Personal efficiency first demands that a mar Himself and tot seek to be like somebody 1 do not mead that ¢ man can learn wothing- @ study of the achievements and characters pf so men. ‘Every young American to-day agement and positive help in Benjamin Franklin and in the lives Andrew Carnegie, But our next great railroad builder will itator of Hill or of any other man, Tn each man's breast, 80 to 6] den diamond, else can. ‘A man seeking to increase assume that his mind needs all possibly give it. Perhaps he cannot go to @ university, but that is not neces- sary. Selentific books are numerous wad che Tet ‘Bim’ take up some {ieee and thoroughly master it, Piet him" think as he reads, und eo | diseipling his mind Yn the pursuit of truth. The man who lets his mind | Ji¢ falléw for long intervals win’ often | fall Delow par-in eMeieney. | Ao man's efficiency depends abso- lutely upon the strength of his pur- ‘pose. Without a. purpdae he ts, aa Weeless asa ship. without # rudder. His’ efficiency is ”ero, He may be very busy and active and possess ‘all the external attributes of. the bustier, buts his activity is Jike that of a tomping ‘dog: or Of a twé-ybdr- CIR, useless because ie # Tt does not follow. thatos vman should give no-heed to the various jexternal detailot‘éMdtency, It goes without saying that he should jorder his life and business so that his, ime and strength shall not be frittered |away,’ his health injured; or his Bours [of play and reereation reduced; that |i his busineks he should ¢oscentra {dnd no®spena’ ten howte' a” day at {his desk when! five Hours df eort more: witdly: direqted might do the day’ work. The so-called ‘a outs And labor-saving and.timersaving de- vices of the efficiency experts are Valuable and mftist’ndt™ be "ignosed, but the secret of personal efficiency is In the purpose of the man him- sent. Ignorant Essays é By J. P. McEvoy. Copyright, 1910, hy Tho Press Pyblishing Gov (The Now York: ventng World), AN ENCOUNTER WITH A BOOK ‘AGENT, NI never to - be forgotten O day I bought a set of books from one of’ those’ ingat- able book agents, I forget, just now what books bought, some: thing in twelve or twenty-three volumes on’ How to Develop’ the Will Powor, Well, I paid. $6,00 down and was to chin in one dol lar a month Or ‘Whenevér I had developed enough will ‘yower to Impel me to pay the balance, ‘There myst have been some thing intringically wrong . with thoge books as 1 never did acy Quire sufficient concentration of purpose to pay th watithee, TP. say It Wasn't ‘the ‘book agent's fault either, He was right there’ with thé mental siggestions ard the psychle urges, hut somehow 1 couldn't reset, Every month the book ‘agent would come around in hifefiicial costume to eellect. As -régularly he failed. ‘Then # few daya later 1 would get a letter. I never paid any attention to it because he was thoughtful enough to put his natne and address -on the -north- weat corner, and ‘all Ioneed ts a hint, Mother always said I was unusually bright that way. Well, few Gays after’ the létter passed away I would’ Wet @ call from Percival Williams or ich name. The name -was always different, but. Jt was the same agent. After my secretary would go out and discoyer him lurking belind his newest alias he would come hack and tell me who was in the offing hankering to see me, Almost ‘immediately 1 would he out. No German Mins eistry could get out with halt my, celerity and “dexterity But did that bafflé Pervivel, Williams or Qle Oleson? Not ‘a baf. A few’ days later’ he‘ would a some show up as the window washer jo td. when I plerced his disguise he would shake his head in a sad sort of’way and come back in » fow days \as/an ‘agent for office supplies, When this failed he would go away’ rather mourn- fully, I thought, and come back later a8 an author with war ~poems br an. expert’ accountant saat by the, Government to look over the books, He must,have dedicated sevtral years of his }ife to dollecting that bill from ‘fe, “yut™y this time refusing to’ pay it had become a sort of religion With me. I couldn't, have paid tt even if I had wanted to, My. consolence wouldn't have let me, Mother always sald I had a strong con: selence, Well, one month went*by and ‘my, book agent (fdfled. to show, up. Andther month, Something has hipPehed to hinwaid I and its aginst nature for ‘nothing ever happens to book agents, But another month went by and no visitations from’ my friend of the Will Power Books; so I made inquiries and discov. ered hetmd finally sold a set of his books to some one else and was now devoting hie time to col- ‘ lecting from him, REPROACH. ps ou pught to, be , Ashamed of yourself, Charles, You ¢re now in Your twenty-fitth Year 4nd you haven't earned penny, .At. your Fi age 1 had already married a woman with §59,00.—Bos- ton Pranscript,. . DAD'S Tt ts his business’ to find 2 find. en the autodlograpliy., such James J. Hill and. Philip D; Be it i z 8 ' ee - i < = : training tos : To be most efficient in businens im any calling & map should be te position which gives him oppgrtunity for the employment of any. sppecial ability he possesses. Some men have & passion qnd system. In , business usually at their beat as or organizers, and it they make good office managers. -: A man of cheertul, friendly méntal ats wae aet we traits of a salesman, ‘Adtertisiog’ seta’ rich Mlle, son the mgn in whpm a tratnea wotk in the tania hales in dogged persistenge oF even though he has. tellectual gifts, is likely, to in ‘ainmpst any business. 28 business programme for the the mouth, »He must be er Meer, cacy ager > tad alert, always op the loogout fox, bet- ter waysiot dding even gmall thingd, At man. dentees 40 he. chat. called @ “toppotober’? tq. must make habit Nis‘ pacstalliyy of aitendian he mrt bunet hy Of svondence ‘promotip, of golat ic ed and getting Gp ab w b daily exercise, of courtesy whom he deals; of tact; oF" Hen for others, of even temper at square-dealing, of Goneentrasean tf w young than begins his-business © career in | method: Will, {m spite of bimeelt, sequire. test, The efficient man for easy jobs, ‘The more he gets the more he s: ‘no interest in the clock, (he problems. he hae ;to_ sreater his pleasure and t rapid his growth, i Soe Poise is an exceedingly’ impérta trait, It means perfection of ‘bai - ance, the harmonious adjustwent of all tho faculties, The . highest gTee of efficiency in impossible with out it, When a man lacks Peles he may get excited and blunder, h hasty judgment, or he may lose fis temper and for hours, ®e nervously unfit in consequence, or in the’ pres- i 3! cf E Hy 4 ‘Jence of Important customers he may [de embarrassed, all: hig faculties momentarily going on strike, or he may, foolishly seek to cone & mle- take and bave himselg from tater, or he may show his pique a uppéiniment if another hao Bo het Credit for’ his good work. The man ef perfect pelse knows that his future lies in his work and that the petty little annoyances of to-day are ef no moré consequehce than the “thankyouma’ams” on @ gountry road, As in cultivating a garden a man fnust pull out the weeds, so. in oul: ivating eMolenty hé must he‘weak spots in his character, I¢ naturally disorderly, he should ac- quire a love order, rsh eh tlon and efficieney are born ‘rhe sociable man shoyld rem in business hours, to talk’ and faces nothing but business, jong-winded talker shai the art of 4 ee Rg ~ 4 men have no time unimportant details, clent business’ man does