The evening world. Newspaper, January 30, 1915, Page 3

a] \ Pustice Greenbaum, sitting in the @ivorce division of the Supreme Gourt, to-day estabiffhed a new code @ conduct for Husbands which, If followed when an estrangement seems fmevitable, will do away, he says, with iMoculties, between wives and da, which, he says, are caused ‘by money. Mere is the Justice's advic: “Den't make your wife run the house on a specific allowance. Ben't put a limitation upon ex- How can a man tell when hie wife wishes to go to the thea- @re or other amusement? Once in @ while she ought to be entitied te have such entertainment. ter a couple be divorced than Qquarre! about meney. “Give her the little attentions man shows during courtship. Buy @ Hittle bunch of posies once in a while, and take them home to her. Aman Ie never too old to do thie and neither has any wife been married too long to enjoy them yj “A husband must get his wife | confidence and she his. They must sive and take. “A wife is entitled to the full benefit of her husband’s earning eapacity. When a man marries | gent nor a husband penurious. a 5’ LOPES 10 WED Manager of Harriman Estate hie first duty is to his wife. He shouldn't support his mother, ed- Fails to Prevent Marriage of Daughter. uoate or suppart his brothers or sisters, if the money is needed in 1 do not mean that a husband's affection for his kin must depart. “A wife must not be extrava- 4 A formal announcement has been made of the marriage Wednesday of Miss Helen Ruby Tegethoff, daugh- ter of Charlés C. Tegethoff, manager of the BE. H. Harriman estate, and Alton H. Greeley jr, a son of the President of the General Cartage and Storage Company of Cleveland, O. ‘The marriage, friends have learned; following the announcement to-day, was an clopement, in which taxicabs ind a fast train to Cleveland figured, With Papa Tegethoff and a private detective just too late to intercept the wunaways. 1 The ceremony was performed in ‘New York, the Rev. Charles A. Eaton 4 officiating. The wedding was in the Madison Avenue Baptist Church, and there were only two witnesses, Samuel J. Reid, a lawyer, of No, 308 ‘West Eighty-second Street, and an- other intimate friend of the bride- groom. Mr. Greeley is twenty-two years old Mr. Rich Takes a New Lease on Life ¥ Mr. Rich was quite unhappy, 4 % Me didn’t know just what to do; ~ “Ge buy a shop or store or market ‘And you'll rejoice,” said Mr. Knew. ey Be. Mr. Rich, through World Want Ads., “sir, favested in 1 BARGAIN store; @le’s taken a new lease on life, sir— And what could any man do more! 68,463 World “BUSINESS OPPORTUNITY” Ads, Last Year— 7,901 love Thea ALL au @ OTHER New York ‘and Sunday Newspapers ; ADDED ‘TOGETHER! “ Maaly, Renate. —_——— 1 You'd Be Happy, Though Married, Give Wife Plenty of Money and Don’t Support Your Own Relatives. Time World Advertisements Let her help him to save hie money.” Justice Greenbaum had before him & young couple—Sytvester and Kath- ryn McLaughlin—and had attempted to bring about a happy climax to the separation suit brought by the wife. Money, it developed, had been the rock upon which their matrimonial bark had split. Mrs. McLaughlin found it impossible to kere the house going on an allowance of $1! and that was what brought forth the Judge's advice on the money question | in the home. | McLaughlin told the Court he had @ mother to support and was trying | to educate one of his brothers, and, he added, his wife did not want to live in Brooklyn, where he wanted to live. This led the Court to discourse nul u should live ts too trivial to take up the time of this court,” sald Justice Greenbaum. Then, addressing the wife, the Court said: “Are you willing to go back to your | husband?” To which the pretty young wife arising, replied with an eager “Y: “And are you willing to go baci our wife?” the Justice asked the jushand. McLaughlin repii«’ he would, and! the Court ordered al the testimony stricken from the reo “And are you willing to stop the support you are giving your mother and your brother?" Justice Green- baum asked the young husband. McLaughlin was silent for ute and then he announced he did not think he could ever live with his wite again. “well,” sald the Judge, sinks you fee) you cannot go back to her, T de- cree that you pay her $10 a week all- mony.” and