The evening world. Newspaper, June 26, 1919, Page 24

THURSDAY, JUNE 26, 1919 “To Be a ‘Perfect Wife’ Must Have Perfect Love,” . Says Mrs. Terez Baird | | GIVES RULES FOR MARRIED HAPPINESS. | “Think the Best of the Man You Marry, Love Always | Wins—Through It Women Have Power to Make! Men What They Should Be—I Had the Gift for| | Loving, | Had Faith, and I Found My Love!” By Zoe Beckley. Gepyrigh!, 1910, by the Prem Publishing Co, (he New York renting World.) OMEWHERE every, woman has been created in the world ts your true mate, For every man and another soul who matches and com- plements your own. And if you have not found this other half, it is because you have Philosophy of love effective principles upon which the girl built Yet as you speak with her you fee! «that she tas discovered somthing v great and fine, something A ‘all your inteflectualrties, your book-learned wisdoms, even the principles of Iife and love you may have culled from rich experience. ‘Thig Uttle weman tn the black dress, mys less lonely than “How is a woman to use her love to develop and perfect, her husband’: character?” | angry foot. not sought “with faith and rt and purity of héart.” Thus speaks Mrs. Terez Baird of Richmond Hill, who was amazed the other day to find herself famous through a few words of loving tribute written into his; will by her husband, Major Charles Gamble Baird, who! died in France a year and two months ago, four months after he had said goodby to “the most perfect, most, true, honorable and loyal wife in all the world.” | Mrs. Baird is the daughter of a hard-working Hun- garian farmer and his still more hard-working wife, mother of nine, who had little time to teach Terez the or implant in her heart the simple yet marvellously code of life. | not pay attention to it. When P| came home sometime, oh, so dread- fully tired and nervous, I would see the newspaper in his hand tremble. Perhaps he would be reading some- thing about the war that angered him, Perhaps some news would upset bis mind. If I speak to him and he not answer, what do I do?” \ Ghe reached for a paper upon the gay-covered dining-room table, and sat herself down in moek sbow of bow he did it—scowling frightfully, whipping the newspaper, tapping an’ “That,” she laughed, what I do, I make fun, imitation! Then I say, ‘I guess it's cloudy to-night. It will afraid.’ Still he say nothing. ‘Then I go put up umbrella and march round, shivering, and ask him if we sball ali be killed in this storm, Pretty soon he look. Then he laugh, Then—well, he reach out and say, ‘Who can be angry with you, my darling girl!’ And everything is al- right, 1am his pearl again, He is my dear, dear love Yoe—" she sald later, “You are right. Some women are made for love more than others are. {am that sort, But iisten to me: “Love is a iump of gold, It 1s given you all rough and full of points and edgea You can make it smooth with much caressing. Do not allow the edges to hurt you. telling yourself it is gold. Never mind the rest. Have faith; for- give, and keep on loving. No’ man with @ spark of good in him can hold out against love, forgiveness «and a Woman's belief in him. ‘That is the main thing—gliet in him, j “By and by your lump of gold will become bright and beautiful and soft and smooth. It will grow more 80 every day. Only the first part of a smoothing ig hard ° The little widow Baird who has be- come a prophetess throvgh the rare virtue of knowing how to love, reiter- ates that even an indifferent marriage can be made successful “if the woman will only dwell on the goodness, not the failings,” of her man. It soon be- jcomes a habit, just as the op ie, naughty trick of finding fault and belng resentful, becomes a habit. “It in not hard to give in in small things,” she siniles, ‘That is how marrisge grows'into something beau- tifa! like ours—through litt ry day things. Women who shut thelr eyes to bad tempers or other faults of their husbands can do away with those faults, But if they harp on them they increase them and bring other faults—bigger ones, “Think the BEST of the man you marry, Love always wins, It cannot be killed. My Carl is nearer me to- day than he ever was in life, . him often with my heart's eyes. I am never lonely. I am not sad, 1 laugh. I play with my boy, I work in my little garden. Ithink, My Carl's hand is in miné, and I see his b tiful smile, Tam a lucky woman, 1 I would And I found my love.” had faith. TI had the gift for loving. ODD WEDDING CUSTOMS IN OTHER LANDS Gorgeous Costumes Worn by Bulgarian Bridal Couple soon be storm, very bad storm. I am|* Newport’s “Peace Summer”’ Will Offer Lavish Entertainment to Titled Visitors From Overseas and Bring New Opportunities to Maternal Matchmakers. Bs itt MargueriteMooers