The evening world. Newspaper, June 17, 1919, Page 18

ek TUESDAY, JUNE 17, 1919 S Here’s Your Recipe For a Happy Marriage AS WORKED OUT BY REV. DR. McELVEEN. TUESDAY, JUNE 17, 1919 Educated English Girls —— — Who“‘Helped” During War | Can Girls Play Baseball as Well as Men? “Now Want ‘Real Work”, sé $77 in Will Be Contented to “Do Nothing Army Lasses Form League to Prove ‘‘ Yes!’’ ee gate Ie Be Coe eactiee at League Will Have Four Teams of Girls From N. Y. Offices of U. S. Ordnance Dept. Appetites for More—And It Raises a Problem’ pats > Solin rae te , Which Is Confronting Many Wealthy Parents’~ They’ve Been Practising—First Game to Be Played Thursday in Central Park Who Now Want Their Daughters to Remain at' Home. ‘ Written Especially for The Evening World. j By Beatrice Barmby Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publishing Co. (The New York Evening World). R. four years she had been a Voluntary Aid Department nurse, looking { after wounded men in England, in France and Italy—with one briet} holiday. Now she is free—to do nothing if she likes—for she is tha’ only daughter of wealthy parents, % iA “But I don’t want to do nothing!” she said to me, so emphatically thaty Ce grammar got muddled. “These four years of some of the hardest work ' ag a steapect, Unselfishness, Service, Tenderness Are Four | * 7 of the Most Important Ingredients of the Right _~< Sort of Love, but the Spicing, Flavoring and ‘Ny, Frosting Must Be Added at the Right Time and 4 in the Proper Quantities. Dr. McElween Has Found the Recipe Which Never Before Has Appeared in Cupid’s Cook Book—You'll Find It in This Interview. By Marguerite Mooers Marshall ‘Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publidting Co. (The New York Brmning World). AKE equal parts of unselfishness, respect, tenderness, mental dynamics and high ideals, throw in large handfuls of service, flavor | with passion, spice with variety and humor, frost with romance and eet where it will grow.—Recipe for a happy marriage, as given to me by the Rev. William T. McElveen. “Love's Ingredients,” was the subject of Dr. Mc- Elveen’s farewell sermon, the other day, in the Manhattan Congregational Churoh, on Broadway, near 76th Street. In the interest of ail the June brides and grooms I called on him, just before he went on his vacation, to find out ‘what those ingredients are. For the cook book of Cupid, filled with tried and tested formulas for successful mar- 7 riages, has yet to be written. The proof of the pudding ma = of love, of course, is in the marriage. 4 Dr. McElveen emphatically does not believe in hit or miss or inspirational, romantic cookery. That is responsible, he thinks, for # Ynatrimonial failures—between you and me, the system is responsible for ymore culinary failures than triumphs. ‘Once in a great while there may be a| woman,” the clergyman amplified. there is have altered my point of view. I can't be content to just go back | to arranging flowers and pottering about—I want real work! Yet fatner | ard mother don’t like my new idea of going out and earning my living when there isn’t any need, as they say.” j t } But as I jooked at her earnest face I wondered if the economic need was| opinion is corroborated by a woman 3+ the only one which counted—it it was| know wo is in charge of @ big state not just as important that this girl's|of girls. Among them is one whom inner necessity should be satisfied. |We may call Molly—the daughter of, | Her. case is one of nany produced|@ rector, the niece of two Bishops, a} ) by the war, and I think the parertts’| university girl, who has lived among] | views will have to alter, For there is| €ducated people, who has always en- important and useful work for just|Joyed a good social position, who has! ‘this kind of girl, with a university de- | small private Income of her own. gree, the sympathy of a gentlewoman | She entered my friend's office as a, and an ability for organizing, and if | clerk for War Work, and in her spare her demand for “real work,” for anin-|time went to @ business college and | terest in life, ts not granted, she may/| earned typing and shorthand. ¥ a a3 . v= Roem hare nls be cee wee j drift Into discontent and boredom. | | ey) what Is she going to do now?" "| For there are two million less chances , C © consult Mrs. Li in and Mra.