the former Miss Tegethoff is eighteen and was still in school. REFUSED TO LISTEN TOARDENT SUITOR’S PLEAS. Mr. Tegethoff, who is a director In several corporations, is a widower. He and his daughter ma in the Warrington, No. 161 Madison Avenue. When Mr. Tegethoff got home Tues- day evening ‘he found young Mr. Greeley calling on his daughter. It ts satd the young man declared his love for Miss Tegethoff and the young people united in @ request for Mr. ‘Tegethoft’s permission to enter into a formal engagement, the marriage to take place In the spring. ‘The girl's father refused and per- sons living in the puilaing say they heard loud volees apparently coming from the Tegethoff apartment. Young Mr. Greeley left the Warrington in a short time and hurried to the Mo- Alpin. To conserve his cash supply he asked that the bill he had incurred there be charged, He referred to his father. The hotel management wired elder Greeley, who rplied: ‘ll be good for any amount up to $75, but don’t tell the youngster.” That arranged, Mr. Greeley called upon his friend, Mr. Reid, to be ready to see him married on the morrow. Next morning, as soon as he felt sure Mr. Tegethoff bad gone down- town, Mr. Greeley hurried to the Warrington, helped get Miss Toget- hoff’s trunk off to the station and then they took a taxicab for the City Hall, Mr. Reid and the other friend were waiting for them there. FATHER GETTING READY TO FORGIVE ELOPERS. As soon as the license was procured the party, in tivo cabs, went to the church and the wedding took place, Then Mr. and Mrs. Greeley started for Cleveland. Mr. Tegethoff stayed downtown only a short time Wednesday. When he returned home he found his daughter and her trunk gone and learned that young, reer had Pa there. He appea at once to house detective at the Mautner, whom he knows well, and he and Bryan set out te catch the runaways (f they could. They learned at the Meaipin that Mr. Greeley had_ “checked - Bryan went to the Pennsylvania thon and Mr. Tegethoff to Ty Several Cleveland trains Central. were watched, but there was no a}, of the fugitives. They were al. way to the Ohio city, ‘Mr. and Mrs. Greeley are now at Mr, Greeley's father's home, No, 17218 Clifton Boulevard, Clev: Tegethoff, in New York, ready to forgive them. — GIRL TRAPS SUSPECT. Causes Arrest of Man Pai wae Coins. Arthur Hahn, arraigned in Harlem Mr, is getting Police Court to-day and turned over to of ihe Federal autporities on a chari ing counterfeit money, owes his ar- i to fourteen-year-old Emma Machin, who looks after her father’s cigar and stationery ware at No. 1791 First Ave- ras alone in the ere tant night when abn entered, siearetien and gave her a knew the wi he followed him. met. Re and Rogers arrested in, oF eighteen countorfelt halt dollar his e le e} him sary man met ina pool room. Dies Vestibul: Chereh. ‘Thomas St. John, a stationary gineer, whe Uved With be nite Det oie je dren at No. 403, +2 Biers 8 a week, their home | ae ° DRcedbrertbadr tal the-V Vhip”’ ‘THE REMEDY ; “SH@ SHOULD ABANDON HER RINGMASTER tA. \ bd YY, samt Ri Sore in mais e akes Hus ‘‘Chiet Domestic one? Says a Judge IN JERSEY SUNDAY! viet OMe OP Tue BIGGEST EVLS OF SOCIETY IS THE “SILENT DrvoRCe’ Expert in Matrimonial Jangles Preaches Doctrine of Tolerance and Sympathy on Part of Women Who Begin Married Life as Uplifters and Re- formers of Character, but End by Being Merely Ringmasters — Freschi Severe,on “Private Di-| vorce,”’ Those Secret Estrangements That Often Don’t Reach Courts but Cause Great Unhap-; piness. , By Marguerite Mooers Marshall. “The husband is regarded as the prime offender in domestic troubles. In practically every marital dispute coming before the courts scemingly this idea is substantiated. The husband almost invariably is the defendanc —more, he is guilty. die has broken some law; he Mable to punishment. And yet-—— “Despite the husband's legal responsibility, in al- most every case the wife—the legally aggrieved party—' ie morally responsible for the trouble. In the domestic battles! reaching the courts it is the maw who did the} deserting, who drank to excess, who transgressed the marital code in t'ss way or that. And yet, tracing mar- ital dissension to its beginning, you will find usually that it is the wife who scts the ball rolling.” 