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sve@ES coro, | DECLINE OF MARRIAGE. | By Octevii s Augustus White, M, D., of New York. {1% 4scline of marriage commenced about forty Wrnenes 07 the Proms ruvitoning Company, 6 to @ PARK tl | years aan At that \t was regarded with . New York. eminent respect ¥ ¢ man looked for “PPabared at the Post-Oilice at New York os Seoeed-Ciags Ma!! Matter. | wae} to the time when w ave a home of his fins _ plan such a consummation — ———————— — —s FRIDAY, APRIL 20, 1900. | ‘Thie Reatthy home feeling, which used to be 00 saben sern | gen .™ ral, is dying — | the amoking parlor of the Je own fireside VOL. 40 «eNO. 14,122 tn my opt unnecessary for ng to any and have Any good purpose. hever felt any desire to do # CE * muitip! lor ap which ortous! ption. 2 de | praved soctal h prevails | The tncreasiig number of women and girls in the | industrial world ts also a algnificant elgn of the times. Women are not tn the business worl! from cholce They have been coerced into self-support by the de. n of home life and the dec marriage. The prevalent fallacy that women should be bread of chivalry winners strikes a blow et the f t fe both just and chivaln rt his wife. It {e preposterous, however, to assert, as many do, st and should Hj that industrial conditions tn any way affect mar- jriage Mar {a based on love, and lave ts not an affair of dol and Love has no ledger The frequency of divorce {» another evidence th the marriage bond !s reverenced less than | be, The marriage service ts even m |sublime than the buria! service, ye thoughtleesiy taken and lightly broker Divorced men and women should never be allowed to remarry, Such was unquestionably the teaching of Christ. | I do not belleve there should be any civil marriages | of any kind ery ceremony shou by the church and tified above estate transaction. The olf eystam of publish anne two weeks befor vived with goc t It ts posible that the only temporary. It may a new and better social arrangement Some of the most notable advarces in the history of otvillaation have been preceded by periofs of dis- Integration and destruction. ‘The holy estate of mat “| rimony was founded by Christ, and therefore cannot be finally destroyed. Peneath it stands the whole fabric of religton. ONE TEST OF A WOMAN. on eee : e the marr ement of marr’ even be the A FRESH GERRY OUTRAGE. HE Gerry Soclety's interference with the children's dances at the Cuban festival | last night was an tmpertinence and an! outrage. Nobody can believe for an instant that it was even founded on principle. It was) ne of those cheep bids for notoriety through | ‘Whieh for years the Society's agents have been bringing discredit upon the organization they represent. | As Mr. Gerry cannot bring himself ¢o « state of @ententment with quict, good works where they 4re needed he should not be surprised that each | ear finds him with a stiffer fight on hand at Albany against legislation intended to curd his @utocracy. Such events as last night's wil! hasten the time when he will lose his fight. POINTS ON CONVERSATION, ROM “H. H." comes this request to the editor of The Evening World: Please recommend me a book showing how to begin @ conversation, and make this in- teresting, containing at the same time some nice stories. At apy bookstore carrying & comprehensive Stock may be found works on polite conversation, ‘One of there is likely to be quite as good as an- other, None will make @ conversationallst. An interesting talker must be one who las something to esy. He can as little be made by the book as a/ first-class linguist can be turned out by a tourist's | dictionary of phrases. But talk may be founded on books, and tn such | ase it rarely fails to attain the dignity of coa-| ‘versation. 2 ‘The average output of new books in the United Btates ie about 5,000 per year. That fact alone is @ starter of thoughts that should make interesting converse. What do eo many authors find to write about year after year? What proportion of them have eucceeded in attracting marked attention?! Which of them do ;ui kaow about, may for the Jest year, and whose works have you read? Have not all the stories been told in every pos- ible way by this time? Or !f they haven't, {s this Rot a wonderful tribute to the versatility of the Suman mind and an impressive exponent of th variety of human experience? | ‘What eort of a story moat interests you? Should ‘Works of fiction do more than merely entertain? | Is history well taught through the narrative form? | If you discuss these questions with attentive hearers, lightening the talk by relating little inei- Gents from the books you have read, there will be! @ptertaining and instructive converse and the) “aloe stories” will place themselves, eo. . ewe cee e ee oan e wean A ministering angel, she. When troubles ‘round us thickly press; But weil defended needa he be That treads upon her party dreas, _ so ——— SAUCES FOR MEATS. Caper Sauce, IX two tablespoontuis of butter and two of flour in a saucepan. When smooth add half a pint which rowed. dtr until teary ! 