The evening world. Newspaper, September 25, 1901, Page 8

When Be Chary of Your Pictures. Dear Mra. Ayer Would you kindly let me know {f tt is proper for a lady to give a gentleman photo of herself, or must they be en- gaged? A gentleman friend would like my photo, and I thought it improper to give it, as he is only a friend. A. D. f 1a not good form for a girl to bestow her photographa on men friends. § ceptions are made very occastonally ‘a in the case of old school friends and playmates, but nothing cheapens a girl more than the indiscriminate gift of her picture. Acknowledging Wedding Gifts. Dear Gira, Ayer: Tam a young lady, and am to be mar- ried soon. I have received some beaut!- ful presents from a friend in a foreign country. I would like to write a letter of thanks. Please tell me what kind [ shall write. Also tell me $f it is proper to give my flance a band ring or if that is only a German custom. AN AMERICAN GIRL. HE simplest form 1s the best. Write an appreciative letter saying how surprised and delighted you were to recelve such a beautiful ex- prsscion of interest and affection or friendship. Say how much you shall always cherish the gifts, which are beautiful in themselves, but will have an added value coming to you from a friend whose regard you esteem so Mghly. Sentiments of this sort, ex: pressed !n your own language, would be appropriate. You should write ac- knowledging receipt of gifts tmmedi- ately. It is enUrely proper to sive your flance a plain gold ring. Questions That Perplex a Quintet. Dear Mrs Ayer: If a young lady should visit you at your home, and you took her to the car when she was going home, would it be correct to pay her fare? Also if you are alone on a car, and after riding a few blocks a lady friend geta on the car, Is {t proper to pay her fare after yours has been pald? LOUIS, EDWARD, MAURICE, UEL, MOE L. OUNG ladies are not supposed Y to visit gentlemen at their homes. If a gentleman as a mere act of courtesy escorts ‘a lady from his p: SAM- it How to Avoid Bad Breaks ; in the Best Society. : tng the atte hand him the la Tt ts bad for splcuous and bruta on to focuses the attention upon a woman, or exam 1 saw ductor by the arm ane a dollar bi 1 the fare with the green bird rowas delay Minutes, during which passenger stared at the poor girl the green bird in her Her b s and embarrassment were painful, On the occasion 1 to the young man doubtless thought he was doing the correct thing, but he wasn't Gentlemen do not pay car ladies except when ¢: ing White Flowers for the I Dear Mrs. Aver At an evening home kind of a bouquet does the bridesmald use and who provides it?) Also, at a wedding fs !t necessary for the bri: maid, who has an elbow-sleeved gown, WILLDA. gown Is white she should ‘arry a bouquet white flowers with maiden-hair ferns— Illes of the vall ehrysanthemums, pinks— any flowers the bride prefers, ‘The bridegroom sends the bridal bouquet to his flan nd usually provides the bridesmaid with flowers also. Tt would be in better form bridesmatd to wear gloves, Too Tri Dear stra Ayer A friend of mine went to Europe Which ts proper—for her to come to say good-by to me, or for me to ga to ay good-by to her? nM RUE friends do not. stand on | remony in such small matters It would be equally proper for you io go and wish your friend a eafe jour- ney, or for her to come to you to say ood-b Where one ts going away to remain a Jong time tt Is customary to rend PP. ©. cards, and if possible one makes an attempt to see near friends personally. In your doubtless your friend every ith fare for hem de, wedding what roses, for the inl for Argument. rents’ or a friend's house to a fs not necessary that he should her fare. It 1s proper enough for him to sive her the trouble of searching for a five- cent plece {f the conductor ts within easy reach, so that he can without call- ay s very and tt was ts sien for you to pay visits than for her to do Pollte manners mean gentleness, con- sideration and unselfishnens. It veems to me you are drawing a very fine and absurd Ine In the matter £ soclal cx fons and on a most unimportant point. THE EVENING WORLD'S LETTERS FROM THE PEOPLE. Bile on the Trail. Look Ont! ‘To the Editor of The Evening World I see that the Anarchists of Hoboken | have threatened Gov. Voorhees, While I am not so many, 1 would like to have you put a line in your paper, to let them know Bill Benton, from Arizona, is Hable to take a trip east with some forty-five callbres. They want to keep quiet, or