7 Out of the fulness of his experience on the benci| of the Court of Domestic Relations in this city, Magistrate John J. Frescht; thus sums up the present marital unrest in some interesting “Observations On Married Life” in the curreut issue of Woman's World. It i@ against the! feminine party er in the matrimonial firm that Judge Freschi has drawn an’ fedictment. Without bitterness, but with candor and sincerity, he has shown how tragically often a wife makes a complete failure of her marriage by trying to make her husvand over, and he has suggested how victory may} take the place of failure. * I doubt if anything short of the his Place of business and made, a ious crimes causes as much scene, shouting out to everybody tha: Laceldhe pts es ai paring cai thn aeal vas not supporting her, and he ise! he w {declared that if such a thing hap- necked intolerance of an otherwise! pened again he would lose his posi- good woman. Do you remember the, tion. “When I questioned the wife I legend of the cruel tyrant who forced} rung her deflant. "I did the rigat each of his guests to sleep on @ Cer-| thing, Judxe," informed me, ‘I'm tain bed? Those who were too tall to fit tt had their heads or feet chopped ike the off; those who were too short were smart man and he ought to have a stretched with torturing weights and Berean, 4b ie, the mon pulleys, The intolerant wife acts on what the im. ey're roughs, that's y are. exactly the same principle when she|*« hee seut pantie Veals tha hice: tries to shape her husband to her own | band, ‘but those men are gentlemen, narrow ideal by ruthlessly cutting oft leven it they do work tn overalls, and his pleasures or pulling him up to ae for the job, I'm mighty glad to have it these tim some impossible standard. ‘earned more in the (od if I have “PRIVATE DIVORCE” A MENACE | tue cai_uRE AS A HOMEMAKER TO SOCIEY. As PETTY TYRANT. Because 1, too, believe that the re-| “you gee,” commented Judge Pres- sponsibility for domestic unhappi-|chi, “the woman was simply inter- tees rests more often on the un-| fering with her husband out of intol- erance and false pride. reasonable American woman than on TNO gg! (ioe pride. alaine that for my husband's uplift, although [ get no thanks for it. I don't like the | Place where he's working. T don't like the brutal American man, I asked| her husband never takes her an: Judge Freschi to discuss further his| where; that he goes out in the indictment, evening and leaves her at home alone, If the husband is repeat- edly absent, her complaint is equivalent to a confession that the is a failure as a homemaker. if he only goes out now and then, “One of the chief perils of our modern society,” he declared, “is what | call the private divorce; the divorce that is unrecorded in 10) lo play a game of bowls or in- dulge in some other harmless Y ught to be hap- families. It ie the more or less silent estrangement between hus- pleasure instead of nag- him about it. If he ne er band and wife, the disintegration oF out the chances are of love, friendship between them. And | do fee! that “Thad a case Mustrating this last situation not long ago. The wife wept that she was always alone, that her husband frequented « sand moving picture shows after his work was done, “"I go alone because I have to,’ the boy husband” told me. ‘When I ask her to take In the kind of thing I can afford she turns up her nose His the red signal of Danger should be shown to the young wif most instances the happin: her married life depends upen her. hard for women to realize that, of course. Since the publication of my article I've had several letters wife promptly performed that very from women who complain that I 18-| action, and asserted that she thought nore what women must stand from|he ought to stay at home with her their husbands—the drinking, the| ingtoad of Kolng to cheap shows, | "Now there ts an Instance in which swearing, the late hours, the nasty) 141) persons ought to yield a little dispositions. But men have to stand| ‘The husband was probably attracted things from women, too, and I be-|to the girl because of her demure, leve that the average husband is|home-loving nature, and she liked him for his gayety. After mar- more ready to compromise and be tol | rings they grated for tho same rea- erant than the average wif sons. Each should have tried to THE PERIL OF THE IDEAL| share in the tastes of the other.” WOMAN UPLIFTER. 