1, & teblespoontu! f a teaspoonful of pepper and a lon Juice. M of capers. few drops o! Dp al Wal fen Mushroom Sauce. UT one tablespoontul of butter tn a saucepan, brownin, htly. Add onet vontul of flour 4 texepoonful of onton, one bay leaf and half a pint of stock. Stir constantly until boiling. Then cover and stand over hot water for ten minutes. Aft straining add haif a can of mushrooms, half a “es- spoonful of salt and ® saltepoonful of pepper. Cover and let stand again over hot water for ten minuies Serve Tomato Sauce IX one tablespoontul of butter and one of four fn & saucepan. When smooth add a pint of strained toma quarter of @ teaapoontul of celery seed and leat steadily un bailing; then add half a teaspoonful of salt, a qua of & teaspoonful of paprika, strat serve Nature Leads Us Gently, Ba fond mother, when the day !s o'er, ‘The first endeavor, for successful conversation, | * Leads by the band her ti nild to bed, f to make eure of the other party's interest and || Halt willing, half reluctant to be led Participation. Failure in this reapect is what kills | And leaves hits broken play rhings on the floor, “ Pe Sill gaging at them through the open door, + amy ambitious attainpt at “small talk and Nor wholly reassured and comforted (ammes each party to vote the other dull. Always tave an eye and ear for @ common in- fevest. If your companion, host or guest has fad that you can discover, there is a eubject to put you Gt ence on pleamat terms. Listen well, in Gach 0 cams, end you wil! play your best part in (he conversation. e | _ AliRengh conversation cannot wall go by rule. ~ Ghave are hese precepts which {t is well to re- ‘member: Lo net pose or boast. Uo not base your remarks on the story of your Mite unless mpecially requested. ‘Bet res to personalities. Gossip is not con- By promises of others tn thelr stead, Which, though more splendi4, may not please him more, So nature deals with us and takes away Our playthings, one by one, and by the hand Leads ws to rest #0 gently that we go Scarce tf we wiahed to go or stay, Betng too full of sleep to understand How far the unknown transcends the what we know. Longtetlow. | E ‘ (Copyright, 180. bythe Prese Publishing Company, New Tork Wort HE grave tault of being suspictous of every one with whom you are brought tn contact ts a sad) state of feeling, my dears, and one which you » take deep root in your natures. Jealousy, it fs the rock | De wot state your personal opinions for settled | Bot openly contradict a statement. If you ‘With somebody and discussion is in order, Understanding and cite what grounds “That's not so” is neither informatory should never allow For, next to tts twin a! upon which many a life kea. The young girl so ™ eeed which will bear such & harvest of woe when she commences by being rusplelous of her lover. If you love him, my dear, and have the assurance from his own lps thet your affection Is returned, trust bim. If he tells you that some unforeseen business engage- ment will prevent him from coming to you on sume evening when you are expecting him, do not get {t Into your head straightway that he ls going to call upon some other girl, and ery yourself to sleep in conse | quence: wrote of Macaulay: “He has oc- of eilence that make his conversa- " Such flashes are as well worthy | as the louder graces of speech. ooticane "es aallintts taal Coler bossiem is a bubble to be it be sdmitfed, too, tha: be sharp points for use in the anking | im and believe him incapable of falsehood and decett imans? ‘apen any other girl. Depend upon td be solemnized | | ge might be re- |" * | he trots againet « trotting horse hie cives (en seoonis start and gor. w LAURA JEAN LIBBEY TO GIRLS, « A Heart-to-Heart Talk with Them About Jeaiousy'’s Twin Sister You will feel a thousand times happier if you trust! have