| from the paaaion thas & & part of it, | et kee Geitving than there were be “She's going Fight on, and I believ 4 Here and there two bebo if @ part ‘the t she's going to get somewhere. Hei may be happy together if low about jealousy and suspi- t She might, for instance, become o father died durMg the war, and her) hospitaf almoner, for which there are| {come is not now sufficient to keep: vacancies at the present time The| er even If she so desired. But she'a! salaries range from good to very good, | X°e2 about her work, keen to achieve j depending on the capabilities of the|® £004 position, And I notice that, i fir, who acts as @ tactful link be. |SH¢ uses every bit of her former ad-; ANTEID—A very brave man to|sense of woman's prerogative to argue |othy §. Schernowitz, Molly Lipsitz, | girls’ team also will supply a base-) tween the hospital and the outside gente boner and intellectual; she; ‘umpire @ ball game, Apply |and to talk much and long with the|Lucy Lipsitz, Beatrice Rosenberg, | ball team of men. The girls’ 404) charities—being on duty at the hos- bediger sd confidence than the average getting married to | Respect implies trust, and you cannot at 5.20 o'clock Thursday eve-\umpire, the giris are all dandy ball-|Nina Phillips, Fay Cutler, Dorothy |men’s teams will form two separatel pital when the out-patients are seen, | business sana fitht ner amneenn teas a} declared. “Yet | f64l Jealousy of @ person if you trust] sing at playground south of 65th|players. ‘They use regulation balls and | Edelstein, V. Goss and A. Rothman. |leagues. No plans for inter-leaguel getting thelr sympathy, visiting them |she's the kind of girl who makes us t in their | Bim or her. I consider that sealousy Street, in Central Park. bats and it is quite a shame to \et| Property Department: games have been'fevenied, but it tela bone, dae Mec | aes the Mia 66 ek whe, wale U8 | odes Mt wl" T exclaims PLA Tea Jueeilan ,ataund tue |Adta smiemuns cAiGbOn. foc tha Prep: | Pencl Davia ‘aertrnde Waltfvan, Miia |sapemed: that tee winslag giris'| ‘wc aetore cedere, . ind worse cta| Teles teas terete tau la cus lives “Indeed it ts!” I exclaimed. “Tract that el) um outside our daily work—reading,+ tact that dasebi pires in general \erty gection team, hide her pretty face |Goldberg, Florence Fullbrooke, Gladys | team will issue an open challenge to| which my friend's experience of suf-| culture, a wi 3 je w @ family wirich owns & canary | are brave men, but in this case the iA & wider world. ‘a bulldog. If anybody ce and figure behind a ‘hideous mask, |Connaughton, Estelle Rosenberg, Jcs-|any team of women, and if success- | fering would help. “But there seems to me to be a| te the pve ae ior a umpire must be partioularly brave, |chest protector and shin guards. Lut |sie Goldstein, Marion Manrette, Avra |ful, way just dare the men to take| Or there is another profession which Sapte berine, S private income to" ih prev dd eae Kel peoalerep and tactful, egy . fo sat It's a joy divine to see Josie Blass, first |Sherman and EB. Blanke. a chance of defeat at the hands of| may soon be open to her—the law. It Guote the girl whe is doperdent ual as arbiter in a game to be played bY | baseman—parion, first basewoman| Each department furnishing a|the gentler sex. ; pushing for immediate attention—| two teams composed entirely of girls. may gurprise many American women, ha neces A At ps even though may > —of the Salvage team advancing to to know that in England sex is still a| “Not a bit of it y experience is a gt It ts to be the opening of the league | the plate swinging three bats a la Ty dozing corner 4 | that girls of her type are just as keen | er this fession, but at the 4 pall Hed °f| race between four girl teams repre- | Copp, Sariic: bs Che ae j about the ¢ # d. of their jobs as we resent time, members of the various others; and in fa ey hove « higher ' room. She cannot endure affec- |senting different branches of the New proses? u toate hee given elsewhere.” . b Ella Goldberg of the Salvage team D ° societies of organized women are do- | standard of valu -" MeBiveen “nodded smitty. [Nance Department, and. although sno [A2mita tbat eho Das quite solved the