The evening world. Newspaper, October 2, 1900, Page 6

-~ : Company, 63 wo 61 PARK ROW, New Yor Botered at the Port Ofer at New York a8 Beeond:Ciane Mall Ma Pudlished by the Press Pui =— — TUESDAY, OCTOBER 2, 1900, sy teaneees NO, 14,287 AAR RA Hebe bb deb bode $ MAKE IT EASIER FOR THEM? it “r Why should Devery's blue-cont- ed disciples be obliged to sleep in engine-housey while on duty, as Policeman Kehoe did when , Charles S, Peck was being mur- dered? Why not supply cots for » them on post? THE EVENING WORLD'S DAILY FORUM. ARE AMERICAN WOMEN UNGRATE- FUL ? Ry CARRIE CHAPMAN CATT, President American Women's § urago Union Ab Rnglichnan recently returned from a our of ihe Atate theists hat American women do dot app their adva ‘They are Alatinetly ungrateful, he ways at would contre a Gerinan inal rortie a tinal an Amerion YT at all, Undoubtedly ie many women who Impone there upon thelr husbands, as the are many men who impose pon thelr wives, but the mo tive te not ingratitude, Such wetions indulged ino by men y Women represent nothing more or less than amity gated selfishness, That women in America have more freédom individual privileges and higher recognition of thelr merits than in foreign countries th a well-known fet, What may seem like Ingratitude in American women who enjoy thie enlarged Hberty is not ingratitude ao mueh As mere Jndifforenes, Who ever hoard of any one who folt gratitude for the enjoyment of that which more Juation? Men and are rarely grateful for the Opportunity of receiving an edieation, although their aneostors enjoyed no such advantages things come to the present generation under t definition of rights and are received as aueh, In this sense women may be ungrateful, They accept) the privilowe of work and of pay for it at good ft ures; they women jeoept the right to own property, to} Attend college, to organize public enterprises, to speak in public, and a thousand and one other privileges, but they aecept there advantages with no feeling of gratitude or ingratitude They do|!* hot think about them at all, ‘They are rights whieh they hold to be jnatienabte, them aa they accept God's pure alr and right of every individual The Kngiieh gentloman who 14 so grieved at the Uberties permitted to American women in evi- | dently a man who has lived In some remote quar ter of the world under the conditions which pre vailed fifty years ago. One could well imagine him to be a very old gentleman. In his marriage ceremony the word evidently figured con epicuously, and in his domestte Ife it has been an} ever-present condition He still holds to the view Once universal, that men compose soctety and the women are their attendants | But the new pusosophy, largely adopted by| America, is that men and women together make wociety, They both love, cherish and co-operate with each other; there is neither master nor ser- vant, they accept the free gift obey HARRIET HUBBARD © AYER © ANSWERS © TO-DAY @ THE » QUESTIONS | Am Impotiite Lower, Dear Mie Ayer There |x © young man who jives in ¢he same town with me whom f think # great deal of, and | know he thinks a great deal of me, for he has often told me 80, He has a lovely position and ts a perfect gentl man tn every way, SU! both my people object to his Calling on me, My father bationte an my mot and T know if ny mother would give in my father certaluly would, Bo Kindly give me some ad Vice, as we love each other dearly PUZZLED OUT lover has not been politic, He should have ade a friend of your mother. Tt Is never too te, however. He should be especialy devoted And wgreeadlo to your mother, showing her every re Apect and consideration ere isn't one woman out of a thousand who can resist, particularly tf the young man is all you claim. fant aw ‘Tonto tor ache, Dear Mire. Ayer You are a very good physician for wounded hearts, | ble, but it Is obvious that the young lady cares jens and as My heart needs some soothing tonic I thought| for you than whe does for your station tn life, or for 1d teek your advice, About two years ago I had the| the one she desires to occupy Pleasure of getting acquainted with a young lady, her| you will accept her decision in the matter and trouble _ ame then being sixteen and mine twenty, ee of time I grow very font of the young lady, | world, 1 notice that the consus shows that there are my affections, Through some change} a good many thowsaud more of our sex than yours, Of mine loat my position about four] Don't bo discouraged, but try again. Be very certain In the belongs to him by every principle of right : PORT HPO THE FIDDLER AND THE FLY — fo 1, i ( A maiden dear, who sat quite near, | His phis then got into a Herr Violin waa Angering ee ee oe NATURAL HISTORY. OO tate otee-tnes WANTED IT STRAIGHT, Do you know what thoae are, Lem Lifefaver Give him some wh! Old Boak Oweakt Pr they're brtekibate ere eee rey pkey Roll me over and Ket av eee ee the water out ¢ ve wt yesterday for the Smithers and tn MOON. fret time tn thireen years. it was doutet y at our ool a i Poe ee HAR, A woman haw a right to at Interemting meeting, no Wd stories went off aw new hange her mined ‘Of course; but the average woman Is niwiye bent on Nanging other people's minds rr Pee eee. Misi AND GHEE OM foveronme alwayn ini ue tee tender hear # they ewny Pepe statty round aut by foreet organn day by day ee when Pe Ted whe get your bill You. | directed tt to her husband and marked It personal! * ey NOT THE SAME MAN Haw sim anged much since he War here yoars amo De you think the moon has any ywer of attraction?’ Oh, yer) hee wot three new Jokes Tt drew @ proposal out of Jack last night re ee eS THIS 1S THE “TARASQUE." tire th made from a the SAID BY THE pho whi mid one Httle scarlet annually In! by yf FOW awfully reed ¢ Bt Martha, in Pray | ait) to another, “'y K the feet wand it takes elehe ple from the basket tas the great parade ait feast igmeat Ap. The antnal ie abi I wan going vr ten ine rey It Mey have er wileh oper to takeit myself MONIN RNG WARS HANI marek along. 191% ¢ @estty, what in the marier with the baby, o W Blin? asked a viniion ofa little itt who | , Aero wan trying to quiet the # infant | ® “T don't know,” replied Bain 1 expect he | : ie tuning. é Penne ® eating up the stray ehildren in ‘ therefore ed herself with a ft holy water and pro to hin cave Throwing some of the holy water on hie head, he besame tam Hately, ang she marched him into the town of Tariscon, with her Jeirdio around hie neck, so the belleved in |Chelatiantty and embraced the fatt - ~~ s THE BEAUTY PATCH AGAIN, , 41fF beauty patch ie in vogue again, andin Parte T every second girl one meete has a ttt of black the merriment of all the children, and sometimes to planter at the corner of her mouth, just under their fear the temple or ear, #tuck at one ede of the dimpled {ehin or enhancing the pink glow of the chek. In the It 1s supponed to represent th eo SS ey viotnity. she! SMART GIRL KNOWN BY HER WALK serra on one white shoulder and [Of the Atchison (Kan.) Globe says ‘no man ever loved Hig agonee you'll plainly see Kenot, And soraping with bis bow Hin actions watched ful) well | His nose then aéemed jn pain; If both your hands you tle, Twixt bow and string and fingering sald she, “to even me, i How music's phase the features ri And how tt if om your nose No hand could he let #0 His face emotions tell.” To friends the @irl made plain. Is perched @ tickling fy. Sore HIS CAPITAL, 4] 4 Mr. Blinks, [think you ke a lovely comedian He — You flattah me But do you fapoy I really have talent? fBhe-Oh, I don't know about that, but you have auch a funny face! of me first DEMERITS OF BJONES, ly Muggins—Bjones has extremely loud tante In drossing. Bugeins—Not a marker to the loud taste he displays in eating a bowl of soup DAY TOASTS, Blobbs How did you enjoy yourself at the Prohibition banquet last night? Slobbe-Not at all, Every time there wan @ (oan, instead of drinking ate CASE IN POINT, Bho "Talked a hole through an tron pot! What an absurd expression! He-Oh, I don't know. 1 know a man that swore his way into a steel jail oe corer creas THR WAY THINGS ACT, When a door aticka at the bottom, And that trick you swiftly stop, That ame old door forthwith will take To sticking at the top, ie PEREAVED BUT HOPPFUL, Sweet Summer's fled, bul, Ike as not, Well come to othera just as hot LITTLE ONES. AMMA-Loow here, Tommy, here is a nice M pudding WH! you promise to be a good boy to-day if TP atve you some of it? Tonimy (eautiousiy> What kind of pudding ts Mt, mamma 1) FP OLINNTE aatd the Punday-echool teacher, ewhat In a centurion? ‘ Ho'n a foller what rider a hundred miles ona Wike,”” promptly answered Johnnie OU can dint nauish the amart girl by her walk Yiwe you never seen a woman who stands with ine hip higher than the other? Buch women wall like jointed dolla; first one hip goes up and then goen Jown-a regular seesaw movement of the body from the hips down, The smart git) always keope her body in the centre, and the line from the forehead rune down as though tt were a plumb line. The upper part of her body goes first, never the lower, se Love and Laziness, Love to \umuriate requir sure. The philosopher |a woman while he was busy,” — Pneumatic Rocking-Chair, A pneumatic rocking chair has just been patented The air cushions attached to the rockers are very original “taraaque’ which lived In a cave near Tarascon, which ia in the | (vente the pat department of the Mouth of the Rhone, France, | # nermitted to take tf many forme Tt may be @hortly after the death of our Saviour Bt. Mart sineular, ottong, heart-shaped, a star, a flowor or even sailed from the Holy I to convert the Gauls at] ® Mmp inte Punch the mouth of the Rhone. She was told by them that Viennaa Lanterns they would embrace