ensued between her hushand and herself have ‘The young man who truly loves you will not have the] gether and they ba inclination to break an appointment with you| desires 1: frome into thet Mind of «| tbat, THE WORLD: FRIDAY EVENING; APRII, 20, 1900. THE WOMAN WITH THE HOE. . |HARRIET HUBBARD AYER: BY F. G. LONG, ARE Freckles Are Coming. » * Ss & Beware of Them! HE very breath of Spring carries with it a threat of violence to the freckiing world, It's all very well to make lght of the. umly tle brown spots that come with April winds end showers, and of course {t ts extremely sensible not | to mind them; but most women are made miserable by an abundance of big brown freckles, and to | those who are apprehending the yearly crop | wish to | say * An ounce of prevention is better than gallons of lotions and creams for keeping the brazen freckle in subjection, As freckles are caused by the action of the solar rays and augmented by the wind which dries the skin and Induces freckles and discolorations of various kinds— ‘The way to keep them !n abeyance is by the use of a jotion or cream which sults y MRRKH AD HOES | te Fur @kuins To WORK aN Mee OS, tae: es N gk ! Vy s @ v Dissolve the mercury in the rose water and add the witch hazel. Oatmes! water Iebtietelblelelse ts! sberebeeiedeet [ar pearing at all. Make the cucumber emulsion as ‘The following has also been tried beneficially: Mie nett 1 piel A good cucumber emulsion used daily from Spring over there, please?” says she, pointing to a raucejee | follows: over {n one corner. ON of eget almonds .. | Carbonate of soda 1 ounce. } tf! Autumn will in some oases prevent freckles from Picittiellvisirinteieietet eletete O, for the merry Springtime Now comes the Woman with the Ho. prepared _ to ferape huge gores and seams {n the face of Estrect of eusmmbers Ss “Got any cheaper M@es-any bargains to-day? 15 | Kress cucumber juice ou the earth, and fondly patting up a of loam eft that all you have?” she indignantly inquires after, White caaiile, saan powsures . : i! kopje ams a seed down [n anatomy with | Tincture of roln a] Gram. inet ta watch a rndish appear where a neautttyy |.) pee tipind ; "| druggists. ; f pyater-openers and Jack-planes, nil! the salesroom | m lowing ‘orchid: ghouly bare | RCO LO looks Hike It had been raining hoes in bunches, The freee svereee pice t8 procured: by cutting the cucumber up into small bits, skin and all, and ed thumb knowingly over the jetting it simmer in the inner receptacie of the cus- edges ements ke a man preparing to/tard boiler. Jashers and notion dealers, finally is ended ty an ac Fenaed ' hoes ike a man “bowed down bY | When they have steamed to @ pulp, strain them ymmodating cop In the midat of the steoty glare of ajthe weight of centuries” and calmly Inspects herself | through a cheese c hardwarema Bh + 3 hoe just like she] !" the burnished surface of a nearby shovel Dissolve the soap in the cucumber extract, shaking buys a hat, § like a woman buys any.hing else Finally » « 1%cent article, marked down | occasionally till thoroughly mixed, Then add fresh Have you fot any round ones? Oh, what e dream | from 2% cents, and, shoudering tt tn military fashion, | julce of cucumbera and last the ofl ami bengotn, of biiss! Give me one with passementerie trimmings | treks over the river to herdittle Jersey laager, think-| beating the mixture constantly durthg the process. with cupid and heart decorations. Mand me that oneling what ts home without a ganien, F.G. LONG, | Use as freely as agreeable. | PEACE HAS HER VICTIMS i She flicks her g¢ suburbs, the Hoe from) ' Womar ring rug stores, haher- | all the . and Jeans « E BASEBALL FAN'S JOY- ert Cte sebirr TH TIME IS HERE. Me PRACTICES THROWING FOR AN HOUR OR 80 nT, ; ° ao ii -t-- om amy, i: EEE “Whatever have you been doing with yourself, Murphy? You look all broken up." “Well, yer ‘anner, I wint to wan tv these ‘Shtop- she-War meetings lasht noight!""