some Anarchists will be sorry. BILL BENTON Hardacrabble, Col Who Got the Moneyt To the Eiltor of Tae Evesing World: Chief Devery and Commis! Murphy asked Policeman O'Neill tf he pald $25 for the three-platoon sys fund. Ils answer was no. Why de the District-Attorney ask some of t 7.00 pollcemen If they pad for ae three-platoon system, Now every | liceman on the force was taxed from $15 to $25, And where tn the $15,0% cho was raised for the three-platoon fund? Who got it? Commissioner Murphy and Chief Devery don't know about ff. It was paid, Who money? a Ida. ‘To the Esttor of The Evening Wor Findly let me know Mre. MeKiniey + Or3t name. DOMINICO SPINA. Protest Aga x To the HAltor of The E T protest inst collar th: now wear, If a woman is old and scrawny neck, let her hide ness in a high collar, Othe her wear the soft ruMe, or dress that exposes beautiful throat. In any case, down collar! ’ AUTY Conductors In ‘Too ig n Murry. To the Editor of The 1 I vigorously protest a the mane ner in which conductors of the Metros politan Street Railway Company are actin, Tt is Just out They are always in a hurry, "caring very Mttle, tt seems, for the lives of those who ure about to get into and 4, women (apeing men as usail) | out of the curs. T venture to say that | nine-tenths of the accidents of te company are due solely to the careless ness on the part of the conductor Many a time have [ observed an old man or woman getting of a car, and they have H ar give ngers are injured to @ greater or less extent. Isn't life as the condu ot the conductors wait until thelr Ss are off the cars? HERMAN BERNS, 410 East nt purth str Ideal ‘Time for Vacation. Ty the Editor of The Evening Wo Why will persist in al cations during che lng sum ne must be hot and uncom any why not while at work ad of Wastin in discomf Dis the stou-brieg m Sept 1 tb time for vacation, D Weeks off at that » frtond. And let from uofor the the country is che nol su wi NY hen WOM ERD } Mrown 7 Jen fu tre some the rules Bronx Zoo staurant to look it eating arn mur back ot mind mark: jenious ly; {Tuke care not tw eat t mou an fawn tar yaur of READY TO SLASH. ROLPWICH barber wa {whine Lathering a cus tng volubly, as usual FRADRIGAL. 4 D you rores—red, Nke love, J I And white, like death, sweet friend; Born in your boca; to rejotce, Languish, and pine, and end, If the white roses tell of death, Let the red roses mend The talk with true stories of love Unchanging to the end. Red and white roses, love and death— What else ts left to send? For what !s Ife but love, means, And death, dear heart, the end? —W. E. Henley, in North Amer- Ican Review, the TREE EEE EERE ae BORROWED FINERY AYT 16 the practice of London West End to specially good custom- them, Ruano ads “Yee, ale td, “there's es allowed by auremployer, 1 Pe eut a customer's fu ie And If we make ant London Answ THE ‘WORLD: WEDNE: VOLUME 42. Publislied by the No. 63 to 63 PARK ROW, > FE are making our pockets Into 7 | of mic Our hand. service favor. g iss Rocks, | love you! * mirer! » the tree there.” HIS OPPORTUNITY. Jim—Prove it! Jack—How can I? Jim—Jump overbor man ting sh eal believe you are a man! “ ‘ou | gin boardie* immediately? tickets Which 1 must eat up first. s Publishing Company, few York. ~ DANGERS IN TH ests no removing 92 1, and if that will Mr. Titts—No; I have some meal same, pe other Laps, who usually have Is previously tkerchlefs, re pocket 1 who may be 1 DAY EVENING, SEPTEM a oes lags - Mail Matter. Entered at’ the Post-OMce at New’ York as ° Seconds riches; at a single nong the Lh seem ecessary, ced by Into an when it Is nd it offered need by the most careful who are te most read HE POCKET HANDKERCHI ily disgusted, by the m and the most fashionable, Have you though what a bacterlologist would, tlon, say to it? ‘This handkerchlef, whieh 18 supposed to. be . whl soll hands 2 tt. Your pockets are where, In a molat environment, s collect it ts not ful that the origin of diseases is times dificult to trace, + forms of remedy present them-/ A smal bag easily carried and ra similar pocket, tinpermeable and xusceptlole of being disinfected with: the out Inconventence, Indla rubber is the 2803, most Clean purpo: ined A sired a ber for a day" 5 hers’ handkerchlets wei many-colored Hednoee l weeks Int annie Our fa and used by ure tirown out handkerchiefs be kept inthe of Th Ina 4 sh cloths that So the Japanese them and of us. "They carry little handkerchiefs, which are made at home after used, come once. Still, EF. Intelligent