a O O TUT UL J jira ot ner can to ret the Barviters| ims Mette ater g e geeinte ‘ou know, the reason @ husband or] iris have learned their baseball as mysteries of ins, outs and curves, and = Bolicitors (Qvalification Ae Gut you see I didn’t after all—such il passed through the the force of environment! Or perha: wife looks outside the home for va- while Helen Kellner, the star south- Women) Bi " thoroughly as any of the men who th tiga? he House of Commons, “We do not! it was because I was thinking about riety often is because there is *' labor at the Polo Grounds, Lieut. C. F. paw of the Inspection partment waits oe semnait t i od that when shi pote edb sage! ag ‘Ked | Sjoberg, who is the organizer of the bys ey Site peer ms the ee By Charlotte C. West, M. D. . league, admits that their hatred of “ jel “Love should not always present, posing team refuse to play “because of @ girl's love,” Dr. McBiveen| 1.6 game surti It should be | WDires far exceeds that of their ball- seer Vf off, enthusiastically, and hand- | ,),;, * ing of many facets, of surprises NGd me Amicl’s Journal with this| 04 of ¢resh stimuli. ‘They say man is a varietist. But why should not his GOOD INGREDIENTS OF LOVE | wire, by her charm, originality and ignore common sense and com-| ton?” I asked. “Do you consider psychology. Most young men be 4 ga the ingredients of true or’ E z EE i Fibee 33 4 s + probably not capable the girls I know in America who have } desire this ineawure only in order thAt worked only since the war created the ( the legal profession may be open tO) demand—one who went into the navy, women,” says one of the leading as a Ycaman—another who became " ., i ° spirits, “but in order that women| secretary to @ food official (and she! playing brothers, Ve on nee | Series Of Artoues: Weriteme Especially for The Evening World! ‘ray be able to consult one of their| KDeW, neither typing nor shorthand), | Will these girls continue tn the world own sex on intimate matters in the’ of competition? Will their feelings b same way that they frequently pre-| the same as that of so many English t” fer to consult a woman doctor about| Birla, that having known the interest 4 | o For instance, in a practice game tho other day little Miss Billie North, who| Lleut. Sjoberg plans to have his pitches for the Salvage Board team, |teams play twice @ week, and later —Cut Out and Save in Your Home, Copyright, 1919, by The Press Publishing Co. (‘The New York Erentng World), ” doing worth-while work the old, AND SOME THAT SPOIL IT. | new ideas, gratify his taste for was called out while attempting to | they will meet teams of girls that are INFANTILE CONVULSIONS their health. lelsured unimportant life has now no! gratify nov- being formed in the Quartermaster’s ‘There nother career—also a NeW | attractions? “A young girl's love is a kind of| ¢), steal second. She refused to leave tho t Te aith | SY a4 change? 4 when the “mean thing” whe| Department offices, ‘The teams to OTHING demoralizes young|ing entirely and place the little one|... in which this well educated and pli AL LS See fe must approach it “Lave lasts long between two per- |°*® ® ean ng WhO! ay Thursday will represent the In- mother or an inexperienced at-|in a warm—not hot—bath. A mus- if we are not to profane tt | sons who are mentally dynamic, ‘wna with poetry if we aré to under- sess SAA. Sotnoes Se. Baw. “torests ideas, who do not get into a rut was umpiring’ became insistent she intelligent girl could do much good as . paughtily informed him that he shouia | #P¢ctlon and Property Departments, tendant so much as to see &/tard pack acts splendidly. Make with! wei as earn a living: She might en- LEATHER COATS |not speak to her as they “hadn't been | The line-up will be as follows: child suddenly striken with Cae ene. serene ot dry mustard!) in the Metropolitan Police VERY. POPULAR.: introduced.” Inspection Department: sons, rubbed up with an ounce of water, to! women Patrols, a new body which Now it is of the utmost importance |Which is added one quart of boiling | nay just been created, in number 100 Helen Kellner, Marcia Garson, Dor- |, “op Sorve the little one carefully and|Water, Into this a sheet or bath towel ‘strong, with ten sergeants. “What \note the starting