The evening world. Newspaper, March 9, 1908, Page 12

To the Estitor of The Eve: ‘A reader asks abx ghances, & 5. 1 ih oft fm April an ; 8 ef October, : the worst part of the ye 4 | 70 the Fadltor of ) @heerfully say that I ne wer) |, WWar tm alt my iife than during my stay tn Published Dally Except Sunday by the Press Publishing Company, Nos, St s Park Row, New York POSEPTE PULITZER, Pre. 1 Bet Bid Street. J. ANGUS SEAR, See Trees 0 Wane 11 Sera Second-Class Mai) Matter. Post-Office at New York Evening | Fo A a2 One Year. 2 | One Month. «ee NO. 17,002. WHOM TO KISS AND WHEN. Saar SYRACUSE have asked a young girl of his con- tion for a kiss. His defense to the gossip that arose was that his act was intended as a friendly com- pliment, and that there was no rea- why a pas' chaste manner his congregation. It is a dangerous practice for any man, whether old or young, to kiss women of any age with whom he has tusiness or professional reia- tions. For a doctor to kiss his patients, or for a lawyer to kiss his female clients, or a dentist to mingle kisses and gold fillings, is bad for business. The men clienis and patients and the women who are not kissed are likely to take thei: Especially should clergymen refrain from kissing their parishioners and Sunday school teachers their pupils. Babies should not be kissed at all except by their mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters and grandmothers. Cousins and aunts and all other women should be kept away from babi The custom of promiscuous taby kissing is bad for the baby’s nervous sysem and health. Boys naturally refrain from kissing or being kissed. From baby- hood until manhood a boy's mother is the only woman he kisses volun- tarily. At children’s kissing games it is boys who are reluctant and the girls who are willing. Even in adult kissing it may be that, however coyly their inclinations are concealed, most kissing is of feminine invitation. clergyman is said to should r rls of iss young g' Kissing, except maternal and paternal, should not be in public. Few) men kiss in public. Few women do not. Especially women who hate each other seem to be most punctilious in kissing every time they meet Some women when they make calls kiss in greeting, when they go on a visit they kiss, after church they kiss in the vestibule. Railroad stations are filled with kissing women. | A wise man who lives at Palmyra and writes modern proverbs says! “there would be more happy households if there were less kissing at the Yailroad station and after church and more kisses at the fireside.” A girl is foolish who lets a man kiss her before they are engaged No matter how fond she is of him, the fonder she is the more careful she should be. Most men think that a girl who will let one man kiss her will permit the same favor to other men. Not the girls who have the most public attention or are the most liberal with their kisses, but the quiet gitl who has one string to her bow, gets the best provider for a husband. The kiss of respect should not De-on the lips, but on the hand, as fhe spresent King of England kissed “Mrs. Gladstone at the memorial ‘wervices over her husband. The best time to kiss is after ‘the marriage service—the longer gafter the more kisses. After ten or Wifteen years of matrimony kisses - o greatest smoothers out of old difficulties and the most i fective pacifiers of domestic Mrouble. An excess of kissing in “fhe prematrimonial days leads too often to a lack of sufficient kisses vafterward. The best woman for a man to kiss is his wife, the next best his-mother. It would be interesting to know whether the Syracuse clergyman is married and how many times a day he kisses his wife. Letters from the People. Havana, If ever I get an < go there again I s d, but go. My Praises Cartoon, tor of The Evening "World Hike to say a word of praise BMILY M. COLON, 410 New Rocholie, N.Y. Uptown Burglarten, Main About Cuba The Evening World Daily Magazine, Wine lelenepesy By Maurice Ketten. It’s Funny How a Man Comes Downtown With a Tape on His Finger and Goes Merrily Home Without Doing What His Wife Wanted Wer, | said mange yas We an gues duwntowi eo tor them. If & mand six pla as i dy t By Roy L. McCardell, | that he bh ta thing on ear u do list of a doze stu to mateh dress goods vu: kK ud itungle's “a ce of tape wud Mr, Jarr r Mr. Jarr thru shing as £ embarrassed was a lovely day Lovely day suid Mr, Hungie with tnendly pertinence, “1 asked you if you had a sure ding ‘ si our business," sald Mr, Jarr. 3 pou must know, its a wifey re a home, that dinner is not ne L for the other? dea 0 said Me. Jar ip YOu hard to track y self thare; f j to sob whic fortunat come home in the dark; 1k eee such opinions of the heart js, and pur heart nowhers the Wurzbu flows. ¥ “Onty when I'm in 1 company sald My, ngle. me, AL gypsy's warning and remove the badge of your bondage have you been forgetting?" fro: ser, the Mr. Ran “y've been forgetting nt of thing. ‘put e oareand speaking like a moral T xibry in itt my finger is to remind me to stop at the f 2 about some things of 4 r want to see the come when 1k willitiot my wife's.” he eage my Wife asks 1 “Something ot to do several day ” Nnaily your Mr nim with mock alarm, “Here,” he