could be fastened by buttons or some rr device and removed for disinfec- pocke: nd ths gation for hosts of dis- an turn the lat : al material. The pocket dainty Japanese. auRiy on the small dried ALLI ide of Life. 1, Black—Checks, ol man, T have asked you here to do me a great Will you don this bear skin and 5 are Miss Rocks, so I may rush Tam Checks—Checks, your devoted ad- I adopted this disguise to guard you from that low character by SEASONABLE SPORT. TO YY Mf i ap ~ TO HELP HIM OUT. 2. Checks—Sure! Gr- 4. “Thanks, dearest. will merely pulverize him. entenntal year, 1875, there |" the fall of the went to noridge a youth Aged elghteon, Theodore Rooseve who had bee! home of ree mfortable wealth tn th Anement city of Ne He had by nt ught by hin parents to disdain w life of tdleness, and he fia learned the lesson well. He pitched Into college work with just such earnestness and enthuslism then as he has since exhibited when a Civil- Service Commissioner, a Pollee Com- He himself has sald people less well Known] sickly boy, | made my health what ttjhas sinc t of the value of taelis, I determined to be strong and well| through field and forest. <i temteen,, Gnd did cverything to make myself #o,! His rifle and hunting kit, the skins Hy the time T « I wax able to tke my sports { Uked, 1 wrestled and and ran a great deal white wid, though L aever nore Rood OUL of th who did, it and n fond « 1 was | though, jena won my t in cou erciwe (han because er tn, wrestling and boxing. 1 Jon! of a wrestler, tell yet A good ax 1 nip, ey me Dn y othan of "f° dowellers to loan magnificent taras| missioner, an Assistant Secretary of the tinal round." and/other articles of jewelry for spe-| Navy, an author, u soldier or the Goy-; , Wh ‘These things are loaned] ernor of the Empire State of the nation. | had a! the eady developed art in whatever sparred me in frst, Tg sely enjoyed 1 was very hink and I never won a i ul heats andfgot {nto t Mr. Roosevelt entered college he | and m: taste for 1 was a slender, ; hunting and for natural history which led him so often and so far Harvard College and trophies of tho chase, were the most | In a mere matter of opinion or of dogma His | conspleuous things in birds he mounted himself, and insects: we nls room Live turtles ways to be found in his study, and one who Ived in the house with him at the time recalls well the exeltement caused by a particularly large turtle, sent by a friend from the Southern seas, which got out of Sts box one night and started toward the bath- reom in search of water. \ In tis studies young Roosevelt’ was *|looked upon—so one of his classmates [expresses {t—"as pecullarly earnest in the way he took hold of things." Both his fellows and his teachers say he was much above the average as a student. He was just as original, just as re- ant on ls own Judgment as bets now, his own convictions, paratlvely subject being natural history, kept « horse and cart, the latter one of tho extremely high ones that were in vogue at that time. most every afternoon. Practise horseback riding to any extent, In the soclety of Boston he was an often seen figure. n instructor's vonviction, and id no respect for above tls own Ing. with smiles ns with teachers In which he olved by his habit of defending «At graduation he was one of the com: few who took honors, his During his whole college course he In this he drove al- He did not then Mr. Roosevelt's membership ‘in. clubs} contests h a regular feature of the Har contesta in that day he wae unt ner of many He had his share In college Journalism, During Mis senior year he was one of the editors of the nell Hart, And now If that loafer dares to address you! f Let us wander on!” Looping thé loop. NOT INHERITED. é Visitor—What a fine protuberant forehead your baby has! get it from his father? Fond Mo*her—%o; he got it from 2 a fall downstairs. O82 BLEIC ES the kind of college man he was. baseball and fooathall he several of his contemporaries {n cotlege {earnest champion, but never a proml-|resume co me very strenuous ent partielpant. In the other athletle|and Princeton. There is nothing about 1. Uoxlng was, it Waa often ge: sally © bout. Advocate, Professor and led, was the wine! and ple eeiak ik vatennenures 3 2 2 » > b 4 ® > Did he $ 3 wt PRESIDENT ROOSEVELT'S STRENUOUS STUDENT DAYS AT HARVARD COLLEGE. other than social shows conspicuously In row- was an dd A. AL ‘edd: Albert Bush- of American His- tory in the college, was editor-in-chlef. Unilke the other