The evening world. Newspaper, September 11, 1913, Page 5

CHUM TEACHERS | ENTER CONVENT 10 * STILL HEARTACES Unhappy Romances CauseT wo } Brooklyn Girls to Leave Worldly Duties. PARE! tS LOSE SUPPORT} Poor Father anid Mother of Miss Sagona Bemoan Lack of Sole Income, Unhappy romances tn the lives of two! Brooklyn school teachers, Misn Marv, Rush and Miss Rose Sagona, friends and confidantes for many years, have culminated in the desertion of their homes and worldly cares to enter the Convent of the Sisiers of BM Joseph at, G@rentwood, 1. 1. From relatives and) friends of the two young women it was} leaned to-day how eached nourished the spark of unrequited love for many | years until they determined to seek ree) (et trom heartache In devotion to 8; religious life. | Misa Bagona, the elder of the two, fived with her mofher and fathor at No, | Testimony of an Evening World Reader That Treatment of Daugh- tere by Mothers Drives Many to Wed Merely to Get Away From Home—In Numerous Cases Misery Follows— Rosy Promises Before Marriage Broken After Tila Fifth avenue, Brooklyn. She is Cave ‘nitty years olf end had taught in the, the mony. | public schoole for eleven years, her tast | ee Position being in Pudlie School No. | WHY DID Now the Parent Enters as a Prime Factor _ Into the Scheme of Marital Happiness By Nixola Greeley-Smith. HE MARRY You aae WE DON'T CARE IP You ARE OF AGE YOU ‘Worid) USBAND | ! PPR APP PPRPPA PLP PILL LP PDPDPLPPPPPLLPPLLLPPLLLPL IPD PPP PPL LPP PLL LP IL PPLP PP ‘Copprigh:, 1018, by The Prem Wuolishing Go (The Now ¥ Eighth Article of a Series. THE EVENING WORLD, THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 1913. YOU WED YOURH NOTHING | bu7 CHnoRen! Wise and Thirty-aixth — «t married my husband when very young simply to get away from @ ¢ home where I had no freedom of thought or speech or deed. 1 never MOAN Far Gan ee ec oe stopped to give a thought to whether or not I would be happy. In fact, I LOSS OF BUPPORT. Sigunda, the father, conducts @ bar- hop in the two-story frame bulld- ing. It is @ tiny, two-chair shop, and, Bigunda ix too old to work at his trade, he has one barber to take care | ef the customers. The income from the shop barely pave Miia bar ages, and imany* weeks in the una said to-day, he rune his pia at a lom. In a room at the roar of the shop Mrs, Siauna could be seen weeping over an ironing board as she @obbed her conpiaint against her daughter's acy to a sympathetic nelgne | pi v sail the time.” said | a not to blame, Our nothing. My shop! By Our lite depends | on the $100 4 myath our daughter made teacher. We begged her not to be @ sister, All the the she thought avout. happiness enters this discussion. It that young in whe loved ten years is true that unpleasant conditions at 40. wanted to inarry by then, home have been responsible for many, ie lope he Was no kod aul sent {iLeonsidered marriages. Perhaps the truth about Amertcan parents ts! My duvsuirs asd Mise Rush ave great Ulat they govern’ the'r children too little in infancy and seek to govern | toll me Misa mt wax them too much after they have attained maturity. wad because lier young mouie years Z doubt tf ever before in the his- deed. T never stopped to give @ Ago van away and carried another # tory of the family there has been thought to whether or not 1 would Bay aft] and Mise ftusy were always to- be happy. In fact, I did not care such '@ wide gap vetween the dene fs tong an 1 saw a chance to get m of generations living side by S14@ | away trom omy unhappy old me Oy sh | alr t me Qtise Rush | a oy o nae ko to a-convent and he | What wilh become of your| S-day, Youth has never before old father and mothers’ | said. ‘Tf you! Seem so radical and age perhaps want to serve God, why not serve Him | sever go dismayed. The hen that hore, Your father and mother | netohed 9 @mok ana scolded it for Gepend on you for support 1 can Jo) geying to swim im the duck pos Was not loss frightened than the more wood to keep them al han ia esonvane mother who stands aghast upon the UNABLE TO Di on * SUADE DAUGH- brink of modera life and watches TER FROM PURPOSE. her young soms and daughters “Sane woald not listen. She tavaht |] plunge fearlessly into an unknown Munday Schoo! in two piaces