~Punch. —a—__ o WOUNDED HEARTS By HARRIET HUBBARD AYER. A Nice So: Sweetheart, Give me some advice. | am engaged to @ young man, [find out that he has belied meas well es my father and mother, and squandered ail his money tn drink and cards, He goes home at * or 2 o'clock in : the morning full of liquor. He tries to make me be- bis bolls sn Neve that he has gone right home from my house He a O arnt one came drunk to my house and I did not care to see him bethbats and told him to go home. Now he has lost his work, and friends of mine say, “Give him up.” TROUBLE. THAT TROTS AGAINST HORSES “Give Mm up? Well, I shoutd think 40! ‘The young A DOG '. man 1s no companton for you and would make of you M.D. Boalt, of Path dbbhbhRbbhhhibbbbhbehbbbbebbeitbbebbbbhbe bre: | he mst wretched of wives. He hes tenakea ao ba Minn, owns) on manner which proves he (s entira'y unworthy of a beautiful red-brown Irish 4 decent woman's regard. Do not scold or talk too aliay “Aces Was, Kae) much, but tn a quiet and dignified manner inform him hiaaiyeate aba thee neta |that you have too much self-respect to continue your half-mile heats harneesed | | acquaintance with him sa Anivan ap a tap ato Give Mim tp. nine yeare ol T have been going with a young man for a tte Tf iw, ROR. ho ver a year, but of late we have had quite a few quar- Last Saturday night we had one and he said: “I fee the day that I an pay you up." It has worried me quite a great foal. Kindly give me your advice. M. E.R. The best thing you can do will be to give up your quaintance with this young man. Only ball wards threaten women twelve hands | rele. nessed to a cart Vurk will race ugatnat him for half mile homts, best tw> three to win, and the man that bets on Turk ja pr t | hope and pray to God that I wi! sure to wi hi time ts half a mile in tw. Papa Seared Her. T have been keeping company with a young Ia@y for he last year. ‘The other evening she asked me to go to @ ball, I went there, but because her father wae Hometimes he against a dleycle or a tar dem bicycle, half a mile trote A SWEETHEART OF LONG AGO. AOMI {s always cheerful—teo cheerful, golden. | Laine. litte Liliiard says sometimes, petulantly, But then—Naoml ts thirty, and it is years that “bring the philosophic mind." Pighteen years ago. when Neom! was twetve, she had received baby Lilliard, her newly born stepetlling the legacy from the hands of a dying mother, | When, ten years later, their father, gay, debonate . slipped into the po provider. There came a ring at the door bell, and Neomf's madd of all work puts in her head to aay, “A gentle man for you, please, miss." Naomi rises tn surprise a9 @ tall, well-Dellt mam, with a sunburnt complexion and a head of tawar hair, enters, and, striding to her side, takes her hand. ‘Naomi, have you forgotten mé, Martin Cotqu- houn?” For a moment the room ewime round Neoml, tut the next she has recovered hervelf. “I only came yesterday," he says, eagerty, “we you naturally “I phall tell you all by and by,” he anya and af that moment LiHard rushes in. “Bo you are [AlMard?’ says Martin Ceigsheun, smiling. “I remember you as @ tiny gist in short dreases, who always searched in my pockets fer chocolates. Are you as fond of them yet? “Tl believe I am,” says [/iliard, laughing. Thea @e site down, and so does Martin Colquhoun, end they spend a pleasant, even gay, evening together, Martin Colquhoun calls again and again. He im the evenings, when Naom! piay: Nard eft in the window together. and takes them driving tn se Seeant Mount Vernon, and he and Lillias® together and do most of the talking; and he takes them to a concert or the opera. day Naomt feels that the trial of near, But why should she grudge it? She loves—qias!—Martin. She desires the of both. As for her, it only means that grow a little grayer, her life a Ittie emptier. One evening he calls, Idillard ts alone. “I have ealled to tet) you T shall good-by,”" he said, abruptly, “I am going away Monday’ “Going away!’ Naom! echoes, faintly, “Yes, for four years. My business requires And IT have come to-night to%-to say something that means a great deal (o me—that all my future hagpl- ness depends on, Miss Romer.” Naom!'s heart is still. The blow fs coming, then. think | can guess what {1 ts," she saya, wonders ing If her voice sounds strange and unnatural. “If LAlitard ts willing, that {* al! thet you require." He looks at her in bewllderment. “Lillard? 1 do not understand you, Naomi. What has Lilliard to do with {t? Don't you understand, dear, that I love you as much—nay, more, a thousand. fola more-than ever? Neoml, !t was not my fault that T have been silent all these years; my letter the last one—was returned, marked ‘Latt—no address.” But I have never coased thinking of you; and now T want you ag my wife Naomi, Naom!, after waiting all these years, am | to be disappointed at the last?” And Neom!'s anewer, though too low for any ears but his to hear, is evidently hear! by Martin Colqu- foun, for he bends his head and then and there triumphantly kisses her.