editors, Mr, Roosevelt Was not himself a frequent contributor. The files reveal but one article signea by him. “In fact, it 1s slgned -by ‘the single initial “R., size not less te and used oniy for the handkerch.efs should be Protective case If de- tent in num- for vast pockets before being © ahead of aper ‘xtures, books, fv. PY pletéd, he walked acrosa the street to a rival-oMfee. ‘Taylor, the owner, had in- vested pretty heavily In real estate and would Itkely “remain, as there was no prospect of his dispoaing of It for some years. He could sell his plunder to him; if not, why he would take it with him. | Taylor was looking ‘over the last leaue of the Archer Star, a copy he had taken| came and went on her cheeks. Then she fresh from the preas, strictly against the| looked up sweetly and said rules of the office, only ten minutes be-] “I'm sure, Mr. Marberry, I'm not dias fo eres : pleased." Well, I guess, the worst has hap-| Not a single client dropped in to intere pened." he began, looking up from the] rupt the conversation that followed, 7 paper and motioning Marberry Mut then, {f there had % cients fa sete Snsverdanoessasnonesonnessesecnns$ses ss 1008s SETS Stes ivewrvey: A Legal Affair. | f BY GUY-A.-JAMIEIG ose (Copyright, 1601, by Dally Story Publiaitng Ce.) HE Ilttle sign creaked monotonously T as itswayed back and forth in the wind. The sign in question in- formed the public, or would have, had thete ben a public, that John D. Mar- berry wan an attorney and real estate arent, and that he had a choice lot of renidence, buviness, farm and ranch property for sale or rent on easy terms. | Miss Ola sat down. ‘The truth is, the town of Archer wan| “I desire you to know, for sale or rent on casy terms; and the |continued hesitatingly. few familles who had not already left} you.” for a less droughty country remained from necessity more than chvice. John D. Marberry was thinking serl- ously of selling and moving back East. He had made a bad venture, he had been Jieappointed, he was heartily tired of the dry monotony of. things. The Weat held but one attraction for him— and but for sald attraction this story} would not Irave been written. Ife had met Mies Ola Mann, and that meant thar he had fallen unfer the spell of her charming personality. Miss Ola was the daughter of a rich old rancher who numbered his acres and cattle by the, thouranida. i But. now, his mind was made up. He Jerked hin chair to the desk ani began to prepare an Inventory of his office The work com- v 1 @ esi pded ¢ 3 cealing !t. She was the same fresh, sen= sible, charming Miss Ola. “I have something ‘to say to you, Miss Ola,” he began, stepping nearers omething I would have sald before this had {t not been for certain clre cumstances and which, but for certain other ctrcumstances, I would net aay. now. Miss Ola's cyex wero on the floor, rosem to a ; Archer it would Just as it did. A few months later there was a quie® chatr. c ‘ not ha What ts it?" asked Marberry. “Yann has made'an assignment.” © happened “Can't be true. e Z wedding out at Mann's ranch. Tooly, phat’s what the paper say of the Star, was best man. ‘Taylor cons . John D. Marberry, walked acros«:the | gratulated his rival heartily. Marberry, street with a mew buoyancy tn his atep. |—well, Marberry happy. ‘A buggy rolled up to tis door, He! Archer ix no longer a deserted village, looked up, aurprised at the interrup- but a thriving Western metropolis. ‘The tion. Mien Ola greeted him. cordial He hastened out to arsiet her from th \ereaking sign that flapped above Mare perry’s office hus long since ceased to bugsy. If her. father's financial em- Marberry occu elegant rooms” barrasement welghed heavily on her | above Mann & Marberry’s bank. Those. mind rhe was successful, In in con- | Wao write to him use the pretix “Hon. CONFECTIONS OF FRUIT RINDS. IIE rimds of frult, especially those lrepeat rss for three days, straining ow of the mélons, seem rather Impos- {ine spices before the Iast boiling. sihle in’ the wily of dainties 1% one Pare the rind ang} has, not eijoyed the bounty of grand-|} Watermeton fcutinto finger! _ mother's preserve olovet.. Some frugal Pickle. lengths about an} {but ambitfous housewife, who found |) UU Binch in width, slo ithe Ithe kettle witi-cold water, place on the that sie could not ontuin’her usual sup- ply of cllron for preserving, put on her thipking cap, and the result waa that from the apparentiy useless rind of tie | melons she produced a very delightful ing off ali the red