Marshall Copyright, WEN, ‘Press Co, 1 (The ; 'F you have not yet decided where | to seek those “cooling breezes,” described 8» lovingly in the sum- mer resort booklets, why not go to Newport? ~ ® Everybody—that is, everybody who is anybody—is doing it this year, There is ap Proaching a Newport season which will be epochal, which will banish from memory all the dull, mournful, half-hearted war seasons, when the nicest young men were flying in France and the prettiest girls were dividing their time between Red Cross workrooms and the chauffeur’s seat in motor ambulances, Now New York's gilded youths, who vied with the English aristocracy with which they offered their lives to their country, are home again~—ex- cept for those who never will come home, But the majority of them are out of uniform, and justifiably con- scious that they have earned a gay summer on Bailey's Beach, in the Casino, at the Newport Country Club, Soclety’s young women are demo- bilizing too from the various forms of service for which they enlisted only for the duration of the war, Be- tween you and me, mother is tre- mendously glad of it! During the war years mother gave up in despair Constance “suitably.” With hardly an eligible young man left over here, and with Heloise, work, pointedly who set remained somewhere a maternal matchmaker do? Noth- ing—except pray for peace, Now se be answered! for most reason season is the win in the gallant ardor and quickness, the task of marrying off Heloise and immersed in war turning her pretty buck on the few young men of our in |Earl of Pembroke, America, pointedly commenting on her disiike for slackers—~what could how their prayers are to For the first and fore- the unusual re- splendence of Newport's first peace forthcoming visit of kidward Albert Christian George An- drew Patrick David, Prince of Wales, | thrones, the future ts likely to hail |as King Edward VILL of England. Not since the visit of his illustrious \grandfather, the late King Bdward VIL, has society been so thrilled, The Prince of Wales, it is understood, will ‘come to Newport from Canada and will reach the city by the sea some jtime in August, It is expected that \he will be the guest of Brig. Gen. and Mra. Cornelius Vanderbilt, as one of numerous cordial invitations to visit this country was extended to him by Gen, Vanderbilt a few months ago when the youthful Prince visited the American troops at the front, | ‘He-also will be entertained by Mrs. |Ogden Goelet at her beautiful villa, | Ochre Court. She is the sister of Mra, |Vanderbilt, Also visiting Newport at |the same time will be a third sister, the Hon, Lady Herbert, widow of the late Right Hon, Sir Michael Henry Herbert, brother of the fourteenth Before her mar- |riage she was Miss Leila B. Wilson, London already has started a dis- cussion as to the possibility that H. R. H. the Prince of Wales, the greatest catch in Burope, might choose an American bride. “If he should choose an American,” one London paper comments frankly, “the enthusiasm be opened up. First’ ‘‘After-the-Wa on both sides of the Atlantic would The example would be infectious, and there is no telling|she was tireless in her service for | whope, even in these dave of soley | where the consequences would qmd,”| Britten and Amecioanm ... r’’ Season | 4 tnt matatathas tatnatntstateha Sissies n'atstataipt miata sala 5 ut SENN, ’ ‘Two other delightful young English- Tne => men whom Newport mothers and Brees daughters may be expected to wel- come eagerly are the sons of the Hon- Whe burger |orable Lady Herbert, Messrs. Michael — = |and Sidney Herbert. TSS Presumably the mantle of peace | will fall over distinguished visitors {trom one-time enemy countries —at least if they were born good Ameri- cans, For {t bas just been announced that a first cousin of the Duchess of Marlborough — since thelr fathers, William K. and Cornelius Vanderbilt sr, were brothers—Countess Szech- enyi, formerly Gladys Vanderbilt, will come to Newport this summer. With her children — although it is not known if her Austro-Hungarian hus- band will accompany them—she will be the guest of her mother, Mrs. Co. nelius Vanderbilt sr. at the latter's Newport home, The Breakers. Prince and Princess Murat of France will be the guests next month ‘of Mrs, Rogers Pratt at Newport. The Prince is notably democratic! Princess Murat was Miss Btallo of young man with a fine record at the) New york, front, He was twenty-five years old/ phe Duchess of Roxburghe—an- last Monday, 1s blue-eyed, frank-! oinor American Duchess—will be faced and amiable. Of course, all! with ner mother, Mrs, Ogden Goelet, the girls are going to Newport thi3/ ater an absence of several years, summer. no has promisea| , Naturally, there will be a tremen- Another Prince yd Ma Taner |20U# smnount of entertaining, Mr. to pay a visit to the famous su |and Mrs. -Vincent Astor, aft - resort is Prince Aage of Denmark, | sence of peony will peo Lt |first cousin to King George of ENn§-| wooq—and may be hosts for Vin- land and to the late Czar of Russi@.