and talked of nothing but how she was guing to he a sinter, Father Quinian, the priest from St. Josaph's Courch, where she went, told me my daughter must choose for herself and that J must not say anything against her if she wanted to he @ sister. I asked Father Quintan | who would take care of my wite and nie when my daughter would no mo; teach achoo!.” The parent and to her terrifying element, And the worst of {t 1s that nine times out of ten the parental fearm are fale! fled by eventa; for while ducks can awim Well enough at all times, there are a whole lot. of foolish chickens who merely imagine that they are webfooted and Who find out thelr mistake only after they have left dry land forever, {MOTHERS KEEP THEIR DAUGH- eno ile TERS IN FEAR. at No, 161 7 , Brook-| To-day daughters frighten — thai Irn, while equaily opposed to her idea "others by their desire for Kreater frees did not care so long as I saw a chance to get away from my home. I still think that under the existing cir- cumstances I would do the same thing over again. and earn a living and be independent) of tating the vell, were not dependent |dvm, and mothers bore and allenate on her for support. Mtohael Rush, |their daughters by what sceme to them & prosperous carpenter, old-fashidned preaching. 1 know of And ie han another dvugiter teaching |homes In which children are bewildered echeol. and antagonived by a thousand sense- lIeas prohibitions which they do not |pretend to obey and in wiich they learn Rush refused to discues her ‘es act, if she were a polgewoma’ Life for both big And httle people hi far too many “don'ts,” too many bogics, It |w better to have a few laws, to have time to explain them and to have them obeyed than tu seek to enforce blue laws which are dead jeiters, The girl whose mother has alway# had Ume to explain her prohibitions will never develop that secret resentment, that het revolt against \inre restraint seems uniéasoning. “I Inatilled truth tn her and she would always tell ve | what she did, for she knew that I would not whip her,” & mother writes to-day of her daughter, It te seldom that a chilé is not tn fear of one rod or another; if mot the birchen barbarism which still gurvives iz many families, thea the Rarsh ‘oq of ridioule—the narrow, stinging rod of a dogmatiom that will not argue, but insists upon ite Givine right to be obeyed. Fear casts out love even more thas love casts out fear, and any mother whose child fears her is o failure. The bairler of silence which years build between ‘parents and children, as later they may build it between husbands and wives, ix responsible for foolish marriages. im the letter of a woman who used the .eason of her own unhappy ohildhood to make her own daughter free and honorable and unafraid MOTHER AND DAUGHTER ARE GOOD PALS, Dear Medam; { married my hus- and when very young simply to get away from a home where I had mo freedom ef apeech, thought er fe ani gone quietly to a convent. Any publicity would be unpleasant,” she sald. “I wish, however, to deny the report that we did not know of her Intention, She told us ail about §t and said good by to her friends be- eho went, Suturday.” Miss Rush Ix twenty-four years old, and taugat in Public Sehool No. 10, Fifth ue and Twenty-eighth street. She wan popular with her principal and fellow teachers wnd well Hked by her pupils, Of late she had been avowing mor and more melancholy, her friends a — CUSTOMS COLLECTOR FIRED. WASHINGTON, Sept, 11.—Collector of Customs Pendleton at Los Ang wae dismivsed to-day by Secretary Me- sdoo Jonn B, Ei! nominated to succeed him. Pendieton sald he had been appointed nite term, which he should be ——>— Raren De Freyne Net De LONDON, Sept. i!.