part. Make a atrong\ \- ~ to cover the rinds and I¢t) In the morming di AI 3 put Into a preserving ket ne prin * cover with fresh w and boll gene \ subetiiute for the eftroa, and with very juiy until clear; then drain again and put little expenditure of money, at the same |inem inta Jara. For each gallon of the time having a more digest than ¢ Io patrince nds all w four cups of sugar and tro e citron, which Ls objected to! cupy of vinegar, ‘Take whole cloves and ¢ It I¢ not ldered very whole-j stick cinnamon, using tw as muth The -proserves,, with thelr rieh tefanamon as tle up In little bags. syrup, @re nice rerved with dolled rice | and voll in the ayrtl pour the @yrup and cereais, and the apteler prepara-lover the pickles and cover closely. tlons give relish’ to many cold m ——____ Oe Preserved Watermeto Leer eoeeess PANESE FOLKLORE, oa take a Ught out on a enowy right you will meet with a dig _ demon behind a tree, ¥ Christen your child with a name that begin with and {t will become Kane= cht (rich); Ke, Kechinbo (misery; Ku, Kurceio (a person aw: troubled about other people's concerns); and 8, gc Bhohosho (a person of hasty temper). Evil ts he who has sunken ey eK, After the red part of the melon has ce resoeeetse off ‘Wie outside rihd, removing every; part of the green; cut rind Into pleces two inches long, clgh and throw into cold water; then rain and measure, and add to every two gallons a,heaning spoonful of salt: let stand itt wait dissolves, then fll rpnee, whete the water will slowly | If you sneeze some one Je backbiting cothe to bofling point, having the rinds pyou. covered with aching plate ta kéep them = If you play peeping Tom your eyes under the water! Cook genfly until you | will become weak. can pleree them with a. straw, th if you cut bamt on a moonlight drain thoroughly from rhe water « I find a snake in the hollow cooking. Brulsy four ounces of ginger ida So root and tie In a bag, and throw {t in UST PLAIN DOG. three pints of watery add: three: or four 2 slices of lemon and cook unt!l-the water ITTLE Dorche airl was out Js strongly flavored; take out the glnger the othe» day with @ 9 root and lemon; then. put in the sugar, puppy that had been allowing three-quarters of a pound of a nelghbor. A lady's \at- sugar to each poutid.of rind; atir the | tation having teen attracted by the sugar and water until clear; then add nine pet, she inquired the rind and simmer for three-quarters HEHEUTR Om NCI ete obey Ov ofan hour, Tt may be nescssary to add Mesinmibecnitoles ene (ar ee antics of the of tts tained it. asked, “Do you know his breed ai 4) 81 coll more water to the sugar for the syrup, Jan As you must have enough to comple Iy cover the fruft. If you want the rinds crisp, add a teaspoonful of powdered alum with the salt to the alum Is objectionable, hasn't any breed: he's Just a dog, tiads, but n nd | Might you wi Pluce In syrup propared While rinds are | of It, between the third and fourth Joints, S0%. oS OR HOME DRESSMAKERS. * The Evening World’s Daily Fashion. Hint. Prepare the melon asin above recipe; ateep in cold water, salt and vinegar twenty-four hours, having the brine of medium atrength; drain and make syrup as for preserving, adding whole cloves, stick cinnamon, ginger ‘and “lemond rind sufficient to give a desired flavor. Let the syrup bell up well and then coo! be- fore pouring it over the rinds: until the néxt day, then graduatty heat to boiling and pour over the rinds again; eet To cut thia three-plece skirt, lengths ened by graduated circular tounce, medium size § urds 2 inches wide, 63-4 yards 27 Inches wide, 51-2 yards 44 tlons of the other editors Identity It ax Mr. i ball Rooasevel It {x t Other Colleges," entitled, “Foot- It Is merely 2 football conditions at Yale King either in style or matter, who knew “Mr. Roosevelt: in- his dys xpeuk of him as dashing Uresque In his ways and hand: pome apnearance, The: photograph taken at graduation and now highly treagured by many of his classmates bears out the whiskers, Altiough he was near-alghted and wore glagsex at the time they do : hot appear in the photogniph, Nelther| inches wide or 45-8 yards 60 incnee {sthere uny appearance of prominent| wide will be required, teeth, which caricaturists play upon sol The pattern (No. 3,93 mercilessly, “Maturity "and sobriety are {will be sént for 10 cent ‘the most’ evident: churactéristics of the’ Send money to “Cashier, The Worl@ Solmtenance. hipsay oes _.. 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