1.You belleye that if the wife makos t 4 “phe dim ity 4s, don't you think, | wit mostly tay, fhe nuenens will mostly stay in it “B80 long as a young husba that the woman believes she ought e jome is a fairly comfortable spot to make her basbans better and no. fe Mitt oroler’ it. The husband jented. who is nagged at, wh said Judge Freschi,“and| lowed to ve i it's a sign of her natural idealism.| him, who is 1s #0 likely to go to work in| in the house, ie comfort and socia had such a case recently in this| ner saloon. Why very court." We were talking in the) wh. ints her hi Yorkville Coste on Fifty-seventh b in @ manner Gane, just of Third Avene, where jim out? hte now stttt DRIVE EVEN THEIR CHILDREN FROM HOME. } y | | screamed “Tee same principle holds with | mea in an DANGER SIGNALS Foa. THE YOUNG WIFB growing boys and giris. I had a case a few months ago of a woman who complained that her nineteen-year- Id daughter was incorrigible, 1 found that ¢ busybody janitress had seen the girl kissing her young man in the hall after their return from a moving picture show. I asked the girl why she didn't take the boy to her own parlor—they were hon- estly in love with each other—and I found she was ashamed to do so be- saute, the mother kept the house so The girl went away to live in working girls’ boarding house, under the eye of a frobation officer, and in three months she was married. Her mother was honestly concerned about her, but yet unconsciously pushed her away from the home shelter. The same thing happens with husband and wife. “What do you consider the advis- able way for a wife to treat her hus- band?" I inquired. “Let her give up the ringmaster, crack-the-whip methods and substi- tute gentleness, sympathy, tolerance and tact," said Judge Freschi. “Let her think of her husband's happiness rather than of what the neighbors say. No man restrains him- self or conquers temptation through fear of his wife, but through love of ner, You can catch more files—and husbands—with sugar than with vin- egar, If a woman shows her trust in the man she marries, the principle of ‘noblesse, oblige’ will force him to respond.” And even if it doesn't—always—the distrustful wife is a sure loser, —>—_— GUY FOR WOMAN SUFFRAGE. e Court Justice Gives Kea- re! er Union, Justice Charles L, Guy of the Su- preme Court, In @ talk on Woman Suf- eons at Ci |frage at Cooper Union last night, as- sailed the men who were still giving the old excuses for keeping the vote away from the women, “To deny her the vote," he went on, to say that only de vote, She should have a voice in the lawmaking, She ts menager of the home and should have the right to make the laws that govern pne Justice assall and men who are ig the ballot, and bu soclety women nt of the uses added that the proposition eT! MAN TRIES: TO ROB GIRL. Gronx Her Soreama Arowse ‘Tenement Dwe With th Vit kil you preat, “if you make a nolse A man sprang from un- a stairway and attempted to rob lizabeth Zackman, seventeen, as whe was returning from a bakery to her 347 St. Ann's Avenue, the down, over his two he ran 4} the tenement. FIRE SET IN HALLWAY THREATENS TENEME HOUSE OF 20 FAM Oil outil on ih on Floor and Oil- Soaked Waste Point to an Incendiary. A bundle of cotton waste, oll-soaked, and the floor linoleum, upon which oll had been poured, were lighted by an incendiary in the ground floor hall of No, 151 East Thirty-second Street about 2 o'clock this morning. Mrs. Amy Cassidy, who lives on the top floor, was up late ing and smelled smoke. She opened the door leading from her apartmont and found the hall filled with smoke. She ran downstairs to the second fi and aroused Mrs. Eleanor Birch, the jani- tress, The two women went to the first floor and put out the fire. The police were notified and detec- tives were assigned to investigate. Fireman Turbett, of Truck Company No. 7, also made an investigation for & report to the Fire Marshal's office. The building in which the incen- diary attempt was made is a five- story tenement occupied by twenty famil Birch denied that or any ono In the building, as far as she knew, had been threatened. —_———— ARREST FORCES CONFESSION Hotel Victoria Thie: Made Prin- piel John Quirk and Stephen