-Baron de F exeColonel of the Fifth Battalion of onnaught Rangers, has been added to the gvoup of persons privileged to read their obituary notic Yhe announ-e- ment of hin death, which w : mach space in all the mornin pegs in London t has proved un- tre, Baron De Freyne in seriously il, yt hie condition is no worm to-day has been for some time past, ily are un: able to acodunt for the premature an- wouscoment of his demisa = which} | decided upon a religious|'o fear and evade the mother quite ae, | { ! | | | | Thousands of girls and boys marry to get a breath of freedom. I trust you will publish this so that young girls will go out instead of jumping from the frying pan into the fire by leaving an un- pleasant home to go to another which may prove worse perhaps in a few months or years. With this letter from a woman reader of The Evening World, the parent as a factor in matrimonial And now years have fown by Tatil) think that under the same ox- isting cireumstanc do the ame thing over nds of girly and boys marry to Ket # breath of freaom., Parents are largely to Wlame; they do not under- stand how to Uring up boys or girls after a certain age. During baby- hood and childhood, when they n urally control their children bod. and oul, it is all right, but a® their children grow to manhood and womanhood they atill exert the same right and seemingly cannot grasp that th children grow up and have a mind of their own, 2 am now the mother of a beau- tiful daughter and 2 brought her up with fall liberty and allow her to ehoose her clothes, friends, in fact, everything is and has been done to make her self-reliant. Result, one of the finest specimens of young womanhood possible to find. eo made of her » companion, a pal and, above all, I am her friend and confidant as well as her mother, Fear is an unknown quantt tween us, She never has been whipped in her life. Kindness has been the dominating —inituence. From a baby up | instilled truth in her, and she would alway tel! me no matter what she did, for she knew I would not whip her. If parents would use half the and kindness in their home that they do on strangers, many a life wou be different, A litth: compa! ners are all that its needed. that vou will publsh thi young girls will ao out man- T trust so that nd earn & iving and be independent instead of pan nto aut imping from the frying he tire by leaving an home to go to another which 1 prove wors®, perhaps, in «few mouths or years A MOTHER LURED BY GLITTERING PROM- 1SES TO MARRY WRONG ONE. Dear Madam: I married my bh band at eighteen and threw another man whom 1 loved dea!) He showered me with flowers ai diamonds and promised me *o much after the marriage. Ile poke of his mother in such an affectionate way that [ thought 1 would never rearet my step. He carried me away with his promines and Pians, and since | arried he haa never given ine 1: and rarely a kind word or have three beautiful chit- he rarely wpeaks to his chi!dren, who jove him. He just won't be bothered with thems | ain Just thirty and have never had to loos far for admirers, yet he ix not patistied with me. Le Iw forty and SiH Insists on sowing wild o4in. Wine, Women anid auton are his p times. He married me for money, as my people are weil off, and for his foolish idea he has ruined his Ue, my lite and the lives of ula look, 1 dren, and | three children. The one I often comes into my mind, but too late. SENSIBLE GIRL! Dear Madam: We wish to men of @ sedate and dignified acter, perlences we find fewer sensible men Kirls, Of course, he should nv Pect to find @ digniiled young walking along the Asbury Park or any similar su: that many girls who ic T FEWER SENSIBLE MEN THAN tradtct the statements of the young Judging from our own ex- there are than sensible mard-walk of outdoor sports and a good time, but pes SHOOTS AT FUGITIVE. 4S THEIR CHILDREN GROW TO MAN: HOOD AND WOMANHOOD ThEY STILL evrect THe SAME RIGHTS AND CANNOT GRASP THAT THEIR CHILDREN GRow UP AND HAVE MINDS OF THEIR OWNS loved it ie The W. C, T. U, of West New ton will meet Mary Mundy, Prospect street, row afternoon. Mra Frederick Gall con- man who told why he did not }1.. wo wan the guest of Mra, Austin j marry, We differ with his views a8 | Tomlinson, arbor road, Mariners’ to the attitude girls take toward | }arbor, has returned home chat~ | Miss Doris Balley* of Lockm nue, Mariners’ Harbor, has 1 from a visit to friends in Phita Mr, and Mrs, William, nt See avenue, Port Richi lady on an auto! wl Mr. and Mra. obtle trip in mmer resort, willing to take his advances | Mone” Hille wre in Morristown, N. J. in the ianner indicated by him, | ‘The Mariners’ Harbor Social Club No girl with an elevated mind would | Will have a dance in Orchard Grove, allow the existence of one man who [Granitevilie, on 