—The American Queen, oe {LETTERS cverocr NING WORLD © Patriotivm. To the FAitor af The Evening World 1 was sitting In a restaurant in New Jersey, At another table sat two young men A foreigner was saying that the Yankees were “a lot of cowardly ours.” The younger man Inid his hand on the fore elgner's shudder and sald: “Beg pardon, I am am American, sir, and that !s an insyit to me and to country, Take that back or I'll make you.” foreigner made a leap for the American, onty to find himself floored by a terrific swing on the Jaw. Whea he got up be was laid out agadn. and ended by mytng he had hed enough, CHARLES JACKSON, 2 A Hint to Tunnel Men. To the Bitor of The Evening World: a there she would not dance or sit with me. She claims she loves me. Kindly advise. A HEART-BROKEN LOVER. Take my advice and don't “keep company” with oung ladles without thelr parents’ knowledge, The bert thing you can do will be to make the acquaint- ance of the mother and father and prove to them that you are a desirable companion for their daughter. That ts the clever way of doing, and {t is also the honorable one, It will be plain sailing afterward. —_— What One Woman Thinks. In the truly happy home there is no room for doubt. A mean man Is like a gnat, he is small, but very offensive. Lawyers are models of patience, considering the he horse the half to Some he horse's she va ¥ trotting half-mile heats against a foot runner or a half-mile against a running horse's mi'e Turk weighs funt seventy pounde ind stands twenty THE TROTTING DOG, TURK. six Inches high. He fs not a very lig dog, but will race any dog any distance. man whom men are in such mortal dread of—they Youeannot chain to you, though you forge the licks | many trials they have to go through. tous wife. With gold, silver, (he sirougee of steel be heaviest] ‘The man who rises above bis circumstances is the The most contented wives are those «ho smother] of iron, the husband or lover who ts fickle one who Gora his best under them. ctr suspictons, bravely and dutifully, the moment] In the former cose ehut your eyes to every sus-| Vacant héarte are like vacant houses—thzy need a picton. For to nurse them will do you no earthly od, only make you miserable In the case of a lover, belteve him loyally until you \ Intended Ut | have positive proof of bis falaity. Then dismiss him is sadly out Of | from your presence and from your thoughts as well. “ It is the women with whom time hangs heavy on heir hands. who have nothing to do but nurse their suspicions all day long, who have the cruelest time of it Por they are indeed wretched. Shake off the thoughts, my dears, for they not only make your heart sore, but they are deadly enemies to beauty and youthful looks, as Mra. Harriet Hubbard Ayer tells you. One word tn conciusion, Never let elther husband © lover feel that you are suspicious of him, ‘That knowledge takes much of the scepter of your influ- ence over him out of your hands And that you cannot afford to love. they sweep across the heartstrings like a discordant tenant. strain, The wedded life of the susp but the grand, sweet rong that to be, The melody of the heart's hb tune A suspicious women can Imagine q thousand woes that have no existence eave in ber lurid, feverish fancy, There is no ecrueller life than the one the suspicious woman endures. She should be gently drawn from thts dangerous has traversed it so far that there is no returning, having burned her bridecs behind her. By this I mean before the bit quarrels which — — A Startling Recipe. /ADY famed for ber skill in cooking was enter- taining a number of friends at tea. Ererrdbing on the table was much admired; but the ex- cellence of the sponge cake war especially the subject of remark. “Oh.” exclaimed one of the guests, “it te ao beautl- fully soft and light! Do tell me where you got the recipe!” “lam very gind.” replied the hostess, “ihat you: {t #0 soft and light, I made ft out of my own head.” oe Comfortable Gloves. Tt is @ great mistake to suppose that a ts wife te anythin) destroyed irrevocably the love that bound them to- tight glove arrived ata where netther be reconciled to the ot my Oh, yea, dears, suspicion can work quite as much havoc as WR ORL ORE Be Why not let the tunnel contractors keep possession the New York City registration have the names of voters of iast election @lection? It would greatly help i Hi ;