Leonard were arraigned in West Side Police Court to-day, charged with stealing nearly 400 worth of clothing from the tailor shop of the Hotel Victoria, No, 155 West Forty-neventh Street,’ Sunday ny AS arrest was, in @ sense, accidental Detectives McGann and Devanney saw the two men together and recalled that they had arrested t for a burglar three years ago. y thereupon tool them to Headquarters, Quirk had on u very good sult, a $5 ‘and expensive shoes. The detec- knew he wasn't accustomed such apparel, and looked up records ‘ecent clothing robberies. The valet the Victoria’ Hotel recognized — the clothes Quirk was wearing, and then the prisoners confesse: _~ THIEVES CRACK SAFE. 3 cs Hyman Davidowits was disconsolate this morning when he opened up his Hungarian restaurant at No, 318 Stan- ton Street. He found that the taurant had been opened already liad been opened from the rear. The collapsible shutter collapsed, the window jimmiec ttle two by three foot sate the back room 4 $20 stolen. pleted of $1.50. 3 Want Cartew Law f Jan, 30.—Ding, dons, wat beth pee ke in the We wi in_ the 1 Ka at. Cypre Avenue and One Hi | Yred Street, isi hay roan inipet, ows ome before by Italian work: adjoining tactory. ihe | F ding, acurfew, The Woman's Christian Temperance Union has asked Mayor Stevens and the Com- mon Council for a law compelling boys DRY WAVE COMING You Won’t Be Able to Wet: Your Throttle Anywhere in Hudson County. Tt will be @ dry day in Hudson County, N. J., to-morrow, And every Sunday in futuro will be a dry day from Jersey City to Bayonne and from Hoboken to East Newark. There'll be no sneaking in the back way, either, to nibble on a stage sandwich and snatch a highball between eats, The screens must be down, #0 the cop off the beat can tae a peep every time ho paases by. ‘This was the mandate handed out to every Chief of Police and the Po- lice Commissioners of Hudson Coun- ty. Hudson County isn’t going to af- ford a text for a Billy Sunday sermon in the Quaker City, Statute, not sen- timent, goes hereafter in Hoobken! and Jersey City and every other place | in Hudson County where the gin rickey runs and the local brew flows. | This is what Judge of the Court of Common Pleas George C. Tennant told the Police Commissioners and ; the Chiefs of Police when he a mbled them in his chambers in eroey City yesterday afternoon. Orders must be given to every patrol- man that if a saloon screen ts not down, the doors must be broken open {and the proprietor, or whoever i in, | charge, arrested. His Honor sald he would do the rest. Prosecutor Hud- speth of the County sald he would | back up the Judge. “You do not know what the sald Judge Tennant tq@ftho assembled upholders of thi Ww. “You cannot say you think the people do not want the laws. Nobody speaks forthe people except the law, which is enacted by the Legislators elected by the people. It is what the peopl want because it is e¢ acted into law. If the people in thi State want the law changed they know what to do.’ His Honor also declared he did not want the law turned into a wespon of persecution on half a dozen salvon keepet He wanted tho law, in its entirety, carried out. He intimated the police have been “winking” at | avenue, South Brouklyngsshortly: | started in a delicatessen store om the law, It was common knowledge, as well us common scandal, that the saloons of Hudson County are open on Sunday, he sald. The practice must cease and “that ts all thero ts to it,” his ultimatum, So, if you're riding through Hudson paged to-morrow, or any other ee , don't think you can arin Hoboken, Jersey City, Rey t Hoboken, North Bergen, "Wee: ha ken Kearny, Harrison, Unioa Hill or East Newark. It can't be done. VANDERBILT'S TO CRUISE THROUGH PANAMA CANAL Sail on the Wayfarer for Two Months’ Trip Through South- ern Waters. ? Mr. and Mrs, Alfred G. Vander- farer for a two months’ crulse through of the Panama Canal to California, and will visit Los Angeles, from which | city Mr, Vanderbilt recently returned after visiting Frederick M. Davies, who bad been seriously ill, Mr. and Mr Vanderbilt aboard their yacht last night at the f West Righty ixth Street with en, Alfred jr. and George, for whom there has been fitted up on the vessel a splendidly appointed yfarer formerly belonged to W. Vanderbilt. She ran