8 0 The dance take her ‘Joy riding,” but will be under the direction of acts “crazy,” to prevent her Heydort. from acepting the attentions of an- Smith of Tottenviile hae other with pleasing personality ant & vacation in the Adi- Kood conversational ability. She | rondac Would much prefer to pend @ day | stra Henry Kloss of Itichmond ‘ave- one who would Ve some iani- 1 Hichmond, is enjoy!n, va ing impress pon i nue, i ying Versation, An auto ride mizht be | Mit# oustass, Sutherland of Man- enjoyed at the toment, but she | hattan, was the quest of Mrs, would not be aatisted ‘with that Willa treetor, Hitingville, has re- alone; she would want to have added | turn something to her intelligence that | The Friday Afternoon Club of Tot- Pe ne eee i tenviile will meet at the home of Mra. spent, and we are sure that ‘Trafford to-morro' whe would ‘not derive uny benene | agit cratort in ot carina from an auto ride without any Meee ear aren | ronsible conversation. ‘There le no S the guest of the Misses Garrett | time for conversation during an [Of Stapleton, Mins Isabel O'Connor of Concord enjoy thelr reaxon governs thgir sense of Houlne Vilal of Stapleton is joymMent, and many™ such i t ka" Y often wonder whether the ordinary | TPtnding a two weekw’ vacation at man will ever come to hin sen Boao IR: ao . and appreciate the vaiue of much | ‘Khe Comanche Club of Weat New a wirl, and try to lghten her task ighton wil have an outing and clam- | Whon she seeks to hold an inieiile Jake at Senler's Park, Dongan Hills, Rent conversation with im. Let Jon Sept Those on the Committer Ae ene hat men wit earn to of Arr * ave: Charles’ Leeds, disregard the artificia; exterior 4 ‘ nt Prite! beauty which attracts the majority Rath ee aoe Y dtl of them to-day mon ain) Lock: soo, Thowas ; G, Smith, Witllam Wheeler, Alfred Swift [and Charles Veleer & MoTweR STATEN ISLAND NOTES. in the home of of Corona, Tn Arthur T. Walker of feturned from a vacation in the Gets- Kills, e b rn t y Hrigh> M to-mer- n aves | eturned hia. Holt of i, are cngland, torren: fn the with Kansas drought, bave not realised the distress tng conditions that prevail in many parte of thelr own State. Im Albany, Rensselaer and Columbia Counties expecially crop conditions are as 8 those reported from the euburned In all beon bad these counties th The stalks have grown to about one-half or two-thirda their natu ears have formed, storage in Even if raina should come now It 1 too late to save 4 who had p to carry and it ts being cut green depended upon the horses, cattle and hogs through the win- ter now face the necessity of buying \xrain at an almost prohibitive price tn order to keep thelr stock alive, With the burning up of the cornflelits han come a parching of the pastures, Many farmers who have taken to dairying in @ limited way asm side line may be poorly fattened, to th POTATOES MAY BE SELLING AT DROUGHT BLIGHTS A LARGE PORTION OF EMPIRE STATE —_— — Up; Vegetables. and Fruits Suffer, \ Peddlers—No Food for Their Live Stock. ‘The people of hway In her long ornfielia of the Mickile Weat. cornfields hia Naghted. ‘al helht, but no fiow for winter feeling, he fleids. Discouraged farm rnc A DOLLAR A. BUSHEL. who are working so bi » idle dream. dollar potatoes Is severe October frost. ing acrés and acres of bare trees it real delight to rida c the loada of beautiful ffuit, chard men will net a rich hary til prices ter, The section around Kast eight milen eastw, Bone rough thr of Hensnelaer reendush dof, Albany, known. have failed. thereabout have home gardens farmers having to bay Veretablex as lima gree dle muny miles from ‘more favored nec Here and there « potato pate losnum, but there will pay for (he potato needs, 18 EXHAUSTED. At Nasnau, a few miles further M Thomas of Manhattan is stopping In Annadale eats. | uses Man Mr und Mrs. 1. I Randolph of Great | Kills has return from Scott, Corte Somehod nest @ land County, N. ¥.. where they spent Tsays he it a eavpenter and lives at Milly She summer months, é | Heil Ne. Lia le wan bonniliica eit Mr dames evil 0° New Dorp ie ter food than ntati’athae sae WHICAE (CGR soending & two weeks vacation al [els | Yas is wait in Wik pocket and minaed |AMATe Waren Gan. reer his wallet taining $0. Me