| sents young sister, Miss Muriel His father was the brother of the! astor, whose mother recently mar- Dowager Queen Alexandra, grand-| iieq an English peer. Mr. and Mrs. mother of the Prince of Wales, Prince| tarry Payne Whitney, who last eca- Aage is tall, young good-looking: | gon were among the absentees, are thoroughly democratic. Assuredly, it) \S0ecteq shortly at thelr Newport will be a Newport season! home, The Cliffs. For the first time ‘hwo other Mlustrious visitors for/;, three seasons, the New York Fitth Avenue's city of pleasure will be} yacht Club fleet will go to Newport the Duchess of Marlborough and deri, August, and at least four polo extremely eligtble young son, the Mar- | teams are being organized by Harry quis of Blandford, He is twenty-one! payne Whitney, William Goadby and a warm friend of the Prince of | Loew and T. Suffern Taller. Wales since their school days, For| 1t will be a great 1919 for Newport, the Duchess, her mother, Mrs, Oliver publi H. P. Belmont, will throw open Mar- GETTING EVEN. ble House and entertain on a magnif- | ¢ ¢ aml uewcdnuoe cent scale, The last time the Duchess SMOKE suc How can SOOKE weit of Marlborough visited this country yousmoke 3 was in 1914, just before the outbreak| gyon cigars a8 of the war, and on that occasion she} tnig one you've proved she had not forgotten theland| giyen me?” "I of her birth by describing herself as! can't, That's the a ‘virile American.” During the war| one you handed me yesterday, Ayalon Dr py TET ever, THURSDAY, What to JUNE 26, 1919 Do Until The Doctor Comes By Charlotte C. West, M. D. Series of Articles Written Especially for The Evening World —Cut Out and Save in Your Home. Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publishing @o. (The New York Evening World). HOW TO CONTROL A SURFACE HEMORRHAGE. HPRD are three kinds of blood vessels, and the blood flows dif- ferently from each one. From an artery it spurts in jets, is bright red in color, and no pulsating can be felt delow the seat of injury. From a ‘veln tt flows in a continuous stream, and ts 4ark, ®tuish red in color, From « capillary, which is a small surface vessel, 1t oozes, is dark red in color, and it is more sticky, Fortunately, in most cases hemor- rhage or bleeding from @ blood ves- sel is arrested by nature before « fatal loss of blood occurs, because the vessel contracts, and at the same time the blood, ypom exposure to the air, coagulates and forms a olot; in this way the bleeding is stopped. This is not always the case, how- Sometimes the bleeding will measures immediatély to prevent this likelihood, Of course the most dangerous trouble comes from arterial bleeding, because here the blood comes directly from the heart; in such a case instant steps must be taken to stop it, and not @ moment should be wasted. Since the blood flows directly from the heart, pressure must be made above the point injured, or between the seat of injury and the heart. This can be done in several ways: With the fingers, by a compress, with a tourni- quet, or by constricting bands, When the fingers are used, the thumbs are placed directly opposite each other just above the bleeding point, not on it’ They should be held, there until assistance comes. A com- press such as a thick wad of gauze or a roll of bandage may be placed on the part immediately above the thumbs and firmly tied down with a bandage. This presses the vessel to- gether and checks the flow of blood. A tourniquet is an instrument used by physicians to check hemorrhages. One can be improvised in a moment with a handkerchief, a cork or a plece of money, such as a silver dollar and a small stick—a lead pencil will an- swer, emall hard substance over the bleed- ing vessel just above the injury, not on it, Fold the handkerchief cross- wise and tie {t across the limb, cover: ing the point where pressure is being made\so that the ends of the hand- kerchief are on the opposite side and the broad part is over the coin, A second person should press the osih or cork down on the blood vessel al! of this time. Now loosely tie tt handkerchief and put the pencil i the loose knot, Twist it around ait around until the handkerchief t# tightened. This requires less time to do than to tell how to do it, In this way the severest hemorrhagé from the surface can be quickly checked. If nothing elsé is at hand, @ rope can be firmly tied around the Iimb, which should also be elevated. Tt goes