point, the progress |'8 dipped and wrapped around the} we want,” says the chief of the new \and the length of time the seizure child, Hot mustard poultices also act|roroe, “are women between twenty- \nas persisted, for upon these facts|Picely, placed on the back, thighs and nye and thirty-eight, well educated depend a correct diagnosis of the|#bdomen, and tactful, who are keen about do- case. So exquisitely balanced is a| While these external measures are|ing really useful aocial work. It jchild’s equilibrium that a very slight| being used an enema should be pre-| should specially appeal to women of disturbance may bring on @ convul-|pared and employed as speedily as! good position who during the war A Toothless Saw sive seizure; fright is @ common | possible. This should be given while|have done much useful work in this cause; indigestion, intestinal worms|the child ts in the bath or after the| direction in munition works, &c., and ‘OU put a seed into the ground. It is unseen. In proportion to |are frequent causes; repeated con-|poultices, or whatever line of treat-| who wish to continue it” ¢ the grown plant it is insignificant. But tt wo Jessly, | Yulalons in a tecthing child have been |ment is followed, has been carried! There is another and @ practical bei H : ipa pela rks ceaselessly, | iieved on lancing the gums; foreign | out. side to the girl who had no special steadily and unremittingly, grimly doing {ts most vital work |soaies in the ear or nose have| If tincture of asafetida is on|training before the war, There may fast before a few faint green shoots show their tips and force their | brought on an attack; these are some|hand, make an enema with two|be many who now want @ career— lips through earth to drink in the sunlight, soon to become a gorgeous |°f the peripheral causes, while there|/ ounces of water about the tempera-|there are still more who mast have are many conditions of @ \egrees ¥, containing one| one For, increased taxes an plant or a towering tree. So foundations found the name and spread rp AS assdapuansl prided pay ¥ agp we bass i Siltising 0 gaivencmeter, 0 ane op ture, connected with the nervous eys-| teaspoonful of the tincture, and ad-| prices, the father who previously Sigelentist has invented apparatus for the fame of men who take the trouble to climb and who fight for what | tem, and so on, that give rise to this| minister this. Asafetida ts a well| prided himself on being able to keep OY sheasuring vibrations of human others merely sigh for. Fortune does not favor and success does not | distressing symptom. ae reg 9 tlle sg and often acts/ his daughter—though heaven knows There is usually some bi -|like a charm. In the absence of asa-|why he should feel pride in so fre- and tissues with which, among other crown ters iter! @hings, he al aside wane are Se Se a ae ee ea Provionnce, cation of an oncoming attack in|fetida, a hot, soapy rectal injection | quently making of her a useless orna- * ‘pocuretely than by hand, ‘The Woolworth Building would long since have toppled to ruin; | slight muscular twitchings of the/will answer, When quite hot these/ment—oan no longer do so. To meet tel ery the Eiffel Tower would long ago have crashed down, leaving in its | {0% general restlessness, rolling the|enema serve valuable ende in remov-|guch @ case there is the Central casa Bie ine catiace be th eyes, or the hands may be so firmiy|ing undigested food, and tf quite hot,| Bureau for the Employment of wake death lestruction; the nations e world would have been | jenched that the thumbs are buried|further stimulating relaxation. Women, which not only supplies: ad- Deaten into a congeries of slave-driven communities but for bedrock jin the palms, frothing at the mouth,| Authorities differ as to whether an/| vice regarding training and openings riveted, impregnable foundations. Frequently the costliest, always Li hagary Magny: ; Semmens and blue- peer, OCs be ane but if] but offers beg — ey Sa va ness ot ips ere reason to leve undigested | which in words he the most unnoticed and the most indispensable part of any structure, | What should be done before the|food exists in the stomach, and if|ton “is the bridge over which many whether it be fort, mansion or personal station, is