accused) Mt i PP AA he fa ey hre and reception at Pythtaw Mall, (he nan nearest hin of taking it, ant 48" Mee Bal Beene im at | nn feonped of the car, Meyer fol bead i bat Red ARG Hevnet Mice Mabel Brown ©) Pleasant Maina! ¥ has returned from a yacaton at Ocean The tue van ay Phird avenue oo! Gee | Fifty-eighty etreet, where he turne ' 1 rer Paarnigets faery (YE Policeman Mrayier, who Was st Llbaa mann Se AA 1 heay tuit curner, vrdered ty bblelotiber eA MT CSS ss] and ted # shot into the air Tae TCE Tinnapedtiatreat ma vowe ton " L e La alt | satan EE EY ete wit to frlends fn Cold Myring, N. ¥ RAFI: GANG ST De hl | Sis. David MeDonald of Kitingvile Lacie Meo8 hag ceturnad from a vielt to friends in| a plumb tysthree years! Mount Vernon | . of No. ii Bam ss Ath wtrest. | Rey Mr wnd Asthur He denied taking Meyer's waiter unt! potie Methodist Meyer aimitted thas he had uo reas.) amney yoad, To, to suspect the prisuner exces tity’ ie lero @ vacation Bae the TaKrEs IMie reridents of Annadale he | Was missed held on a larceny Revolt Closes Do SANTO DOMINGD, » Sepi. 1 mane tha f Puerto Plata the nort navigation he Dominican # poined a committeg to wait asuner John i. Bowe, of the De: ment of Wate: Supol, Gas and 7 nn) for the purpose o eis Lereasert Viktething fae ities hows New Vorb voles al | CHLOAGU, Sept see Pole man of New York last nigit won tus ational typewriting chumpionsiip, Sa¢ averaged 16 words per minute for thirty minutes, Mies Berste Lingita of Kan Repub ‘ty was second with ap aver Corn and Potato Crops Burnt GREAT LACK, OF, WATER. Farmers Buying Truck From New York City whose collars have been fladded, who have seen lowing in the streets nnd rivers who have sympathixed aummer forced to abandan their milk and butt business, well their cattle If they ea even at a sacrifice, to rend If members of the Housewives’ League vely to reduce the cost of living could drive through rections affected by the dry npell, they | would soon learn that the prospect of every hand the potato plante ‘have heen Durned to a deep hrown and atrippel of leaven an completely as though hit by a All along the roa@ways the orchards are bare of fruit. With the esception of the plateau’te the sout af Pubadans Landing and northwest of Kinderbous fhe orchards of these three eviintics are almont a complety failure After pase- er this platéad/ with |the treas almost breuking sown from conditions in other sections ard really pitiable, New Yorkers will not know how complete hax been the blight of crops un- farm producta go to an ex- trane high level during the coming win- County from two to dry summers, The Present seunon ls. the worss (he farmers Kven the Fancy such common potatoes, corn, beets and lettuce from ped: wagons after it hax been shipped i#. | the may is malt late day of « vield that WATER SUPPLY FOR DRINKING) én Ds’ For real strength there is no bet- ng Sept, 16 for Rotterdam Strength Does not come from exercise alone, but also from the food one and t salt aw where om Atbany as an eetubliabed vourd of health posted warnings against using water from the main for cook= ing or i, becwuee the regular Suppiy has been exhaueted and the Mare yow RUpplied by pumping from a little creek that maken ite shaliow way from Nassau Pond to Kinderhook poses, Nu! For to Lake drinking pur- mau hh depend upon its old wells. tn Kinderhook Lake, one the most beautiful in the State, the water le lower than can be recalled by the oldest residents of fe neixttbor hood. Fully one-third of ite area is bare ground. Soarcely a drop of water HAs Kone over. the pimturesque fails at Stuyvenant for two months. Hudson is almost in a pante over its water supply. Its storage reservoir in the mowntaing, eigbicen miles to the eastward, in so low that orders have been isqued against waste, and the use Of water for cleaning automodiles and other vehicles is prohibited. The au thorities are preparing to pump water from the Hudson River into the Hud fon ity maine, If you swing from Hutson dow: road to Hillsdale an’ on to Mille you find similar arid conditioner burned up, streams dry and ordinary country roads as dry and s«mooth as the State constructed highways. VILLAGE HAS TO DEPEND ON OVERFLOW OF A SPRING. Back wp through Chatham to