without saying that such constriction should never be applied to the neck; in this situation the carotid artery (a powerful vessel) Ues between the windpipe and the long muscle that runs from the back of the ear to the breast bone. Hemorrbage here may be controlled by grasping the injured side of the neck with the hand, the thumb ex~ erting pressure on the artery below the wound. Press the thumb backward and tn- ward against the spinal column, Hemorrhage from a vein in the neck does not spurt, the blood is dark, It may be checked easily by. frm compression directly over the wound. For less bleeding, heat and cold are doth good. Warm water increases lgstead of arrests the flow of blood, by dilating the vessels, so the heat must be great, at least 140 degrees Fahrenheit. Alcohol, strong alum water, tannic and gallic acids, also arrest bleeding. If the wound is on the scalp, strong, Pressure must be made at the seat of the injury; if on the lips, grasp the parts between the thumb and forefinger and use firm pressure. Do not rely upon simply tying up the bieeding parts until the arrival of a physician, but use the measures Press the coin or any other{ herein advised immediately, and no untoward results can follow, (TWO MINUTES OF OPTIMIS By Herman J. Stich Might’s Mites Copyright, 1919, by The Press Pubfishing Co. | A POINT is the begin- ning of magnitude,” Sahara is simply 6 continental heap of microscopic sand grains. The largest of the oceans is but an expanse of water atoms, Armies are as strong as their individual soldiers and navies as their individual ships and sailors. Infinitesimally minute coral insects adbwre. and adhere, day after day, year after year, cen- tury after century, to build end- less, colossal reefs. Moments make the aeons. The largest libraries are but collections of lone letters. ‘The hugest cannon ball is fearful only because of its pow- der specks. Mites make might Everybody counts, Men are not always honest in smaller affairs, but honesty in little things is no little thing. Steady strokes fell redwoods. Jess Willard’s heart weighs a few ounces. Yet should his heart stop beating for an in- stant all his two hundred and fifty pounds of muscle and gristle could not stay the grim reaper. Ants will pick clean a car- cass sooner than will a lion. The withdrawal of single cogs has smashed many works and despatched thousands of factory hands to Kingdom Come. Small spikes removed can easily wreck the Twentieth Cen- tury Limited. The Panama Canal is only a little over fifty miles long but it saves each vessel passing through it engaged in coastwi; trade almost eight thousand miles each trip, to say nothing of a month at sea. It gnakes San Francisco nearer to Liver- pool by almost six thousand miles and nearer Gibraltar by five thousand miles, It makes New York nearer to Valparaiso by about four thousand . miles (The New York Bvening Wortd). nearer Sydney and Yokohama. A spark in a munitions plant 7 will rock a city—sometimes wreck it. Many 4 little private secretary has made a fool of the firm's President. Mites make might. You count ‘We can all cheer up. If we count for little we can make ourselves count for more. It's short few years from the acorn to the oak—if the acorn takes the trouble. How Big Is an Atom? And How Small Is an Electron? OW big'ls an atom? That ques- tion will be answered by telling you how small an electron 4s, It is estimated, says Electrical Ex» perimenter for July, that if a building 200 feet square and 300 feet high repa resented the comparative size of am atom, an electron would be about the size of the head of an ordinary pin In actual figures an atom measures one three-hundredth million of an inch and as for an electron, well, there are in the neighborhood of 80, trillions of them te an inch. The assumption upon which the electron theory is based is that tn every substance, whe charged or uncharged electrically, there is both positive and negative electricity, dis. tributed on discrete particles. All bodies appear to have large quantities of both positive and negative electric - ity, usually in equal amounts; thus one charge neutralizes the other and consequently no electricity seems to be present. The smallest negatively charged par+ ticle which can exist in nature and which it is possible to detect ts called an electron, Experiments indicate that the electron is spherical in shape and its mass is now generally regarded by physicists to be entirely. electro-magnetic, —_——_>—___. THE BOWARDLY CUTWoRM, ‘The common cutworm 1s & coward: ly rascal and rarely does his work daylight when folks can see him. He watches and waits until the has planted his cabbage, tomate or pepper plants, then sneaks out in. ALL a ielioorag * Sa, WE 4