sald. ‘you're getting wife told you t! 1 forgot it this time she'd never ask you to do another] too goo © Kray hold of something solid to keep from going rigut | up to heaven,” “Precisely And then the 1 Mr, Jury entered his office he said to himsolt, sepa oul ff and tell your wife ¥¢ got wha: she put; “This rag Is sc ispiouous.” And he took It off. ent ho sen olirae, he camo home without remembering the errand, and Mrs. Jarr AanedeMogare vowed she'd never ask him to do and er thing for he LOVE'S YOUNG CREAM IN DARKTOWN. fhe By F. G. Long Juvenile Courtship + 18 You DIS GL upPTIOUS ) if ne DIS WAY. | | (You cerTNLY 917 | (Gir OUT OF HEAH, CHOLMONDELY=) ) LUBLY PUSSON- CHOL))| 9x) Go BACK TO DENA ea LY- ae, os INeerneee or CALs WD) WHAH WUZ You , |) WiC. ou SPENT D. y ‘4 | EVEN/NP=L NEVER WANT , \To SEE YOU NO MORE; (LAS NIGHTZ cde SIRS) ei j OM, SHUCKS,, — GLADYS, Tit BE) (AROUND 1 TOPOR ROW: aaa ew ce , , Marc h 9, 1908. | How Genius Eats, Drinks and Smokes A Remarkable Symposium by Iead- ing Men in Science, Art and Liter- atare, in France and England. # & ECSTVIVITVTEUYTTYTVTYTYVYTTTESSSTSTTOOUUTESDUUILL PIVIVOWIVYTULLSVECOOOOTHOULIVTUIHIU Englishmen’s Rules of Living. RYILLIAM 1. STEAD, editor of the London Review of Reviews, wrote to distinguished men of letters, sclence and art in Eng~ Jand who have attained great age, raquesting ‘a few jottings as to whet Ife has taught you as to the best regimen as to food, drink and tovaceo."” Among the replies he recelyed were the following: SIR TH DORE MARTIN, Scotchman, poet, philosopher and historian, born 1816, said: “From my youth I always ate sparingly ind required that it should be cooked carefully, but plainly. Rich dressings 1 aveided. Firsé, because 1 did not Jike them, and next. because they dis- greed with me. simplic and moderation were my rule. “As to wine and spirits, | never cared for them, and drank little of Ither—always m.xing my wine with a large proportion of water. For the st twenty years a glass of port wine, largely tempered with water, has Sed all my want A cop of coffee IT have always found the best orative from brain exhaustion “Of smoking I have a}l my life had ext > tke. We @aS REID eae seat life had an extreme dislike, and get out of SI WILLIAM HUGGINS, sc . flesh or fowl, SIR JOHN PM. P., politician born 1835, wrote: not be- quantity w older, roking, be with al k. Instead id writing down aout any subject, 1 put down ten per ~indulgent ine please ot a true Dislike Alcohol, Frenc. mon sid mixed with 1 consider nk and tr CAROLUS. hesides wat hands the most copie ) ’ 1 had rec CAMILLE FLAMMARION -I ha , Rainer k wate: nal use and champag and esteem ft onl | o ari purging when goo: never ¢ for ext taken a claret ana GREELET-SMUITH Writes About NIXOLA Women Aire the Saving Sex. oF CHICAGO grain operator who faile for $10,00 antl A Was later sent to the penitentiary for issuing fled tious re vis has just been sued for divorce. In ea- pesding her action the wife said 1 always ‘thougnt my husband was a millionaire and did not mean to be extravagant. The greatest mistake a man can make is to keep his wite in ignorance of his busi- hess affairs, Of course, n't, because he wants to her from unpleasantness, but it is not only a mis- but an insult to a woman's mentalliy.” tbt that the woman in this case ts right it she should have reached {t sooner. ng wife allows herself to te relegated to onsible amuser of her husband's leisure. If \f in it, the fault fs hers and not his; for a wife may define her own. position and be accepted by her husband for as much or as little as she wishes to him. If marriage is to have any meaning at all, It must be viewed as an intelligent partnership, and the wife who takes bitndly all the money her husband can give her, with no idea of whether gr not she Js living within his legitimate income, is almost as much to blame as he for any dishonesty to which he may tbe tempted. There are, to be sure, some feavher-brained creatures, pretty shuttlecocks In the game of life, who cannot apparently grasp the meaning and Imitations of money. If a man finds himself married to one of these he might just as well keep her in ignorance of this business as not, for telling her about it won't do him any good. But the average woman is naturally more economical than the average njan. She, has far more respect for money than a man, because she has always had less of her own, and has the habit of small economies, There are many people who, while they cannot be saving for themselves, can be almost penurfous for other people | Women who work for a living are apt to be extravagant. If a girl who makes $20 a week falls in love with a $25 hat, and she can figure that by doing |-without lunch for two ionths she can make up the excess price over what ste can afford to pay, she sets It. But a wife can seldom be extravagant entirely at her own expense. If she makes a reckless purchase, husband and children have to suffer from the subsequent necessary economy as much as she, Wives are generally conscientious in this matter, if they are given a chance, and the he doe she finds he: Chicago woman has sounded the right note in asking men to be frank with theta ] wives in thia respect. yurse = ind 1 do"