Christianity it she could either! As tate as the fifteenth century Vienna had no tame or Kill the voracious "tarneque Whlet had been [treet lamps, and every wayfirer carried his lantern, months after our fivet meeting, Ax 1 am obtiged toy of one thing, the woman who really loves you will not Nasist iy parents Thad to accept a position as streot | be deterred from becoming your wife by the nature of var conductor, which Tam holding ever since, About| your employment so long aa it Is decont and gives you three months ago | called upon her and proposed to! a tiving tneonte Her, She answered ie she would never marry a rall Fond man, | tried to rearon with her, but withoul AUC! goatens Mom Are Not f anda, Cone, Lan ever ainve downhcarted and care for othe | pear ire. Ayer {ne aa 1 loved her and honored her ae well, 1 wrote! | am a young Indy of seventeen years of age and her A letter, oneo moro anking for her love, Her ans | am yeoping company with a gentioman whom 1 dearly swer was ae follows: "Dear (torge-1 wish you would | Jove and who is one year my senior, My parents 40 Hot butter me with your, letters, ne they make Me! ant eare for him and also object to my talking to hie feel bad) and. furthermor Will not Ao you Any) and when I am asked to any place of amusement ere And on the bottom of the letter she avrote:! ih nim they very often refuse to let me go, Mile Jopling that you will not be offented. | remain your®, | at times enrages him, He has shown by hie actions as ever.” It is the closing of her letter 1am asking what he thinks of me, haw often ed tite love, ar’ also spoken about plans tn the future, Now, my porante nay it is a girlish fancy, but it is not, Noor Mrs. Ayer, Lam a constant reader of your HB expression "Yours as ever’ ts one that ts | a'vice to young girls in almost the same position as frequently umed thoughtiows!y and without actual] F#m, and now ask you to give your advice in my [ meaning, Tam very sorry for you In your trou. | 1 almost forgot to state that the gentleman is wory Jealous of me and has often called me to aecount te my doings. MAY V. W ARENTS usually understand their children better than the latter think, and it Is not possible your mother and father should desire anything but your happiness, The very fact that the gentleman is Jealous argues badly for the future, Jealous husbands rarely make thelr wives happy. your advice for, In the first part courages me, aud at the end she encourages HEARTRROKEN GEORGE f her } r eho dla | W you take my advice her no more, There are plenty of nice girlie in the similar to ordinary cycle tires, ‘This young man should defer to your parents’ wishes unless he can prove that they have been unjust in thelr estimate of him, He has no right to ask you for your constunt society unless he intends to marry you ana te In @ position to maintain you tn comfort, and can prove to your parents that he ts worthy of their esteem and respect lone Girl, A Cay Dwar Mie Ayer Tam in love with a young girl who keap@ no steady company, TU called to see her the inst two Sundays And always found her with another young man, She States to me she doesn't care for him. I have asked her out twiee, and she states sho doesn't know what to do; that the other young man Is #0 jealous, Would you think It wise on my part towask her for steady company or not? Whenever | come to see her her folka are always pleasant, but when IT want to #0) home (hey always detain me, saying | have plenty of Ree When leaving they always invite me to cail again, ane especially, Kindly give me your advice whether I should put her out of my mind altogether or not, LOVER GEORGE, HB young indy can decide the matter very shortly, She must either care for you or the other young man, he should make up her mind and have the courage of & true woman and give her decision, pn anennennnnemmncncnrmnmncmcnnay | THE WORLD: TUESDAY EVENING, OCTOBER 2, 1900, hen These You Scan You'll Quickly Lose, 3» J» WwW "i » y se In Laughter, Every Trace of Blues pen nce eee nen ween nee ee ee ee nn ns eet een eweeoe PIRST BE TRUB 10 THE OLD LOVE, (Copyrtant, 1900, by the Prem ‘om , @irliah opiate te ome from Constance. She be- ying her = letter with; Please lleten to my tale of woe,” and goes on to ‘Lam a girl of twenty am engage! to @ way T met recently a young millionaire who has bestowed Upon me slight attentions, such as sending Mowers and escorting me to places of amusement, during my lover's absence. The result sa misunderstanding be tween my lover and me. [ await anxiously your judg ment of the case, Have I done wrong or not? Our engagement {s not as yet announced.’ Tt is neither wise nor best, my dear, for a young irl who is betrothed to aceept the escort of other wentlemen to places of amusement, even though her lover Is Unable to accompany her, You were certainly Indiscreet, but from your letter I gather that you had no intention of captivating the golden stranger, Tell your lover this, and assure him that you have no wish to encourage the attentions of the young man of whom he feels reasonably Jealous, You should have also discouraged the presentation of flowers from the stranger by mentioning the ab: sence of your betrothed lover. To speak plainly, your betrothed has every reason for grave apprehension as to the constancy of the air) during the long after years if she takes advan: tage of his absence to Indulge in the soctety of a handsome stranger whom chance sands across her path, You are supposed to have made your choles, my dear, and are not only willing but pleased to abide by it Do not put too much faith in the young stranger's being amitten with you, You can never feel sure of tat Unless & man asks you to he his wife, It is the custom of many of these golden youtha to pay atten tion to every young girl who crosses their path, They make her presente, and when it suits them to hie thomselves to partures new they wmile and ride away. Nttle reeking how much damage they leave behind them, Ho true to the young lover who has proven his love for you; make up with him, marry him. And let {t be sald of you both, in reviewing your lives tn after years, from the moment you turned from the altar with him: ‘And they lived happily ever afterward.’ LAURA JEAN LIBBEY Laura Joan Libbey writes tor The Evening World by arrange: ment with the Family Story Paper } WHAT ON® WOMAN THINKS. | eee a HE bachelors views on the beat way to man- age a wife are usually very funny. It 1s & good plan to belleve nothing to the prejudice of others unt!) you are obliged to. You can tell more about a woman's taste from the oharacter of her petticoats than the kind of gown she weart ee an NOVELTY IN WRAPS. For Winter nearly afl the wraps are made so that they may be worn elther tightly fastened or turned Jauntily back Thin unofil long cape, which is shown open, is of smooth finish black cloth, Outelde the distinguished vad been back In Lindene thorpe for a week, and for a week LAndenthorpe had been shocked It was on Bunday that (he shock ‘To begin with, several minutes after service had ber 188 BETTY MAYNE of shocks ocourred. sun Miss Betty Mayne walked in-—almost etrolled In~ as cool as w cucumber, and clad in the mos! outrage ously fine dress, and stood in the entrance (instead of modestly finding hersef a seat) poking away at the stones with @ green parasol, until Mr. Attenborough, who was a church warden—the youngest church wares den lAndenthorpe had had—rose in his Sunday beat to show her to @ pla People were more disgusted than surprised when Miss Mayne, after fanning herself ostentatiously for some tine, rose and atalked out of church by the frent * door Such behavior was to be expected from a Minx. It was what followed that left Lindenthorpe realgned to anything short of an earthquake, Mise Mayne wandered down toward the beach in w pengive mood and took ® seat on @ bit of sandstone. She was a pretty sight in blue and gold, whatever Miss Orisgs's opinion might be. A churoh warden le at liberty to differ trom a Bun- day-schoo! mistress on a question ike this, and Mr, Bilas Attenborough, a» he walked from church, down to the sea and saw the Minx on her rook, differed tn toto from Miss Griges. . The Minx nodded to Mim “1 saw you tm ohureh this morning,” she ald “Tt seemed you left church avore the sermon?" “Dreadfully vontilated, tyn't ft she sald nodding, "IT really wonder people don't get suffocated #ome times.” “It were @ powerful sermon." ‘Short ones always ure, T think, Or 41@ you come after me before it was finished? ‘“Coom after?” Mr. Attenborough wae taken Wback He had hurrted, certainly, but he hardly ea pect the Minx to notice that "Coom after avore (' sermon was finished?” He re- covered himaelf indignantly, “I shouldn't think oft But “Perhaps you're riehs,'' she sald. But," she pointed & finger toward the shore, ‘is that Miss Griggs over there?" He followed tho direction of her finger, and saw that most of the congregation were assembled in groups about the shore “Me indeed,” he groaned; “an' Miss Griffin and ¢’ . whole Sunday-wehoo! watehing us I think that we ehud be getting back.” “Don't let me keep you,’ she sata. ‘ "It fe not Keoping me. "Me only’—- He looked about him for an excuse, “Zip me! T’ ei “What do you mean?” “TT sea!" sald Mr, Attenborough, “It's coom ap*—~ Bho sprang to her feet in great indignation, Tha comes of your talking, Why couldn't you keep your eyes open, Wheat is to be dono?" “'P’rhape I could—take yew over to t’ shore,” ‘Bee how deep it ts first,” whe sadd impertously, He let himeelf down gingerly, and the water closed over (he knees of his best trousers, “Think yew would lotke to be carried?” he asia) dolefully, stretohing out hie arms for her to hurry, But she kept him there while she struggled to hide her laughter, and then sald threateningly; “Tt you drop mo I shall never forgive you" ‘and if I doan't drop yew?" aald he. ‘ “TAndenthorpe never will"— “Coom!" he maid. And at that ae let him take her Into hie arms, Most of Lindenthorpe was assembled on the shingle when he reached the uninvaded sand, Mies Betty Mayne made no motion of descent. “‘Ghall T met yow dgon here?” he asked, “No,” whe mid, 's damp—I should wet my shoes. Carry me right up to the shingte He breathed hard, not because of her weight, which wan nothing, but because of the putiloty of the thing, “Whom be I carrying?’ he asked. "Be I carying “Ifyou will,” she sald, stormed by his unexpected sembled folk, some of whom feigned to be watching whe shook her head archly at the church warden, King. . ma sweetheart?” boldness. He put her down tn the miGdle of the as the sea, Miss Griggs happened to be the nearest, and “Tm shocked,” she sald, “We're all shocked, Mx, « Attenborough.” “Are yow?” aid he I'm—I'm eweethearte@\—The LJ ROMABLY Cambridge, in Bnglamd, te the only place In the world where one would be Mkety to find butter sold by Uneal measure; IMeraiiy eold by the yard. For generations it has been the practice of Cam. Wridgestire dairy folk to roll thelr butter into lengths, each length measuring @ yard and weigh & ing @ pound, Deftly wrapped in strips of clean Oe white cloth, the cylindrical rolle are packed into % jong and narrow baskets made for thp purpose: and thus conveyed to market, . The butter women who, in white Mnen aprons # and meoves, preside over the etalls in the market, have no need of weights or scales for dtepensing thelr wares; constant practice and an experienced # out It acquires a touch of elegance by the white cloth facing of the coflar revers, Alternate rows of nar: roweat black and gold brata upon this white facing make {t less trying and more chie, Hooked snugly together one has another garment, | no touch of collar and revere faelng 1s visible, Tho revere lap in double breneted effect, eye enable them with a single stroke of the knife @ to divide a yard of butter into halves or quarters with mathematioal exactness : Rented Schoolbooks, The School Board of Deadwood, %, D., has adopted & new syatem in regard to the books used by puptla, who will now be required to pay a small rental feo for the ure of such volumes an they use, The other young man nas no tight to be Jealous unless she has aome un: nding with him, Cer. tainly ask her for her steady company if you are in & Position to support a wife. As I understand the Meaning of the expression, when a young man aske « Girl to keep steady company kt means If she accepts that the two have come to an understanding and in- tend to marry—in other words, are promined one to the other, Am I right? She Shows Her Love More ¢! Dear Mry. Ayer Tam acquainted with a young man three years older than [and am deeply tn love with him, 1 show it a little more than he does, We had not seen each other in almost six weeks, and when we met the other evening he seemed happy, and more so than T had ever seen him before, He oscorted me home, and OF ¢ PERPLEXED ¢ LOVERS F the young man does not seem to be tnelined to call by himself I cannot see but you will be obliged to receive him at present with the rest of your frienda, I am quite sure he will recover from hte hashfulness he wets better acquainted and felis more at home, They all do sooner or later. throken Girt, HERE Is nothing to be dono in this case but to tell the young man the truth, When one's love la » dea My opinion there is no way of forcing It into Mife amuth. It isa great deal hotter for your lover {0 be desperate now for a time than for you both te be wreiched after marriage, an you would be Tt Iw your duty ax an woman to tell him the truth, Love cannot be coaxed or coerced, It the man te # Unhappy as not to ovoke it In this cage, you are not when there I ‘eo him my ploture, which he so often had arked for, and he thanked me heartily for it and sald It pleased him very much, as he could look at the ploture whenever he liked, | Now I have asked him personally to come to see me, and he hus never given very good reasons for refusin but when I ask tH® reat of my friends he comes with them, He te very bashful, He has promised to call on me in our new home into which we expect to move, | ulty of forgetting his stories almost Kindly let me know what you think about it, He /finishod comes from & very good family, to blame, On the other hand. If you really fool that you do not know your own mind in the matter, tell him bo not see him or write to him for aie monthe, You will know the state of your heart be- yond any doubt after such a test, 2 om Forgets His Stories, ' The German novelist, Paul Heyse, posseanes the fro AS s00n as he them, He claims that by forgetting his . tale mind te lett clear to receive new impresong