round off the South*Atlantic Coast r ago last December while Mr. a irs, Vanderbilt were on a cruise with the Duke and Duchess of Man- cheater as their guests. The yachting party was taken off safely. The Way- farer was afterward bought by Harry Payne Whitney, and later by Alfred Vanderbilt, who had it entirely over- houled. menene BART DUNN IS TOO ILL One Time Tammany Leader Has Pneumonia and Cannot Be Removed to Island. if | All night the latch string was out Jat the penitentiary on Blackwell's Island awaiting the coming of Hart Dunn, formerly ‘Tammany’ leader tn ithe Seventeenth Assembly district, but he had not arrived. ‘Theodore ve Noyellop, Under Sheriff of Rockland County, went to Summit, where }Duno has been in a sa mill with pneumonia, but Dunn's condi- tion was reported such that he shouid | not be moved, Bart Dunn was sentenced to serve |ten months in the penitentiary and to pay a fine of $500 following his conviction of highway frauds in Kook- land County in December, 1913, NONE ALIVE CN THE IDLER, Life Save: Howe Unable to Vosttively tity the Ves NORFOLK, Va, Jan, 20.—Lite sa ers who to-day reached the yacht be- Neved to be the Idler, now a wreck of Diamond Shoals, found no signs of life, ‘The vessel had settled until only the masts were visible. It was impossible tity the yeeht. they said. leap Sais bilt sail to-day on their yacht Way-|caracul coat with southern waters. They will go by way | watch. i went TO BE SENT TO PRISON | Wrapper Ignites TO DEATH IN | MANY ARE RES scien Scarlet Fever Patient Can Through Flames in Brooklyn. / Confused and frightened by shouts of those about him and smoke and fire that had ; him, seve: r-old Willing becker, after being taken onto « @ sacape landing by an uncle, back into his home, at No. 4716 midnight this morning. He burned to death before he was Frank Schneebecker, his ft 4 motorman. When he amelied he ran from hia second floor &j ment to turn in an alarm, With” Nchneebecker and the children* her grown brother, Edward Curtis got the family onto the ence) his arms and Mrs. Schneebecker guiding the others, Neither. mother nor uncle noticed litte jam dart back. When Schneobecker saw that lam was missing as the reached the ground, ne dashed the house, but was overcume Way up to the secund floor and to the foot of the steps, A man rescued him. } " ee jininuice later ’ renipoll found the four-year-old of Eaward Bancker In the the second floor and carried bum) ‘Thirteen-ye...-old John Burns, & let-fever sufferer, was carried ff his third floor home by his father, He was removed to Kingston Avenue Hospital for tagious cases. Fireman Joseph Gray of Company No. 159 was struck by. falling irpsmens of cornice and eut and bruise There were nieve families in 4712, 4716 and 4720, all four-story tenements. All three buildings gutted. The tenants escaped ” a stairs, fire escapes and roots. damage was $10,000 to the bull and $5,000 house furnishings. cy _ ground floor. The store hands yesterday and no one on scene knew who the new beds FOUND IN FIFTH AVE! AMER MIND AB pital Doctors. Any Clue” to Her Identity. ‘" For more than an hour an tive looking young woman stood, terday afternoon in front of the Bavoy, Fifty- pin Wal Btreet and Avenue. She bewildered Toye Pa a e Herbeck of Fitty-fi abo ter? Bart Street Station usked her o'clock, “TL have lost my. pui weil or address which might ted to, her Identity. yellow. colt ngo alipperr, wnd blacks ail a gold brooch and gol he carried a velvet muf nnaiiiealielicalateny WOMAN FATALLY BURNEI She Works at Clara Meyer, fifty, was ¢ home, No. 165 Willlamsburg, ¢ fay when her light. wrapper eal from the gus range. She ran into the hallway, where Mrs. Levine, « neighbor, was severely trying to help her 5S n back into her son, Bernard, daughter, Re efforts to put out the flames. of Hook and Ladder No 16 hati house, quelled the nie: neighbors and extinguished the flame rs. Meyer was taken to the County Houpital in a dying © Her children will recover. It’ 's Foolish to may be brave enough to he, or headache, or dissi addi look out! If try to fix up your fall into the clutghes of na other uric acid uble before you know it. m re carefully, and i ning them up wens D Kidney Pills, you can stop the you have and wvoid future Fill Greater Nev York Testimenys. { her ~ouess TU have to