the foundation. It | doctor comes? causing the attack, relief will be far] of our educated women must pass be- fe beneath the surfacé, It is out of sight. The world does not com- Relaxation of the maxeoular evvtons ond ler when this is removed, fore they reach the path eaticinnrr must be the first consideration. a ff course nothing can be given by! Its aim is to keop the ol monly think of it, But man can no more attain place without an un | npetent person ts at hand to ad-|mouth until the child te out of a| women's work as high as possible, shakadle foundation than can a skyscraper stand on quicksands or a | minister this, a few whiffs of chloro-| spasm, then wine of ipecac in fifteen| and its splendid recourses offer un- train run on unspiked tracks. . form accomplishes the desired effect|to twenty drop doses in a little water | usual opportunities to the woman 5 more speedily than anything else,}may be administered as soon as the| with no special treining who 1s look- “1 would give anything in the world if I could only do that"—m0 |oniy a few whiffs passed before the| child can swallow. Remember not to| ing for a carter. OF FASHION, it would be a crime, Merely to ry wathh ite unfolding life 1s bliss to the| “DO 7ou think,” I questioned, “that real love includes any tendency to Wpanolder; ne ees in it the birth of a ‘When the garland of dominate the object of it? Can one A youth fades on our brow let us try a @tult love another and yet try te boss t maturity; him or her?” | ;| “That is @ tendency married love now outgrowing,” he replied. “If think of the husband TWO MINUTES OF OPTIMISM By Herman J. Stich Copyright, 1919, by The Pres Publishing Co, (The New York Bvening World), With the Inventors ‘Bach baffle plate in a new automo- 2% recently patented rifle target is qgomposed of plungers which absorb | marriage of the very young—should “he energy of bullets and drop them |be based on a love thet has in it the individual to whom you have given it, That is diMoult, I admit, At some time or another most of us have learned things which not be held firmly against the pa- tient’s face and must not be admin- istered by one not fully capable, I merely mention this because convul+ instances of this kind the little ones ‘be traced to undigested food. In two almost succumbed. One had eaten a you wouldn't! You don't do it. If you cared enough and if you dared child's nostrils. The chloroform must) use an emetic unless the seizure can| Providing that th educated woman enough, the only thing under the sun you can’t achieve is something ‘we can’t conceive, of good family avails herself of op- portunities which might not’ de within the reach of the girl who has banana, the other child had been al-|earned her living as @ stenographer church that it establish some because of our faulty foundation have proved criminal waste of en- |#ions are sometimes speedily fatal,|lowed veal. As soon as relieved of | trom the time she left school, I think “I| asylums for young folks who need| ergy—e@ language we cannot use because we neglected its declensions |®"4 in the absence of a physictan this| these the ohildren recovered, her entry into the “working woman's” mind pay-| them, and conjugations; a science whose elements we have not mastered; |#tple pracedure may save @ life, But| In most cases of infantile convul- | world can do nothing but good—sood gid sone Ue pepsi an art whose fundamental principles we have not assimilated, A little |! cafnot too strongly emphasize the) sions, of whatever form, the warm | to herself, for the busy interested eta ty sirls tore paina, ® little more patience, a Iittie more clenching of our fats {Waring that only e competent per-|beth (100 degree F.) or she mustard) woman Je the happy one—and food! 4. scorned their value, This pear iy won'e iprotiteble, eMlolent tool instesd of a tooth son should administer these few|pack, with a quite hot rectal enema,|to others less fortunate; for the old value, This would nave, ‘i * | witifts of chloroform, will quist the symtoms until the ar-|truism otill bears witness that ex-| Sérment is of tan with portions Otherwise remove the obild’s oloth- | rival of a physician, ample te better than precept. 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