Boston and Albany r and out Lebanon Springs, the drought han burned the flelda and orciarda At Labanon Springs the only water supply for the village is the overflow from the spring that has made it a health resort for a century—fashionable in the daya of Webater and Clay, but now fre quented by persons of little note. From Lebanon up the Tacon'c Valley, through valleys and mountaing #0 ple- tureaque that people living below the Harlem could hardy believe they were In New York State, the rocky beds of creeks are exposed, and moxt of them are dry. From Berlin around to Troy there are everywhere evidences of a sual need of rain. Wert of Albi fully Wemutitul 1 water In flowing in only two strems be- tween Albany and Kast Berne and th water tn them in # W that Httle can om Kast Berne m " crops the to aK) the wonder: one rides yont a Ifa) plateav, with thirty imilex of farm lands visible at all times. To the went the lands are green, some rain having fallen. But the eastern side of wih végetation burned up by the Merve raya of the sun, > TAKEN AS WHITE SLAVER OW-YOUNG GIRL’S CHARGE on Man Who Brought Maid to New York. uuntry he te av ice man, Was arrested last night at his lodging pluc Fifty-firwt atroot, by Detective Ditsh o the Fast Fifty-firet street police atation on @ charge of violating the tof dust ¥ the Federal Departo Hamuel Van Sader of bat J, nad to daughter months ago to work in « restiurant Asbury: Park.@There alte met Vorse, with him, Last father that V the streets, @ home. Van Sader Bacurday and found watch wan set for Vorne, Det ive Ditech id last night that Vorme had admitted paying the girl's © wanted her to go on 1 begged to he taken sme to New York the girl Then a tare ty New k, but denied her other charges, Ditech added that Vorse had }@ memorandum book which contained names und addresses of many women in New Jersey towne. mii WABHIN A new American |the Netherlands, said f ident Wilson yenterda and will wail on Bein 1 Many Addresses of Women Found] ‘Willlam Vorne, twenty-three, who says White Slave act, preferred by agents of | the Federal agents that his ja, wixteer, left her home two and two weeks later came to New York week she wrote her | | | | | the | to | Daasen BANDITS IN CROWD FELL BANK MESSENGER, ESCAPE WITH $1,460 Four Make Attack on Busy Street in Chicago, Then Speed Away in Auto. 1 CHICAGO, Sept IL—Four men ate tacked Warrington McAvoy, messengg? for the Garfleid Park State Savings Bank, in full view of hundreds of apes- tators on West Madison street to-day, knocked him down, selzed a valise com- taining $4,900 i9 cash and $10,000 worth r ke and escaped in a automobile, speeded west on Madison strent cond street and disappeared. They Torty+ HER WOMAN'S RIGHTS PLATFORM INCLUDES GOOD CIGAR SMOKE Miss Lowell, Sister of Har- vard’s President, Likes “the Weed” After Dinner. BOSTON, Sept. 1.—That Mies Amy Lowell, poetes ter of President Ab bott Lawrence Lowell of Harvard Unt- versity, made a regular habit of emox- tnx an after din of the Cunarder wert by on the .W from Laconia was the as her fellow passengess ch arrived yesterday mad Liverp No attempt for cigars Uvese passengers way. To newspaper men at the dock Miss Lowell adinitted that she was interested sufirage, though she denied any ppathy with the militants and ine that she supported them very “Miss i's age, @ matter dis ussion among her fellow ls understood to be about to wos conceal her penehant de by Mise Lowell, ry sisted *mildiy, of some forty-ty As ta “T themly r amoking, Mise Lowell sald: eleve that women have all the hts and duties of men If F chose to smoke on the vessel I don’t think it Was anybody else's business. The men were all smoking, aad uid be false to my theories tf I @@ no, merely to observe the con- ventions, m Grey Hairs never worry the woman who uses Hai She has none. Hay's Hair Health restores natural color to grey or faded hal. It promotes a natural, heal goa, free from dander well to Prem). | World Wants Work Wonders, -A breakfast dish of Gra Nuts and cream is the ing custom of a mighty OE Pac the valos oF eat ae partially Grape-Nuts is into strength for body anc the power to “do things. “There’s a Reason”’ ost redigested, uickly converted ly and brain— 4 cigar on the deck ©